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♪ [theme music playing] ♪

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Woman: [through megaphone]
Turn to the center now.

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And then single file.

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Watch your spacing, yeah, yeah.
Okay, good.

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Center.

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Good speed.

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Very nice spacing.

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Ted, hang back a little.

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Get back next to Cindy, Ted.

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Ted!

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Captain: Come on,
give me your best strokes!

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That's the power.

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Together!

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♪ ["Laughter in the Rain"
by Neil Sedaka playing] ♪

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Man: <i>Everything here is
just so positive, so...</i>

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<i>I'm lost for words.</i>

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<i>I don't see the slums. I don't <i>see death and destruction.</i></i>

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<i>I don't see murders.</i>

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You don't see a lot of children
running around here either.

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Woman: <i>You're not gonna be,
tomorrow,</i>

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the same age you are today.
So think about you.

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Man: <i>You come here to live.</i>

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<i>You don't come here
to pass away.</i>

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You don't need to go
outside the Villages.

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You would never have to leave.

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Woman: <i>Everything
you ever want is here.</i>

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Man 1: <i>Everything is here.</i>

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The restaurants, the golf
course, the tennis courts.

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Man 2: <i>If you try to come off
as, you're "bored",</i>

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then you're full of it, because
they have everything here.

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Man 3: <i>There is no place
like this.</i>

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This is Nirvana.

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All: One, two, three...

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Woo!

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Woman 1: <i>
When you live here, you...</i>

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kind of become younger.

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Woman 2: <i>We have more than
20,000 single people.</i>

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<i>When they become single, <i>whether it's through divorce,</i></i>

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<i>
whether it's through death,</i>

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it's a new awakening.

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It's like a butterfly
coming out of that cocoon.

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Man 1: <i>After the wife passed,
I started night-clubbing.</i>

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I got a second chance
and a second bite at the apple.

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I ran into my new love
of my life.

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And met her on the square
at Spanish Springs.

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<i>From then,
it was the best of times.</i>

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Man 2: <i>I'm not in a hurry,
I'm meeting a lot of people.</i>

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And I know eventually,
I'll meet somebody nice

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to share
the rest of my life with.

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Anne: <i>There are lots of people
that have been married</i>

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<i>a really long time here.</i>

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I'm proud. I'm proud that
we've made it 47 years.

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[speaking in foreign language]

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What does that mean?

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That means, "Time flies
when you're having fun."

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Yeah.

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Hey, everybody.

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Anne: <i>When you move here, it <i>is like going off to college.</i></i>

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<i>
Since nobody's from here,</i>

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<i>everybody can be <i>what they want to be down here.</i></i>

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Hey, everybody!

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- Larry: Anne, how are you?
- Hey, Larry.

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Reggie: <i>What strikes me is,</i>

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<i>people move here
with the intention</i>

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<i>of having
a happy, healthy life.</i>

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<i>They've been workaholics</i>

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<i>to keep from thinking about
their problems in life.</i>

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[Anne laughs]

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Reggie: <i>They're in a box
with their time.</i>

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<i>Most people are like that.</i>

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<i>Including Anne.</i>

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[laughter]

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Reggie: <i>She's such an athlete,
and she's living her dream.</i>

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[laughter]

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It leaves me alone,

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which is really good
in a lot of cases.

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But then there's days
which I would like to have...

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I'd like to have somebody to pal
around with, you know.

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<i>...the sooner you will start
feeling like yourself again.</i>

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Woman: <i>No, you know what,
I can get through this...</i>

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♪ [drum music playing
over speakers] ♪

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♪ [country music playing
over PA system] ♪

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Barbara: <i>My husband
was getting ready to retire.</i>

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<i>The Villages seemed like
a magical, beautiful place.</i>

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<i>I decided that
I would sell my house</i>

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<i>and we would move down here
and start fresh.</i>

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Man on radio: <i>
If you're looking for fun,</i>

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<i>there's only about 3,000 clubs <i>here in the Villages.</i></i>

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<i>I mean, gosh, if you can't find <i>something here,</i></i>

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<i>check your pulse, will you?</i>

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<i>Yeah, well, alright,
here's, for example...</i>

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- [phone ringing]
- Hi, this is Barbara.

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Hi, it's Barbara from
the Villages' Rehab and Nursing.

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How you doing?

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No, it's going to get delivered,
the equipment, to the house...

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But there's one person
for Sunday who needs

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a 20-inch wheelchair
with a cushion.

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Alrighty, thank you.

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♪ [muzak playing
through receiver] ♪

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Barbara: <i>
My mind is always wandering.</i>

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<i>Always wandering to home.</i>

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<i>- To Massachusetts.
- Woman: Hello?</i>

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Yeah, yeah. Oh, sorry. Yep?

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Yes, that's fine.

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Barbara: <i>My savings over the 11
years that I had are gone,</i>

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<i>which would've been
enough to go back.</i>

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I'm just saying, for me,

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it hasn't been the fantasy land
that I thought it would be.

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For reasons that... Some are
true to my own self, you know?

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Oh, my god! [laughs]

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I am sorry. I...

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Fifi! Fifi, please!

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[laughs]

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You'll always remember me, guys!

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Fifi, please stop!

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It's a dominance thing,
honest to God!

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It has nothing to do with sex.
The vet told me.

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♪ [band playing "Blurred Lines"
by Robin Thicke] ♪

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Dennis: <i>The reason I came here
is because I figured</i>

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<i>this would be the last hurrah.</i>

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<i>Where else can you party
seven days a week</i>

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<i>with live entertainment?
It's a great place.</i>

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♪ [woman singing "Pink Cadillac"
by Bruce Springsteen] ♪

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♪ [singing] ♪

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[songs ends]

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- [singer speaking indistinctly]
- [applause]

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Dennis: <i>I came down here
from California</i>

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<i>to meet some wealthy women
and get set up for life.</i>

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I think I'm gonna have to live
in the van

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until I find that woman

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that I'm looking for,
and it's getting close, I think.

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What I'm looking for
is a companion,

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a nice-looking lady
with some money

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that looks good, that I'd be

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not embarrassed
to be seen on the street with.

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And down here, they're rare.

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It's rare to find a classic lady
down here, actually,

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that's really sharp,
but they're out there.

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But you have to find out
where to find them.

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And I've been working the bars,
and that's not working.

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I tried the churches,
and that's not working.

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So then I started hitting
the swimming pools

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a few months ago,
and that works really well.

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[doors creak]

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<i>I just hustle them
and talk to them</i>

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<i>and get them to invite me over <i>for cocktails.</i></i>

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<i>Then eventually
I can move in with them</i>

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<i>if everything works out
alright.</i>

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<i>It should work.</i>

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♪ ["Let It Snow" by Dean Martin
playing over PA system] ♪

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[costumes jangling]

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♪ [playing
marching band music] ♪

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Man: <i>This place was developed
originally by my father,</i>

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<i>Harold Schwartz,
in the mid '80s.</i>

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<i>When I got here,
there were 800 people.</i>

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<i>And now there's 130,000 so...</i>

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<i>we did something right.</i>

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<i>They're living their
American dream, as we are.</i>

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♪ [theme music playing] ♪

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Man: <i>We needed to create
this place not brand-new.</i>

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<i>We wanted to create it... old.</i>

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[crowd cheering and applauding]

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Man: <i>We decided to bring
the baby boomers</i>

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<i>to a home that they were
familiar with</i>

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<i>when they were young.</i>

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Schwartz: <i>
We're often referred to</i>

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<i>as the "Disney World
for retirees".</i>

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<i>We contacted a company
to design and build</i>

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<i>an old-fashioned town center, <i>the kind we all grew up in.</i></i>

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And we were taken aback
by their first question.

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<i>"What's your storyline?</i>

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<i>Every town
has a reason for being."</i>

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<i>"That's easy," we said.</i>

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"Our villagers moved here
because they found

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the Fountain of Youth."

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Man: <i>The history here
in the Villages,</i>

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<i>there's a real history,
and then there's the...</i>

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<i>kind of the made-up history.</i>

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Back then, Andrew Jackson
hadn't come down into this area

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and made the Indians mad yet.

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And the local people tried to
replicate the Indian dance.

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And to this very day,
you can still see that dance

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if you go to
the squares at night.

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- Because you see the...
- [laughter]

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You see... They say
white people can't dance,

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but you see them
doing their little hop...

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That's our local prison.

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Man: <i>There's a lot of history
on all the buildings.</i>

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<i>Different stories
that have all been made up</i>

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<i>over a bottle of scotch.</i>

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Anne: <i>When we first moved here,</i>

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<i>it was like being
on vacation every day.</i>

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<i>But it is not the real world.</i>

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<i>We live in a bubble.</i>

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Reggie: [yelling] Yeah!

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With Reggie,
you have to be very open-minded.

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I never know what he's going
to come up with next.

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And you never know what people
are gonna think about it.

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That's the horrible part.

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What her friends
might think about me.

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They think you're unusual.

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[laughs]

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♪ [string music playing] ♪

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Anne: <i>The Villages has given
Reggie an opportunity</i>

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<i>to grow in different ways.</i>

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You tickle, fly, go away.

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[bestial growling]

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Anne: <i>When we got married,
he really was not so unique.</i>

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[chanting]

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Anne: <i>That kind of developed
over the years.</i>

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[grunting]

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Reggie: <i>My whole training
is about ending my life</i>

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<i>with a smile on my face.</i>

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[grunting]

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[exhaling]

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Reggie: <i>Everybody knows <i>they're on the verge of death.</i></i>

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<i>And people are just
still ignoring it.</i>

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<i>And so, I really like...</i>

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<i>stimulating myself with drugs.</i>

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<i>They get me to a spiritual
place really quickly.</i>

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♪ [chaotic jazz music playing] ♪

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[thunder rumbles]

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Anne: <i>I don't understand it
and I don't like it,</i>

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<i>because I think it's
a dependency on something</i>

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<i>that just is not good for you.</i>

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But I can respect what
he's found

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and what he's looking for.

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[chuckles]

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Hi, my name's Elaine.

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Hi, my name is Elaine.

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All: Elaine is our name.

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Barbara: <i>I think when you live
in the Villages,</i>

235
00:18:16.225 --> 00:18:17.444
<i>you're acting the part.</i>

236
00:18:20.186 --> 00:18:21.796
<i>Every day, every night.</i>

237
00:18:24.451 --> 00:18:25.930
<i>You're part of the fantasy.</i>

238
00:18:34.069 --> 00:18:35.940
[birdsong]

239
00:18:36.463 --> 00:18:38.900
Barbara: <i>I will say, it is hard
to be alone in the Villages.</i>

240
00:18:43.122 --> 00:18:46.255
<i>Paul got diagnosed <i>with a brain tumor in December.</i></i>

241
00:18:46.777 --> 00:18:49.345
<i>He went into the hospital
with brain swelling.</i>

242
00:18:50.129 --> 00:18:52.131
<i>And he never came home.</i>

243
00:19:01.879 --> 00:19:03.794
<i>I still can't get
my head around it.</i>

244
00:19:03.968 --> 00:19:05.318
<i>I'm in the fourth month.</i>

245
00:19:06.493 --> 00:19:08.190
<i>I think it will take time.</i>

246
00:19:09.583 --> 00:19:10.845
<i>A lot of time.</i>

247
00:19:13.674 --> 00:19:15.893
- Priest: <i>I, Barbara...
- Barbara: I, Barbara...</i>

248
00:19:16.111 --> 00:19:18.157
- Priest: <i>Take thee, Paul...
- Barbara: Take thee, Paul...</i>

249
00:19:18.374 --> 00:19:19.636
Priest: <i>For my lawful husband...</i>

250
00:19:19.810 --> 00:19:21.247
Barbara: <i>
For my lawful husband...</i>

251
00:19:21.421 --> 00:19:22.813
Priest: <i>In sickness
and in health...</i>

252
00:19:22.987 --> 00:19:24.293
Barbara: <i>In sickness
and in health...</i>

253
00:19:24.467 --> 00:19:25.816
Priest: <i>To love
and to cherish...</i>

254
00:19:25.990 --> 00:19:27.514
Barbara: <i>To love
and to cherish...</i>

255
00:19:27.775 --> 00:19:29.516
- Priest: <i>Until death...
- Barbara: Until death...</i>

256
00:19:29.690 --> 00:19:30.647
- Priest: <i>So help me God.
- Barbara: So help me God.</i>

257
00:19:30.821 --> 00:19:31.692
Priest: <i>You may kiss your bride.</i>

258
00:19:31.866 --> 00:19:33.433
Barbara: <i>Yeah!</i>[laughs]

259
00:19:33.694 --> 00:19:35.739
[cheering and applause]

260
00:19:35.957 --> 00:19:39.090
Priest: <i>Now I get to kiss... <i>I always get the second kiss.</i></i>

261
00:19:41.136 --> 00:19:42.006
<i>
God bless you.</i>

262
00:19:59.502 --> 00:20:00.851
Beautician: <i>So, are you married?</i>

263
00:20:01.635 --> 00:20:03.289
Barbara: <i>I was married,
but he passed away.</i>

264
00:20:04.377 --> 00:20:06.248
Beautician: <i>Mine was passed away
ten year already.</i>

265
00:20:06.466 --> 00:20:07.858
- Barbara: <i>Seriously?
- Woman: Mm-hmm.</i>

266
00:20:08.032 --> 00:20:12.428
I was single,
a widow for eight year.

267
00:20:12.602 --> 00:20:13.864
Oh...

268
00:20:14.082 --> 00:20:15.518
And then I go online,
met another one,

269
00:20:15.692 --> 00:20:18.478
which is my husband,
the new one.

270
00:20:18.695 --> 00:20:20.871
I just re-married about
a year and two months...

271
00:20:21.045 --> 00:20:23.004
- Oh, nice, very nice.
- Yes.

272
00:20:23.831 --> 00:20:25.789
Well, you know,
it's a little soon,

273
00:20:25.963 --> 00:20:27.269
but I'm thinking of the future,

274
00:20:27.443 --> 00:20:29.793
and I'm thinking of myself
looking online.

275
00:20:30.011 --> 00:20:31.795
But it has to be a good site,
it can't be,

276
00:20:31.969 --> 00:20:34.842
like, a match.com
or an e-harmony.

277
00:20:35.016 --> 00:20:37.061
You need to do
what is better for you.

278
00:20:37.236 --> 00:20:39.586
He want you to be happy,
he don't want you to sit there,

279
00:20:39.760 --> 00:20:42.241
sad and grumpy,
and, like, you know,

280
00:20:42.415 --> 00:20:45.200
"Oh, I miss you."
Yes, he know that you miss him,

281
00:20:45.374 --> 00:20:48.464
but there's nothing he can do.
He up there, you... Like my...

282
00:20:48.638 --> 00:20:51.511
He up there, and you here,
but you have to be strong.

283
00:20:51.772 --> 00:20:54.818
If you ain't gonna be strong,
you ain't gonna make it.

284
00:20:55.210 --> 00:20:58.344
At least you have a job.
You're healthy today.

285
00:20:58.866 --> 00:21:00.737
But whatever you wanna do,

286
00:21:00.911 --> 00:21:02.435
you have to force yourself
to do it.

287
00:21:02.609 --> 00:21:04.219
Nobody gonna be there
to tell you,

288
00:21:04.393 --> 00:21:06.134
"You need to do that,
you need to do that."

289
00:21:15.535 --> 00:21:17.363
Woman: Go on ahead.
I'll open it up for you.

290
00:21:17.928 --> 00:21:18.799
Thank you.

291
00:21:20.670 --> 00:21:22.063
Bye. Have a great day.

292
00:21:24.152 --> 00:21:28.417
This is...This is different than
most gated communities.

293
00:21:28.635 --> 00:21:31.115
Think of this
as a community with gates.

294
00:21:32.203 --> 00:21:36.207
<i>These are all public roads,
so I don't check any IDs.</i>

295
00:21:36.382 --> 00:21:38.906
<i>They are all free
to come as they like.</i>

296
00:21:40.037 --> 00:21:41.082
Good morning!

297
00:21:42.301 --> 00:21:43.737
Have a good day.

298
00:21:44.041 --> 00:21:46.783
Woman: <i>I kind of think of them
as speed bumps.</i>

299
00:21:47.306 --> 00:21:48.176
Hi!

300
00:21:54.574 --> 00:21:56.489
Man on radio: <i>
A perfect day to find</i>

301
00:21:56.663 --> 00:22:00.188
<i>a perfect home for you. Let's <i>hear an open house or two.</i></i>

302
00:22:00.362 --> 00:22:03.887
Dennis: <i>Somebody found me out <i>or thought they found me out.</i></i>

303
00:22:04.192 --> 00:22:05.802
I kept seeing this guy
sneaking around

304
00:22:05.976 --> 00:22:07.804
and looking at me
in his golf cart

305
00:22:07.978 --> 00:22:09.240
and over the fence,
and I thought,

306
00:22:09.415 --> 00:22:10.807
"What the hell
is with this guy?"

307
00:22:11.025 --> 00:22:13.419
And then I found
a note on my car, it said,

308
00:22:13.767 --> 00:22:15.246
"I know you don't live here.

309
00:22:15.682 --> 00:22:18.337
"If you want to avoid trouble,
don't come back."

310
00:22:18.946 --> 00:22:20.208
That's what the note said.

311
00:22:21.688 --> 00:22:24.604
♪ [drum music playing] ♪

312
00:22:45.102 --> 00:22:48.410
♪ [theme music playing] ♪

313
00:23:01.945 --> 00:23:04.121
Dennis: <i>So, once in a while,
I need a place to stay at,</i>

314
00:23:04.295 --> 00:23:05.906
<i>but I housesit for people.</i>

315
00:23:06.167 --> 00:23:09.388
Woman: You know what? I own
a villa, and it's not cheap.

316
00:23:09.562 --> 00:23:11.085
Dennis: No kidding. [laughs]

317
00:23:11.259 --> 00:23:13.914
Woman: If you want to rent it,
well, that's okay.

318
00:23:14.088 --> 00:23:16.090
- You sign the contracts and...
- Oh yeah?

319
00:23:16.264 --> 00:23:17.613
- You gonna give me a deal?
- No.

320
00:23:17.787 --> 00:23:19.398
No? Yeah, come on!

321
00:23:19.746 --> 00:23:22.226
- Why would I give you a deal?
- Need a handyman, don't you?

322
00:23:23.402 --> 00:23:24.403
I don't think you're a handyman.

323
00:23:24.577 --> 00:23:25.752
- I'm very good.
- Are you?

324
00:23:25.926 --> 00:23:27.362
- I really am.
- Yeah, that's right.

325
00:23:27.536 --> 00:23:29.495
I did home improvement for
everybody in Cali.

326
00:23:29.669 --> 00:23:31.018
You know, Hollywood people.

327
00:23:31.192 --> 00:23:32.846
- Uh-huh.
- And the Palm Desert...

328
00:23:33.150 --> 00:23:35.501
Cause I was really a good
handyman. I got references.

329
00:23:35.675 --> 00:23:38.025
You know, I did work for
President Ford. Did I tell you?

330
00:23:38.199 --> 00:23:39.287
- No.
- No.

331
00:23:39.505 --> 00:23:41.071
And Barry Manilow,

332
00:23:41.245 --> 00:23:43.291
then Colonel Parker
and Dick Smothers.

333
00:23:43.465 --> 00:23:45.119
- A lot of people.
- I don't care.

334
00:23:47.948 --> 00:23:49.210
Woman: What part of the service?

335
00:23:49.384 --> 00:23:50.472
Uh, National Guard.

336
00:23:50.646 --> 00:23:52.866
National Guard? Okay, alright.

337
00:23:53.083 --> 00:23:56.173
So I did my time.
I did about almost two years.

338
00:23:56.913 --> 00:23:58.915
- Yeah.
- Not quite two years.

339
00:23:59.263 --> 00:24:01.178
- So, I got all my benefits.
- Yeah?

340
00:24:01.352 --> 00:24:02.832
VA and I got GI loans.

341
00:24:03.006 --> 00:24:04.834
What about
girlfriends here for you?

342
00:24:05.008 --> 00:24:06.662
- Well, I've met two or three.
- Have you?

343
00:24:06.836 --> 00:24:07.750
- Yeah.
- Okay.

344
00:24:07.924 --> 00:24:10.013
And they've been disasters.

345
00:24:10.231 --> 00:24:12.973
- They were disasters? [laughs]
- Disasters!

346
00:24:13.147 --> 00:24:14.975
So that's what I'm looking for.
A relationship.

347
00:24:15.149 --> 00:24:16.629
A relationship? Long term?

348
00:24:16.803 --> 00:24:19.196
- Long term.
- With money? [laughs]

349
00:24:19.370 --> 00:24:20.502
How'd you know?

350
00:24:21.024 --> 00:24:23.679
- I read it on your eyes!
- [both laughing]

351
00:24:23.853 --> 00:24:25.594
With money! [laughs]

352
00:24:25.768 --> 00:24:29.163
♪ [muffled music playing] ♪

353
00:24:32.253 --> 00:24:34.734
[insects hissing]

354
00:25:13.860 --> 00:25:17.428
[man speaking indistinctly
on golf cart radio]

355
00:25:18.255 --> 00:25:20.823
♪ [pop music playing] ♪

356
00:25:21.476 --> 00:25:23.739
Woman: <i>You're gonna die.
End of story.</i>

357
00:25:24.000 --> 00:25:27.351
What if your passing
took place right now

358
00:25:27.526 --> 00:25:29.615
at the restaurant?
It does happen.

359
00:25:29.789 --> 00:25:33.314
We're able to meet your needs,
whether it's a simple cremation,

360
00:25:33.793 --> 00:25:35.185
a full burial,

361
00:25:35.664 --> 00:25:38.537
whether you pass away here or on
the other side of the world.

362
00:25:38.711 --> 00:25:41.714
The longer you live,
the more expensive it can be

363
00:25:41.888 --> 00:25:43.846
for your family
when that time comes.

364
00:25:44.064 --> 00:25:46.545
So now's a good time
to start your pre-planning,

365
00:25:46.762 --> 00:25:49.504
because you lock it in
at today's price.

366
00:25:49.722 --> 00:25:52.333
That price is guaranteed to you
and your family

367
00:25:52.507 --> 00:25:54.553
for the rest of your life.

368
00:25:59.993 --> 00:26:01.472
Anne: <i>Today's a special day.</i>

369
00:26:01.647 --> 00:26:05.389
It is Reggie and my
47th wedding anniversary.

370
00:26:07.522 --> 00:26:10.481
<i>I will look for
some anniversary cards</i>

371
00:26:10.699 --> 00:26:12.309
<i>that I've given him before.</i>

372
00:26:15.138 --> 00:26:17.793
<i>I set them out,
kind of as a reminder</i>

373
00:26:17.967 --> 00:26:19.752
<i>of previous anniversaries.</i>

374
00:26:24.321 --> 00:26:26.019
[door opening]

375
00:26:26.236 --> 00:26:27.847
Reggie: Hello...

376
00:26:28.195 --> 00:26:29.631
Anne: Oh, it's you!

377
00:26:29.849 --> 00:26:32.112
- [Reggie sobbing]
- What's wrong?

378
00:26:33.417 --> 00:26:34.331
What?

379
00:26:57.441 --> 00:26:58.442
Anne: Okay.

380
00:26:59.226 --> 00:27:00.183
Okay.

381
00:27:02.446 --> 00:27:04.100
Anne: Happy Anniversary.

382
00:27:08.496 --> 00:27:10.106
I understand. Fine.

383
00:27:11.238 --> 00:27:12.718
Okay. Yeah, I know.

384
00:27:15.677 --> 00:27:16.983
- Bye.
- Alright, bye.

385
00:27:24.381 --> 00:27:25.818
[door closing]

386
00:27:29.517 --> 00:27:32.433
♪ [vibraphone music playing] ♪

387
00:27:40.310 --> 00:27:44.271
Anne: <i>It does bother me that
Reggie's sense of reality</i>

388
00:27:44.488 --> 00:27:49.493
<i>has become even more out there <i>than it has been before.</i></i>

389
00:27:52.061 --> 00:27:53.846
Reggie: I've been practicing
with this rock.

390
00:27:54.063 --> 00:27:55.499
- Come on, Reggie.
- It won't hurt me.

391
00:27:55.674 --> 00:27:56.805
Come on, stop.

392
00:27:58.067 --> 00:27:59.025
Reggie!

393
00:27:59.765 --> 00:28:02.071
- Stop. Stop.
- I've got the iron body.

394
00:28:05.727 --> 00:28:09.383
Anne: <i>I almost notice it more <i>now that we're in the Villages.</i></i>

395
00:28:11.733 --> 00:28:12.691
Reggie!

396
00:28:13.126 --> 00:28:15.171
- [mumbling]
- It's weird, stop.

397
00:28:15.345 --> 00:28:16.738
I know it's weird.

398
00:28:19.262 --> 00:28:22.352
Anne: <i>I did take marriage vows
for better or worse.</i>

399
00:28:23.527 --> 00:28:25.747
<i>And I did take that vow
seriously.</i>

400
00:28:38.934 --> 00:28:42.024
<i>I look for ways
that I can handle things.</i>

401
00:28:48.378 --> 00:28:49.945
<i>And how can I help him?</i>

402
00:28:50.119 --> 00:28:52.687
<i>What can I do
to help him get through</i>

403
00:28:52.861 --> 00:28:54.863
<i>what he's going through, also?</i>

404
00:29:00.390 --> 00:29:01.652
[grunts]

405
00:29:07.876 --> 00:29:11.488
[indistinct chatter]

406
00:29:14.753 --> 00:29:17.712
Woman: I would like you to meet
our new person

407
00:29:17.886 --> 00:29:20.584
that is observing us tonight.

408
00:29:20.802 --> 00:29:23.239
So you'd better be good.
Behave yourselves.

409
00:29:23.457 --> 00:29:26.242
So she thinks that
we're real nice.

410
00:29:26.634 --> 00:29:29.115
Alright, Barbara,
would you introduce yourself?

411
00:29:29.289 --> 00:29:30.507
Yes. Sure.

412
00:29:31.117 --> 00:29:32.640
Woman: Stand up and tell us
something about yourself.

413
00:29:32.814 --> 00:29:33.815
Okay...

414
00:29:34.685 --> 00:29:37.688
- I live in Duval right near...
- Woman: Barbara, come up here.

415
00:29:37.863 --> 00:29:39.168
- Oh, no way.
- [doorbell ringing]

416
00:29:39.342 --> 00:29:41.649
Um, I live in Duval,
and I've been here,

417
00:29:41.823 --> 00:29:43.651
it'll be 12 years
on October First.

418
00:29:44.304 --> 00:29:47.350
And unfortunately,
I work full time.

419
00:29:47.524 --> 00:29:48.699
Unfortunately.

420
00:29:48.917 --> 00:29:51.006
- woman Bummer.
- Yep, yep, still do.

421
00:29:51.180 --> 00:29:54.880
And I've heard about Pinky
for a long time,

422
00:29:55.532 --> 00:29:57.447
just off and on
through the years.

423
00:29:57.796 --> 00:29:59.885
And... Very nice things.

424
00:30:00.102 --> 00:30:02.148
And the singles club, and...

425
00:30:03.366 --> 00:30:06.979
- Position! The toes...
- We have a position? Oh.

426
00:30:07.153 --> 00:30:11.070
Yeah, you actually put your...
You're on your toes.

427
00:30:11.244 --> 00:30:13.072
You're sitting up
nice and straight.

428
00:30:13.463 --> 00:30:16.815
All: And one,
and two, and three,

429
00:30:16.989 --> 00:30:21.732
four, five, six, seven, eight.

430
00:30:22.037 --> 00:30:24.300
Yeah, hold it right there.
Seven, eight.

431
00:30:24.474 --> 00:30:26.563
It stays right there
for two counts.

432
00:30:26.781 --> 00:30:31.003
One, and two, and three, four,
five, six, seven, eight.

433
00:30:31.220 --> 00:30:35.921
Two, and two, and three, four,
five, six, seven, eight.

434
00:30:36.269 --> 00:30:37.923
Alrighty then. Alrighty then!

435
00:30:38.097 --> 00:30:40.099
You wanna do this
a few dozen times?

436
00:30:40.664 --> 00:30:45.365
One and two and three, four,
five, six, seven, eight.

437
00:30:45.626 --> 00:30:49.151
♪ [string music playing] ♪

438
00:31:20.226 --> 00:31:21.096
Yay...

439
00:31:22.489 --> 00:31:24.883
Better than the first game,
that's for sure.

440
00:31:43.597 --> 00:31:45.904
Manager: The case manager
communicated with the liaison

441
00:31:46.078 --> 00:31:47.862
that it was taking too long
to get the patients

442
00:31:48.036 --> 00:31:50.430
out of the hospital after
they had discharge orders.

443
00:31:50.821 --> 00:31:52.519
While we were
very fast and responsive

444
00:31:52.693 --> 00:31:54.086
coordinating the admission

445
00:31:54.260 --> 00:31:56.175
and getting the
discharge documents gathered,

446
00:31:56.349 --> 00:31:59.091
we were taking too long to pick
patients up from the hospital.

447
00:31:59.613 --> 00:32:01.397
We addressed this
with our administrator

448
00:32:01.571 --> 00:32:04.357
and found that the solution was
to add another transport van.

449
00:32:05.184 --> 00:32:08.013
♪ [rock and roll
music playing] ♪

450
00:32:11.364 --> 00:32:12.756
Woman on radio: <i>
...male enhancement pill.</i>

451
00:32:12.931 --> 00:32:14.193
<i>Men constantly
reach out and ask me,</i>

452
00:32:14.367 --> 00:32:15.977
<i>"Does Noxitril really work?</i>

453
00:32:16.151 --> 00:32:17.848
<i>Or is it just
another scam product?"</i>

454
00:32:18.023 --> 00:32:20.286
<i>I can tell you, there's nothing <i>better than Noxitril.</i></i>

455
00:32:20.460 --> 00:32:21.374
<i>I recommend this...</i>

456
00:32:22.375 --> 00:32:24.855
Man on radio: <i>We're gonna have
some fun time music.</i>

457
00:32:25.030 --> 00:32:27.554
<i>We're gonna get you in the mood to get out and party and dance</i>

458
00:32:27.728 --> 00:32:30.774
<i>go to one of the three squares, go somewhere and, well, party.</i>

459
00:32:30.949 --> 00:32:33.342
<i>If you choose to...
You want to stay inside?</i>

460
00:32:33.516 --> 00:32:35.779
<i>We hope you keep
your radio tuned in.</i>

461
00:32:35.954 --> 00:32:37.868
<i>We will keep you
bouncing and jumping around</i>

462
00:32:38.043 --> 00:32:40.045
<i>till at least seven o' clock, <i>and then...</i></i>

463
00:32:40.349 --> 00:32:41.263
Oh, shit.

464
00:32:53.493 --> 00:32:56.452
Preacher: <i>Can we know
we are saved for certain?</i>

465
00:33:00.369 --> 00:33:02.241
<i>Can we know we're
saved forever?</i>

466
00:33:05.592 --> 00:33:08.160
<i>Can we know
our salvation is secure?</i>

467
00:33:08.421 --> 00:33:10.466
<i>- The answer is "yes". Say it.- Crowd: <i>Yes.</i></i>

468
00:33:10.640 --> 00:33:12.207
- Preacher: <i>Say "yes".
- Crowd: Yes!</i>

469
00:33:12.381 --> 00:33:15.080
- Preacher: <i>1,000 times, "yes".
- Crowd: Yes!</i>

470
00:33:18.561 --> 00:33:21.216
Norman: <i>The world is
a pretty scary place.</i>

471
00:33:21.825 --> 00:33:24.089
<i>People want to feel safe.</i>

472
00:33:26.743 --> 00:33:28.441
I have a God.

473
00:33:30.138 --> 00:33:31.487
My God loves me.

474
00:33:32.575 --> 00:33:34.403
He has never let me go hungry.

475
00:33:36.405 --> 00:33:39.191
He has never let me go
without clothes.

476
00:33:40.105 --> 00:33:43.021
He has always provided me
with a bed to lay down in.

477
00:33:43.673 --> 00:33:47.112
He has always provided me
with a way to pay my debts,

478
00:33:47.851 --> 00:33:51.551
and has never let me get in
bad financial trouble.

479
00:33:52.769 --> 00:33:55.294
[indistinct chatter]

480
00:33:57.035 --> 00:34:00.212
Listen, I hate to hear that
you're sleeping in a car...

481
00:34:00.386 --> 00:34:02.214
No, that's what I'm working on.

482
00:34:02.518 --> 00:34:05.652
Yeah. I've got some
places to go. Yeah.

483
00:34:31.852 --> 00:34:33.941
Elaine: Oh, you got
a golf course there!

484
00:34:34.159 --> 00:34:35.290
Realtor: Yep.

485
00:34:35.508 --> 00:34:37.031
Elaine: Hmm,
that looks really nice.

486
00:34:37.205 --> 00:34:38.859
Realtor: I love the palm trees.

487
00:34:39.033 --> 00:34:40.991
- Elaine: Yeah, I do too.
- Realtor: Love the palm trees.

488
00:34:41.209 --> 00:34:44.256
I mean, I bet you we're
at 40 to 50 palm trees.

489
00:34:44.430 --> 00:34:46.345
Yeah, this is
the most palm trees

490
00:34:46.519 --> 00:34:48.042
I have ever seen in my life.

491
00:34:48.216 --> 00:34:50.088
- She likes palm trees.
- I love palm trees.

492
00:34:50.262 --> 00:34:52.525
There's just something
about them.

493
00:34:52.699 --> 00:34:55.310
Yeah, and it's really nice
looking all the way down

494
00:34:55.484 --> 00:34:57.225
and seeing the other houses.

495
00:34:57.399 --> 00:35:00.881
And I like getting up every
morning and being able to say,

496
00:35:01.099 --> 00:35:04.319
"It's going to be the same way,
from house to house."

497
00:35:04.493 --> 00:35:05.842
Realtor: Today,
as it is tomorrow,

498
00:35:06.016 --> 00:35:07.192
as next year,
as in five years.

499
00:35:07.366 --> 00:35:08.628
- Or ten years.
- Realtor: In ten years.

500
00:35:08.802 --> 00:35:10.020
Or 20 years.

501
00:35:16.549 --> 00:35:19.204
[thunder rumbling]

502
00:35:28.735 --> 00:35:31.433
Reggie: Hello everybody
that's been following me

503
00:35:31.607 --> 00:35:33.740
on my transformation videos.

504
00:35:33.914 --> 00:35:39.398
I need your help, I got
arrested for a silly thing.

505
00:35:39.572 --> 00:35:42.836
I'm just gonna look at it as
a silly thing and keep it light.

506
00:35:43.010 --> 00:35:45.055
I gotta go to court Tuesday,

507
00:35:45.839 --> 00:35:49.408
and I'm a little bit
puzzled about it.

508
00:35:49.625 --> 00:35:50.626
I had...

509
00:35:51.453 --> 00:35:52.541
six little...

510
00:35:54.587 --> 00:35:58.634
Not even...
Maybe two grams of THC.

511
00:35:58.808 --> 00:36:02.334
<i>And I had about five dollars' <i>worth of cocaine,</i></i>

512
00:36:02.508 --> 00:36:05.598
<i>which, obviously, I forgot.
[chuckles]</i>

513
00:36:05.815 --> 00:36:09.254
<i>And obviously, <i>I don't use cocaine, I just...</i></i>

514
00:36:09.515 --> 00:36:13.040
<i>A guy gave it to me at a party.</i>

515
00:36:22.397 --> 00:36:25.357
[windshield wipers beating]

516
00:36:30.362 --> 00:36:31.624
[car horn honking]

517
00:36:33.234 --> 00:36:35.193
Man: <i>Anne, I've seen Reggie
on YouTube.</i>

518
00:36:36.455 --> 00:36:39.458
<i>You've got people going,
"What in the world?"</i>

519
00:36:40.459 --> 00:36:44.245
Anne: <i>This situation, I still
don't know what happened.</i>

520
00:36:44.811 --> 00:36:45.855
<i>I don't understand it.</i>

521
00:36:46.726 --> 00:36:50.208
And it was very scary. Um...

522
00:36:51.209 --> 00:36:54.908
Especially when he,
in my opinion,

523
00:36:55.082 --> 00:36:57.215
didn't understand
the gravity of it.

524
00:36:57.389 --> 00:37:00.261
- So how do you deal with that?
- You just kind of accept it.

525
00:37:00.435 --> 00:37:02.481
That's not a good answer,
you know that, Anne.

526
00:37:02.655 --> 00:37:03.960
[laughs] Um...

527
00:37:04.526 --> 00:37:06.920
- That's what I've had to do.
- I understand that.

528
00:37:07.137 --> 00:37:09.488
You wonder,
"What am I doing here?"

529
00:37:09.662 --> 00:37:13.143
I can see asking myself that.
"What am I..." Wow!

530
00:37:13.709 --> 00:37:15.145
"What am I doing here?"

531
00:37:16.059 --> 00:37:17.800
'Cause I feel like
I'm overwhelmed,

532
00:37:17.974 --> 00:37:19.672
having to deal with somebody

533
00:37:19.846 --> 00:37:21.717
who doesn't think
they have a problem,

534
00:37:21.935 --> 00:37:24.981
and doesn't understand
how it impacts other people.

535
00:37:25.155 --> 00:37:26.026
Yeah.

536
00:37:26.983 --> 00:37:29.986
[thunder crackling]

537
00:37:30.422 --> 00:37:33.686
So my alternative is,
I either leave or I stay.

538
00:37:33.860 --> 00:37:35.165
Mm-hmm. Right, exactly.

539
00:37:35.557 --> 00:37:37.472
And if I stay, I have to
figure out how to handle it.

540
00:37:37.646 --> 00:37:38.778
Right.

541
00:37:39.344 --> 00:37:42.651
And so that's what I'm trying
to do, because I'm not

542
00:37:42.869 --> 00:37:45.393
to the point of saying,
"This is..."

543
00:37:45.567 --> 00:37:47.656
- Yeah. Totally understand.
- Yeah.

544
00:37:48.875 --> 00:37:52.008
What makes a relationship work?

545
00:37:52.182 --> 00:37:54.010
You're the psychologist!
[laughs]

546
00:37:54.184 --> 00:37:56.230
I don't have the answers.
You got the answers.

547
00:37:56.404 --> 00:37:58.232
- No, I don't.
- They're in you.

548
00:38:10.636 --> 00:38:12.202
Instructor: Who am I?

549
00:38:14.204 --> 00:38:15.945
Who am I?

550
00:38:17.164 --> 00:38:19.166
[shouting] Who am I?

551
00:38:21.386 --> 00:38:23.649
Hurrah! Hurrah!

552
00:38:23.823 --> 00:38:25.041
Go!

553
00:38:28.828 --> 00:38:31.874
[applause, cheering]

554
00:38:36.575 --> 00:38:41.144
What do you want to get
from this class?

555
00:38:42.145 --> 00:38:43.973
Are you here to get out
for the night

556
00:38:44.147 --> 00:38:46.759
and have some fun
and talk to people?

557
00:38:47.455 --> 00:38:52.286
Or are you here to really
develop as an actor?

558
00:38:53.069 --> 00:38:55.768
Be the character,
feel the emotion?

559
00:38:58.901 --> 00:39:00.686
And live another life?

560
00:39:02.340 --> 00:39:06.082
Woman: I... I just...
I don't know who I am.

561
00:39:06.256 --> 00:39:08.520
I used to be beautiful.

562
00:39:09.477 --> 00:39:10.783
Nothing else.

563
00:39:11.392 --> 00:39:15.265
And now, look at me.
I'm nothin'.

564
00:39:17.006 --> 00:39:19.444
You're not nothin',
you're beautiful.

565
00:39:19.748 --> 00:39:22.316
Otherwise, I suggest
you pick up a weapon

566
00:39:22.490 --> 00:39:24.013
and stand at post.

567
00:39:24.710 --> 00:39:26.451
Either way, I don't give a damn

568
00:39:26.625 --> 00:39:28.366
what you think
you're entitled to!

569
00:39:28.540 --> 00:39:29.410
Instructor: Better!

570
00:39:29.628 --> 00:39:33.414
[cheering, applause]

571
00:39:34.807 --> 00:39:35.938
Instructor: Who's next?

572
00:39:36.678 --> 00:39:38.288
Who would like to go next?

573
00:39:43.511 --> 00:39:46.906
♪ [music playing distantly] ♪

574
00:39:53.347 --> 00:39:56.568
♪ [drum beating ominously] ♪

575
00:40:14.760 --> 00:40:16.414
[pulls handbrake]

576
00:40:24.683 --> 00:40:28.164
♪ [vibraphone music playing] ♪

577
00:40:30.950 --> 00:40:32.081
Dennis: <i>Hey, good morning, Leo.</i>

578
00:40:32.430 --> 00:40:33.648
Dennis Dean.

579
00:40:33.909 --> 00:40:35.824
Just giving you a call,
and I missed you.

580
00:40:35.998 --> 00:40:38.000
So gimme a call
when you get the message.

581
00:40:38.174 --> 00:40:40.002
Look, I need to talk to you.
Thank you.

582
00:40:40.176 --> 00:40:41.743
Yeah, Norman Lee,
this is Dennis Dean.

583
00:40:41.961 --> 00:40:43.397
I haven't seen you for a while.

584
00:40:43.615 --> 00:40:46.487
The guy from California?
Good. I'm not doing good.

585
00:40:46.705 --> 00:40:48.489
Hey Greg.
Dennis, how you doing?

586
00:40:48.663 --> 00:40:50.056
Greg: <i>Yeah, okay, what's up?</i>

587
00:40:50.230 --> 00:40:52.232
Well, I got into some trouble
last night.

588
00:40:52.450 --> 00:40:53.581
- <i>Yeah?
- Dennis: Yeah.</i>

589
00:40:53.799 --> 00:40:55.975
I got in trouble
with the law last night,

590
00:40:56.149 --> 00:40:58.281
and they caught up with me,
'cause I'm kind of like

591
00:40:58.456 --> 00:41:00.849
a fugitive on the run
from California.

592
00:41:01.284 --> 00:41:04.026
A DUI in California costs
20- to 30,000 dollars,

593
00:41:04.244 --> 00:41:06.376
and I said, "I'm out of here,"
so I left the state.

594
00:41:06.594 --> 00:41:08.553
The cops spotted me by my van,

595
00:41:08.727 --> 00:41:10.946
and so they asked me
for my driver's license,

596
00:41:11.164 --> 00:41:13.166
and the cops said,
"You can't be sleeping

597
00:41:13.383 --> 00:41:15.298
on the property
of the Villages in that van."

598
00:41:15.473 --> 00:41:17.170
Now they know my number,
so anyway,

599
00:41:17.344 --> 00:41:19.955
I'm just calling to tell you
and see if you have any advice

600
00:41:20.129 --> 00:41:22.871
or if he could help me out any
way, 'cause I'm kinda desperate

601
00:41:23.393 --> 00:41:25.308
for a place to stay
and transportation.

602
00:41:25.483 --> 00:41:27.267
I need to stay at your place

603
00:41:27.441 --> 00:41:29.269
and that'd be for a couple...
Three weeks, a month,

604
00:41:29.443 --> 00:41:31.576
till I move in
with one of these chicks.

605
00:41:31.750 --> 00:41:34.404
Some money for a car, maybe,
or a scooter.

606
00:41:34.579 --> 00:41:36.319
You know, 1,000 dollars,
probably.

607
00:41:36.537 --> 00:41:38.844
Probably about 3,000, yeah.

608
00:41:48.984 --> 00:41:49.811
Dennis: Oh. Yeah.

609
00:41:50.464 --> 00:41:52.684
I'm just about ready
to call it quits.

610
00:41:52.858 --> 00:41:57.210
This is the last hurrah, and so,
if I don't make it in Florida,

611
00:41:57.384 --> 00:41:59.168
I guess I might as well
check out.

612
00:41:59.691 --> 00:42:01.083
You know, it's not good.

613
00:42:03.869 --> 00:42:06.219
You know, have to,
you know, drop dead.

614
00:42:08.700 --> 00:42:10.615
Busy. Another busy.

615
00:42:14.749 --> 00:42:15.663
Mm.

616
00:42:19.711 --> 00:42:21.539
I said from the get-go

617
00:42:21.713 --> 00:42:24.977
that I wanted to live fast,
love hard and die poor.

618
00:42:27.370 --> 00:42:29.764
And I'm right there now,
I'm poor.

619
00:42:30.765 --> 00:42:33.202
[thunder rumbling]

620
00:43:08.760 --> 00:43:12.285
♪ [the Villages' jingle
playing on PA system] ♪

621
00:43:17.072 --> 00:43:21.076
Are you a worrier?
Or are you a warrior?

622
00:43:21.511 --> 00:43:23.949
Do you lose your head
at the drop of a hat?

623
00:43:24.166 --> 00:43:26.778
Bam! Do you got
relationship problems?

624
00:43:26.995 --> 00:43:27.909
Bam!

625
00:43:28.257 --> 00:43:30.303
You got money problems,
buzzam!

626
00:43:30.956 --> 00:43:33.698
Or are you a warrior?
Can you take it in stride?

627
00:43:33.915 --> 00:43:37.092
Do you got enough faith? Is your
faith strong enough to combat,

628
00:43:37.266 --> 00:43:39.442
to beat down the devil
and his worry-problems?

629
00:43:39.617 --> 00:43:43.098
And we learned in Matthew Six
that Jesus tells us,

630
00:43:43.316 --> 00:43:45.274
"Do not worry."

631
00:43:45.448 --> 00:43:48.887
In other words, if you worry,
you simply do not trust God.

632
00:43:49.714 --> 00:43:51.280
[Reggie sighing]

633
00:43:52.107 --> 00:43:54.327
Reggie: Most important
day of my life.

634
00:43:54.544 --> 00:43:56.503
And here I am, nervous.

635
00:43:57.896 --> 00:44:00.115
I like the judge a lot.

636
00:44:02.596 --> 00:44:04.859
And today, I'm gonna
let him know

637
00:44:05.033 --> 00:44:07.079
that I like him
and I appreciate him.

638
00:44:07.732 --> 00:44:11.257
And... And now, if I come to it,

639
00:44:11.431 --> 00:44:13.955
I will tell him, "Go ahead
and put me in jail, Judge."

640
00:44:14.129 --> 00:44:15.478
Anne: Why would you do that?

641
00:44:15.653 --> 00:44:17.785
Reggie: There's nothing
they can do to me.

642
00:44:18.394 --> 00:44:19.744
Put me in jail.

643
00:44:19.961 --> 00:44:23.704
I'll just teach them Tai Chi
and lose weight.

644
00:44:23.878 --> 00:44:25.532
I told you that before.

645
00:44:25.706 --> 00:44:27.795
Do you not think
that you should just...

646
00:44:29.101 --> 00:44:32.321
not bring up contentious things

647
00:44:32.539 --> 00:44:36.499
while we're trying to get you
the best result we can here?

648
00:44:36.674 --> 00:44:39.154
I'd like for him to give me
all my money back.

649
00:44:39.328 --> 00:44:43.637
I've spent 2,000 dollars for
20 dollars' worth of marijuana.

650
00:44:43.811 --> 00:44:46.074
- Wanna hear my plan for you?
- Reggie: Yeah.

651
00:44:46.292 --> 00:44:47.467
Anne: Okay.

652
00:44:47.815 --> 00:44:51.514
My plan is that you wait for him
to say something

653
00:44:51.732 --> 00:44:53.734
and that you answer...

654
00:44:53.908 --> 00:44:56.563
Reggie: I just said that.
That's what I was gonna do.

655
00:44:56.737 --> 00:44:58.913
- I just said that!
- As short an answer as you can.

656
00:44:59.087 --> 00:45:01.350
- I just said that!
- Very respectfully.

657
00:45:02.569 --> 00:45:04.919
- Good luck.
- Okay. "Good luck"!

658
00:45:05.093 --> 00:45:06.355
- [laughs]
- You're going with me!

659
00:45:06.529 --> 00:45:08.053
You're my good luck!

660
00:45:10.272 --> 00:45:11.709
Alright, you got it.

661
00:45:17.889 --> 00:45:20.152
Judge: <i>Mr. Kincer, we've talked
about this before, but you</i>

662
00:45:20.326 --> 00:45:22.632
understand you have a right to
have an attorney represent you.

663
00:45:25.200 --> 00:45:26.027
Yessir.

664
00:45:27.725 --> 00:45:29.814
Everyone should always have
an attorney representing them.

665
00:45:32.468 --> 00:45:34.253
Well, an attorney
would tell you not to,

666
00:45:34.427 --> 00:45:36.124
but you have a right
to speak in court.

667
00:45:47.832 --> 00:45:49.964
But you gotta understand,
if you come in

668
00:45:50.138 --> 00:45:51.792
and contest something, um,

669
00:45:52.053 --> 00:45:53.489
we'll just set it for trial...

670
00:45:55.317 --> 00:45:56.275
And there's...

671
00:46:02.629 --> 00:46:03.891
What I don't like
is when someone

672
00:46:04.065 --> 00:46:05.066
gets smart alec in court.

673
00:46:06.459 --> 00:46:09.592
And I don't know why
you've decided to act this way.

674
00:46:10.724 --> 00:46:13.118
I've been very polite to you,
and I'm not trying to judge...

675
00:46:14.249 --> 00:46:17.035
- Sir, please. Sir, please.
- I just...

676
00:46:17.209 --> 00:46:19.777
Sir, we're about to change this
into something

677
00:46:19.951 --> 00:46:21.822
where you're
possibly gonna go to jail.

678
00:46:21.996 --> 00:46:24.085
You're charged with
possession of...

679
00:46:24.694 --> 00:46:26.435
Am I correct?
Possession of cocaine?

680
00:46:30.396 --> 00:46:32.137
Yes sir, well,
that's against the law.

681
00:46:33.268 --> 00:46:35.575
And just so you know,
this is being recorded,

682
00:46:35.749 --> 00:46:39.405
so when we go for trial, that
will be presented to the jury.

683
00:46:39.579 --> 00:46:41.059
You can understand now

684
00:46:41.233 --> 00:46:42.669
you're probably gonna get
convicted at trial.

685
00:46:42.843 --> 00:46:45.367
A jury hears that.
You now confessed to the crime.

686
00:46:45.846 --> 00:46:49.807
Alright, you need to get
an attorney to represent you...

687
00:46:58.206 --> 00:46:59.033
Well, and...

688
00:47:02.863 --> 00:47:04.125
Sir, I've been doing this
a long time...

689
00:47:06.606 --> 00:47:08.347
You're probably the rudest
person I've ever had in court,

690
00:47:08.521 --> 00:47:09.783
I can tell you that,

691
00:47:10.479 --> 00:47:11.959
and I've dealt with murderers,
rapists, and everything else.

692
00:47:12.133 --> 00:47:14.440
They are much more respectful
in court than you are.

693
00:47:21.316 --> 00:47:23.318
I've told you once and I've
told you too many times,

694
00:47:23.492 --> 00:47:25.973
you are the rudest person
I have ever dealt with.

695
00:47:26.147 --> 00:47:28.802
You certainly do not understand
what you're here about,

696
00:47:28.976 --> 00:47:31.196
and certainly don't understand
the ramifications

697
00:47:31.370 --> 00:47:33.024
of what's going
to happen to you.

698
00:47:36.636 --> 00:47:39.508
[Reggie and Anne
arguing indistinctly]

699
00:47:56.134 --> 00:48:00.486
♪ [band playing "Don't Know
Why" by Norah Jones] ♪

700
00:48:11.497 --> 00:48:13.716
Anne: <i>I don't think
he's gonna change,</i>

701
00:48:14.239 --> 00:48:17.503
<i>therefore I'm not in conflict about, "How do I change him?"</i>

702
00:48:19.897 --> 00:48:22.551
<i>Then I have to decide
what I'm gonna do about it.</i>

703
00:48:24.031 --> 00:48:27.252
<i>Because I can only really be
responsible for me.</i>

704
00:48:34.215 --> 00:48:36.478
[singer speaking indistinctly]

705
00:48:36.826 --> 00:48:38.567
Singer: Get home safe!

706
00:48:38.872 --> 00:48:42.397
♪ [band playing "Boogie Oogie
Oogie" by A Taste of Honey] ♪

707
00:49:00.372 --> 00:49:04.550
- [music stops]
- [applause]

708
00:49:20.914 --> 00:49:24.222
[golf cart horns honking]

709
00:49:45.983 --> 00:49:47.506
Lynn: So,
what we're gonna do is

710
00:49:47.680 --> 00:49:49.595
we're gonna work at
putting this roof down.

711
00:49:49.769 --> 00:49:51.858
Somebody told me one time
they heard it took a half-hour

712
00:49:52.032 --> 00:49:53.773
to put a Street Rod roof down.

713
00:49:53.947 --> 00:49:56.428
Well, if you help me, I think
we can do it a little faster.

714
00:49:56.602 --> 00:49:58.996
- Lift that up. Push that down.
- [Barbara laughs]

715
00:49:59.344 --> 00:50:01.346
And push this down here.

716
00:50:01.520 --> 00:50:03.826
- Oh for God's...
- Pull this over.

717
00:50:04.001 --> 00:50:06.481
- Now, was that a half-hour?
- Uh, no.

718
00:50:06.655 --> 00:50:07.787
Sit down.

719
00:50:09.310 --> 00:50:12.009
- So how does the seat feel?
- It feels very nice.

720
00:50:12.226 --> 00:50:13.749
- Comfortable?
- Very comfortable.

721
00:50:13.923 --> 00:50:15.795
- Where are you from?
- Different than the one I had.

722
00:50:15.969 --> 00:50:17.188
- Boston.
- Boston!

723
00:50:17.362 --> 00:50:18.624
- Where are you from?
- Michigan.

724
00:50:18.798 --> 00:50:20.713
- Ah!
- Now that I'm in the Villages,

725
00:50:20.887 --> 00:50:23.237
you know,
I'm what they call a "frog".

726
00:50:24.412 --> 00:50:25.587
What's a frog?

727
00:50:26.197 --> 00:50:28.808
- I'm here till I croak.
- Oh, okay!

728
00:50:37.469 --> 00:50:40.646
The golf cart salesman today
was extremely nice.

729
00:50:40.820 --> 00:50:42.474
He was tall, like Paul.

730
00:50:42.909 --> 00:50:44.824
We had a very nice rapport,

731
00:50:44.998 --> 00:50:46.391
very nice rapport.

732
00:50:46.695 --> 00:50:48.828
And I think that if something
were to happen

733
00:50:49.002 --> 00:50:50.699
naturally like that...

734
00:50:51.874 --> 00:50:54.181
It would almost be better
than saying,

735
00:50:54.355 --> 00:50:56.444
"Oh, I'm over here,
maybe looking for..."

736
00:50:56.662 --> 00:50:58.751
You know, not looking for love
or a relationship,

737
00:50:58.925 --> 00:51:00.709
- but trying to meet people.
- Hairdresser: Yeah.

738
00:51:00.883 --> 00:51:03.364
He talked
a lot about margaritas.

739
00:51:03.538 --> 00:51:05.801
Most of the people don't know
my name is Lynn.

740
00:51:05.975 --> 00:51:07.629
They know me as
the "Margarita Man."

741
00:51:07.803 --> 00:51:09.327
I'll be down in the square
and somebody yells,

742
00:51:09.501 --> 00:51:11.024
"The Margarita Man!"
And I'll wave at 'em.

743
00:51:11.198 --> 00:51:13.461
- Oh, for God's sakes!
- I don't know who they are.

744
00:51:13.766 --> 00:51:15.855
A lot of people know me because
of the margaritas I give away.

745
00:51:16.029 --> 00:51:17.204
That's nice.

746
00:51:17.509 --> 00:51:18.727
I mean, he talked a lot
about margaritas.

747
00:51:18.901 --> 00:51:20.251
He likes to drink, huh?

748
00:51:20.816 --> 00:51:22.992
Well, I think it's because he
belongs to the Parrothead Club.

749
00:51:23.167 --> 00:51:25.473
I think he's a big member
of the Parrothead Club,

750
00:51:25.647 --> 00:51:26.909
Jimmy Buffett.

751
00:51:27.519 --> 00:51:29.651
I guess he sounds like he's one
of the ones in charge of it,

752
00:51:29.825 --> 00:51:32.132
- all the fun times.
- Uh-huh.

753
00:51:32.306 --> 00:51:35.004
He's in charge of bringing
the margaritas.

754
00:51:35.309 --> 00:51:38.356
And he was telling me,
and this was funny, that he has

755
00:51:38.530 --> 00:51:41.533
two commercial-size blenders.

756
00:51:41.794 --> 00:51:44.405
And the problem with one is,
after about five gallons,

757
00:51:44.710 --> 00:51:46.277
it overheats, so... [laughs]

758
00:51:46.451 --> 00:51:48.496
- Barbara: Five gallons? God!
- Five gallons.

759
00:51:48.670 --> 00:51:51.543
I don't know what that means,
"commercial-size". Must be big,

760
00:51:51.934 --> 00:51:53.284
because when his daughter

761
00:51:53.458 --> 00:51:55.677
gave him a margarita mixer
at Christmas,

762
00:51:56.113 --> 00:51:57.984
he was very nice
to his daughter, he said,

763
00:51:58.158 --> 00:51:59.333
"Michelle,
this is a great present,

764
00:51:59.507 --> 00:52:00.943
but you have to understand,

765
00:52:01.553 --> 00:52:04.730
I make margaritas by the gallon.
This makes them by the glass."

766
00:52:04.904 --> 00:52:06.775
I haven't had a margarita
for a long time.

767
00:52:07.385 --> 00:52:09.604
- We can fix that.
- Okay! [laughs]

768
00:52:09.778 --> 00:52:12.041
- Okay, I'm fine with that.
- That was easy!

769
00:52:12.216 --> 00:52:13.739
Yeah, that was fine.

770
00:52:14.218 --> 00:52:16.002
I was test-driving
the golf cart...

771
00:52:17.134 --> 00:52:18.570
So, you say I have
a gift of gab?

772
00:52:18.744 --> 00:52:21.790
Yeah, but a good gift of gab.
It's a good one.

773
00:52:21.964 --> 00:52:24.141
And my hair was
all over my face,

774
00:52:24.315 --> 00:52:26.012
'cause I didn't have
my sunglasses on.

775
00:52:26.186 --> 00:52:28.188
<i>And he took his hat off
and he put it on me.</i>

776
00:52:28.362 --> 00:52:29.624
And that was just... He said,

777
00:52:29.798 --> 00:52:31.148
"My God,
your hair's all over you."

778
00:52:31.322 --> 00:52:33.237
So I said,
"Yeah, I can see that."

779
00:52:33.585 --> 00:52:37.110
So, you know, I could always go
to a Parrothead meeting,

780
00:52:37.415 --> 00:52:38.981
or one of their parties,

781
00:52:39.156 --> 00:52:40.722
'cause they have 'em
probably every month.

782
00:52:40.896 --> 00:52:42.463
- Hairdresser: Mm-hmm.
- And just check it out.

783
00:53:03.615 --> 00:53:04.398
Dennis: Yeah.

784
00:53:05.007 --> 00:53:06.052
Who's this?

785
00:53:06.705 --> 00:53:09.577
Norman: Isaiah, up!
Watch! Guys! Look!

786
00:53:10.012 --> 00:53:11.579
Dennis: Oh here's...
The story is...

787
00:53:11.753 --> 00:53:14.669
Yeah, I'm right now
with Norman Lee at his church.

788
00:53:14.843 --> 00:53:16.541
Norman: Isaiah! Up! Up!

789
00:53:16.758 --> 00:53:18.543
Dennis: He's gonna help me out
with some stuff.

790
00:53:20.936 --> 00:53:22.024
Norman: Good boy!

791
00:53:22.503 --> 00:53:23.461
Good boy!

792
00:53:24.897 --> 00:53:26.203
Good boy.

793
00:53:26.420 --> 00:53:27.987
Hey, Dennis!
I think we have your ride!

794
00:53:28.161 --> 00:53:29.336
Dennis: [laughs] Yeah!

795
00:53:30.032 --> 00:53:31.686
Ninety percent
of the weddings I've done,

796
00:53:31.860 --> 00:53:33.340
everybody's been
over 70 years old.

797
00:53:33.514 --> 00:53:35.429
- Sure, yeah. Wow.
- I mean hundreds of them.

798
00:53:35.603 --> 00:53:37.692
And it's wonderful for people
to find love again...

799
00:53:37.866 --> 00:53:38.998
Oh, yeah.

800
00:53:39.172 --> 00:53:40.869
...in the twilight
of their years.

801
00:53:41.043 --> 00:53:43.002
And so, you're no different
than anybody else.

802
00:53:43.176 --> 00:53:44.395
- Yeah.
- You know.

803
00:53:44.699 --> 00:53:46.875
- If you can find...
- The right person.

804
00:53:47.049 --> 00:53:48.921
When you find a good woman,
it shows.

805
00:53:49.095 --> 00:53:51.053
- Yeah.
- Or if you find a good man,

806
00:53:51.228 --> 00:53:53.012
- you know who it is.
- yeah.

807
00:53:53.491 --> 00:53:55.101
I've been single
most of my life,

808
00:53:55.319 --> 00:53:58.235
and I've met a lot of bad women.
I've had bad experiences.

809
00:53:58.409 --> 00:54:00.367
[laughs] Well,
you're not the only one.

810
00:54:00.541 --> 00:54:01.977
- No, no.
- You know, I was young,

811
00:54:02.151 --> 00:54:04.632
I played on the road,
and we did crazy things.

812
00:54:04.806 --> 00:54:07.418
But you can't have
the flavor of the week

813
00:54:07.635 --> 00:54:10.638
when you're 81 years old.
You kinda gotta find somebody.

814
00:54:10.812 --> 00:54:12.031
Yeah.

815
00:54:12.336 --> 00:54:14.076
Somebody that's somewhat
got it together...

816
00:54:15.600 --> 00:54:18.733
that can help steer you
in the right direction, also.

817
00:54:20.344 --> 00:54:23.085
I know exactly how you feel,
and I know exactly

818
00:54:23.303 --> 00:54:24.391
what you're doing,

819
00:54:24.609 --> 00:54:27.742
because I lived my life,
basically,

820
00:54:27.916 --> 00:54:30.223
the same way up until
I was 40 years old.

821
00:54:30.397 --> 00:54:32.138
- Yeah.
- But when I was 40,

822
00:54:32.312 --> 00:54:34.706
I didn't want to end up
like you at 81.

823
00:54:34.880 --> 00:54:36.142
Yeah.

824
00:54:36.447 --> 00:54:37.578
There has to be more
than just surviving.

825
00:54:39.058 --> 00:54:40.799
Norman: <i>Heavenly Father,</i>

826
00:54:41.060 --> 00:54:44.063
<i>my brother Dennis is down
at a low point in his life.</i>

827
00:54:44.281 --> 00:54:45.978
<i>We're praying for some shelter,</i>

828
00:54:46.195 --> 00:54:49.764
<i>for some transportation, <i>for some friends in his life,</i></i>

829
00:54:49.938 --> 00:54:51.549
<i>some good Christian
men and women</i>

830
00:54:51.766 --> 00:54:53.681
<i>that can help him along
in his struggle.</i>

831
00:54:53.899 --> 00:54:56.162
<i>We're gonna pray for
possibly a companion,</i>

832
00:54:56.380 --> 00:54:58.338
<i>A good woman, a good
godly woman</i>

833
00:54:58.512 --> 00:55:00.688
<i>to help him stay on the
straight and narrow,</i>

834
00:55:00.862 --> 00:55:02.821
to help him get a direction

835
00:55:03.038 --> 00:55:04.910
so that he doesn't necessarily
have to keep going

836
00:55:05.084 --> 00:55:06.433
up and down in his life,

837
00:55:06.912 --> 00:55:10.959
that maybe, at 81 years old,
he can finally be content

838
00:55:11.177 --> 00:55:12.918
and stand on solid ground.

839
00:55:13.571 --> 00:55:16.269
We ask all this in the mighty
name of Jesus, amen and amen.

840
00:55:16.443 --> 00:55:18.706
- Amen. Amen.
- Amen. Amen.

841
00:55:19.403 --> 00:55:21.230
- Amen, brother.
- Dennis: Thank you so much.

842
00:55:24.495 --> 00:55:26.105
Counsellor: <i>We have talked
a lot today</i>

843
00:55:26.279 --> 00:55:27.802
<i>about being positive, Anne.</i>

844
00:55:28.107 --> 00:55:31.153
Has that situation,
from your perspective, improved?

845
00:55:31.328 --> 00:55:35.332
Or has it got a long ways to go?
A little ways to go? What...?

846
00:55:35.506 --> 00:55:37.943
Well, we didn't have
a real marriage before.

847
00:55:38.117 --> 00:55:39.684
Now we have a real marriage.

848
00:55:40.815 --> 00:55:46.168
We were seriously talking about
going our separate ways,

849
00:55:46.908 --> 00:55:49.650
but we're much, much,
much better at it.

850
00:55:49.824 --> 00:55:51.652
And besides, we don't argue
as much anymore.

851
00:55:51.826 --> 00:55:53.567
I don't want to put
words in your mouth.

852
00:55:55.526 --> 00:55:58.180
When we get mad at each other,
do we carry it around?

853
00:55:59.356 --> 00:56:02.228
Um... Well,
sometimes I do, yeah.

854
00:56:03.925 --> 00:56:08.408
So, Anne, when was it hardest
for you to be positive?

855
00:56:08.582 --> 00:56:13.631
Is there a certain setting
that would trigger negativeness?

856
00:56:14.458 --> 00:56:17.330
Feeling that
I'm not being listened to,

857
00:56:17.548 --> 00:56:20.333
that makes me kinda lose...

858
00:56:21.595 --> 00:56:22.509
control.

859
00:56:23.510 --> 00:56:26.208
Because even if somebody
doesn't agree, I feel like...

860
00:56:26.861 --> 00:56:27.949
they could listen.

861
00:56:30.430 --> 00:56:34.303
So what would you like to see
in Reggie that

862
00:56:34.695 --> 00:56:37.959
would be helpful,
not only to Reggie, but to you?

863
00:56:38.133 --> 00:56:40.135
Um... Being open,

864
00:56:40.484 --> 00:56:42.224
being listened to,

865
00:56:42.486 --> 00:56:44.401
being able to communicate.

866
00:56:45.184 --> 00:56:46.620
Getting respect.

867
00:56:50.319 --> 00:56:51.669
And love.

868
00:56:52.321 --> 00:56:53.584
And...

869
00:56:53.975 --> 00:56:55.890
But that's a checklist
of beautiful emotions.

870
00:56:56.064 --> 00:56:58.458
How do you want me
to work on...?

871
00:56:58.676 --> 00:57:01.243
Those are things that I want.

872
00:57:01.461 --> 00:57:04.203
They are important to me,
so they are the things that

873
00:57:04.377 --> 00:57:08.207
I would want you
to continue to do, and work on.

874
00:57:08.381 --> 00:57:09.991
All of those things.

875
00:57:35.364 --> 00:57:36.931
Well, that certainly
shouldn't let the...

876
00:57:37.715 --> 00:57:39.151
I know this is serious.

877
00:57:39.673 --> 00:57:41.109
It's still a violation
of the law,

878
00:57:41.283 --> 00:57:42.894
but it's, as you've said before,

879
00:57:43.068 --> 00:57:46.245
it's not the most serious case
that I deal with so...

880
00:58:18.320 --> 00:58:21.323
[doorbell ringing]

881
00:58:28.853 --> 00:58:30.594
- Hello there.
- Hey. Come in.

882
00:58:30.768 --> 00:58:31.725
- Thank you.
- Come in.

883
00:58:31.899 --> 00:58:32.813
- Good to see you.
- Yeah.

884
00:58:32.987 --> 00:58:33.945
Dennis: Mm-hmm.

885
00:58:34.423 --> 00:58:35.773
Good to see you.
It's been a long time.

886
00:58:35.947 --> 00:58:38.253
Nancy: I know.
Welcome back.

887
00:58:38.427 --> 00:58:39.690
Dennis: Yeah, thanks a lot.

888
00:58:39.994 --> 00:58:41.866
I was always worried
that maybe something...

889
00:58:42.040 --> 00:58:45.217
If your van broke down,
what would you do, you know?

890
00:58:45.391 --> 00:58:46.697
- Dennis: Yeah.
- I thought about it.

891
00:58:46.871 --> 00:58:48.829
Sure. The van has to go.

892
00:58:49.003 --> 00:58:50.614
I can't drive the van
on the streets,

893
00:58:50.788 --> 00:58:53.486
because it's like a wanted
person that's wanted.

894
00:58:53.704 --> 00:58:56.402
Where will you live, if you
don't have your van to live in?

895
00:58:56.576 --> 00:58:58.056
You're right...

896
00:58:58.491 --> 00:59:00.841
- [chuckles] That's my question!
- You're right.

897
00:59:01.189 --> 00:59:03.235
- I want to know.
- You want me back?

898
00:59:03.409 --> 00:59:05.890
- [both laughing]
- Come on, tell me.

899
00:59:06.064 --> 00:59:08.545
I don't know for sure.
I'm just playing it day by day.

900
00:59:08.719 --> 00:59:11.678
Yeah, I know. You're edging
around the answer, right?

901
00:59:11.896 --> 00:59:14.507
- Okay. Yeah.
- I just wanna be comfortable.

902
00:59:16.335 --> 00:59:18.119
Are you going
to let me stay here?

903
00:59:18.337 --> 00:59:21.470
Yeah, you can. You know me.
You can trust me.

904
00:59:21.688 --> 00:59:23.734
Oh, I can trust you, absolutely.
Yeah.

905
00:59:23.908 --> 00:59:25.213
- You know that.
- Yeah.

906
00:59:25.387 --> 00:59:27.128
So for old time's sake?

907
00:59:27.302 --> 00:59:29.130
- Yes. I can do that.
- Thank you.

908
00:59:29.827 --> 00:59:34.353
♪ [dramatic music playing] ♪

909
00:59:59.726 --> 01:00:02.555
♪ [Dennis singing
indistinctly] ♪

910
01:00:21.139 --> 01:00:23.402
Oh, man. Oh, man. What the...?

911
01:00:30.627 --> 01:00:34.195
[indistinct speech
over telephone]

912
01:00:42.639 --> 01:00:43.988
- Woman: <i>Hello?
- Dennis: Hey, Mom.</i>

913
01:00:44.162 --> 01:00:45.076
Dennis. How are you?

914
01:00:47.165 --> 01:00:48.383
Everything's great.

915
01:00:48.645 --> 01:00:51.256
You know.
Show business, and jobs, and...

916
01:00:51.473 --> 01:00:53.214
<i>- Yeah?
- Yeah, everything's great.</i>

917
01:00:56.348 --> 01:00:57.523
I thought you would be.

918
01:00:59.743 --> 01:01:00.657
Have you?

919
01:01:03.616 --> 01:01:06.358
Oh, uh, I'm doing
some handyman work.

920
01:01:06.532 --> 01:01:10.057
And I'm doing some show
business stuff and DJ stuff.

921
01:01:11.842 --> 01:01:14.148
Yeah, I'm busy all the time.

922
01:01:19.458 --> 01:01:22.374
A couple of women?
[chuckles] Just one at a time.

923
01:01:22.679 --> 01:01:24.463
[Dennis' mom laughs]

924
01:01:24.637 --> 01:01:26.378
Dennis: <i>The Villages is
such a good place.</i>

925
01:01:27.771 --> 01:01:29.555
It's like God's
waiting room for heaven.

926
01:01:30.730 --> 01:01:32.950
We have too much fun
down here, you know?

927
01:01:36.475 --> 01:01:37.563
Yeah. I love it.

928
01:01:38.042 --> 01:01:39.696
Okay, Mom. I gotta
get off the phone.

929
01:01:39.913 --> 01:01:41.306
I got another phone call
coming in.

930
01:01:44.526 --> 01:01:46.093
I'll talk to you
in a couple weeks.

931
01:02:06.810 --> 01:02:08.289
Lynn: I'm glad you came out.

932
01:02:08.463 --> 01:02:09.987
Barbara: I'm glad
I came out, too.

933
01:02:10.944 --> 01:02:12.424
Lynn: I was afraid that

934
01:02:12.598 --> 01:02:14.818
I'd have to drink
all those margaritas by myself.

935
01:02:15.035 --> 01:02:16.689
Barbara:
Oh, I'm so glad you don't.

936
01:02:16.863 --> 01:02:18.082
[both laugh]

937
01:02:18.386 --> 01:02:19.953
Barbara: This is gonna be bad.

938
01:02:20.432 --> 01:02:22.303
Lynn: You never know.
That's the wrong attitude.

939
01:02:22.521 --> 01:02:24.175
Gotta have a positive attitude.

940
01:02:25.480 --> 01:02:27.787
- Barbara: Oh, that was bad.
- [Lynn laughs]

941
01:02:28.005 --> 01:02:29.484
Barbara: Yeah, right.
Positive, okay.

942
01:02:29.658 --> 01:02:32.096
Lynn: Let's try another one.
That was a first stroke.

943
01:02:33.706 --> 01:02:36.361
Barbarda: Oh, that was so close!

944
01:02:40.147 --> 01:02:41.627
[ball falls in hole]

945
01:02:42.106 --> 01:02:43.585
Barbara: You make me sick.

946
01:02:43.803 --> 01:02:45.762
I mean you're a nice person
and all, but...

947
01:02:45.979 --> 01:02:47.067
[Lynn laughs]

948
01:02:48.373 --> 01:02:53.160
I will bet you a good-size
margarita I can get this in.

949
01:02:53.334 --> 01:02:54.596
Wait!

950
01:02:55.075 --> 01:02:57.077
But I can still have
a margarita even if I don't.

951
01:02:57.643 --> 01:02:59.776
I think I lose
no matter what you do!

952
01:03:01.081 --> 01:03:03.214
Barbara: Puff!
Your margarita. Oh!

953
01:03:03.431 --> 01:03:05.129
- Lynn: I didn't help you!
- Barbara: No, you didn't.

954
01:03:05.303 --> 01:03:06.783
You didn't touch that.
That was me.

955
01:03:07.000 --> 01:03:08.741
Lynn: Oh, look at there,
you blocked mine.

956
01:03:08.915 --> 01:03:10.134
Barbara: I'm sorry.

957
01:03:10.395 --> 01:03:11.831
Lynn: I saw you try
to block my ball.

958
01:03:12.005 --> 01:03:13.180
Barbara: No, I didn't do it
on purpose.

959
01:03:13.354 --> 01:03:15.008
Lynn: Yeah,
you did it on purpose.

960
01:03:15.226 --> 01:03:16.967
- Barbara: I didn't, I swear.
- Lynn: I see how it goes.

961
01:03:17.141 --> 01:03:19.099
Barbara: So Lynn, you're going
to dinner at eight o' clock.

962
01:03:19.317 --> 01:03:21.972
- With a nice lady, or a friend?
- Lynn: I hope so.

963
01:03:22.146 --> 01:03:23.669
I mean, a friend
that could be a lady.

964
01:03:23.887 --> 01:03:26.237
You know what I'm saying.
Is it a man or a woman?

965
01:03:26.411 --> 01:03:28.413
Is it a man or a woman, Lynn?

966
01:03:28.587 --> 01:03:30.937
- It's a lady.
- Okay, that's nice.

967
01:03:31.546 --> 01:03:33.679
So you're gonna have a good
time tonight. That's good.

968
01:03:33.897 --> 01:03:36.377
Oh, yeah. That's what
life's about at this age.

969
01:03:36.551 --> 01:03:37.770
I know.

970
01:03:37.944 --> 01:03:40.077
If you can't enjoy
your life now,

971
01:03:40.251 --> 01:03:42.296
- you're never gonna do it.
- Nope.

972
01:03:43.341 --> 01:03:45.909
Man on radio: <i>And there's
no heartaches tonight.</i>

973
01:03:46.083 --> 01:03:48.868
<i>If you get out and dance in the square, you'll just have fun.</i>

974
01:03:49.042 --> 01:03:50.522
<i>Paisley Craze will be
entertaining</i>

975
01:03:50.696 --> 01:03:51.871
<i>on the gazebo stage</i>

976
01:03:52.089 --> 01:03:53.917
<i>in Spanish Springs tonight.</i>

977
01:03:54.134 --> 01:03:56.354
<i>At Lake Sumter Landing, it's
Sherry and the Rockafellas.</i>

978
01:04:13.893 --> 01:04:16.287
♪ [jazz music playing] ♪

979
01:04:19.768 --> 01:04:21.727
[Dennis mumbling]

980
01:04:33.217 --> 01:04:34.348
Jesus Christ!

981
01:04:36.916 --> 01:04:39.005
Man, I tell ya, son of a bitch.

982
01:05:00.505 --> 01:05:02.768
Anchor: <i>On a warm summer night,
15 years ago,</i>

983
01:05:02.942 --> 01:05:04.465
<i>the Lake Sumter
Landing lighthouse</i>

984
01:05:04.639 --> 01:05:06.293
<i>lit up for the first time,</i>

985
01:05:06.467 --> 01:05:08.861
<i>marking the opening
of the lakefront downtown.</i>

986
01:05:09.122 --> 01:05:10.515
<i>In the 15 years
since it opened...</i>

987
01:05:10.732 --> 01:05:12.560
Nancy: <i>We had such a good time.
We still do.</i>

988
01:05:12.778 --> 01:05:14.127
<i>We have such a good time.</i>

989
01:05:17.000 --> 01:05:18.523
That's why we're together.

990
01:05:18.740 --> 01:05:21.439
And I feel like he helps me too,
you know.

991
01:05:21.656 --> 01:05:23.832
He helps me
with my spirit, and...

992
01:05:24.050 --> 01:05:25.965
- And, yeah.
- Handyman.

993
01:05:26.183 --> 01:05:28.011
- Just making me happy.
- [laughs]

994
01:05:43.983 --> 01:05:45.942
Nancy: You missed a spot
right there.

995
01:05:49.032 --> 01:05:51.295
Don't even think about it.
I will kill you.

996
01:05:51.469 --> 01:05:53.210
- Dennis: Right on the feet?
- Nancy: I will kill you!

997
01:05:53.384 --> 01:05:56.517
- Dennis: The feet are alright!
- [Nancy yelps]

998
01:05:56.735 --> 01:05:58.128
Ooh, that feels kinda good.

999
01:05:58.345 --> 01:06:00.608
Dennis: How about that?
Okay! More? Higher?

1000
01:06:00.826 --> 01:06:02.393
- Nancy: Yeah! [laughs]
- Dennis: Higher.

1001
01:06:05.048 --> 01:06:06.745
Nancy: <i>Sometimes, I think,</i>

1002
01:06:06.963 --> 01:06:09.269
<i>"Oh, he's just looking
for a place to live."</i>

1003
01:06:11.358 --> 01:06:12.664
<i>That bothers me.</i>

1004
01:06:14.274 --> 01:06:17.234
Dennis: <i>Yeah, she said, <i>"You're distant. What's wrong?"</i></i>

1005
01:06:24.023 --> 01:06:26.765
Nancy: <i>He's not real, kind of...</i>

1006
01:06:29.289 --> 01:06:30.987
- Lovey-dovey.
- Yes.

1007
01:06:31.204 --> 01:06:34.642
I mean, yeah. He doesn't show
his affections a lot, but...

1008
01:06:35.208 --> 01:06:39.604
But... sometimes that
discourages me, but...

1009
01:06:40.387 --> 01:06:42.911
That's probably because
I have a lot on my mind.

1010
01:06:43.129 --> 01:06:44.348
I'm always working deals.

1011
01:06:44.522 --> 01:06:46.263
He's always got
something on his mind.

1012
01:06:46.654 --> 01:06:49.092
<i>The first time Village of <i>Collier resident, Mike Weese,</i></i>

1013
01:06:49.309 --> 01:06:52.182
<i>owned a Corvette,
it was a 1969 model.</i>

1014
01:06:52.399 --> 01:06:54.967
<i>But the vehicle didn't quite
fit his family of five,</i>

1015
01:06:55.185 --> 01:06:58.014
<i>so he traded it in for an
Oldsmobile station wagon.</i>

1016
01:06:58.275 --> 01:07:00.146
<i>He always dreamed
of owning another one,</i>

1017
01:07:00.364 --> 01:07:03.584
<i>and 50 years later, he's back behind the wheel of a Corvette.</i>

1018
01:07:03.802 --> 01:07:05.673
<i>I get a lot of people
that really love</i>

1019
01:07:05.891 --> 01:07:06.848
<i>the color combination...</i>

1020
01:07:07.588 --> 01:07:10.678
[TV playing distantly]

1021
01:07:11.897 --> 01:07:15.074
- You do that really well.
- [laughs]

1022
01:07:15.379 --> 01:07:16.423
Thank you.

1023
01:07:19.296 --> 01:07:20.775
- That looks good.
- Reggie: Thank you.

1024
01:07:20.949 --> 01:07:21.994
Anne: Excellent.

1025
01:07:23.082 --> 01:07:26.694
You think this is the first time
we have ever done this together?

1026
01:07:27.869 --> 01:07:31.917
- Cut things on a cutting board?
- This lifetime it is, for sure.

1027
01:07:33.614 --> 01:07:34.963
Anne: This is pretty good.

1028
01:07:36.661 --> 01:07:40.273
Man: So what's the status
on the court situation?

1029
01:07:41.100 --> 01:07:42.667
Basically, it's over.

1030
01:07:42.884 --> 01:07:44.234
- It is?
- I've got to...

1031
01:07:44.451 --> 01:07:47.585
After I go through four months,

1032
01:07:47.889 --> 01:07:50.979
three months of drug
and alcohol counseling,

1033
01:07:51.197 --> 01:07:52.764
and therapy,

1034
01:07:53.286 --> 01:07:56.115
then my record will be expunged.

1035
01:07:57.508 --> 01:07:59.075
Man: What's gonna be
the outcome on this?

1036
01:07:59.249 --> 01:08:00.989
What do you want
to see happen?

1037
01:08:01.512 --> 01:08:04.471
I sincerely would just like
to be totally natural.

1038
01:08:04.689 --> 01:08:05.820
Man: Absolutely.

1039
01:08:06.125 --> 01:08:07.735
You want to learn to live
without having

1040
01:08:07.909 --> 01:08:08.910
drugs be a crutch.

1041
01:08:09.085 --> 01:08:10.999
I don't want to do no more pot.

1042
01:08:11.435 --> 01:08:13.350
- I would... Yeah.
- Yeah. That...

1043
01:08:14.264 --> 01:08:15.961
I think that's great.

1044
01:08:16.135 --> 01:08:18.181
- Man: That what you're saying?
- That's what you're saying.

1045
01:08:18.355 --> 01:08:19.965
Man: Is that what
you're saying? Okay.

1046
01:08:32.630 --> 01:08:35.198
Reggie: <i>When I first came here</i>

1047
01:08:35.372 --> 01:08:38.331
<i>I did not like most people
here.</i>

1048
01:08:43.075 --> 01:08:45.077
<i>But I figured it out.</i>

1049
01:08:45.338 --> 01:08:47.688
♪ [theme music playing] ♪

1050
01:09:00.092 --> 01:09:02.268
Reggie: <i>I love golf!</i>

1051
01:09:03.182 --> 01:09:05.010
<i>It's exactly like Tai Chi.</i>

1052
01:09:06.968 --> 01:09:08.970
<i>Everything is out there.</i>

1053
01:09:09.188 --> 01:09:11.712
The golf ball
is actually in here.

1054
01:09:11.930 --> 01:09:15.151
In my mind.
And all that is just a dream.

1055
01:09:18.241 --> 01:09:22.027
<i>So you can control it
just by being in the dream.</i>

1056
01:09:31.036 --> 01:09:32.603
- Move your hips...
- Anne: Oh, okay.

1057
01:09:32.777 --> 01:09:34.474
- Reggie: Move your hips!
- [Anne laughs]

1058
01:09:34.648 --> 01:09:38.696
- Reggie: You say, "Oo-hoo!"
- Anne: Alright, okay. [laughs]

1059
01:09:39.871 --> 01:09:40.828
Okay.

1060
01:09:41.002 --> 01:09:43.701
Wait, so... Here, and then here.

1061
01:09:45.529 --> 01:09:47.226
Reggie: <i>It's a dream world,</i>

1062
01:09:47.444 --> 01:09:50.360
<i>and I'm taking advantage <i>of every second of the dream.</i></i>

1063
01:09:50.577 --> 01:09:52.623
<i>And we're living
the dream together.</i>

1064
01:09:54.712 --> 01:09:55.582
[laughing] There!

1065
01:09:55.756 --> 01:09:58.890
You seem to be much better

1066
01:09:59.064 --> 01:10:03.068
and on a course that's stable.

1067
01:10:04.635 --> 01:10:06.376
- We haven't seen... [laughs]
- [growls]

1068
01:10:13.209 --> 01:10:16.908
Reggie: <i>I screwed up worse than
anybody could ever screw up.</i>

1069
01:10:20.477 --> 01:10:22.130
<i>In one way, Anne thinks</i>

1070
01:10:22.305 --> 01:10:24.785
<i>it's the worst thing
that ever happened to her.</i>

1071
01:10:25.308 --> 01:10:27.832
<i>It's terrible. It's traumatic.</i>

1072
01:10:29.703 --> 01:10:32.750
<i>And it's the best thing
that ever happened to us.</i>

1073
01:10:33.011 --> 01:10:36.144
It still has impacted us.
I mean, we went through it.

1074
01:10:36.319 --> 01:10:39.670
I went through it, so it isn't
anything I'm gonna forget.

1075
01:10:39.844 --> 01:10:42.325
But it was a good thing,
and time heals all wounds.

1076
01:10:42.499 --> 01:10:45.371
It was not a good thing
to go through, but...

1077
01:10:45.545 --> 01:10:47.721
Really?
This would not have resulted...

1078
01:10:48.156 --> 01:10:51.682
We would still be roommates,
and not have a marriage

1079
01:10:51.899 --> 01:10:53.858
- if that hadn't happened.
- I...

1080
01:10:54.119 --> 01:10:57.122
Okay, I just see it a little
differently from you, I guess.

1081
01:10:58.079 --> 01:10:59.255
- Okay.
- Okay.

1082
01:11:03.563 --> 01:11:04.999
Announcer: Go!

1083
01:11:05.304 --> 01:11:08.394
Rowers: [chanting] <i>
One, two, three, four, five!</i>

1084
01:11:08.612 --> 01:11:12.093
<i>One, two, three, four, five!</i>

1085
01:11:12.311 --> 01:11:14.792
<i>One, two, three, four...!</i>

1086
01:11:15.053 --> 01:11:17.142
Hey Parrotheads!
What time is it?

1087
01:11:17.360 --> 01:11:20.101
Crowd: Time for a team drink!

1088
01:11:20.319 --> 01:11:21.886
Woo!

1089
01:11:22.190 --> 01:11:26.282
♪ [band playing
rock 'n' roll music] ♪

1090
01:11:52.699 --> 01:11:55.311
Lynn: So for your first day
as a Parrothead...

1091
01:11:55.528 --> 01:11:58.314
- I'm not a Parrothead yet!
- Lynn: Maybe-member.

1092
01:11:58.531 --> 01:12:00.272
- This is awesome.
- It is awesome, isn't it?

1093
01:12:00.490 --> 01:12:01.708
This has a good vibe.

1094
01:12:02.448 --> 01:12:04.363
Lynn, I can get this, really.

1095
01:12:04.581 --> 01:12:06.626
You don't have to.
I can get this.

1096
01:12:06.844 --> 01:12:08.541
Look at all of this money I won!

1097
01:12:08.715 --> 01:12:10.587
Where'd you win that from,
a raffle?

1098
01:12:16.941 --> 01:12:18.725
I'm telling you,
it is just so much fun,

1099
01:12:18.943 --> 01:12:20.292
so many things to do.

1100
01:12:20.510 --> 01:12:22.642
Yeah, I gotta loosen up
a little, I think.

1101
01:12:23.034 --> 01:12:24.905
Lynn: Really?
I hadn't noticed that.

1102
01:12:25.993 --> 01:12:29.257
♪ [band playing country music] ♪

1103
01:12:35.046 --> 01:12:39.006
♪ [band playing "Johnny B Goode"
by Chuck Berry] ♪

1104
01:12:56.502 --> 01:12:59.331
- Crowd: Woo!
- Singer: Good job!

1105
01:13:00.071 --> 01:13:01.681
"Johnny B Goode"!

1106
01:13:08.993 --> 01:13:11.212
Nancy: You get
your shit together!

1107
01:13:11.517 --> 01:13:13.606
Now! I'm telling you!

1108
01:13:13.780 --> 01:13:15.434
- Dennis: I got to...
- Nancy: I'm telling you.

1109
01:13:15.608 --> 01:13:17.001
Dennis: I have to get going.

1110
01:13:17.175 --> 01:13:18.655
Nancy: I thought everything
was together.

1111
01:13:18.829 --> 01:13:20.134
- Dennis: It was.
- I thought we were ready to go.

1112
01:13:20.308 --> 01:13:21.527
[door closing]

1113
01:13:23.921 --> 01:13:26.140
Anyway,
we got to get out of here.

1114
01:13:29.317 --> 01:13:30.667
Nancy: Canned foods.

1115
01:13:30.884 --> 01:13:33.626
We need to get that.
And you need bleach.

1116
01:13:34.714 --> 01:13:37.543
We've got bleach
out in the shed, so...

1117
01:13:37.978 --> 01:13:39.763
Bananas, peanut butter.

1118
01:13:39.980 --> 01:13:43.680
You have peanut butter, but
maybe we should get some more.

1119
01:13:43.854 --> 01:13:46.596
- Yup, we should get some more.
- Peanut butter, your favorite.

1120
01:13:46.857 --> 01:13:48.772
♪ [theme music playing] ♪

1121
01:13:48.989 --> 01:13:50.861
Dennis: <i>I've had a lot
of freedom in my life,</i>

1122
01:13:51.035 --> 01:13:53.298
<i>'cause I don't get hooked up
with these women.</i>

1123
01:13:53.733 --> 01:13:55.605
<i>When I'm with Nancy,
I'm confined.</i>

1124
01:13:56.780 --> 01:13:58.651
Nancy: <i>Are you listening to me?</i>

1125
01:13:59.783 --> 01:14:02.350
♪ [band playing
rock and roll music] ♪

1126
01:14:09.053 --> 01:14:11.795
Dennis: <i>It's comfortable being
around her, but...</i>

1127
01:14:12.273 --> 01:14:13.884
<i>I have to give up the freedom.</i>

1128
01:14:23.894 --> 01:14:25.722
<i>Comfort or freedom?</i>

1129
01:14:25.939 --> 01:14:28.464
<i>That's the way it works.
You can't have it both ways.</i>

1130
01:14:46.177 --> 01:14:47.221
Nancy: Dennis?

1131
01:14:49.049 --> 01:14:51.922
- What do you want for lunch?
- [exhales]

1132
01:15:31.309 --> 01:15:32.397
When I was young,

1133
01:15:33.311 --> 01:15:35.879
I used to come home from school
to an empty house.

1134
01:15:37.054 --> 01:15:39.012
My father had flown the coop,

1135
01:15:39.230 --> 01:15:41.841
and my mother worked
as a maid at a hotel.

1136
01:15:43.321 --> 01:15:45.105
It was very, very lonely.

1137
01:15:46.454 --> 01:15:48.848
One day I found a baby squirrel,

1138
01:15:49.066 --> 01:15:51.895
and I brought it home,
and I put it in a shoe box.

1139
01:15:53.461 --> 01:15:56.334
Several days later,
when I went home,

1140
01:15:56.726 --> 01:15:58.510
it was very, very sick.

1141
01:15:59.555 --> 01:16:01.121
It was actually dead,

1142
01:16:01.339 --> 01:16:02.993
but I didn't know it
at the time.

1143
01:16:04.647 --> 01:16:07.214
I had forgotten to feed it
for a couple of days.

1144
01:16:07.388 --> 01:16:08.651
[audience murmuring]

1145
01:16:09.347 --> 01:16:13.177
So, I took it out of the box,
and I laid it on a table.

1146
01:16:13.917 --> 01:16:17.094
And I prayed and I prayed
for several hours.

1147
01:16:18.661 --> 01:16:22.055
And then my mother came home,
and she found us.

1148
01:16:23.274 --> 01:16:25.450
She was furious.

1149
01:16:25.885 --> 01:16:28.845
She picked it up and
she threw it in the garbage.

1150
01:16:30.237 --> 01:16:34.415
And I lost control.
I started screaming and crying,

1151
01:16:34.720 --> 01:16:38.419
"Mama, Mama!
God didn't answer my prayer!

1152
01:16:38.594 --> 01:16:40.683
God didn't answer
my prayer, Mama!"

1153
01:16:42.380 --> 01:16:45.513
She turned to me,
she gave a little chuckle,

1154
01:16:46.079 --> 01:16:47.080
and she said,

1155
01:16:47.777 --> 01:16:51.084
"Judy, God answers
all our prayers.

1156
01:16:51.737 --> 01:16:54.784
It's just rarely is it ever
the answer we're looking for."

1157
01:16:56.612 --> 01:16:57.743
And that was it.

1158
01:16:59.092 --> 01:16:59.963
That was it.

1159
01:17:04.315 --> 01:17:08.362
[applause]

1160
01:17:21.071 --> 01:17:24.074
Reggie: So you've been through
a lot this last year with me

1161
01:17:24.248 --> 01:17:27.991
- and with other people too.
- Anne: Yes.

1162
01:17:28.165 --> 01:17:29.253
Just you.

1163
01:17:29.514 --> 01:17:30.689
Just me!

1164
01:17:31.255 --> 01:17:33.518
What other people? [chuckles]
What other people?

1165
01:17:33.692 --> 01:17:36.303
Do you feel like you've been...

1166
01:17:37.565 --> 01:17:40.830
permanently hurt in this,
or hurt, or...?

1167
01:17:42.527 --> 01:17:45.486
How would you describe
what you've been through?

1168
01:17:49.360 --> 01:17:52.450
- Nothing's permanent.
- "Nothing's permanent"!

1169
01:17:54.582 --> 01:17:56.715
[seagulls squawking]

1170
01:17:58.151 --> 01:18:00.850
♪ [piano music playing] ♪

1171
01:18:07.944 --> 01:18:09.728
Anne: <i>It is not easy
to be married.</i>

1172
01:18:11.556 --> 01:18:14.515
<i>You hear that
it's a 50/50 proposition?</i>

1173
01:18:17.780 --> 01:18:20.739
<i>No, it isn't. It's like 80/20.</i>

1174
01:18:25.831 --> 01:18:29.356
<i>Surely, everybody's life here <i>in the Villages</i></i>

1175
01:18:29.574 --> 01:18:32.142
<i>is not perfect all the time.</i>

1176
01:18:35.058 --> 01:18:36.886
<i>Everybody has problems.</i>

1177
01:18:42.326 --> 01:18:44.807
<i>You asked me one time
if I think about dying.</i>

1178
01:18:49.550 --> 01:18:52.640
<i>What I think about
is there's just less time.</i>

1179
01:18:56.644 --> 01:18:58.821
<i>Once you get older,
you start thinking about,</i>

1180
01:18:58.995 --> 01:19:00.518
<i>"Well, my life is not...</i>

1181
01:19:01.693 --> 01:19:04.130
<i>an indeterminate length
of time anymore."</i>

1182
01:19:09.440 --> 01:19:11.137
<i>What is really important?</i>

1183
01:19:14.010 --> 01:19:17.274
<i>Maybe some things that
would bother me before...</i>

1184
01:19:19.972 --> 01:19:22.322
<i>That really isn't
that important anymore.</i>

1185
01:19:28.154 --> 01:19:31.288
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