1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:06,077 --> 00:00:10,393 - If I hold her hand, she says don't touch. 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 4 00:00:11,750 --> 00:00:16,610 If I hold her foot, she says don't touch. 5 00:00:16,610 --> 00:00:21,610 But when I hold her waist-beads, she pretends not to know. 6 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:27,177 Perhaps, down in her heart Okonkwo, was not a cruel man, 7 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,131 but his whole life was dominated by- 8 00:00:31,131 --> 00:00:33,480 - (coughing) 9 00:00:33,480 --> 00:00:34,784 - Are you okay? 10 00:00:34,784 --> 00:00:36,137 - I'm fine. - Can I get you some water? 11 00:00:36,137 --> 00:00:37,113 - No, no, no. 12 00:00:38,160 --> 00:00:40,793 I'm okay. - It will only take a few seconds. 13 00:00:42,450 --> 00:00:43,283 Are you sure? 14 00:00:43,283 --> 00:00:46,043 - The sound of your voice is good enough for me. 15 00:00:46,043 --> 00:00:49,777 - (chuckles) Okay. 16 00:00:49,777 --> 00:00:52,430 - It is good to know I still make you blush, 17 00:00:52,430 --> 00:00:53,963 even in my old age. 18 00:00:53,963 --> 00:00:54,980 - (laughs) Yes. 19 00:00:54,980 --> 00:00:57,703 Because you still have your bad boy spark. 20 00:00:58,684 --> 00:01:01,684 - [Both] (laughing) 21 00:01:02,934 --> 00:01:06,601 - They say a man is only as old as he feels. 22 00:01:07,530 --> 00:01:12,000 - Alright, old man. (laughing) 23 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:13,310 Okay. 24 00:01:13,310 --> 00:01:16,860 A man who calls his kinsmen to a feast 25 00:01:16,860 --> 00:01:21,193 does not do so to save them from starving. 26 00:01:22,073 --> 00:01:26,160 - [Nkem] A man who calls his kinsmen to a feast 27 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,533 does not do so to save them from starving. 28 00:01:30,570 --> 00:01:31,403 He protects her. 29 00:01:33,353 --> 00:01:34,680 Ah! 30 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:36,310 Oh my God! Who is this animal?! 31 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:41,993 - Sorry. 32 00:01:43,285 --> 00:01:45,520 - Are you blind?! Can't you see? 33 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,440 - Sweetheart, it- 34 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:48,650 - You've ruined my dress! Can't you- 35 00:01:48,650 --> 00:01:50,470 - So sorry, I mean it. 36 00:01:50,470 --> 00:01:52,150 - Are you crazy? Who's your sweetheart? 37 00:01:52,150 --> 00:01:53,760 You were driving like a mad dog, 38 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,560 not minding that actual people walk on this road! 39 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:58,010 - I'm sorry. 40 00:01:58,010 --> 00:02:00,860 Let me take you home, so you can change your clothes. 41 00:02:00,860 --> 00:02:02,540 - Take me home? 42 00:02:02,540 --> 00:02:04,010 - Oh, no, no. Not like that. 43 00:02:04,010 --> 00:02:05,800 I mean to your house. 44 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:06,980 You can change your clothes, 45 00:02:06,980 --> 00:02:09,820 and I can drop you off to wherever you were going. 46 00:02:09,820 --> 00:02:11,620 Look like you were going to a party? 47 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:14,910 Lovely shoes, by the way. 48 00:02:14,910 --> 00:02:16,500 - I can see you're not only a madman. 49 00:02:16,500 --> 00:02:17,720 You're also a nosy one! 50 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,820 Why don't you just mind your damn business, 51 00:02:19,820 --> 00:02:21,010 and leave me alone? 52 00:02:21,010 --> 00:02:22,910 - Just trying to help. 53 00:02:22,910 --> 00:02:26,420 - Try to help me? After you've ruined my dress? 54 00:02:26,420 --> 00:02:28,311 - So feisty. 55 00:02:28,311 --> 00:02:29,144 - Why? All these men, 56 00:02:29,144 --> 00:02:31,160 they just feel they can walk up to women, 57 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,249 and talk to women anyhow they want! 58 00:02:33,249 --> 00:02:34,432 - Crazy woman. 59 00:02:34,432 --> 00:02:37,100 - It's your mother, and your sisters that are crazy! 60 00:02:37,100 --> 00:02:38,670 Idiot! 61 00:02:38,670 --> 00:02:41,503 - Lucky for you, I have a thing for crazy women. 62 00:02:43,433 --> 00:02:46,043 But you alone, is on another level. 63 00:02:46,043 --> 00:02:49,226 - And who wants to have anything to do with this one? 64 00:02:49,226 --> 00:02:50,059 Anuofia. 65 00:02:51,217 --> 00:02:52,513 - See you around. 66 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:58,793 - [Nkem] (mumbling) - Bye, beautiful! 67 00:02:59,935 --> 00:03:01,935 (music) 68 00:03:23,450 --> 00:03:24,839 - Okay, I'll leave you here for now. 69 00:03:24,839 --> 00:03:25,672 - Okay. 70 00:03:33,060 --> 00:03:34,010 - That'll be okay? 71 00:03:34,010 --> 00:03:34,843 - Sure. 72 00:03:36,270 --> 00:03:38,912 - So when you're done, just take a taxi to the office. 73 00:03:38,912 --> 00:03:39,947 - Okay. - Meet me there. 74 00:03:39,947 --> 00:03:40,992 - Alright. 75 00:03:40,992 --> 00:03:41,825 Bye. 76 00:03:47,664 --> 00:03:49,122 - [Nkem] What? 77 00:03:49,122 --> 00:03:53,535 (murmuring) 78 00:03:53,535 --> 00:03:54,868 - Oh, sorry mom. 79 00:03:55,722 --> 00:03:57,722 (music) 80 00:04:03,980 --> 00:04:05,593 - Please, let me help. 81 00:04:07,319 --> 00:04:08,980 - Who are you? 82 00:04:08,980 --> 00:04:10,150 - Tobi? 83 00:04:10,150 --> 00:04:11,800 - What are you doing in my house? 84 00:04:16,257 --> 00:04:17,090 - Tob- 85 00:04:18,150 --> 00:04:20,530 - I said leave my house. 86 00:04:20,530 --> 00:04:22,940 Or else I'll call the police now. 87 00:04:22,940 --> 00:04:25,690 - Darling, it's me. 88 00:04:25,690 --> 00:04:27,197 Let me help you. Just let me help- 89 00:04:27,197 --> 00:04:30,483 - Why is Victor sending strangers to my house? Why? 90 00:04:33,740 --> 00:04:34,810 - Let me help. 91 00:04:34,810 --> 00:04:35,643 It's okay. 92 00:04:36,810 --> 00:04:38,290 Tobi, Tobi. - Huh? 93 00:04:38,290 --> 00:04:41,522 - Tobi, you feel me. 94 00:04:41,522 --> 00:04:43,038 That's me, your wife. 95 00:04:43,038 --> 00:04:44,558 Nkem. 96 00:04:44,558 --> 00:04:45,391 Please. 97 00:04:46,556 --> 00:04:47,921 Let me help you. 98 00:04:47,921 --> 00:04:49,209 Okay? 99 00:04:49,209 --> 00:04:51,209 (music) 100 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,900 (phone rings) 101 00:05:13,404 --> 00:05:15,680 - Hello? 102 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:17,197 Nkem, your mother's on the phone. 103 00:05:17,197 --> 00:05:19,530 She wants to speak with you. 104 00:05:21,249 --> 00:05:22,249 - Thank you. 105 00:05:24,236 --> 00:05:25,069 Hello? 106 00:05:26,500 --> 00:05:27,983 Mama, good afternoon. 107 00:05:32,148 --> 00:05:35,148 (speaking Nigerian) 108 00:05:38,714 --> 00:05:39,547 What? 109 00:05:46,436 --> 00:05:48,673 (speaking Nigerian) papa is ill? 110 00:05:51,030 --> 00:05:51,863 Wow. 111 00:05:53,330 --> 00:05:55,543 Mama, I just sent you money two weeks ago. 112 00:05:58,580 --> 00:05:59,413 Okay. 113 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:04,223 Yes, um. 114 00:06:05,140 --> 00:06:06,133 Next week. 115 00:06:13,390 --> 00:06:14,223 Yes, mom. 116 00:06:16,840 --> 00:06:17,673 Okay. 117 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,350 Please, take good care of papa, please. 118 00:06:21,350 --> 00:06:22,410 Just take care of him. 119 00:06:22,410 --> 00:06:23,243 Watch him. 120 00:06:26,950 --> 00:06:28,770 Mom, I have to go. 121 00:06:28,770 --> 00:06:29,780 I have to go, I'm at work. 122 00:06:29,780 --> 00:06:31,193 I'm attending to a customer. 123 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:35,490 Amen, amen, amen, mama. 124 00:06:35,490 --> 00:06:37,540 It's okay, it's fine. 125 00:06:37,540 --> 00:06:38,890 Yeah. 126 00:06:38,890 --> 00:06:41,055 Okay, bye bye. I have to go. 127 00:06:41,055 --> 00:06:43,989 Alright. Okay, mom. Bye bye. 128 00:06:43,989 --> 00:06:45,989 (music) 129 00:06:58,067 --> 00:06:59,733 - Good afternoon. - Yeah. 130 00:06:59,733 --> 00:07:01,240 - Please, I'm looking for a Miss Nkem Adichie. 131 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:02,253 - (mumbles) 132 00:07:02,253 --> 00:07:04,294 - No, no, no, Adichie. 133 00:07:04,294 --> 00:07:06,079 - It's from who? 134 00:07:06,079 --> 00:07:07,523 - Her name is Kemachine. 135 00:07:07,523 --> 00:07:08,356 Yes, I am. 136 00:07:32,140 --> 00:07:34,520 - How many hours will you let me in for? 137 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:37,770 Today, you're receiving calls or receiving gifts. 138 00:07:37,770 --> 00:07:39,510 What's all this? 139 00:07:39,510 --> 00:07:41,530 - I'm so sorry. I'll soon be done. 140 00:07:43,008 --> 00:07:43,841 - God. 141 00:07:45,727 --> 00:07:47,432 - Do you want a cold drink? 142 00:07:47,432 --> 00:07:48,812 - Just do my hair. 143 00:07:48,812 --> 00:07:49,645 - Yes. 144 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:54,240 (music) 145 00:08:10,740 --> 00:08:12,265 - Why you following me? 146 00:08:12,265 --> 00:08:15,152 - Hah, I'm following you? 147 00:08:15,152 --> 00:08:17,873 That's a bit extreme, don't you think, sweetheart? 148 00:08:17,873 --> 00:08:20,160 - Yes, you're right. Very extreme. 149 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:21,960 And stop calling me your sweetheart. 150 00:08:22,953 --> 00:08:26,910 - Not bad to admire a beautiful lady such as yourself. 151 00:08:26,910 --> 00:08:28,960 - Keep your admiration to yourself. 152 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:30,372 And if you keep weirdly insinuating stuff, 153 00:08:30,372 --> 00:08:32,743 I'll be forced to report you to your wife. 154 00:08:32,743 --> 00:08:33,950 - What wife? 155 00:08:33,950 --> 00:08:36,406 - Yes, your wife, and I'm not even joking. 156 00:08:36,406 --> 00:08:39,390 - (laughs) 157 00:08:39,390 --> 00:08:40,223 - What's funny? 158 00:08:42,470 --> 00:08:45,547 - You are funny. I try to think you are funny. 159 00:08:45,547 --> 00:08:46,530 - I'm funny? - Yes. 160 00:08:46,530 --> 00:08:47,993 - So I look a clown? 161 00:08:49,890 --> 00:08:52,590 You know, just stop fooling yourself, you married man. 162 00:08:54,340 --> 00:08:56,571 - First of all, I'm not married. 163 00:08:56,571 --> 00:08:57,404 - Mm. 164 00:08:58,365 --> 00:08:59,198 - Also- 165 00:08:59,198 --> 00:09:00,913 - Whatever. Your girlfriend, then. 166 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:03,376 - She's my sister. 167 00:09:03,376 --> 00:09:06,209 - hmm. Brother with a cute sister? 168 00:09:09,380 --> 00:09:10,830 - Let's have dinner together. 169 00:09:11,930 --> 00:09:13,553 - Not even in your next life. 170 00:09:15,047 --> 00:09:17,047 (music) 171 00:09:24,530 --> 00:09:25,800 - Madam, it's not what you think. 172 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,280 I don't have anything with your husband. 173 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:28,770 I was even going to tell you. 174 00:09:28,770 --> 00:09:31,160 - We're not married! 175 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:34,370 - Oh. I'm sorry. I mean your boyfriend. 176 00:09:34,370 --> 00:09:35,700 - He's not my boyfriend, either! 177 00:09:35,700 --> 00:09:36,533 That's my brother. 178 00:09:36,533 --> 00:09:37,503 My elder brother. 179 00:09:38,450 --> 00:09:41,440 I have never seen him so crazy about a girl, 180 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:42,410 the way he's been with you. 181 00:09:42,410 --> 00:09:45,013 I mean, I'm here talking to you, because he asked me to. 182 00:09:46,070 --> 00:09:47,520 I hope it's worth it, though. 183 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:49,730 - How do you mean? 184 00:09:49,730 --> 00:09:51,670 - I'm sorry, that came out wrong. 185 00:09:51,670 --> 00:09:54,230 My brother put me up to, you know, 186 00:09:54,230 --> 00:09:57,490 convince you to have dinner with him. 187 00:09:57,490 --> 00:09:58,760 - As you can see, I'm at work. 188 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:00,980 My customers are waiting for me. I have to go. 189 00:10:00,980 --> 00:10:04,193 - I understand, but have dinner with my brother. 190 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,500 Give him a chance. 191 00:10:07,500 --> 00:10:08,333 It won't hurt. 192 00:10:10,619 --> 00:10:13,235 - Okay, I'll think about it. 193 00:10:13,235 --> 00:10:14,799 - Okay, thank you. 194 00:10:14,799 --> 00:10:15,632 - Alright. 195 00:10:15,632 --> 00:10:16,513 - Okay, bye. 196 00:10:18,530 --> 00:10:20,530 (music) 197 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:36,980 - So, tell me about your family. 198 00:10:36,980 --> 00:10:40,073 - Well, that's a very interesting topic. 199 00:10:41,350 --> 00:10:42,843 - How do you mean? 200 00:10:44,180 --> 00:10:46,403 - Well, I only got to know my mom recently. 201 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:48,713 - Oh. 202 00:10:48,713 --> 00:10:51,930 - I grew up with my father, my step mom, 203 00:10:51,930 --> 00:10:55,214 and my sister, whom you've already met. 204 00:10:55,214 --> 00:10:56,510 - (laughs) 205 00:10:56,510 --> 00:10:58,186 Interesting personality. 206 00:10:58,186 --> 00:10:59,563 - Yes, that's true. 207 00:11:04,050 --> 00:11:07,854 Actually, I don't know if she ever wanted to get to know me. 208 00:11:07,854 --> 00:11:09,885 I mean my mom. 209 00:11:09,885 --> 00:11:10,718 - Oh. 210 00:11:12,450 --> 00:11:15,880 - And, her family isn't actually here. 211 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:18,610 I was born and raised in London, 212 00:11:18,610 --> 00:11:22,453 and I only came to Nigeria after school, to work. 213 00:11:25,558 --> 00:11:27,260 - I'm sorry about your mom. 214 00:11:27,260 --> 00:11:28,093 - Thank. 215 00:11:30,970 --> 00:11:32,683 My step mom is actually awesome. 216 00:11:33,680 --> 00:11:34,840 - Oh. 217 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:37,080 - It's actually funny, me calling her my step mom, 218 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:41,390 'cause I've known her as my mom all my life. 219 00:11:41,390 --> 00:11:44,280 - You don't have to change what you're used to calling her. 220 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:45,113 - That's right. 221 00:11:46,290 --> 00:11:47,123 That's true. 222 00:11:48,350 --> 00:11:51,250 Well, what about you? 223 00:11:51,250 --> 00:11:52,533 What's your family like? 224 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:55,943 - Well, there's my father, 225 00:11:56,810 --> 00:11:57,780 there's my mother, 226 00:11:57,780 --> 00:12:02,023 and my two sisters, who are married. 227 00:12:10,560 --> 00:12:13,691 They all live in Enugu. 228 00:12:13,691 --> 00:12:16,239 I moved in here for work. 229 00:12:16,239 --> 00:12:17,072 - Okay. 230 00:12:18,969 --> 00:12:19,802 - Okay. 231 00:12:28,199 --> 00:12:31,032 - Let me play some music. 232 00:12:32,045 --> 00:12:32,878 - Okay. 233 00:12:40,017 --> 00:12:43,184 (romantic jazz music) 234 00:13:56,357 --> 00:13:57,580 You're early. 235 00:13:57,580 --> 00:13:59,170 - Yes. 236 00:13:59,170 --> 00:14:00,430 I wanted to show you something. 237 00:14:00,430 --> 00:14:01,850 Hop in. 238 00:14:01,850 --> 00:14:02,750 - What's that? 239 00:14:02,750 --> 00:14:04,460 - Well, you have to come in, 240 00:14:04,460 --> 00:14:06,500 so I can take you there and show you. 241 00:14:06,500 --> 00:14:07,543 It's a surprise. 242 00:14:08,460 --> 00:14:10,405 - Okay, big boy, let me get my purse. 243 00:14:10,405 --> 00:14:12,052 - Okay. 244 00:14:12,052 --> 00:14:14,802 (romantic music) 245 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:00,373 - Tobi, this is amazing! 246 00:15:01,350 --> 00:15:03,053 - Yes, I knew you'd like it. 247 00:15:04,180 --> 00:15:05,630 - I don't like it, I love it. 248 00:15:08,898 --> 00:15:12,398 - Well, I'm glad you love it. 249 00:15:13,900 --> 00:15:15,633 You deserve the very best. 250 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:20,563 I love you, Nkem Adichie. 251 00:15:27,740 --> 00:15:28,573 Marry me. 252 00:15:31,392 --> 00:15:32,225 - What? 253 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:48,490 - I feel like I've known you all my life, 254 00:15:51,470 --> 00:15:56,213 and if I can get the kind of goosebumps I get from you, 255 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,410 and this feeling of being on cloud nine 256 00:16:00,410 --> 00:16:01,810 just from being with you. 257 00:16:01,810 --> 00:16:03,140 I wonder how I would feel 258 00:16:06,570 --> 00:16:08,777 if I were yours, and you were mine. 259 00:16:09,799 --> 00:16:11,860 - (laughs) 260 00:16:11,860 --> 00:16:14,623 - Nkem, it's not a joke. My knees are hurting. 261 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:19,690 Wouldn't it be the perfect crime 262 00:16:21,230 --> 00:16:23,616 if I were yours, and you were mine? 263 00:16:23,616 --> 00:16:25,342 - (laughs) 264 00:16:25,342 --> 00:16:26,854 Okay! Yes. 265 00:16:26,854 --> 00:16:30,604 - [Both] (laughing joyfully) 266 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,200 - And that's because you're a getting 267 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:40,526 lame with your pick up lines. 268 00:16:40,526 --> 00:16:41,876 - How dare you! 269 00:16:41,876 --> 00:16:42,709 - (laughs) 270 00:16:42,709 --> 00:16:44,218 - Do you know how many romantic novels I had to read 271 00:16:44,218 --> 00:16:45,623 just to get those lines? 272 00:16:46,610 --> 00:16:49,670 - You had to read romantic books to propose to me? 273 00:16:49,670 --> 00:16:50,503 - Why not? 274 00:16:50,503 --> 00:16:51,388 - Okay, I don't want your ring anymore. 275 00:16:51,388 --> 00:16:53,047 You can have it back. - (laughing) 276 00:16:53,047 --> 00:16:54,393 - I'm just joking. 277 00:16:55,759 --> 00:16:57,176 I love you, baby. 278 00:16:58,298 --> 00:17:00,965 - I love you, too. - I love you. 279 00:17:02,694 --> 00:17:03,720 Okay. 280 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:04,553 Now. 281 00:17:06,790 --> 00:17:08,480 Let's take a picture. 282 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:09,313 - Okay. 283 00:17:11,261 --> 00:17:13,261 (music) 284 00:20:18,423 --> 00:20:20,963 - I like to listen to your heart beat. 285 00:20:23,290 --> 00:20:25,143 - It's beating fast, right? 286 00:20:25,143 --> 00:20:25,976 - Mmhmm. 287 00:20:28,610 --> 00:20:32,380 - You know, there's nothing I've wanted more 288 00:20:32,380 --> 00:20:34,123 than to make you feel safe. 289 00:20:35,570 --> 00:20:37,543 - I feel safe in your arms. 290 00:20:48,515 --> 00:20:50,515 (music) 291 00:20:56,607 --> 00:20:59,383 - Babe, you should eat before you go to work. 292 00:21:00,790 --> 00:21:04,901 - Sweetheart, you know the honeymoon is over. 293 00:21:04,901 --> 00:21:05,734 Hmm? 294 00:21:05,734 --> 00:21:07,490 I have to work. 295 00:21:07,490 --> 00:21:08,730 So I can take care of you, 296 00:21:08,730 --> 00:21:11,040 so I can give you anything you need. 297 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:15,153 - I feel weird being alone by myself while you're at work. 298 00:21:16,370 --> 00:21:18,710 - It's okay, I won't be long. 299 00:21:18,710 --> 00:21:19,543 - Promise? 300 00:21:19,543 --> 00:21:20,840 - I promise. 301 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:21,673 - Okay. 302 00:21:33,270 --> 00:21:34,170 - I love you, too. 303 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:40,790 - You can't keep doing this to yourself. 304 00:21:40,790 --> 00:21:43,790 He needs to be somewhere he can be handled. 305 00:21:43,790 --> 00:21:45,270 - Hmm. 306 00:21:45,270 --> 00:21:46,173 Handled? 307 00:21:48,281 --> 00:21:51,190 My husband is a sick man, and not a monster. 308 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,403 Nobody can take care of him like I'll do. 309 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:03,810 And, I'm not complaining. 310 00:22:03,810 --> 00:22:05,893 - Look, I totally understand. 311 00:22:06,790 --> 00:22:08,673 But you're not fit enough for this. 312 00:22:10,900 --> 00:22:13,223 Look, you look totally exhausted. 313 00:22:16,658 --> 00:22:18,253 - I'll be fine. 314 00:22:19,650 --> 00:22:21,203 There's nothing I'll rather do. 315 00:22:24,100 --> 00:22:27,103 He has his good and bad days, 316 00:22:28,430 --> 00:22:29,930 but that's good enough for me. 317 00:22:34,895 --> 00:22:37,973 - It's really hard to see you suffer like this. 318 00:22:40,650 --> 00:22:42,670 There's this place I found, 319 00:22:42,670 --> 00:22:44,360 their facilities are great. 320 00:22:44,360 --> 00:22:46,210 They take good care of their patient. 321 00:22:47,610 --> 00:22:51,093 Look, he doesn't even recognize you any longer. 322 00:22:52,690 --> 00:22:53,523 - I know. 323 00:22:54,620 --> 00:22:56,863 But nobody knows him better than I do. 324 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:00,493 He's my husband. 325 00:23:02,550 --> 00:23:03,723 I'll take care of him. 326 00:23:05,420 --> 00:23:06,253 Okay? 327 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:13,000 See, the last time we took him to one of those homes, 328 00:23:13,130 --> 00:23:14,933 it even became worse. 329 00:23:16,466 --> 00:23:19,760 I am not going to take that risk anymore. 330 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,363 Leaving my husband in the hands of strangers? 331 00:23:24,270 --> 00:23:27,513 Nobody would take care of Tobi like I'll do. 332 00:23:29,230 --> 00:23:30,063 See, 333 00:23:32,470 --> 00:23:35,940 falling in love isn't just euphoric. 334 00:23:37,790 --> 00:23:42,055 Yes, it's a deliberate choice, 335 00:23:42,055 --> 00:23:45,600 and that's the choice I made with my husband. 336 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,407 A long time ago. 337 00:23:48,410 --> 00:23:52,203 No matter what, I love Tobi. 338 00:23:54,300 --> 00:23:59,300 I love Tobi, even in his worst days. 339 00:24:00,120 --> 00:24:01,227 I love him. 340 00:24:05,660 --> 00:24:07,660 (music) 341 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:02,305 - Tobi. 342 00:25:02,305 --> 00:25:03,805 - Yes, sweetheart? 343 00:25:04,757 --> 00:25:07,003 - I need to talk to you about something. 344 00:25:10,190 --> 00:25:11,023 - Spill. 345 00:25:13,694 --> 00:25:15,453 - This idleness is killing me. 346 00:25:16,460 --> 00:25:18,530 You know, just being here by myself. 347 00:25:18,530 --> 00:25:19,823 I'm doing nothing. 348 00:25:21,750 --> 00:25:24,293 I'll like to start my own hairstyling business. 349 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,150 - Baby, we've spoken about this before. 350 00:25:30,230 --> 00:25:32,540 My income is enough to take care of the both of us. 351 00:25:32,540 --> 00:25:34,320 You don't have to worry. 352 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:35,570 - It's not about the money. 353 00:25:35,570 --> 00:25:39,293 I just need to get busy with something productive. 354 00:25:41,220 --> 00:25:43,743 - So taking care of me is no longer productive? 355 00:25:44,790 --> 00:25:46,350 Ouch. 356 00:25:46,350 --> 00:25:47,533 - Tobi, I'm serious. 357 00:25:53,100 --> 00:25:57,013 - Baby, why don't you just focus on having a baby instead? 358 00:25:58,764 --> 00:26:00,190 - What? 359 00:26:00,190 --> 00:26:01,440 What do you mean by that? 360 00:26:03,330 --> 00:26:06,060 I can't believe you just said that to me. 361 00:26:06,060 --> 00:26:07,300 Do you know how it feels 362 00:26:07,300 --> 00:26:10,480 being by myself all day worrying about us? 363 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:11,353 This. 364 00:26:14,180 --> 00:26:15,013 Wow. 365 00:26:17,250 --> 00:26:20,200 We have sex literally every night. 366 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,426 I'm on a healthy diet, you are aware of. 367 00:26:22,426 --> 00:26:25,130 And you say this to me? 368 00:26:25,130 --> 00:26:26,372 - Don't take it like that. 369 00:26:26,372 --> 00:26:29,122 I really didn't mean it that way. 370 00:26:30,362 --> 00:26:31,195 Nkem. 371 00:26:43,619 --> 00:26:45,619 (music) 372 00:27:06,885 --> 00:27:09,135 (knocking) 373 00:27:11,043 --> 00:27:12,293 - Who is there? 374 00:27:15,922 --> 00:27:16,755 - Mama! 375 00:27:21,389 --> 00:27:24,827 - Nkem! Hey, I was looking, I thought you deserted. 376 00:27:24,827 --> 00:27:26,840 - (responds in Nigerian) 377 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,170 - Hey, how are you? 378 00:27:28,170 --> 00:27:31,539 - I'm fine, mama, I'm very fine. 379 00:27:31,539 --> 00:27:32,870 How are you, and how's the journey? 380 00:27:32,870 --> 00:27:34,930 - Johnny was okay and smooth. 381 00:27:34,930 --> 00:27:35,930 - Okay, okay. 382 00:27:35,930 --> 00:27:37,080 - You're looking good! 383 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,210 - Thank you, mama. - Tobi is really taking care of you. 384 00:27:39,210 --> 00:27:40,043 - Yes, he is. 385 00:27:40,043 --> 00:27:41,198 - By the way, where is he? 386 00:27:41,198 --> 00:27:42,850 - He's at work. 387 00:27:42,850 --> 00:27:44,220 How's papa? 388 00:27:44,220 --> 00:27:45,333 - Your father is fine. 389 00:27:47,060 --> 00:27:49,810 - Mama, I noticed your bag is smaller. 390 00:27:49,810 --> 00:27:52,060 Very small, are you not staying long? 391 00:27:52,060 --> 00:27:55,130 - No, I have few days to say here. 392 00:27:55,130 --> 00:27:58,693 You know, your dad, he can't go see me outside here. 393 00:27:59,700 --> 00:28:00,533 - Oh papa. 394 00:28:00,533 --> 00:28:02,190 You will last through your big baby love. 395 00:28:02,190 --> 00:28:04,450 You must stay for at least two weeks. 396 00:28:04,450 --> 00:28:07,210 - (laughs) (speaking in Nigerian) 397 00:28:07,210 --> 00:28:08,880 Come on, sit down. 398 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:09,713 Sit down. 399 00:28:12,027 --> 00:28:13,290 On a serious note, 400 00:28:13,290 --> 00:28:17,743 I have something very important to discuss with you. 401 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,297 - Okay, mama, what's the problem? 402 00:28:20,297 --> 00:28:21,223 - Don't worry. - Is everything okay? 403 00:28:21,223 --> 00:28:23,629 - Everything is fine. Relax. - Is papa okay? 404 00:28:23,629 --> 00:28:25,113 - Is he fine? - Your father is okay. 405 00:28:26,903 --> 00:28:27,990 - Okay, so what do you want to tell me? 406 00:28:27,990 --> 00:28:30,620 - Hey, Nkem, you have changed, too. 407 00:28:30,620 --> 00:28:32,320 What is your problem? 408 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:33,810 Can't you offer me something? 409 00:28:33,810 --> 00:28:35,140 - Mom, what would you like to eat? 410 00:28:35,140 --> 00:28:36,610 Do you want us make your favorite? 411 00:28:36,610 --> 00:28:38,459 Hmm? (speaking in Nigerian) 412 00:28:38,459 --> 00:28:39,292 - (speaking Nigerian) stop! 413 00:28:39,292 --> 00:28:41,202 Water! Water first. 414 00:28:41,202 --> 00:28:43,826 - Okay, after your water, hmm? 415 00:28:43,826 --> 00:28:44,970 - Because you are married to a Yoruba, 416 00:28:44,970 --> 00:28:46,810 you don't know customs of tradition for farm life. 417 00:28:46,810 --> 00:28:49,010 - Hmm, mama, you started. You started again. 418 00:28:49,973 --> 00:28:51,750 (speaking Nigerian) 419 00:28:51,750 --> 00:28:54,233 What are you doing to your skin? You're looking fine. 420 00:28:54,233 --> 00:28:56,380 - (laughs) Nkem! 421 00:28:56,380 --> 00:28:58,170 Nkem, I'm blushing. 422 00:28:58,170 --> 00:29:00,944 Go, go, go. Go and get water first. I'm thirsty. 423 00:29:00,944 --> 00:29:04,073 - Okay mama, I'll get your water. 424 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,517 - You know, this township food. 425 00:29:10,030 --> 00:29:11,430 It's been long. 426 00:29:11,430 --> 00:29:13,200 - What's the difference between (mumbling) 427 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,170 - There is, though, see how it's smelling? 428 00:29:15,170 --> 00:29:16,003 I like it, though. 429 00:29:16,003 --> 00:29:18,430 - (voice is drowned out) - Ah, doesn't matter. 430 00:29:18,430 --> 00:29:21,070 Even the aroma is enough, Em. 431 00:29:21,070 --> 00:29:24,327 They always say that Yoruba stew, 432 00:29:24,327 --> 00:29:26,310 and soup, is pepe, pepe, 433 00:29:26,310 --> 00:29:27,583 but there's no pepe in this one. 434 00:29:27,583 --> 00:29:29,347 - Yeah, I didn't put so much pepper. 435 00:29:29,347 --> 00:29:30,262 - Hmm. 436 00:29:30,262 --> 00:29:32,162 - We still have the oil taste, though. 437 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:34,753 - Exactly. 438 00:29:34,753 --> 00:29:35,790 It's fine, though. 439 00:29:38,642 --> 00:29:39,559 - Ah, mama. 440 00:29:43,830 --> 00:29:46,113 Good evening. - Mmm, welcome. 441 00:29:47,465 --> 00:29:49,053 How is work? 442 00:29:49,053 --> 00:29:51,580 - Very well. - I thought so, phew. 443 00:29:51,580 --> 00:29:54,360 - Well, I didn't know you were coming today. 444 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,123 - I told you she was coming today. 445 00:29:58,460 --> 00:30:01,460 - [Tobi] Yes, it's just the dates that I've forgotten about. 446 00:30:03,023 --> 00:30:05,813 But it's still very good to see you, ma, you look beautiful. 447 00:30:07,550 --> 00:30:08,750 - Okay, my son, welcome. 448 00:30:12,020 --> 00:30:14,623 Such a pleasant young man. 449 00:30:18,220 --> 00:30:19,343 What's happened? 450 00:30:22,117 --> 00:30:23,733 - Mama, how do you mean? 451 00:30:24,604 --> 00:30:25,437 - What I mean? 452 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:28,973 I saw everything. I'm not a baby. 453 00:30:29,907 --> 00:30:33,277 What happened between two of you? 454 00:30:33,277 --> 00:30:34,777 - Nothing. Everything is fine. 455 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:41,520 - Nkem, let everything fine, okay? 456 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,450 Because it is very, very difficult. 457 00:30:44,450 --> 00:30:48,310 Very, very hard to get a good man 458 00:30:49,570 --> 00:30:50,433 like this. 459 00:30:52,550 --> 00:30:53,760 Are you getting me? 460 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,790 Good people are hard to get. 461 00:30:55,790 --> 00:30:58,063 Especially such. 462 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,876 See my armpit? 463 00:31:02,876 --> 00:31:06,598 (speaking Nigerian) 464 00:31:06,598 --> 00:31:08,580 I like him, and I love him, you accepted him. 465 00:31:08,580 --> 00:31:10,470 I don't want that sullied. 466 00:31:10,470 --> 00:31:11,697 Because (speaking Nigerian). 467 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:17,943 Whatever that is the case, go and sort it out with him. 468 00:31:23,020 --> 00:31:24,950 This food, dear, will it be okay? 469 00:31:26,356 --> 00:31:27,374 Hmm? 470 00:31:27,374 --> 00:31:29,374 (music) 471 00:31:38,773 --> 00:31:39,606 - Nkem. 472 00:31:43,906 --> 00:31:46,609 If I tell you that I'm not worried, 473 00:31:46,609 --> 00:31:48,890 it means I'm a liar. 474 00:31:48,890 --> 00:31:50,203 - Mama, what's wrong? 475 00:31:52,070 --> 00:31:55,306 - Even though you and your husband 476 00:31:55,306 --> 00:32:00,306 have been acting as if all this were, when it is obvious. 477 00:32:02,183 --> 00:32:03,016 It's not. 478 00:32:04,350 --> 00:32:08,633 I can see the stress lie on your husband's forehead. 479 00:32:10,410 --> 00:32:13,373 And you, too, are not happy. 480 00:32:15,210 --> 00:32:19,167 That is why I (muffled from plastic bag). 481 00:32:20,950 --> 00:32:22,073 - What? 482 00:32:22,073 --> 00:32:23,739 - Take it! - Ojima, the herbalist? 483 00:32:23,739 --> 00:32:24,572 - Yes. 484 00:32:25,949 --> 00:32:26,782 Take it. 485 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,370 Drink it. 486 00:32:30,370 --> 00:32:32,490 First thing in the morning, 487 00:32:32,490 --> 00:32:34,680 and last thing at night 488 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,593 before making love to your husband. 489 00:32:37,870 --> 00:32:42,360 He assured me that it will not take up to one month. 490 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,023 You will conceive, and have your own child. 491 00:32:46,450 --> 00:32:47,353 It works. 492 00:32:48,790 --> 00:32:52,453 - Mama,(speaking Nigerian) I don't want. 493 00:32:53,470 --> 00:32:56,233 How am I sure what this is made of? 494 00:32:56,233 --> 00:32:57,850 I can't take this, I can't drink it. 495 00:32:57,850 --> 00:33:01,444 - There is nothing wrong with nature, perhaps. 496 00:33:01,444 --> 00:33:03,020 I am your mother. 497 00:33:03,020 --> 00:33:05,423 I can not give you anything that will harm you. 498 00:33:06,700 --> 00:33:08,570 This medicine has been working 499 00:33:08,570 --> 00:33:10,680 for many women in the village. 500 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,717 See, you know Oneika? 501 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,940 This is the medicine she took, 502 00:33:17,940 --> 00:33:20,863 and conceived her last child, Nneka. 503 00:33:21,970 --> 00:33:25,203 It works! You will have your child. 504 00:33:26,500 --> 00:33:29,850 Eh? You don't want to make me happy? 505 00:33:29,850 --> 00:33:30,890 And you two will be happy. 506 00:33:30,890 --> 00:33:34,170 Oh, I can't wait to see my grandchildren! 507 00:33:34,170 --> 00:33:36,117 Running around me (singing in Nigerian). 508 00:33:39,052 --> 00:33:41,430 Good. - Okay, mama, okay. 509 00:33:41,430 --> 00:33:43,060 - That's my child. 510 00:33:43,060 --> 00:33:44,257 Go now, take it now. 511 00:33:44,257 --> 00:33:46,340 And go out, meet your husband. 512 00:33:46,340 --> 00:33:48,083 - Mama, he's already asleep. 513 00:33:48,083 --> 00:33:51,343 - Uzuama said that immediately, meet your husband, bam! 514 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:55,110 (speaking Nigerian) 515 00:33:55,110 --> 00:33:57,656 - Mama, he's asleep. He's tired from working. 516 00:33:57,656 --> 00:33:58,767 - Eh? 517 00:33:58,767 --> 00:34:00,091 - Yes, and besides, I need to sleep. 518 00:34:00,091 --> 00:34:03,210 I'm tired, and it's already late. 519 00:34:03,210 --> 00:34:05,393 - Are you telling me you are not taking the- 520 00:34:06,836 --> 00:34:08,470 - Mama, I'm tired, I want to sleep. 521 00:34:08,470 --> 00:34:09,303 - Come. 522 00:34:14,061 --> 00:34:17,130 (speaking Nigerian) 523 00:34:17,130 --> 00:34:18,433 Good night, yeah? 524 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:23,513 Come, drink it. 525 00:34:24,877 --> 00:34:27,527 (speaking Nigerian) 526 00:34:27,527 --> 00:34:28,610 It will work. 527 00:34:34,729 --> 00:34:36,396 - Thank you, my son. 528 00:34:40,146 --> 00:34:43,519 - Mama, I wish you stayed longer. 529 00:34:43,519 --> 00:34:45,732 - Me too, my daughter. 530 00:34:45,732 --> 00:34:49,890 But, I have to go and be with my husband. 531 00:34:49,890 --> 00:34:52,355 I'm sure he must be missing me now. 532 00:34:52,355 --> 00:34:53,463 - Mmm? - Mmm. 533 00:34:53,463 --> 00:34:54,586 - Mmm. Yes now. 534 00:34:54,586 --> 00:34:56,236 (laughing) 535 00:34:56,236 --> 00:34:57,590 The most important thing 536 00:34:57,590 --> 00:35:00,950 is that I have come, and I came, and did the needful. 537 00:35:00,950 --> 00:35:01,783 - Yes, mama. 538 00:35:02,790 --> 00:35:05,730 - Remember, first thing in the morning, 539 00:35:05,730 --> 00:35:09,320 last thing in the night before sleeping with your husband. 540 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:14,290 Mmm! (speaking Nigerian) 541 00:35:14,290 --> 00:35:15,717 Pick my this thing for me. 542 00:35:16,660 --> 00:35:18,333 Ah, my son, I'm coming. 543 00:35:20,970 --> 00:35:23,910 So, let me rush now. 544 00:35:23,910 --> 00:35:25,640 I don't want to start looking at your face now. 545 00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,654 Let me go, so that I don't miss the bus. 546 00:35:27,654 --> 00:35:29,985 - Mama, I'll miss you. 547 00:35:29,985 --> 00:35:31,152 - I know that. 548 00:35:33,370 --> 00:35:34,203 Let me go. 549 00:35:35,735 --> 00:35:37,735 (music) 550 00:36:17,431 --> 00:36:18,264 - Baby. 551 00:36:23,062 --> 00:36:26,170 You're vomiting everyday for the past three days. 552 00:36:26,170 --> 00:36:28,160 - Yeah. - It is a sign. 553 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:29,443 - And I missed my period. 554 00:36:31,990 --> 00:36:32,992 I think- 555 00:36:32,992 --> 00:36:34,247 - We're pregnant! 556 00:36:34,247 --> 00:36:36,553 Oh my God! Yes! 557 00:36:37,537 --> 00:36:38,603 I'm going to be a father! 558 00:36:38,603 --> 00:36:40,041 - Yes, you are! 559 00:36:40,041 --> 00:36:41,235 - Yes! 560 00:36:41,235 --> 00:36:42,830 - Wait, we have to go to the hospital to confirm it. 561 00:36:42,830 --> 00:36:44,790 - Right now, we are going. 562 00:36:44,790 --> 00:36:47,003 - Okay. No, wait, what about work? 563 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:51,593 - Look, I don't care about that right now. 564 00:36:51,593 --> 00:36:52,426 - Okay! 565 00:36:52,426 --> 00:36:53,451 - The guys have the sight to sort their problems. 566 00:36:53,451 --> 00:36:54,284 Let's go. 567 00:36:57,864 --> 00:36:59,820 - (crying) 568 00:36:59,820 --> 00:37:01,377 - Baby, please stop crying. 569 00:37:02,225 --> 00:37:03,580 - No. 570 00:37:03,580 --> 00:37:06,661 I'm so ashamed of myself, and sad. 571 00:37:06,661 --> 00:37:07,612 - Ashamed? 572 00:37:07,612 --> 00:37:08,445 - Yes. 573 00:37:08,445 --> 00:37:09,750 - Why should you be ashamed? 574 00:37:10,780 --> 00:37:13,370 - I've failed you countless times. 575 00:37:13,370 --> 00:37:15,800 I know how much you want a child. 576 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,240 I saw your face light up 577 00:37:17,240 --> 00:37:19,563 when you thought I was pregnant this morning. 578 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,880 And I saw your eyes fall 579 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,429 when we got the pregnancy test results. 580 00:37:25,429 --> 00:37:26,825 - We just have to try again. 581 00:37:26,825 --> 00:37:27,658 - No. 582 00:37:27,658 --> 00:37:28,540 - Just keep trying. 583 00:37:28,540 --> 00:37:31,060 - It's not okay. 584 00:37:31,060 --> 00:37:32,453 I'm wasting your time. 585 00:37:33,340 --> 00:37:35,190 I think there's something wrong with me. 586 00:37:35,190 --> 00:37:36,840 - There's nothing wrong with you. 587 00:37:39,288 --> 00:37:40,233 I love you, Nkem. 588 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,003 I'm content with you. 589 00:37:45,910 --> 00:37:47,270 Of course, I would love the idea 590 00:37:47,270 --> 00:37:48,103 of having children with you, 591 00:37:48,103 --> 00:37:51,676 so I can see little versions of you running around. 592 00:37:51,676 --> 00:37:53,776 But, seeing your beautiful face every day? 593 00:37:55,690 --> 00:37:56,640 It's enough for me. 594 00:37:58,720 --> 00:38:00,110 Look, if there was a choice 595 00:38:02,850 --> 00:38:04,963 between you and having kids, 596 00:38:06,370 --> 00:38:07,810 you'll win every time. 597 00:38:07,810 --> 00:38:09,093 No questions. 598 00:38:11,150 --> 00:38:12,050 - I'm sorry. 599 00:38:12,050 --> 00:38:14,690 I mean, I thought I was pregnant. 600 00:38:14,690 --> 00:38:18,090 I missed my period, I was throwing up. 601 00:38:18,090 --> 00:38:19,283 - It's the stress. 602 00:38:20,660 --> 00:38:21,560 All you have to do 603 00:38:22,890 --> 00:38:25,217 stop worrying, and just rest now. 604 00:38:26,430 --> 00:38:27,263 That's all. 605 00:38:28,380 --> 00:38:29,454 Promise. 606 00:38:29,454 --> 00:38:30,287 - You promise? 607 00:38:30,287 --> 00:38:31,287 - I promise. 608 00:38:34,816 --> 00:38:36,816 (music) 609 00:39:18,061 --> 00:39:18,894 - Baby? 610 00:39:22,410 --> 00:39:23,350 Nkem? 611 00:39:23,350 --> 00:39:25,040 - Yes, babe? 612 00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:26,063 - Come, come, come. 613 00:39:31,219 --> 00:39:32,052 Hello. 614 00:39:32,052 --> 00:39:33,718 - Hey, you're back from work early. - Yes, I am. 615 00:39:33,718 --> 00:39:34,947 How are you? 616 00:39:34,947 --> 00:39:36,180 - I'm okay. 617 00:39:36,180 --> 00:39:38,380 - Okay, you know what I want you to do right now? 618 00:39:38,380 --> 00:39:39,213 - What? 619 00:39:39,213 --> 00:39:40,340 - Go and pack your bag. 620 00:39:40,340 --> 00:39:42,648 I'm taking you on a road trip. 621 00:39:42,648 --> 00:39:43,723 - Why didn't you tell me? 622 00:39:43,723 --> 00:39:46,630 - That's why it's a surprise, my love. 623 00:39:46,630 --> 00:39:47,463 (laughs) 624 00:39:47,463 --> 00:39:48,296 Let's go. 625 00:39:48,296 --> 00:39:50,440 - But I'm cooking something that's not ready yet. 626 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,060 - Don't worry about that, just put it in the fridge. 627 00:39:53,060 --> 00:39:54,144 Come on, come on, come on. 628 00:39:54,144 --> 00:39:55,535 Let's go, let's go. 629 00:39:55,535 --> 00:39:57,535 (music) 630 00:40:10,090 --> 00:40:12,450 - It's the same place! 631 00:40:12,450 --> 00:40:13,513 - Yes, my love. 632 00:40:14,737 --> 00:40:15,820 - Awe, Tobes! 633 00:40:17,397 --> 00:40:19,259 - Tobes? That's actually the first time 634 00:40:19,259 --> 00:40:20,280 you've called me that. 635 00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:21,543 - (laughs) 636 00:40:21,543 --> 00:40:23,840 This is beautiful. 637 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,128 Thank you so much. 638 00:40:25,128 --> 00:40:26,650 - You're welcome. 639 00:40:26,650 --> 00:40:28,203 - You're going to make my cry. 640 00:40:29,337 --> 00:40:31,337 (cries) 641 00:40:35,449 --> 00:40:37,616 (mumbles) 642 00:40:40,492 --> 00:40:43,205 You always know how to lighten my mood. 643 00:40:43,205 --> 00:40:45,430 - Yes, I do. 644 00:40:45,430 --> 00:40:46,828 - You're my superman. 645 00:40:46,828 --> 00:40:47,869 - Yes. 646 00:40:47,869 --> 00:40:50,119 - (laughs) 647 00:41:02,286 --> 00:41:04,786 (car failing) 648 00:41:14,711 --> 00:41:15,561 - [Nkem] Oh, wow. 649 00:41:31,740 --> 00:41:33,253 Is something wrong? 650 00:41:53,429 --> 00:41:55,852 - (sighs) 651 00:41:55,852 --> 00:41:58,183 I'm sorry. I didn't mean for this to happen. 652 00:41:58,183 --> 00:41:59,203 - It's okay. 653 00:42:00,530 --> 00:42:04,880 You know, you look sexy when you're stressed and tired. 654 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,410 I mean, I don't get to see you like this often. 655 00:42:07,410 --> 00:42:10,673 You act like this superhuman that nothing gets to. 656 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:13,670 It's nice seeing you like this. 657 00:42:14,940 --> 00:42:17,553 - Well, you know, I enjoy being your superman. 658 00:42:18,510 --> 00:42:20,013 - And I'm your kryptonite. 659 00:42:22,002 --> 00:42:23,668 - Yes, you are. - Yes. 660 00:42:25,904 --> 00:42:28,654 (romantic music) 661 00:42:42,690 --> 00:42:43,633 - That was nice. 662 00:42:45,502 --> 00:42:49,690 (laughing) I think we should have more spontaneous sex. 663 00:42:49,690 --> 00:42:50,643 - Agreed. 664 00:42:50,643 --> 00:42:53,283 - (laughing) - Definitely. (laughs) 665 00:42:55,277 --> 00:42:57,213 - It's really getting late. 666 00:42:57,213 --> 00:42:59,110 What are we going to do? 667 00:42:59,110 --> 00:43:03,210 - Well, we should try and flag down a vehicle. 668 00:43:03,210 --> 00:43:04,043 - Okay. 669 00:43:04,043 --> 00:43:05,940 I think I should do it this time, though. 670 00:43:05,940 --> 00:43:06,773 - You? 671 00:43:06,773 --> 00:43:07,606 - Yes. 672 00:43:07,606 --> 00:43:08,439 - Are you sure? 673 00:43:08,439 --> 00:43:09,272 - Watch me. 674 00:43:13,859 --> 00:43:14,692 - Careful. 675 00:43:48,930 --> 00:43:49,763 Why? 676 00:43:49,763 --> 00:43:51,513 What's wrong? Don't do that. 677 00:43:53,850 --> 00:43:55,450 What's wrong? You don't like it? 678 00:43:57,620 --> 00:43:58,513 Just one more. 679 00:44:00,130 --> 00:44:00,963 Okay. 680 00:44:02,801 --> 00:44:04,401 Maybe I should make another one. 681 00:44:07,660 --> 00:44:09,123 Perhaps, it's a bit cold. 682 00:44:11,290 --> 00:44:12,123 I'm coming. 683 00:44:38,590 --> 00:44:39,610 Okay. 684 00:44:39,610 --> 00:44:41,210 Try this. 685 00:44:41,210 --> 00:44:42,753 I'm sure you will like this. 686 00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:45,123 Now, it's a bit hot. 687 00:44:52,170 --> 00:44:53,503 Tobi, please. 688 00:44:54,430 --> 00:44:55,263 Please. 689 00:44:57,683 --> 00:44:59,683 (music) 690 00:45:35,989 --> 00:45:37,656 - You're burning up. 691 00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:40,820 Okay, come and get dressed. 692 00:45:40,820 --> 00:45:42,540 Let me take you to the hospital. 693 00:45:42,540 --> 00:45:44,820 - No, it's not that serious. 694 00:45:44,820 --> 00:45:46,323 It's just fever. 695 00:45:47,180 --> 00:45:49,660 I just need to take a cold bath, and painkillers. 696 00:45:49,660 --> 00:45:50,780 I'll be fine. 697 00:45:50,780 --> 00:45:53,320 - No, I don't like it when you self medicate. 698 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,585 - Tobi, it's not that serious. 699 00:45:56,585 --> 00:45:57,418 I'm fine. 700 00:45:58,647 --> 00:45:59,730 - I hear you. 701 00:46:01,867 --> 00:46:04,146 Okay, let me give you a shower. 702 00:46:04,146 --> 00:46:06,438 - Okay. - At least. 703 00:46:06,438 --> 00:46:08,016 Okay. 704 00:46:08,016 --> 00:46:09,004 Let's go. 705 00:46:09,004 --> 00:46:10,525 - Carry me. 706 00:46:10,525 --> 00:46:14,108 - (laughs) You are a baby. 707 00:46:27,990 --> 00:46:28,823 - Awe! 708 00:46:30,935 --> 00:46:32,855 - Good morning, baby girl. 709 00:46:32,855 --> 00:46:33,884 - Thank you. 710 00:46:33,884 --> 00:46:35,301 - You're welcome. 711 00:46:51,373 --> 00:46:52,624 Thanks, baby. 712 00:46:52,624 --> 00:46:53,457 - Welcome. 713 00:47:07,673 --> 00:47:08,506 - What? 714 00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,499 Why you looking at me like that? 715 00:47:11,499 --> 00:47:12,582 - Look, Nkem, 716 00:47:13,737 --> 00:47:15,853 and don't take this the wrong way, but, 717 00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:19,610 you look a little chubby. 718 00:47:21,180 --> 00:47:22,960 - Are you saying that I'm fat? 719 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:25,110 - No, that's not what I'm saying. 720 00:47:25,110 --> 00:47:29,203 I'm just saying, your cheeks are filled out a bit. 721 00:47:30,490 --> 00:47:32,570 - Well, I have chubby cheeks. 722 00:47:32,570 --> 00:47:33,913 - Well, yeah. 723 00:47:35,240 --> 00:47:36,730 - Yeah? 724 00:47:36,730 --> 00:47:38,638 So, I have chubby cheeks? 725 00:47:38,638 --> 00:47:39,471 Is that what you're saying? 726 00:47:39,471 --> 00:47:42,130 - (laughs) You have already said it yourself, now! 727 00:47:42,130 --> 00:47:43,380 - You're not supposed to say that. 728 00:47:43,380 --> 00:47:44,213 You're supposed to say 729 00:47:44,213 --> 00:47:47,270 no, baby, you have a natural contort face. 730 00:47:47,270 --> 00:47:48,373 - Why you holding your face like that? 731 00:47:48,373 --> 00:47:50,387 - I was just being theatrical. 732 00:47:50,387 --> 00:47:52,460 - (laughs) 733 00:47:52,460 --> 00:47:54,060 My own marital strength. 734 00:47:54,060 --> 00:47:54,893 - Yes. 735 00:47:57,010 --> 00:47:58,610 - And I love your chubby cheeks. 736 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,293 Baby, on a serious note. 737 00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:14,730 We should go to the hospital. 738 00:48:16,130 --> 00:48:17,460 Just to check you out, huh? 739 00:48:17,460 --> 00:48:20,710 Know for sure what's wrong with you, and just stop assuming. 740 00:48:20,710 --> 00:48:23,300 - So, what are you insinuating? 741 00:48:24,284 --> 00:48:26,284 (music) 742 00:50:26,650 --> 00:50:27,483 - Hi. 743 00:50:28,717 --> 00:50:30,050 Can you hear me? 744 00:50:31,566 --> 00:50:33,820 You can hear me? Okay. 745 00:50:33,820 --> 00:50:34,653 Um, 746 00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:37,423 I can't wait to meet you. 747 00:50:39,460 --> 00:50:42,003 Your daddy's so excited to meet you. 748 00:50:45,890 --> 00:50:48,500 We are going for this thing called ultrasound. 749 00:50:48,500 --> 00:50:53,110 It's like camera that shows inside of your stomach. 750 00:50:53,110 --> 00:50:56,170 And we're going to see your beautiful face, 751 00:50:56,170 --> 00:50:58,863 and see if you're a girl or a boy. 752 00:51:00,395 --> 00:51:01,853 But, I'm certain you're a boy. 753 00:51:01,853 --> 00:51:04,170 I don't know, 'cause I can feel you inside, 754 00:51:04,170 --> 00:51:06,370 and I just know you're a boy somehow. 755 00:51:06,370 --> 00:51:09,050 Even though your dad thinks that you're a girl. 756 00:51:09,050 --> 00:51:10,590 I think he's wrong. 757 00:51:10,590 --> 00:51:13,280 So, tomorrow, when we see you, 758 00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,080 your dad will see that you're a boy. 759 00:51:17,070 --> 00:51:18,007 I don't even know what to say to you. 760 00:51:18,007 --> 00:51:20,623 I'm so nervous, I can't just wait to meet you. 761 00:51:22,050 --> 00:51:24,290 I love you so much. 762 00:51:24,290 --> 00:51:25,870 I will give you everything. 763 00:51:25,870 --> 00:51:27,893 Everything could ask for. 764 00:51:27,893 --> 00:51:29,863 I love you with all my heart. 765 00:51:30,890 --> 00:51:33,970 And your daddy loves you, too. 766 00:51:33,970 --> 00:51:36,893 We both love you, and can't wait to meet you. 767 00:51:48,190 --> 00:51:50,220 - [Doctor] Sorry for keeping you waiting. 768 00:51:50,220 --> 00:51:53,087 I had to attend to a patient. 769 00:51:53,087 --> 00:51:54,190 - [Tobi] It's okay, doctor. 770 00:51:54,190 --> 00:51:57,280 We are just so excited about the baby. 771 00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:58,130 - I can see that. 772 00:51:59,390 --> 00:52:02,113 - So, is it a boy or a girl? 773 00:52:03,460 --> 00:52:04,293 - It's a boy. 774 00:52:04,293 --> 00:52:05,810 - Yes! 775 00:52:05,810 --> 00:52:06,963 I told you! I told you. 776 00:52:07,982 --> 00:52:09,232 - There's something else. 777 00:52:10,940 --> 00:52:13,093 - Um, is something wrong? 778 00:52:14,490 --> 00:52:15,790 - Well, we don't know yet. 779 00:52:16,660 --> 00:52:18,530 The ultrasound detected a fleet 780 00:52:18,530 --> 00:52:20,623 at the back of the neck of the fetus. 781 00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:23,220 We can't conclude anything right now. 782 00:52:23,220 --> 00:52:25,130 There are tests that are carried out 783 00:52:25,130 --> 00:52:26,973 to test for markers in your blood. 784 00:52:29,177 --> 00:52:33,410 - Um, I'm lost. I'm lost here. 785 00:52:33,410 --> 00:52:35,784 - There's really no need to panic now. 786 00:52:35,784 --> 00:52:38,540 I will take blood samples right now. 787 00:52:38,540 --> 00:52:40,250 Run the tests, and you can come back 788 00:52:40,250 --> 00:52:41,990 next week for the results. 789 00:52:41,990 --> 00:52:43,630 - Thank you, doctor. 790 00:52:43,630 --> 00:52:44,650 - See you next week. 791 00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,200 (music) 792 00:52:52,507 --> 00:52:54,110 - The results of the test indicate 793 00:52:54,110 --> 00:52:56,585 that your baby has down syndrome. 794 00:52:56,585 --> 00:52:58,168 - What? 795 00:52:58,168 --> 00:52:59,750 How? 796 00:52:59,750 --> 00:53:02,230 What could be the cause of this? 797 00:53:02,230 --> 00:53:04,790 - It's a simple case of a genetic disorder. 798 00:53:04,790 --> 00:53:07,350 I know this is difficult to handle. 799 00:53:07,350 --> 00:53:09,080 We could terminate the pregnancy, if you like. 800 00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:11,094 - No! - That will never happen. 801 00:53:11,094 --> 00:53:12,390 - No! 802 00:53:12,390 --> 00:53:14,233 - Okay, well, you do know the challenge 803 00:53:14,233 --> 00:53:16,050 that may arise as a result of trying 804 00:53:16,050 --> 00:53:18,300 to raise up a child with down syndrome. 805 00:53:18,300 --> 00:53:21,120 A year of wait may cause intellectual impairments, 806 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,240 and physical abnormalities. 807 00:53:30,710 --> 00:53:31,710 - Thank you. 808 00:53:47,150 --> 00:53:49,070 - What do you think about Shango? 809 00:53:49,070 --> 00:53:51,423 It's a strong name. Strong Yoruba name. 810 00:53:53,990 --> 00:53:57,830 Or maybe something Biblical, like one of those big names. 811 00:53:57,830 --> 00:53:58,663 David! 812 00:53:59,710 --> 00:54:00,543 Or Solomon! 813 00:54:10,870 --> 00:54:13,253 - I have decided to terminate the pregnancy. 814 00:54:24,953 --> 00:54:26,370 - You're serious? 815 00:54:30,290 --> 00:54:32,040 You're really not joking right now? 816 00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:38,143 Oh, Nkem. You have to think about that more seriously. 817 00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:42,703 - I have made up my mind. 818 00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:47,053 - But he's my baby, too. 819 00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:52,510 - I do not want to create a child 820 00:54:52,510 --> 00:54:55,223 that isn't going to have much of a future. 821 00:54:56,770 --> 00:55:00,993 He wouldn't grow up to drive, get married. 822 00:55:02,090 --> 00:55:05,283 Schooling will be extremely difficult for him. 823 00:55:07,910 --> 00:55:10,913 No one deserves that kind of life. 824 00:55:10,913 --> 00:55:14,170 He wouldn't get to do the things 825 00:55:14,170 --> 00:55:16,123 we all have a fair share to do. 826 00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:20,863 Tobi, I am heartbroken for him. 827 00:55:23,620 --> 00:55:24,453 Please, 828 00:55:26,630 --> 00:55:29,845 I can't bear the mental torture. 829 00:55:29,845 --> 00:55:30,678 I can't! 830 00:55:30,678 --> 00:55:32,070 - Look, you have no right 831 00:55:32,070 --> 00:55:35,710 to decide what's right for somebody else's life. 832 00:55:35,710 --> 00:55:37,238 Okay? 833 00:55:37,238 --> 00:55:39,255 - I'm his mother! 834 00:55:39,255 --> 00:55:40,263 - You are not God. 835 00:55:42,510 --> 00:55:43,360 - I'm his mother. 836 00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:46,350 You can't tell me that! I'm his mother! 837 00:55:48,620 --> 00:55:51,612 I cannot bring him into this world in this condition! 838 00:55:51,612 --> 00:55:53,250 I can't! 839 00:55:53,250 --> 00:55:54,560 Not this world! 840 00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:56,107 Tobi, you know it. 841 00:56:01,748 --> 00:56:04,250 (crying) 842 00:56:04,250 --> 00:56:05,573 - Nkem, I'm his father, 843 00:56:06,740 --> 00:56:08,610 and I have a say in this thing, too. 844 00:56:08,610 --> 00:56:10,340 You can't just do that. 845 00:56:10,340 --> 00:56:12,000 - No. 846 00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:13,770 Don't tell me that. 847 00:56:13,770 --> 00:56:14,880 Don't. 848 00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:17,390 Do you know how many nights 849 00:56:17,390 --> 00:56:20,513 I cried myself to sleep all these years? 850 00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:23,873 Because of the struggle to get pregnant! 851 00:56:26,150 --> 00:56:27,847 And I finally get pregnant. 852 00:56:31,559 --> 00:56:33,920 (yelling) 853 00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:36,573 Do you know devastating that is? 854 00:56:53,536 --> 00:56:54,369 - Nkem, 855 00:56:58,220 --> 00:56:59,053 you keep saying I, 856 00:56:59,053 --> 00:57:01,363 as if you're the only person in this situation. 857 00:57:04,770 --> 00:57:06,483 I'm effected by this, as well. 858 00:57:09,670 --> 00:57:10,760 No matter how you look at it, 859 00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:12,110 this thing affects me, too. 860 00:57:13,310 --> 00:57:14,143 I may not be the one 861 00:57:14,143 --> 00:57:17,090 that has to carry this child in my stomach for nine months, 862 00:57:18,193 --> 00:57:19,443 but I feel the same pain. 863 00:57:23,870 --> 00:57:27,990 And, you can't just take someone's life 864 00:57:27,990 --> 00:57:29,290 into your hands like that. 865 00:57:30,870 --> 00:57:32,440 This is a whole life. 866 00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:34,081 A whole destiny. 867 00:57:34,081 --> 00:57:35,840 - (crying) 868 00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:37,190 - You don't have the right. 869 00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:42,150 Baby, we have to think about this. 870 00:57:43,758 --> 00:57:44,591 No. 871 00:57:46,675 --> 00:57:47,508 No. 872 00:57:48,747 --> 00:57:52,620 - No! (crying) 873 00:57:52,620 --> 00:57:54,857 - Don't give up, baby. 874 00:57:54,857 --> 00:57:55,991 - (crying hysterically) 875 00:57:55,991 --> 00:57:56,824 - Shh. 876 00:57:59,703 --> 00:58:00,870 Don't give up. 877 00:58:05,380 --> 00:58:06,950 - No way. 878 00:58:06,950 --> 00:58:08,283 - Come on, baby. 879 00:58:12,032 --> 00:58:14,032 (music) 880 00:59:40,956 --> 00:59:41,956 - Hey, babe. 881 00:59:43,072 --> 00:59:43,905 - Hey. 882 00:59:51,930 --> 00:59:52,763 - What's wrong? 883 00:59:54,075 --> 00:59:54,908 - I'm fine. 884 00:59:57,802 --> 00:59:58,635 - Nkem! 885 01:00:01,380 --> 01:00:02,380 What have you done?! 886 01:00:08,410 --> 01:00:09,243 What's this? 887 01:00:13,423 --> 01:00:14,767 - I was going to tell you. 888 01:00:17,481 --> 01:00:18,740 - You took our baby out?! 889 01:00:21,060 --> 01:00:22,173 - I couldn't keep it. 890 01:00:24,020 --> 01:00:24,853 - It? It?! 891 01:00:26,730 --> 01:00:28,580 - Tobi. 892 01:00:28,580 --> 01:00:29,913 - How could you? 893 01:00:31,546 --> 01:00:32,379 - Tobi. 894 01:00:33,289 --> 01:00:34,122 Tobi! 895 01:00:49,059 --> 01:00:49,892 Tobi! 896 01:00:51,306 --> 01:00:52,139 Tobi. 897 01:00:53,170 --> 01:00:54,003 Wait. 898 01:00:54,906 --> 01:00:57,393 You can't possibly leave at this time of the night. 899 01:00:59,620 --> 01:01:00,453 Tobi. 900 01:01:18,890 --> 01:01:19,723 Tobi. 901 01:01:22,670 --> 01:01:23,633 Can we talk? 902 01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:31,633 Tobi, please. 903 01:01:36,817 --> 01:01:39,484 - There's nothing to talk about. 904 01:01:40,990 --> 01:01:41,823 - Tobi. 905 01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:04,723 - Merry Christmas. 906 01:02:06,190 --> 01:02:07,167 Where have you been? 907 01:02:07,167 --> 01:02:09,320 I've been so worried. 908 01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:11,120 I thought something happened to you. 909 01:02:13,230 --> 01:02:14,313 You're drunk. 910 01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:16,503 Have you been drinking? 911 01:02:18,730 --> 01:02:19,563 - So what? 912 01:02:21,030 --> 01:02:22,233 So what if I'm drunk? 913 01:02:23,730 --> 01:02:25,850 - I can't keep doing this. 914 01:02:25,850 --> 01:02:26,770 In the last four days, 915 01:02:26,770 --> 01:02:29,670 you've been coming home drunk every single night. 916 01:02:29,670 --> 01:02:30,943 - Just leave me alone. 917 01:02:33,020 --> 01:02:35,370 - It's high time you grow up! 918 01:02:35,370 --> 01:02:37,767 How long are you going to continue like this?! 919 01:02:38,975 --> 01:02:41,317 You're not the only one grieving, you know! 920 01:02:41,317 --> 01:02:43,180 Get a grip on yourself, please! 921 01:02:43,180 --> 01:02:44,203 - How dare you? 922 01:02:46,464 --> 01:02:48,614 Not everybody's as cold hearted as you are. 923 01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:52,283 Do not make me lose my temper. 924 01:02:56,605 --> 01:02:58,280 - I'm tired. 925 01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:00,960 Can we move on already, please? 926 01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:02,393 - Look, I've held you down. 927 01:03:04,690 --> 01:03:08,903 When you cry, when you're sad, when you're angry. 928 01:03:11,970 --> 01:03:13,250 Even when you push me away. 929 01:03:13,250 --> 01:03:14,603 I'm still right there. 930 01:03:15,970 --> 01:03:17,980 I've had to bottle up years of pain 931 01:03:17,980 --> 01:03:19,353 to make you feel good. 932 01:03:20,774 --> 01:03:21,607 And now I have to worry about the fact 933 01:03:21,607 --> 01:03:23,303 that you don't have kids. 934 01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:27,123 I've been a good husband to you! 935 01:03:28,140 --> 01:03:29,253 Just one thing. 936 01:03:31,140 --> 01:03:34,191 Just one thing is all I've ever asked you for, 937 01:03:34,191 --> 01:03:35,243 and you failed! 938 01:03:40,070 --> 01:03:42,713 How do you even sleep at night after what you've done? 939 01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:46,200 You have no right to take somebody else's life! 940 01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:47,493 You are not God! 941 01:03:52,180 --> 01:03:54,330 I can't even recognize the woman I married. 942 01:03:57,710 --> 01:03:58,543 - So 943 01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:02,053 this is really not about the child. 944 01:04:04,330 --> 01:04:06,783 This is the satisfaction of you being a father. 945 01:04:07,890 --> 01:04:11,120 And you don't mind being a father, regardless of anything? 946 01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:11,953 - Yes. 947 01:04:13,390 --> 01:04:14,777 I want a child! 948 01:04:19,425 --> 01:04:20,637 It's been eight years. 949 01:04:20,637 --> 01:04:22,137 Eight years, Nkem! 950 01:04:24,151 --> 01:04:24,984 - Wow. 951 01:04:26,550 --> 01:04:30,240 What happened to if it's between you and having children, 952 01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:31,663 you win all the time? 953 01:04:33,030 --> 01:04:35,293 I guess it was all a lie. 954 01:04:37,319 --> 01:04:39,573 I'm useless without children. 955 01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:41,913 - I guess. 956 01:04:54,179 --> 01:04:57,300 I'll be back to get my things tomorrow. 957 01:04:57,300 --> 01:04:58,473 I need some space. 958 01:05:20,327 --> 01:05:22,577 - (crying) 959 01:05:33,988 --> 01:05:35,988 (music) 960 01:06:33,370 --> 01:06:35,030 - Good morning, ma'am. 961 01:06:35,030 --> 01:06:36,613 - Good morning Akpan. 962 01:06:36,613 --> 01:06:41,613 - Forgot some enko karin briefcase, and some a few clothes. 963 01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:43,610 - His briefcase? 964 01:06:43,610 --> 01:06:44,443 Where is he? 965 01:06:46,274 --> 01:06:47,863 - And, he said I should give you this. 966 01:07:00,990 --> 01:07:03,800 I'm sorry, madam, please, I'm in a hurry, ma'am. 967 01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:05,700 There's a taxi waiting for me outside. 968 01:07:07,260 --> 01:07:08,093 - Okay. 969 01:07:09,190 --> 01:07:10,440 Let me go get his things. 970 01:07:35,174 --> 01:07:36,163 - Thank you, ma'am. 971 01:07:38,510 --> 01:07:40,563 He also said that I should give you this. 972 01:07:45,550 --> 01:07:46,710 - His car key? 973 01:07:46,710 --> 01:07:48,997 - Yes ma'am. I'll be on my way. 974 01:07:57,643 --> 01:08:00,350 - Dear Nkem, I never thought 975 01:08:00,350 --> 01:08:02,133 I would be writing you this letter. 976 01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:04,197 There was a time when I thought 977 01:08:04,197 --> 01:08:07,130 our love could stand the test of time, 978 01:08:07,130 --> 01:08:08,973 and nothing could come between us. 979 01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:13,663 To say that I've agonized over this is an understatement. 980 01:08:15,310 --> 01:08:17,873 This situation is overwhelming for me. 981 01:08:19,070 --> 01:08:20,683 I need some time to be away. 982 01:08:23,660 --> 01:08:25,480 I'm in so much pain right now, 983 01:08:25,480 --> 01:08:29,220 that I actually dream about a time in the future. 984 01:08:29,220 --> 01:08:31,000 When thinking about what you did 985 01:08:31,000 --> 01:08:33,693 to our unborn baby won't hurt so much. 986 01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:39,060 I still love you, and I'll continue to love you, 987 01:08:39,060 --> 01:08:41,033 but it's tearing me apart. 988 01:08:42,490 --> 01:08:45,793 You have to let me go, so I can find myself again. 989 01:08:47,930 --> 01:08:50,893 I left some money for you in the drawers beside the bed. 990 01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:54,693 It should be enough to start up a business. 991 01:08:56,024 --> 01:08:57,124 You're a strong woman. 992 01:08:58,000 --> 01:08:59,700 I know you will figure things out. 993 01:09:01,569 --> 01:09:03,270 I cherish our good memories, 994 01:09:03,270 --> 01:09:05,453 and I hope they always stay on my mind. 995 01:09:07,320 --> 01:09:09,633 Time and distance will help heal this wound. 996 01:09:11,020 --> 01:09:12,053 Love, always, Tobi. 997 01:09:15,591 --> 01:09:17,591 (music) 998 01:09:19,245 --> 01:09:21,578 - (screams) 999 01:09:23,728 --> 01:09:25,800 - [Victor's Wife] Hey! Be careful! 1000 01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:29,062 Do not kick the ball too hard at your sister! 1001 01:09:29,062 --> 01:09:31,470 (laughs) 1002 01:09:31,470 --> 01:09:33,620 Can you imagine? 1003 01:09:33,620 --> 01:09:35,167 Okay, that's enough! 1004 01:09:38,230 --> 01:09:40,313 (laughs) 1005 01:09:48,418 --> 01:09:50,418 (music) 1006 01:11:51,359 --> 01:11:53,518 - (whistles) 1007 01:11:53,518 --> 01:11:54,351 - Hello. 1008 01:11:58,920 --> 01:12:00,003 - Uncle Tobi! 1009 01:12:01,613 --> 01:12:03,022 How are you doing, sir? 1010 01:12:03,022 --> 01:12:04,791 - I'm very well. 1011 01:12:04,791 --> 01:12:05,690 - It's been a long time. 1012 01:12:05,690 --> 01:12:06,523 - How are you doing? 1013 01:12:06,523 --> 01:12:07,420 - I'm good, too, sir. 1014 01:12:07,420 --> 01:12:08,645 - And how's the family? 1015 01:12:08,645 --> 01:12:10,008 - Everything good. 1016 01:12:10,008 --> 01:12:10,841 We alright. 1017 01:12:13,560 --> 01:12:14,440 How's everything, sir? 1018 01:12:14,440 --> 01:12:15,680 - Fine. 1019 01:12:15,680 --> 01:12:17,530 It's been about four years? 1020 01:12:17,530 --> 01:12:18,363 - Yes, sir. 1021 01:12:19,400 --> 01:12:20,923 - So how is the whole family? 1022 01:12:20,923 --> 01:12:23,284 - We've been good, everybody's fine. 1023 01:12:23,284 --> 01:12:24,913 - That's great. 1024 01:12:26,610 --> 01:12:29,913 I just came to check for Nkem, it seems she's not around? 1025 01:12:31,613 --> 01:12:32,843 - Ah, hey, uncle Tobi, 1026 01:12:32,843 --> 01:12:36,083 aunt Nkem left here like four years ago, sir. 1027 01:12:37,250 --> 01:12:38,163 Are you not aware? 1028 01:12:39,250 --> 01:12:41,353 Don't you come to get with your wife? 1029 01:12:42,610 --> 01:12:46,853 She told my mother that you traveled out for work. 1030 01:12:49,060 --> 01:12:50,663 - I did, yes, I did. 1031 01:12:54,250 --> 01:12:55,640 Okay. 1032 01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:56,473 Thank you. 1033 01:12:56,473 --> 01:12:57,350 - Yes, sir. 1034 01:12:58,747 --> 01:13:01,010 Uncle Tobi, wait. 1035 01:13:01,010 --> 01:13:04,190 Sir, the last time my mother saw her, 1036 01:13:04,190 --> 01:13:08,143 she say she now owns an hair salon business. 1037 01:13:09,910 --> 01:13:11,890 She even give her her address. 1038 01:13:11,890 --> 01:13:13,570 Can I get it for you, sir? 1039 01:13:13,570 --> 01:13:14,403 - Yes. 1040 01:13:14,403 --> 01:13:15,236 Yes, please. 1041 01:13:15,236 --> 01:13:16,083 - Okay, I get it for you. 1042 01:13:16,083 --> 01:13:17,916 Wait here, uncle Tobi. 1043 01:13:19,071 --> 01:13:20,071 - Thank you. 1044 01:13:28,654 --> 01:13:30,654 (music) 1045 01:14:39,319 --> 01:14:40,280 - You're still so beautiful. 1046 01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:42,070 You haven't aged a day. 1047 01:14:45,140 --> 01:14:46,393 - Tobi, what do you want? 1048 01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:52,210 - I just... 1049 01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:56,933 - He comes back after four years, 1050 01:14:58,409 --> 01:15:02,082 and the first thing he does is try to use his charm on me? 1051 01:15:02,082 --> 01:15:03,850 I didn't- - It's not like- 1052 01:15:03,850 --> 01:15:06,200 - I need to refresh, now, how did we even meet? 1053 01:15:07,610 --> 01:15:08,443 - Look, I- 1054 01:15:09,410 --> 01:15:10,715 - Nevermind. 1055 01:15:10,715 --> 01:15:12,233 It's your specialty. 1056 01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:15,420 - Look, I'm sorry. 1057 01:15:17,114 --> 01:15:20,155 I'm sorry. - Sorry for what, exactly? 1058 01:15:20,155 --> 01:15:22,093 - Look, it wasn't exactly easy for me. 1059 01:15:23,130 --> 01:15:24,483 - And it was easy for me? 1060 01:15:31,220 --> 01:15:34,390 - Look, the death of our child 1061 01:15:36,340 --> 01:15:37,753 that became the death of me. 1062 01:15:39,470 --> 01:15:41,610 - You don't have to say it nicely. 1063 01:15:41,610 --> 01:15:42,823 He didn't just die. 1064 01:15:44,115 --> 01:15:45,410 I killed him. 1065 01:15:45,410 --> 01:15:46,243 - Stop. 1066 01:15:47,140 --> 01:15:48,270 Stop talking like that. 1067 01:15:48,270 --> 01:15:52,490 - Where have you been all these years? 1068 01:15:52,490 --> 01:15:53,630 You come back here, 1069 01:15:53,630 --> 01:15:55,350 and you tell me sorry? 1070 01:15:55,350 --> 01:15:57,313 Sorry doesn't cut it, Tobi. 1071 01:15:58,390 --> 01:15:59,530 - Look, all this time, 1072 01:15:59,530 --> 01:16:01,050 I've just been trying to numb the pain 1073 01:16:01,050 --> 01:16:02,450 of everything that happened. 1074 01:16:04,970 --> 01:16:05,970 Even thinking of it, 1075 01:16:05,970 --> 01:16:07,520 even thinking of what happened. 1076 01:16:11,190 --> 01:16:13,940 I wouldn't have survived all those years. 1077 01:16:13,940 --> 01:16:15,330 I just needed to get away. 1078 01:16:15,330 --> 01:16:16,293 I needed to heal. 1079 01:16:17,690 --> 01:16:20,240 I didn't want to come back here a shattered person. 1080 01:16:21,830 --> 01:16:23,393 - Do you hear yourself? 1081 01:16:24,518 --> 01:16:26,433 He was my child, too! 1082 01:16:28,350 --> 01:16:29,963 I mourned his death! 1083 01:16:31,400 --> 01:16:33,600 How do you think I survived all these years? 1084 01:16:43,300 --> 01:16:45,960 - Yes, I know I'm mean, 1085 01:16:45,960 --> 01:16:48,560 and yes, I am selfish, 1086 01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:49,393 and I'm me. 1087 01:16:50,521 --> 01:16:52,760 But, there's nothing else I can say, 1088 01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:54,373 but I'm sorry. 1089 01:16:56,740 --> 01:16:57,573 - Sorry? 1090 01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:02,600 Okay, Tobi, wait, wait. 1091 01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:05,363 Wait, first, where have you been all these years? 1092 01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:07,640 - What does that matter? 1093 01:17:07,640 --> 01:17:09,210 - I need to know! 1094 01:17:12,750 --> 01:17:14,392 - Look, I just needed to get some solace. 1095 01:17:14,392 --> 01:17:16,950 - Where did you go?! 1096 01:17:16,950 --> 01:17:18,687 - I had to go back to London. 1097 01:17:19,750 --> 01:17:20,583 - Wow. 1098 01:17:23,040 --> 01:17:24,950 How convenient. 1099 01:17:24,950 --> 01:17:26,023 - Convenient? 1100 01:17:27,970 --> 01:17:31,257 Look, it wasn't as easy as you think. 1101 01:17:31,257 --> 01:17:32,600 - Hmph. 1102 01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:34,840 - I got into depression. 1103 01:17:34,840 --> 01:17:37,473 I was becoming a shadow of myself. 1104 01:17:39,700 --> 01:17:42,213 I didn't want to come back here a shattered person. 1105 01:17:46,958 --> 01:17:48,208 - You are mean! 1106 01:17:49,457 --> 01:17:51,163 You are wicked, Tobi! 1107 01:17:52,130 --> 01:17:54,080 You're so heartless! 1108 01:17:54,080 --> 01:17:56,593 - No, no, come on- - You are heartless! 1109 01:17:56,593 --> 01:17:57,475 - Please, I'm sorry. 1110 01:17:57,475 --> 01:18:00,275 I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 1111 01:18:00,275 --> 01:18:02,170 Please, please find a way to- 1112 01:18:02,170 --> 01:18:03,462 - You're so wicked! 1113 01:18:03,462 --> 01:18:04,396 So wicked! 1114 01:18:04,396 --> 01:18:07,321 (screaming) 1115 01:18:07,321 --> 01:18:09,404 (crying) 1116 01:18:17,030 --> 01:18:19,207 - Just accept my apology. 1117 01:18:19,207 --> 01:18:22,054 Accept my apology, please. 1118 01:18:22,054 --> 01:18:22,887 Please. 1119 01:18:31,699 --> 01:18:34,653 - Don't come back here again. 1120 01:18:35,920 --> 01:18:37,703 I don't want to ever see you. 1121 01:18:41,830 --> 01:18:42,663 - That's too much. 1122 01:18:42,663 --> 01:18:43,496 Nkem! 1123 01:18:53,258 --> 01:18:55,258 (music) 1124 01:19:10,385 --> 01:19:11,468 - Be careful! 1125 01:19:12,336 --> 01:19:17,058 Do not kick the ball so hard at your sister! (laughs) 1126 01:19:17,058 --> 01:19:22,058 - Okay, pass it to me! Pass it to me! 1127 01:19:29,343 --> 01:19:30,176 - Tobi? 1128 01:19:31,187 --> 01:19:32,282 Tobi. 1129 01:19:32,282 --> 01:19:33,740 Tobi! 1130 01:19:33,740 --> 01:19:34,573 Tobi! 1131 01:19:36,472 --> 01:19:38,575 Tobi, no! (cries) 1132 01:19:38,575 --> 01:19:39,408 No, Tobi. 1133 01:19:48,939 --> 01:19:49,856 Tobi! 1134 01:20:03,979 --> 01:20:04,812 - Tobi? 1135 01:20:17,817 --> 01:20:18,843 - I'm sorry. 1136 01:20:21,480 --> 01:20:22,313 I'm sorry. 1137 01:20:23,726 --> 01:20:24,559 I'm sorry. 1138 01:20:25,433 --> 01:20:30,433 - I know. 1139 01:20:34,674 --> 01:20:36,674 (music) 1140 01:20:59,330 --> 01:21:00,430 - Mama, are you ready? 1141 01:21:05,430 --> 01:21:06,630 I'll give you some time. 1142 01:21:08,200 --> 01:21:10,940 I found this in dad's wardrobe. 1143 01:21:10,940 --> 01:21:11,773 Here. 1144 01:21:19,759 --> 01:21:22,092 We'll be waiting in the car. 1145 01:21:31,134 --> 01:21:33,410 - Dear Nkem, 1146 01:21:33,410 --> 01:21:34,810 I woke up this morning 1147 01:21:34,810 --> 01:21:37,003 remembering almost everything. 1148 01:21:38,090 --> 01:21:40,040 Everything we shared. 1149 01:21:40,040 --> 01:21:41,217 Everything we are. 1150 01:21:42,740 --> 01:21:45,563 I do not know how long these memories will stay. 1151 01:21:46,696 --> 01:21:48,830 I don't want to wake you up, 1152 01:21:48,830 --> 01:21:50,690 because you look so peaceful 1153 01:21:50,690 --> 01:21:52,540 in your sleep. 1154 01:21:52,540 --> 01:21:54,957 And I know I've put you through so much stress. 1155 01:21:54,957 --> 01:21:57,703 And you definitely need this rest. 1156 01:21:59,440 --> 01:22:01,493 I remember the first time we met. 1157 01:22:02,330 --> 01:22:04,873 How feisty you were, 1158 01:22:04,873 --> 01:22:07,573 but you still seemed so genuine. 1159 01:22:09,090 --> 01:22:12,433 I had never met anyone as expressive as you were. 1160 01:22:13,600 --> 01:22:16,013 I loved you since that first day. 1161 01:22:17,090 --> 01:22:21,203 Even though we didn't get together for months after that. 1162 01:22:22,860 --> 01:22:24,430 I never stopped believing 1163 01:22:24,430 --> 01:22:27,113 that someday, you and I would be. 1164 01:22:28,495 --> 01:22:31,883 I guess that's why I literally became your stalker. 1165 01:22:33,570 --> 01:22:35,293 Nkem, you are my everything. 1166 01:22:36,574 --> 01:22:39,060 And I'm not just saying it. 1167 01:22:39,060 --> 01:22:40,533 I mean every word. 1168 01:22:42,080 --> 01:22:43,459 Thank you for making me feel 1169 01:22:43,459 --> 01:22:46,376 like the luckiest man in the world. 1170 01:22:47,611 --> 01:22:51,300 Thank you for filling our home with love and happiness, 1171 01:22:51,300 --> 01:22:53,153 despite all that happened. 1172 01:22:54,320 --> 01:22:57,053 You helped me regain that part of me 1173 01:22:57,053 --> 01:23:00,073 that I lost when I was away from you. 1174 01:23:01,860 --> 01:23:04,703 I thought I could find myself on my own, 1175 01:23:05,574 --> 01:23:06,513 but I was wrong. 1176 01:23:08,490 --> 01:23:12,497 I realized I couldn't have done it without you. 1177 01:23:12,497 --> 01:23:15,440 You made me realize that there's still 1178 01:23:15,440 --> 01:23:17,643 a lot to live for in this world. 1179 01:23:19,698 --> 01:23:24,080 Oh, and Nkem, thank you for my son, Victor. 1180 01:23:24,080 --> 01:23:26,150 Thank you for being brave. 1181 01:23:26,150 --> 01:23:29,993 Strong enough to adopt him, and make him your own. 1182 01:23:31,420 --> 01:23:33,130 I couldn't help but love him, 1183 01:23:33,130 --> 01:23:36,287 because of the way that I saw that you loved him. 1184 01:23:37,943 --> 01:23:40,463 I've found God for you and Victor. 1185 01:23:41,500 --> 01:23:45,530 You are the best things that ever happened to me. 1186 01:23:45,530 --> 01:23:49,417 You call me your superman, but the truth is, 1187 01:23:49,417 --> 01:23:52,993 I am not even half as mentally strong as you are. 1188 01:23:54,750 --> 01:23:58,103 Your level or resilience is incredible. 1189 01:23:59,530 --> 01:24:01,003 You are my superwoman. 1190 01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:05,430 Thank you for never giving up on me, 1191 01:24:05,430 --> 01:24:08,523 and thank you for loving me unconditionally. 1192 01:24:10,340 --> 01:24:12,233 I love you deeply, my sweet. 1193 01:24:13,290 --> 01:24:16,923 Oops, I forgot you hate to be called that. 1194 01:24:18,490 --> 01:24:22,023 I love you, my Nkem, my chubby cheeks. 1195 01:24:23,320 --> 01:24:25,070 Til clouds fade away. 1196 01:24:26,116 --> 01:24:27,033 Your Tobes. 1197 01:24:28,906 --> 01:24:30,906 (music)