1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:06,214 --> 00:00:08,800 (gentle music) 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 4 00:00:17,684 --> 00:00:22,689 ♪ I'm content to be a simple sheep ♪ 5 00:00:23,732 --> 00:00:26,860 ♪ I'll listen for Your voice ♪ 6 00:00:26,860 --> 00:00:30,155 ♪ I'll follow where You lead ♪ 7 00:00:30,155 --> 00:00:33,366 ♪ 'Cause I already know ♪ 8 00:00:33,366 --> 00:00:36,745 ♪ Where my journey leads ♪ 9 00:00:36,745 --> 00:00:39,748 ♪ I'll ride into heaven ♪ 10 00:00:39,748 --> 00:00:43,585 ♪ I'll worship at Your feet ♪ 11 00:00:43,585 --> 00:00:48,590 ♪ I hear the voice behind ♪ 12 00:00:49,799 --> 00:00:54,804 ♪ It's all I need to survive ♪ 13 00:00:55,930 --> 00:01:00,935 ♪ Close my eyes blindfold me ♪ 14 00:01:02,062 --> 00:01:07,067 ♪ I need no assurance than Your hand holding me ♪ 15 00:01:08,485 --> 00:01:11,654 ♪ And all my gentle fire ♪ 16 00:01:11,654 --> 00:01:14,741 ♪ I'm dying to receive ♪ 17 00:01:14,741 --> 00:01:19,746 ♪ I need no assurance than Your hand holding me ♪ 18 00:01:21,081 --> 00:01:26,086 ♪ Than Your hand holding me ♪ 19 00:01:28,129 --> 00:01:30,924 ♪ I let go ♪ 20 00:01:30,924 --> 00:01:34,052 ♪ Of what I dreamed for me ♪ 21 00:01:34,052 --> 00:01:37,222 ♪ I'm stripping off my robes ♪ 22 00:01:37,222 --> 00:01:40,433 ♪ I lay them at your feet ♪ 23 00:01:40,433 --> 00:01:43,853 ♪ 'Cause You already know ♪ 24 00:01:43,853 --> 00:01:46,898 ♪ Where my journey leads ♪ 25 00:01:46,898 --> 00:01:50,110 ♪ You welcome me in heaven ♪ 26 00:01:50,110 --> 00:01:53,988 ♪ And that's all that I need ♪ 27 00:01:53,988 --> 00:01:58,993 ♪ I hear Your voice behind ♪ 28 00:02:00,286 --> 00:02:05,291 ♪ You're all I need to survive ♪ 29 00:02:06,334 --> 00:02:11,297 ♪ Close my eyes blindfold me ♪ 30 00:02:12,549 --> 00:02:17,554 ♪ I need no assurance than Your hand holding me ♪ 31 00:02:18,888 --> 00:02:22,142 ♪ And all my gentle fires ♪ 32 00:02:22,142 --> 00:02:25,311 ♪ I'm dying to receive ♪ 33 00:02:25,311 --> 00:02:30,316 ♪ I need no assurance than Your hand holding me ♪ 34 00:02:31,317 --> 00:02:36,322 ♪ Than Your hand holding me ♪ 35 00:02:37,115 --> 00:02:39,826 ♪ So I release my life ♪ 36 00:02:39,826 --> 00:02:43,413 ♪ To follow Your call ♪ 37 00:02:43,413 --> 00:02:46,207 ♪ And I don't need a sign ♪ 38 00:02:46,207 --> 00:02:49,752 ♪ Even when I fall ♪ 39 00:02:49,752 --> 00:02:52,547 ♪ I know You're there beside me ♪ 40 00:02:52,547 --> 00:02:56,426 ♪ When I do walk tall ♪ 41 00:02:56,426 --> 00:03:00,638 ♪ And I will rely through it all ♪ 42 00:03:00,638 --> 00:03:05,643 ♪ So close my eyes blindfold me ♪ 43 00:03:07,187 --> 00:03:12,192 ♪ I need no assurance than Your hand holding me ♪ 44 00:03:13,359 --> 00:03:16,321 ♪ And I will face the lion ♪ 45 00:03:16,321 --> 00:03:19,741 ♪ In a lion's den I'll hold peace ♪ 46 00:03:19,741 --> 00:03:24,746 ♪ I need no assurance than Your hand holding me ♪ 47 00:03:25,914 --> 00:03:30,919 ♪ Then close my eyes blindfold me ♪ 48 00:03:32,503 --> 00:03:37,508 ♪ I need no assurance than Your hand holding me ♪ 49 00:03:38,885 --> 00:03:42,430 ♪ And all my gentle fires ♪ 50 00:03:42,430 --> 00:03:45,350 ♪ I'm dying to receive ♪ 51 00:03:45,350 --> 00:03:50,313 ♪ I need no assurance than Your hand holding me ♪ 52 00:03:51,481 --> 00:03:55,944 ♪ Than Your hand holding me yeah yeah ♪ 53 00:04:04,994 --> 00:04:09,999 ♪ I'm content to be a simple sheep ♪ 54 00:04:11,042 --> 00:04:14,087 ♪ I'll listen for your voice ♪ 55 00:04:14,087 --> 00:04:17,382 ♪ I'll follow where you lead ♪ 56 00:04:17,382 --> 00:04:20,551 ♪ 'Cause we already know ♪ 57 00:04:20,551 --> 00:04:23,888 ♪ Where the journey leads ♪ 58 00:04:23,888 --> 00:04:28,893 ♪ I'll ride into heaven and be home finally ♪ 59 00:04:30,019 --> 00:04:33,690 ♪ With Your hand holding me ♪ 60 00:04:38,903 --> 00:04:41,614 - Girls, don't forget to unload the van. 61 00:04:41,614 --> 00:04:42,448 - Okay, mom. 62 00:04:49,831 --> 00:04:53,084 (car doors slams shut) 63 00:04:54,502 --> 00:04:55,670 - Cheer up girls. 64 00:04:55,670 --> 00:04:58,006 It's not like it's the first time we've moved. 65 00:04:58,006 --> 00:04:59,966 - Probably not the last time either. 66 00:04:59,966 --> 00:05:01,926 - It's okay with me. 67 00:05:01,926 --> 00:05:03,553 I make friends wherever I go. 68 00:05:04,595 --> 00:05:07,432 (mid tempo music) 69 00:05:42,342 --> 00:05:43,968 - Hey Ralph, you wanted to see me? 70 00:05:43,968 --> 00:05:46,262 - Yes, yes, come on in Darla. 71 00:05:49,807 --> 00:05:52,643 (door slams shut) 72 00:05:54,562 --> 00:05:55,897 Just make yourself at home. 73 00:05:56,898 --> 00:05:57,940 - How are you doing? 74 00:06:01,110 --> 00:06:03,029 - It's been pretty rough. 75 00:06:03,029 --> 00:06:04,947 It's not easy going through a divorce. 76 00:06:04,947 --> 00:06:06,657 - Can you tell us about the divorce? 77 00:06:06,657 --> 00:06:07,909 - Ralph? - Well? 78 00:06:09,118 --> 00:06:12,914 - If you feel comfortable telling us what's been going on, 79 00:06:12,914 --> 00:06:14,040 maybe we can help. 80 00:06:16,209 --> 00:06:18,419 - It's a very long story, 81 00:06:18,419 --> 00:06:22,465 but the short version of it 82 00:06:22,465 --> 00:06:26,219 is that my husband decided after 19 years of marriage, 83 00:06:26,219 --> 00:06:27,929 that he didn't wanna be married anymore. 84 00:06:27,929 --> 00:06:31,682 And he's also told me that he wants to explore other options 85 00:06:31,682 --> 00:06:33,434 and other life possibilities. 86 00:06:35,478 --> 00:06:39,107 - Well, was there any infidelity during your marriage? 87 00:06:39,107 --> 00:06:40,358 - Not that I know of, no. 88 00:06:42,068 --> 00:06:43,319 - Oh, sorry to hear that. 89 00:06:44,570 --> 00:06:46,322 So how are you responding? 90 00:06:46,322 --> 00:06:47,448 How are you taking it? 91 00:06:48,991 --> 00:06:51,369 - I'm trying to let go somehow. 92 00:06:52,370 --> 00:06:54,831 - You're not fighting for it? 93 00:06:54,831 --> 00:06:56,999 You're not fighting for your marriage? 94 00:06:56,999 --> 00:06:59,335 - I'm not going to force myself on him, 95 00:06:59,335 --> 00:07:01,254 and I'm not gonna stay in a loveless marriage, 96 00:07:01,254 --> 00:07:03,881 and I'm not gonna make my young vulnerable daughters 97 00:07:05,299 --> 00:07:08,386 be around someone who clearly does not love them 98 00:07:08,386 --> 00:07:09,262 or their mother. 99 00:07:10,555 --> 00:07:12,140 - No, we understand that. 100 00:07:12,140 --> 00:07:15,476 It's just that- - What? 101 00:07:15,476 --> 00:07:16,894 - Well, here at our church, 102 00:07:16,894 --> 00:07:21,899 we believe that the only biblical reason for a divorce is, 103 00:07:23,776 --> 00:07:26,279 well it's marital unfaithfulness. 104 00:07:26,279 --> 00:07:29,991 Well, since there was no infidelity. 105 00:07:30,867 --> 00:07:33,369 Yeah, I know you mentioned that he said he wanted 106 00:07:33,369 --> 00:07:34,829 to pursue other avenues, 107 00:07:34,829 --> 00:07:38,249 but since there wasn't any actual cheating 108 00:07:38,249 --> 00:07:41,377 and you're just willing to go with it and not fight 109 00:07:41,377 --> 00:07:43,463 for your marriage... 110 00:07:43,463 --> 00:07:45,465 - What are you saying? 111 00:07:45,465 --> 00:07:48,718 Are you trying to say that it's my fault even partially? 112 00:07:48,718 --> 00:07:52,805 My young girls need to know that they are valued and loved. 113 00:07:54,599 --> 00:07:56,350 And if he's not willing to do it, 114 00:07:56,350 --> 00:07:58,269 then he can be on his way. 115 00:07:58,269 --> 00:07:59,687 The Bible also says that, 116 00:07:59,687 --> 00:08:02,523 "If the wicked choose to depart, let them depart." 117 00:08:03,858 --> 00:08:05,234 - It just looks bad. 118 00:08:08,696 --> 00:08:11,949 You know very well the blow 119 00:08:11,949 --> 00:08:15,453 that the leadership team here has had this past year 120 00:08:15,453 --> 00:08:20,458 with the youth pastor scandal, he deceived us all, 121 00:08:20,583 --> 00:08:23,377 and now a young girl's life will never be the same. 122 00:08:24,462 --> 00:08:28,508 We just have to make sure that the congregation 123 00:08:28,508 --> 00:08:30,510 and the membership know 124 00:08:30,510 --> 00:08:33,679 that we're not willing to just throw anyone into leadership, 125 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,807 that we're not going to hire child predators, 126 00:08:36,807 --> 00:08:40,061 or bums, or divorcing couples. 127 00:08:41,187 --> 00:08:44,524 - What is this about, your image? 128 00:08:44,524 --> 00:08:45,942 Come on, Ralph. 129 00:08:45,942 --> 00:08:47,401 You knew about my husband. 130 00:08:47,401 --> 00:08:49,695 You knew how hard I tried for years 131 00:08:49,695 --> 00:08:50,905 to get him to come to church. 132 00:08:50,905 --> 00:08:52,740 - That's not the point. 133 00:08:52,740 --> 00:08:54,200 - What is the point? 134 00:08:55,284 --> 00:08:59,121 The Bible says to avoid all appearances of evil. 135 00:08:59,121 --> 00:09:02,083 And quite frankly, we're just not doing a good job of that. 136 00:09:04,835 --> 00:09:09,215 It's like evil is just prancing around, 137 00:09:09,215 --> 00:09:12,134 dancing all over our living rooms for all to see. 138 00:09:14,011 --> 00:09:17,890 - So you're releasing me from the leadership team? 139 00:09:20,726 --> 00:09:21,561 - We have to. 140 00:09:23,145 --> 00:09:27,149 We can't afford to have any more rumors going around. 141 00:09:27,149 --> 00:09:29,068 - What am I going to tell my girls 142 00:09:29,068 --> 00:09:31,028 who now do not have a father? 143 00:09:31,028 --> 00:09:32,697 And now, they don't even have a leadership role 144 00:09:32,697 --> 00:09:33,990 in their own church. 145 00:09:33,990 --> 00:09:36,576 - Oh, this does not affect your girls in any way. 146 00:09:36,576 --> 00:09:39,328 They are completely fine to stay where they are. 147 00:09:39,328 --> 00:09:41,414 - Our family is broken up enough 148 00:09:41,414 --> 00:09:44,458 and I will allow no more of it, goodbye. 149 00:09:48,838 --> 00:09:51,090 (door slams shut) 150 00:09:51,090 --> 00:09:53,759 - Was that completely necessary? 151 00:09:55,636 --> 00:09:58,472 (mid tempo music) 152 00:10:19,994 --> 00:10:21,579 - So I was thinking about in my new room, 153 00:10:21,579 --> 00:10:22,663 adding my bed on that one wall- 154 00:10:22,663 --> 00:10:24,040 - Is that the room I want? 155 00:10:26,167 --> 00:10:27,877 - What room are you talking about? 156 00:10:27,877 --> 00:10:29,170 - The room at the end of the hall. 157 00:10:29,170 --> 00:10:30,379 - The one with the big window? 158 00:10:30,379 --> 00:10:32,131 - I told you that's the one I wanted. 159 00:10:32,131 --> 00:10:33,591 - No, that's the one I get. 160 00:10:33,591 --> 00:10:35,551 - Actually guys, I wanted that one. 161 00:10:35,551 --> 00:10:37,345 - No, that's the one I get. 162 00:10:37,345 --> 00:10:39,221 - Do you guys actually think you're the one 163 00:10:39,221 --> 00:10:40,056 that's getting the room? 164 00:10:40,056 --> 00:10:40,890 - Yes, I do. 165 00:10:40,890 --> 00:10:41,724 I do think that. 166 00:10:41,724 --> 00:10:43,017 - And why do you think that? 167 00:10:43,017 --> 00:10:44,560 - Because I should get it. 168 00:10:44,560 --> 00:10:45,478 - I'm the oldest. 169 00:10:45,478 --> 00:10:46,604 You shouldn't be the one who gets it. 170 00:10:46,604 --> 00:10:49,148 - So, I don't care if you're the oldest. 171 00:10:49,148 --> 00:10:50,691 - I would just really appreciate it 172 00:10:50,691 --> 00:10:52,193 if I was the one that got the room. 173 00:10:52,193 --> 00:10:53,819 - I'm sorry, but you're the oldest 174 00:10:53,819 --> 00:10:55,863 and you always think you get everything you want. 175 00:10:55,863 --> 00:10:58,491 I'm getting the room. - Grow up. 176 00:11:02,495 --> 00:11:05,456 (Kayla and Caitlyn laughing) 177 00:11:05,456 --> 00:11:06,999 - Girls, I've had enough. 178 00:11:06,999 --> 00:11:08,918 Megan, go clean up. 179 00:11:08,918 --> 00:11:10,878 Kayla, go to your room. 180 00:11:10,878 --> 00:11:13,005 - What room? - What room? 181 00:11:13,005 --> 00:11:15,591 (upbeat music) 182 00:11:41,492 --> 00:11:43,994 (door slams shut) 183 00:11:43,994 --> 00:11:46,997 (crickets chirping) 184 00:11:59,844 --> 00:12:03,889 - Dear heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus. 185 00:12:05,474 --> 00:12:07,476 I just ask you to help me. 186 00:12:08,978 --> 00:12:13,899 (melancholy music) I have felt so rejected. 187 00:12:17,737 --> 00:12:19,822 You Lord, You are so good 188 00:12:23,367 --> 00:12:28,372 and You are so faithful Lord. 189 00:12:31,167 --> 00:12:34,962 Forgive me Lord for letting this bitterness 190 00:12:34,962 --> 00:12:36,464 and pain seep in me. 191 00:12:41,218 --> 00:12:46,223 Just change this heart of stone into a heart of flesh. 192 00:12:50,770 --> 00:12:52,521 And Lord, help me to forgive Bill. 193 00:12:53,898 --> 00:12:57,985 In fact, right now Lord, I choose to forgive him. 194 00:13:00,529 --> 00:13:02,740 I forgive him for leaving us. 195 00:13:03,574 --> 00:13:05,785 And Lord, I just ask that wherever he is right now Lord, 196 00:13:05,785 --> 00:13:07,369 that You would bless him. 197 00:13:07,369 --> 00:13:10,289 And that You would bring people into his life Lord, 198 00:13:10,289 --> 00:13:11,540 that point to You. 199 00:13:13,501 --> 00:13:16,003 And Lord, that he would see his deep need for You. 200 00:13:24,386 --> 00:13:27,139 And Lord, I just ask that You would be with my daughters, 201 00:13:27,139 --> 00:13:29,266 that You would be with our daughters. 202 00:13:29,266 --> 00:13:31,769 I know Lord that You are love. 203 00:13:32,645 --> 00:13:36,315 I just ask that You help them to see their worth in You. 204 00:13:37,525 --> 00:13:39,568 Lord, I believe that they are gonna be okay 205 00:13:39,568 --> 00:13:41,487 because they're going to turn to You, 206 00:13:41,487 --> 00:13:43,155 that they're turning to You, Lord. 207 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:48,869 I know Lord God that they are turning to You right now 208 00:13:48,869 --> 00:13:51,205 in this time of hardship. 209 00:13:51,205 --> 00:13:53,624 And they are seeking You and they are finding their worth 210 00:13:53,624 --> 00:13:54,959 in You Lord. 211 00:13:54,959 --> 00:13:56,794 I believe that Lord. 212 00:13:56,794 --> 00:13:59,797 You're saying in Your word, that all things work for good 213 00:13:59,797 --> 00:14:02,049 for those who love You, and we love You Lord. 214 00:14:03,050 --> 00:14:05,553 Thank You so much for all that You do for us. 215 00:14:05,553 --> 00:14:07,555 And thank You for Your love Lord. 216 00:14:07,555 --> 00:14:09,098 We grasp that love Lord. 217 00:14:09,098 --> 00:14:12,768 You are the Lord of Lords and the King of kings, 218 00:14:12,768 --> 00:14:15,020 and You are the way the truth and the life. 219 00:14:16,939 --> 00:14:18,649 Thank You Lord for being there. 220 00:14:20,818 --> 00:14:22,528 I commit myself to You Lord. 221 00:14:22,528 --> 00:14:26,240 Please mold me and heal me and transform me 222 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:27,700 to be more like Jesus. 223 00:14:28,826 --> 00:14:31,287 In Jesus' precious name, amen. 224 00:14:54,768 --> 00:14:55,978 Let's just talk about this. 225 00:14:55,978 --> 00:14:57,563 - [Bill] Look, I've had enough. 226 00:14:57,563 --> 00:14:59,356 I cannot do this anymore. 227 00:15:00,274 --> 00:15:02,234 No, there's no anything! 228 00:15:02,234 --> 00:15:03,152 - [Darla] We gotta keep trying. 229 00:15:03,152 --> 00:15:04,653 Let's go to church together. 230 00:15:04,653 --> 00:15:05,779 Let's get some counseling. 231 00:15:05,779 --> 00:15:08,324 - [Bill] Listen, what'll God for this relationship? 232 00:15:08,324 --> 00:15:10,284 He hasn't been here for 19 years! 233 00:15:10,284 --> 00:15:11,869 - [Darla] Please Bill, don't give up on us! 234 00:15:11,869 --> 00:15:13,662 - [Bill] There is no way. 235 00:15:13,662 --> 00:15:14,872 I can't do this anymore. 236 00:15:14,872 --> 00:15:17,374 I just don't love you anymore. 237 00:15:18,250 --> 00:15:20,836 - [Darla] What about the girls? 238 00:15:22,504 --> 00:15:23,797 - [Bill] What about the girls? 239 00:15:23,797 --> 00:15:25,215 - [Darla] Don't you care about them? 240 00:15:25,215 --> 00:15:26,050 - [Bill] Are you kidding? 241 00:15:26,050 --> 00:15:27,301 Of course I care about them! 242 00:15:27,301 --> 00:15:28,928 Do not turn this on me. 243 00:15:30,596 --> 00:15:32,264 You'll pray for me God. 244 00:15:32,264 --> 00:15:35,267 Pray for this marriage that's been doomed for 19 years. 245 00:15:35,267 --> 00:15:37,394 - [Darla] Don't give up on us. 246 00:15:37,394 --> 00:15:38,896 - [Bill] Give up on what? 247 00:15:38,896 --> 00:15:40,689 I don't love you anymore. 248 00:15:40,689 --> 00:15:42,232 Give up on what? 249 00:15:42,232 --> 00:15:44,068 - [Darla] But what about the girls? 250 00:15:44,068 --> 00:15:45,069 - [Bill] What about the girls? 251 00:15:45,069 --> 00:15:45,903 What about 'em? 252 00:15:45,903 --> 00:15:46,862 - [Darla] Don't you care about 'em? 253 00:15:46,862 --> 00:15:51,367 - [Bill] Do not do this to me, of course I care about them! 254 00:15:51,367 --> 00:15:52,785 - [Darla] Oh God! 255 00:15:59,500 --> 00:16:02,252 (birds chirping) 256 00:16:07,758 --> 00:16:10,135 So I think I'm enjoying your cat decorations 257 00:16:10,135 --> 00:16:12,096 more than ever before this year. 258 00:16:12,096 --> 00:16:16,558 - Oh wow, so how are you doing? 259 00:16:16,558 --> 00:16:19,603 - So you've heard about what happened at church? 260 00:16:19,603 --> 00:16:20,437 - Yeah. 261 00:16:21,897 --> 00:16:24,900 - So I'm sitting here coming to the realization 262 00:16:24,900 --> 00:16:27,987 that everything that I thought was important in 19 years 263 00:16:27,987 --> 00:16:30,739 is basically just kind of fallen apart overnight. 264 00:16:30,739 --> 00:16:34,201 And I have to come to the realization that I have to do it 265 00:16:34,201 --> 00:16:36,328 on my own and start over again. 266 00:16:36,328 --> 00:16:38,455 - You know it doesn't have to be like that? 267 00:16:39,331 --> 00:16:40,416 - You know what, 268 00:16:40,416 --> 00:16:42,334 something about you ever since we were kids 269 00:16:42,334 --> 00:16:45,295 is that you just can't seem or are willing to see things 270 00:16:45,295 --> 00:16:46,296 as they really are. 271 00:16:48,924 --> 00:16:51,176 - Has anyone from church reached out to you? 272 00:16:53,220 --> 00:16:54,054 - No. 273 00:16:56,598 --> 00:16:59,309 - There are still some of us who are praying for you. 274 00:16:59,309 --> 00:17:00,144 - Don't say that. 275 00:17:00,144 --> 00:17:01,645 You don't know that. 276 00:17:01,645 --> 00:17:03,564 And don't believe everything everybody says. 277 00:17:03,564 --> 00:17:06,066 Also just because someone says they're praying for you, 278 00:17:06,066 --> 00:17:07,443 doesn't mean that they are. 279 00:17:07,443 --> 00:17:08,485 Love is action. 280 00:17:09,653 --> 00:17:10,696 - That's true. 281 00:17:10,696 --> 00:17:12,489 - And we can't just sweep everything under the rug 282 00:17:12,489 --> 00:17:13,824 and act like it's not happening. 283 00:17:13,824 --> 00:17:14,992 For the first time in my life, 284 00:17:14,992 --> 00:17:17,494 I'm all on my own and I'm doing it all by myself. 285 00:17:19,121 --> 00:17:21,206 - Listen, you're gonna find another church 286 00:17:21,206 --> 00:17:22,916 and you're gonna make new friends. 287 00:17:22,916 --> 00:17:24,418 - I don't think so. 288 00:17:24,418 --> 00:17:26,837 - What do you want then? 289 00:17:26,837 --> 00:17:28,797 Do you wanna be alone? 290 00:17:28,797 --> 00:17:31,592 - I want to be more selective on who I allow to be close 291 00:17:31,592 --> 00:17:33,385 to me and my children. 292 00:17:33,385 --> 00:17:35,971 And I'm not looking for church leadership for starters. 293 00:17:52,112 --> 00:17:55,908 - So guys, our first day of school is tomorrow. 294 00:17:55,908 --> 00:17:58,577 - I know, do you guys think we're gonna be popular? 295 00:17:59,578 --> 00:18:01,497 - I highly doubt it Caitlyn. 296 00:18:01,497 --> 00:18:06,502 We're not jocks, movie people, musicians, we're nobodys. 297 00:18:11,215 --> 00:18:12,049 - I'm a jock. 298 00:18:12,049 --> 00:18:14,301 - And I sing and play ukulele. 299 00:18:14,301 --> 00:18:17,221 You've never been on a real cross country team 300 00:18:17,221 --> 00:18:22,226 and you are just a beginner, we're nobodys. 301 00:18:22,476 --> 00:18:25,896 - Maybe so, but I'm no quitter. 302 00:18:25,896 --> 00:18:29,149 - You're just a jock and you're just a musician. 303 00:18:30,192 --> 00:18:34,363 - Okay. - I'm a foodie too. 304 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:40,285 - Oh, my. - I'm also really good 305 00:18:40,911 --> 00:18:44,456 at sewing and my kind of music never goes out of style. 306 00:18:45,624 --> 00:18:47,167 - What kind of style is that? 307 00:18:47,167 --> 00:18:48,961 - Cute teen rock music. 308 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:54,133 - If you see me at school, don't look at me, don't touch me, 309 00:18:54,133 --> 00:18:58,804 don't talk to me and especially don't sit with me at lunch. 310 00:19:02,391 --> 00:19:04,977 (upbeat music) 311 00:19:18,657 --> 00:19:22,244 (locker door squeaks open) 312 00:19:27,457 --> 00:19:31,712 (locker doors slams shut) 313 00:19:31,712 --> 00:19:34,298 - So, are you new here? 314 00:19:34,298 --> 00:19:35,883 - That obvious, huh? 315 00:19:35,883 --> 00:19:36,717 - No, it's just 316 00:19:36,717 --> 00:19:38,510 that there aren't many attractive girls around here 317 00:19:38,510 --> 00:19:41,638 so when one does come around, it's pretty noticeable. 318 00:19:41,638 --> 00:19:42,681 - Oh really? 319 00:19:42,681 --> 00:19:45,309 I'd say these halls are full of attractive girls. 320 00:19:45,309 --> 00:19:50,063 So yeah, you're gonna have to do better than that. 321 00:19:51,356 --> 00:19:53,442 - Hello handsome, who's this? 322 00:19:55,152 --> 00:19:56,153 - It's no one. 323 00:19:57,196 --> 00:19:59,114 I mean, she's new here. 324 00:19:59,114 --> 00:20:00,449 - I'd say so. 325 00:20:00,449 --> 00:20:02,367 - I didn't catch her name though. 326 00:20:02,367 --> 00:20:03,202 - Kayla. 327 00:20:03,202 --> 00:20:05,662 - Braiden, and this is my girlfriend, Cami. 328 00:20:05,662 --> 00:20:07,623 - So where'd you move from? 329 00:20:07,623 --> 00:20:10,792 - Bakersville, it's about an hour and a half away from here. 330 00:20:10,792 --> 00:20:11,627 - I see. 331 00:20:12,669 --> 00:20:14,129 - I saw you at our football game. 332 00:20:14,129 --> 00:20:16,089 Yeah, I just forgot to mention. 333 00:20:16,089 --> 00:20:18,967 - Oh right, yeah, that's much more believable 334 00:20:18,967 --> 00:20:20,636 than the first reason you gave me. 335 00:20:21,970 --> 00:20:23,513 - We should probably get going to class. 336 00:20:23,513 --> 00:20:25,015 It was really nice to see you. 337 00:20:25,015 --> 00:20:26,016 I'll see you around. 338 00:20:26,016 --> 00:20:27,809 - Nice to meet you Carla. 339 00:20:30,062 --> 00:20:33,190 - Kayla, and right back at ya. 340 00:20:34,733 --> 00:20:36,860 This is gonna be an interesting first week 341 00:20:38,028 --> 00:20:39,863 and I never went to a football game. 342 00:20:39,863 --> 00:20:41,240 This is my first day. 343 00:20:49,289 --> 00:20:52,209 - So why am I here again? 344 00:20:52,209 --> 00:20:53,460 - It's just school policy 345 00:20:53,460 --> 00:20:56,255 that when a student goes through a traumatic event 346 00:20:56,255 --> 00:21:00,050 such as a death or separation of parents in the household, 347 00:21:00,050 --> 00:21:03,136 or really any other life-changing event 348 00:21:03,136 --> 00:21:08,141 that we allow students to miss three hours of class per week 349 00:21:08,350 --> 00:21:10,018 to give them counseling. 350 00:21:10,018 --> 00:21:13,605 - Oh, sweet, well, it's well worth it for the free coffee. 351 00:21:16,483 --> 00:21:19,152 - So how are things at home? 352 00:21:19,152 --> 00:21:21,571 - I mean, fine I guess. 353 00:21:21,571 --> 00:21:24,616 Making some new friends here and getting involved in band 354 00:21:24,616 --> 00:21:27,202 so yeah, that's really cool. 355 00:21:29,079 --> 00:21:31,248 - You're not having any problems at home? 356 00:21:31,248 --> 00:21:32,666 - Oh, no, not at all. 357 00:21:33,625 --> 00:21:36,169 I just got a new ukulele for my birthday 358 00:21:36,169 --> 00:21:39,006 and me and my sisters all got their own rooms 359 00:21:39,006 --> 00:21:40,507 for the first time. 360 00:21:40,507 --> 00:21:42,217 So I can't really complain. 361 00:21:43,427 --> 00:21:44,594 - What about your dad? 362 00:21:47,222 --> 00:21:50,100 - Well, I don't really see my dad much, 363 00:21:50,100 --> 00:21:51,893 but I'm sure he's just busy. 364 00:21:54,521 --> 00:21:56,481 This is so good. 365 00:21:56,481 --> 00:21:58,817 Do you think I could have another cup? 366 00:21:58,817 --> 00:22:02,195 I promise I'll tell you about all my problems. 367 00:22:03,155 --> 00:22:05,699 (upbeat music) 368 00:22:05,699 --> 00:22:06,867 - She's in denial. 369 00:22:08,076 --> 00:22:09,619 - What do you mean? 370 00:22:09,619 --> 00:22:14,041 - She's suppressing all this pain and anguish 371 00:22:14,041 --> 00:22:16,752 and not addressing the issues at home. 372 00:22:18,128 --> 00:22:22,758 - That's Caitlyn, that's how she copes with things. 373 00:22:22,758 --> 00:22:25,093 She's in her own little world. 374 00:22:25,093 --> 00:22:27,637 - Yes well, I think I need to work 375 00:22:27,637 --> 00:22:28,972 with her a little bit more 376 00:22:28,972 --> 00:22:31,099 because if she doesn't address these issues, 377 00:22:31,099 --> 00:22:33,435 they're gonna manifest themselves 378 00:22:33,435 --> 00:22:38,023 in other ways one day when you least expect it. 379 00:22:38,023 --> 00:22:41,777 - Okay, do whatever you feel you need to do. 380 00:22:41,777 --> 00:22:43,904 - Okay well, if you have any questions or concerns, 381 00:22:43,904 --> 00:22:46,031 give me a call. - Thank you. 382 00:23:01,171 --> 00:23:02,506 - Hey, are you new here? 383 00:23:02,506 --> 00:23:05,634 - You're like the fifth person today who's asked me that. 384 00:23:05,634 --> 00:23:07,052 - Oh, sorry. 385 00:23:07,052 --> 00:23:08,178 - It's all good. 386 00:23:08,178 --> 00:23:10,222 At least you came up and said something. 387 00:23:10,222 --> 00:23:12,849 Most, everyone just gives me looks. 388 00:23:12,849 --> 00:23:15,185 - Oh well, most of us still welcome newcomers. 389 00:23:15,185 --> 00:23:16,728 I'm just terrible with faces. 390 00:23:16,728 --> 00:23:20,065 - Well, I'm the same way with names so I get ya. 391 00:23:20,065 --> 00:23:22,067 I'm Megan. - Ashley. 392 00:23:22,067 --> 00:23:24,861 - Tell me that three more times before we leave tonight. 393 00:23:24,861 --> 00:23:25,737 - Okay, deal. 394 00:23:27,531 --> 00:23:28,573 Well, why don't you just come over here? 395 00:23:28,573 --> 00:23:30,450 I'll introduce you to the rest of the group. 396 00:23:30,450 --> 00:23:34,871 - Yeah, I just got wait on the other extensions 397 00:23:34,871 --> 00:23:36,748 of me basically. 398 00:23:36,748 --> 00:23:37,999 - Oh, you're waiting for someone? 399 00:23:37,999 --> 00:23:40,127 - Yeah, my two sisters. 400 00:23:40,127 --> 00:23:41,795 I don't know what's keeping them. 401 00:23:43,171 --> 00:23:44,673 Oh, there they are. 402 00:23:44,673 --> 00:23:45,799 - Sorry, we're late. 403 00:23:45,799 --> 00:23:47,676 Kayla got lost in the five meter building 404 00:23:47,676 --> 00:23:49,845 and my therapy session went over 405 00:23:49,845 --> 00:23:52,472 because I was on the verge of suicide. 406 00:23:52,472 --> 00:23:55,475 - Yeah, I gotta meet with that counselor tomorrow. 407 00:23:55,475 --> 00:23:57,185 - Me too. 408 00:23:57,185 --> 00:23:59,020 - Well, if it wasn't for the free coffee, 409 00:23:59,020 --> 00:24:00,605 I wouldn't be there. 410 00:24:00,605 --> 00:24:03,859 - Yeah well guys, this is Anna. 411 00:24:03,859 --> 00:24:08,405 - Ashley. - Ashley, of course, sorry. 412 00:24:08,405 --> 00:24:10,907 - It's okay, y'all can just join us up here. 413 00:24:10,907 --> 00:24:11,741 - Okay. 414 00:24:22,294 --> 00:24:24,337 - Hey, are you busy? 415 00:24:24,337 --> 00:24:25,338 - Nope, come on in. 416 00:24:27,048 --> 00:24:27,883 - I just wanted to let you know 417 00:24:27,883 --> 00:24:28,925 that I ran some more numbers 418 00:24:28,925 --> 00:24:31,136 from the real estate account like you wanted me to 419 00:24:31,136 --> 00:24:32,262 and it just so happens that 420 00:24:32,262 --> 00:24:34,514 that piece of property right at the county line, 421 00:24:34,514 --> 00:24:37,476 all the way up to as far as the 85 mile marker 422 00:24:39,227 --> 00:24:40,061 is up for sale. 423 00:24:41,062 --> 00:24:42,898 - Okay, and I suppose you want me to strike a deal 424 00:24:42,898 --> 00:24:44,316 with the owners? 425 00:24:44,316 --> 00:24:45,692 - Absolutely, that's you and Barbara. 426 00:24:45,692 --> 00:24:46,735 That's y'all's forte. 427 00:24:46,735 --> 00:24:47,569 Y'all can handle that. 428 00:24:47,569 --> 00:24:48,403 I've nothing to do with that. 429 00:24:48,403 --> 00:24:50,697 But the reason I wanted to tell you about it specifically 430 00:24:50,697 --> 00:24:52,324 is ironically enough, 431 00:24:54,117 --> 00:24:57,078 this piece of land is where your old church is on. 432 00:24:58,205 --> 00:25:00,749 - Okay I mean, and why would I care about that? 433 00:25:01,666 --> 00:25:02,542 - Well, I don't know. 434 00:25:02,542 --> 00:25:04,127 I just thought you might be interested. 435 00:25:04,127 --> 00:25:06,004 - Ben, what is going on 436 00:25:06,004 --> 00:25:08,757 in that schemish little mind of yours? 437 00:25:08,757 --> 00:25:11,635 - (Chuckles)All right, I admit it. 438 00:25:12,719 --> 00:25:13,553 So I was just thinking 439 00:25:13,553 --> 00:25:16,473 that maybe since that particular plot of land 440 00:25:16,473 --> 00:25:20,143 is say no longer under government ownership. 441 00:25:20,143 --> 00:25:21,269 - It isn't? 442 00:25:21,269 --> 00:25:23,897 - No, it's actually been under private ownership 443 00:25:23,897 --> 00:25:26,233 for about the last two and a half years or so. 444 00:25:26,233 --> 00:25:27,275 The old owners basically just cashed out 445 00:25:27,275 --> 00:25:29,277 and went and got some land further West 446 00:25:29,277 --> 00:25:30,111 or whatever or whatnot. 447 00:25:30,111 --> 00:25:33,782 But anyway, the point is if in fact, 448 00:25:33,782 --> 00:25:36,993 you wanna show your old little church people whatnot, 449 00:25:36,993 --> 00:25:40,455 once our company acquires the ownership for that land, 450 00:25:40,455 --> 00:25:41,665 you can do whatever you wanna do with it. 451 00:25:41,665 --> 00:25:42,666 - Like what? 452 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:49,965 - I don't know, sell it, burn it to the ground (chuckles). 453 00:25:53,385 --> 00:25:54,302 Catch you later. 454 00:26:01,226 --> 00:26:04,062 (door slams shut) 455 00:26:08,024 --> 00:26:11,111 - So girls, how was your first day? 456 00:26:11,111 --> 00:26:11,945 - Good. - Good. 457 00:26:13,488 --> 00:26:15,615 - Everyone kept staring at us 458 00:26:15,615 --> 00:26:17,951 and commenting about the way we dress. 459 00:26:18,994 --> 00:26:22,872 They kept using this one word, like consi, consi-something. 460 00:26:27,210 --> 00:26:28,211 - Conservative? 461 00:26:28,211 --> 00:26:30,171 - Right, that's it, conservative. 462 00:26:31,131 --> 00:26:33,883 - Caitlyn, your counselor called today. 463 00:26:33,883 --> 00:26:36,011 She said you're suppressing a lot of pain. 464 00:26:37,804 --> 00:26:41,016 - I am, that coffee causes heartburn 465 00:26:45,228 --> 00:26:47,397 for me after five cups. 466 00:26:47,397 --> 00:26:49,858 - No wonder you can't sleep. 467 00:26:49,858 --> 00:26:51,818 You're doped out on caffeine. 468 00:26:55,405 --> 00:26:56,323 Anybody else? 469 00:26:58,283 --> 00:27:00,285 - I met a cute guy today. 470 00:27:02,120 --> 00:27:07,125 Relax, he's got a girlfriend much hotter than me. 471 00:27:07,375 --> 00:27:08,543 - I doubt that. 472 00:27:10,211 --> 00:27:11,921 - That's not saying much. 473 00:27:13,590 --> 00:27:14,549 - Girls? 474 00:27:14,549 --> 00:27:17,218 - I bet you didn't meet a cute guy today. 475 00:27:17,218 --> 00:27:21,014 - Well, I will admit you got me there, 476 00:27:21,014 --> 00:27:22,891 but I did make a new friend. 477 00:27:22,891 --> 00:27:24,934 - Oh yeah. - Who? 478 00:27:26,186 --> 00:27:27,562 - Her name's Ashley. 479 00:27:27,562 --> 00:27:30,440 She is one of the leaders of the on-campus crusade. 480 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,109 And she wants us to go to church with her on Sunday. 481 00:27:33,109 --> 00:27:35,153 - No. - No? 482 00:27:35,153 --> 00:27:36,946 I already told her we would. 483 00:27:36,946 --> 00:27:39,157 I thought that would be a no brainer. 484 00:27:39,157 --> 00:27:41,993 - Mom, I know how you feel about what happened, 485 00:27:41,993 --> 00:27:44,663 but you don't want us to go to church anymore? 486 00:28:06,017 --> 00:28:08,061 - Maybe you can have her over for dinner. 487 00:28:12,023 --> 00:28:13,525 - I'm sure that would be fine. 488 00:28:28,123 --> 00:28:30,959 (mid tempo music) 489 00:28:53,606 --> 00:28:56,443 - No, you just said that, right? 490 00:28:56,443 --> 00:29:00,196 You know, wait, you know when you're leaving? 491 00:29:28,516 --> 00:29:31,144 - Oh, did you do that all by yourself? 492 00:29:31,144 --> 00:29:34,063 - Oh, it's only 2000 pieces. 493 00:29:34,063 --> 00:29:36,983 You start from the corners and work your way in. 494 00:29:36,983 --> 00:29:38,067 It's no big deal. 495 00:29:38,985 --> 00:29:42,447 - I see, and how are things at home? 496 00:29:44,824 --> 00:29:48,119 - We're getting along despite everything that's happened. 497 00:29:48,119 --> 00:29:50,663 - Are you adjusting well to school? 498 00:29:50,663 --> 00:29:52,290 - Well, it's school. 499 00:29:52,290 --> 00:29:54,209 I have to make the most of everything. 500 00:29:55,668 --> 00:29:56,920 I'm the oldest 501 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,672 so my little sisters look to me for leadership. 502 00:29:59,672 --> 00:30:02,926 If I'm okay, they can find it in themselves to be okay. 503 00:30:02,926 --> 00:30:05,762 (mid tempo music) 504 00:30:09,724 --> 00:30:12,018 - Are you finding school challenging? 505 00:30:12,018 --> 00:30:14,687 - My life sucks, okay? 506 00:30:14,687 --> 00:30:17,065 I'm the poster child for the doped up, 507 00:30:17,065 --> 00:30:20,652 can't function, problem teen of the new generation. 508 00:30:20,652 --> 00:30:22,779 Now, can you just pack me full of Prozac, 509 00:30:22,779 --> 00:30:24,989 or lithium, or tranquilizers, 510 00:30:24,989 --> 00:30:27,700 or canned arsenic for that matter, 511 00:30:27,700 --> 00:30:30,495 or whatever it is you guys prescribe 512 00:30:30,495 --> 00:30:32,956 and send me on my merry way. 513 00:30:32,956 --> 00:30:34,707 I'm missing gym class. 514 00:30:43,132 --> 00:30:44,717 - She said what? 515 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,346 (gentle music) 516 00:31:02,944 --> 00:31:04,362 - Hey, you're crazy. 517 00:31:04,362 --> 00:31:06,322 - I'd rather be crazy than be with you. 518 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:19,460 (locker door slams shut) 519 00:31:20,837 --> 00:31:22,922 - Okay last night, your dogs kept me up 520 00:31:22,922 --> 00:31:25,717 for half an hour because he was scratching in the inside 521 00:31:25,717 --> 00:31:27,468 of the gate. - Oh my God, what? 522 00:31:27,468 --> 00:31:28,803 - And so, I was a little upset 523 00:31:28,803 --> 00:31:29,762 so I yelled, "Stop!" 524 00:31:29,762 --> 00:31:32,557 (laughing altogether) 525 00:31:32,557 --> 00:31:33,558 - Oh my God. 526 00:31:35,310 --> 00:31:37,562 - He listened to me and I was like, "Fabulous." 527 00:31:37,562 --> 00:31:40,356 ♪ Yet those three reasons to keep you smiling ♪ 528 00:31:40,356 --> 00:31:42,150 ♪ Hold on tight ♪ 529 00:31:42,150 --> 00:31:45,028 ♪ It might be a while ♪ 530 00:31:45,028 --> 00:31:50,033 ♪ The seasons change from purple hues ♪ 531 00:31:50,116 --> 00:31:54,829 ♪ But won't you start from you ♪ 532 00:31:54,829 --> 00:31:57,332 ♪ Also hold my hand ♪ 533 00:31:57,332 --> 00:31:59,751 ♪ Let your tears begin ♪ 534 00:31:59,751 --> 00:32:02,337 ♪ Just don't hold it in ♪ 535 00:32:02,337 --> 00:32:04,839 ♪ You can hope again ♪ 536 00:32:04,839 --> 00:32:07,216 ♪ You can hold my hand ♪ 537 00:32:07,216 --> 00:32:09,886 ♪ Let your tears begin ♪ 538 00:32:09,886 --> 00:32:12,388 ♪ Just don't hold it in ♪ 539 00:32:12,388 --> 00:32:15,558 ♪ You can hope again ♪ 540 00:32:15,558 --> 00:32:18,144 (bell ringing) 541 00:32:24,943 --> 00:32:26,653 - Hey. - Hey. 542 00:32:26,653 --> 00:32:29,572 - So about church this Sunday. 543 00:32:29,572 --> 00:32:30,698 - You can't come? 544 00:32:30,698 --> 00:32:32,742 - Well, let's just say my mom wants 545 00:32:32,742 --> 00:32:34,786 to get to know you first, 546 00:32:35,912 --> 00:32:37,538 kind of know what she's getting herself into. 547 00:32:37,538 --> 00:32:39,540 - Oh yeah, of course, that's fine. 548 00:32:39,540 --> 00:32:42,043 - Awesome, could you come to dinner tonight 549 00:32:42,043 --> 00:32:43,252 or maybe tomorrow night? 550 00:32:44,462 --> 00:32:46,422 - Yeah, tonight can be fine. 551 00:32:46,422 --> 00:32:48,049 - Great, I'm hungry. 552 00:32:48,049 --> 00:32:49,759 My mom makes a lot. - Okay. 553 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,237 This is really good, thank you. 554 00:33:09,237 --> 00:33:11,406 - Oh yeah, it is isn't it? 555 00:33:14,325 --> 00:33:16,953 - So Ashley, do you go 556 00:33:16,953 --> 00:33:19,122 to church around here somewhere close do you? 557 00:33:19,122 --> 00:33:21,416 - Yeah, my dad is actually the Senior Pastor. 558 00:33:23,501 --> 00:33:26,796 - And your parents aren't divorced I suppose? 559 00:33:26,796 --> 00:33:27,630 - Mom? 560 00:33:27,630 --> 00:33:29,215 - Oh no, they're very much together 561 00:33:29,215 --> 00:33:30,675 and very much in love. 562 00:33:30,675 --> 00:33:32,176 In fact, I think just last week, 563 00:33:32,176 --> 00:33:35,179 my dad got my mom this really nice gift 564 00:33:35,179 --> 00:33:38,349 and we were so excited. 565 00:33:38,349 --> 00:33:40,893 My dad, oh. 566 00:33:43,104 --> 00:33:45,940 - That's very nice. 567 00:33:54,699 --> 00:33:57,160 Well Ashley, we want our daughters 568 00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:01,372 to be in an environment that's safe, very safe. 569 00:34:08,588 --> 00:34:12,592 - Well yeah, our church is definitely in a safe section 570 00:34:12,592 --> 00:34:14,677 of town for sure. 571 00:34:14,677 --> 00:34:18,806 - She means friendly environment and non-judgemental. 572 00:34:23,269 --> 00:34:28,274 - Oh, oh yeah, our church is definitely all about that. 573 00:34:28,274 --> 00:34:30,902 The culture of our church is definitely one of grace. 574 00:34:31,819 --> 00:34:34,238 - Because that's what our last church said. 575 00:34:35,698 --> 00:34:36,741 - [Ashley] It's okay. 576 00:34:40,161 --> 00:34:43,206 - Mom wouldn't keep us from going to church would she? 577 00:34:45,166 --> 00:34:46,626 - Where are you going? 578 00:34:46,626 --> 00:34:48,294 - To get a second helping. 579 00:34:49,420 --> 00:34:52,632 - Grab me one more too while you're out there please. 580 00:34:52,632 --> 00:34:54,842 - You're gonna get fat. 581 00:34:54,842 --> 00:34:58,096 - Nope, I have another 10 years to eat like a pig 582 00:34:58,096 --> 00:35:00,890 before my metabolism catches up with me, 583 00:35:02,975 --> 00:35:04,852 according to my science teacher. 584 00:35:12,777 --> 00:35:15,363 (upbeat music) 585 00:35:17,406 --> 00:35:19,951 ♪ If I'm not a lovely princess ♪ 586 00:35:19,951 --> 00:35:22,036 ♪ All dressed up for the ball ♪ 587 00:35:22,036 --> 00:35:24,163 ♪ Would you still look at me ♪ 588 00:35:24,163 --> 00:35:27,583 ♪ Like I'm the fairest of them all ♪ 589 00:35:27,583 --> 00:35:29,794 ♪ I've gotta wonder gotta know ♪ 590 00:35:29,794 --> 00:35:31,295 ♪ Should I hold side ♪ 591 00:35:31,295 --> 00:35:36,300 ♪ Or just let go ♪ 592 00:35:36,551 --> 00:35:39,846 ♪ 'Cause I'm Cinderella at the ball ♪ 593 00:35:39,846 --> 00:35:42,390 ♪ Just look at me so beautiful ♪ 594 00:35:42,390 --> 00:35:47,395 ♪ But I am wanting so much more from you ♪ 595 00:35:47,478 --> 00:35:49,814 ♪ Want you to take me by the hand ♪ 596 00:35:49,814 --> 00:35:52,316 ♪ And when I turn into myself again ♪ 597 00:35:52,316 --> 00:35:53,901 ♪ I want you to love me ♪ 598 00:35:53,901 --> 00:35:57,155 ♪ Just the way I am ♪ 599 00:35:57,155 --> 00:36:01,200 ♪ Oh will I still have your love ♪ 600 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:02,869 ♪ As you're the one ♪ 601 00:36:02,869 --> 00:36:06,164 ♪ Will I still have your love ♪ 602 00:36:06,164 --> 00:36:11,169 ♪ As you're the one ♪ 603 00:36:12,211 --> 00:36:14,463 ♪ At the end of the night ♪ 604 00:36:14,463 --> 00:36:16,966 ♪ Once we've danced the time away ♪ 605 00:36:16,966 --> 00:36:19,218 ♪ And I am myself again ♪ 606 00:36:19,218 --> 00:36:22,555 ♪ Will you still look at me the same ♪ 607 00:36:22,555 --> 00:36:25,057 ♪ Ive gotta wonder gotta know ♪ 608 00:36:25,057 --> 00:36:30,062 ♪ Should I stay or just go home ♪ 609 00:36:30,229 --> 00:36:32,440 ♪ Oh I've gotta know ♪ 610 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,817 ♪ I'm Cinderella at the ball ♪ 611 00:36:34,817 --> 00:36:37,403 ♪ Just look at me so beautiful ♪ 612 00:36:37,403 --> 00:36:42,325 ♪ But I am wanting so much more from you ♪ 613 00:36:42,325 --> 00:36:44,744 ♪ Want you to take me by the hand ♪ 614 00:36:44,744 --> 00:36:47,288 ♪ And when I turn into myself again ♪ 615 00:36:47,288 --> 00:36:48,706 ♪ I want you to love me ♪ 616 00:36:48,706 --> 00:36:52,126 ♪ Just the way I am ♪ 617 00:36:52,126 --> 00:36:56,130 ♪ Oh will I still have your love ♪ 618 00:36:56,130 --> 00:36:57,882 ♪ As you're the one ♪ 619 00:36:57,882 --> 00:37:01,219 ♪ Will I still have your love ♪ 620 00:37:01,219 --> 00:37:04,222 ♪ As you're the one ♪ 621 00:37:08,017 --> 00:37:09,727 - [Student] Oh, here comes Bradley! 622 00:37:09,727 --> 00:37:11,812 - Hey there! (car door slams shut) 623 00:37:11,812 --> 00:37:13,648 - [Student] What's up? 624 00:37:14,815 --> 00:37:15,733 - Hey guys. 625 00:37:17,735 --> 00:37:19,987 ♪ I've gotta wonder gotta know ♪ 626 00:37:19,987 --> 00:37:24,158 ♪ Is this real or all for show oh ♪ 627 00:37:25,785 --> 00:37:27,453 - Dude, that girl is staring you down. 628 00:37:27,453 --> 00:37:28,371 - Yeah man. 629 00:37:30,039 --> 00:37:32,583 ♪ Just look at me so beautiful ♪ 630 00:37:32,583 --> 00:37:37,421 ♪ But I am wanting so much more from you ♪ 631 00:37:37,421 --> 00:37:39,757 ♪ Want you to take me by the hand ♪ 632 00:37:39,757 --> 00:37:42,260 ♪ And when I turn into myself again ♪ 633 00:37:42,260 --> 00:37:47,098 ♪ I want you to love me just the way I am ♪ 634 00:37:47,098 --> 00:37:52,103 ♪ Oh will I still have your love ♪ 635 00:37:52,895 --> 00:37:57,900 ♪ Will I still have your love ♪ 636 00:37:57,900 --> 00:38:01,279 ♪ Will I still have your love ♪ 637 00:38:01,279 --> 00:38:04,282 (students chatting) 638 00:38:10,746 --> 00:38:15,751 ♪ Ooh ooh yeah ooh ♪ 639 00:38:20,339 --> 00:38:22,925 ♪ Ooh yeah ooh ♪ 640 00:38:30,558 --> 00:38:35,563 ♪ Ooh yeah ooh ♪ 641 00:38:39,900 --> 00:38:42,486 ♪ Ooh yeah ooh ♪ 642 00:39:19,315 --> 00:39:21,025 ♪ I'm Cinderella at the ball ♪ 643 00:39:21,025 --> 00:39:24,195 ♪ Just look at me so beautiful ♪ 644 00:39:24,195 --> 00:39:26,781 ♪ But I want so much more ♪ 645 00:39:26,781 --> 00:39:27,948 - Sidney? 646 00:39:27,948 --> 00:39:28,866 - Yeah, that's him, that's Sidney. 647 00:39:28,866 --> 00:39:30,242 - I was almost in the cold. 648 00:39:35,956 --> 00:39:37,583 - My name was almost (indistinct). 649 00:39:41,253 --> 00:39:42,963 - This is Chadwin's plant, Edward 650 00:39:44,757 --> 00:39:46,759 He's very handsome. 651 00:39:46,759 --> 00:39:48,969 - I used to water him so much. 652 00:39:48,969 --> 00:39:49,845 I don't know why. 653 00:39:55,434 --> 00:39:57,728 - All right, all right everybody. 654 00:39:57,728 --> 00:39:59,688 Thank you guys all for coming. 655 00:39:59,688 --> 00:40:00,940 For those of you who don't know me, 656 00:40:00,940 --> 00:40:02,066 I am Terrence. 657 00:40:02,066 --> 00:40:02,983 I see some new faces. 658 00:40:02,983 --> 00:40:04,693 It's very nice to have you guys. 659 00:40:04,693 --> 00:40:07,488 And this is my lovely fiance, Andrea. 660 00:40:07,488 --> 00:40:10,366 Together, we run the Young Life Program 661 00:40:10,366 --> 00:40:11,492 on Thursday evenings, 662 00:40:11,492 --> 00:40:15,246 or lead or figurehead this little assembly, 663 00:40:15,246 --> 00:40:16,163 if you will. 664 00:40:17,039 --> 00:40:20,960 So we would like to go around and introduce each other. 665 00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:22,420 And I know that you guys that have been here 666 00:40:22,420 --> 00:40:24,755 for a while have done this a million times, 667 00:40:24,755 --> 00:40:27,299 but we'd like to make a level playing field 668 00:40:27,299 --> 00:40:29,427 for all of our newcomers. 669 00:40:29,427 --> 00:40:32,930 So if you want, state your name, 670 00:40:32,930 --> 00:40:36,183 your year in school and how many years you've been coming 671 00:40:36,183 --> 00:40:37,768 to Living Waters. 672 00:40:37,768 --> 00:40:40,479 And of course a fun fact, 673 00:40:40,479 --> 00:40:42,690 something interesting that you would like other people 674 00:40:42,690 --> 00:40:44,942 in the group to know about you. 675 00:40:44,942 --> 00:40:46,819 So I'll start as always. 676 00:40:46,819 --> 00:40:49,989 And then Andrea will go and we'll go around this way. 677 00:40:51,407 --> 00:40:53,951 So again, my name is Terrence. 678 00:40:53,951 --> 00:40:57,037 I am a fourth year at NHU. 679 00:40:57,037 --> 00:41:00,499 I've been coming to Living Waters for 12 years, 680 00:41:00,499 --> 00:41:01,417 leading for three. 681 00:41:02,334 --> 00:41:05,588 And a fun fact about myself is that my dad is that Pastor 682 00:41:05,588 --> 00:41:07,423 that you guys all see on TV. 683 00:41:09,592 --> 00:41:11,927 - Hi, I'm Andrea like Terrence said. 684 00:41:11,927 --> 00:41:14,138 I am a junior at NHU. 685 00:41:14,138 --> 00:41:15,681 I've been coming here for five years now. 686 00:41:15,681 --> 00:41:18,726 And my interesting thing is that I've been in every country 687 00:41:18,726 --> 00:41:20,352 in Europe following the Newsboys. 688 00:41:21,896 --> 00:41:23,647 - Must be nice. 689 00:41:24,648 --> 00:41:25,483 - Kayla! 690 00:41:27,526 --> 00:41:29,403 - Yeah, it was really an experience. 691 00:41:35,367 --> 00:41:37,495 - I'm Braiden, I'm a senior 692 00:41:37,495 --> 00:41:41,081 and this is me and my girlfriend's first time too. 693 00:41:41,081 --> 00:41:42,833 Interesting fact about me 694 00:41:42,833 --> 00:41:44,335 is that I actually won the MVP 695 00:41:44,335 --> 00:41:46,754 of our high school's football team two years in a row. 696 00:41:46,754 --> 00:41:48,380 And here's to three. 697 00:41:50,257 --> 00:41:51,967 - Oh, that's where I know you from, 698 00:41:51,967 --> 00:41:53,010 you scored that winning touchdown 699 00:41:53,010 --> 00:41:55,596 against was it Willow Creek last year? 700 00:41:55,596 --> 00:41:57,723 - Yeah, I did it again against Mountain View. 701 00:41:57,723 --> 00:41:59,058 - Oh yeah, I saw that too. 702 00:41:59,058 --> 00:42:01,185 Heck yeah man, welcome. - Yeah. 703 00:42:06,607 --> 00:42:09,318 - So I'm Cami, it's my first night here. 704 00:42:09,318 --> 00:42:11,070 I'm a senior at school. 705 00:42:11,070 --> 00:42:12,279 Interesting thing about me 706 00:42:12,279 --> 00:42:14,490 is that I got to interview Reese Witherspoon 707 00:42:14,490 --> 00:42:16,158 for an article in our magazine. 708 00:42:16,158 --> 00:42:17,952 She was so awesome. 709 00:42:17,952 --> 00:42:19,370 - [Student] Wow. 710 00:42:21,789 --> 00:42:23,791 - Hi, I'm Ashley. 711 00:42:23,791 --> 00:42:28,420 I am a senior here at Heath High and I've been going here 712 00:42:28,420 --> 00:42:30,339 for about four years now. 713 00:42:33,092 --> 00:42:35,678 I'd say the most interesting thing about me 714 00:42:35,678 --> 00:42:39,139 is that I've read the Bible four times all the way through. 715 00:42:39,139 --> 00:42:41,809 - Wow, that's interesting. 716 00:42:41,809 --> 00:42:44,228 - Well then, what's your favorite book then? 717 00:42:44,228 --> 00:42:47,523 - Oh golly, I don't really have a favorite book. 718 00:42:47,523 --> 00:42:50,025 It's more like I like the New Testament better 719 00:42:50,025 --> 00:42:51,068 than the Old Testament. 720 00:42:51,068 --> 00:42:53,612 - The New Testament, what about the Old Testament? 721 00:42:53,612 --> 00:42:56,657 The battles like the Israelites led by, 722 00:42:56,657 --> 00:42:59,451 let's see Moses and Joshua and King David? 723 00:43:00,578 --> 00:43:01,453 - I'm sure your favorite 724 00:43:01,453 --> 00:43:03,747 is the Israelites getting exiled to Babylon 725 00:43:03,747 --> 00:43:06,333 and that evil King Zedekiah getting his eyes gouged out 726 00:43:06,333 --> 00:43:08,419 and his sons killed right in front of him. 727 00:43:09,378 --> 00:43:13,674 - Yeah, no. (laughing altogether) 728 00:43:13,674 --> 00:43:16,635 - Okay, hi, I'm Megan. 729 00:43:16,635 --> 00:43:18,846 I'm here tonight with my two sisters 730 00:43:18,846 --> 00:43:21,807 and I'll let them introduce themselves. 731 00:43:21,807 --> 00:43:25,477 I am new to Heath High going into my senior year 732 00:43:25,477 --> 00:43:27,271 and this is our first night here. 733 00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,692 I guess my interesting thing about me/accomplishment 734 00:43:31,692 --> 00:43:35,404 is I won state title for individual track last year. 735 00:43:35,404 --> 00:43:39,658 - Wow. - Wow. 736 00:43:42,995 --> 00:43:46,498 - Hi, I'm Caitlyn, and like she said, 737 00:43:46,498 --> 00:43:50,711 first time here and interesting thing about me 738 00:43:50,711 --> 00:43:54,173 is I'm awesome at everything I do. 739 00:43:54,173 --> 00:43:55,633 (laughing altogether) 740 00:43:55,633 --> 00:43:57,843 No, I'm just kidding. 741 00:43:57,843 --> 00:43:59,595 I'm a singer/songwriter. 742 00:44:01,388 --> 00:44:06,352 - [Student] Oh, that's cool. - Wow. 743 00:44:12,399 --> 00:44:17,112 - I'm Kayla, first time and nothing interesting about me. 744 00:44:18,030 --> 00:44:20,574 - Oh come on, I'm sure there's something. 745 00:44:20,574 --> 00:44:25,579 - No, no famous dad or any dad really for that matter. 746 00:44:25,996 --> 00:44:28,415 No track star crap, no music, 747 00:44:34,421 --> 00:44:39,051 no trophies, no state title, no football 748 00:44:39,051 --> 00:44:41,929 no "Legally blonde" actresses, no Europe. 749 00:44:51,814 --> 00:44:53,148 - Well, I'm sure you've accomplished more 750 00:44:53,148 --> 00:44:54,441 than you think you have. 751 00:44:55,442 --> 00:44:57,486 - She just hasn't found her niche yet. 752 00:44:58,320 --> 00:44:59,863 - Well, just remember 753 00:44:59,863 --> 00:45:02,408 that you're a child of God first and foremost. 754 00:45:02,408 --> 00:45:05,119 Hold fast to that and build from there. 755 00:45:05,119 --> 00:45:06,787 - Now you sound like my mom. 756 00:45:07,663 --> 00:45:10,624 - Okay, so before we turn this into a pity party 757 00:45:10,624 --> 00:45:12,835 for whining losers, let's move on. 758 00:45:18,090 --> 00:45:19,466 - Well, thanks for coming tonight guys. 759 00:45:19,466 --> 00:45:20,926 And thanks for sharing. 760 00:45:20,926 --> 00:45:22,219 Kayla is not alone. 761 00:45:22,219 --> 00:45:24,555 We understand many of you guys are going through hard times 762 00:45:24,555 --> 00:45:26,098 that you don't wanna talk about tonight. 763 00:45:26,098 --> 00:45:28,225 And we completely understand. 764 00:45:28,225 --> 00:45:31,145 We just hope the message tonight blesses you. 765 00:45:31,145 --> 00:45:32,730 By the way Ashley, 766 00:45:32,730 --> 00:45:35,399 I think we can all agree that the Old Testament 767 00:45:35,399 --> 00:45:37,568 is not as good as the New Testament. 768 00:45:39,069 --> 00:45:44,074 Speaking of which, that brings us to the topic of the night. 769 00:45:45,409 --> 00:45:50,414 So this semester, we will be focusing on, drum roll please. 770 00:45:56,545 --> 00:45:58,839 Now, I'm going to use an old term here 771 00:45:58,839 --> 00:46:02,176 and it's something that's very important to us. 772 00:46:02,176 --> 00:46:03,677 And it's something that we're all called to be 773 00:46:03,677 --> 00:46:06,263 as individuals and as a church. 774 00:46:07,139 --> 00:46:09,308 And this is a little cliche, 775 00:46:09,308 --> 00:46:12,352 a little misplaced, overused ministers. 776 00:46:14,146 --> 00:46:15,981 We're called to minister or to effect, 777 00:46:15,981 --> 00:46:18,525 but a word I think better describes it 778 00:46:18,525 --> 00:46:20,778 is to impact. 779 00:46:22,070 --> 00:46:25,616 We're all called to impact those around us. 780 00:46:26,617 --> 00:46:28,577 And it's not just our friends and the ones 781 00:46:28,577 --> 00:46:30,871 that are closest to us. 782 00:46:30,871 --> 00:46:32,706 We're called to impact even those 783 00:46:32,706 --> 00:46:34,333 that are farthest from God. 784 00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:39,880 So the question that we wanna ask tonight 785 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,883 is how often have we been doing that? 786 00:46:46,678 --> 00:46:48,180 I know I'm not perfect. 787 00:46:48,180 --> 00:46:51,475 There's plenty of people that I run into in my everyday life 788 00:46:51,475 --> 00:46:54,102 that I am frankly too busy for. 789 00:46:55,312 --> 00:46:58,732 And other times I say that I'm too busy 790 00:46:58,732 --> 00:47:01,443 even though there's a million other things I could be doing 791 00:47:01,443 --> 00:47:02,277 at the moment. 792 00:47:04,530 --> 00:47:07,157 So with that, let's open Ephesians 4, 793 00:47:08,325 --> 00:47:12,204 and there's a verse that I want you to go over. 794 00:47:12,204 --> 00:47:15,207 I think it speak a little bit of truth into this. 795 00:47:15,207 --> 00:47:18,001 Start with verse 29 alrighty. 796 00:47:22,089 --> 00:47:25,843 "No foul language should come out of your mouths, 797 00:47:25,843 --> 00:47:29,429 "but only such as is good for needed edification 798 00:47:29,429 --> 00:47:32,224 "that it may impart grace to those who hear. 799 00:47:34,017 --> 00:47:37,187 "And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God 800 00:47:37,187 --> 00:47:40,899 "with which you were sealed for the day of redemption. 801 00:47:43,026 --> 00:47:47,406 "All bitterness, fury, anger, shouting, 802 00:47:48,407 --> 00:47:52,870 "inner viling must be removed from you along with all 803 00:47:52,870 --> 00:47:53,787 "of their malice. 804 00:47:54,955 --> 00:47:59,585 "And be kind to one another, compassionate, 805 00:47:59,585 --> 00:48:04,172 "forgiving one another as God has forgiven you in Christ." 806 00:48:06,758 --> 00:48:09,094 - I think these are all verses that we kind of know 807 00:48:09,094 --> 00:48:10,971 in our heads, but it's not really something 808 00:48:10,971 --> 00:48:13,640 that we practice on a day-to-day basis, 809 00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:16,560 hasn't really penetrated our hearts. 810 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,354 In our modern Western Christian culture, 811 00:48:19,354 --> 00:48:21,773 we're so focused on the importance of our lives 812 00:48:21,773 --> 00:48:23,984 and our schedules that we're not focusing 813 00:48:23,984 --> 00:48:25,319 on what's really important, 814 00:48:28,822 --> 00:48:32,284 even if we ourselves don't think we're important or matter. 815 00:48:34,453 --> 00:48:38,540 ♪ There is a purpose in the pain ♪ 816 00:49:03,899 --> 00:49:07,319 - Hey, I just wanted to give some words of encouragement. 817 00:49:07,319 --> 00:49:08,570 Megan told me you guys 818 00:49:08,570 --> 00:49:11,448 were kind of going through a hard time right now. 819 00:49:11,448 --> 00:49:14,159 - Yeah, she talks too much. 820 00:49:14,159 --> 00:49:15,786 - Yeah, some of us do. 821 00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:18,664 I just wanted to know if you wanted 822 00:49:18,664 --> 00:49:20,749 to maybe get some coffee sometime? 823 00:49:20,749 --> 00:49:23,710 I'd love to hear your story and see what we can do to help. 824 00:49:24,586 --> 00:49:28,215 - I appreciate the gesture Miss, Europe, 825 00:49:28,215 --> 00:49:31,635 but I really don't think that's the best idea. 826 00:49:44,189 --> 00:49:46,233 How's Saturday morning sound? 827 00:49:46,233 --> 00:49:48,318 - Sounds good, I'll write down my number. 828 00:49:51,655 --> 00:49:56,660 ♪ He's already saved your grace ♪ 829 00:49:57,911 --> 00:50:01,581 ♪ And there's a plan here somewhere ♪ 830 00:50:01,581 --> 00:50:04,042 ♪ Though I might not see it ♪ 831 00:50:04,042 --> 00:50:08,088 ♪ And it's going somewhere ♪ 832 00:50:08,088 --> 00:50:10,465 ♪ And I believe it ♪ 833 00:50:10,465 --> 00:50:15,470 ♪ And I want my life to be molded by Your hands ♪ 834 00:50:17,472 --> 00:50:21,560 ♪ Though I might not understand ♪ 835 00:50:24,604 --> 00:50:26,398 - Hey, thank you so much for inviting me over 836 00:50:26,398 --> 00:50:27,315 to dinner the other night. 837 00:50:27,315 --> 00:50:28,150 It was so fun. 838 00:50:28,150 --> 00:50:30,152 - Yeah, thanks for inviting me to this. 839 00:50:30,152 --> 00:50:31,486 - I'm so glad you all came. 840 00:50:31,486 --> 00:50:33,238 - Yeah, thanks for inviting us. 841 00:50:34,281 --> 00:50:39,286 Also, would you keep Kayla in your prayers? 842 00:50:39,411 --> 00:50:41,538 Our family's been going through divorce 843 00:50:41,538 --> 00:50:43,957 and she hasn't been taking it very well. 844 00:50:43,957 --> 00:50:45,959 - Oh no, yeah, absolutely. 845 00:50:48,003 --> 00:50:49,629 And about the other night, I'm so sorry. 846 00:50:49,629 --> 00:50:52,632 I did not know you guys were going through that. 847 00:50:52,632 --> 00:50:53,884 - No, it's okay. 848 00:50:53,884 --> 00:50:56,053 I'm the one that should have said something. 849 00:50:57,220 --> 00:50:58,764 - We should get together sometime. 850 00:50:58,764 --> 00:50:59,765 - Yeah, we should. 851 00:50:59,765 --> 00:51:00,932 We should go to a coffee shop. 852 00:51:00,932 --> 00:51:02,476 - I love coffee. 853 00:51:04,311 --> 00:51:07,314 (crickets chirping) 854 00:51:10,942 --> 00:51:12,277 - Hey! - Oh, hey. 855 00:51:14,988 --> 00:51:17,699 - I'm old enough to know when it's time to skedaddle. 856 00:51:17,699 --> 00:51:19,451 - Where do you think you're going? 857 00:51:19,451 --> 00:51:21,953 - You two have to talk. 858 00:51:21,953 --> 00:51:23,830 - You're not escaping that easily. 859 00:51:23,830 --> 00:51:27,334 - Come on, you know it's new guy, new girl, they meet. 860 00:51:28,460 --> 00:51:31,379 - Quit your babbling and get over here. 861 00:51:31,379 --> 00:51:32,839 - Oh, okay. 862 00:51:34,007 --> 00:51:35,884 - So cool message tonight, huh? 863 00:51:35,884 --> 00:51:37,010 - Yeah, for sure. 864 00:51:37,010 --> 00:51:38,011 You can never hear too much 865 00:51:38,011 --> 00:51:40,472 about loving others, huh Caitlyn? 866 00:51:40,472 --> 00:51:42,891 - Yeah, love is dope. 867 00:51:44,726 --> 00:51:46,520 - Well, I just wanted to let you know 868 00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:47,729 that some of us are going to see that new movie 869 00:51:47,729 --> 00:51:49,272 at the theater downtown on Saturday 870 00:51:49,272 --> 00:51:53,693 and you're welcome to join us if you want. 871 00:51:53,693 --> 00:51:55,862 - Yeah, that's so nice of you. 872 00:51:55,862 --> 00:51:58,698 I'll check my schedule and let you know tomorrow. 873 00:52:00,367 --> 00:52:03,120 - Hi, you social butterfly. 874 00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:04,371 - She knows what I do. 875 00:52:04,371 --> 00:52:06,123 - Yeah, you again. 876 00:52:06,123 --> 00:52:09,709 - Yes. - I invited her 877 00:52:09,709 --> 00:52:12,129 to come to the movies with our group on Saturday. 878 00:52:12,129 --> 00:52:14,047 - Our group, what group? 879 00:52:14,047 --> 00:52:16,466 It was just supposed to be the two of us. 880 00:52:16,466 --> 00:52:18,009 - Well, plans change. 881 00:52:19,052 --> 00:52:23,849 - Oh, I mean, she's a very busy girl. 882 00:52:23,849 --> 00:52:26,351 She probably doesn't have time for us on Saturday. 883 00:52:27,269 --> 00:52:30,689 - You know what, that reminds me, 884 00:52:30,689 --> 00:52:34,317 I actually have a birthday gig to go to 885 00:52:34,317 --> 00:52:35,694 with my sister Saturday. 886 00:52:35,694 --> 00:52:37,612 - We do? 887 00:52:37,612 --> 00:52:41,575 Oh right, Owen Sue, of course, my bad. 888 00:52:42,784 --> 00:52:44,661 - So maybe next time. 889 00:52:45,996 --> 00:52:46,872 - Next time. 890 00:52:49,791 --> 00:52:52,210 - Great, see y'all round. 891 00:52:52,210 --> 00:52:53,211 - See you next week. 892 00:52:54,171 --> 00:52:56,548 - What, you'll see are next week? 893 00:52:56,548 --> 00:53:01,011 - Heartbreaker, you're gonna be a heartbreaker. 894 00:53:01,011 --> 00:53:03,054 - Shut up, you're not big enough 895 00:53:03,054 --> 00:53:05,223 to where I still can't kick your butt. 896 00:53:16,943 --> 00:53:20,030 (car engine roaring) 897 00:53:31,458 --> 00:53:34,628 (car doors slam shut) 898 00:53:38,715 --> 00:53:41,718 (car alarm honking) 899 00:53:43,261 --> 00:53:46,264 (door squeaks open) 900 00:53:49,226 --> 00:53:52,395 (door slams shut) 901 00:53:52,395 --> 00:53:54,981 (gentle music) 902 00:54:06,618 --> 00:54:08,370 - [Announcer] Good morning, everyone. 903 00:54:08,370 --> 00:54:10,288 It's another beautiful Sunday morning. 904 00:54:11,831 --> 00:54:12,666 With heavy hearts, 905 00:54:12,666 --> 00:54:15,794 we have an announcement that we need to make. 906 00:54:15,794 --> 00:54:20,799 It's gonna be hard for some of you congregation to swallow. 907 00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,969 It's certainly very difficult for us, 908 00:54:23,969 --> 00:54:26,179 but our church has reached a decision 909 00:54:29,474 --> 00:54:31,893 and we regret to inform everyone. 910 00:54:38,191 --> 00:54:40,110 - Babe, did you see Stacy? 911 00:54:40,110 --> 00:54:41,987 I mean, she was judging me 912 00:54:41,987 --> 00:54:44,072 especially when the offering was going around. 913 00:54:44,072 --> 00:54:46,574 She was watching how much we were putting in there. 914 00:54:46,574 --> 00:54:48,702 Babe, I'm just feeling a lot of judgment right now. 915 00:54:48,702 --> 00:54:51,496 Did you see the way that Stacy looked at you? 916 00:54:51,496 --> 00:54:52,539 - Yeah, I did, but I don't think it was because of him. 917 00:54:54,291 --> 00:54:56,001 - We need to talk to them about it. 918 00:54:56,001 --> 00:54:57,919 - Seriously? - Yeah. 919 00:54:57,919 --> 00:54:59,629 - Why do you have to make everything a joke? 920 00:54:59,629 --> 00:55:00,463 It's not a joke. 921 00:55:00,463 --> 00:55:01,339 It's not funny, I'm serious. 922 00:55:01,339 --> 00:55:04,009 - It's very healing to people. 923 00:55:04,009 --> 00:55:06,511 - Babe, I just feel like everyone's judging us. 924 00:55:06,511 --> 00:55:08,388 I mean, did you see Connie? - Yeah. 925 00:55:08,388 --> 00:55:09,472 - The way that she looked at us. 926 00:55:09,472 --> 00:55:11,808 - She smells funny today, it's weird. 927 00:55:11,808 --> 00:55:13,852 - I think it's her grandmother's perfume. 928 00:55:15,103 --> 00:55:17,897 So we need to not say anything about that. 929 00:55:17,897 --> 00:55:19,524 - Hey. - Hi! 930 00:55:24,321 --> 00:55:27,615 It's just so hard what's going in. 931 00:55:27,615 --> 00:55:29,117 I'm so sorry about all that. 932 00:55:29,117 --> 00:55:30,827 - It is, yeah. 933 00:55:30,827 --> 00:55:33,872 Pastor Smith and his wife have been here for 20 years. 934 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,167 - I know, it's heartbreaking. 935 00:55:37,167 --> 00:55:38,126 - And we're here to support him 936 00:55:38,126 --> 00:55:39,669 and his family any way we can. 937 00:55:42,756 --> 00:55:44,507 - Paul, you're on the board. 938 00:55:44,507 --> 00:55:46,426 I mean, I hate to keep airing dirty laundry, 939 00:55:46,426 --> 00:55:49,095 but did you have anything to do with this? 940 00:55:51,431 --> 00:55:54,392 - It was a business decision that we needed to make 941 00:55:54,392 --> 00:55:57,270 and it's been staring us in the face for a while now. 942 00:55:57,270 --> 00:55:59,189 We tried to come up with alternate solutions, 943 00:55:59,189 --> 00:56:01,107 but let's face it, our membership is dwindling 944 00:56:01,107 --> 00:56:04,277 and we're just not getting the offerings that we used to. 945 00:56:06,321 --> 00:56:08,073 People wanna keep blowing this out of proportion 946 00:56:08,073 --> 00:56:10,909 like it's a direct stab to Pastor Smith and his family. 947 00:56:10,909 --> 00:56:13,286 It's not, it's not personal at all. 948 00:56:13,286 --> 00:56:15,705 - No. - We don't wanna see him go, 949 00:56:17,290 --> 00:56:19,209 but it was a business decision. 950 00:56:19,209 --> 00:56:22,337 And you would have done the same thing at your company. 951 00:56:22,337 --> 00:56:24,422 When the numbers are down as tough as it is, 952 00:56:24,422 --> 00:56:25,298 you do layoffs. 953 00:56:25,298 --> 00:56:27,759 It's how every business in the world works 954 00:56:28,593 --> 00:56:30,762 and we gotta do what's best for the church. 955 00:56:33,932 --> 00:56:34,766 - I understand. 956 00:56:36,559 --> 00:56:39,229 - Well, if you'll excuse me, I'll go pick up the kids. 957 00:56:43,650 --> 00:56:44,484 - Get up. 958 00:56:46,152 --> 00:56:48,947 - So hey Ralph, we got any of that tripping budget left 959 00:56:48,947 --> 00:56:49,781 by any chance? 960 00:56:50,740 --> 00:56:52,325 - No, we're fresh out. 961 00:56:52,325 --> 00:56:54,035 - Well, come on baby, 962 00:56:54,035 --> 00:56:56,913 we're probably the next ones to get kicked out. 963 00:56:57,789 --> 00:56:59,374 - Are you going to group lunch? 964 00:56:59,374 --> 00:57:02,043 - Yeah, yeah. 965 00:57:03,211 --> 00:57:04,879 - Okay, I'll save you a seat. 966 00:57:08,383 --> 00:57:12,011 - This place has become a laughing stock. 967 00:57:12,011 --> 00:57:13,805 - Hey, can I talk to you for a second? 968 00:57:16,307 --> 00:57:18,059 - Why do you always have to be a joker? 969 00:57:18,059 --> 00:57:19,644 - Because it's funny. 970 00:57:19,644 --> 00:57:23,440 - It's not, seriously stop it, shut up. 971 00:57:25,316 --> 00:57:28,653 - I just wanted to ask you about what's going on. 972 00:57:28,653 --> 00:57:30,697 I mean, I talked to you about what happened with my sister, 973 00:57:30,697 --> 00:57:32,907 but now Pastor Smith? 974 00:57:32,907 --> 00:57:34,909 What is happening with our church? 975 00:57:34,909 --> 00:57:39,914 - I know, honestly, I've been really praying 976 00:57:40,039 --> 00:57:42,250 about what's been going on lately. 977 00:57:42,250 --> 00:57:44,711 And especially with your sister, 978 00:57:44,711 --> 00:57:45,837 I don't even fully agree 979 00:57:45,837 --> 00:57:49,174 with the decisions being made about that. 980 00:57:49,174 --> 00:57:52,719 And I just feel like our church panics at the first sign 981 00:57:52,719 --> 00:57:53,511 of a problem, 982 00:57:53,511 --> 00:57:57,348 and I'm just really feeling convicted about it. 983 00:57:59,851 --> 00:58:02,687 (mid tempo music) 984 00:58:17,494 --> 00:58:20,663 - I can't believe they did this to us. 985 00:58:22,790 --> 00:58:25,877 They can't do this to us. 986 00:58:25,877 --> 00:58:29,047 The church wouldn't even exist without you Harold. 987 00:58:29,047 --> 00:58:32,592 - Honey, technically they can, but you have to remember, 988 00:58:32,592 --> 00:58:37,555 they're responsible for the church's financial future. 989 00:58:37,597 --> 00:58:40,975 I mean, if tithes and offerings aren't up to par, 990 00:58:40,975 --> 00:58:43,186 and you have to admit they haven't been for quite a while, 991 00:58:43,186 --> 00:58:45,772 then sacrifices have to be made. 992 00:58:47,106 --> 00:58:47,941 - But why us? 993 00:58:49,317 --> 00:58:51,861 We are the church. 994 00:58:52,904 --> 00:58:54,239 They wouldn't be anywhere near 995 00:58:54,239 --> 00:58:56,074 where they are today without us. 996 00:58:57,492 --> 00:59:00,620 - You have to understand that we get paid generously 997 00:59:00,620 --> 00:59:01,621 for what we do. 998 00:59:03,289 --> 00:59:07,001 Look, you have to stop looking at it 999 00:59:07,001 --> 00:59:10,004 as what they've done to us, 1000 00:59:10,004 --> 00:59:13,716 rather more what God is doing through us 1001 00:59:13,716 --> 00:59:15,927 in this unfortunate situation. 1002 00:59:18,388 --> 00:59:21,391 - Are you gonna fight it Harold? 1003 00:59:21,391 --> 00:59:23,768 Don't you feel it's unjust? 1004 00:59:25,436 --> 00:59:28,856 - I could Amanda, but what would I really be fighting for? 1005 00:59:30,191 --> 00:59:33,069 And what kind of example would we be leading 1006 00:59:33,069 --> 00:59:36,531 especially to those who know us at church and beyond? 1007 00:59:37,824 --> 00:59:41,828 Look honey, we have to pray over this 1008 00:59:42,787 --> 00:59:47,750 and see what God does in the meantime in providing for us, 1009 00:59:48,251 --> 00:59:52,005 in meeting our needs and then what the next step is. 1010 00:59:54,465 --> 00:59:56,551 - You can't fool me Harold. 1011 00:59:58,303 --> 01:00:00,888 You're just as worried as I am. 1012 01:00:02,765 --> 01:00:04,684 - We'll get through it. 1013 01:00:11,816 --> 01:00:15,403 (locker door squeaks open) 1014 01:00:17,447 --> 01:00:18,781 (locker door bangs shut) 1015 01:00:18,781 --> 01:00:21,284 - Look, I need to get something straight with you. 1016 01:00:22,243 --> 01:00:25,163 - Okay. - Braiden's mine, okay? 1017 01:00:25,163 --> 01:00:27,123 I've seen the way you've been flirting with him. 1018 01:00:27,123 --> 01:00:28,750 - Flirting? 1019 01:00:28,750 --> 01:00:29,792 - Last week at Bible study, 1020 01:00:29,792 --> 01:00:32,003 he couldn't keep his eyes off of you all night. 1021 01:00:32,003 --> 01:00:33,838 - And that's my fault? 1022 01:00:33,838 --> 01:00:35,673 - You and your sisters parade yourself around 1023 01:00:35,673 --> 01:00:36,799 like you're something special. 1024 01:00:36,799 --> 01:00:39,135 You show up at a new school with your perfect clothes 1025 01:00:39,135 --> 01:00:41,095 and your crazy hair. 1026 01:00:41,095 --> 01:00:43,598 You don't keep quiet like the others. 1027 01:00:43,598 --> 01:00:46,017 You just show up, guns blazing. 1028 01:00:46,017 --> 01:00:49,646 - Look girl, Braiden, you can have him, okay. 1029 01:00:51,064 --> 01:00:52,523 Let's just say he's not my type. 1030 01:00:52,523 --> 01:00:54,275 - Oh, he's not good enough for you? 1031 01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:58,613 - You're jealous, it's obvious. 1032 01:00:58,613 --> 01:01:01,532 - Oh honey, don't play with the big girls. 1033 01:01:01,532 --> 01:01:05,662 You don't wanna play in the big leagues I promise. 1034 01:01:05,662 --> 01:01:08,581 You we're in way, way over your head. 1035 01:01:08,581 --> 01:01:12,251 - I got to go to class, but yeah, 1036 01:01:12,251 --> 01:01:14,962 try to have more confidence in yourself. 1037 01:01:14,962 --> 01:01:17,924 I mean, Braiden's not stalking me yet. 1038 01:01:17,924 --> 01:01:20,635 He's still talking to you, right? 1039 01:01:26,057 --> 01:01:30,228 (upbeat music) - Okay, you want war, 1040 01:01:30,228 --> 01:01:31,145 I'll give you war. 1041 01:01:32,230 --> 01:01:33,398 Two can play that game. 1042 01:01:37,026 --> 01:01:39,946 (mid tempo music) 1043 01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:51,332 - So you and your family are new to the area? 1044 01:01:54,669 --> 01:01:56,796 - What's left of us, yeah. 1045 01:01:56,796 --> 01:01:58,589 - Yeah, Ashley told me you guys 1046 01:01:58,589 --> 01:02:00,049 were going through a divorce. 1047 01:02:01,050 --> 01:02:02,301 - Oh she did huh? 1048 01:02:03,177 --> 01:02:05,638 - I'm sorry, I was just trying to help. 1049 01:02:05,638 --> 01:02:07,765 - Not only did I go through a divorce 1050 01:02:07,765 --> 01:02:08,850 when I was eight years old, 1051 01:02:08,850 --> 01:02:12,395 but the man my mom was married to wasn't even my real dad. 1052 01:02:12,395 --> 01:02:15,148 I was what the church would call an illegitimate child. 1053 01:02:16,691 --> 01:02:19,777 - I'm what you would call not the brightest crown 1054 01:02:19,777 --> 01:02:20,945 in the box. 1055 01:02:20,945 --> 01:02:22,905 I'm sorry, what's that mean? 1056 01:02:22,905 --> 01:02:27,326 - Oh, I was born out of wedlock and for the longest time, 1057 01:02:29,412 --> 01:02:32,081 I really, really struggled with my identity 1058 01:02:32,081 --> 01:02:35,418 as a person and my certainty as a child of God. 1059 01:02:35,418 --> 01:02:38,546 I mean, I wasn't even supposed to exist. 1060 01:02:38,546 --> 01:02:41,090 I was a result of my parents' sin 1061 01:02:42,133 --> 01:02:44,677 and being in the middle of a divorce, 1062 01:02:44,677 --> 01:02:47,555 it's like, how can God honestly love me 1063 01:02:47,555 --> 01:02:49,098 and have a plan for me? 1064 01:02:49,098 --> 01:02:50,391 I believed it for everyone else, 1065 01:02:50,391 --> 01:02:52,769 but I couldn't accept it for myself. 1066 01:02:52,769 --> 01:02:56,647 And I was just so afraid that one day it would be revealed 1067 01:02:56,647 --> 01:03:00,026 to me that I wouldn't inherit the great things from God 1068 01:03:00,026 --> 01:03:03,029 that my pastors and my religious people 1069 01:03:03,029 --> 01:03:04,447 that I knew growing up would. 1070 01:03:07,283 --> 01:03:11,329 It took me a long time to realize that we're all here 1071 01:03:11,329 --> 01:03:12,914 for a reason. 1072 01:03:12,914 --> 01:03:17,126 And God loves to take people from broken circumstances 1073 01:03:17,126 --> 01:03:19,545 and make them into something wonderful, 1074 01:03:19,545 --> 01:03:20,546 that's what He does. 1075 01:03:21,506 --> 01:03:24,509 - When I first came here, no one ever talked to me. 1076 01:03:24,509 --> 01:03:27,220 People would pass right by me and not even say a word. 1077 01:03:28,846 --> 01:03:30,139 Guys that I would talk to, 1078 01:03:31,682 --> 01:03:33,643 They would just say they were too busy. 1079 01:03:34,977 --> 01:03:37,522 Then the next week, they'd be with another girl. 1080 01:03:41,776 --> 01:03:43,069 It upset me to the point 1081 01:03:43,069 --> 01:03:44,654 that I felt like I wasn't good enough 1082 01:03:44,654 --> 01:03:47,990 to be in a relationship with a good Christian man. 1083 01:03:47,990 --> 01:03:50,451 I felt like I didn't fit in with the Christian circle. 1084 01:03:51,452 --> 01:03:53,120 If God loved me so much, 1085 01:03:53,120 --> 01:03:55,706 then why did I mean so little to His other children. 1086 01:04:00,002 --> 01:04:02,547 - I appreciate you all sharing your stories with me. 1087 01:04:04,382 --> 01:04:06,467 - You feel similar because your dad left? 1088 01:04:07,969 --> 01:04:12,098 - Honestly, I'm not really sure how I'm feeling about it. 1089 01:04:12,098 --> 01:04:14,183 - Were you close with your dad? 1090 01:04:14,183 --> 01:04:16,894 - Still am, he says him leaving mom had nothing 1091 01:04:16,894 --> 01:04:18,145 to do with us. 1092 01:04:20,773 --> 01:04:22,024 - You believe him, right? 1093 01:04:24,527 --> 01:04:25,653 - I guess. 1094 01:04:27,488 --> 01:04:29,407 - I guess what we're trying to say 1095 01:04:29,407 --> 01:04:33,160 is that you shouldn't let this experience 1096 01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:37,206 define your relationship with God and how you view God. 1097 01:04:38,708 --> 01:04:41,294 God wants us to fight for our relationship with Him 1098 01:04:41,294 --> 01:04:44,297 and our relationship with our spouses and others. 1099 01:04:47,425 --> 01:04:48,718 - Thanks. 1100 01:04:48,718 --> 01:04:50,970 - Do you mind if we pray for you? 1101 01:04:50,970 --> 01:04:51,804 - Sure. 1102 01:04:58,978 --> 01:05:01,981 - Heavenly Father, I pray for Kayla right now. 1103 01:05:01,981 --> 01:05:03,858 Please give her a peace and a comfort 1104 01:05:03,858 --> 01:05:06,152 that only You can give. 1105 01:05:06,152 --> 01:05:09,238 I pray that we would be good friends to her 1106 01:05:09,238 --> 01:05:11,532 and that we would understand and help her 1107 01:05:11,532 --> 01:05:12,867 and that she would understand 1108 01:05:12,867 --> 01:05:15,578 that we're glorifying You. 1109 01:05:15,578 --> 01:05:20,583 I pray God that You'd please give her family comfort 1110 01:05:21,292 --> 01:05:25,880 and that she'd be able to fit in well with school, 1111 01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:30,885 that You'd help her with school and all her friends. 1112 01:05:31,552 --> 01:05:33,638 I pray that she'd start making more friends 1113 01:05:33,638 --> 01:05:38,434 and that she would grow in You and a relationship with You 1114 01:05:38,434 --> 01:05:39,810 and her family. 1115 01:05:39,810 --> 01:05:42,438 Please give her and her family a peace and a comfort 1116 01:05:42,438 --> 01:05:44,482 that only You can give. 1117 01:05:44,482 --> 01:05:46,442 I pray that we give blessing to her 1118 01:05:46,442 --> 01:05:48,235 and that we'd encourage her 1119 01:05:48,235 --> 01:05:50,404 and that she would be blessed by us 1120 01:05:50,404 --> 01:05:55,409 and want to turn to You Lord for everything. 1121 01:05:55,534 --> 01:05:59,080 I pray that we all would be more dependent on You 1122 01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:03,459 and rely on who Christ is and what He has done for us 1123 01:06:03,459 --> 01:06:04,543 on the cross. 1124 01:06:09,465 --> 01:06:12,051 - And Lord, I just pray that you please just protect 1125 01:06:12,051 --> 01:06:13,469 and guard Kayla's heart 1126 01:06:13,469 --> 01:06:15,471 as she goes through these uncertain times. 1127 01:06:15,471 --> 01:06:17,807 And I pray for Your hand to just be 1128 01:06:17,807 --> 01:06:20,768 on her whole family right now during these times Lord. 1129 01:06:20,768 --> 01:06:22,687 And I pray that You just help her to keep in mind 1130 01:06:22,687 --> 01:06:25,815 that she's a child of God first and foremost Lord. 1131 01:06:25,815 --> 01:06:29,110 And I just pray for Your love to just show in her life Lord. 1132 01:06:29,110 --> 01:06:30,569 And thank You for these amazing times 1133 01:06:30,569 --> 01:06:31,904 that we've got together. 1134 01:06:31,904 --> 01:06:34,365 And all the things I ask in Your holy name, amen. 1135 01:06:34,365 --> 01:06:36,158 - [Ashley] Amen. - Amen, thank you. 1136 01:06:46,752 --> 01:06:49,588 (mid tempo music) 1137 01:07:00,266 --> 01:07:01,517 - Good morning. 1138 01:07:01,517 --> 01:07:03,436 - Hey, how are you doing? 1139 01:07:03,436 --> 01:07:05,062 - Moving right along, I suppose. 1140 01:07:05,062 --> 01:07:06,022 And you? 1141 01:07:06,022 --> 01:07:08,357 - Great, I have the afternoon off work 1142 01:07:08,357 --> 01:07:11,235 so I'm gonna go do a little early Christmas shopping. 1143 01:07:11,235 --> 01:07:13,529 You and the girls still coming over on Friday? 1144 01:07:13,529 --> 01:07:16,699 - Of course, the girls are excited to see you. 1145 01:07:16,699 --> 01:07:18,784 - Hey, I heard you found a new church. 1146 01:07:21,662 --> 01:07:22,955 - They're exploring other options 1147 01:07:22,955 --> 01:07:24,373 with their friends at school. 1148 01:07:25,332 --> 01:07:27,418 They haven't really convinced me to come along yet. 1149 01:07:27,418 --> 01:07:28,335 - Well, why not? 1150 01:07:28,335 --> 01:07:31,589 I figured you'd be excited to start somewhere new? 1151 01:07:31,589 --> 01:07:33,466 - You know that I'm not going to keep my daughters 1152 01:07:33,466 --> 01:07:34,967 from going back to church. 1153 01:07:34,967 --> 01:07:36,343 I just would never do that. 1154 01:07:37,553 --> 01:07:39,680 It's just my job to protect them. 1155 01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:41,599 And naturally, I'm afraid 1156 01:07:41,599 --> 01:07:44,393 that they're going to be greatly disappointed again. 1157 01:07:44,393 --> 01:07:46,395 I just don't want them to turn their backs on God 1158 01:07:46,395 --> 01:07:49,065 because of the wrongs that the church has done toward them. 1159 01:07:50,107 --> 01:07:51,859 I just wish they would have waited. 1160 01:07:53,486 --> 01:07:55,404 - It is all part of the plan Darla. 1161 01:07:55,404 --> 01:07:57,031 I want you to believe that. 1162 01:07:57,031 --> 01:07:59,492 Anyway, I was calling because I wanted to let you know 1163 01:07:59,492 --> 01:08:00,951 about something that happened at church. 1164 01:08:00,951 --> 01:08:02,453 It might make you feel better. 1165 01:08:03,454 --> 01:08:04,747 - I'm all ears. 1166 01:08:04,747 --> 01:08:06,957 I need some good news about right now. 1167 01:08:06,957 --> 01:08:09,335 - Well, I wouldn't say that it's good news. 1168 01:08:09,335 --> 01:08:10,753 Pastor Smith got let go. 1169 01:08:10,753 --> 01:08:12,671 They say due to financial reasons. 1170 01:08:13,714 --> 01:08:15,341 - Really? 1171 01:08:15,341 --> 01:08:18,761 - Yeah, it's made a lot of people upset, 1172 01:08:18,761 --> 01:08:22,181 but we took up a collection for him and his wife 1173 01:08:22,181 --> 01:08:25,434 before a lot of people took off. 1174 01:08:25,434 --> 01:08:26,936 - Took off? 1175 01:08:26,936 --> 01:08:28,187 - Yeah, but no, 1176 01:08:28,187 --> 01:08:30,606 a bunch of people thought this was a huge injustice 1177 01:08:30,606 --> 01:08:32,358 and they left the church. 1178 01:08:32,358 --> 01:08:34,193 Anyway, I just wanted to let you know 1179 01:08:34,193 --> 01:08:37,113 that what happened to you was not right 1180 01:08:37,113 --> 01:08:38,614 and it wasn't your fault. 1181 01:08:38,614 --> 01:08:40,991 It's just, these guys have their ideas 1182 01:08:40,991 --> 01:08:42,368 about how things should be done 1183 01:08:42,368 --> 01:08:44,537 and they don't stray from them. 1184 01:08:44,537 --> 01:08:46,831 - Well, - I appreciate you letting me know. 1185 01:08:47,790 --> 01:08:49,125 - Well, to be honest, 1186 01:08:49,125 --> 01:08:51,418 we're trying to get better as a church, but to be honest, 1187 01:08:51,418 --> 01:08:54,338 I feel like the congregation is in its Twilight stage. 1188 01:08:59,093 --> 01:09:01,470 - You may be more right than you think. 1189 01:09:02,638 --> 01:09:04,723 - Well, don't wish bad things on anyone. 1190 01:09:04,723 --> 01:09:05,933 You're better than that. 1191 01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:13,315 (car door slams shut) 1192 01:09:13,315 --> 01:09:14,400 Listen, I got to go. 1193 01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:16,402 It's time for me to start my shopping. 1194 01:09:18,904 --> 01:09:20,531 I'll see you girls on Friday. 1195 01:09:20,531 --> 01:09:21,615 - You bet. 1196 01:09:21,615 --> 01:09:24,451 - All right, love you. - Love you. 1197 01:09:25,870 --> 01:09:26,704 - All right, bye. 1198 01:09:32,168 --> 01:09:35,671 (mid tempo ukulele music) 1199 01:09:53,314 --> 01:09:54,648 - I miss you guys too. 1200 01:09:58,402 --> 01:10:02,323 (mid tempo ukulele music) 1201 01:10:02,323 --> 01:10:04,491 - Can you please be quiet? 1202 01:10:05,826 --> 01:10:09,079 (upbeat ukulele music) 1203 01:10:24,595 --> 01:10:29,600 (mid tempo ukulele music) (phone message pings) 1204 01:10:40,277 --> 01:10:42,863 (phone message beeps) 1205 01:10:42,863 --> 01:10:45,991 (phone message beeps) 1206 01:10:51,997 --> 01:10:55,167 (phone message beeps) 1207 01:10:58,754 --> 01:11:01,382 - She's just telling me to stop. 1208 01:11:19,733 --> 01:11:23,070 Watch this, I just learned it yesterday. 1209 01:11:25,823 --> 01:11:27,157 Pretty cool huh? 1210 01:11:31,161 --> 01:11:36,166 It's so hard. (phone message beeps) 1211 01:11:42,965 --> 01:11:46,135 (phone message beeps) 1212 01:11:48,846 --> 01:11:52,141 ♪ Woke up at 10 AM ♪ 1213 01:11:52,141 --> 01:11:57,146 ♪ And got pumpkin spice lattes with you ♪ 1214 01:11:59,898 --> 01:12:02,401 ♪ We drove through the falling leaves ♪ 1215 01:12:02,401 --> 01:12:07,406 ♪ Weather's down and we got that autumn breeze ♪ 1216 01:12:11,285 --> 01:12:13,871 ♪ This is like ♪ 1217 01:12:21,295 --> 01:12:24,465 (phone message beeps) 1218 01:12:29,428 --> 01:12:31,930 - Hey, I'm hanging out with some friends for a little bit. 1219 01:12:31,930 --> 01:12:33,390 - On a school night? 1220 01:12:35,184 --> 01:12:36,352 - I won't be out late. 1221 01:12:40,647 --> 01:12:42,566 (door slams shut) 1222 01:12:42,566 --> 01:12:46,070 (mid tempo ukulele music) 1223 01:12:48,197 --> 01:12:51,033 (mid tempo music) 1224 01:13:33,325 --> 01:13:36,745 ♪ Tonight I've thought of how I'd be ♪ 1225 01:13:36,745 --> 01:13:40,124 ♪ If God didn't take you away from me ♪ 1226 01:13:40,124 --> 01:13:44,503 ♪ 'Cause you seem so real in every way ♪ 1227 01:13:44,503 --> 01:13:46,088 - So where do you wanna go? 1228 01:13:46,088 --> 01:13:48,132 - I don't know, wherever you wanna go. 1229 01:13:49,508 --> 01:13:51,552 - I know this cool place. 1230 01:13:51,552 --> 01:13:55,681 - Okay, what kind of place? 1231 01:13:55,681 --> 01:13:58,142 - Just somewhere where we can talk. 1232 01:13:58,142 --> 01:14:01,311 ♪ You would take me way to another place ♪ 1233 01:14:01,311 --> 01:14:03,147 ♪ You put me to sleep ♪ 1234 01:14:03,147 --> 01:14:06,567 ♪ with the melodies of your fairytales ♪ 1235 01:14:06,567 --> 01:14:08,402 ♪ And your make believes ♪ 1236 01:14:08,402 --> 01:14:12,739 ♪ But I was so naive to give you ♪ 1237 01:14:12,739 --> 01:14:17,202 ♪ Give you everything ♪ 1238 01:14:17,202 --> 01:14:22,207 ♪ 'Cause you were just an illusion in disguise ♪ 1239 01:14:24,543 --> 01:14:25,878 - Do you know him? 1240 01:14:25,878 --> 01:14:28,755 - Yeah, it's a smelly old hobo begging again. 1241 01:14:28,755 --> 01:14:29,840 I'll take care of him. 1242 01:14:39,057 --> 01:14:40,267 Hey buddy, you hungry? 1243 01:14:41,852 --> 01:14:43,187 - God bless you. 1244 01:14:55,365 --> 01:14:58,494 - Bon apetit buddy. ♪ So today I'm thankful ♪ 1245 01:14:58,494 --> 01:15:02,998 ♪ For the way that caused my heart to break ♪ 1246 01:15:02,998 --> 01:15:04,333 - God bless you. 1247 01:15:10,380 --> 01:15:14,718 ♪ 'Cause love has changed ♪ 1248 01:15:14,718 --> 01:15:17,429 ♪ Never fades away ♪ 1249 01:15:17,429 --> 01:15:20,849 ♪ The smiles and blue eyes never lasts ♪ 1250 01:15:20,849 --> 01:15:24,394 ♪ The looks and man I'll take 'em fast ♪ 1251 01:15:24,394 --> 01:15:26,104 ♪ But still at times ♪ 1252 01:15:26,104 --> 01:15:29,483 ♪ I think of you in the night ♪ 1253 01:15:29,483 --> 01:15:31,360 ♪ You were never true ♪ 1254 01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:34,613 ♪ But I won't be naive ♪ 1255 01:15:35,781 --> 01:15:36,823 - [Bradley's Friend] Bradley! 1256 01:15:36,823 --> 01:15:38,659 - Hey guys, what's up? 1257 01:15:42,496 --> 01:15:43,580 - This is my girl Kayla. 1258 01:15:43,580 --> 01:15:45,832 - Oh, yes I see you. - Okay. 1259 01:15:48,085 --> 01:15:52,047 ♪ Just another picture of love ♪ 1260 01:15:52,047 --> 01:15:54,508 ♪ Painted with lies ♪ 1261 01:15:54,508 --> 01:15:57,886 ♪ Provoked by a world that lost in the race ♪ 1262 01:15:57,886 --> 01:16:01,390 ♪ That feeds of a fire to get compromised ♪ 1263 01:16:01,390 --> 01:16:06,144 ♪ And far from the beauty of its desire ♪ 1264 01:16:06,144 --> 01:16:11,149 ♪ Just an illusion in disguise ♪ 1265 01:16:12,693 --> 01:16:16,613 ♪ Just another picture of love ♪ 1266 01:16:16,613 --> 01:16:19,032 ♪ Painted with lies ♪ 1267 01:16:19,032 --> 01:16:22,619 ♪ Provoked by a world lost in the race ♪ 1268 01:16:22,619 --> 01:16:24,204 - You feeling okay? 1269 01:16:26,206 --> 01:16:30,877 ♪ And far from the beauty of its desire ♪ 1270 01:16:30,877 --> 01:16:32,546 - What's wrong baby? 1271 01:16:42,764 --> 01:16:43,599 What the? 1272 01:17:01,033 --> 01:17:04,202 (car door slams shut) 1273 01:17:07,581 --> 01:17:11,335 - Hey, we were in the neighborhood 1274 01:17:11,335 --> 01:17:13,837 and thought we would give you a lift. 1275 01:17:15,047 --> 01:17:16,798 - Seriously? 1276 01:17:16,798 --> 01:17:19,551 - We're gonna get some ice cream on the way home. 1277 01:17:23,138 --> 01:17:26,350 We only have one seat left for one passenger. 1278 01:17:27,517 --> 01:17:29,436 - We could probably squeeze. 1279 01:17:29,436 --> 01:17:34,316 Oh yep, only one seat left, sorry. 1280 01:17:38,612 --> 01:17:40,405 - I'll get you for this later. 1281 01:17:46,036 --> 01:17:49,831 (car door slams shut) 1282 01:17:49,831 --> 01:17:51,750 - You'll thank me for this later. 1283 01:17:55,420 --> 01:17:56,254 - I'll text you. 1284 01:18:05,430 --> 01:18:07,432 - You forgot this. 1285 01:18:16,983 --> 01:18:19,069 (locker door slams shut) 1286 01:18:19,069 --> 01:18:21,697 (crickets chirping) 1287 01:18:21,697 --> 01:18:22,948 - One thing that God really put 1288 01:18:22,948 --> 01:18:24,616 on our hearts to talk about tonight 1289 01:18:24,616 --> 01:18:28,370 is division among believers, division in the church. 1290 01:18:28,370 --> 01:18:31,039 And one thing that Paul talks about in the New Testament 1291 01:18:31,039 --> 01:18:32,416 is that we'll be recognized 1292 01:18:32,416 --> 01:18:35,919 or identified might be a more accurate word for our fruit, 1293 01:18:35,919 --> 01:18:37,963 our love for one another. 1294 01:18:37,963 --> 01:18:41,258 - Yeah, even amongst the strongest of Christians, 1295 01:18:41,258 --> 01:18:45,804 sin can creep in and drive a wedge in your relationships. 1296 01:18:45,804 --> 01:18:47,222 Now, one thing God has shown me 1297 01:18:47,222 --> 01:18:52,227 is that our minds are so finite, 1298 01:18:52,811 --> 01:18:54,229 that God is so much bigger, 1299 01:18:55,230 --> 01:18:57,816 so much bigger than the limited circumstances 1300 01:18:57,816 --> 01:19:00,777 that our minds can create on the path in front of us. 1301 01:19:14,499 --> 01:19:16,460 - Hey Andrea, can I ask you something? 1302 01:19:17,377 --> 01:19:18,628 - Yeah, what's up? 1303 01:19:18,628 --> 01:19:20,714 - I have something I need your advice on. 1304 01:19:20,714 --> 01:19:21,548 - Okay. 1305 01:19:22,549 --> 01:19:25,969 (mid tempo music) 1306 01:19:25,969 --> 01:19:26,887 - Are you done? 1307 01:19:26,887 --> 01:19:27,721 - Are you? 1308 01:19:29,181 --> 01:19:31,224 - You are the one that doesn't know what they want. 1309 01:19:31,224 --> 01:19:32,476 - Are you kidding me? 1310 01:19:32,476 --> 01:19:34,352 - If I was kidding, we wouldn't be having this conversation. 1311 01:19:34,352 --> 01:19:35,645 - [Braiden] Oh my God. 1312 01:19:35,645 --> 01:19:37,939 ♪ Life's sweeter than roses ♪ 1313 01:19:37,939 --> 01:19:40,484 ♪ Weapons locked and loaded ♪ 1314 01:19:40,484 --> 01:19:42,778 ♪ Aiming for my heart ♪ 1315 01:19:42,778 --> 01:19:45,071 - Of me being not participating 1316 01:19:45,071 --> 01:19:46,656 when I'm the one who called you over here 1317 01:19:46,656 --> 01:19:48,366 to actually have this conversation. 1318 01:19:48,366 --> 01:19:50,577 I honestly care about this. 1319 01:19:50,577 --> 01:19:51,661 And you're the one that kind of like, 1320 01:19:51,661 --> 01:19:54,456 you're the one that's always doing this, 1321 01:19:54,456 --> 01:19:55,665 always bringing stuff up. 1322 01:19:55,665 --> 01:19:58,335 You aren't bringing anything up. 1323 01:20:00,170 --> 01:20:02,589 ♪ 'Cause you are living in a dream world ♪ 1324 01:20:02,589 --> 01:20:05,050 ♪ You break the heart of every girl ♪ 1325 01:20:05,050 --> 01:20:07,093 ♪ That you meet ♪ 1326 01:20:07,093 --> 01:20:08,512 ♪ Well let me tell you boy ♪ 1327 01:20:08,512 --> 01:20:10,263 ♪ I won't be the next one ♪ 1328 01:20:10,263 --> 01:20:12,808 ♪ You are living in a dream world ♪ 1329 01:20:12,808 --> 01:20:16,186 ♪ If you think I'd ever be your girl ♪ 1330 01:20:16,186 --> 01:20:20,565 ♪ I'd turn away and trade in her ♪ 1331 01:20:20,565 --> 01:20:21,817 ♪ Read my lips boy ♪ 1332 01:20:21,817 --> 01:20:25,070 ♪ You're dismissed boy ♪ 1333 01:20:29,950 --> 01:20:30,784 - Bummer. 1334 01:20:34,120 --> 01:20:36,414 ♪ You gave her your affection ♪ 1335 01:20:36,414 --> 01:20:39,084 ♪ And turned in my direction ♪ 1336 01:20:39,084 --> 01:20:44,089 ♪ And left her there to cry ♪ 1337 01:20:44,214 --> 01:20:46,758 ♪ I don't need your attention ♪ 1338 01:20:46,758 --> 01:20:49,344 ♪ With your no good intention ♪ 1339 01:20:49,344 --> 01:20:53,098 ♪ It's all a waste of time ♪ 1340 01:20:53,098 --> 01:20:55,684 ♪ Stop selling your lies ♪ 1341 01:20:55,684 --> 01:20:58,728 ♪ This girl's not gonna bite ♪ 1342 01:20:58,728 --> 01:21:01,273 ♪ 'Cause you are living in a dream world ♪ 1343 01:21:01,273 --> 01:21:03,775 ♪ You break the heart of every girl ♪ 1344 01:21:03,775 --> 01:21:05,777 ♪ That you meet ♪ 1345 01:21:05,777 --> 01:21:07,487 ♪ Well let me tell you boy ♪ 1346 01:21:07,487 --> 01:21:08,989 ♪ I won't be the next one ♪ 1347 01:21:08,989 --> 01:21:11,449 ♪ You are living in a dream world ♪ 1348 01:21:11,449 --> 01:21:14,953 ♪ If you think I'd ever be your girl ♪ 1349 01:21:14,953 --> 01:21:19,291 ♪ I'd turn away and trade in her ♪ 1350 01:21:19,291 --> 01:21:20,542 ♪ Read my lips boy ♪ 1351 01:21:20,542 --> 01:21:23,753 ♪ You're dismissed boy ♪ 1352 01:21:23,753 --> 01:21:27,591 (phone message beeping) 1353 01:21:27,591 --> 01:21:30,176 ♪ I'm not looking for revenge ♪ 1354 01:21:30,176 --> 01:21:32,554 ♪ I don't wanna get even ♪ 1355 01:21:32,554 --> 01:21:37,559 ♪ Just wanna get away from lying boys like you ♪ 1356 01:21:47,193 --> 01:21:52,198 ♪ Oh you are living in a dream world ♪ 1357 01:21:52,282 --> 01:21:54,701 ♪ You break the heart of every girl ♪ 1358 01:21:54,701 --> 01:21:56,912 ♪ That you meet ♪ 1359 01:21:56,912 --> 01:21:58,246 ♪ Well let me tell you boy ♪ 1360 01:21:58,246 --> 01:21:59,998 ♪ I won't be the next one ♪ 1361 01:21:59,998 --> 01:22:02,584 ♪ You are living in a dream world ♪ 1362 01:22:02,584 --> 01:22:04,920 - Hey you, just wanted to let you know 1363 01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:06,796 that me and Cami are no more. 1364 01:22:06,796 --> 01:22:08,757 - Oh, goody. 1365 01:22:08,757 --> 01:22:11,259 - Yeah, she just wasn't for me. 1366 01:22:11,259 --> 01:22:14,054 - And let me guess, I am? 1367 01:22:14,054 --> 01:22:18,224 - Well, I mean maybe- - Save it. 1368 01:22:18,224 --> 01:22:20,185 I'm gonna save you from the embarrassment 1369 01:22:20,185 --> 01:22:22,062 of making a fool of yourself. 1370 01:22:22,062 --> 01:22:24,731 I'm not even remotely interested in you at all. 1371 01:22:37,452 --> 01:22:39,329 - But you don't even know me. 1372 01:22:39,329 --> 01:22:42,165 - Well, I would say in a way I know you quite well, 1373 01:22:42,165 --> 01:22:44,960 certainly better than Cami ever did, excuse me. 1374 01:22:49,297 --> 01:22:50,173 - Busted (laughs). 1375 01:22:52,467 --> 01:22:55,387 (melancholy music) 1376 01:23:16,408 --> 01:23:18,994 (Cami sobbing) 1377 01:23:28,253 --> 01:23:31,840 - Oh, wonderful, if you're here to gloat don't, okay. 1378 01:23:31,840 --> 01:23:34,009 Today's not the day to mess with me. 1379 01:23:34,009 --> 01:23:37,095 - No, I just wanted to come and say I'm sorry 1380 01:23:37,971 --> 01:23:40,598 and that you deserve much better. 1381 01:23:40,598 --> 01:23:41,891 - Don't mess with me. 1382 01:23:41,891 --> 01:23:46,062 - No seriously, think about all the ways you've been acting, 1383 01:23:46,062 --> 01:23:50,859 trying to hold onto someone that isn't the best for you. 1384 01:23:51,693 --> 01:23:54,779 And I think you knew it deep down inside, 1385 01:23:54,779 --> 01:23:57,032 that's why you were holding on so tight 1386 01:23:57,032 --> 01:23:59,784 and it almost made you a whole different person. 1387 01:23:59,784 --> 01:24:02,954 - You don't know anything about me or who I am as a person. 1388 01:24:02,954 --> 01:24:05,498 - I know what a head over heels girl in love 1389 01:24:05,498 --> 01:24:07,042 with the wrong man looks like. 1390 01:24:08,376 --> 01:24:10,879 My sisters are going through it now 1391 01:24:10,879 --> 01:24:13,048 and I'm gonna be patient with them. 1392 01:24:14,007 --> 01:24:16,926 There was a time when I was so obsessed 1393 01:24:16,926 --> 01:24:18,887 with someone I wanted to be with. 1394 01:24:18,887 --> 01:24:21,264 I was so infatuated with him 1395 01:24:21,264 --> 01:24:24,100 that I couldn't see myself not being with him, 1396 01:24:24,100 --> 01:24:26,478 but God had other plans 1397 01:24:26,478 --> 01:24:29,022 and He showed me how miserable my life would have been 1398 01:24:29,022 --> 01:24:31,149 with someone who seemed to look good 1399 01:24:31,149 --> 01:24:33,026 and seemed to be the best for me. 1400 01:24:33,026 --> 01:24:35,445 But in reality, I just didn't have a clear 1401 01:24:35,445 --> 01:24:37,280 and raw picture of my life, 1402 01:24:37,280 --> 01:24:39,449 Just like they talked about at Bible study. 1403 01:24:40,784 --> 01:24:42,535 - I almost don't even care anymore. 1404 01:24:44,788 --> 01:24:47,957 What's an amazing Godly man gonna wanna do with me now, 1405 01:24:47,957 --> 01:24:49,417 my sins and flaws and all? 1406 01:24:51,044 --> 01:24:54,339 - Yeah, I used to think that way too. 1407 01:24:54,339 --> 01:24:57,217 I was so obsessed with what I thought was realistic, 1408 01:24:57,217 --> 01:24:59,427 I left no room for faith. 1409 01:24:59,427 --> 01:25:03,098 I realized if you're genuinely pursuing God, 1410 01:25:03,098 --> 01:25:04,057 then at that point, 1411 01:25:04,057 --> 01:25:06,392 you really have no excuse to not trust Him. 1412 01:25:07,811 --> 01:25:11,523 - What if God wants me to be single for the rest of my life? 1413 01:25:11,523 --> 01:25:14,526 - I may not be mature enough to bring my 2 cents, 1414 01:25:14,526 --> 01:25:17,445 but we live in a world where we blame everything on God, 1415 01:25:17,445 --> 01:25:20,448 our failures, the devil's schemes. 1416 01:25:20,448 --> 01:25:22,951 If you were to be single for the rest of your life, 1417 01:25:22,951 --> 01:25:25,245 it's not because God didn't bring you anybody. 1418 01:25:26,079 --> 01:25:27,038 In the Bible, it says, 1419 01:25:27,038 --> 01:25:29,415 "Delight yourself in the Lord and He'll give you the desires 1420 01:25:29,415 --> 01:25:30,667 "of your heart." 1421 01:25:30,667 --> 01:25:32,669 So if it's your desire to get married, 1422 01:25:32,669 --> 01:25:34,587 ask God and pursue it. 1423 01:25:34,587 --> 01:25:35,797 That's just my thoughts. 1424 01:25:37,048 --> 01:25:41,219 - You're right, that makes perfect sense, thank you. 1425 01:25:41,219 --> 01:25:44,139 I guess I was just so obsessed with him 1426 01:25:44,139 --> 01:25:46,182 that I lost who I was along the way. 1427 01:25:47,183 --> 01:25:48,560 It's not me. 1428 01:25:48,560 --> 01:25:51,062 Listen, I'm so sorry about the way I've acted in the past. 1429 01:25:51,062 --> 01:25:53,148 It's not who I am. (mid tempo music) 1430 01:25:53,148 --> 01:25:53,982 I was just obsessed with him 1431 01:25:53,982 --> 01:25:56,067 that I kind of lost myself along the way. 1432 01:25:56,067 --> 01:25:58,862 I've been a completely different person. 1433 01:25:58,862 --> 01:26:02,073 - Friends? - Friends. 1434 01:26:17,755 --> 01:26:20,758 - So how has the new school been? 1435 01:26:20,758 --> 01:26:23,052 - It's awesome, I get free coffee, 1436 01:26:23,052 --> 01:26:26,681 get to skip class and get to talk about my life all day. 1437 01:26:26,681 --> 01:26:28,308 It's pretty great. 1438 01:26:28,308 --> 01:26:29,893 - Wow. 1439 01:26:29,893 --> 01:26:32,562 - That's coming to a close very soon. 1440 01:26:32,562 --> 01:26:33,563 - For real? 1441 01:26:35,315 --> 01:26:36,149 Fine. 1442 01:26:37,233 --> 01:26:39,194 - Oh, the drama. 1443 01:26:39,194 --> 01:26:41,571 - It's definitely been a wild semester so far. 1444 01:26:42,906 --> 01:26:46,701 - Well, I definitely wanna hear all about it. 1445 01:26:46,701 --> 01:26:47,535 Are you girls done? 1446 01:26:47,535 --> 01:26:48,870 You look like you're done. 1447 01:26:48,870 --> 01:26:50,788 - Yeah, I am. - Me too. 1448 01:26:50,788 --> 01:26:53,208 - I mean, I could always go for more (chuckles). 1449 01:26:54,250 --> 01:26:55,627 - Pig. 1450 01:26:55,627 --> 01:26:56,961 - Go ahead and enjoy some more. 1451 01:26:56,961 --> 01:26:58,379 Clean up when you're done. 1452 01:26:58,379 --> 01:26:59,839 Your aunt and I need to talk. 1453 01:27:01,216 --> 01:27:02,467 - Ooh, that sounds serious. 1454 01:27:02,467 --> 01:27:03,301 Wait a second, 1455 01:27:03,301 --> 01:27:06,221 does that mean that they're gonna clean up in my kitchen? 1456 01:27:07,263 --> 01:27:09,349 This is great. 1457 01:27:09,349 --> 01:27:12,393 You girls growing up is definitely to my benefit. 1458 01:27:12,393 --> 01:27:13,228 Does this mean 1459 01:27:13,228 --> 01:27:15,063 I don't get them Christmas presents this year? 1460 01:27:15,063 --> 01:27:16,231 - No, what? - What? 1461 01:27:16,231 --> 01:27:17,398 - No, no. - No. 1462 01:27:20,777 --> 01:27:23,279 - No, no, no, no, no, no. 1463 01:27:23,279 --> 01:27:24,948 - No, I'm kidding. 1464 01:27:24,948 --> 01:27:26,574 I already bought you presents. 1465 01:27:26,574 --> 01:27:27,408 Are you kidding me. 1466 01:27:27,408 --> 01:27:29,661 You gotta wait for them. 1467 01:27:29,661 --> 01:27:31,829 Okay, this is big tonight. 1468 01:27:51,849 --> 01:27:53,935 - So do you always have to decorate 1469 01:27:53,935 --> 01:27:55,687 for Christmas before Thanksgiving? 1470 01:27:55,687 --> 01:27:57,897 - Yes, I do always have to decorate 1471 01:27:57,897 --> 01:28:00,316 for Christmas before Thanksgiving. 1472 01:28:02,944 --> 01:28:03,778 - Put your foot down. 1473 01:28:03,778 --> 01:28:05,154 - Why are you all up in my business? 1474 01:28:05,154 --> 01:28:06,948 - Because I'm always up in your business. 1475 01:28:06,948 --> 01:28:10,034 - Oh, well, you know I'm about to get up 1476 01:28:10,034 --> 01:28:12,036 in your business too. 1477 01:28:12,036 --> 01:28:14,330 Are you gonna go to church with the girls on Sunday? 1478 01:28:14,330 --> 01:28:16,207 - I'm just still trying 1479 01:28:16,207 --> 01:28:18,042 to debate whether I should go or not. 1480 01:28:18,960 --> 01:28:20,044 - So why? 1481 01:28:21,713 --> 01:28:23,089 - Well, I'm glad they're going, 1482 01:28:23,089 --> 01:28:26,259 but I just feel like it's too late for me. 1483 01:28:27,802 --> 01:28:29,429 They don't need a divorced woman 1484 01:28:29,429 --> 01:28:32,056 at the church justified or unjustified. 1485 01:28:34,851 --> 01:28:39,439 - I talked to Ralph and Yvette at small group on Wednesday 1486 01:28:39,439 --> 01:28:43,026 and I feel like they're both the starting to understand 1487 01:28:43,026 --> 01:28:44,777 and see what's happening to us. 1488 01:28:44,777 --> 01:28:46,654 I even pulled Yvette aside and I'm like, 1489 01:28:46,654 --> 01:28:47,780 "What have we become?" 1490 01:28:47,780 --> 01:28:49,574 It just seems like ever since that incident 1491 01:28:49,574 --> 01:28:50,950 with a youth pastor, 1492 01:28:50,950 --> 01:28:54,078 we've been making more and more rash decisions 1493 01:28:54,078 --> 01:28:54,912 in the church 1494 01:28:54,912 --> 01:28:58,082 and it is causing a lot of division. 1495 01:28:58,082 --> 01:29:00,126 And I just say all that to say, I mean, 1496 01:29:00,126 --> 01:29:03,296 God is your ultimate authority, not the church leadership, 1497 01:29:03,296 --> 01:29:05,089 not your boss at work. 1498 01:29:05,089 --> 01:29:07,800 And if you know that you're right with God, 1499 01:29:07,800 --> 01:29:10,470 it gives you the ability to forgive people 1500 01:29:10,470 --> 01:29:13,264 who are just being dumb humans. 1501 01:29:14,223 --> 01:29:17,435 Can only see things from their own perspective, 1502 01:29:17,435 --> 01:29:20,313 and they're not 100% right about anything. 1503 01:29:22,231 --> 01:29:25,151 Even when I told you about what happened with Pastor Smith, 1504 01:29:28,321 --> 01:29:29,864 whatever it is that our church is dealing with, 1505 01:29:29,864 --> 01:29:33,159 whether it's weakened leadership or people are overreacting 1506 01:29:33,159 --> 01:29:35,119 because of past experiences. 1507 01:29:35,119 --> 01:29:38,664 And it doesn't change God's love or affection for you, 1508 01:29:38,664 --> 01:29:41,709 but I feel like deep down, maybe you feel like it does. 1509 01:29:41,709 --> 01:29:43,961 - But, what about what they said? 1510 01:29:43,961 --> 01:29:44,921 Like I'm not fighting 1511 01:29:44,921 --> 01:29:46,839 for my marriage like it's all my fault? 1512 01:29:48,091 --> 01:29:53,096 - Well, I mean, I grew up with you and I think we both know 1513 01:29:53,638 --> 01:29:57,183 that you are perfectly capable of fighting 1514 01:29:57,183 --> 01:29:59,102 and I don't even remember one instance 1515 01:29:59,102 --> 01:30:00,228 when you were wrong. 1516 01:30:01,354 --> 01:30:05,274 - Okay, yeah, yeah. (laughing altogether) 1517 01:30:07,568 --> 01:30:09,028 - And has anything ever been your fault? 1518 01:30:09,028 --> 01:30:11,406 No, nothing has ever been your fault. 1519 01:30:13,366 --> 01:30:16,744 Oh come on, I mean, you know what I felt about Bill? 1520 01:30:16,744 --> 01:30:18,246 I mean, I know you were sick of his lies. 1521 01:30:18,246 --> 01:30:19,747 I was sick of his lies. 1522 01:30:20,623 --> 01:30:24,210 I mean, it's not fair what he did to you, church did to you. 1523 01:30:24,210 --> 01:30:26,003 I mean, it's not fair that you have 1524 01:30:26,003 --> 01:30:28,589 to go through a divorce without your church family, 1525 01:30:28,589 --> 01:30:31,551 or start over again in a new town, 1526 01:30:31,551 --> 01:30:34,804 a new job, the new school for the girls, 1527 01:30:37,598 --> 01:30:40,017 just all of it, single parenting. 1528 01:30:40,017 --> 01:30:42,812 But it does remind me of what mom always used to say. 1529 01:30:42,812 --> 01:30:47,150 She said, "Pray for a spirit of unselfishness 1530 01:30:48,109 --> 01:30:50,611 "even if you don't feel like you've been selfish." 1531 01:30:58,494 --> 01:31:00,329 What? 1532 01:31:00,329 --> 01:31:02,832 - Well, you know about my new company, 1533 01:31:02,832 --> 01:31:05,960 how we buy, sell land, property venues? 1534 01:31:05,960 --> 01:31:07,044 - Right. 1535 01:31:07,044 --> 01:31:10,047 - Well, somehow our company started to do business 1536 01:31:10,047 --> 01:31:11,757 with the owner of the plot of land 1537 01:31:11,757 --> 01:31:15,052 that owns some businesses, including the church. 1538 01:31:16,179 --> 01:31:19,640 So I requested for that building to be torn down 1539 01:31:20,975 --> 01:31:24,395 and the document just came in this week 1540 01:31:24,395 --> 01:31:26,731 and all it needs is my signature. 1541 01:31:26,731 --> 01:31:29,317 (dramatic music) 1542 01:31:29,317 --> 01:31:32,069 - Okay well, please tell me that you did not sign that. 1543 01:31:57,637 --> 01:32:02,642 - No, instead I signed a check for a donation 1544 01:32:03,100 --> 01:32:05,186 to Pastor Smith (mid tempo music) 1545 01:32:05,186 --> 01:32:06,771 and I set that document aside, 1546 01:32:06,771 --> 01:32:08,564 maybe to think about it for later. 1547 01:32:08,564 --> 01:32:11,984 - Okay well, please just tell me you're gonna tear it up 1548 01:32:11,984 --> 01:32:13,277 and throw it away. 1549 01:32:14,612 --> 01:32:18,032 - Yes I am. - Okay, good. 1550 01:32:20,243 --> 01:32:23,079 I mean, you just have to pray for a way to move past this. 1551 01:32:23,079 --> 01:32:24,956 I mean, the girls need you. 1552 01:32:24,956 --> 01:32:28,042 I can tell Kayla, she has some abandonment issues. 1553 01:32:28,042 --> 01:32:29,544 I know she's getting some help from the church, 1554 01:32:29,544 --> 01:32:31,837 but still, it's still affecting them. 1555 01:32:31,837 --> 01:32:36,467 It's affecting all of them and you and me, mostly me. 1556 01:32:36,467 --> 01:32:38,719 - Yes. - And that's what matters. 1557 01:32:38,719 --> 01:32:41,389 (laughing altogether) 1558 01:32:41,389 --> 01:32:42,932 Oh yeah, that in itself is just a thing. 1559 01:32:42,932 --> 01:32:46,269 Whatever, I always forget about that. 1560 01:32:46,269 --> 01:32:48,104 I love you sis. - I love you too. 1561 01:32:49,480 --> 01:32:51,440 Thank you. - Oh, thank you. 1562 01:33:01,784 --> 01:33:05,037 (upbeat ukulele music) 1563 01:33:15,089 --> 01:33:17,008 - Are you still talking to him? 1564 01:33:19,468 --> 01:33:20,970 - What makes you think you have the right 1565 01:33:20,970 --> 01:33:23,389 to constantly be in my business? 1566 01:33:23,389 --> 01:33:26,726 - I've been your best friend all your life. 1567 01:33:26,726 --> 01:33:30,187 I've always been up in your business and you in mine. 1568 01:33:30,187 --> 01:33:32,356 What's so different about now? 1569 01:33:32,356 --> 01:33:34,317 - I just wanna make my own decisions 1570 01:33:34,317 --> 01:33:37,445 and stop being treated like I'm some dumb little girl 1571 01:33:37,445 --> 01:33:39,322 that doesn't know what's best for her. 1572 01:33:43,701 --> 01:33:46,704 - You know just as well as I do, 1573 01:33:46,704 --> 01:33:50,750 people our age don't make good decisions without guidance. 1574 01:33:50,750 --> 01:33:52,335 Let's face it, 1575 01:33:52,335 --> 01:33:55,254 neither of us have been the same since dad left. 1576 01:33:56,255 --> 01:33:59,759 Shoot, the only one that's been normal is Caitlyn. 1577 01:34:02,970 --> 01:34:04,680 - Caitlyn doesn't count. 1578 01:34:05,556 --> 01:34:09,852 I mean, look at her, everything's a joke to her. 1579 01:34:09,852 --> 01:34:13,189 Just like the counselor says, she's suppressing it. 1580 01:34:14,357 --> 01:34:18,986 - Maybe she just chooses joy over dwelling and sadness. 1581 01:34:18,986 --> 01:34:21,697 (mid tempo ukulele music) 1582 01:34:21,697 --> 01:34:25,409 You can make the choice to let your experiences define you. 1583 01:34:25,409 --> 01:34:28,496 You can choose to believe that all your new friends 1584 01:34:28,496 --> 01:34:31,624 from church are gonna one day leave you 1585 01:34:31,624 --> 01:34:35,544 or you can trust that God will bring people into your life, 1586 01:34:35,544 --> 01:34:38,714 some permanent and some for a season 1587 01:34:38,714 --> 01:34:41,050 and it's your job not to run them off. 1588 01:34:42,968 --> 01:34:45,846 - You can't trust anyone to stay. 1589 01:34:45,846 --> 01:34:46,681 - Yes, you can. 1590 01:34:52,770 --> 01:34:56,524 Kayla, just just know that God is there 1591 01:34:56,524 --> 01:34:58,609 even when others cannot be. 1592 01:34:58,609 --> 01:35:01,862 Just concentrate on you there for others. 1593 01:35:01,862 --> 01:35:04,824 Think about it, are you perfect? 1594 01:35:04,824 --> 01:35:06,659 Do you care for Cami at school? 1595 01:35:06,659 --> 01:35:07,952 - What? 1596 01:35:07,952 --> 01:35:09,578 No way. 1597 01:35:09,578 --> 01:35:11,622 - She's a friend of mine now. 1598 01:35:13,082 --> 01:35:14,458 Very much so. 1599 01:35:15,501 --> 01:35:17,712 I'll explain later. 1600 01:35:17,712 --> 01:35:18,629 - What happened? 1601 01:35:21,465 --> 01:35:26,011 - Braiden broke up with her and I took the chance to... 1602 01:35:28,848 --> 01:35:31,726 - What? - Show her compassion. 1603 01:35:31,726 --> 01:35:34,228 That's all I felt for her was compassion. 1604 01:35:35,062 --> 01:35:38,065 I prayed that God would help me see her through His eyes. 1605 01:35:41,569 --> 01:35:42,361 - Was it hard? 1606 01:35:43,446 --> 01:35:45,364 - It was until I prayed that prayer. 1607 01:35:53,038 --> 01:35:56,292 (upbeat ukulele music) 1608 01:36:03,716 --> 01:36:06,552 (mid tempo music) 1609 01:36:12,683 --> 01:36:16,604 - Dear God, why am I doing this to myself? 1610 01:36:17,563 --> 01:36:22,568 You've always been so faithful to me, but out of my anger, 1611 01:36:22,735 --> 01:36:24,487 I've turned my back on You. 1612 01:36:26,530 --> 01:36:29,366 I'm sorry, please forgive me 1613 01:36:29,366 --> 01:36:31,327 for all the wrong decisions I have made 1614 01:36:32,411 --> 01:36:33,788 that has led me to sin. 1615 01:36:35,289 --> 01:36:37,875 Heal my heart and help me to trust You 1616 01:36:38,959 --> 01:36:40,711 and get me back on the path that leads 1617 01:36:40,711 --> 01:36:44,548 to life, righteousness and joy 1618 01:36:45,758 --> 01:36:48,052 that I know only truly comes from You. 1619 01:36:49,595 --> 01:36:51,305 Help me to love my family 1620 01:36:54,558 --> 01:36:57,102 and thank You for my sisters and my mom. 1621 01:36:58,521 --> 01:37:01,482 And just help me to love and appreciate them. 1622 01:37:03,442 --> 01:37:06,153 I know I haven't been the easiest person to be around, 1623 01:37:07,154 --> 01:37:09,824 but help me to change that. 1624 01:37:11,909 --> 01:37:13,035 Heal me Lord. 1625 01:37:23,671 --> 01:37:27,591 I'm sorry I've been so rude and impossible to deal with. 1626 01:37:29,552 --> 01:37:31,095 - We knew you'd come around. 1627 01:37:32,388 --> 01:37:34,431 - It's been hard on all of us. 1628 01:37:34,431 --> 01:37:35,474 We love you. 1629 01:37:35,474 --> 01:37:37,393 And you know God will see us through. 1630 01:37:40,187 --> 01:37:44,275 ♪ It's grace alone that's delivering me ♪ 1631 01:37:44,275 --> 01:37:45,651 ♪ Don't let me forget ♪ 1632 01:37:45,651 --> 01:37:47,027 ♪ What I went through ♪ 1633 01:37:47,027 --> 01:37:48,153 ♪ What I've been through ♪ 1634 01:37:48,153 --> 01:37:50,281 ♪ Forget what I've come to ♪ 1635 01:37:50,281 --> 01:37:55,077 ♪ Before I knew you I was lost and lonely ♪ 1636 01:37:55,077 --> 01:37:58,289 ♪ But hope has found me ♪ 1637 01:37:58,289 --> 01:38:03,294 ♪ So give me the heart ♪ 1638 01:38:06,839 --> 01:38:10,384 ♪ And revive in me a memory ♪ 1639 01:38:10,384 --> 01:38:14,805 ♪ Of who I used to be ♪ 1640 01:38:14,805 --> 01:38:19,810 ♪ So you know you're not alone ♪ 1641 01:38:22,062 --> 01:38:24,523 ♪ To let me forget what I went through ♪ 1642 01:38:24,523 --> 01:38:25,733 ♪ What I've been through ♪ 1643 01:38:25,733 --> 01:38:28,193 ♪ Forget what I've come to ♪ 1644 01:38:28,193 --> 01:38:29,069 ♪ Before I knew You ♪ 1645 01:38:29,069 --> 01:38:31,322 ♪ Forget what I went through ♪ 1646 01:38:31,322 --> 01:38:32,573 ♪ What I've been through ♪ 1647 01:38:32,573 --> 01:38:34,575 ♪ Forget I've come to ♪ 1648 01:38:34,575 --> 01:38:36,076 - Whose flowers are these? 1649 01:38:36,076 --> 01:38:38,621 Girls, who got these flowers? 1650 01:38:39,830 --> 01:38:40,706 - I did, mom. 1651 01:38:43,792 --> 01:38:44,919 - Why? 1652 01:38:44,919 --> 01:38:48,088 They're beautiful, my favorite, pink roses. 1653 01:38:48,088 --> 01:38:49,632 But why did you get them? 1654 01:38:49,632 --> 01:38:52,259 - Because you've always been there for me. 1655 01:38:52,259 --> 01:38:53,969 You're the strongest person I know. 1656 01:38:56,138 --> 01:38:58,182 - You are an awesome daughter. 1657 01:39:00,684 --> 01:39:01,644 Thank you Megan. 1658 01:39:03,312 --> 01:39:04,563 I love you. 1659 01:39:04,563 --> 01:39:05,689 - I love you too. 1660 01:39:05,689 --> 01:39:07,816 - And you've always been there for me too. 1661 01:39:09,818 --> 01:39:12,988 ♪ Don't let me forget ♪ 1662 01:39:24,458 --> 01:39:28,253 - Kayla, didn't think we'd forget you 1663 01:39:28,253 --> 01:39:30,255 on your special day did you Miss. Kayla? 1664 01:39:32,424 --> 01:39:33,258 - We're taking you out to dinner. 1665 01:39:33,258 --> 01:39:34,385 You can't say no. 1666 01:39:34,385 --> 01:39:36,261 - Oh, I know just the place. 1667 01:39:38,639 --> 01:39:40,599 - Happy birthday. - Thank you, wow. 1668 01:39:41,934 --> 01:39:44,019 - Oh, look at that? 1669 01:39:44,019 --> 01:39:45,896 That is so sweet. 1670 01:39:45,896 --> 01:39:47,523 Do you think they'd mind if I took a video? 1671 01:39:47,523 --> 01:39:49,233 Just the creepy aunt in the background? 1672 01:39:49,233 --> 01:39:52,277 - Not at all. - Of the sweet moment. 1673 01:39:52,277 --> 01:39:54,405 - [Darla] It's so good to see Kayla happy. 1674 01:39:54,405 --> 01:39:58,242 - Oh, it's precious, love it. 1675 01:40:00,494 --> 01:40:03,414 - Well, I have the check 1676 01:40:03,414 --> 01:40:05,916 to give to you to give to Pastor Smith at your church. 1677 01:40:05,916 --> 01:40:07,209 - Well, you know what? 1678 01:40:07,209 --> 01:40:09,837 I am having dinner with him and his wife tonight. 1679 01:40:09,837 --> 01:40:13,090 Do you wanna join us? - Okay, we'll be there. 1680 01:40:13,090 --> 01:40:14,133 - Awesome. 1681 01:40:14,133 --> 01:40:16,719 (gentle music) 1682 01:40:24,268 --> 01:40:26,311 - Well, we regret not having a chance 1683 01:40:26,311 --> 01:40:29,023 to really get to know you better while we were there, 1684 01:40:29,023 --> 01:40:32,860 but just this whole experience, it's taken us by storm. 1685 01:40:33,736 --> 01:40:34,570 - It sure has. 1686 01:40:34,570 --> 01:40:37,448 - But, I accepted a new position down, 1687 01:40:37,448 --> 01:40:41,326 what, a couple of hours South of here to a new church 1688 01:40:41,326 --> 01:40:43,787 so all is well with us. 1689 01:40:43,787 --> 01:40:48,751 Just wish God would have chose a less dramatic way 1690 01:40:49,168 --> 01:40:50,502 of moving us on (chuckles). 1691 01:40:52,171 --> 01:40:53,297 - We all do. 1692 01:40:55,382 --> 01:40:59,344 - But we have learned so much through this whole experience. 1693 01:40:59,344 --> 01:41:01,055 I mean, we sure have. 1694 01:41:01,055 --> 01:41:02,806 - Oh, so have we. 1695 01:41:05,100 --> 01:41:07,811 - Really, tell us about it? 1696 01:41:07,811 --> 01:41:09,104 - I've been through a lot. 1697 01:41:09,980 --> 01:41:12,941 When my husband left me, it crushed me. 1698 01:41:12,941 --> 01:41:14,651 I mean, really crushed me. 1699 01:41:15,569 --> 01:41:18,238 And the hardest part was that the church didn't help. 1700 01:41:19,239 --> 01:41:21,033 I just needed someone to be there for me 1701 01:41:21,033 --> 01:41:22,117 and to encourage me. 1702 01:41:24,369 --> 01:41:26,622 I just needed to be strong for my kids. 1703 01:41:28,665 --> 01:41:30,209 Wanna know how I did it? 1704 01:41:30,209 --> 01:41:31,043 - Absolutely. 1705 01:41:31,043 --> 01:41:32,795 - Oh, we really wanna hear it, yes. 1706 01:41:35,047 --> 01:41:37,591 - With the help of someone very close to me 1707 01:41:37,591 --> 01:41:39,676 who helped me push past my pain. 1708 01:41:40,803 --> 01:41:42,304 (gentle music) 1709 01:41:42,304 --> 01:41:44,598 I started to just abide in the Lord. 1710 01:41:44,598 --> 01:41:47,309 I started to press into the Lord and spend time alone 1711 01:41:47,309 --> 01:41:49,186 with Him and reading His word. 1712 01:41:49,186 --> 01:41:52,981 The Lord minister to me personally in my quiet time 1713 01:41:52,981 --> 01:41:56,360 and let me realize He was still in control 1714 01:41:56,360 --> 01:41:58,612 even in the midst of my loneliness. 1715 01:41:59,655 --> 01:42:01,448 And you know what I found out? 1716 01:42:01,448 --> 01:42:03,367 God did not forsake me. 1717 01:42:05,369 --> 01:42:08,497 When the church shunned me, that wasn't God, 1718 01:42:08,497 --> 01:42:12,000 that was just fallen people blinded by their own opinions. 1719 01:42:13,168 --> 01:42:17,714 But God, He accepted me, and He loved me, 1720 01:42:19,925 --> 01:42:24,930 and He forgave me and He encouraged me to get back up again. 1721 01:42:24,930 --> 01:42:27,599 That is the power of Jesus. 1722 01:42:27,599 --> 01:42:28,767 - Amen. - Amen. 1723 01:42:30,644 --> 01:42:34,398 - I'm so sorry you went through all that. 1724 01:42:34,398 --> 01:42:36,108 - We didn't realize all that was happening 1725 01:42:36,108 --> 01:42:40,028 to you at our church, but I praise God that the Lord, 1726 01:42:40,028 --> 01:42:41,363 He's been ministering 1727 01:42:41,363 --> 01:42:44,241 to you the same way He's been ministering to us. 1728 01:43:12,811 --> 01:43:14,813 - Hey there, I'm Kyle. 1729 01:43:14,813 --> 01:43:16,440 I'm Pastor Harold's son. 1730 01:43:25,616 --> 01:43:27,868 I hear you used to go to our church. 1731 01:43:27,868 --> 01:43:30,078 How have we not met before? 1732 01:43:30,078 --> 01:43:30,913 - I don't know. 1733 01:43:37,544 --> 01:43:39,379 - Okay, time to go. 1734 01:43:39,379 --> 01:43:42,257 - Yup, got some more gifts to open. 1735 01:43:42,257 --> 01:43:46,762 - Caitlyn, Kayla where do you think you guys are going? 1736 01:43:46,762 --> 01:43:48,388 I'm talking to you. 1737 01:43:49,765 --> 01:43:50,974 Come back here. 1738 01:43:52,017 --> 01:43:53,018 Guys, I'm serious. 1739 01:43:54,436 --> 01:43:55,771 - You'll thank me later. 1740 01:43:55,771 --> 01:43:57,397 - Oh my gosh. 1741 01:43:57,397 --> 01:43:59,233 Oh, no you were not. 1742 01:44:01,860 --> 01:44:03,528 Hi, I'm Megan. 1743 01:44:05,197 --> 01:44:06,031 - Hi. 1744 01:44:10,661 --> 01:44:11,495 - All right everybody, 1745 01:44:11,495 --> 01:44:14,289 it's time for Kayla to give her birthday speech tonight. 1746 01:44:16,333 --> 01:44:20,045 - Speech, speech, speech, speech, speech. 1747 01:44:20,045 --> 01:44:22,965 - [Altogether] Speech, speech, speech, speech. 1748 01:44:22,965 --> 01:44:25,550 speech, speech, speech, speech. 1749 01:44:28,762 --> 01:44:29,721 - Okay, okay, okay. 1750 01:44:31,306 --> 01:44:35,352 Well, thank you all for coming and for the presents. 1751 01:44:35,352 --> 01:44:40,357 And thank you for just being there for me. 1752 01:44:43,944 --> 01:44:44,903 As most of you know, 1753 01:44:44,903 --> 01:44:46,738 I'm going through a really hard time. 1754 01:44:49,741 --> 01:44:51,535 I appreciate how supportive 1755 01:44:51,535 --> 01:44:53,495 and accepting you've all been to me. 1756 01:44:55,580 --> 01:44:57,249 It means more to me than you know. 1757 01:44:59,209 --> 01:45:02,337 God is healing me and He's showing me how faithful He is. 1758 01:45:04,131 --> 01:45:06,550 This has been an amazing evening. 1759 01:45:07,551 --> 01:45:10,178 Your encouragement has showed me 1760 01:45:10,178 --> 01:45:14,308 that even when you're hurting, God can give you hope again. 1761 01:45:15,809 --> 01:45:20,230 (Ashley and Andrea clapping) 1762 01:45:20,230 --> 01:45:22,107 Now let's see some cake! 1763 01:45:22,107 --> 01:45:24,943 (mid tempo music) 1764 01:45:40,625 --> 01:45:43,337 ♪ Underneath the brokenness ♪ 1765 01:45:43,337 --> 01:45:46,214 ♪ Underneath the pain ♪ 1766 01:45:46,214 --> 01:45:49,301 ♪ Underneath all the tragedy ♪ 1767 01:45:49,301 --> 01:45:52,262 ♪ We may never be the same ♪ 1768 01:45:52,262 --> 01:45:55,599 ♪ But as I look around this broken place ♪ 1769 01:45:55,599 --> 01:46:00,604 ♪ I see there is hope here ♪ 1770 01:46:04,691 --> 01:46:07,652 ♪ All the wings that we still carry ♪ 1771 01:46:07,652 --> 01:46:10,697 ♪ All the damage that's been done ♪ 1772 01:46:10,697 --> 01:46:15,702 ♪ May we try to remember that the battle's truly won ♪ 1773 01:46:16,787 --> 01:46:21,792 ♪ I know that I can't be the only one who sees ♪ 1774 01:46:22,584 --> 01:46:25,670 ♪ There is hope here ♪ 1775 01:46:25,670 --> 01:46:29,841 ♪ There is hope here ♪ 1776 01:46:29,841 --> 01:46:33,387 ♪ In every storm that we face ♪ 1777 01:46:33,387 --> 01:46:37,724 ♪ Every time that the rain pours down ♪ 1778 01:46:37,724 --> 01:46:42,729 ♪ I know I know there is hope ♪ 1779 01:46:42,813 --> 01:46:45,857 ♪ In every tear that we cry ♪ 1780 01:46:45,857 --> 01:46:48,735 ♪ Every time we have cried ♪ 1781 01:46:48,735 --> 01:46:53,115 ♪ We break I know I know ♪ 1782 01:46:53,115 --> 01:46:55,784 ♪ There is hope ♪ 1783 01:46:57,702 --> 01:46:59,329 - You can do a little turn maybe? 1784 01:47:01,706 --> 01:47:04,709 ♪ I know the world is still spinning ♪ 1785 01:47:04,709 --> 01:47:07,963 ♪ And the days have turned to years ♪ 1786 01:47:07,963 --> 01:47:10,549 ♪ For some it's still a battle ♪ 1787 01:47:10,549 --> 01:47:13,802 ♪ And some scars have yet to heal ♪ 1788 01:47:13,802 --> 01:47:18,807 ♪ But may we lift our hands and sing oh hallelujah ♪ 1789 01:47:19,474 --> 01:47:24,479 ♪ 'Cause there is hope here ♪ 1790 01:47:27,315 --> 01:47:30,235 ♪ In every storm that we face ♪ 1791 01:47:30,235 --> 01:47:34,781 ♪ Every time that the rain pours down ♪ 1792 01:47:34,781 --> 01:47:39,661 ♪ I know I know there is hope ♪ 1793 01:47:39,661 --> 01:47:42,664 ♪ In every tear that we cry ♪ 1794 01:47:42,664 --> 01:47:45,542 ♪ Every time we have cried ♪ 1795 01:47:45,542 --> 01:47:50,046 ♪ We break I know I know ♪ 1796 01:47:50,046 --> 01:47:55,051 ♪ There is hope ♪ 1797 01:47:55,135 --> 01:47:59,764 ♪ There is hope ♪ 1798 01:47:59,764 --> 01:48:02,851 ♪ There is hope yeah ♪ 1799 01:48:28,835 --> 01:48:31,838 ♪ In every storm that we face ♪ 1800 01:48:31,838 --> 01:48:36,218 ♪ Every time that the rain pours down ♪ 1801 01:48:36,218 --> 01:48:41,223 ♪ I know I know there is hope ♪ 1802 01:48:41,223 --> 01:48:44,184 ♪ In every tear that we cry ♪ 1803 01:48:44,184 --> 01:48:47,187 ♪ Every time we have cried ♪ 1804 01:48:47,187 --> 01:48:51,441 ♪ We break I know I know ♪ 1805 01:48:51,441 --> 01:48:56,446 ♪ There is hope ♪ 1806 01:48:56,696 --> 01:49:01,326 ♪ There is hope ♪ 1807 01:49:01,326 --> 01:49:04,079 ♪ There is hope ♪ 1808 01:49:35,569 --> 01:49:40,532 ♪ There once was a time when I was lost ♪ 1809 01:49:42,158 --> 01:49:47,163 ♪ Like a sheep in the wildness was all about the world ♪ 1810 01:49:48,665 --> 01:49:51,918 ♪ I felt alone and in despair ♪ 1811 01:49:51,918 --> 01:49:55,714 ♪ It felt like no one was there ♪ 1812 01:49:55,714 --> 01:49:57,382 ♪ And then You reached out ♪ 1813 01:49:57,382 --> 01:50:02,220 ♪ And Lord and showed me Your grace is enough ♪ 1814 01:50:02,220 --> 01:50:05,140 ♪ And now I'm free ♪ 1815 01:50:05,140 --> 01:50:08,685 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪ 1816 01:50:08,685 --> 01:50:12,439 ♪ You lifted the burden of sin and shame ♪ 1817 01:50:12,439 --> 01:50:15,817 ♪ Brought me here and changed my name ♪ 1818 01:50:15,817 --> 01:50:18,820 ♪ Now I'm free ♪ 1819 01:50:18,820 --> 01:50:22,240 ♪ Yes I'm free ♪ 1820 01:50:22,240 --> 01:50:26,077 ♪ You lifted the weight that sat on me ♪ 1821 01:50:26,077 --> 01:50:29,122 ♪ I was blind but now I see ♪ 1822 01:50:29,122 --> 01:50:33,918 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪ 1823 01:50:33,918 --> 01:50:36,421 ♪ There was once was a time ♪ 1824 01:50:36,421 --> 01:50:40,425 ♪ That I was done ♪ 1825 01:50:40,425 --> 01:50:45,388 ♪ Like all they said I was never enough ♪ 1826 01:50:46,723 --> 01:50:49,976 ♪ You heard the cry of my heart ♪ 1827 01:50:49,976 --> 01:50:53,980 ♪ Mended the pieces every part ♪ 1828 01:50:53,980 --> 01:50:57,150 ♪ And then you reached out ♪ 1829 01:50:57,150 --> 01:51:00,362 ♪ And showed me Your grace is enough ♪ 1830 01:51:00,362 --> 01:51:03,239 ♪ And now I'm free ♪ 1831 01:51:03,239 --> 01:51:06,826 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪ 1832 01:51:06,826 --> 01:51:10,789 ♪ You lifted the burden of sin and shame ♪ 1833 01:51:10,789 --> 01:51:14,084 ♪ Brought me here and changed my name ♪ 1834 01:51:14,084 --> 01:51:17,295 ♪ Now I'm free ♪ 1835 01:51:17,295 --> 01:51:20,465 ♪ Yes I'm free ♪ 1836 01:51:20,465 --> 01:51:24,552 ♪ You lifted the weight that sat on me ♪ 1837 01:51:24,552 --> 01:51:27,472 ♪ I was blind but now I see ♪ 1838 01:51:27,472 --> 01:51:30,850 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪ 1839 01:51:30,850 --> 01:51:34,354 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪ 1840 01:51:34,354 --> 01:51:39,317 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪ 1841 01:51:41,778 --> 01:51:44,989 ♪ You were the light and the promise ♪ 1842 01:51:44,989 --> 01:51:48,368 ♪ You were the priest in my soul ♪ 1843 01:51:48,368 --> 01:51:51,746 ♪ You were like water in the desert ♪ 1844 01:51:51,746 --> 01:51:55,125 ♪ You called me out and made me whole ♪ 1845 01:51:55,125 --> 01:51:58,253 ♪ Now I'm free ♪ 1846 01:51:58,253 --> 01:52:01,715 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪ 1847 01:52:01,715 --> 01:52:05,510 ♪ You lifted the burden of shame and sin ♪ 1848 01:52:05,510 --> 01:52:08,972 ♪ Brought me here and changed my name ♪ 1849 01:52:08,972 --> 01:52:12,267 ♪ Now I'm free ♪ 1850 01:52:12,267 --> 01:52:15,437 ♪ Yes I'm free ♪ 1851 01:52:15,437 --> 01:52:19,315 ♪ You lifted the weight that sat on me ♪ 1852 01:52:19,315 --> 01:52:22,318 ♪ I was blind but now I see ♪ 1853 01:52:22,318 --> 01:52:25,447 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪ 1854 01:52:25,447 --> 01:52:29,033 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪ 1855 01:52:29,033 --> 01:52:33,079 ♪ You lifted the weight that sat on me ♪ 1856 01:52:33,079 --> 01:52:36,040 ♪ I was blind but now I see ♪ 1857 01:52:36,040 --> 01:52:39,377 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪ 1858 01:52:39,377 --> 01:52:42,714 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪ 1859 01:52:42,714 --> 01:52:45,800 ♪ Thank God I'm free ♪