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♪ [theme music playing] ♪
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Woman: [through megaphone]
Turn to the center now.
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And then single file.
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Watch your spacing, yeah, yeah.
Okay, good.
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Center.
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Good speed.
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Very nice spacing.
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Ted, hang back a little.
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Get back next to Cindy, Ted.
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Ted!
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Captain: Come on,
give me your best strokes!
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That's the power.
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Together!
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♪ ["Laughter in the Rain"
by Neil Sedaka playing] ♪
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Man: Everything here is
just so positive, so...
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I'm lost for words.
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I don't see the slums. I don't see death and destruction.
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I don't see murders.
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You don't see a lot of children
running around here either.
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Woman: You're not gonna be,
tomorrow,
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the same age you are today.
So think about you.
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Man: You come here to live.
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You don't come here
to pass away.
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You don't need to go
outside the Villages.
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You would never have to leave.
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Woman: Everything
you ever want is here.
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Man 1: Everything is here.
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The restaurants, the golf
course, the tennis courts.
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Man 2: If you try to come off
as, you're "bored",
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then you're full of it, because
they have everything here.
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Man 3: There is no place
like this.
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This is Nirvana.
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All: One, two, three...
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Woo!
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Woman 1:
When you live here, you...
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kind of become younger.
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Woman 2: We have more than
20,000 single people.
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When they become single, whether it's through divorce,
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whether it's through death,
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it's a new awakening.
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It's like a butterfly
coming out of that cocoon.
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Man 1: After the wife passed,
I started night-clubbing.
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I got a second chance
and a second bite at the apple.
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I ran into my new love
of my life.
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And met her on the square
at Spanish Springs.
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From then,
it was the best of times.
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Man 2: I'm not in a hurry,
I'm meeting a lot of people.
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And I know eventually,
I'll meet somebody nice
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to share
the rest of my life with.
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Anne: There are lots of people
that have been married
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a really long time here.
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I'm proud. I'm proud that
we've made it 47 years.
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[speaking in foreign language]
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What does that mean?
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That means, "Time flies
when you're having fun."
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Yeah.
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Hey, everybody.
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Anne: When you move here, it is like going off to college.
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Since nobody's from here,
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everybody can be what they want to be down here.
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Hey, everybody!
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- Larry: Anne, how are you?
- Hey, Larry.
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Reggie: What strikes me is,
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people move here
with the intention
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of having
a happy, healthy life.
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They've been workaholics
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to keep from thinking about
their problems in life.
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[Anne laughs]
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Reggie: They're in a box
with their time.
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Most people are like that.
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Including Anne.
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[laughter]
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Reggie: She's such an athlete,
and she's living her dream.
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[laughter]
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It leaves me alone,
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which is really good
in a lot of cases.
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But then there's days
which I would like to have...
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I'd like to have somebody to pal
around with, you know.
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...the sooner you will start
feeling like yourself again.
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Woman: No, you know what,
I can get through this...
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♪ [drum music playing
over speakers] ♪
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♪ [country music playing
over PA system] ♪
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Barbara: My husband
was getting ready to retire.
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The Villages seemed like
a magical, beautiful place.
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I decided that
I would sell my house
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and we would move down here
and start fresh.
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Man on radio:
If you're looking for fun,
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there's only about 3,000 clubs here in the Villages.
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I mean, gosh, if you can't find something here,
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check your pulse, will you?
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Yeah, well, alright,
here's, for example...
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- [phone ringing]
- Hi, this is Barbara.
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Hi, it's Barbara from
the Villages' Rehab and Nursing.
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How you doing?
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No, it's going to get delivered,
the equipment, to the house...
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But there's one person
for Sunday who needs
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a 20-inch wheelchair
with a cushion.
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Alrighty, thank you.
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♪ [muzak playing
through receiver] ♪
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Barbara:
My mind is always wandering.
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Always wandering to home.
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- To Massachusetts.
- Woman: Hello?
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Yeah, yeah. Oh, sorry. Yep?
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Yes, that's fine.
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Barbara: My savings over the 11
years that I had are gone,
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which would've been
enough to go back.
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I'm just saying, for me,
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it hasn't been the fantasy land
that I thought it would be.
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For reasons that... Some are
true to my own self, you know?
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Oh, my god! [laughs]
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I am sorry. I...
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Fifi! Fifi, please!
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[laughs]
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You'll always remember me, guys!
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Fifi, please stop!
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It's a dominance thing,
honest to God!
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It has nothing to do with sex.
The vet told me.
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♪ [band playing "Blurred Lines"
by Robin Thicke] ♪
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Dennis: The reason I came here
is because I figured
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this would be the last hurrah.
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Where else can you party
seven days a week
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with live entertainment?
It's a great place.
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♪ [woman singing "Pink Cadillac"
by Bruce Springsteen] ♪
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♪ [singing] ♪
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[songs ends]
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- [singer speaking indistinctly]
- [applause]
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Dennis: I came down here
from California
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to meet some wealthy women
and get set up for life.
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I think I'm gonna have to live
in the van
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until I find that woman
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that I'm looking for,
and it's getting close, I think.
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What I'm looking for
is a companion,
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a nice-looking lady
with some money
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that looks good, that I'd be
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not embarrassed
to be seen on the street with.
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And down here, they're rare.
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It's rare to find a classic lady
down here, actually,
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that's really sharp,
but they're out there.
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But you have to find out
where to find them.
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And I've been working the bars,
and that's not working.
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I tried the churches,
and that's not working.
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So then I started hitting
the swimming pools
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a few months ago,
and that works really well.
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[doors creak]
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I just hustle them
and talk to them
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and get them to invite me over for cocktails.
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Then eventually
I can move in with them
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if everything works out
alright.
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It should work.
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♪ ["Let It Snow" by Dean Martin
playing over PA system] ♪
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[costumes jangling]
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♪ [playing
marching band music] ♪
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Man: This place was developed
originally by my father,
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Harold Schwartz,
in the mid '80s.
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When I got here,
there were 800 people.
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And now there's 130,000 so...
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we did something right.
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They're living their
American dream, as we are.
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♪ [theme music playing] ♪
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Man: We needed to create
this place not brand-new.
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We wanted to create it... old.
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[crowd cheering and applauding]
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Man: We decided to bring
the baby boomers
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to a home that they were
familiar with
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when they were young.
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Schwartz:
We're often referred to
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as the "Disney World
for retirees".
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We contacted a company
to design and build
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an old-fashioned town center, the kind we all grew up in.
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And we were taken aback
by their first question.
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"What's your storyline?
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Every town
has a reason for being."
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"That's easy," we said.
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"Our villagers moved here
because they found
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the Fountain of Youth."
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Man: The history here
in the Villages,
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there's a real history,
and then there's the...
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kind of the made-up history.
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Back then, Andrew Jackson
hadn't come down into this area
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and made the Indians mad yet.
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And the local people tried to
replicate the Indian dance.
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And to this very day,
you can still see that dance
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if you go to
the squares at night.
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- Because you see the...
- [laughter]
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You see... They say
white people can't dance,
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but you see them
doing their little hop...
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That's our local prison.
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Man: There's a lot of history
on all the buildings.
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Different stories
that have all been made up
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over a bottle of scotch.
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Anne: When we first moved here,
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it was like being
on vacation every day.
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But it is not the real world.
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We live in a bubble.
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Reggie: [yelling] Yeah!
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With Reggie,
you have to be very open-minded.
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I never know what he's going
to come up with next.
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And you never know what people
are gonna think about it.
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That's the horrible part.
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What her friends
might think about me.
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They think you're unusual.
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[laughs]
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♪ [string music playing] ♪
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Anne: The Villages has given
Reggie an opportunity
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to grow in different ways.
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You tickle, fly, go away.
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[bestial growling]
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Anne: When we got married,
he really was not so unique.
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[chanting]
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Anne: That kind of developed
over the years.
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[grunting]
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Reggie: My whole training
is about ending my life
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with a smile on my face.
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[grunting]
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[exhaling]
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Reggie: Everybody knows they're on the verge of death.
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And people are just
still ignoring it.
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And so, I really like...
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stimulating myself with drugs.
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They get me to a spiritual
place really quickly.
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♪ [chaotic jazz music playing] ♪
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[thunder rumbles]
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Anne: I don't understand it
and I don't like it,
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because I think it's
a dependency on something
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that just is not good for you.
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But I can respect what
he's found
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and what he's looking for.
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[chuckles]
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Hi, my name's Elaine.
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Hi, my name is Elaine.
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All: Elaine is our name.
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Barbara: I think when you live
in the Villages,
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you're acting the part.
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Every day, every night.
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You're part of the fantasy.
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[birdsong]
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Barbara: I will say, it is hard
to be alone in the Villages.
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Paul got diagnosed with a brain tumor in December.
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He went into the hospital
with brain swelling.
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And he never came home.
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I still can't get
my head around it.
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I'm in the fourth month.
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I think it will take time.
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A lot of time.
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- Priest: I, Barbara...
- Barbara: I, Barbara...
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- Priest: Take thee, Paul...
- Barbara: Take thee, Paul...
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Priest: For my lawful husband...
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Barbara:
For my lawful husband...
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Priest: In sickness
and in health...
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Barbara: In sickness
and in health...
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00:19:24,467 --> 00:19:25,816
Priest: To love
and to cherish...
254
00:19:25,990 --> 00:19:27,514
Barbara: To love
and to cherish...
255
00:19:27,775 --> 00:19:29,516
- Priest: Until death...
- Barbara: Until death...
256
00:19:29,690 --> 00:19:30,647
- Priest: So help me God.
- Barbara: So help me God.
257
00:19:30,821 --> 00:19:31,692
Priest: You may kiss your bride.
258
00:19:31,866 --> 00:19:33,433
Barbara: Yeah![laughs]
259
00:19:33,694 --> 00:19:35,739
[cheering and applause]
260
00:19:35,957 --> 00:19:39,090
Priest: Now I get to kiss... I always get the second kiss.
261
00:19:41,136 --> 00:19:42,006
God bless you.
262
00:19:59,502 --> 00:20:00,851
Beautician: So, are you married?
263
00:20:01,635 --> 00:20:03,289
Barbara: I was married,
but he passed away.
264
00:20:04,377 --> 00:20:06,248
Beautician: Mine was passed away
ten year already.
265
00:20:06,466 --> 00:20:07,858
- Barbara: Seriously?
- Woman: Mm-hmm.
266
00:20:08,032 --> 00:20:12,428
I was single,
a widow for eight year.
267
00:20:12,602 --> 00:20:13,864
Oh...
268
00:20:14,082 --> 00:20:15,518
And then I go online,
met another one,
269
00:20:15,692 --> 00:20:18,478
which is my husband,
the new one.
270
00:20:18,695 --> 00:20:20,871
I just re-married about
a year and two months...
271
00:20:21,045 --> 00:20:23,004
- Oh, nice, very nice.
- Yes.
272
00:20:23,831 --> 00:20:25,789
Well, you know,
it's a little soon,
273
00:20:25,963 --> 00:20:27,269
but I'm thinking of the future,
274
00:20:27,443 --> 00:20:29,793
and I'm thinking of myself
looking online.
275
00:20:30,011 --> 00:20:31,795
But it has to be a good site,
it can't be,
276
00:20:31,969 --> 00:20:34,842
like, a match.com
or an e-harmony.
277
00:20:35,016 --> 00:20:37,061
You need to do
what is better for you.
278
00:20:37,236 --> 00:20:39,586
He want you to be happy,
he don't want you to sit there,
279
00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,241
sad and grumpy,
and, like, you know,
280
00:20:42,415 --> 00:20:45,200
"Oh, I miss you."
Yes, he know that you miss him,
281
00:20:45,374 --> 00:20:48,464
but there's nothing he can do.
He up there, you... Like my...
282
00:20:48,638 --> 00:20:51,511
He up there, and you here,
but you have to be strong.
283
00:20:51,772 --> 00:20:54,818
If you ain't gonna be strong,
you ain't gonna make it.
284
00:20:55,210 --> 00:20:58,344
At least you have a job.
You're healthy today.
285
00:20:58,866 --> 00:21:00,737
But whatever you wanna do,
286
00:21:00,911 --> 00:21:02,435
you have to force yourself
to do it.
287
00:21:02,609 --> 00:21:04,219
Nobody gonna be there
to tell you,
288
00:21:04,393 --> 00:21:06,134
"You need to do that,
you need to do that."
289
00:21:15,535 --> 00:21:17,363
Woman: Go on ahead.
I'll open it up for you.
290
00:21:17,928 --> 00:21:18,799
Thank you.
291
00:21:20,670 --> 00:21:22,063
Bye. Have a great day.
292
00:21:24,152 --> 00:21:28,417
This is...This is different than
most gated communities.
293
00:21:28,635 --> 00:21:31,115
Think of this
as a community with gates.
294
00:21:32,203 --> 00:21:36,207
These are all public roads,
so I don't check any IDs.
295
00:21:36,382 --> 00:21:38,906
They are all free
to come as they like.
296
00:21:40,037 --> 00:21:41,082
Good morning!
297
00:21:42,301 --> 00:21:43,737
Have a good day.
298
00:21:44,041 --> 00:21:46,783
Woman: I kind of think of them
as speed bumps.
299
00:21:47,306 --> 00:21:48,176
Hi!
300
00:21:54,574 --> 00:21:56,489
Man on radio:
A perfect day to find
301
00:21:56,663 --> 00:22:00,188
a perfect home for you. Let's hear an open house or two.
302
00:22:00,362 --> 00:22:03,887
Dennis: Somebody found me out or thought they found me out.
303
00:22:04,192 --> 00:22:05,802
I kept seeing this guy
sneaking around
304
00:22:05,976 --> 00:22:07,804
and looking at me
in his golf cart
305
00:22:07,978 --> 00:22:09,240
and over the fence,
and I thought,
306
00:22:09,415 --> 00:22:10,807
"What the hell
is with this guy?"
307
00:22:11,025 --> 00:22:13,419
And then I found
a note on my car, it said,
308
00:22:13,767 --> 00:22:15,246
"I know you don't live here.
309
00:22:15,682 --> 00:22:18,337
"If you want to avoid trouble,
don't come back."
310
00:22:18,946 --> 00:22:20,208
That's what the note said.
311
00:22:21,688 --> 00:22:24,604
♪ [drum music playing] ♪
312
00:22:45,102 --> 00:22:48,410
♪ [theme music playing] ♪
313
00:23:01,945 --> 00:23:04,121
Dennis: So, once in a while,
I need a place to stay at,
314
00:23:04,295 --> 00:23:05,906
but I housesit for people.
315
00:23:06,167 --> 00:23:09,388
Woman: You know what? I own
a villa, and it's not cheap.
316
00:23:09,562 --> 00:23:11,085
Dennis: No kidding. [laughs]
317
00:23:11,259 --> 00:23:13,914
Woman: If you want to rent it,
well, that's okay.
318
00:23:14,088 --> 00:23:16,090
- You sign the contracts and...
- Oh yeah?
319
00:23:16,264 --> 00:23:17,613
- You gonna give me a deal?
- No.
320
00:23:17,787 --> 00:23:19,398
No? Yeah, come on!
321
00:23:19,746 --> 00:23:22,226
- Why would I give you a deal?
- Need a handyman, don't you?
322
00:23:23,402 --> 00:23:24,403
I don't think you're a handyman.
323
00:23:24,577 --> 00:23:25,752
- I'm very good.
- Are you?
324
00:23:25,926 --> 00:23:27,362
- I really am.
- Yeah, that's right.
325
00:23:27,536 --> 00:23:29,495
I did home improvement for
everybody in Cali.
326
00:23:29,669 --> 00:23:31,018
You know, Hollywood people.
327
00:23:31,192 --> 00:23:32,846
- Uh-huh.
- And the Palm Desert...
328
00:23:33,150 --> 00:23:35,501
Cause I was really a good
handyman. I got references.
329
00:23:35,675 --> 00:23:38,025
You know, I did work for
President Ford. Did I tell you?
330
00:23:38,199 --> 00:23:39,287
- No.
- No.
331
00:23:39,505 --> 00:23:41,071
And Barry Manilow,
332
00:23:41,245 --> 00:23:43,291
then Colonel Parker
and Dick Smothers.
333
00:23:43,465 --> 00:23:45,119
- A lot of people.
- I don't care.
334
00:23:47,948 --> 00:23:49,210
Woman: What part of the service?
335
00:23:49,384 --> 00:23:50,472
Uh, National Guard.
336
00:23:50,646 --> 00:23:52,866
National Guard? Okay, alright.
337
00:23:53,083 --> 00:23:56,173
So I did my time.
I did about almost two years.
338
00:23:56,913 --> 00:23:58,915
- Yeah.
- Not quite two years.
339
00:23:59,263 --> 00:24:01,178
- So, I got all my benefits.
- Yeah?
340
00:24:01,352 --> 00:24:02,832
VA and I got GI loans.
341
00:24:03,006 --> 00:24:04,834
What about
girlfriends here for you?
342
00:24:05,008 --> 00:24:06,662
- Well, I've met two or three.
- Have you?
343
00:24:06,836 --> 00:24:07,750
- Yeah.
- Okay.
344
00:24:07,924 --> 00:24:10,013
And they've been disasters.
345
00:24:10,231 --> 00:24:12,973
- They were disasters? [laughs]
- Disasters!
346
00:24:13,147 --> 00:24:14,975
So that's what I'm looking for.
A relationship.
347
00:24:15,149 --> 00:24:16,629
A relationship? Long term?
348
00:24:16,803 --> 00:24:19,196
- Long term.
- With money? [laughs]
349
00:24:19,370 --> 00:24:20,502
How'd you know?
350
00:24:21,024 --> 00:24:23,679
- I read it on your eyes!
- [both laughing]
351
00:24:23,853 --> 00:24:25,594
With money! [laughs]
352
00:24:25,768 --> 00:24:29,163
♪ [muffled music playing] ♪
353
00:24:32,253 --> 00:24:34,734
[insects hissing]
354
00:25:13,860 --> 00:25:17,428
[man speaking indistinctly
on golf cart radio]
355
00:25:18,255 --> 00:25:20,823
♪ [pop music playing] ♪
356
00:25:21,476 --> 00:25:23,739
Woman: You're gonna die.
End of story.
357
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,351
What if your passing
took place right now
358
00:25:27,526 --> 00:25:29,615
at the restaurant?
It does happen.
359
00:25:29,789 --> 00:25:33,314
We're able to meet your needs,
whether it's a simple cremation,
360
00:25:33,793 --> 00:25:35,185
a full burial,
361
00:25:35,664 --> 00:25:38,537
whether you pass away here or on
the other side of the world.
362
00:25:38,711 --> 00:25:41,714
The longer you live,
the more expensive it can be
363
00:25:41,888 --> 00:25:43,846
for your family
when that time comes.
364
00:25:44,064 --> 00:25:46,545
So now's a good time
to start your pre-planning,
365
00:25:46,762 --> 00:25:49,504
because you lock it in
at today's price.
366
00:25:49,722 --> 00:25:52,333
That price is guaranteed to you
and your family
367
00:25:52,507 --> 00:25:54,553
for the rest of your life.
368
00:25:59,993 --> 00:26:01,472
Anne: Today's a special day.
369
00:26:01,647 --> 00:26:05,389
It is Reggie and my
47th wedding anniversary.
370
00:26:07,522 --> 00:26:10,481
I will look for
some anniversary cards
371
00:26:10,699 --> 00:26:12,309
that I've given him before.
372
00:26:15,138 --> 00:26:17,793
I set them out,
kind of as a reminder
373
00:26:17,967 --> 00:26:19,752
of previous anniversaries.
374
00:26:24,321 --> 00:26:26,019
[door opening]
375
00:26:26,236 --> 00:26:27,847
Reggie: Hello...
376
00:26:28,195 --> 00:26:29,631
Anne: Oh, it's you!
377
00:26:29,849 --> 00:26:32,112
- [Reggie sobbing]
- What's wrong?
378
00:26:33,417 --> 00:26:34,331
What?
379
00:26:57,441 --> 00:26:58,442
Anne: Okay.
380
00:26:59,226 --> 00:27:00,183
Okay.
381
00:27:02,446 --> 00:27:04,100
Anne: Happy Anniversary.
382
00:27:08,496 --> 00:27:10,106
I understand. Fine.
383
00:27:11,238 --> 00:27:12,718
Okay. Yeah, I know.
384
00:27:15,677 --> 00:27:16,983
- Bye.
- Alright, bye.
385
00:27:24,381 --> 00:27:25,818
[door closing]
386
00:27:29,517 --> 00:27:32,433
♪ [vibraphone music playing] ♪
387
00:27:40,310 --> 00:27:44,271
Anne: It does bother me that
Reggie's sense of reality
388
00:27:44,488 --> 00:27:49,493
has become even more out there than it has been before.
389
00:27:52,061 --> 00:27:53,846
Reggie: I've been practicing
with this rock.
390
00:27:54,063 --> 00:27:55,499
- Come on, Reggie.
- It won't hurt me.
391
00:27:55,674 --> 00:27:56,805
Come on, stop.
392
00:27:58,067 --> 00:27:59,025
Reggie!
393
00:27:59,765 --> 00:28:02,071
- Stop. Stop.
- I've got the iron body.
394
00:28:05,727 --> 00:28:09,383
Anne: I almost notice it more now that we're in the Villages.
395
00:28:11,733 --> 00:28:12,691
Reggie!
396
00:28:13,126 --> 00:28:15,171
- [mumbling]
- It's weird, stop.
397
00:28:15,345 --> 00:28:16,738
I know it's weird.
398
00:28:19,262 --> 00:28:22,352
Anne: I did take marriage vows
for better or worse.
399
00:28:23,527 --> 00:28:25,747
And I did take that vow
seriously.
400
00:28:38,934 --> 00:28:42,024
I look for ways
that I can handle things.
401
00:28:48,378 --> 00:28:49,945
And how can I help him?
402
00:28:50,119 --> 00:28:52,687
What can I do
to help him get through
403
00:28:52,861 --> 00:28:54,863
what he's going through, also?
404
00:29:00,390 --> 00:29:01,652
[grunts]
405
00:29:07,876 --> 00:29:11,488
[indistinct chatter]
406
00:29:14,753 --> 00:29:17,712
Woman: I would like you to meet
our new person
407
00:29:17,886 --> 00:29:20,584
that is observing us tonight.
408
00:29:20,802 --> 00:29:23,239
So you'd better be good.
Behave yourselves.
409
00:29:23,457 --> 00:29:26,242
So she thinks that
we're real nice.
410
00:29:26,634 --> 00:29:29,115
Alright, Barbara,
would you introduce yourself?
411
00:29:29,289 --> 00:29:30,507
Yes. Sure.
412
00:29:31,117 --> 00:29:32,640
Woman: Stand up and tell us
something about yourself.
413
00:29:32,814 --> 00:29:33,815
Okay...
414
00:29:34,685 --> 00:29:37,688
- I live in Duval right near...
- Woman: Barbara, come up here.
415
00:29:37,863 --> 00:29:39,168
- Oh, no way.
- [doorbell ringing]
416
00:29:39,342 --> 00:29:41,649
Um, I live in Duval,
and I've been here,
417
00:29:41,823 --> 00:29:43,651
it'll be 12 years
on October First.
418
00:29:44,304 --> 00:29:47,350
And unfortunately,
I work full time.
419
00:29:47,524 --> 00:29:48,699
Unfortunately.
420
00:29:48,917 --> 00:29:51,006
- woman Bummer.
- Yep, yep, still do.
421
00:29:51,180 --> 00:29:54,880
And I've heard about Pinky
for a long time,
422
00:29:55,532 --> 00:29:57,447
just off and on
through the years.
423
00:29:57,796 --> 00:29:59,885
And... Very nice things.
424
00:30:00,102 --> 00:30:02,148
And the singles club, and...
425
00:30:03,366 --> 00:30:06,979
- Position! The toes...
- We have a position? Oh.
426
00:30:07,153 --> 00:30:11,070
Yeah, you actually put your...
You're on your toes.
427
00:30:11,244 --> 00:30:13,072
You're sitting up
nice and straight.
428
00:30:13,463 --> 00:30:16,815
All: And one,
and two, and three,
429
00:30:16,989 --> 00:30:21,732
four, five, six, seven, eight.
430
00:30:22,037 --> 00:30:24,300
Yeah, hold it right there.
Seven, eight.
431
00:30:24,474 --> 00:30:26,563
It stays right there
for two counts.
432
00:30:26,781 --> 00:30:31,003
One, and two, and three, four,
five, six, seven, eight.
433
00:30:31,220 --> 00:30:35,921
Two, and two, and three, four,
five, six, seven, eight.
434
00:30:36,269 --> 00:30:37,923
Alrighty then. Alrighty then!
435
00:30:38,097 --> 00:30:40,099
You wanna do this
a few dozen times?
436
00:30:40,664 --> 00:30:45,365
One and two and three, four,
five, six, seven, eight.
437
00:30:45,626 --> 00:30:49,151
♪ [string music playing] ♪
438
00:31:20,226 --> 00:31:21,096
Yay...
439
00:31:22,489 --> 00:31:24,883
Better than the first game,
that's for sure.
440
00:31:43,597 --> 00:31:45,904
Manager: The case manager
communicated with the liaison
441
00:31:46,078 --> 00:31:47,862
that it was taking too long
to get the patients
442
00:31:48,036 --> 00:31:50,430
out of the hospital after
they had discharge orders.
443
00:31:50,821 --> 00:31:52,519
While we were
very fast and responsive
444
00:31:52,693 --> 00:31:54,086
coordinating the admission
445
00:31:54,260 --> 00:31:56,175
and getting the
discharge documents gathered,
446
00:31:56,349 --> 00:31:59,091
we were taking too long to pick
patients up from the hospital.
447
00:31:59,613 --> 00:32:01,397
We addressed this
with our administrator
448
00:32:01,571 --> 00:32:04,357
and found that the solution was
to add another transport van.
449
00:32:05,184 --> 00:32:08,013
♪ [rock and roll
music playing] ♪
450
00:32:11,364 --> 00:32:12,756
Woman on radio:
...male enhancement pill.
451
00:32:12,931 --> 00:32:14,193
Men constantly
reach out and ask me,
452
00:32:14,367 --> 00:32:15,977
"Does Noxitril really work?
453
00:32:16,151 --> 00:32:17,848
Or is it just
another scam product?"
454
00:32:18,023 --> 00:32:20,286
I can tell you, there's nothing better than Noxitril.
455
00:32:20,460 --> 00:32:21,374
I recommend this...
456
00:32:22,375 --> 00:32:24,855
Man on radio: We're gonna have
some fun time music.
457
00:32:25,030 --> 00:32:27,554
We're gonna get you in the mood to get out and party and dance
458
00:32:27,728 --> 00:32:30,774
go to one of the three squares, go somewhere and, well, party.
459
00:32:30,949 --> 00:32:33,342
If you choose to...
You want to stay inside?
460
00:32:33,516 --> 00:32:35,779
We hope you keep
your radio tuned in.
461
00:32:35,954 --> 00:32:37,868
We will keep you
bouncing and jumping around
462
00:32:38,043 --> 00:32:40,045
till at least seven o' clock, and then...
463
00:32:40,349 --> 00:32:41,263
Oh, shit.
464
00:32:53,493 --> 00:32:56,452
Preacher: Can we know
we are saved for certain?
465
00:33:00,369 --> 00:33:02,241
Can we know we're
saved forever?
466
00:33:05,592 --> 00:33:08,160
Can we know
our salvation is secure?
467
00:33:08,421 --> 00:33:10,466
- The answer is "yes". Say it.- Crowd: Yes.
468
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,207
- Preacher: Say "yes".
- Crowd: Yes!
469
00:33:12,381 --> 00:33:15,080
- Preacher: 1,000 times, "yes".
- Crowd: Yes!
470
00:33:18,561 --> 00:33:21,216
Norman: The world is
a pretty scary place.
471
00:33:21,825 --> 00:33:24,089
People want to feel safe.
472
00:33:26,743 --> 00:33:28,441
I have a God.
473
00:33:30,138 --> 00:33:31,487
My God loves me.
474
00:33:32,575 --> 00:33:34,403
He has never let me go hungry.
475
00:33:36,405 --> 00:33:39,191
He has never let me go
without clothes.
476
00:33:40,105 --> 00:33:43,021
He has always provided me
with a bed to lay down in.
477
00:33:43,673 --> 00:33:47,112
He has always provided me
with a way to pay my debts,
478
00:33:47,851 --> 00:33:51,551
and has never let me get in
bad financial trouble.
479
00:33:52,769 --> 00:33:55,294
[indistinct chatter]
480
00:33:57,035 --> 00:34:00,212
Listen, I hate to hear that
you're sleeping in a car...
481
00:34:00,386 --> 00:34:02,214
No, that's what I'm working on.
482
00:34:02,518 --> 00:34:05,652
Yeah. I've got some
places to go. Yeah.
483
00:34:31,852 --> 00:34:33,941
Elaine: Oh, you got
a golf course there!
484
00:34:34,159 --> 00:34:35,290
Realtor: Yep.
485
00:34:35,508 --> 00:34:37,031
Elaine: Hmm,
that looks really nice.
486
00:34:37,205 --> 00:34:38,859
Realtor: I love the palm trees.
487
00:34:39,033 --> 00:34:40,991
- Elaine: Yeah, I do too.
- Realtor: Love the palm trees.
488
00:34:41,209 --> 00:34:44,256
I mean, I bet you we're
at 40 to 50 palm trees.
489
00:34:44,430 --> 00:34:46,345
Yeah, this is
the most palm trees
490
00:34:46,519 --> 00:34:48,042
I have ever seen in my life.
491
00:34:48,216 --> 00:34:50,088
- She likes palm trees.
- I love palm trees.
492
00:34:50,262 --> 00:34:52,525
There's just something
about them.
493
00:34:52,699 --> 00:34:55,310
Yeah, and it's really nice
looking all the way down
494
00:34:55,484 --> 00:34:57,225
and seeing the other houses.
495
00:34:57,399 --> 00:35:00,881
And I like getting up every
morning and being able to say,
496
00:35:01,099 --> 00:35:04,319
"It's going to be the same way,
from house to house."
497
00:35:04,493 --> 00:35:05,842
Realtor: Today,
as it is tomorrow,
498
00:35:06,016 --> 00:35:07,192
as next year,
as in five years.
499
00:35:07,366 --> 00:35:08,628
- Or ten years.
- Realtor: In ten years.
500
00:35:08,802 --> 00:35:10,020
Or 20 years.
501
00:35:16,549 --> 00:35:19,204
[thunder rumbling]
502
00:35:28,735 --> 00:35:31,433
Reggie: Hello everybody
that's been following me
503
00:35:31,607 --> 00:35:33,740
on my transformation videos.
504
00:35:33,914 --> 00:35:39,398
I need your help, I got
arrested for a silly thing.
505
00:35:39,572 --> 00:35:42,836
I'm just gonna look at it as
a silly thing and keep it light.
506
00:35:43,010 --> 00:35:45,055
I gotta go to court Tuesday,
507
00:35:45,839 --> 00:35:49,408
and I'm a little bit
puzzled about it.
508
00:35:49,625 --> 00:35:50,626
I had...
509
00:35:51,453 --> 00:35:52,541
six little...
510
00:35:54,587 --> 00:35:58,634
Not even...
Maybe two grams of THC.
511
00:35:58,808 --> 00:36:02,334
And I had about five dollars' worth of cocaine,
512
00:36:02,508 --> 00:36:05,598
which, obviously, I forgot.
[chuckles]
513
00:36:05,815 --> 00:36:09,254
And obviously, I don't use cocaine, I just...
514
00:36:09,515 --> 00:36:13,040
A guy gave it to me at a party.
515
00:36:22,397 --> 00:36:25,357
[windshield wipers beating]
516
00:36:30,362 --> 00:36:31,624
[car horn honking]
517
00:36:33,234 --> 00:36:35,193
Man: Anne, I've seen Reggie
on YouTube.
518
00:36:36,455 --> 00:36:39,458
You've got people going,
"What in the world?"
519
00:36:40,459 --> 00:36:44,245
Anne: This situation, I still
don't know what happened.
520
00:36:44,811 --> 00:36:45,855
I don't understand it.
521
00:36:46,726 --> 00:36:50,208
And it was very scary. Um...
522
00:36:51,209 --> 00:36:54,908
Especially when he,
in my opinion,
523
00:36:55,082 --> 00:36:57,215
didn't understand
the gravity of it.
524
00:36:57,389 --> 00:37:00,261
- So how do you deal with that?
- You just kind of accept it.
525
00:37:00,435 --> 00:37:02,481
That's not a good answer,
you know that, Anne.
526
00:37:02,655 --> 00:37:03,960
[laughs] Um...
527
00:37:04,526 --> 00:37:06,920
- That's what I've had to do.
- I understand that.
528
00:37:07,137 --> 00:37:09,488
You wonder,
"What am I doing here?"
529
00:37:09,662 --> 00:37:13,143
I can see asking myself that.
"What am I..." Wow!
530
00:37:13,709 --> 00:37:15,145
"What am I doing here?"
531
00:37:16,059 --> 00:37:17,800
'Cause I feel like
I'm overwhelmed,
532
00:37:17,974 --> 00:37:19,672
having to deal with somebody
533
00:37:19,846 --> 00:37:21,717
who doesn't think
they have a problem,
534
00:37:21,935 --> 00:37:24,981
and doesn't understand
how it impacts other people.
535
00:37:25,155 --> 00:37:26,026
Yeah.
536
00:37:26,983 --> 00:37:29,986
[thunder crackling]
537
00:37:30,422 --> 00:37:33,686
So my alternative is,
I either leave or I stay.
538
00:37:33,860 --> 00:37:35,165
Mm-hmm. Right, exactly.
539
00:37:35,557 --> 00:37:37,472
And if I stay, I have to
figure out how to handle it.
540
00:37:37,646 --> 00:37:38,778
Right.
541
00:37:39,344 --> 00:37:42,651
And so that's what I'm trying
to do, because I'm not
542
00:37:42,869 --> 00:37:45,393
to the point of saying,
"This is..."
543
00:37:45,567 --> 00:37:47,656
- Yeah. Totally understand.
- Yeah.
544
00:37:48,875 --> 00:37:52,008
What makes a relationship work?
545
00:37:52,182 --> 00:37:54,010
You're the psychologist!
[laughs]
546
00:37:54,184 --> 00:37:56,230
I don't have the answers.
You got the answers.
547
00:37:56,404 --> 00:37:58,232
- No, I don't.
- They're in you.
548
00:38:10,636 --> 00:38:12,202
Instructor: Who am I?
549
00:38:14,204 --> 00:38:15,945
Who am I?
550
00:38:17,164 --> 00:38:19,166
[shouting] Who am I?
551
00:38:21,386 --> 00:38:23,649
Hurrah! Hurrah!
552
00:38:23,823 --> 00:38:25,041
Go!
553
00:38:28,828 --> 00:38:31,874
[applause, cheering]
554
00:38:36,575 --> 00:38:41,144
What do you want to get
from this class?
555
00:38:42,145 --> 00:38:43,973
Are you here to get out
for the night
556
00:38:44,147 --> 00:38:46,759
and have some fun
and talk to people?
557
00:38:47,455 --> 00:38:52,286
Or are you here to really
develop as an actor?
558
00:38:53,069 --> 00:38:55,768
Be the character,
feel the emotion?
559
00:38:58,901 --> 00:39:00,686
And live another life?
560
00:39:02,340 --> 00:39:06,082
Woman: I... I just...
I don't know who I am.
561
00:39:06,256 --> 00:39:08,520
I used to be beautiful.
562
00:39:09,477 --> 00:39:10,783
Nothing else.
563
00:39:11,392 --> 00:39:15,265
And now, look at me.
I'm nothin'.
564
00:39:17,006 --> 00:39:19,444
You're not nothin',
you're beautiful.
565
00:39:19,748 --> 00:39:22,316
Otherwise, I suggest
you pick up a weapon
566
00:39:22,490 --> 00:39:24,013
and stand at post.
567
00:39:24,710 --> 00:39:26,451
Either way, I don't give a damn
568
00:39:26,625 --> 00:39:28,366
what you think
you're entitled to!
569
00:39:28,540 --> 00:39:29,410
Instructor: Better!
570
00:39:29,628 --> 00:39:33,414
[cheering, applause]
571
00:39:34,807 --> 00:39:35,938
Instructor: Who's next?
572
00:39:36,678 --> 00:39:38,288
Who would like to go next?
573
00:39:43,511 --> 00:39:46,906
♪ [music playing distantly] ♪
574
00:39:53,347 --> 00:39:56,568
♪ [drum beating ominously] ♪
575
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,414
[pulls handbrake]
576
00:40:24,683 --> 00:40:28,164
♪ [vibraphone music playing] ♪
577
00:40:30,950 --> 00:40:32,081
Dennis: Hey, good morning, Leo.
578
00:40:32,430 --> 00:40:33,648
Dennis Dean.
579
00:40:33,909 --> 00:40:35,824
Just giving you a call,
and I missed you.
580
00:40:35,998 --> 00:40:38,000
So gimme a call
when you get the message.
581
00:40:38,174 --> 00:40:40,002
Look, I need to talk to you.
Thank you.
582
00:40:40,176 --> 00:40:41,743
Yeah, Norman Lee,
this is Dennis Dean.
583
00:40:41,961 --> 00:40:43,397
I haven't seen you for a while.
584
00:40:43,615 --> 00:40:46,487
The guy from California?
Good. I'm not doing good.
585
00:40:46,705 --> 00:40:48,489
Hey Greg.
Dennis, how you doing?
586
00:40:48,663 --> 00:40:50,056
Greg: Yeah, okay, what's up?
587
00:40:50,230 --> 00:40:52,232
Well, I got into some trouble
last night.
588
00:40:52,450 --> 00:40:53,581
- Yeah?
- Dennis: Yeah.
589
00:40:53,799 --> 00:40:55,975
I got in trouble
with the law last night,
590
00:40:56,149 --> 00:40:58,281
and they caught up with me,
'cause I'm kind of like
591
00:40:58,456 --> 00:41:00,849
a fugitive on the run
from California.
592
00:41:01,284 --> 00:41:04,026
A DUI in California costs
20- to 30,000 dollars,
593
00:41:04,244 --> 00:41:06,376
and I said, "I'm out of here,"
so I left the state.
594
00:41:06,594 --> 00:41:08,553
The cops spotted me by my van,
595
00:41:08,727 --> 00:41:10,946
and so they asked me
for my driver's license,
596
00:41:11,164 --> 00:41:13,166
and the cops said,
"You can't be sleeping
597
00:41:13,383 --> 00:41:15,298
on the property
of the Villages in that van."
598
00:41:15,473 --> 00:41:17,170
Now they know my number,
so anyway,
599
00:41:17,344 --> 00:41:19,955
I'm just calling to tell you
and see if you have any advice
600
00:41:20,129 --> 00:41:22,871
or if he could help me out any
way, 'cause I'm kinda desperate
601
00:41:23,393 --> 00:41:25,308
for a place to stay
and transportation.
602
00:41:25,483 --> 00:41:27,267
I need to stay at your place
603
00:41:27,441 --> 00:41:29,269
and that'd be for a couple...
Three weeks, a month,
604
00:41:29,443 --> 00:41:31,576
till I move in
with one of these chicks.
605
00:41:31,750 --> 00:41:34,404
Some money for a car, maybe,
or a scooter.
606
00:41:34,579 --> 00:41:36,319
You know, 1,000 dollars,
probably.
607
00:41:36,537 --> 00:41:38,844
Probably about 3,000, yeah.
608
00:41:48,984 --> 00:41:49,811
Dennis: Oh. Yeah.
609
00:41:50,464 --> 00:41:52,684
I'm just about ready
to call it quits.
610
00:41:52,858 --> 00:41:57,210
This is the last hurrah, and so,
if I don't make it in Florida,
611
00:41:57,384 --> 00:41:59,168
I guess I might as well
check out.
612
00:41:59,691 --> 00:42:01,083
You know, it's not good.
613
00:42:03,869 --> 00:42:06,219
You know, have to,
you know, drop dead.
614
00:42:08,700 --> 00:42:10,615
Busy. Another busy.
615
00:42:14,749 --> 00:42:15,663
Mm.
616
00:42:19,711 --> 00:42:21,539
I said from the get-go
617
00:42:21,713 --> 00:42:24,977
that I wanted to live fast,
love hard and die poor.
618
00:42:27,370 --> 00:42:29,764
And I'm right there now,
I'm poor.
619
00:42:30,765 --> 00:42:33,202
[thunder rumbling]
620
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:12,285
♪ [the Villages' jingle
playing on PA system] ♪
621
00:43:17,072 --> 00:43:21,076
Are you a worrier?
Or are you a warrior?
622
00:43:21,511 --> 00:43:23,949
Do you lose your head
at the drop of a hat?
623
00:43:24,166 --> 00:43:26,778
Bam! Do you got
relationship problems?
624
00:43:26,995 --> 00:43:27,909
Bam!
625
00:43:28,257 --> 00:43:30,303
You got money problems,
buzzam!
626
00:43:30,956 --> 00:43:33,698
Or are you a warrior?
Can you take it in stride?
627
00:43:33,915 --> 00:43:37,092
Do you got enough faith? Is your
faith strong enough to combat,
628
00:43:37,266 --> 00:43:39,442
to beat down the devil
and his worry-problems?
629
00:43:39,617 --> 00:43:43,098
And we learned in Matthew Six
that Jesus tells us,
630
00:43:43,316 --> 00:43:45,274
"Do not worry."
631
00:43:45,448 --> 00:43:48,887
In other words, if you worry,
you simply do not trust God.
632
00:43:49,714 --> 00:43:51,280
[Reggie sighing]
633
00:43:52,107 --> 00:43:54,327
Reggie: Most important
day of my life.
634
00:43:54,544 --> 00:43:56,503
And here I am, nervous.
635
00:43:57,896 --> 00:44:00,115
I like the judge a lot.
636
00:44:02,596 --> 00:44:04,859
And today, I'm gonna
let him know
637
00:44:05,033 --> 00:44:07,079
that I like him
and I appreciate him.
638
00:44:07,732 --> 00:44:11,257
And... And now, if I come to it,
639
00:44:11,431 --> 00:44:13,955
I will tell him, "Go ahead
and put me in jail, Judge."
640
00:44:14,129 --> 00:44:15,478
Anne: Why would you do that?
641
00:44:15,653 --> 00:44:17,785
Reggie: There's nothing
they can do to me.
642
00:44:18,394 --> 00:44:19,744
Put me in jail.
643
00:44:19,961 --> 00:44:23,704
I'll just teach them Tai Chi
and lose weight.
644
00:44:23,878 --> 00:44:25,532
I told you that before.
645
00:44:25,706 --> 00:44:27,795
Do you not think
that you should just...
646
00:44:29,101 --> 00:44:32,321
not bring up contentious things
647
00:44:32,539 --> 00:44:36,499
while we're trying to get you
the best result we can here?
648
00:44:36,674 --> 00:44:39,154
I'd like for him to give me
all my money back.
649
00:44:39,328 --> 00:44:43,637
I've spent 2,000 dollars for
20 dollars' worth of marijuana.
650
00:44:43,811 --> 00:44:46,074
- Wanna hear my plan for you?
- Reggie: Yeah.
651
00:44:46,292 --> 00:44:47,467
Anne: Okay.
652
00:44:47,815 --> 00:44:51,514
My plan is that you wait for him
to say something
653
00:44:51,732 --> 00:44:53,734
and that you answer...
654
00:44:53,908 --> 00:44:56,563
Reggie: I just said that.
That's what I was gonna do.
655
00:44:56,737 --> 00:44:58,913
- I just said that!
- As short an answer as you can.
656
00:44:59,087 --> 00:45:01,350
- I just said that!
- Very respectfully.
657
00:45:02,569 --> 00:45:04,919
- Good luck.
- Okay. "Good luck"!
658
00:45:05,093 --> 00:45:06,355
- [laughs]
- You're going with me!
659
00:45:06,529 --> 00:45:08,053
You're my good luck!
660
00:45:10,272 --> 00:45:11,709
Alright, you got it.
661
00:45:17,889 --> 00:45:20,152
Judge: Mr. Kincer, we've talked
about this before, but you
662
00:45:20,326 --> 00:45:22,632
understand you have a right to
have an attorney represent you.
663
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:26,027
Yessir.
664
00:45:27,725 --> 00:45:29,814
Everyone should always have
an attorney representing them.
665
00:45:32,468 --> 00:45:34,253
Well, an attorney
would tell you not to,
666
00:45:34,427 --> 00:45:36,124
but you have a right
to speak in court.
667
00:45:47,832 --> 00:45:49,964
But you gotta understand,
if you come in
668
00:45:50,138 --> 00:45:51,792
and contest something, um,
669
00:45:52,053 --> 00:45:53,489
we'll just set it for trial...
670
00:45:55,317 --> 00:45:56,275
And there's...
671
00:46:02,629 --> 00:46:03,891
What I don't like
is when someone
672
00:46:04,065 --> 00:46:05,066
gets smart alec in court.
673
00:46:06,459 --> 00:46:09,592
And I don't know why
you've decided to act this way.
674
00:46:10,724 --> 00:46:13,118
I've been very polite to you,
and I'm not trying to judge...
675
00:46:14,249 --> 00:46:17,035
- Sir, please. Sir, please.
- I just...
676
00:46:17,209 --> 00:46:19,777
Sir, we're about to change this
into something
677
00:46:19,951 --> 00:46:21,822
where you're
possibly gonna go to jail.
678
00:46:21,996 --> 00:46:24,085
You're charged with
possession of...
679
00:46:24,694 --> 00:46:26,435
Am I correct?
Possession of cocaine?
680
00:46:30,396 --> 00:46:32,137
Yes sir, well,
that's against the law.
681
00:46:33,268 --> 00:46:35,575
And just so you know,
this is being recorded,
682
00:46:35,749 --> 00:46:39,405
so when we go for trial, that
will be presented to the jury.
683
00:46:39,579 --> 00:46:41,059
You can understand now
684
00:46:41,233 --> 00:46:42,669
you're probably gonna get
convicted at trial.
685
00:46:42,843 --> 00:46:45,367
A jury hears that.
You now confessed to the crime.
686
00:46:45,846 --> 00:46:49,807
Alright, you need to get
an attorney to represent you...
687
00:46:58,206 --> 00:46:59,033
Well, and...
688
00:47:02,863 --> 00:47:04,125
Sir, I've been doing this
a long time...
689
00:47:06,606 --> 00:47:08,347
You're probably the rudest
person I've ever had in court,
690
00:47:08,521 --> 00:47:09,783
I can tell you that,
691
00:47:10,479 --> 00:47:11,959
and I've dealt with murderers,
rapists, and everything else.
692
00:47:12,133 --> 00:47:14,440
They are much more respectful
in court than you are.
693
00:47:21,316 --> 00:47:23,318
I've told you once and I've
told you too many times,
694
00:47:23,492 --> 00:47:25,973
you are the rudest person
I have ever dealt with.
695
00:47:26,147 --> 00:47:28,802
You certainly do not understand
what you're here about,
696
00:47:28,976 --> 00:47:31,196
and certainly don't understand
the ramifications
697
00:47:31,370 --> 00:47:33,024
of what's going
to happen to you.
698
00:47:36,636 --> 00:47:39,508
[Reggie and Anne
arguing indistinctly]
699
00:47:56,134 --> 00:48:00,486
♪ [band playing "Don't Know
Why" by Norah Jones] ♪
700
00:48:11,497 --> 00:48:13,716
Anne: I don't think
he's gonna change,
701
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,503
therefore I'm not in conflict about, "How do I change him?"
702
00:48:19,897 --> 00:48:22,551
Then I have to decide
what I'm gonna do about it.
703
00:48:24,031 --> 00:48:27,252
Because I can only really be
responsible for me.
704
00:48:34,215 --> 00:48:36,478
[singer speaking indistinctly]
705
00:48:36,826 --> 00:48:38,567
Singer: Get home safe!
706
00:48:38,872 --> 00:48:42,397
♪ [band playing "Boogie Oogie
Oogie" by A Taste of Honey] ♪
707
00:49:00,372 --> 00:49:04,550
- [music stops]
- [applause]
708
00:49:20,914 --> 00:49:24,222
[golf cart horns honking]
709
00:49:45,983 --> 00:49:47,506
Lynn: So,
what we're gonna do is
710
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:49,595
we're gonna work at
putting this roof down.
711
00:49:49,769 --> 00:49:51,858
Somebody told me one time
they heard it took a half-hour
712
00:49:52,032 --> 00:49:53,773
to put a Street Rod roof down.
713
00:49:53,947 --> 00:49:56,428
Well, if you help me, I think
we can do it a little faster.
714
00:49:56,602 --> 00:49:58,996
- Lift that up. Push that down.
- [Barbara laughs]
715
00:49:59,344 --> 00:50:01,346
And push this down here.
716
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:03,826
- Oh for God's...
- Pull this over.
717
00:50:04,001 --> 00:50:06,481
- Now, was that a half-hour?
- Uh, no.
718
00:50:06,655 --> 00:50:07,787
Sit down.
719
00:50:09,310 --> 00:50:12,009
- So how does the seat feel?
- It feels very nice.
720
00:50:12,226 --> 00:50:13,749
- Comfortable?
- Very comfortable.
721
00:50:13,923 --> 00:50:15,795
- Where are you from?
- Different than the one I had.
722
00:50:15,969 --> 00:50:17,188
- Boston.
- Boston!
723
00:50:17,362 --> 00:50:18,624
- Where are you from?
- Michigan.
724
00:50:18,798 --> 00:50:20,713
- Ah!
- Now that I'm in the Villages,
725
00:50:20,887 --> 00:50:23,237
you know,
I'm what they call a "frog".
726
00:50:24,412 --> 00:50:25,587
What's a frog?
727
00:50:26,197 --> 00:50:28,808
- I'm here till I croak.
- Oh, okay!
728
00:50:37,469 --> 00:50:40,646
The golf cart salesman today
was extremely nice.
729
00:50:40,820 --> 00:50:42,474
He was tall, like Paul.
730
00:50:42,909 --> 00:50:44,824
We had a very nice rapport,
731
00:50:44,998 --> 00:50:46,391
very nice rapport.
732
00:50:46,695 --> 00:50:48,828
And I think that if something
were to happen
733
00:50:49,002 --> 00:50:50,699
naturally like that...
734
00:50:51,874 --> 00:50:54,181
It would almost be better
than saying,
735
00:50:54,355 --> 00:50:56,444
"Oh, I'm over here,
maybe looking for..."
736
00:50:56,662 --> 00:50:58,751
You know, not looking for love
or a relationship,
737
00:50:58,925 --> 00:51:00,709
- but trying to meet people.
- Hairdresser: Yeah.
738
00:51:00,883 --> 00:51:03,364
He talked
a lot about margaritas.
739
00:51:03,538 --> 00:51:05,801
Most of the people don't know
my name is Lynn.
740
00:51:05,975 --> 00:51:07,629
They know me as
the "Margarita Man."
741
00:51:07,803 --> 00:51:09,327
I'll be down in the square
and somebody yells,
742
00:51:09,501 --> 00:51:11,024
"The Margarita Man!"
And I'll wave at 'em.
743
00:51:11,198 --> 00:51:13,461
- Oh, for God's sakes!
- I don't know who they are.
744
00:51:13,766 --> 00:51:15,855
A lot of people know me because
of the margaritas I give away.
745
00:51:16,029 --> 00:51:17,204
That's nice.
746
00:51:17,509 --> 00:51:18,727
I mean, he talked a lot
about margaritas.
747
00:51:18,901 --> 00:51:20,251
He likes to drink, huh?
748
00:51:20,816 --> 00:51:22,992
Well, I think it's because he
belongs to the Parrothead Club.
749
00:51:23,167 --> 00:51:25,473
I think he's a big member
of the Parrothead Club,
750
00:51:25,647 --> 00:51:26,909
Jimmy Buffett.
751
00:51:27,519 --> 00:51:29,651
I guess he sounds like he's one
of the ones in charge of it,
752
00:51:29,825 --> 00:51:32,132
- all the fun times.
- Uh-huh.
753
00:51:32,306 --> 00:51:35,004
He's in charge of bringing
the margaritas.
754
00:51:35,309 --> 00:51:38,356
And he was telling me,
and this was funny, that he has
755
00:51:38,530 --> 00:51:41,533
two commercial-size blenders.
756
00:51:41,794 --> 00:51:44,405
And the problem with one is,
after about five gallons,
757
00:51:44,710 --> 00:51:46,277
it overheats, so... [laughs]
758
00:51:46,451 --> 00:51:48,496
- Barbara: Five gallons? God!
- Five gallons.
759
00:51:48,670 --> 00:51:51,543
I don't know what that means,
"commercial-size". Must be big,
760
00:51:51,934 --> 00:51:53,284
because when his daughter
761
00:51:53,458 --> 00:51:55,677
gave him a margarita mixer
at Christmas,
762
00:51:56,113 --> 00:51:57,984
he was very nice
to his daughter, he said,
763
00:51:58,158 --> 00:51:59,333
"Michelle,
this is a great present,
764
00:51:59,507 --> 00:52:00,943
but you have to understand,
765
00:52:01,553 --> 00:52:04,730
I make margaritas by the gallon.
This makes them by the glass."
766
00:52:04,904 --> 00:52:06,775
I haven't had a margarita
for a long time.
767
00:52:07,385 --> 00:52:09,604
- We can fix that.
- Okay! [laughs]
768
00:52:09,778 --> 00:52:12,041
- Okay, I'm fine with that.
- That was easy!
769
00:52:12,216 --> 00:52:13,739
Yeah, that was fine.
770
00:52:14,218 --> 00:52:16,002
I was test-driving
the golf cart...
771
00:52:17,134 --> 00:52:18,570
So, you say I have
a gift of gab?
772
00:52:18,744 --> 00:52:21,790
Yeah, but a good gift of gab.
It's a good one.
773
00:52:21,964 --> 00:52:24,141
And my hair was
all over my face,
774
00:52:24,315 --> 00:52:26,012
'cause I didn't have
my sunglasses on.
775
00:52:26,186 --> 00:52:28,188
And he took his hat off
and he put it on me.
776
00:52:28,362 --> 00:52:29,624
And that was just... He said,
777
00:52:29,798 --> 00:52:31,148
"My God,
your hair's all over you."
778
00:52:31,322 --> 00:52:33,237
So I said,
"Yeah, I can see that."
779
00:52:33,585 --> 00:52:37,110
So, you know, I could always go
to a Parrothead meeting,
780
00:52:37,415 --> 00:52:38,981
or one of their parties,
781
00:52:39,156 --> 00:52:40,722
'cause they have 'em
probably every month.
782
00:52:40,896 --> 00:52:42,463
- Hairdresser: Mm-hmm.
- And just check it out.
783
00:53:03,615 --> 00:53:04,398
Dennis: Yeah.
784
00:53:05,007 --> 00:53:06,052
Who's this?
785
00:53:06,705 --> 00:53:09,577
Norman: Isaiah, up!
Watch! Guys! Look!
786
00:53:10,012 --> 00:53:11,579
Dennis: Oh here's...
The story is...
787
00:53:11,753 --> 00:53:14,669
Yeah, I'm right now
with Norman Lee at his church.
788
00:53:14,843 --> 00:53:16,541
Norman: Isaiah! Up! Up!
789
00:53:16,758 --> 00:53:18,543
Dennis: He's gonna help me out
with some stuff.
790
00:53:20,936 --> 00:53:22,024
Norman: Good boy!
791
00:53:22,503 --> 00:53:23,461
Good boy!
792
00:53:24,897 --> 00:53:26,203
Good boy.
793
00:53:26,420 --> 00:53:27,987
Hey, Dennis!
I think we have your ride!
794
00:53:28,161 --> 00:53:29,336
Dennis: [laughs] Yeah!
795
00:53:30,032 --> 00:53:31,686
Ninety percent
of the weddings I've done,
796
00:53:31,860 --> 00:53:33,340
everybody's been
over 70 years old.
797
00:53:33,514 --> 00:53:35,429
- Sure, yeah. Wow.
- I mean hundreds of them.
798
00:53:35,603 --> 00:53:37,692
And it's wonderful for people
to find love again...
799
00:53:37,866 --> 00:53:38,998
Oh, yeah.
800
00:53:39,172 --> 00:53:40,869
...in the twilight
of their years.
801
00:53:41,043 --> 00:53:43,002
And so, you're no different
than anybody else.
802
00:53:43,176 --> 00:53:44,395
- Yeah.
- You know.
803
00:53:44,699 --> 00:53:46,875
- If you can find...
- The right person.
804
00:53:47,049 --> 00:53:48,921
When you find a good woman,
it shows.
805
00:53:49,095 --> 00:53:51,053
- Yeah.
- Or if you find a good man,
806
00:53:51,228 --> 00:53:53,012
- you know who it is.
- yeah.
807
00:53:53,491 --> 00:53:55,101
I've been single
most of my life,
808
00:53:55,319 --> 00:53:58,235
and I've met a lot of bad women.
I've had bad experiences.
809
00:53:58,409 --> 00:54:00,367
[laughs] Well,
you're not the only one.
810
00:54:00,541 --> 00:54:01,977
- No, no.
- You know, I was young,
811
00:54:02,151 --> 00:54:04,632
I played on the road,
and we did crazy things.
812
00:54:04,806 --> 00:54:07,418
But you can't have
the flavor of the week
813
00:54:07,635 --> 00:54:10,638
when you're 81 years old.
You kinda gotta find somebody.
814
00:54:10,812 --> 00:54:12,031
Yeah.
815
00:54:12,336 --> 00:54:14,076
Somebody that's somewhat
got it together...
816
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:18,733
that can help steer you
in the right direction, also.
817
00:54:20,344 --> 00:54:23,085
I know exactly how you feel,
and I know exactly
818
00:54:23,303 --> 00:54:24,391
what you're doing,
819
00:54:24,609 --> 00:54:27,742
because I lived my life,
basically,
820
00:54:27,916 --> 00:54:30,223
the same way up until
I was 40 years old.
821
00:54:30,397 --> 00:54:32,138
- Yeah.
- But when I was 40,
822
00:54:32,312 --> 00:54:34,706
I didn't want to end up
like you at 81.
823
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:36,142
Yeah.
824
00:54:36,447 --> 00:54:37,578
There has to be more
than just surviving.
825
00:54:39,058 --> 00:54:40,799
Norman: Heavenly Father,
826
00:54:41,060 --> 00:54:44,063
my brother Dennis is down
at a low point in his life.
827
00:54:44,281 --> 00:54:45,978
We're praying for some shelter,
828
00:54:46,195 --> 00:54:49,764
for some transportation, for some friends in his life,
829
00:54:49,938 --> 00:54:51,549
some good Christian
men and women
830
00:54:51,766 --> 00:54:53,681
that can help him along
in his struggle.
831
00:54:53,899 --> 00:54:56,162
We're gonna pray for
possibly a companion,
832
00:54:56,380 --> 00:54:58,338
A good woman, a good
godly woman
833
00:54:58,512 --> 00:55:00,688
to help him stay on the
straight and narrow,
834
00:55:00,862 --> 00:55:02,821
to help him get a direction
835
00:55:03,038 --> 00:55:04,910
so that he doesn't necessarily
have to keep going
836
00:55:05,084 --> 00:55:06,433
up and down in his life,
837
00:55:06,912 --> 00:55:10,959
that maybe, at 81 years old,
he can finally be content
838
00:55:11,177 --> 00:55:12,918
and stand on solid ground.
839
00:55:13,571 --> 00:55:16,269
We ask all this in the mighty
name of Jesus, amen and amen.
840
00:55:16,443 --> 00:55:18,706
- Amen. Amen.
- Amen. Amen.
841
00:55:19,403 --> 00:55:21,230
- Amen, brother.
- Dennis: Thank you so much.
842
00:55:24,495 --> 00:55:26,105
Counsellor: We have talked
a lot today
843
00:55:26,279 --> 00:55:27,802
about being positive, Anne.
844
00:55:28,107 --> 00:55:31,153
Has that situation,
from your perspective, improved?
845
00:55:31,328 --> 00:55:35,332
Or has it got a long ways to go?
A little ways to go? What...?
846
00:55:35,506 --> 00:55:37,943
Well, we didn't have
a real marriage before.
847
00:55:38,117 --> 00:55:39,684
Now we have a real marriage.
848
00:55:40,815 --> 00:55:46,168
We were seriously talking about
going our separate ways,
849
00:55:46,908 --> 00:55:49,650
but we're much, much,
much better at it.
850
00:55:49,824 --> 00:55:51,652
And besides, we don't argue
as much anymore.
851
00:55:51,826 --> 00:55:53,567
I don't want to put
words in your mouth.
852
00:55:55,526 --> 00:55:58,180
When we get mad at each other,
do we carry it around?
853
00:55:59,356 --> 00:56:02,228
Um... Well,
sometimes I do, yeah.
854
00:56:03,925 --> 00:56:08,408
So, Anne, when was it hardest
for you to be positive?
855
00:56:08,582 --> 00:56:13,631
Is there a certain setting
that would trigger negativeness?
856
00:56:14,458 --> 00:56:17,330
Feeling that
I'm not being listened to,
857
00:56:17,548 --> 00:56:20,333
that makes me kinda lose...
858
00:56:21,595 --> 00:56:22,509
control.
859
00:56:23,510 --> 00:56:26,208
Because even if somebody
doesn't agree, I feel like...
860
00:56:26,861 --> 00:56:27,949
they could listen.
861
00:56:30,430 --> 00:56:34,303
So what would you like to see
in Reggie that
862
00:56:34,695 --> 00:56:37,959
would be helpful,
not only to Reggie, but to you?
863
00:56:38,133 --> 00:56:40,135
Um... Being open,
864
00:56:40,484 --> 00:56:42,224
being listened to,
865
00:56:42,486 --> 00:56:44,401
being able to communicate.
866
00:56:45,184 --> 00:56:46,620
Getting respect.
867
00:56:50,319 --> 00:56:51,669
And love.
868
00:56:52,321 --> 00:56:53,584
And...
869
00:56:53,975 --> 00:56:55,890
But that's a checklist
of beautiful emotions.
870
00:56:56,064 --> 00:56:58,458
How do you want me
to work on...?
871
00:56:58,676 --> 00:57:01,243
Those are things that I want.
872
00:57:01,461 --> 00:57:04,203
They are important to me,
so they are the things that
873
00:57:04,377 --> 00:57:08,207
I would want you
to continue to do, and work on.
874
00:57:08,381 --> 00:57:09,991
All of those things.
875
00:57:35,364 --> 00:57:36,931
Well, that certainly
shouldn't let the...
876
00:57:37,715 --> 00:57:39,151
I know this is serious.
877
00:57:39,673 --> 00:57:41,109
It's still a violation
of the law,
878
00:57:41,283 --> 00:57:42,894
but it's, as you've said before,
879
00:57:43,068 --> 00:57:46,245
it's not the most serious case
that I deal with so...
880
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,323
[doorbell ringing]
881
00:58:28,853 --> 00:58:30,594
- Hello there.
- Hey. Come in.
882
00:58:30,768 --> 00:58:31,725
- Thank you.
- Come in.
883
00:58:31,899 --> 00:58:32,813
- Good to see you.
- Yeah.
884
00:58:32,987 --> 00:58:33,945
Dennis: Mm-hmm.
885
00:58:34,423 --> 00:58:35,773
Good to see you.
It's been a long time.
886
00:58:35,947 --> 00:58:38,253
Nancy: I know.
Welcome back.
887
00:58:38,427 --> 00:58:39,690
Dennis: Yeah, thanks a lot.
888
00:58:39,994 --> 00:58:41,866
I was always worried
that maybe something...
889
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:45,217
If your van broke down,
what would you do, you know?
890
00:58:45,391 --> 00:58:46,697
- Dennis: Yeah.
- I thought about it.
891
00:58:46,871 --> 00:58:48,829
Sure. The van has to go.
892
00:58:49,003 --> 00:58:50,614
I can't drive the van
on the streets,
893
00:58:50,788 --> 00:58:53,486
because it's like a wanted
person that's wanted.
894
00:58:53,704 --> 00:58:56,402
Where will you live, if you
don't have your van to live in?
895
00:58:56,576 --> 00:58:58,056
You're right...
896
00:58:58,491 --> 00:59:00,841
- [chuckles] That's my question!
- You're right.
897
00:59:01,189 --> 00:59:03,235
- I want to know.
- You want me back?
898
00:59:03,409 --> 00:59:05,890
- [both laughing]
- Come on, tell me.
899
00:59:06,064 --> 00:59:08,545
I don't know for sure.
I'm just playing it day by day.
900
00:59:08,719 --> 00:59:11,678
Yeah, I know. You're edging
around the answer, right?
901
00:59:11,896 --> 00:59:14,507
- Okay. Yeah.
- I just wanna be comfortable.
902
00:59:16,335 --> 00:59:18,119
Are you going
to let me stay here?
903
00:59:18,337 --> 00:59:21,470
Yeah, you can. You know me.
You can trust me.
904
00:59:21,688 --> 00:59:23,734
Oh, I can trust you, absolutely.
Yeah.
905
00:59:23,908 --> 00:59:25,213
- You know that.
- Yeah.
906
00:59:25,387 --> 00:59:27,128
So for old time's sake?
907
00:59:27,302 --> 00:59:29,130
- Yes. I can do that.
- Thank you.
908
00:59:29,827 --> 00:59:34,353
♪ [dramatic music playing] ♪
909
00:59:59,726 --> 01:00:02,555
♪ [Dennis singing
indistinctly] ♪
910
01:00:21,139 --> 01:00:23,402
Oh, man. Oh, man. What the...?
911
01:00:30,627 --> 01:00:34,195
[indistinct speech
over telephone]
912
01:00:42,639 --> 01:00:43,988
- Woman: Hello?
- Dennis: Hey, Mom.
913
01:00:44,162 --> 01:00:45,076
Dennis. How are you?
914
01:00:47,165 --> 01:00:48,383
Everything's great.
915
01:00:48,645 --> 01:00:51,256
You know.
Show business, and jobs, and...
916
01:00:51,473 --> 01:00:53,214
- Yeah?
- Yeah, everything's great.
917
01:00:56,348 --> 01:00:57,523
I thought you would be.
918
01:00:59,743 --> 01:01:00,657
Have you?
919
01:01:03,616 --> 01:01:06,358
Oh, uh, I'm doing
some handyman work.
920
01:01:06,532 --> 01:01:10,057
And I'm doing some show
business stuff and DJ stuff.
921
01:01:11,842 --> 01:01:14,148
Yeah, I'm busy all the time.
922
01:01:19,458 --> 01:01:22,374
A couple of women?
[chuckles] Just one at a time.
923
01:01:22,679 --> 01:01:24,463
[Dennis' mom laughs]
924
01:01:24,637 --> 01:01:26,378
Dennis: The Villages is
such a good place.
925
01:01:27,771 --> 01:01:29,555
It's like God's
waiting room for heaven.
926
01:01:30,730 --> 01:01:32,950
We have too much fun
down here, you know?
927
01:01:36,475 --> 01:01:37,563
Yeah. I love it.
928
01:01:38,042 --> 01:01:39,696
Okay, Mom. I gotta
get off the phone.
929
01:01:39,913 --> 01:01:41,306
I got another phone call
coming in.
930
01:01:44,526 --> 01:01:46,093
I'll talk to you
in a couple weeks.
931
01:02:06,810 --> 01:02:08,289
Lynn: I'm glad you came out.
932
01:02:08,463 --> 01:02:09,987
Barbara: I'm glad
I came out, too.
933
01:02:10,944 --> 01:02:12,424
Lynn: I was afraid that
934
01:02:12,598 --> 01:02:14,818
I'd have to drink
all those margaritas by myself.
935
01:02:15,035 --> 01:02:16,689
Barbara:
Oh, I'm so glad you don't.
936
01:02:16,863 --> 01:02:18,082
[both laugh]
937
01:02:18,386 --> 01:02:19,953
Barbara: This is gonna be bad.
938
01:02:20,432 --> 01:02:22,303
Lynn: You never know.
That's the wrong attitude.
939
01:02:22,521 --> 01:02:24,175
Gotta have a positive attitude.
940
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:27,787
- Barbara: Oh, that was bad.
- [Lynn laughs]
941
01:02:28,005 --> 01:02:29,484
Barbara: Yeah, right.
Positive, okay.
942
01:02:29,658 --> 01:02:32,096
Lynn: Let's try another one.
That was a first stroke.
943
01:02:33,706 --> 01:02:36,361
Barbarda: Oh, that was so close!
944
01:02:40,147 --> 01:02:41,627
[ball falls in hole]
945
01:02:42,106 --> 01:02:43,585
Barbara: You make me sick.
946
01:02:43,803 --> 01:02:45,762
I mean you're a nice person
and all, but...
947
01:02:45,979 --> 01:02:47,067
[Lynn laughs]
948
01:02:48,373 --> 01:02:53,160
I will bet you a good-size
margarita I can get this in.
949
01:02:53,334 --> 01:02:54,596
Wait!
950
01:02:55,075 --> 01:02:57,077
But I can still have
a margarita even if I don't.
951
01:02:57,643 --> 01:02:59,776
I think I lose
no matter what you do!
952
01:03:01,081 --> 01:03:03,214
Barbara: Puff!
Your margarita. Oh!
953
01:03:03,431 --> 01:03:05,129
- Lynn: I didn't help you!
- Barbara: No, you didn't.
954
01:03:05,303 --> 01:03:06,783
You didn't touch that.
That was me.
955
01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:08,741
Lynn: Oh, look at there,
you blocked mine.
956
01:03:08,915 --> 01:03:10,134
Barbara: I'm sorry.
957
01:03:10,395 --> 01:03:11,831
Lynn: I saw you try
to block my ball.
958
01:03:12,005 --> 01:03:13,180
Barbara: No, I didn't do it
on purpose.
959
01:03:13,354 --> 01:03:15,008
Lynn: Yeah,
you did it on purpose.
960
01:03:15,226 --> 01:03:16,967
- Barbara: I didn't, I swear.
- Lynn: I see how it goes.
961
01:03:17,141 --> 01:03:19,099
Barbara: So Lynn, you're going
to dinner at eight o' clock.
962
01:03:19,317 --> 01:03:21,972
- With a nice lady, or a friend?
- Lynn: I hope so.
963
01:03:22,146 --> 01:03:23,669
I mean, a friend
that could be a lady.
964
01:03:23,887 --> 01:03:26,237
You know what I'm saying.
Is it a man or a woman?
965
01:03:26,411 --> 01:03:28,413
Is it a man or a woman, Lynn?
966
01:03:28,587 --> 01:03:30,937
- It's a lady.
- Okay, that's nice.
967
01:03:31,546 --> 01:03:33,679
So you're gonna have a good
time tonight. That's good.
968
01:03:33,897 --> 01:03:36,377
Oh, yeah. That's what
life's about at this age.
969
01:03:36,551 --> 01:03:37,770
I know.
970
01:03:37,944 --> 01:03:40,077
If you can't enjoy
your life now,
971
01:03:40,251 --> 01:03:42,296
- you're never gonna do it.
- Nope.
972
01:03:43,341 --> 01:03:45,909
Man on radio: And there's
no heartaches tonight.
973
01:03:46,083 --> 01:03:48,868
If you get out and dance in the square, you'll just have fun.
974
01:03:49,042 --> 01:03:50,522
Paisley Craze will be
entertaining
975
01:03:50,696 --> 01:03:51,871
on the gazebo stage
976
01:03:52,089 --> 01:03:53,917
in Spanish Springs tonight.
977
01:03:54,134 --> 01:03:56,354
At Lake Sumter Landing, it's
Sherry and the Rockafellas.
978
01:04:13,893 --> 01:04:16,287
♪ [jazz music playing] ♪
979
01:04:19,768 --> 01:04:21,727
[Dennis mumbling]
980
01:04:33,217 --> 01:04:34,348
Jesus Christ!
981
01:04:36,916 --> 01:04:39,005
Man, I tell ya, son of a bitch.
982
01:05:00,505 --> 01:05:02,768
Anchor: On a warm summer night,
15 years ago,
983
01:05:02,942 --> 01:05:04,465
the Lake Sumter
Landing lighthouse
984
01:05:04,639 --> 01:05:06,293
lit up for the first time,
985
01:05:06,467 --> 01:05:08,861
marking the opening
of the lakefront downtown.
986
01:05:09,122 --> 01:05:10,515
In the 15 years
since it opened...
987
01:05:10,732 --> 01:05:12,560
Nancy: We had such a good time.
We still do.
988
01:05:12,778 --> 01:05:14,127
We have such a good time.
989
01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:18,523
That's why we're together.
990
01:05:18,740 --> 01:05:21,439
And I feel like he helps me too,
you know.
991
01:05:21,656 --> 01:05:23,832
He helps me
with my spirit, and...
992
01:05:24,050 --> 01:05:25,965
- And, yeah.
- Handyman.
993
01:05:26,183 --> 01:05:28,011
- Just making me happy.
- [laughs]
994
01:05:43,983 --> 01:05:45,942
Nancy: You missed a spot
right there.
995
01:05:49,032 --> 01:05:51,295
Don't even think about it.
I will kill you.
996
01:05:51,469 --> 01:05:53,210
- Dennis: Right on the feet?
- Nancy: I will kill you!
997
01:05:53,384 --> 01:05:56,517
- Dennis: The feet are alright!
- [Nancy yelps]
998
01:05:56,735 --> 01:05:58,128
Ooh, that feels kinda good.
999
01:05:58,345 --> 01:06:00,608
Dennis: How about that?
Okay! More? Higher?
1000
01:06:00,826 --> 01:06:02,393
- Nancy: Yeah! [laughs]
- Dennis: Higher.
1001
01:06:05,048 --> 01:06:06,745
Nancy: Sometimes, I think,
1002
01:06:06,963 --> 01:06:09,269
"Oh, he's just looking
for a place to live."
1003
01:06:11,358 --> 01:06:12,664
That bothers me.
1004
01:06:14,274 --> 01:06:17,234
Dennis: Yeah, she said, "You're distant. What's wrong?"
1005
01:06:24,023 --> 01:06:26,765
Nancy: He's not real, kind of...
1006
01:06:29,289 --> 01:06:30,987
- Lovey-dovey.
- Yes.
1007
01:06:31,204 --> 01:06:34,642
I mean, yeah. He doesn't show
his affections a lot, but...
1008
01:06:35,208 --> 01:06:39,604
But... sometimes that
discourages me, but...
1009
01:06:40,387 --> 01:06:42,911
That's probably because
I have a lot on my mind.
1010
01:06:43,129 --> 01:06:44,348
I'm always working deals.
1011
01:06:44,522 --> 01:06:46,263
He's always got
something on his mind.
1012
01:06:46,654 --> 01:06:49,092
The first time Village of Collier resident, Mike Weese,
1013
01:06:49,309 --> 01:06:52,182
owned a Corvette,
it was a 1969 model.
1014
01:06:52,399 --> 01:06:54,967
But the vehicle didn't quite
fit his family of five,
1015
01:06:55,185 --> 01:06:58,014
so he traded it in for an
Oldsmobile station wagon.
1016
01:06:58,275 --> 01:07:00,146
He always dreamed
of owning another one,
1017
01:07:00,364 --> 01:07:03,584
and 50 years later, he's back behind the wheel of a Corvette.
1018
01:07:03,802 --> 01:07:05,673
I get a lot of people
that really love
1019
01:07:05,891 --> 01:07:06,848
the color combination...
1020
01:07:07,588 --> 01:07:10,678
[TV playing distantly]
1021
01:07:11,897 --> 01:07:15,074
- You do that really well.
- [laughs]
1022
01:07:15,379 --> 01:07:16,423
Thank you.
1023
01:07:19,296 --> 01:07:20,775
- That looks good.
- Reggie: Thank you.
1024
01:07:20,949 --> 01:07:21,994
Anne: Excellent.
1025
01:07:23,082 --> 01:07:26,694
You think this is the first time
we have ever done this together?
1026
01:07:27,869 --> 01:07:31,917
- Cut things on a cutting board?
- This lifetime it is, for sure.
1027
01:07:33,614 --> 01:07:34,963
Anne: This is pretty good.
1028
01:07:36,661 --> 01:07:40,273
Man: So what's the status
on the court situation?
1029
01:07:41,100 --> 01:07:42,667
Basically, it's over.
1030
01:07:42,884 --> 01:07:44,234
- It is?
- I've got to...
1031
01:07:44,451 --> 01:07:47,585
After I go through four months,
1032
01:07:47,889 --> 01:07:50,979
three months of drug
and alcohol counseling,
1033
01:07:51,197 --> 01:07:52,764
and therapy,
1034
01:07:53,286 --> 01:07:56,115
then my record will be expunged.
1035
01:07:57,508 --> 01:07:59,075
Man: What's gonna be
the outcome on this?
1036
01:07:59,249 --> 01:08:00,989
What do you want
to see happen?
1037
01:08:01,512 --> 01:08:04,471
I sincerely would just like
to be totally natural.
1038
01:08:04,689 --> 01:08:05,820
Man: Absolutely.
1039
01:08:06,125 --> 01:08:07,735
You want to learn to live
without having
1040
01:08:07,909 --> 01:08:08,910
drugs be a crutch.
1041
01:08:09,085 --> 01:08:10,999
I don't want to do no more pot.
1042
01:08:11,435 --> 01:08:13,350
- I would... Yeah.
- Yeah. That...
1043
01:08:14,264 --> 01:08:15,961
I think that's great.
1044
01:08:16,135 --> 01:08:18,181
- Man: That what you're saying?
- That's what you're saying.
1045
01:08:18,355 --> 01:08:19,965
Man: Is that what
you're saying? Okay.
1046
01:08:32,630 --> 01:08:35,198
Reggie: When I first came here
1047
01:08:35,372 --> 01:08:38,331
I did not like most people
here.
1048
01:08:43,075 --> 01:08:45,077
But I figured it out.
1049
01:08:45,338 --> 01:08:47,688
♪ [theme music playing] ♪
1050
01:09:00,092 --> 01:09:02,268
Reggie: I love golf!
1051
01:09:03,182 --> 01:09:05,010
It's exactly like Tai Chi.
1052
01:09:06,968 --> 01:09:08,970
Everything is out there.
1053
01:09:09,188 --> 01:09:11,712
The golf ball
is actually in here.
1054
01:09:11,930 --> 01:09:15,151
In my mind.
And all that is just a dream.
1055
01:09:18,241 --> 01:09:22,027
So you can control it
just by being in the dream.
1056
01:09:31,036 --> 01:09:32,603
- Move your hips...
- Anne: Oh, okay.
1057
01:09:32,777 --> 01:09:34,474
- Reggie: Move your hips!
- [Anne laughs]
1058
01:09:34,648 --> 01:09:38,696
- Reggie: You say, "Oo-hoo!"
- Anne: Alright, okay. [laughs]
1059
01:09:39,871 --> 01:09:40,828
Okay.
1060
01:09:41,002 --> 01:09:43,701
Wait, so... Here, and then here.
1061
01:09:45,529 --> 01:09:47,226
Reggie: It's a dream world,
1062
01:09:47,444 --> 01:09:50,360
and I'm taking advantage of every second of the dream.
1063
01:09:50,577 --> 01:09:52,623
And we're living
the dream together.
1064
01:09:54,712 --> 01:09:55,582
[laughing] There!
1065
01:09:55,756 --> 01:09:58,890
You seem to be much better
1066
01:09:59,064 --> 01:10:03,068
and on a course that's stable.
1067
01:10:04,635 --> 01:10:06,376
- We haven't seen... [laughs]
- [growls]
1068
01:10:13,209 --> 01:10:16,908
Reggie: I screwed up worse than
anybody could ever screw up.
1069
01:10:20,477 --> 01:10:22,130
In one way, Anne thinks
1070
01:10:22,305 --> 01:10:24,785
it's the worst thing
that ever happened to her.
1071
01:10:25,308 --> 01:10:27,832
It's terrible. It's traumatic.
1072
01:10:29,703 --> 01:10:32,750
And it's the best thing
that ever happened to us.
1073
01:10:33,011 --> 01:10:36,144
It still has impacted us.
I mean, we went through it.
1074
01:10:36,319 --> 01:10:39,670
I went through it, so it isn't
anything I'm gonna forget.
1075
01:10:39,844 --> 01:10:42,325
But it was a good thing,
and time heals all wounds.
1076
01:10:42,499 --> 01:10:45,371
It was not a good thing
to go through, but...
1077
01:10:45,545 --> 01:10:47,721
Really?
This would not have resulted...
1078
01:10:48,156 --> 01:10:51,682
We would still be roommates,
and not have a marriage
1079
01:10:51,899 --> 01:10:53,858
- if that hadn't happened.
- I...
1080
01:10:54,119 --> 01:10:57,122
Okay, I just see it a little
differently from you, I guess.
1081
01:10:58,079 --> 01:10:59,255
- Okay.
- Okay.
1082
01:11:03,563 --> 01:11:04,999
Announcer: Go!
1083
01:11:05,304 --> 01:11:08,394
Rowers: [chanting]
One, two, three, four, five!
1084
01:11:08,612 --> 01:11:12,093
One, two, three, four, five!
1085
01:11:12,311 --> 01:11:14,792
One, two, three, four...!
1086
01:11:15,053 --> 01:11:17,142
Hey Parrotheads!
What time is it?
1087
01:11:17,360 --> 01:11:20,101
Crowd: Time for a team drink!
1088
01:11:20,319 --> 01:11:21,886
Woo!
1089
01:11:22,190 --> 01:11:26,282
♪ [band playing
rock 'n' roll music] ♪
1090
01:11:52,699 --> 01:11:55,311
Lynn: So for your first day
as a Parrothead...
1091
01:11:55,528 --> 01:11:58,314
- I'm not a Parrothead yet!
- Lynn: Maybe-member.
1092
01:11:58,531 --> 01:12:00,272
- This is awesome.
- It is awesome, isn't it?
1093
01:12:00,490 --> 01:12:01,708
This has a good vibe.
1094
01:12:02,448 --> 01:12:04,363
Lynn, I can get this, really.
1095
01:12:04,581 --> 01:12:06,626
You don't have to.
I can get this.
1096
01:12:06,844 --> 01:12:08,541
Look at all of this money I won!
1097
01:12:08,715 --> 01:12:10,587
Where'd you win that from,
a raffle?
1098
01:12:16,941 --> 01:12:18,725
I'm telling you,
it is just so much fun,
1099
01:12:18,943 --> 01:12:20,292
so many things to do.
1100
01:12:20,510 --> 01:12:22,642
Yeah, I gotta loosen up
a little, I think.
1101
01:12:23,034 --> 01:12:24,905
Lynn: Really?
I hadn't noticed that.
1102
01:12:25,993 --> 01:12:29,257
♪ [band playing country music] ♪
1103
01:12:35,046 --> 01:12:39,006
♪ [band playing "Johnny B Goode"
by Chuck Berry] ♪
1104
01:12:56,502 --> 01:12:59,331
- Crowd: Woo!
- Singer: Good job!
1105
01:13:00,071 --> 01:13:01,681
"Johnny B Goode"!
1106
01:13:08,993 --> 01:13:11,212
Nancy: You get
your shit together!
1107
01:13:11,517 --> 01:13:13,606
Now! I'm telling you!
1108
01:13:13,780 --> 01:13:15,434
- Dennis: I got to...
- Nancy: I'm telling you.
1109
01:13:15,608 --> 01:13:17,001
Dennis: I have to get going.
1110
01:13:17,175 --> 01:13:18,655
Nancy: I thought everything
was together.
1111
01:13:18,829 --> 01:13:20,134
- Dennis: It was.
- I thought we were ready to go.
1112
01:13:20,308 --> 01:13:21,527
[door closing]
1113
01:13:23,921 --> 01:13:26,140
Anyway,
we got to get out of here.
1114
01:13:29,317 --> 01:13:30,667
Nancy: Canned foods.
1115
01:13:30,884 --> 01:13:33,626
We need to get that.
And you need bleach.
1116
01:13:34,714 --> 01:13:37,543
We've got bleach
out in the shed, so...
1117
01:13:37,978 --> 01:13:39,763
Bananas, peanut butter.
1118
01:13:39,980 --> 01:13:43,680
You have peanut butter, but
maybe we should get some more.
1119
01:13:43,854 --> 01:13:46,596
- Yup, we should get some more.
- Peanut butter, your favorite.
1120
01:13:46,857 --> 01:13:48,772
♪ [theme music playing] ♪
1121
01:13:48,989 --> 01:13:50,861
Dennis: I've had a lot
of freedom in my life,
1122
01:13:51,035 --> 01:13:53,298
'cause I don't get hooked up
with these women.
1123
01:13:53,733 --> 01:13:55,605
When I'm with Nancy,
I'm confined.
1124
01:13:56,780 --> 01:13:58,651
Nancy: Are you listening to me?
1125
01:13:59,783 --> 01:14:02,350
♪ [band playing
rock and roll music] ♪
1126
01:14:09,053 --> 01:14:11,795
Dennis: It's comfortable being
around her, but...
1127
01:14:12,273 --> 01:14:13,884
I have to give up the freedom.
1128
01:14:23,894 --> 01:14:25,722
Comfort or freedom?
1129
01:14:25,939 --> 01:14:28,464
That's the way it works.
You can't have it both ways.
1130
01:14:46,177 --> 01:14:47,221
Nancy: Dennis?
1131
01:14:49,049 --> 01:14:51,922
- What do you want for lunch?
- [exhales]
1132
01:15:31,309 --> 01:15:32,397
When I was young,
1133
01:15:33,311 --> 01:15:35,879
I used to come home from school
to an empty house.
1134
01:15:37,054 --> 01:15:39,012
My father had flown the coop,
1135
01:15:39,230 --> 01:15:41,841
and my mother worked
as a maid at a hotel.
1136
01:15:43,321 --> 01:15:45,105
It was very, very lonely.
1137
01:15:46,454 --> 01:15:48,848
One day I found a baby squirrel,
1138
01:15:49,066 --> 01:15:51,895
and I brought it home,
and I put it in a shoe box.
1139
01:15:53,461 --> 01:15:56,334
Several days later,
when I went home,
1140
01:15:56,726 --> 01:15:58,510
it was very, very sick.
1141
01:15:59,555 --> 01:16:01,121
It was actually dead,
1142
01:16:01,339 --> 01:16:02,993
but I didn't know it
at the time.
1143
01:16:04,647 --> 01:16:07,214
I had forgotten to feed it
for a couple of days.
1144
01:16:07,388 --> 01:16:08,651
[audience murmuring]
1145
01:16:09,347 --> 01:16:13,177
So, I took it out of the box,
and I laid it on a table.
1146
01:16:13,917 --> 01:16:17,094
And I prayed and I prayed
for several hours.
1147
01:16:18,661 --> 01:16:22,055
And then my mother came home,
and she found us.
1148
01:16:23,274 --> 01:16:25,450
She was furious.
1149
01:16:25,885 --> 01:16:28,845
She picked it up and
she threw it in the garbage.
1150
01:16:30,237 --> 01:16:34,415
And I lost control.
I started screaming and crying,
1151
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:38,419
"Mama, Mama!
God didn't answer my prayer!
1152
01:16:38,594 --> 01:16:40,683
God didn't answer
my prayer, Mama!"
1153
01:16:42,380 --> 01:16:45,513
She turned to me,
she gave a little chuckle,
1154
01:16:46,079 --> 01:16:47,080
and she said,
1155
01:16:47,777 --> 01:16:51,084
"Judy, God answers
all our prayers.
1156
01:16:51,737 --> 01:16:54,784
It's just rarely is it ever
the answer we're looking for."
1157
01:16:56,612 --> 01:16:57,743
And that was it.
1158
01:16:59,092 --> 01:16:59,963
That was it.
1159
01:17:04,315 --> 01:17:08,362
[applause]
1160
01:17:21,071 --> 01:17:24,074
Reggie: So you've been through
a lot this last year with me
1161
01:17:24,248 --> 01:17:27,991
- and with other people too.
- Anne: Yes.
1162
01:17:28,165 --> 01:17:29,253
Just you.
1163
01:17:29,514 --> 01:17:30,689
Just me!
1164
01:17:31,255 --> 01:17:33,518
What other people? [chuckles]
What other people?
1165
01:17:33,692 --> 01:17:36,303
Do you feel like you've been...
1166
01:17:37,565 --> 01:17:40,830
permanently hurt in this,
or hurt, or...?
1167
01:17:42,527 --> 01:17:45,486
How would you describe
what you've been through?
1168
01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:52,450
- Nothing's permanent.
- "Nothing's permanent"!
1169
01:17:54,582 --> 01:17:56,715
[seagulls squawking]
1170
01:17:58,151 --> 01:18:00,850
♪ [piano music playing] ♪
1171
01:18:07,944 --> 01:18:09,728
Anne: It is not easy
to be married.
1172
01:18:11,556 --> 01:18:14,515
You hear that
it's a 50/50 proposition?
1173
01:18:17,780 --> 01:18:20,739
No, it isn't. It's like 80/20.
1174
01:18:25,831 --> 01:18:29,356
Surely, everybody's life here in the Villages
1175
01:18:29,574 --> 01:18:32,142
is not perfect all the time.
1176
01:18:35,058 --> 01:18:36,886
Everybody has problems.
1177
01:18:42,326 --> 01:18:44,807
You asked me one time
if I think about dying.
1178
01:18:49,550 --> 01:18:52,640
What I think about
is there's just less time.
1179
01:18:56,644 --> 01:18:58,821
Once you get older,
you start thinking about,
1180
01:18:58,995 --> 01:19:00,518
"Well, my life is not...
1181
01:19:01,693 --> 01:19:04,130
an indeterminate length
of time anymore."
1182
01:19:09,440 --> 01:19:11,137
What is really important?
1183
01:19:14,010 --> 01:19:17,274
Maybe some things that
would bother me before...
1184
01:19:19,972 --> 01:19:22,322
That really isn't
that important anymore.
1185
01:19:28,154 --> 01:19:31,288
♪ [piano music playing] ♪