WEBVTT FILE 1 00:00:02.000 --> 00:00:07.000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:08.000 --> 00:00:13.000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 3 00:00:41.375 --> 00:00:44.166 - (Sara) You're like a bachelor. - (Nicola) Knock it off! 4 00:00:44.208 --> 00:00:47.750 (Sara) We're a family, you have to mind the kids too. 5 00:00:47.791 --> 00:00:51.166 (Nicola) I'm always attentive to you, I neglect myself. 6 00:00:51.208 --> 00:00:54.291 (Sara) Neglect? Is this neglecting yourself? 7 00:00:54.333 --> 00:00:59.583 (Sara) You're not alone in the world, start thinking about others, Nicola. 8 00:00:59.625 --> 00:01:03.541 - No! - You don't do a thing. - Sara, I'm always here. 9 00:01:03.583 --> 00:01:09.583 - We said 50/50, but I do it all. - Not true, I neglect my work, I don't sleep. 10 00:01:09.625 --> 00:01:12.500 It's all on me! You have no clue what goes on here! 11 00:01:12.541 --> 00:01:16.208 Why? Because I can't keep up with you. 12 00:01:16.250 --> 00:01:20.208 You're precise, inflexible, on how things are done. 13 00:01:20.250 --> 00:01:23.250 - Because it's just me who does them. - Again? 14 00:01:23.291 --> 00:01:27.958 - Tell me what you did today. - I ran the dishwasher, they all saw me. 15 00:01:28.000 --> 00:01:30.583 - Screw you! - You fly right off the handle. 16 00:01:30.625 --> 00:01:33.541 You say "screw you" and think it's over. 17 00:01:33.583 --> 00:01:37.125 (Sara) If there's something to do, you always do it later. 18 00:01:37.166 --> 00:01:39.791 - (Nicola) We do it together. - (Sara) That's crap. 19 00:01:39.833 --> 00:01:44.291 - You do things after I already have. - Why do you do things right away? 20 00:01:50.291 --> 00:01:54.666 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 21 00:01:54.708 --> 00:01:58.125 - (Sara) What will we do? - (Nicola) It'll work out. 22 00:01:58.166 --> 00:02:02.125 KIDZ 23 00:02:02.166 --> 00:02:04.958 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 24 00:02:05.000 --> 00:02:10.708 - (Sara) Will things change a lot? - (Nicola) No, not much, we'll be flexible. 25 00:02:10.750 --> 00:02:12.791 (Nicola) It's gonna be okay. 26 00:02:12.833 --> 00:02:16.875 - (Sara) Why do they say one and one is 11? - (Nicola) Huh? 27 00:02:16.916 --> 00:02:20.125 (Sara) One kid plus another aren't two, but eleven. 28 00:02:20.166 --> 00:02:26.916 (Nicola) It's a dreadful saying, funny only for online newspapers. 29 00:02:26.958 --> 00:02:29.541 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 30 00:02:29.583 --> 00:02:32.666 - Eleven, really? - Yeah. 31 00:02:32.708 --> 00:02:34.958 - It's gonna be okay. - Yes. 32 00:02:35.000 --> 00:02:37.750 - Why are you panting? - I'm not. 33 00:02:37.791 --> 00:02:41.708 - We'll stick together. - Eleven. - Eleven? 34 00:02:41.750 --> 00:02:43.708 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 35 00:02:43.750 --> 00:02:48.750 (Sara) Every set of parents has a story and each story is different. 36 00:02:48.791 --> 00:02:51.333 (Sara) There are apprehensive parents. 37 00:02:51.375 --> 00:02:57.125 (Sara) They became parents late, their lives circle around their child. 38 00:02:57.166 --> 00:03:01.750 (Sara) Self-denial, sacrifice, maniacal dedication to the little one,... 39 00:03:01.791 --> 00:03:06.708 ..who is cleansed with temperature-controlled oil, has English lessons at six months,... 40 00:03:06.750 --> 00:03:09.958 ..almost never goes out, it's either too cold or too hot. 41 00:03:10.000 --> 00:03:13.916 (Sara) He's smothered with attention which causes damage. 42 00:03:13.958 --> 00:03:17.666 (Sara) The child thinks being the center of the world is natural. 43 00:03:17.708 --> 00:03:22.375 (Sara) Instead, growing up, he'll have to face capitalism like us all... 44 00:03:22.416 --> 00:03:25.000 The pen is on the table. 45 00:03:25.041 --> 00:03:26.750 ..and the IRS. 46 00:03:26.791 --> 00:03:30.583 Repeat: the pen is on the table. 47 00:03:30.625 --> 00:03:35.541 (Sara) There are naturalist parents. Nature is forced on their child. 48 00:03:35.583 --> 00:03:40.291 (Sara) He can't eat snacks, use an iPad or watch TV. 49 00:03:40.333 --> 00:03:44.291 (Sara) He gets one shoe at Christmas, the other at Easter,... 50 00:03:44.333 --> 00:03:47.500 ..so he won't take things for granted. 51 00:03:47.541 --> 00:03:51.416 (Sara) But at 18, he'll shoot heroin down by the station. 52 00:03:52.666 --> 00:03:54.708 (Sara) There are millionaire parents. 53 00:03:54.750 --> 00:03:59.333 (Sara) They have overpaid nannies who are delegated 100% of the child's education. 54 00:03:59.375 --> 00:04:03.000 (Sara) They televote for "The X Factor" on their mega TVs... 55 00:04:03.041 --> 00:04:07.916 ..while in a far corner of their vast living room a pair of Filipinos play with the kids,... 56 00:04:07.958 --> 00:04:11.750 ..having the children call them "mommy" and "daddy". 57 00:04:11.791 --> 00:04:15.083 (Sara) There's the separated parent, male, about forty,... 58 00:04:15.125 --> 00:04:18.625 ..feeling only pain, anguish and ruin. 59 00:04:18.666 --> 00:04:22.333 (Sara) Assailed by guilt feelings of Catholic origin,... 60 00:04:22.375 --> 00:04:25.541 ..he always sees a priest in the lurk. 61 00:04:25.583 --> 00:04:27.583 You, shit! 62 00:04:27.625 --> 00:04:29.666 You're a real shit. 63 00:04:29.708 --> 00:04:32.208 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 64 00:04:32.250 --> 00:04:37.375 (Sara) Single, with endless sex stories, but he's never happy. 65 00:04:37.416 --> 00:04:40.875 (BABIES CRYING AND MOTHER SCREAMING) 66 00:04:40.916 --> 00:04:43.750 (Sara) There are parents with more than two children. 67 00:04:43.791 --> 00:04:47.666 (Sara) Pursuing dreams of ancient agro-artisan peoples,... 68 00:04:47.708 --> 00:04:50.166 ..they've run up against a huge misconception... 69 00:04:50.208 --> 00:04:53.708 ..and are atoning for the suffocation of a life organized to the nth... 70 00:04:53.750 --> 00:04:56.875 ..which can collapse into chaos at any minute. 71 00:04:56.916 --> 00:05:00.875 (Sara) They have continuous accidents and a long list of things to remember,... 72 00:05:00.916 --> 00:05:03.916 ..do, buy, they have to yell to be heard. 73 00:05:03.958 --> 00:05:06.541 (Sara) They're bent and old by now. 74 00:05:06.583 --> 00:05:11.166 (Sara) In a pocket, if needed, they always keep a cyanide pill,... 75 00:05:11.208 --> 00:05:16.833 ..which, amid four screaming kids, the father dreams of swallowing. 76 00:05:16.875 --> 00:05:19.666 (Sara) There are the very young of twenty-five,... 77 00:05:19.708 --> 00:05:22.458 ..flexible and dynamic, they fear nothing. 78 00:05:22.500 --> 00:05:27.500 (Sara) Their kids climb on perilous reefs, go to school alone, are responsible and mature. 79 00:05:27.541 --> 00:05:29.791 (Sara) But there are none of these in Italy. 80 00:05:29.833 --> 00:05:32.291 (Sara) And then there's us. 81 00:05:32.333 --> 00:05:34.041 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 82 00:05:34.083 --> 00:05:38.333 (Sara) Fifteen years ago, with our professions, we'd have said "privileged";... 83 00:05:38.375 --> 00:05:42.583 ..today, like everyone, we're struggling with the difficulties of our time. 84 00:05:42.625 --> 00:05:48.208 (Sara) We have satellite TV, but the IRS can knock at any time. 85 00:05:48.250 --> 00:05:54.500 (Sara) We're lucky, not rich, simple but not elementary, neurotic, but not crazy. 86 00:05:54.541 --> 00:05:57.833 (Sara) The future is hopeful but has snares. 87 00:05:57.875 --> 00:06:02.250 (Sara) Our homes are comfortable, but small and have one bath. 88 00:06:02.291 --> 00:06:06.500 (SARA SCREAMS) 89 00:06:07.375 --> 00:06:15.541 (THE BABY CRIES AND SARA GASPS FOR BREATH) 90 00:06:15.583 --> 00:06:17.458 (SARA SIGHS) 91 00:06:17.500 --> 00:06:20.875 - I love you. - I love you. 92 00:06:20.916 --> 00:06:24.916 (Sara) We conceived Pietro at a hopeful time in our lives. 93 00:06:24.958 --> 00:06:30.708 (Sara) Lives can be complicated in the present, but in our memories they become beautiful. 94 00:06:30.750 --> 00:06:33.708 (Sara) It seemed feasible with our first child. 95 00:06:33.750 --> 00:06:38.333 (Sara) Anna was sweet, flexible, she slept, we took her everywhere... 96 00:06:38.375 --> 00:06:43.458 ..and despite new family balances, we mistakenly felt we were ourselves. 97 00:06:43.500 --> 00:06:48.375 It's nice, after plowing through the first 180 pages, it flows. 98 00:06:49.666 --> 00:06:54.250 Why are cooking times for these cool pastas always hidden? 99 00:06:54.291 --> 00:06:56.583 The epitome of chic, but it doesn't say. 100 00:06:56.625 --> 00:06:59.333 (HAPPY MUSIC) 101 00:06:59.375 --> 00:07:02.125 Taste it, like in the old days. 102 00:07:02.166 --> 00:07:05.416 Please, lower the music! 103 00:07:05.458 --> 00:07:09.208 (Friend) A big hand for Andrea! (EVERYBODY SCREAMS) 104 00:07:09.250 --> 00:07:14.500 Andrea is the protagonist of a sensational event. 105 00:07:14.541 --> 00:07:17.291 Truly sensational and now he'll tell us. 106 00:07:17.333 --> 00:07:21.125 - No, I'm embarrassed. - He's shy, I'll tell you. 107 00:07:21.166 --> 00:07:25.500 Andrea has squared his account with the IRS. 108 00:07:25.541 --> 00:07:28.958 (EVERYBODY SCREAMS) 109 00:07:29.000 --> 00:07:32.500 And we all wonder: how much? 110 00:07:32.541 --> 00:07:35.666 - No! - Embarrassed? Tell me. 111 00:07:35.708 --> 00:07:37.791 (INAUDIBLE WORDS) 112 00:07:37.833 --> 00:07:39.625 Really? 113 00:07:39.666 --> 00:07:42.875 (Friend) Okay... would you say a few words? 114 00:07:42.916 --> 00:07:44.416 Well... 115 00:07:45.250 --> 00:07:48.916 When my taxes came, I thought I was finished,... 116 00:07:48.958 --> 00:07:52.041 ..everything, no clue. 117 00:07:52.083 --> 00:07:56.875 (Andrea) Then, month after month, deadline after deadline,... 118 00:07:56.916 --> 00:08:02.250 ..without thinking of the balance to pay, a step at a time,... 119 00:08:02.291 --> 00:08:04.333 ..I did it! 120 00:08:04.375 --> 00:08:08.458 (Andrea) I paid the last one! (EVERYBODY SCREAMS) 121 00:08:08.500 --> 00:08:09.916 (Andrea) Wait! 122 00:08:09.958 --> 00:08:12.666 I want to say, to those of you... 123 00:08:12.708 --> 00:08:18.166 ..in a similar situation, and I'm sure there are many,... 124 00:08:18.208 --> 00:08:21.875 ..I want to tell you, guys, you can see daylight,... 125 00:08:21.916 --> 00:08:24.583 ..a step at a time, you can see daylight! 126 00:08:24.625 --> 00:08:28.000 Towards freedom! (EVERYBODY SCREAMS) 127 00:08:28.041 --> 00:08:33.291 See? You did it. Music. So, when will I get that money back? 128 00:08:33.333 --> 00:08:50.833 (MUSIC OF "BE MINE" BY OFENBACH) 129 00:09:02.541 --> 00:09:04.500 (Nicola) Let's go, honey. 130 00:09:08.041 --> 00:09:09.916 (Sara) Put this on her. 131 00:09:09.958 --> 00:09:13.750 - (Nicola, whispering) Goodbye. - (Sara, whispering) See you. 132 00:09:17.125 --> 00:09:18.791 (Friend) Turn right. 133 00:09:20.875 --> 00:09:23.291 (DOOR CLOSES) 134 00:09:26.541 --> 00:09:28.666 (Woman) Go! (SHOUTS OF JOY) 135 00:09:28.708 --> 00:09:34.666 (MUSIC OF "BE MINE" BY OFENBACH AND SHOUTS OF JOY) 136 00:09:35.208 --> 00:09:37.708 (MEWING OF A CAT) 137 00:09:44.208 --> 00:09:50.125 (PASSIONATE MUSIC) 138 00:09:50.166 --> 00:09:52.500 (INAUDIBLE NOISES) 139 00:09:52.541 --> 00:10:04.208 (PASSIONATE MUSIC) 140 00:10:04.250 --> 00:10:06.791 (Nicola) You devil! 141 00:10:06.833 --> 00:10:18.541 (PASSIONATE MUSIC) 142 00:10:18.583 --> 00:10:23.875 Now we'll just check the procedures for conformity and survey the kitchen. 143 00:10:23.916 --> 00:10:26.958 This isn't an inspection, we're not Health Inspectors,... 144 00:10:27.000 --> 00:10:32.500 ..we'll just simulate an official inspection to avoid fines in case of an inspection,... 145 00:10:32.541 --> 00:10:39.166 ..we're here for you, for your customers and the entire community. 146 00:10:40.166 --> 00:10:42.333 (Sara) Get used to it. 147 00:10:43.625 --> 00:10:45.666 They're all like this. 148 00:10:47.791 --> 00:10:51.125 This job will make you see... 149 00:10:51.166 --> 00:10:54.416 ..the lack of love this country is capable of. 150 00:10:54.458 --> 00:10:59.583 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 151 00:10:59.625 --> 00:11:03.000 The nausea isn't for this smell, is it? 152 00:11:03.041 --> 00:11:19.166 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 153 00:11:19.208 --> 00:11:20.791 (Nicola) Oh! 154 00:11:22.291 --> 00:11:25.416 Is everything okay? Eh? 155 00:11:25.458 --> 00:11:27.166 (Sara) Do you love me? 156 00:11:28.250 --> 00:11:30.125 - (Nicola) You're pregnant? - (Sara)Yes. 157 00:11:33.208 --> 00:11:36.250 It's fantastic news! 158 00:11:39.000 --> 00:11:42.208 - (Sara) Are you sure it's a good idea? - (Nicola) It's wonderful, Sara. 159 00:11:42.250 --> 00:11:44.958 - It's such a mess. - Not at all! 160 00:11:45.000 --> 00:11:49.458 It's heroic, in this country of zero growth. No one has kids anymore. 161 00:11:49.500 --> 00:11:53.750 - There must be a reason. - We'll give a strong signal, I want to shout it. 162 00:11:53.791 --> 00:11:57.541 - We're having another kid! - (Motorcyclist) Who gives...? 163 00:11:57.583 --> 00:12:01.916 (Nicola) Because we still believe in this country. 164 00:12:01.958 --> 00:12:04.166 Nicola, be quiet! 165 00:12:05.416 --> 00:12:09.791 We have experience from the first, it's gonna be okay. 166 00:12:09.833 --> 00:12:12.416 - (Nicola) Boy or girl? - (Sara) How do I know! 167 00:12:12.458 --> 00:12:18.041 - (Nicola) What would you like? - (Sara) I don't know. - (Nicola) Let's go home? 168 00:12:19.541 --> 00:12:21.833 Tell me again it's gonna be okay. 169 00:12:24.083 --> 00:12:26.583 It's gonna be okay. 170 00:12:28.291 --> 00:12:33.250 - I heard. When did it happen? - A couple of weeks ago. 171 00:12:34.166 --> 00:12:38.708 - I'm so sorry. - No, actually... 172 00:12:38.750 --> 00:12:41.541 (Friend) I tell everyone to stop at the first kid. 173 00:12:41.583 --> 00:12:43.541 (Friend) I put it on social media,... 174 00:12:43.583 --> 00:12:48.500 ..I wrote an article, I shouted it around the neighborhood. 175 00:12:48.541 --> 00:12:51.750 - C'mon, in the end... - (Friend) No, dammit, Nicola! 176 00:12:51.791 --> 00:12:54.416 No, not at all! 177 00:12:54.458 --> 00:12:55.916 Okay... 178 00:12:55.958 --> 00:12:58.458 (TOY SWORD STROKES SOUND) 179 00:12:58.500 --> 00:13:01.166 I'm here for you. 180 00:13:01.208 --> 00:13:03.375 Thanks. 181 00:13:03.416 --> 00:13:07.541 (SOUND OF DISAPPROVAL AND TOY SWORD STROKES SOUND) 182 00:13:07.583 --> 00:13:09.208 Bye. 183 00:13:14.333 --> 00:13:16.583 (Friend) Let's go home. 184 00:13:19.791 --> 00:13:24.166 (FRIEND SCREAMING AND TOY SWORD STROKES SOUND) 185 00:13:24.208 --> 00:13:27.541 - (Sara) Hurry! - (Nicola) Careful. 186 00:13:30.416 --> 00:13:33.041 (Nicola) I don't remember a thing. 187 00:13:33.083 --> 00:13:36.500 - (Nicola) Diapers, nursing, salves... - (Sara) Me, neither. 188 00:13:36.541 --> 00:13:40.291 chapter 1 SLEEP 189 00:13:41.208 --> 00:13:43.708 Can I sleep here, too? 190 00:13:44.458 --> 00:13:47.291 (Sara) Sweetie, we won't all fit. 191 00:13:47.333 --> 00:13:51.166 (Sara) He'll be with us only at first, like you were. 192 00:13:51.208 --> 00:13:53.416 (Sara) Then he'll be with you. 193 00:13:53.458 --> 00:13:59.250 Was another kid really necessary? We were all just fine. 194 00:13:59.291 --> 00:14:01.583 You'll see, it will all work out. 195 00:14:01.625 --> 00:14:07.208 Couldn't he stay in the hospital? They were all so nice. 196 00:14:07.250 --> 00:14:11.958 - (Nicola) Anna, we had him for you too. - For me? 197 00:14:12.000 --> 00:14:16.458 You're too young now to understand, but Pietro will bring balance. 198 00:14:16.500 --> 00:14:21.875 (THUNDERS) 199 00:14:21.916 --> 00:14:26.375 (Anna) The three of us were fine together, why did you change everything? 200 00:14:26.416 --> 00:14:30.333 You're both a mess, especially you, Daddy. 201 00:14:30.375 --> 00:14:33.375 Why? Listen to her! 202 00:14:33.416 --> 00:14:36.541 An immediate tickling. (ANNA LAUGHS) 203 00:14:36.583 --> 00:14:39.083 - (Nicola) In silence or you'll wake him. - You'll wake him. 204 00:14:39.125 --> 00:14:44.125 (Anna) No tickling, please! (THEY ALL SMILE) 205 00:14:44.166 --> 00:14:46.708 (Anna) Stop. 206 00:14:46.750 --> 00:14:48.791 It's a beautiful thing. 207 00:14:48.833 --> 00:14:52.166 (Sara) It's normal you don't see it as beautiful. 208 00:14:52.208 --> 00:14:56.625 Look, come here. I'll show you something. 209 00:14:56.666 --> 00:14:58.250 So... 210 00:15:01.541 --> 00:15:02.958 (Sara) This... 211 00:15:04.541 --> 00:15:08.666 ..is Mommy's heart as it was before. 212 00:15:08.708 --> 00:15:12.583 MOMMY, DADDY, ANNA. 213 00:15:12.625 --> 00:15:17.541 (Sara) And this is Mommy's heart... 214 00:15:19.708 --> 00:15:21.875 ..now. 215 00:15:24.958 --> 00:15:26.916 (Sara) It's a much bigger heart. 216 00:15:26.958 --> 00:15:29.000 MOMMY, DADDY, ANNA, PIETRO 217 00:15:29.041 --> 00:15:34.083 - (Sara) There's more room for everyone. - Can I keep it? - It's for you. 218 00:15:35.083 --> 00:15:38.208 - (Nicola) Let's go to bed. - (Sara) A kiss. 219 00:15:40.541 --> 00:15:44.708 - (Nicola) Say good night to your brother. - (Anna) Night. 220 00:15:46.750 --> 00:15:48.958 (Nicola) Come here. 221 00:15:49.000 --> 00:15:51.166 (SMACKING KISS) 222 00:15:53.291 --> 00:15:58.375 - (Nicola) Fine, right? - What? - (Nicola) Are you happy? - (Sara) Yes. 223 00:15:58.416 --> 00:16:02.083 - (Nicola) There's a nice atmosphere. - (Sara) Yes. 224 00:16:02.125 --> 00:16:05.708 The country too lately,... 225 00:16:05.750 --> 00:16:09.333 ..I feel it expresses, now and then... 226 00:16:09.375 --> 00:16:12.208 - Let's not exaggerate. - No, right. 227 00:16:12.250 --> 00:16:30.166 (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 228 00:16:30.208 --> 00:16:34.166 (Nicola) The first three months were the calm before the storm. 229 00:16:34.208 --> 00:16:39.333 (Nicola) The baby slept, nights were peaceful, things went smoothly. 230 00:16:39.375 --> 00:16:43.458 (Nicola) Except for the first signs of disparity, in the morning before going to work. 231 00:16:43.500 --> 00:16:47.583 - (Anna) Leather working became widespread... - (Nicola) Sorry, I was distracted. 232 00:16:47.625 --> 00:16:51.875 - So, earthenware pottery... - (Anna) Jewelry, clothes and sculptures. 233 00:16:51.916 --> 00:16:53.958 (Nicola) You said them all, sorry. 234 00:16:54.000 --> 00:16:57.875 (Anna) In the forests of the East, leather working became widespread,... 235 00:16:57.916 --> 00:17:04.958 ..the decorating of vases, bags, belts, among which, those with symbolic designs. 236 00:17:05.000 --> 00:17:08.875 (Anna) Also the art of wooden masks for religious purposes... 237 00:17:08.916 --> 00:17:11.041 ..portraying demons and spirits... 238 00:17:11.083 --> 00:17:15.000 (INAUDIBLE WORDS DI ANNA) 239 00:17:15.041 --> 00:17:17.791 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 240 00:17:17.833 --> 00:17:24.291 (Nicola) If I'd been a wise Indian chieftain, I'd have felt the storm coming. 241 00:17:24.333 --> 00:17:29.041 (Nicola) Excellent! Put this in your schoolbag and let's go. 242 00:17:29.083 --> 00:17:32.208 Bye, darling. Let's go, Anna! 243 00:17:34.291 --> 00:17:38.083 - Be back soon? - Of course. 244 00:17:39.375 --> 00:17:43.666 - Not going for cigarettes? - No! 245 00:17:43.708 --> 00:17:46.833 - (Nicola) Say bye to Mommy. - Bye. (SMACKING KISS) 246 00:17:46.875 --> 00:17:49.708 Bye. Let's jump! 247 00:17:49.750 --> 00:17:52.208 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 248 00:17:52.250 --> 00:17:55.708 (Nicola) The storm came in the third month. 249 00:17:55.750 --> 00:17:58.916 (Nicola) The baby had a growth spurt. 250 00:17:58.958 --> 00:18:02.666 (Nicola) He changed his rhythm, re-regulated the flow of milk,... 251 00:18:02.708 --> 00:18:07.125 ..broke his nursing balance and threw his mom for a loop. 252 00:18:07.166 --> 00:18:11.333 (Nicola) In a word, he said: "I'm here". 253 00:18:11.375 --> 00:18:14.583 BY AGREEMENT, IN PLACE OF THE BABY'S CRYING, 254 00:18:14.625 --> 00:18:18.250 BEETHOVEN'S SONATA NO. 8 "PATHETIQUE" 255 00:18:18.291 --> 00:18:27.000 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 256 00:18:27.041 --> 00:18:31.125 (Sara) Little love! What's happening, come here. 257 00:18:31.166 --> 00:18:33.583 (INAUDIBLE NOISES) 258 00:18:33.666 --> 00:18:37.083 No, no, no... (INAUDIBLE NOISES BY NICOLA) 259 00:18:37.125 --> 00:18:41.541 No, no. (INAUDIBLE NOISES BY NICOLA) 260 00:18:41.583 --> 00:18:44.125 (Nicola) What a blow I got! 261 00:18:44.166 --> 00:18:46.500 - (Nicola) A tremendous blow. - Ssh. 262 00:18:46.541 --> 00:18:49.250 (NICOLA MOANS) Lord! 263 00:18:49.291 --> 00:18:51.291 (Sara) No, little love, don't cry. 264 00:18:51.333 --> 00:18:55.000 - (Anna) What's happening? - (Sara) Nothing, everything's fine. 265 00:18:55.041 --> 00:18:58.875 - (Nicola) It's all okay. - (Sara) Everything's fine, go back to bed. 266 00:18:58.916 --> 00:19:03.041 - It's normal. - (Anna, crying) Tell me what's happening? 267 00:19:03.083 --> 00:19:06.875 - He's crying, it's normal. - (Anna) Why's he crying like crazy? 268 00:19:06.916 --> 00:19:10.791 It's normal, don't worry. Take Anna to bed? 269 00:19:10.833 --> 00:19:14.666 - (Nicola) We're going. - Then go! - (Nicola) What a blow! 270 00:19:19.208 --> 00:19:34.625 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 271 00:19:34.666 --> 00:19:36.791 (SARA SIGHS) 272 00:19:36.833 --> 00:19:42.416 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 273 00:19:42.458 --> 00:19:46.041 (Sara) Nicola, why are you just standing there? - What? 274 00:19:46.083 --> 00:19:48.500 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 275 00:19:48.541 --> 00:19:54.583 (INAUDIBLE WORDS) 276 00:19:54.625 --> 00:19:56.666 (SARA MOANS) 277 00:19:57.833 --> 00:19:59.916 Oh, honey! 278 00:20:01.458 --> 00:20:04.041 (NICOLA SIGHS) Want one? 279 00:20:04.083 --> 00:20:19.041 (LIVELY MUSIC) 280 00:20:19.083 --> 00:20:23.208 It'll be okay, just a moment of transition. 281 00:20:23.250 --> 00:20:26.375 Right, sweetie? (PIETRO VOMITS) 282 00:20:26.416 --> 00:20:31.833 (LIVELY MUSIC) 283 00:20:31.875 --> 00:20:34.750 Anna's going to school with Luigi, they'll pick her up. 284 00:20:34.791 --> 00:20:36.916 (Sara) In ten minutes. 285 00:20:36.958 --> 00:20:39.333 - (Nicola) Bye, honey. - (Sara) Bye. 286 00:20:39.375 --> 00:21:05.750 (MUSIC OF "L'OVO ALLA COCCA" BY GIULIANO TAVIANI AND CARMELO TRAVIA) 287 00:21:05.791 --> 00:21:08.000 (HOOT) 288 00:21:08.041 --> 00:21:10.041 Fuck off! 289 00:21:11.041 --> 00:21:14.916 (NICOLA GASPS FOR BREATH) 290 00:21:15.791 --> 00:21:19.541 (NICOLA GASPS FOR BREATH) 291 00:21:19.583 --> 00:21:22.708 (NICOLA BREATHES IN AND OUT) 292 00:21:22.750 --> 00:21:34.500 (MUSIC OF "L'OVO ALLA COCCA" BY GIULIANO TAVIANI AND CARMELO TRAVIA) 293 00:21:39.291 --> 00:21:58.041 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 294 00:21:58.375 --> 00:22:02.041 I'll have mozzarella and... 295 00:22:02.083 --> 00:22:04.083 - And? - And... 296 00:22:04.125 --> 00:22:06.916 - Arugula and salmon? - (Client) No. 297 00:22:06.958 --> 00:22:09.833 With the first child you have incredible energy,... 298 00:22:09.875 --> 00:22:12.708 ..you gave life, you feel like a demigod. 299 00:22:12.750 --> 00:22:17.083 This new sensation compensates for the sleepless nights,... 300 00:22:17.125 --> 00:22:20.166 ..the inhuman effort required. 301 00:22:20.208 --> 00:22:25.500 - Mozzarella and... - And anchovies? - Too salty, I can't sleep. 302 00:22:25.541 --> 00:22:31.541 With the second, the same effort bursts in your face, you'd underestimated it... 303 00:22:31.583 --> 00:22:35.250 ..and it's no longer compensated by that divine euphoria. 304 00:22:35.291 --> 00:22:37.500 The second kid's a shock. 305 00:22:37.541 --> 00:22:41.250 Mozzarella, tomato confit and wild herbs. 306 00:22:41.291 --> 00:22:44.458 - No, good heavens! - No, uh? 307 00:22:44.500 --> 00:22:47.208 Ditch the family, ditch it all. 308 00:22:47.250 --> 00:22:52.708 Say you're crazy, do two months in Psychiatry and you're free. 309 00:22:52.750 --> 00:22:55.916 - Mozzarella and... - And stop, huh? 310 00:22:55.958 --> 00:23:00.250 Mozzarella and stop. Good man, it was easy! Mozzarella and stop. 311 00:23:00.291 --> 00:23:02.000 (Luca) Let's do this. 312 00:23:02.041 --> 00:23:05.458 Darling? Hello? (BEETHOVEN MUSIC ON TELEPHONE) 313 00:23:05.500 --> 00:23:11.500 What is it? Yes. Just tell me. (BEETHOVEN MUSIC ON TELEPHONE) 314 00:23:11.541 --> 00:23:16.750 I can't hear you... Yeah. Go. (BEETHOVEN MUSIC ON TELEPHONE) 315 00:23:16.791 --> 00:23:21.791 Valpasin. Dobrecin. Drops? (BEETHOVEN MUSIC ON TELEPHONE) 316 00:23:21.833 --> 00:23:27.833 (Nicola) When your kid hasn't slept for weeks, doesn't eat, it's a time bomb... 317 00:23:27.875 --> 00:23:30.291 (Luca, whispering) Oh! 318 00:23:30.333 --> 00:23:33.083 ..you have to find someone to help. 319 00:23:33.125 --> 00:23:36.708 Why's he screaming like that? No, good heavens! 320 00:23:36.750 --> 00:23:39.291 (Nicola) That someone is the pediatrician. 321 00:23:39.333 --> 00:23:42.500 (Nicola) Generally, out of guilt, you choose the most expensive. 322 00:23:42.541 --> 00:23:46.291 (Nicola) The one they say is tops, a guru. 323 00:23:46.333 --> 00:23:49.125 chapter 2 THE PEDIATRICIAN GURU 324 00:23:49.166 --> 00:23:50.625 (DOORBELL RINGING) 325 00:23:50.666 --> 00:23:55.000 (Nicola) Art works around the office are typical of the pediatrician guru,... 326 00:23:55.041 --> 00:23:59.333 ..rich detail, Persian rugs, velvet drapes. 327 00:23:59.375 --> 00:24:03.208 (CLASSICAL MUSIC) 328 00:24:03.250 --> 00:24:04.750 (Secretary) Hello. 329 00:24:04.791 --> 00:24:07.500 (Nicola) The aim is to have you see what the furnishings cost... 330 00:24:07.541 --> 00:24:10.541 ..so you'll understand what the return must be. 331 00:24:10.583 --> 00:24:12.166 My God. 332 00:24:12.208 --> 00:24:18.083 (CLASSICAL MUSIC) 333 00:24:18.125 --> 00:24:21.625 (Pediatrician) You should listen. 334 00:24:21.666 --> 00:24:27.125 It sounds very difficult, but if you reflect, it's also simple. 335 00:24:27.166 --> 00:24:30.666 (Nicola) The pediatrician guru says elementary things that never crossed your mind. 336 00:24:30.708 --> 00:24:35.250 (Pediatrician) Not sleeping, not eating, is perhaps his only way to be heard. 337 00:24:35.291 --> 00:24:40.166 (Nicola) And you cry, moved either by the simplicity and power of those words... 338 00:24:40.208 --> 00:24:43.250 ..or by the imagined cost of the visit. 339 00:24:43.291 --> 00:24:47.291 Sorry, I don't know why I feel like crying. 340 00:24:47.333 --> 00:24:52.416 Now I'll make all those faces we make when we're trying not to cry. 341 00:24:55.500 --> 00:24:58.500 (Pediatrician) Don't worry. 342 00:24:58.541 --> 00:25:00.083 Thanks. 343 00:25:01.541 --> 00:25:04.375 (SARA SNIFFS) 344 00:25:05.416 --> 00:25:07.208 May I? 345 00:25:12.125 --> 00:25:17.291 It's been only three months but I feel my husband has stopped seeing me. 346 00:25:17.333 --> 00:25:20.625 (Nicola) For some psychoanalytical reason, in front of the pediatrician guru,... 347 00:25:20.666 --> 00:25:23.125 ..we say things that we don't at home. 348 00:25:23.166 --> 00:25:27.541 (Sara) It's like I were a function for him:... 349 00:25:27.583 --> 00:25:31.291 ..just the mother of his children. 350 00:25:31.333 --> 00:25:35.416 Actually I don't feel equal to the task. 351 00:25:35.458 --> 00:25:39.125 I don't feel equal to the task either. 352 00:25:39.166 --> 00:25:41.833 (SARA AND NICOLA SIGH) 353 00:25:41.875 --> 00:25:45.500 - I'm such scum! - Yes. 354 00:25:46.666 --> 00:25:47.916 (SARA SNIFFS) 355 00:25:47.958 --> 00:25:54.083 (Pediatrician) You should each try putting yourselves in the other's shoes. 356 00:25:55.416 --> 00:25:58.500 And you must spend more time with the baby. 357 00:25:58.541 --> 00:26:04.250 How? Nicola works and I'm soon going back to work myself. 358 00:26:04.291 --> 00:26:07.625 (Nicola) Then the pediatrician guru takes a quantum leap. 359 00:26:07.666 --> 00:26:14.125 No, not work. Think up something, work can wait. 360 00:26:16.125 --> 00:26:20.208 - Like what? - (Pediatrician) Don't you have an income? 361 00:26:20.916 --> 00:26:24.666 (Pediatrician) A house to rent on the beach, in the mountains? 362 00:26:27.000 --> 00:26:30.708 (Pediatrician) An income, a monthly revenue. 363 00:26:30.750 --> 00:26:35.416 Don't we have a house in the mountains to rent? Eh? 364 00:26:41.291 --> 00:26:43.041 (Nicola) No... 365 00:26:43.083 --> 00:26:49.125 (Pediatrician) Find an income, give up work and spend more time with him. 366 00:26:51.458 --> 00:26:54.250 (Sara) An income, you say. 367 00:26:54.291 --> 00:26:58.083 (Pediatrician) Meanwhile, I'll prescribe something for the baby. 368 00:26:58.125 --> 00:27:02.166 - I'll see you in a month. - Thank you. 369 00:27:02.208 --> 00:27:03.333 (NICOLA SNIFFS) 370 00:27:03.375 --> 00:27:06.125 - (Nicola) Good, isn't she? - (Sara) Dunno. 371 00:27:06.166 --> 00:27:11.833 (Nicola) She seemed extremely well-prepared. Almost two hundred euros! 372 00:27:11.875 --> 00:27:15.666 (Sara) Ever notice you always agree with the last person you talk to? 373 00:27:15.708 --> 00:27:19.250 - (Sara) Especially if he's expensive. - (Nicola) I notice you get aggressive. 374 00:27:19.291 --> 00:27:22.750 - (Sara) No, I'm very calm. - (Nicola) You were moved too. 375 00:27:22.791 --> 00:27:25.375 (Sara) Maybe because I'm stressed out. 376 00:27:25.416 --> 00:27:29.541 - What about the money? - We'll find a way. 377 00:27:29.583 --> 00:27:32.583 (Sara) We need someone to stay with the baby at least in the morning. 378 00:27:32.625 --> 00:27:35.375 We can ask my mother. 379 00:27:35.416 --> 00:27:40.083 I have to get back to work or we can't pay the rent. 380 00:27:40.125 --> 00:27:44.125 Things are fine, okay? C'mon! 381 00:27:44.166 --> 00:27:48.291 (MELANCHOLIC PIANO MUSIC) 382 00:27:48.333 --> 00:27:51.250 That's 329 euros. 383 00:27:53.875 --> 00:27:58.125 The prescription... don't lose it! 384 00:27:58.166 --> 00:28:02.041 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 385 00:28:02.083 --> 00:28:03.125 Here. 386 00:28:03.166 --> 00:28:11.833 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 387 00:28:11.875 --> 00:28:15.708 (Nicola) And God saw that Man wasn't suffering enough. 388 00:28:15.750 --> 00:28:21.125 (CHURCH MUSIC) 389 00:28:21.166 --> 00:28:24.208 (Nicola) And so he created the mother-in-law. 390 00:28:24.250 --> 00:28:27.000 We'll now be together for 20 years. 391 00:28:27.041 --> 00:28:29.916 And although you think you make all the decisions,... 392 00:28:29.958 --> 00:28:34.708 ..deep down, you'll see that my opinion weighs like a millstone. 393 00:28:34.750 --> 00:28:37.125 chapter 3 THE IN-LAWS 394 00:28:38.125 --> 00:28:39.708 (Angela) Honey, I can't. 395 00:28:39.750 --> 00:28:43.458 - Mom! - I'd love to, but I can't. 396 00:28:43.500 --> 00:28:47.916 I already take Anna to all her activities in the afternoon. 397 00:28:47.958 --> 00:28:50.833 I even keep her in the evening when I can. 398 00:28:50.875 --> 00:28:53.583 - But why? - I don't have the strength. 399 00:28:53.625 --> 00:28:57.833 - You go swimming every day. - If you knew the energy it costs! 400 00:28:57.875 --> 00:29:00.625 It would be very important for us. 401 00:29:00.666 --> 00:29:03.625 - Promise you'll think it over. - No. 402 00:29:04.916 --> 00:29:06.708 And Dad? 403 00:29:07.958 --> 00:29:09.916 (MAN SNORES) 404 00:29:12.416 --> 00:29:16.625 (Sara) We just can't handle it, don't you see? 405 00:29:16.666 --> 00:29:21.375 I have an article on grandparents being saddled with their grandchildren. 406 00:29:21.416 --> 00:29:24.958 - Oh, my God... - (Angela) Why are you so angry? 407 00:29:25.000 --> 00:29:29.250 Because your generation ate up everything. 408 00:29:29.291 --> 00:29:33.708 (Sara) You were born postwar, a childhood in a generous family network,... 409 00:29:33.750 --> 00:29:35.500 ..you enjoyed the economic boom,... 410 00:29:35.541 --> 00:29:38.916 ..you accumulated and squandered in the '80s and '90s,... 411 00:29:38.958 --> 00:29:41.416 ..believing well-being would last forever. 412 00:29:41.458 --> 00:29:46.875 You didn't think about future generations and you still don't. 413 00:29:46.916 --> 00:29:51.166 Today, with a pension you'll be the last to enjoy,... 414 00:29:51.208 --> 00:29:54.916 ..you revel in your first and second houses. 415 00:29:54.958 --> 00:30:00.000 (Sara) You make vacation plans, invest in stocks, take out twenty-year loans. 416 00:30:00.041 --> 00:30:03.208 You get impeccable check-ups, enjoy social media... 417 00:30:03.250 --> 00:30:07.500 ..and especially, you believe in a future you'll be the last to have... 418 00:30:07.541 --> 00:30:10.041 ..because you no longer die off! 419 00:30:17.666 --> 00:30:19.375 Okay... 420 00:30:20.250 --> 00:30:32.541 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 421 00:30:35.375 --> 00:30:39.458 You have to understand something, once and for all. 422 00:30:39.500 --> 00:30:42.666 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 423 00:30:42.708 --> 00:30:45.541 We elderly are a strength,... 424 00:30:45.583 --> 00:30:50.291 ..silent and calm, but if we get pissed off, it's trouble. 425 00:30:50.333 --> 00:30:55.000 Because there are more of us. We're a great number. 426 00:30:55.041 --> 00:30:59.625 For every 100 young people, there are 165 elderly,... 427 00:30:59.666 --> 00:31:03.208 ..meaning, an absolute majority:... 428 00:31:03.250 --> 00:31:07.250 ..virtually, Congress, Senate and Government. 429 00:31:07.291 --> 00:31:11.375 We have the TV, conditioning show-planning and editorials. 430 00:31:11.416 --> 00:31:16.541 The Song Festival is done for us. As are the big national TV series. 431 00:31:16.583 --> 00:31:23.166 The advertisers that make the world turn, are obsessed with us. 432 00:31:23.208 --> 00:31:27.875 (Angela) The houses and savings accounts that support the entire economy... 433 00:31:27.916 --> 00:31:32.500 ..and without which we'd close shop like Greece, are in our hands. 434 00:31:32.541 --> 00:31:36.583 Theater, what's left of cinema hang on thanks to us. 435 00:31:36.625 --> 00:31:41.333 Our pensions hold hostage the entire national economy. 436 00:31:41.375 --> 00:31:44.875 All we lack is awareness and cohesiveness... 437 00:31:44.916 --> 00:31:47.958 ..and we're ready to screw them all! 438 00:31:48.000 --> 00:31:51.291 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 439 00:31:51.333 --> 00:31:54.958 (All together) DEMOCRACY THE ONLY WAY! 440 00:31:55.000 --> 00:31:58.500 (All together) DEMOCRACY THE ONLY WAY! 441 00:32:03.208 --> 00:32:04.916 Like to go? 442 00:32:07.416 --> 00:32:11.458 What your mother says is true, she's right. 443 00:32:11.500 --> 00:32:16.833 - (Sara) Should I worry? - (Nicola) Those guys will screw us all. 444 00:32:19.375 --> 00:32:22.000 (Nicola) We'll find a solution, don't worry. 445 00:32:22.041 --> 00:32:25.708 (Nicola) We have dinner with Dad tomorrow, we'll talk, it's gonna be okay. 446 00:32:34.125 --> 00:32:38.208 (Cabo) I can't help you, I don't understand what the baby says. 447 00:32:38.250 --> 00:32:42.916 He's 3 months old, doesn't talk. "I don't understand what he says..." 448 00:32:42.958 --> 00:32:44.791 He's always got a cold. 449 00:32:44.833 --> 00:32:50.000 - I can stay with him, but you have to take care of his needs. - Of course. 450 00:32:50.041 --> 00:32:54.041 If only Mom were still here! That damned diet took her away. 451 00:32:54.083 --> 00:32:57.125 You'd been separated for 35 years! 452 00:32:57.166 --> 00:33:00.875 - That diet killed her! - Just the opposite. 453 00:33:00.916 --> 00:33:04.000 If she done the diet, she'd still be alive. 454 00:33:04.041 --> 00:33:07.416 (Busta) Here we are! Come here. 455 00:33:07.458 --> 00:33:11.875 - Beautiful Come here, darling. - Coming, dear. 456 00:33:11.916 --> 00:33:15.291 - See my priest friend, Busta? - Yes. 457 00:33:15.333 --> 00:33:18.291 - He didn't eat gluten for a month. - (Nicola) Oh! 458 00:33:18.333 --> 00:33:20.666 He got a tumor. 459 00:33:20.708 --> 00:33:27.125 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 460 00:33:27.166 --> 00:33:31.125 (Sara) And God saw that Woman wasn't suffering enough either... 461 00:33:31.166 --> 00:33:34.541 ..and so, he created both the father-in-law... 462 00:33:34.583 --> 00:33:37.000 ..and Brazilian music. 463 00:33:37.041 --> 00:33:45.875 (SAMBA MUSIC) 464 00:33:45.916 --> 00:33:50.041 Hear that rhythm? Doesn't it grab you? Listen! 465 00:33:50.083 --> 00:33:56.125 (Busta) In the 1980s we couldn't decide if buying a house at the beach,... 466 00:33:56.166 --> 00:33:59.416 ..whose value quintupled in these 30 years,... 467 00:33:59.458 --> 00:34:06.458 ..or here in the Tuscia countryside whose value dropped 90% in the same period. 468 00:34:06.500 --> 00:34:08.125 We had no doubts. 469 00:34:08.166 --> 00:34:10.083 (GUNSHOTS) 470 00:34:10.125 --> 00:34:14.625 Should that make us unhappy? No way, long live the countryside! 471 00:34:14.666 --> 00:34:17.583 (Together) Long live the countryside! 472 00:34:17.625 --> 00:34:19.791 (GUNSHOTS) 473 00:34:19.791 --> 00:34:22.791 - Hear the shots? Hunters. - Eh... 474 00:34:22.833 --> 00:34:25.916 (INAUDIBLE WORDS BY CABO) (Busta) If you could see the enthusiasm. 475 00:34:25.958 --> 00:34:28.791 (Busta) They drink, so now and then someone gets killed. 476 00:34:28.833 --> 00:34:32.750 - They shoot each other, but by mistake! - Ah... 477 00:34:32.791 --> 00:34:36.916 - They're an enormous resource for our territory. - True! 478 00:34:36.958 --> 00:34:40.625 (GLASS TINKLING AND GUNSHOTS) 479 00:34:42.333 --> 00:34:47.208 I'll take advantage of this nice moment to make an announcement. 480 00:34:49.875 --> 00:34:52.750 Angelina and I... 481 00:34:52.791 --> 00:34:55.500 ..want a child. 482 00:34:55.541 --> 00:34:58.375 - (Cabo) We're working on it, right? - (Angelina) Yes. 483 00:34:58.416 --> 00:35:02.166 - (Cabo) Hurray! - (Busta) Hurray! - (Together) Hurray! 484 00:35:02.208 --> 00:35:04.291 (Angelina) Thank you. 485 00:35:04.333 --> 00:35:09.125 We'll call him Cabo, like his father. 486 00:35:09.166 --> 00:35:10.791 Cabo Jr. 487 00:35:12.000 --> 00:35:15.166 (Cabo) Be close to us, help us. 488 00:35:15.208 --> 00:35:18.958 Especially you young people, who have strength,... 489 00:35:19.000 --> 00:35:22.208 ..energy, free time. 490 00:35:22.250 --> 00:35:23.875 Right. 491 00:35:23.916 --> 00:35:27.333 (Friends) Hurray! - (Cabo) Long live the countryside, long live us all! 492 00:35:27.375 --> 00:35:29.541 chapter 4 JOSEPHINA 493 00:35:29.583 --> 00:35:36.458 (MERENGUE FROM THE RADIO) 494 00:35:36.500 --> 00:35:40.000 (JOSEPHINA HUMS) 495 00:35:40.041 --> 00:35:41.958 (MERENGUE FROM THE RADIO) 496 00:35:42.000 --> 00:35:45.083 (Nicola) Not having revenue as the wealthy pediatrician thought,... 497 00:35:45.125 --> 00:35:48.750 ..having to work, unable to count on grandparents,... 498 00:35:48.791 --> 00:35:52.375 ..there was just one answer to all our problems. 499 00:35:52.416 --> 00:35:53.916 (Nicola) Josephina. 500 00:35:53.958 --> 00:35:55.583 (MERENGUE FROM THE RADIO) 501 00:35:55.625 --> 00:35:59.416 (Nicola) Josephina is fun, reliable, creative,... 502 00:35:59.458 --> 00:36:05.208 ..you needn't explain anything to her, she finds things in the house on her own,... 503 00:36:05.250 --> 00:36:09.458 ..she adores children, children adore her, she's in love with her job. 504 00:36:09.500 --> 00:36:15.291 According to Victor Turner, ritual has its roots in social drama... 505 00:36:15.333 --> 00:36:19.291 ..which reveals the most concrete aspects of social life. 506 00:36:19.333 --> 00:36:39.250 (MERENGUE FROM THE RADIO) 507 00:36:39.291 --> 00:36:41.958 (Nicola) Josephina has just one big problem. 508 00:36:42.000 --> 00:36:43.583 (MERENGUE FROM THE RADIO) 509 00:36:43.625 --> 00:36:46.916 (Nicola) She doesn't exist. (MUSIC STOPS) 510 00:36:46.958 --> 00:36:51.250 (Nicola) In her place, a series of dubious babysitters come to the door. 511 00:36:51.291 --> 00:36:55.125 (UNINTELLIGIBLE WORDS) 512 00:36:55.166 --> 00:36:58.000 (Nicola) The African who only speaks Wolof. 513 00:36:58.041 --> 00:37:01.000 Inps, spaghetti, up yours... 514 00:37:01.041 --> 00:37:04.333 (Nicola) The unemployed college graduate. 515 00:37:06.458 --> 00:37:08.791 (Nicola) The young sex maniac. 516 00:37:09.500 --> 00:37:13.000 (Young girl) I adore dads without beards. 517 00:37:13.041 --> 00:37:18.916 (Nicola) And other monsters you've seen in headlines. 518 00:37:18.958 --> 00:37:21.166 Smoking's okay, right? 519 00:37:21.208 --> 00:37:24.375 My name is Manuela, I'm 35. 520 00:37:24.416 --> 00:37:29.083 I've already done babysitting, the baby was 16,... 521 00:37:29.125 --> 00:37:32.333 ..and I helped get him off drugs. 522 00:37:32.375 --> 00:37:36.125 (Erica, whispering) My name's Erica, I'm 22. 523 00:37:36.166 --> 00:37:39.583 I just love children. 524 00:37:39.625 --> 00:37:41.875 Especially when they're sleeping. 525 00:37:41.916 --> 00:37:46.250 I'd do anything to see them sleep. 526 00:37:46.291 --> 00:37:49.750 (Nicola) Out of exhaustion, we chose the worst,... 527 00:37:49.791 --> 00:37:53.666 ..a farm girl with no experience, so to entertain the kids... 528 00:37:53.708 --> 00:37:55.708 ..she proposed just one thing. 529 00:37:55.750 --> 00:37:58.041 I cook them a "roached" egg. 530 00:37:58.083 --> 00:38:03.041 (Sara) Before dinner, eight drops of sub-lingual antihistamine. 531 00:38:03.083 --> 00:38:05.000 (Nicola and Sara) Under the tongue... 532 00:38:05.041 --> 00:38:11.791 (Sara) Before bed, a nasal wash, we brush our teeth, don't forget. 533 00:38:11.833 --> 00:38:14.583 Hear your mommy? Don't be a rascal. 534 00:38:14.625 --> 00:38:16.791 (Sara) Then to bed, 9:30 at the latest. 535 00:38:16.833 --> 00:38:22.208 Understand, dear? Don't be a rascal. Listen to your mommy? 536 00:38:22.250 --> 00:38:24.583 - Thank you - (Nicola) Bye, sweetie. 537 00:38:24.625 --> 00:38:27.708 - Good evening. - (Sara) We thank you. Bye, sweetie. 538 00:38:29.541 --> 00:38:32.916 (whispering) I don't want a "roached" egg, I'm scared. 539 00:38:32.958 --> 00:38:34.791 (Nicola) Of what? 540 00:38:34.833 --> 00:38:38.916 (Sara) Sweetie, don't worry, it's gonna be okay. 541 00:38:38.958 --> 00:38:41.458 - (Sara) Watch a movie. - "Titanic"? 542 00:38:41.500 --> 00:38:44.583 (Sara) Again? Isn't it too sad? 543 00:38:45.375 --> 00:38:48.500 - I really like it. - Ok... - (Sara) If you like it... 544 00:38:48.541 --> 00:38:54.125 (Babysitter) Come here, little one! Come here, we'll make a "roached" egg. 545 00:38:57.541 --> 00:38:59.500 (Anna) A "roached" egg. 546 00:39:09.041 --> 00:39:22.291 (HAPPY MUSIC) 547 00:39:22.333 --> 00:39:24.208 (Nicola) Let's go there. 548 00:39:24.250 --> 00:39:26.875 (HAPPY MUSIC) 549 00:39:26.916 --> 00:39:30.541 - (Sara) It's our first time out since when? - (Nicola) Since forever. 550 00:39:30.583 --> 00:39:34.750 - (Sara) Tell me what we'll do tonight. - (Nicola) Everything. - (Sara) What a thrill! 551 00:39:34.791 --> 00:39:41.458 (HAPPY MUSIC) 552 00:39:41.500 --> 00:39:43.625 (Actor) Help! 553 00:39:43.666 --> 00:39:52.458 (AUDIENCE APPLAUDS) 554 00:39:52.500 --> 00:39:56.041 - (Sara) I'd really like to go home. - (Nicola) I know. 555 00:39:56.083 --> 00:39:59.333 - (Sara) We can't, right? - (Nicola) Unfortunately not. 556 00:40:00.291 --> 00:40:04.125 - What time is it? - Eh? - What time is it? 557 00:40:06.458 --> 00:40:08.916 9:40. 558 00:40:08.958 --> 00:40:12.000 - (Sara) What did we do to deserve this? - (Nicola) I don't know. 559 00:40:12.041 --> 00:40:17.041 (Nicola) We have to stay out and have fun at all costs. 560 00:40:19.416 --> 00:40:21.541 - Hungry? - No. 561 00:40:23.958 --> 00:40:27.416 (Nicola) I like this restaurant, it's old,... 562 00:40:27.458 --> 00:40:30.875 ..the old waitresses still like their work. 563 00:40:33.791 --> 00:40:37.625 - Have you inspected it? - (Sara) Twice. 564 00:40:37.666 --> 00:40:40.750 - What's it like? - Perfect, that's why we're here. 565 00:40:47.750 --> 00:41:06.833 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 566 00:41:06.875 --> 00:41:10.375 - I have to say something tremendous. - What? 567 00:41:10.416 --> 00:41:13.041 - I'm embarrassed. - Say it. 568 00:41:14.375 --> 00:41:16.583 - It's not easy. - Say it. 569 00:41:16.625 --> 00:41:19.458 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 570 00:41:19.500 --> 00:41:22.250 - I miss them like crazy. - Me too, so much. 571 00:41:22.291 --> 00:41:23.666 What can we do? 572 00:41:27.291 --> 00:41:30.250 - Let's look at their pictures. - Okay. 573 00:41:30.291 --> 00:41:33.250 (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 574 00:41:33.291 --> 00:41:38.208 - (Nicola) Look at this. - (Sara) Sweetie! You're so beautiful! 575 00:41:38.250 --> 00:41:40.458 (Sara) Darling! 576 00:41:40.500 --> 00:41:43.208 See how pretty Anna is here. 577 00:41:43.250 --> 00:41:45.958 (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 578 00:41:46.000 --> 00:41:50.000 - What are they doing now? - A "roached" egg. 579 00:41:50.041 --> 00:41:52.666 (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 580 00:41:52.708 --> 00:41:55.666 - Let's go home. - No. 581 00:41:55.708 --> 00:41:59.500 - How long do we have to stay out? - At least till midnight. 582 00:41:59.541 --> 00:42:00.916 Lord! 583 00:42:00.958 --> 00:42:07.166 (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 584 00:42:07.208 --> 00:42:10.958 Okay, wake me in ten minutes? 585 00:42:11.000 --> 00:42:32.041 (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 586 00:42:34.500 --> 00:42:37.083 - Good evening. - (Sara) Good evening. 587 00:42:37.125 --> 00:42:42.666 The baby woke up just once. I gave him some milk and he went back to sleep. 588 00:42:42.708 --> 00:42:47.166 - The little girl watched "Titanic", but she's still crying. - Really? 589 00:42:47.208 --> 00:42:54.208 The little girl is suffering, she's jealous, pay attention to her. 590 00:42:54.250 --> 00:42:59.208 - Yes... - My sister ruined my life, even today I'd like to kill her. 591 00:42:59.250 --> 00:43:03.833 - (Nicola) Ok... - (Babysitter) She got all the attention: "You're so pretty, you're so tiny..." 592 00:43:03.875 --> 00:43:07.708 - I felt like the pits. - Thank you, has Anna eaten? 593 00:43:07.750 --> 00:43:10.083 - An egg. - "Roached"? 594 00:43:10.125 --> 00:43:13.291 - "Roached". - (Nicola) Thank you. 595 00:43:15.000 --> 00:43:18.916 (Nicola) You're still awake? You have school tomorrow. 596 00:43:18.958 --> 00:43:21.333 Tomorrow's Sunday. 597 00:43:22.458 --> 00:43:25.750 - Why are you crying? Eh? - (Nicola) Huh? 598 00:43:25.791 --> 00:43:28.333 (Sara) Will you tell me? 599 00:43:28.375 --> 00:43:32.541 (Sara) I knew this movie was too sad. 600 00:43:32.583 --> 00:43:34.833 (Sara) Sweetheart... 601 00:43:34.875 --> 00:43:37.666 - (Sara) Sweetheart! - (Nicola) Hey. 602 00:43:37.708 --> 00:43:41.541 (Sara) Here's what we'll do. 603 00:43:41.583 --> 00:43:47.208 Let's draw the Titanic on April 16, 1912. 604 00:43:47.250 --> 00:43:51.083 The day after the sinking but perfectly integral, 605 00:43:51.125 --> 00:43:54.791 as it's sailing peacefully. 606 00:43:54.833 --> 00:43:58.458 We'll imagine the Titanic never sank? 607 00:44:04.583 --> 00:44:07.166 (Anna) Can I sleep in the big bed? 608 00:44:08.708 --> 00:44:11.583 chapter 5 SUNDAY 609 00:44:14.166 --> 00:44:17.083 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 610 00:44:17.125 --> 00:44:21.041 (Nicola) Oh, no, stop! Stop. 611 00:44:21.083 --> 00:44:25.708 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 612 00:44:25.750 --> 00:44:27.666 (SARA SIGHS) He has a high fever. 613 00:44:27.708 --> 00:44:31.583 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 614 00:44:31.625 --> 00:44:36.041 - (Nicola) Oh, no... - (Sara) Please get some water? 615 00:44:36.083 --> 00:44:38.458 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 616 00:44:38.500 --> 00:44:42.500 (NICOLA SCREAMS) Oh God, what did I do to myself! 617 00:44:42.541 --> 00:44:48.208 Oh no! I hurt myself really badly. 618 00:44:48.250 --> 00:44:49.791 (NICOLA CRIES) 619 00:44:49.833 --> 00:44:53.208 - (Nicola) Gentle, though! What are you doing? - (Sara) Yes. 620 00:44:53.250 --> 00:44:56.875 - (Sara) I'll pull it out, on three. - It already hurts, careful and fast. 621 00:44:56.916 --> 00:45:01.166 One, two, three. (NICOLA SCREAMS AND SIGHS) 622 00:45:01.208 --> 00:45:04.041 - Look. - Very nice! 623 00:45:04.083 --> 00:45:08.750 It's the Titanic the day after it sank. It's sailing calmly. 624 00:45:08.791 --> 00:45:12.750 (DOORBELL RINGING) - (Sara) Go open the door, it's Grandpa. - Okay. 625 00:45:14.583 --> 00:45:20.166 (Anna) The problem isn't my baby brother, they can have another two. 626 00:45:20.208 --> 00:45:24.541 - (Anna) I have a personal problem with him. - (Cabo) Why? 627 00:45:24.583 --> 00:45:29.875 - (Anna) He cries all the time, even with no reason. - (Cabo) Why does he cry? 628 00:45:29.916 --> 00:45:35.833 He wants everyone around him and when everyone's around him, know what he does? 629 00:45:35.875 --> 00:45:39.458 - What? - He keeps crying. 630 00:45:39.500 --> 00:45:42.291 That's a real problem. 631 00:45:42.333 --> 00:45:47.000 Don't let him fool you, never be alone with him. 632 00:45:47.041 --> 00:45:49.541 Thank you for the advice. 633 00:45:49.583 --> 00:45:52.750 - (Anna) You're welcome. - (Cabo) I have something for you. 634 00:45:52.791 --> 00:45:55.250 Here, honey, open it. 635 00:45:55.291 --> 00:45:58.208 - What is it? - (Cabo) Look. 636 00:45:58.250 --> 00:46:03.291 (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 637 00:46:03.333 --> 00:46:08.750 - A cuckoo clock! - Yes! Isn't it beautiful? 638 00:46:08.791 --> 00:46:10.875 Listen how it goes. 639 00:46:10.916 --> 00:46:17.791 (CUCKOO CLOCK SOUND) 640 00:46:17.833 --> 00:46:21.583 - (Anna) It's beautiful. - (Cabo) You're right, it's beautiful. 641 00:46:21.625 --> 00:46:25.750 (CUCKOO CLOCK SOUND) 642 00:46:25.791 --> 00:46:28.375 (SMACKING KISS) 643 00:46:28.416 --> 00:46:32.041 (Cabo) Why are you so short of breath? 644 00:46:32.083 --> 00:46:34.541 No, it's normal breathing. 645 00:46:34.583 --> 00:46:37.375 (Sara) Nicola, I'm going out today. 646 00:46:39.458 --> 00:46:40.750 Meaning? 647 00:46:42.875 --> 00:46:46.708 I'm spending the day with Federica, she has to talk to me. 648 00:46:48.500 --> 00:46:50.166 About what? 649 00:46:51.083 --> 00:46:54.583 Are you capable of staying one day with the baby? 650 00:46:54.625 --> 00:46:58.916 - You're father's here too. - (Cabo) Don't count on me. 651 00:46:58.958 --> 00:47:03.125 I'll watch the baby when he can talk, he'll say he's hungry, thirsty... 652 00:47:03.166 --> 00:47:05.416 ..and he always has a cold. 653 00:47:05.458 --> 00:47:07.708 Of course, I am. 654 00:47:09.750 --> 00:47:13.208 We could ask Federica to come here, couldn't we? 655 00:47:23.250 --> 00:47:27.958 Today it might be nice to be all together. 656 00:47:28.000 --> 00:47:31.416 You stay all together since you're never here. 657 00:47:31.458 --> 00:47:33.541 (SOUND OF CABO'S TOOLS) 658 00:47:33.583 --> 00:47:38.625 Why do you always say that, as if I spent my days playing pool? 659 00:47:38.666 --> 00:47:42.666 If you did, we wouldn't be together at all. 660 00:47:42.708 --> 00:47:46.125 - (Nicola) You understand what I mean. - (Sara) No, I don't. (CABO SCREAMING)) 661 00:47:46.166 --> 00:47:49.833 That's the point, we don't understand one another. 662 00:47:49.875 --> 00:47:52.958 I need to breathe. 663 00:47:53.000 --> 00:47:56.541 I'm in here all day, I can't take any more, I have to go out. 664 00:47:56.583 --> 00:47:59.416 You're scared of being alone with the baby,... 665 00:47:59.458 --> 00:48:04.041 ..since you never are you don't know how, and that makes me mad. 666 00:48:05.791 --> 00:48:08.375 I have zero fear. 667 00:48:08.416 --> 00:48:12.958 - (Sara) You're short of breath. - (Nicola) No. - (Sara) You do. 668 00:48:13.000 --> 00:48:17.000 Can we make tea and spend the afternoon all together? 669 00:48:17.041 --> 00:48:19.458 Your only contribution is work. 670 00:48:19.500 --> 00:48:21.166 (SOUND OF CABO'S TOOLS) 671 00:48:21.208 --> 00:48:27.125 Sorry! Sorry, if I bust my butt so we don't sink. 672 00:48:27.166 --> 00:48:31.250 - I apologize. - How I envy you. 673 00:48:31.291 --> 00:48:34.916 I'd like to work all day while you nurse and take care of the baby. 674 00:48:34.958 --> 00:48:37.625 Half and half, like we've always said. 675 00:48:37.666 --> 00:48:42.666 (NICOLA GASPS FOR AIR AND CABO SCREAMS) 676 00:48:42.708 --> 00:48:46.541 Want us to argue today too, should I start yelling? 677 00:48:46.583 --> 00:48:48.916 - Sara... - Bye. 678 00:48:50.958 --> 00:48:54.416 (Nicola) It's not nice to leave on a bad note. 679 00:48:54.458 --> 00:49:05.708 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 680 00:49:05.750 --> 00:49:09.708 This bitch won't go in! (CABO SCREAMS) 681 00:49:09.750 --> 00:49:13.125 - (Nicola) Want a hand, dad? Huh? - (Cabo) No. 682 00:49:13.166 --> 00:49:15.916 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 683 00:49:15.958 --> 00:49:19.958 (CABO SCREAMS AND BEETHOVEN MUSIC STARTS) 684 00:49:20.000 --> 00:49:25.250 - (Nicola) Why? Why! - (Cabo) Ok. - (Nicola) What's okay? - (Cabo) Stay calm. 685 00:49:25.291 --> 00:49:28.500 - (Nicola) Be good, Pietro. - Let's stay calm. 686 00:49:28.541 --> 00:49:37.083 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 687 00:49:37.125 --> 00:49:41.333 (Nicola) Go see him, get used to it. 688 00:49:41.375 --> 00:49:43.833 - (Nicola) What's he doing? - (Cabo) Crying. 689 00:49:43.875 --> 00:49:46.541 (Nicola) Can you understand him or does he have to talk? 690 00:49:46.583 --> 00:49:52.333 I'm left with this one screw, that means I forgot something. I made a mistake. 691 00:49:52.375 --> 00:49:54.958 - (Nicola) So? - (Cabo) Let's hope it holds. 692 00:49:55.000 --> 00:49:58.750 - I can't reassemble the whole thing. - No. 693 00:49:58.791 --> 00:50:00.750 Bye, son. 694 00:50:02.333 --> 00:50:05.208 (DOOR OPENS) 695 00:50:06.583 --> 00:50:08.708 What the fuck, though! 696 00:50:08.750 --> 00:50:13.375 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 697 00:50:13.416 --> 00:50:14.958 (Nicola) Look. 698 00:50:15.000 --> 00:50:17.708 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 699 00:50:17.750 --> 00:50:20.458 Do you realize little Pietro will have a best friend. 700 00:50:20.500 --> 00:50:25.375 - Who's his uncle. - (Cabo) Yes, his uncle! 701 00:50:25.416 --> 00:50:27.416 His uncle! 702 00:50:31.166 --> 00:50:38.125 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 703 00:50:38.166 --> 00:50:42.625 Anna, sweetie? Be with me today. 704 00:50:42.666 --> 00:50:45.958 It's me, you and the little delinquent, are you happy? 705 00:50:46.000 --> 00:50:51.250 - (Anna) But I have a party. - (Nicola) What do you have? 706 00:50:51.291 --> 00:50:54.958 It's Giorgia's party, you've known for days. 707 00:50:55.000 --> 00:50:57.666 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 708 00:50:57.708 --> 00:51:01.541 You can't have a teenager's life already. 709 00:51:01.583 --> 00:51:04.666 Your social life is more intense than ours. 710 00:51:04.708 --> 00:51:10.125 Parties, pizzas, pajama parties, sports events, Pilates, c'mon! 711 00:51:10.166 --> 00:51:14.083 - You're envious. - Yes, I am. Come here. 712 00:51:14.125 --> 00:51:18.250 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 713 00:51:18.291 --> 00:51:22.875 - (Anna) No tickling. - (Nicola) You'll make it worse. - (Anna) C'mon! 714 00:51:22.916 --> 00:51:25.750 (DOORBELL RINGING) (Anna) It's them! 715 00:51:25.791 --> 00:51:29.000 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 716 00:51:29.041 --> 00:51:32.041 (Anna) I'm coming. 717 00:51:32.083 --> 00:51:36.250 Bye, huh? Not even bye. 718 00:51:36.291 --> 00:51:38.791 (DOOR CLOSES) Not even bye. 719 00:51:56.791 --> 00:51:58.625 Up we come. 720 00:52:00.208 --> 00:52:04.291 (UNINTELLIGIBLE SOUNDS BY PIETRO) What is it? 721 00:52:08.208 --> 00:52:10.041 Look. 722 00:52:10.833 --> 00:52:14.500 I was wondering if you'd like to come for coffee. 723 00:52:14.541 --> 00:52:17.791 - (Nicola) An herbal tea... - You're alone with the baby? 724 00:52:17.833 --> 00:52:20.750 (Nicola) No way, no! (BEETHOVEN MUSIC ON TELEPHONE) 725 00:52:20.791 --> 00:52:23.000 Oh, you shit! 726 00:52:23.041 --> 00:52:25.916 (Nicola) Okay, it's me and him, but things are fine. 727 00:52:25.958 --> 00:52:32.041 - I'd like to see you. - Sure... but I can't. 728 00:52:32.083 --> 00:52:35.750 - (Friend) I'm seeing the urologist. - It's Sunday! 729 00:52:36.791 --> 00:52:38.375 Hey? 730 00:52:42.958 --> 00:52:45.291 He hung up. 731 00:52:49.708 --> 00:52:52.250 (NICOLA EXHALES) 732 00:52:52.291 --> 00:52:56.166 Okay, listen to me, my son. 733 00:52:56.208 --> 00:53:01.916 (Nicola) Listen, it's an awful tough day for us, huh? 734 00:53:01.958 --> 00:53:05.208 It's called "situation of peril". 735 00:53:05.250 --> 00:53:08.666 But if you don't mess up and we stick together,... 736 00:53:08.708 --> 00:53:13.416 ..we'll get through this and it'll bring us together forever. 737 00:53:13.458 --> 00:53:16.250 What do you say? (UNINTELLIGIBLE SOUNDS BY PIETRO) 738 00:53:16.291 --> 00:53:19.458 Good boy. Ssh... Good boy. 739 00:53:20.791 --> 00:53:22.833 Good boy. 740 00:53:22.875 --> 00:53:25.000 (CUCKOO CLOCK SOUND AND SOUND OF FRIGHT BY NICOLA ) 741 00:53:25.041 --> 00:53:28.291 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 742 00:53:28.333 --> 00:53:31.125 (INAUDIBLE WORDS) 743 00:53:31.166 --> 00:53:35.291 (CUCKOO CLOCK SOUND AND BEETHOVEN MUSIC) 744 00:53:35.333 --> 00:53:53.541 (INAUDIBLE WORDS AND BEETHOVEN MUSIC) 745 00:54:01.250 --> 00:54:07.541 (Anna) There was someone who made you up, inflatables, salami sandwiches. 746 00:54:08.291 --> 00:54:12.250 - (Nicola) You're sure you want just small pasta? - Yes, I'm not very hungry. 747 00:54:12.291 --> 00:54:17.291 (BEETHOVEN MUSIC STARTING) (Nicola) Here, it's ready. It's ready, bibsy. 748 00:54:18.625 --> 00:54:22.250 (Nicola) A complete meal includes fruit. 749 00:54:23.166 --> 00:54:28.625 Fruit, not up for it? He's not up for it. 750 00:54:28.666 --> 00:54:31.875 (Nicola) "He asked his cousin Eddie if he could hold his teddy. 751 00:54:31.916 --> 00:54:35.458 The teddy said hello... to Grandpa Joe. 752 00:54:35.500 --> 00:54:39.291 Old cyclops says not a word as home he leads his herd." 753 00:54:39.333 --> 00:54:54.125 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 754 00:54:54.166 --> 00:54:56.500 You're a big man, Nico! 755 00:54:58.041 --> 00:55:03.375 - Let's drive around again, Federica, please. - (Federica) It's useless. 756 00:55:03.416 --> 00:55:09.833 - C'mon, it's gonna be okay. - I don't want to go in, I'm not happy. 757 00:55:22.208 --> 00:55:23.750 (Sara) Bye. 758 00:55:50.083 --> 00:55:54.333 - How are you? - (Nicola) Fine. You? - Fine. 759 00:55:56.708 --> 00:56:01.458 (Nicola) Well, I tidied the living room, Dad had left a mess,... 760 00:56:01.500 --> 00:56:05.541 ..the baby ate, I washed and changed him, he took his drops. 761 00:56:05.583 --> 00:56:11.166 (Nicola) Anna came back at 8:30, she ate too, different menu,... 762 00:56:11.208 --> 00:56:16.166 ..then she made some fuss, so, like when she was little,... 763 00:56:16.208 --> 00:56:18.875 ..I read her "The Cyclops Family". 764 00:56:18.916 --> 00:56:21.791 (Nicola) They're neurotic like us, but they react like... 765 00:56:21.833 --> 00:56:24.291 (NICOLA MAKES A GUTTURAL SOUND) 766 00:56:24.333 --> 00:56:28.041 - (Nicola) Anyway, they're both asleep. - Good. 767 00:56:34.666 --> 00:56:36.083 Well? 768 00:56:37.125 --> 00:56:38.375 What? 769 00:56:40.333 --> 00:56:42.291 Nothing to say? 770 00:56:43.291 --> 00:56:45.458 Should I say you're great? 771 00:56:46.583 --> 00:56:49.250 - For example. - (Sara) Why? 772 00:56:50.208 --> 00:56:55.041 - Maybe because it's true? - Do you tell me that? 773 00:56:55.083 --> 00:57:00.833 You did what I do everyday without blinking and without being told I'm great. 774 00:57:02.000 --> 00:57:05.125 I always say you're great. 775 00:57:05.166 --> 00:57:07.500 - Never. - Always. 776 00:57:07.541 --> 00:57:10.458 - (Sara) What's this ridiculous outfit? - (Nicola) What outfit? 777 00:57:10.500 --> 00:57:13.375 This super hero outfit, you're ridiculous. 778 00:57:13.416 --> 00:57:15.333 I have no outfit. 779 00:57:18.416 --> 00:57:21.833 You think that because I'm the mom,... 780 00:57:21.875 --> 00:57:25.666 ..doing all these things that make you feel like a super hero,... 781 00:57:25.708 --> 00:57:30.375 ..come natural to me, they're easy, give me pleasure. 782 00:57:30.416 --> 00:57:33.583 - There's nothing wrong with that. - Screw you. 783 00:57:33.625 --> 00:57:35.500 You fly right off the handle. 784 00:57:35.541 --> 00:57:39.000 Centuries of male supremacy have formatted us forever. 785 00:57:39.041 --> 00:57:42.083 Equality, my ass, 50/50, my ass! 786 00:57:42.125 --> 00:57:46.708 We don't need to be ideologically inverted. Why shouldn't you be happy to be a mother? 787 00:57:46.750 --> 00:57:53.000 I want to work, make something of myself, travel, screw, be happy. 788 00:57:53.041 --> 00:57:58.875 I'm not even sure I love you. I'm in a shambles, I can't even remember why I'm with you. 789 00:58:06.625 --> 00:58:08.583 (DOORBELL RINGING) 790 00:58:30.833 --> 00:58:33.666 (Man) I heard you're having problems with your son. 791 00:58:33.708 --> 00:58:37.791 - Meaning? - You're not right, you complain. 792 00:58:37.833 --> 00:58:39.708 Who are you? 793 00:58:40.375 --> 00:58:44.250 You always want to know everything, give a name to things,... 794 00:58:44.291 --> 00:58:46.583 ..I'm here to help you. 795 00:58:46.625 --> 00:58:49.583 C'mon, tell me what the fuck's going on? 796 00:58:49.625 --> 00:58:55.125 It's a little hard keeping things together, that's it. 797 00:58:55.166 --> 00:59:00.541 - With two kids? - Yes. We feel, how can I put it... 798 00:59:01.708 --> 00:59:02.750 ..alone. 799 00:59:02.791 --> 00:59:04.416 (Sara) Yes. 800 00:59:04.458 --> 00:59:05.625 Meaning? 801 00:59:08.500 --> 00:59:10.125 (Nicola) Well,... 802 00:59:10.166 --> 00:59:16.333 ..our parents' generation didn't give a damn about anything,... 803 00:59:16.375 --> 00:59:19.250 ..they raised us as it came,... 804 00:59:19.291 --> 00:59:23.291 ..without giving us the tools to be good parents ourselves. 805 00:59:23.333 --> 00:59:26.916 (Nicola) So, we swing between trying not to make their mistakes... 806 00:59:26.958 --> 00:59:30.875 ..and the inevitable application of their educational model. 807 00:59:30.916 --> 00:59:34.458 - (Nicola) See? - Wow, how brainy! 808 00:59:34.500 --> 00:59:38.166 - Right? - Yes! - (Nicola) Why? 809 00:59:38.208 --> 00:59:42.208 What a likeable person you are. Coffee? I've just made some. 810 00:59:42.250 --> 00:59:44.916 With a drop of milk, thank you. 811 00:59:51.958 --> 00:59:54.791 - Does the older one give you problems? - No. 812 00:59:54.833 --> 00:59:57.583 Well, it all seems okay. 813 00:59:57.625 --> 01:00:00.791 (Man) Some people live in five in less than 50 square meters. 814 01:00:00.833 --> 01:00:04.166 Families who can't make ends meet, kids who push drugs. 815 01:00:04.208 --> 01:00:07.291 - What's the problem? - (Nicola) It's all relative. 816 01:00:07.333 --> 01:00:09.500 Up to a certain point... Thank you. 817 01:00:09.541 --> 01:00:14.208 What's this, the old adage that many are worse off than us? 818 01:00:14.250 --> 01:00:15.291 Huh? 819 01:00:26.333 --> 01:00:28.750 I can do something for you. 820 01:00:30.041 --> 01:00:31.958 (Sara) For example? 821 01:00:34.125 --> 01:00:37.708 I can make your baby disappear if you don't want him anymore. 822 01:00:43.916 --> 01:00:46.875 Are you a wizard? 823 01:00:46.916 --> 01:00:50.333 You always want to understand everything, with your western mind. 824 01:00:50.375 --> 01:00:52.916 - Coffee's good! - Thank you. 825 01:00:52.958 --> 01:00:55.541 Everything can change in life. 826 01:00:56.833 --> 01:01:01.125 - You don't like that picture of your ancestor, right? - Right. 827 01:01:01.166 --> 01:01:02.416 (FINGER SNAP) 828 01:01:02.458 --> 01:01:06.416 - But that... - And that shit chandelier? 829 01:01:06.458 --> 01:01:08.208 (FINGER SNAP) 830 01:01:08.250 --> 01:01:11.125 - And the baby? - (Sara and Nicola) No! 831 01:01:11.166 --> 01:01:13.166 (FINGER SNAP) (Sara and Nicola) No! 832 01:01:13.208 --> 01:01:16.250 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 833 01:01:17.250 --> 01:01:20.208 chapter 6 THE RULES 834 01:01:20.250 --> 01:01:24.750 - (Nicola) Me, the pool, Anna, Wednesday, right? - (Sara) Mmh. 835 01:01:24.791 --> 01:01:31.416 Then... Take to school, me all week. 836 01:01:31.458 --> 01:01:33.375 - (Nicola) Me, groceries on Thursday. - (Sara) Mmh. 837 01:01:33.416 --> 01:01:37.541 - And me, the babysitter this week. - Right? - (Sara) Yes. 838 01:01:38.500 --> 01:01:40.083 CLASS CHAT 839 01:01:40.125 --> 01:01:43.416 - I can't do the class chat. - (Sara) It's your item. 840 01:01:45.833 --> 01:01:47.958 I can't fit it in! 841 01:01:48.000 --> 01:01:51.041 I'd hoped it would never get to this, but... 842 01:01:51.083 --> 01:01:53.750 Then what's the use? 843 01:01:53.791 --> 01:02:24.375 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 844 01:02:24.416 --> 01:02:28.791 Hello, I'm calling about the vaccination. Eight months. 845 01:02:28.833 --> 01:02:34.333 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 846 01:02:34.375 --> 01:02:37.333 (THE MOBILE PHONE VIBRATES) 847 01:02:37.375 --> 01:02:45.291 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC AND PHONE RINGING) 848 01:02:45.333 --> 01:02:47.583 Nicola: Okay for everything. 849 01:02:47.625 --> 01:03:00.875 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC AND PHONE RINGING) 850 01:03:00.916 --> 01:03:03.083 CLASS CHAT 851 01:03:03.125 --> 01:03:06.625 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 852 01:03:08.500 --> 01:03:13.166 (Nicola) We've stopped arguing over the rules, but it's all cold. 853 01:03:13.208 --> 01:03:15.958 Today's our free evening. 854 01:03:16.000 --> 01:03:18.166 Huh... It's Thursday! 855 01:03:19.375 --> 01:03:20.875 Yes. 856 01:03:20.916 --> 01:03:25.833 (FAINT VOICES) 857 01:03:25.875 --> 01:03:29.625 (Nicola) The saddest thing in the world is couples in a restaurant... 858 01:03:29.666 --> 01:03:33.541 ..who dine without saying a word, isn't it? 859 01:03:38.083 --> 01:03:42.000 Wouldn't you like to go see your friends tonight? 860 01:03:43.625 --> 01:03:46.458 - Maybe I would. - Well, okay. 861 01:03:46.500 --> 01:03:51.291 (TV) Are you ready? My spirit is, not my body. 862 01:03:51.333 --> 01:03:58.708 (DARK MUSIC FROM TV) 863 01:03:58.750 --> 01:04:02.708 (Men, from TV) - Give me time. - Everyone would like some. 864 01:04:02.750 --> 01:04:08.166 The most intimate, personal, elusive thing we all have,... 865 01:04:08.208 --> 01:04:10.375 ..the remote control. 866 01:04:11.458 --> 01:04:13.500 Do you understand anything? 867 01:04:15.291 --> 01:04:19.250 (Sara) I don't think so, it's different from mine. 868 01:04:19.291 --> 01:04:24.083 Exactly, we have identical apartments, cars, television sets,... 869 01:04:24.125 --> 01:04:27.916 ..but the remote controls are all different. 870 01:04:29.916 --> 01:04:31.500 Can't do it. 871 01:04:31.541 --> 01:04:37.208 (LOUNGE MUSIC) 872 01:04:37.250 --> 01:04:40.000 (Man from TV) The knight is down there, playing chess. 873 01:04:40.041 --> 01:04:42.791 (Woman, from TV) I see that too, what's so terrible about it? 874 01:04:42.833 --> 01:04:47.625 - (Uomo) Can't you see his adversary? - He likes being alone. Why scare me like that? 875 01:04:47.666 --> 01:04:52.208 (from TV) - (Man) It's not true he's alone. - (Woman) Who's he with? - (Uomo) Death. 876 01:04:52.250 --> 01:04:57.750 (LOUNGE MUSIC FROM THE OTHER ROOM) 877 01:04:57.791 --> 01:05:28.416 (SUSPENSE MUSIC) 878 01:05:28.458 --> 01:05:45.208 (SUSPENSE MUSIC) 879 01:05:45.250 --> 01:05:49.750 - (SARA WHISPERS) What a scare! - Never again, huh? 880 01:05:51.666 --> 01:05:57.416 - (Sara) You promised we'd always be together. - It's that damned schedule board. 881 01:05:57.458 --> 01:06:01.791 It's even okay, but it robs us of an important thing, chance. 882 01:06:01.833 --> 01:06:06.333 (Nicola) You're right. You're right. 883 01:06:06.375 --> 01:06:10.291 (Sara) Do you agree because I'm the last person you talked to? 884 01:06:10.333 --> 01:06:12.208 Yes, maybe. (SARA LAUGHS) 885 01:06:14.458 --> 01:06:17.333 (Babysitter) Good evening. 886 01:06:17.375 --> 01:06:20.458 - We've been really fine. - (Sara) Great. 887 01:06:20.500 --> 01:06:24.833 We made a "roached" egg, now they're sleeping peacefully. 888 01:06:24.875 --> 01:06:26.541 I'll take you home. 889 01:06:33.083 --> 01:06:35.583 2 JUNE 2009 - AIRBUS 447 890 01:06:38.250 --> 01:06:41.125 TWIN TOWERS 12 SEPTEMBER 2009 891 01:06:41.166 --> 01:06:43.541 1 MARCH 2019 892 01:06:43.583 --> 01:06:46.125 (Sara) Anna drew our family,... 893 01:06:46.166 --> 01:06:48.916 ..with today's date, but without Pietro. 894 01:06:50.875 --> 01:06:53.875 We're doing things all wrong with her. 895 01:06:58.666 --> 01:07:01.291 Me, with them both. 896 01:07:01.333 --> 01:07:09.500 (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 897 01:07:09.541 --> 01:07:15.750 (Nicola) What would these people's' parents say, seeing them unhappy and tormented? 898 01:07:15.791 --> 01:07:18.416 (Nicola) Would they ever have imagined their kids,... 899 01:07:18.458 --> 01:07:22.833 ..who once ran on grass and skinned their knees on gravel,... 900 01:07:22.875 --> 01:07:28.750 ..would have rotted on Bus 48 to go earn peanuts doing a job they don't love? 901 01:07:30.708 --> 01:07:37.333 (Nicola) What's the sense? What do we want? What do we believe in? 902 01:07:37.375 --> 01:07:43.000 (Nicola) Are we a country, a community? What's the sense of life? 903 01:07:44.375 --> 01:07:46.750 (Nicola) Why do we have kids? 904 01:07:46.791 --> 01:07:49.208 - (Nicola) Careful. - (Man) What? 905 01:07:49.250 --> 01:07:52.541 - (Nicola) Careful. - (Man) What did you say? - Careful! 906 01:07:52.583 --> 01:07:57.250 - (Man) I'll bust your ass. - You'll do what? - I'll bust your ass. 907 01:07:57.291 --> 01:08:00.250 - (Nicola) I don't understand. - (Man) Can't hear? I'll bust your ass. 908 01:08:00.291 --> 01:08:03.250 - (Nicola) You? I'll bust your ass! - (Man) Oh! 909 01:08:03.291 --> 01:08:06.833 - (Man) You'll do what? Repeat that. - (Nicola) No, you'll do what? 910 01:08:06.875 --> 01:08:09.708 - (Nicola) You repeat that. - (Man) Repeat what you said. 911 01:08:09.750 --> 01:08:12.583 - (Man) I said: repeat what you said. - (Nicola) You to me? 912 01:08:12.625 --> 01:08:16.458 - (Nicola) You repeat. - (Man) Oh, no. I'll bust your ass. 913 01:08:16.500 --> 01:08:20.416 (Sara) Conflicts can often be reduced to problems of communication. 914 01:08:20.458 --> 01:08:22.291 (INAUDIBLE WORDS) 915 01:08:22.333 --> 01:08:26.250 (Sara) Communicating is the most difficult thing. 916 01:08:27.916 --> 01:08:31.583 You'll see, when Pietro can talk, you'll become friends. 917 01:08:34.208 --> 01:08:38.416 He'll always protect you and you'll want to protect him. 918 01:08:42.875 --> 01:08:46.000 I saw your drawing of our family. 919 01:08:53.125 --> 01:08:55.250 (crying) Yes, because... 920 01:08:55.291 --> 01:09:00.416 ..if tragedies can really be canceled by drawing... 921 01:09:00.458 --> 01:09:03.000 ..then I canceled him. 922 01:09:12.083 --> 01:09:14.416 Do you trust mommy? 923 01:09:18.625 --> 01:09:22.166 Believe me, you'll soon change your mind about him. 924 01:09:22.208 --> 01:09:26.458 You'll play together, invent fantastic things,... 925 01:09:26.500 --> 01:09:29.875 ..it's easier to make fun of your parents. 926 01:09:29.916 --> 01:09:33.333 You'll be allies against us. 927 01:09:34.750 --> 01:09:37.750 But I'll always find you out. 928 01:09:37.791 --> 01:09:40.958 - I don't think so. - I really do. 929 01:09:41.000 --> 01:09:44.875 - (Anna) No. - (Sara) Yes! - (Anna) No! 930 01:09:46.000 --> 01:09:48.000 Can I have a hug? 931 01:09:56.333 --> 01:10:03.541 (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 932 01:10:03.583 --> 01:10:07.833 (ANNA LAUGHS) 933 01:10:07.875 --> 01:10:13.291 (Nicola) What did you say? Tell me what you said, repeat it. 934 01:10:13.333 --> 01:10:17.291 You won't? Oh, ok. 935 01:10:17.333 --> 01:10:19.125 No, you... 936 01:10:19.166 --> 01:10:22.583 chapter 7 THE CRISIS 937 01:10:22.625 --> 01:10:26.333 (Friend) Aunts, dogs, cousins, grannies, tables piled with food,... 938 01:10:26.375 --> 01:10:28.458 ..it was the enlarged family. 939 01:10:28.500 --> 01:10:32.875 (Friend) A great family network... 940 01:10:32.916 --> 01:10:37.041 (UNINTELLIGIBLE WORDS BY THE FRIEND) 941 01:10:37.083 --> 01:10:39.333 - (Friend) Listening to me? - Sure. 942 01:10:39.375 --> 01:10:44.125 He always does things later. "I'll do it later". 943 01:10:44.166 --> 01:10:47.875 He always has all the world's ills, I never have crap. 944 01:10:51.541 --> 01:10:55.791 I ask him to get something? He can never find it. 945 01:10:55.833 --> 01:10:59.000 It's right under his nose, he can't see it: "It's not here". 946 01:10:59.041 --> 01:11:04.875 Kids expect their parents to be anchors. Careful, this jackass is gonna shoot. 947 01:11:04.916 --> 01:11:08.583 Ow! Eugenio! I'll kill you, by God! 948 01:11:10.916 --> 01:11:12.833 What was I saying? 949 01:11:17.125 --> 01:11:19.333 Disgusting! What is it? 950 01:11:20.583 --> 01:11:21.750 A dormouse. 951 01:11:21.791 --> 01:11:26.250 - What's a dormouse? - A dormouse is a dormouse. 952 01:11:26.291 --> 01:11:30.916 (SUSPENSE MUSIC) 953 01:11:30.958 --> 01:11:34.541 - You eat it? - Except the teeth. 954 01:11:34.583 --> 01:11:45.041 (SUSPENSE MUSIC) 955 01:11:45.083 --> 01:11:47.083 Listen,... 956 01:11:47.125 --> 01:11:50.000 ..I believe we all... 957 01:11:50.041 --> 01:11:54.791 ..have to develop a sense of community. 958 01:11:54.833 --> 01:11:56.250 (SUSPENSE MUSIC) 959 01:11:56.291 --> 01:12:00.416 We have to see that we're united, we're not enemies. 960 01:12:00.458 --> 01:12:02.458 (SUSPENSE MUSIC) 961 01:12:02.500 --> 01:12:05.916 The problem isn't the dormouse,... 962 01:12:05.958 --> 01:12:09.000 ..but this kitchen is in disastrous conditions,... 963 01:12:09.041 --> 01:12:13.083 ..the areas are dirty, the food's preserved badly. 964 01:12:13.125 --> 01:12:17.458 It's not only dangerous, it's also very sad. 965 01:12:17.500 --> 01:12:20.625 (SUSPENSE MUSIC) 966 01:12:28.125 --> 01:12:32.916 Besides, recently my wife's been having a serious problem with her head. 967 01:12:32.958 --> 01:12:34.833 What problem? 968 01:12:36.375 --> 01:12:40.791 - (Nicola) Huh? - Something neurological, she has to do a CAT scan. 969 01:12:40.833 --> 01:12:44.583 - (Nicola) I'm sorry, I didn't know. - (Friend) Happens. 970 01:12:44.625 --> 01:12:47.250 (Nicola) Meaning? 971 01:12:47.291 --> 01:12:51.083 She doesn't see what I do. 972 01:12:51.125 --> 01:12:55.625 She doesn't realize the incredible effort I make at home. 973 01:12:55.666 --> 01:13:00.500 She doesn't acknowledge it, doesn't see it. It's clearly something with the brain. 974 01:13:00.541 --> 01:13:02.958 - Sara, exactly the same. - See? 975 01:13:03.000 --> 01:13:06.708 (Men) - Mine, too. - Mine too, she just criticizes. 976 01:13:06.750 --> 01:13:08.958 (Man) An MRI is a good idea. 977 01:13:09.000 --> 01:13:11.375 (SOUNDS OF PAIN) 978 01:13:11.375 --> 01:13:14.250 See? He shoots! 979 01:13:14.291 --> 01:13:28.708 (CARILLON MUSIC) 980 01:13:28.750 --> 01:13:31.666 (Nicola) I think it's my fault. 981 01:13:31.708 --> 01:13:36.291 For how I was raised, for how my dad was at home. 982 01:13:36.333 --> 01:13:42.083 Maybe I can't keep the pace, although I think I do so much. 983 01:13:42.125 --> 01:13:48.125 Doing "so much" is always compared to an imagined average of fathers who do nothing. 984 01:13:49.375 --> 01:13:53.083 (Nicola) I wasn't raised to take care of others. 985 01:13:55.083 --> 01:13:59.083 - What's your name, sweetie? - Pietro. 986 01:13:59.125 --> 01:14:01.958 What interesting things have you done today? 987 01:14:02.000 --> 01:14:04.958 - We took a walk. - A walk? 988 01:14:05.000 --> 01:14:08.666 You're such a good boy! Where? 989 01:14:08.708 --> 01:14:12.083 - To the park. - You went to the park! 990 01:14:12.125 --> 01:14:14.250 So, you had fun. 991 01:14:16.166 --> 01:14:18.875 He can't talk, he's just a few months old. 992 01:14:18.916 --> 01:14:24.375 - Can't talk, little one? When's your birthday? - (Nicola) No, huh? 993 01:14:24.416 --> 01:14:29.666 (Woman) Did you tell mommy and daddy what cake you want? And the gifts you want? 994 01:14:29.708 --> 01:14:33.583 (Woman) I bet you asked for lots of gifts! (BUSS BELL RINGING) 995 01:14:33.625 --> 01:14:38.458 - The cake will have lots of candles. - No, not many. 996 01:14:38.500 --> 01:14:42.041 - He's not even a year old. - (Woman) Did you tell mum and dad... 997 01:14:42.083 --> 01:14:44.416 Fuck off! 998 01:14:44.458 --> 01:14:47.083 - (Woman) Do you like chocolate? - Oh, yes... 999 01:14:48.041 --> 01:14:50.208 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1000 01:14:50.250 --> 01:14:53.041 (INAUDIBLE WORDS) 1001 01:14:53.083 --> 01:15:01.458 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1002 01:15:01.500 --> 01:15:05.708 - What is it? - I have to tell you something. 1003 01:15:05.750 --> 01:15:07.791 There's another man? 1004 01:15:07.833 --> 01:15:11.000 (CARILLON MUSIC) 1005 01:15:11.041 --> 01:15:15.750 Tuesday's Daniel's birthday, there's a party in a party factory. 1006 01:15:15.791 --> 01:15:20.916 Then a dinner for carnival with the parents of Anna's class. 1007 01:15:20.958 --> 01:15:25.166 It's really important to her and we have to go. 1008 01:15:25.208 --> 01:15:28.083 A dinner for carnival? 1009 01:15:28.125 --> 01:15:31.500 - Yes. - In costume? - Yes. 1010 01:15:31.541 --> 01:15:34.625 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1011 01:15:34.666 --> 01:15:38.166 - Do you love me? - Yes, dammit! 1012 01:15:38.208 --> 01:15:41.250 - You know I don't know? - Don't worry. 1013 01:15:41.291 --> 01:15:44.291 - Sorry, I'm so tired. - It'll pass. 1014 01:15:44.333 --> 01:15:47.833 - It will? - I don't know. 1015 01:15:47.875 --> 01:15:51.583 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1016 01:15:51.625 --> 01:15:54.708 (Sara) All parents suffer a crisis sooner or later. 1017 01:15:54.750 --> 01:16:00.250 (BABY CRYING) 1018 01:16:00.291 --> 01:16:06.833 (UNINTELLIGIBLE WORDS AND SCREAMING) 1019 01:16:06.875 --> 01:16:12.583 (BOY SCREAMING) 1020 01:16:14.375 --> 01:16:15.750 (together) Yes! 1021 01:16:15.791 --> 01:16:18.500 - I want Leticia and Jhun! - Sweetie, they're on vacation. 1022 01:16:18.541 --> 01:16:22.250 - I don't want you, I want them! - Honey, they're in the Philippines. 1023 01:16:22.291 --> 01:16:27.083 (in Filipino language) I don't want you, I want to go to Manila! I want mommy Leticia! 1024 01:16:27.125 --> 01:16:31.833 (THE WOMAN SCREAMS AND THEN SIGHS) 1025 01:16:31.875 --> 01:16:42.458 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1026 01:16:42.500 --> 01:16:44.541 You shit! 1027 01:16:45.750 --> 01:16:52.875 Your son's asking for you and you're here having sex with a no-good Venetian. 1028 01:16:52.916 --> 01:16:56.166 Actually, Samantha's from Friuli. 1029 01:16:56.208 --> 01:16:58.875 (Nicola) We each experience the crisis our own way. 1030 01:16:58.916 --> 01:17:01.916 (Nicola) But all parents have one thing in common. 1031 01:17:01.958 --> 01:17:05.916 (Nicola) In a country where we all hate everyone, at work, in politics,... 1032 01:17:05.958 --> 01:17:07.791 ..in condominium meetings,... 1033 01:17:07.833 --> 01:17:11.166 ..the distress level can be seen by the small things. 1034 01:17:11.208 --> 01:17:15.166 (Nicola) Like the odd, incontestable freedom to use a certain violence... 1035 01:17:15.208 --> 01:17:18.041 ..when cleaning a child's mouth. 1036 01:17:18.083 --> 01:17:23.291 (Nicola) After two swipes, the next one is harsh, violent. 1037 01:17:23.333 --> 01:17:29.625 (Nicola) Fathers, mothers, grandmothers, at the third swipe, pull out a certain anger,... 1038 01:17:29.666 --> 01:17:33.916 ..like saying: "Kid, you're a pain in the ass". 1039 01:17:39.125 --> 01:17:48.041 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 1040 01:17:48.083 --> 01:17:50.000 Whatever we encounter in there,... 1041 01:17:50.041 --> 01:17:53.666 ..we have more chance of survival if we stick together. 1042 01:17:53.708 --> 01:17:55.041 - Okay. - Okay. 1043 01:17:59.041 --> 01:18:01.250 Let's leave, what are we doing here? 1044 01:18:01.291 --> 01:18:05.541 (Anna) Are you crazy? Over my dead body. Let's go. 1045 01:18:05.583 --> 01:18:09.708 - (Nicola) Anna, how about a nice ice cream cone? - No. 1046 01:18:09.750 --> 01:18:11.875 - A fun fair? - No. 1047 01:18:11.916 --> 01:18:16.875 - Euro Disney Paris, we'll leave tonight. - Don't worry Dad, we're here. 1048 01:18:18.458 --> 01:18:22.083 (Nicola) For some mysterious reason... 1049 01:18:22.125 --> 01:18:25.708 ..party factories are always managed by convicted felons. 1050 01:18:25.750 --> 01:18:27.875 Oh! 1051 01:18:28.500 --> 01:18:33.916 (Nicola) There are 300 children in five or six parties playing in different adjacent areas. 1052 01:18:33.958 --> 01:18:39.250 (Nicola) So, for a child to get lost and be kidnapped by one of the delinquents... 1053 01:18:39.291 --> 01:18:42.000 ..is a plausible scenario. 1054 01:18:42.041 --> 01:18:51.666 (KIDS SCREAMING ALL TOGETHER) 1055 01:18:51.708 --> 01:19:04.166 # Happy birthday to you, ecc... # 1056 01:19:04.208 --> 01:19:08.750 - (Man) This was a fucking stupid thing to do. - Anna, You'll get hurt! 1057 01:19:08.791 --> 01:19:13.500 (Man) Friends used to meet over dinner, in clubs,... 1058 01:19:13.541 --> 01:19:17.208 ..now, at the drugstore or places like this. 1059 01:19:17.250 --> 01:19:20.750 - Look! - (Sara) Pay attention, Anna! 1060 01:19:20.791 --> 01:19:24.666 - (Man) What's happened to us? - You're right. 1061 01:19:24.708 --> 01:19:27.000 It's a disaster. 1062 01:19:27.041 --> 01:19:33.750 I think if Italy is at zero growth levels, there must be a reason. 1063 01:19:33.791 --> 01:19:36.750 (Man) Always putting Italians down... 1064 01:19:36.791 --> 01:19:40.166 ..instead they've discovered, before others,... 1065 01:19:40.208 --> 01:19:43.708 ..that having kids is a screw-up. 1066 01:19:44.625 --> 01:19:49.958 We should lay bets on food service and death. 1067 01:19:51.625 --> 01:19:57.458 But the two combined. The key is to destroy ourselves. 1068 01:19:57.500 --> 01:20:00.958 Knock ourselves out with plates of lasagna. 1069 01:20:01.000 --> 01:20:06.125 See that guy? He, before others, understood that principle. 1070 01:20:06.166 --> 01:20:11.166 - Which guy? - That guy. - Which one? - That guy! 1071 01:20:12.000 --> 01:20:16.458 - (Nicola) That's Farinetti! - They're the gurus of our times. 1072 01:20:16.500 --> 01:20:18.750 (Separated father) They see what we don't. inserisci solo (Uomo) 1073 01:20:18.791 --> 01:20:22.375 - Don't you have a deli? - Yeah. 1074 01:20:22.416 --> 01:20:26.875 (Man) Good, he's the father of my daughter's friend, I'll introduce you. 1075 01:20:26.916 --> 01:20:32.083 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 1076 01:20:32.125 --> 01:20:33.958 Shh. Hold still! 1077 01:20:34.000 --> 01:20:37.750 (Farinetti) I understand, you're good. (KIDS SCREAMING ALL TOGETHER) 1078 01:20:37.791 --> 01:20:41.791 - I'll drop by. - We want to grow. (KIDS SCREAMING ALL TOGETHER) 1079 01:20:41.833 --> 01:20:47.416 - (Nicola) Why don't we go outside? I can't hear a thing. - I can't, my daughter's here. 1080 01:20:47.458 --> 01:20:54.208 Come over to Eataly, we can talk. (KIDS SCREAMING AND INAUDIBLE WORDS BY NICOLA) 1081 01:20:54.250 --> 01:20:58.250 - (Farinetti) What? - It's a nightmare. - Eataly is a nightmare? 1082 01:20:58.291 --> 01:21:02.000 It's a horrible thing, emblematic of our times. 1083 01:21:02.041 --> 01:21:09.791 (KIDS SCREAMING ALL TOGETHER) 1084 01:21:09.833 --> 01:21:11.708 (Nicola) Something must have happened. 1085 01:21:11.750 --> 01:21:16.083 Suddenly, his face changed and he walked away. 1086 01:21:16.125 --> 01:21:20.916 There was such a ruckus... But he was nice. 1087 01:21:22.333 --> 01:21:25.541 (Nicola) Want me to push? Huh? 1088 01:21:25.583 --> 01:21:31.250 (Sara) What was it? Let's stick together? (DOGS BARKING) 1089 01:21:46.250 --> 01:22:01.958 (PARTY MUSIC) 1090 01:22:02.000 --> 01:22:05.916 (Pirate) The grill is everything and we owe everything to the grill. 1091 01:22:05.958 --> 01:22:09.250 - (Pirate) Know why? Nicola, right? - Yeah. 1092 01:22:09.291 --> 01:22:13.166 (Pirate) In prehistoric times, Man's huge step was when he started cooking meat. 1093 01:22:13.208 --> 01:22:17.291 Dinner became a moment of sociability, Man's jaw changed... 1094 01:22:17.333 --> 01:22:20.666 ..he no longer had to rip off hunks of meat to nourish himself... 1095 01:22:20.708 --> 01:22:22.541 ..and he started to talk. 1096 01:22:22.583 --> 01:22:24.625 (Pirate) We owe everything to the barbecue. 1097 01:22:24.666 --> 01:22:28.291 (Pirate) Like the lemon tree, if you want it to bear fruit, you have to beat it. 1098 01:22:28.333 --> 01:22:31.458 (Pirate) You start at the base of the trunk and... Pem! Pem! 1099 01:22:31.500 --> 01:22:38.416 Then move up, not all the way obviously, it's too high. Pem! Pem! Pem! Oh? 1100 01:22:38.458 --> 01:22:42.875 Bio is dead, bio doesn't exist, bio my ass. Look. 1101 01:22:43.916 --> 01:22:46.500 - Mommy, I'm thirsty. - (Sara) Yes. 1102 01:22:46.541 --> 01:22:50.166 - Taste these tomatoes, they come from the farm. - I'll eat them later. 1103 01:22:50.208 --> 01:22:53.125 - Just taste. - We've had desert. 1104 01:22:53.166 --> 01:22:55.458 In fact, they're sweet, taste them. 1105 01:22:55.500 --> 01:22:57.750 (PARTY MUSIC) 1106 01:22:57.791 --> 01:23:01.958 - (Nicola) Excuse me. - Good? Don't throw it out. 1107 01:23:02.000 --> 01:23:06.000 (PARTY MUSIC) 1108 01:23:06.041 --> 01:23:09.416 - (Nicola) I'll take him for some air. - (Sara) Better not to. 1109 01:23:09.458 --> 01:23:12.000 - (Nicola) Why? - (Nicola) He's not used to it. 1110 01:23:12.041 --> 01:23:18.666 (PARTY MUSIC) 1111 01:23:18.708 --> 01:23:25.625 (Pirate) 1920, Henry Ford made a car of hemp. 1112 01:23:25.666 --> 01:23:30.708 (Pirate) Steering wheel, dashboard, chassis of hemp. It ran on grain alcohol. 1113 01:23:30.750 --> 01:23:36.291 - Guess what he did? - He smoked it? - No. 1114 01:23:36.333 --> 01:23:40.958 (Pirate) The Americans bought the patent for the fuel and made it disappear. 1115 01:23:41.000 --> 01:23:43.583 - (Nicola) Excuse-me. - (Pirate) Okay. 1116 01:23:43.625 --> 01:23:49.750 (FAINT VOICES) 1117 01:23:49.791 --> 01:24:01.208 (FAINT VOICES AND MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1118 01:24:01.250 --> 01:24:05.583 - (Nicola) Sorry! Where are you going? - (Sara) To breathe. 1119 01:24:05.625 --> 01:24:10.208 (Nicola) Single mother, you go to breathe and toss the kid in the stroller? 1120 01:24:10.250 --> 01:24:13.750 - (Sara) I tossed the kid in the stroller? - (Nicola) Didn't you? 1121 01:24:13.791 --> 01:24:17.166 (Sara) When the crisis appears irreversible, various scenarios open. 1122 01:24:17.208 --> 01:24:21.583 (Nicola) You have no idea what responsibility means. 1123 01:24:21.625 --> 01:24:23.791 (Nicola) You don't know the ones I take on. 1124 01:24:23.833 --> 01:24:26.708 (INAUDIBLE VOICE OF SARA) You don't hear me? Because you never do. 1125 01:24:26.750 --> 01:24:32.041 (INAUDIBLE VOICE OF SARA) You don't hear me! You never listen to me. 1126 01:24:32.083 --> 01:24:35.166 You've never been there, your kids don't know you. 1127 01:24:35.208 --> 01:24:39.208 - (Nicola) That's not true! - (Sara) Reveal yourself! 1128 01:24:39.250 --> 01:24:42.916 I assume my responsibilities but you don't see them,... 1129 01:24:42.958 --> 01:24:46.666 ..there's just you, your mother and the devil take you, sorry, Your Honor. 1130 01:24:46.708 --> 01:24:52.041 You're an amoeba, always on the couch. I don't see you, you're an ectoplasm. 1131 01:24:52.083 --> 01:24:56.500 I DON'T SEE YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T EXIST, GODDAMMIT! 1132 01:24:57.041 --> 01:25:01.375 - (Sara) You don't see me. - (Nicola) You don't see me. - (Sara) I'll jump! 1133 01:25:01.416 --> 01:25:05.166 (Sara) Some don't decide anything and keep arguing,... 1134 01:25:05.208 --> 01:25:09.916 ..raising the temperature higher and ruining their kids' lives. 1135 01:25:09.958 --> 01:25:16.208 (MUSIC OF "SONATA NO. 8 PATHETIQUE" BY BEETHOVEN) 1136 01:25:17.916 --> 01:25:22.458 (Sara) Some decide to return home later and later. 1137 01:25:26.791 --> 01:25:46.125 (SUSPENSE MUSIC) 1138 01:25:46.166 --> 01:25:57.375 (FAINT VOICES) 1139 01:25:57.416 --> 01:26:20.000 (MUSIC OF "QUELLI CHE PROVANO A RESTARE" BY GIULIANO TAVANI & CARMELO TRAVIA) 1140 01:26:20.041 --> 01:26:22.666 THE ADVENTURES OF ALICE IN WONDERLAND 1141 01:26:22.708 --> 01:27:21.875 (MUSIC OF "QUELLI CHE PROVANO A RESTARE" BY GIULIANO TAVANI & CARMELO TRAVIA) 1142 01:27:26.041 --> 01:27:30.208 (Sara) And then, some try to stay. 1143 01:27:31.958 --> 01:27:51.000 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1144 01:27:51.041 --> 01:27:53.708 (Pediatrician) The baby will start to calm down when you do. 1145 01:27:53.750 --> 01:27:56.708 chapter 8 THE LITTLE THINGS 1146 01:27:58.208 --> 01:28:02.375 (Pediatrician) If you're not frustrated, he won't be. 1147 01:28:03.458 --> 01:28:06.250 (Pediatrician) He's what you are,... 1148 01:28:06.291 --> 01:28:09.583 ..and will be what you decide to be. 1149 01:28:09.625 --> 01:28:12.000 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1150 01:28:12.041 --> 01:28:14.708 (Pediatrician) You made him,... 1151 01:28:14.750 --> 01:28:18.625 ..he represents, puts on stage,... 1152 01:28:18.666 --> 01:28:21.375 ..your relationship. 1153 01:28:21.416 --> 01:28:24.833 That's why you must give yourselves peace. 1154 01:28:24.875 --> 01:28:28.083 So, he'll also give you peace. 1155 01:28:28.958 --> 01:28:35.125 (Pediatrician) When you put him to sleep, if you hold him in nervous arms... 1156 01:28:35.166 --> 01:28:38.208 ..because you have to go out or something,... 1157 01:28:38.250 --> 01:28:43.000 ..looking at the time continuously, he won't fall asleep. 1158 01:28:43.041 --> 01:28:47.583 But if you try to breathe, be relaxed,... 1159 01:28:49.083 --> 01:28:54.083 ..even find pleasure in putting him to sleep,... 1160 01:28:54.125 --> 01:28:59.250 ..without counting the minutes, being with him,... 1161 01:28:59.291 --> 01:29:03.333 ..you'll look at him and he'll already be sleeping. 1162 01:29:03.375 --> 01:29:06.416 (Pediatrician) The same thing for the older one. 1163 01:29:08.125 --> 01:29:12.291 (Pediatrician) If you accept the baby, she will too. 1164 01:29:13.500 --> 01:29:18.458 (Pediatrician) You have to move to acceptance, you have to accept him. 1165 01:29:19.750 --> 01:29:24.416 Things can change only if first you accept them. 1166 01:29:25.625 --> 01:29:28.083 (Pediatrician) It's the same for everything. 1167 01:29:28.125 --> 01:29:34.875 (Pediatrician) For your country, your Party, your family. 1168 01:29:34.916 --> 01:29:37.750 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1169 01:29:37.791 --> 01:29:40.583 Learn to accept. 1170 01:29:40.625 --> 01:29:45.416 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1171 01:29:45.458 --> 01:29:47.583 (Pediatrician) Learn to stay. 1172 01:29:47.625 --> 01:29:52.375 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1173 01:30:22.041 --> 01:30:24.791 - (Sara) Thank you. - (Restaurant girl) You're welcome. 1174 01:30:26.083 --> 01:30:31.250 - They're delicious. - (Girl) Thank you. 1175 01:30:33.500 --> 01:30:41.250 I love small things. They're the hardest to do, they speak of care. 1176 01:30:41.291 --> 01:30:47.083 You prove that managing a restaurant with love and care can be done. 1177 01:30:48.500 --> 01:30:51.583 They're the best meatballs in the world. 1178 01:30:52.791 --> 01:30:56.916 I woke with a desire for meatballs this morning. 1179 01:30:56.958 --> 01:30:59.916 - It must be the first cravings. - Because... 1180 01:30:59.958 --> 01:31:04.166 - Yes, I'm pregnant. - Congratulations! - (Girl) Thank you. 1181 01:31:04.208 --> 01:31:07.041 - Is it the first? - The second. 1182 01:31:08.500 --> 01:31:14.625 - I also have two. -What's it like? Can it be managed? 1183 01:31:14.666 --> 01:31:26.666 (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 1184 01:31:26.708 --> 01:31:28.291 Yes, it can. 1185 01:31:28.333 --> 01:31:32.125 (CHEERFUL MUSIC) 1186 01:31:32.166 --> 01:31:33.666 Hi. 1187 01:31:34.833 --> 01:31:38.541 - (Sara) Hi, honey. - Hi, Mommy. (SMACKING KISS) 1188 01:31:38.583 --> 01:31:43.041 - (Nicola) Hi, how are you? - (Sara) Fine, you? - Fine. How were things? 1189 01:31:43.083 --> 01:31:48.291 - (Sara) Fine! The kids? - Great. 1190 01:31:50.500 --> 01:31:55.208 - Did you give Pietro his medicine? - Oh Lord! No. 1191 01:31:55.250 --> 01:31:58.041 (Sara) No matter, I will, where are they? 1192 01:31:58.083 --> 01:32:02.583 - (Nicola) Where are they? - (Sara) I asked that. Looking among the CDs? 1193 01:32:02.625 --> 01:32:05.041 Sorry... 1194 01:32:06.041 --> 01:32:10.833 - Did you buy them? I asked you to buy them, remember? - (Nicola) I'm off. 1195 01:32:10.875 --> 01:32:15.833 - I remember, you said in the afternoon. - (Sara) No, morning. 1196 01:32:15.875 --> 01:32:20.416 We both saw the pediatrician, I shouldn't be the only one to remember. 1197 01:32:20.458 --> 01:32:23.416 (Sara) We both have to remember. (NICOLA GRUMBLES) 1198 01:32:23.458 --> 01:32:25.583 - Don't grumble. - I'm not grumbling. 1199 01:32:25.625 --> 01:32:27.958 - You grumbled. - No! 1200 01:32:28.000 --> 01:32:32.416 - You grumbled. - What a pain! Yes, I grumbled! You know the day I had? 1201 01:32:32.458 --> 01:32:34.291 (Sara) Want to know mine? 1202 01:32:34.333 --> 01:32:39.250 (Nicola) I asked if you wanted to know mine. Should we first talk about yours? 1203 01:32:39.291 --> 01:32:42.666 - (Sara) What did you do today? - (Nicola) The dishwasher, they all saw me. 1204 01:32:42.708 --> 01:32:45.333 - (Sara) Screw you. - (Nicola) You fly right off the handle. 1205 01:32:45.375 --> 01:32:48.500 (Sara) If there's something to do, you always do it later... 1206 01:32:48.541 --> 01:32:51.875 (Nicola) We do things together, we do everything together! 1207 01:32:51.916 --> 01:32:57.041 - (Sara) You do things after I already have. - (Nicola) Why do you do things right away? 1208 01:32:57.083 --> 01:33:18.125 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1209 01:33:18.166 --> 01:34:30.375 (MUSIC OF "FIGLI" BY GIULIANO TAVIANI & CARMELO TRAVIA) 1210 01:34:30.416 --> 01:34:35.833 (MUSIC OF "BE MINE" BY OFENBACH)