1 00:00:00,148 --> 00:00:01,288 [Interviewer] Do you have a name for it? 2 00:00:01,388 --> 00:00:03,988 - I like to call him the weapon of ass destruction. 3 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 4 00:00:05,468 --> 00:00:07,008 ♪ Ohh ♪ 5 00:00:07,108 --> 00:00:08,288 (women scream) 6 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 7 00:00:08,388 --> 00:00:10,848 - I just thought Jesus Christ, it's gonna kill me. 8 00:00:10,948 --> 00:00:13,768 - [Narrator] Celebrated from poetry to porn. 9 00:00:13,868 --> 00:00:15,648 Size really matters in my line of work. 10 00:00:15,748 --> 00:00:18,528 - [Narrator] Bigger is often seen as better. 11 00:00:18,628 --> 00:00:21,288 - I'm still always on the look for the next big one 12 00:00:21,388 --> 00:00:22,768 that might tick all the boxes. 13 00:00:22,868 --> 00:00:24,448 There is such a thing as too big. 14 00:00:24,548 --> 00:00:27,208 - [Narrator] But for some, it's not always a blessing. 15 00:00:27,308 --> 00:00:28,208 It's either don't go out 16 00:00:28,308 --> 00:00:30,568 or someone stares at your cock really. 17 00:00:30,668 --> 00:00:33,128 - [Narrator] Instead it can even be a curse. 18 00:00:33,228 --> 00:00:34,968 - People just want your attention because of your penis, 19 00:00:35,068 --> 00:00:35,788 not because of who you are. 20 00:00:35,868 --> 00:00:37,968 - I feel like they're looking at me as if, you know, 21 00:00:38,068 --> 00:00:38,888 you should be ashamed of that. 22 00:00:38,988 --> 00:00:42,408 - [Narrator] Driving some to consider taking extreme action. 23 00:00:42,508 --> 00:00:45,288 - Most people are looking for penal enlargement, 24 00:00:45,388 --> 00:00:47,528 and you're looking the opposite. 25 00:00:47,628 --> 00:00:49,608 I have a big, a big penis. 26 00:00:49,708 --> 00:00:52,088 - [Narrator] When size becomes an obsession. 27 00:00:52,188 --> 00:00:54,048 That was like a eleven incher. 28 00:00:54,148 --> 00:00:56,688 BBC isn't the broadcasting company, 29 00:00:56,788 --> 00:00:58,448 it stands for big Black cock. 30 00:00:58,548 --> 00:01:02,048 - I got offered 400 quid for someone to suck me off once. 31 00:01:02,148 --> 00:01:04,048 [Narrator] And the humiliation. 32 00:01:04,148 --> 00:01:05,488 It really makes you feel like, 33 00:01:05,588 --> 00:01:06,688 you know less of a human. 34 00:01:06,788 --> 00:01:08,408 You're always worried, is it big enough? 35 00:01:08,508 --> 00:01:10,488 - What they want is clearly below the waistline, 36 00:01:10,588 --> 00:01:12,588 they don't care about what's up here. 37 00:01:19,348 --> 00:01:20,268 - [Scott] Right let's just do a little warm-up 38 00:01:20,348 --> 00:01:22,488 round the goals then. 39 00:01:22,588 --> 00:01:24,608 Back to a light jog then. 40 00:01:24,708 --> 00:01:29,288 I'm 35 and my cock is about 9.4 inches erect. 41 00:01:29,388 --> 00:01:32,648 (upbeat music) 42 00:01:34,428 --> 00:01:37,048 - They are a bit tight, I know tell me about it. 43 00:01:37,148 --> 00:01:38,928 - [Narrator] Football coach Scott is single 44 00:01:39,028 --> 00:01:42,608 and looking for love, but his mates won't stop teasing him 45 00:01:42,708 --> 00:01:44,708 for his big penis. 46 00:01:45,028 --> 00:01:46,688 Good session, lads. 47 00:01:46,788 --> 00:01:48,049 (men laugh) 48 00:01:48,149 --> 00:01:50,889 I've been joked about quite a lot about my dick, 49 00:01:50,989 --> 00:01:52,989 mainly in the changing rooms. 50 00:01:54,069 --> 00:01:56,049 [Friend] Scotty, how's it looking? 51 00:01:56,149 --> 00:01:58,329 [Scott] Alright mate. 52 00:01:58,429 --> 00:02:00,409 You know guys are always talking about it. 53 00:02:00,509 --> 00:02:02,169 [Friend] Scotty, wash and make it dance. 54 00:02:02,269 --> 00:02:03,649 (friend laughs) 55 00:02:03,749 --> 00:02:06,009 They are the ones who objectify me 56 00:02:06,109 --> 00:02:07,369 and have obviously a bit of a laugh. 57 00:02:07,469 --> 00:02:09,929 It is what it is at the end of the day. 58 00:02:10,029 --> 00:02:12,429 (man laughs) 59 00:02:13,669 --> 00:02:14,789 - [Interviewer] Do you think they're envious? 60 00:02:14,869 --> 00:02:16,049 I think 100% they're envious, 61 00:02:16,149 --> 00:02:17,609 that's why they talk about it all the time, 62 00:02:17,709 --> 00:02:19,009 that's why they take pictures. 63 00:02:19,109 --> 00:02:21,429 That's why they're always asking questions. 64 00:02:22,269 --> 00:02:23,809 First thing they thought was, 65 00:02:23,909 --> 00:02:25,169 he looks like an '80s porn star. 66 00:02:25,269 --> 00:02:26,409 Yeah, I was thinking that. 67 00:02:26,509 --> 00:02:28,449 - And you know that's about five people that I know 68 00:02:28,549 --> 00:02:30,049 who just said that straight away. 69 00:02:30,149 --> 00:02:31,249 I generally take it in good humour. 70 00:02:31,349 --> 00:02:34,209 It can be quite a laugh and I don't mind it at times, 71 00:02:34,309 --> 00:02:36,849 but it gets to a point where it can get a bit, 72 00:02:36,949 --> 00:02:38,949 you know a bit tedious. 73 00:02:40,669 --> 00:02:41,809 [Narrator] But it's not just the lads 74 00:02:41,909 --> 00:02:45,029 that are in the know, word has spread around town. 75 00:02:46,989 --> 00:02:49,249 Randomly I got a message saying, 76 00:02:49,349 --> 00:02:51,649 "Send a pic, the girls wanna see it." 77 00:02:51,749 --> 00:02:55,009 My friend's gift, so I just said, "How many do you want?" 78 00:02:55,109 --> 00:02:57,569 So I've literally pulled four pictures off the group chat, 79 00:02:57,669 --> 00:03:00,029 the video we've done, they couldn't believe it. 80 00:03:02,469 --> 00:03:03,209 Bit of a reputation. 81 00:03:03,309 --> 00:03:05,889 - It's on my phone and I think every single person 82 00:03:05,989 --> 00:03:07,169 has seen your dick. 83 00:03:07,269 --> 00:03:08,289 Seriously? 84 00:03:08,389 --> 00:03:10,389 Oh God. 85 00:03:11,909 --> 00:03:12,669 They're a good bunch of lads 86 00:03:12,749 --> 00:03:16,289 but I think it can affect my dating life around this area 87 00:03:16,389 --> 00:03:18,289 'cause a lot of people know about it. 88 00:03:18,389 --> 00:03:20,169 When you've recorded the size, 89 00:03:20,269 --> 00:03:22,269 do you use metric or imperial? 90 00:03:22,869 --> 00:03:24,249 - It's normally in inches. - yeah? 91 00:03:24,349 --> 00:03:26,329 It's weird when you start measuring stuff, 92 00:03:26,429 --> 00:03:28,849 in Scott's length, fifteen Scott metres. 93 00:03:28,949 --> 00:03:31,729 - Is this how it's gonna be then, like in future? 94 00:03:31,829 --> 00:03:33,169 (sad music) 95 00:03:33,269 --> 00:03:34,349 - [Interviewer] How does that feel to be in there 96 00:03:34,429 --> 00:03:37,130 and just having the piss taken out of you like that? 97 00:03:37,230 --> 00:03:39,230 Well same as usual really, you know? 98 00:03:40,230 --> 00:03:41,890 When you've got your mates speaking about you 99 00:03:41,990 --> 00:03:43,990 and just wanna show it to their mates, 100 00:03:45,150 --> 00:03:46,370 especially people I don't really know. 101 00:03:46,470 --> 00:03:49,730 It does make you feel like, people just want your attention 102 00:03:49,830 --> 00:03:52,130 because of your penis, not because of who you are. 103 00:03:52,230 --> 00:03:54,630 (sad music) 104 00:03:56,670 --> 00:03:59,290 - My favourite word for a penis has to be schlong, 105 00:03:59,390 --> 00:04:01,650 'cause there's so much like, lurr, 106 00:04:01,750 --> 00:04:02,510 there's so much length to it. 107 00:04:02,590 --> 00:04:03,570 Do you know what I mean? 108 00:04:03,670 --> 00:04:05,990 Schlong, like I'm all about that. 109 00:04:06,910 --> 00:04:09,610 - [Teacher] The adolescent boy has other problems too, 110 00:04:09,710 --> 00:04:12,890 I'm talking about his problems in growth and development 111 00:04:12,990 --> 00:04:16,210 which can be as disturbing to him as his sex pressures. 112 00:04:16,310 --> 00:04:17,210 I used to go to a school, 113 00:04:17,310 --> 00:04:19,370 we had to go swimming in the bare. 114 00:04:19,470 --> 00:04:21,410 I was so embarrassed about the size of my penis 115 00:04:21,510 --> 00:04:24,530 that we used to dread the days we had to go swimming. 116 00:04:24,630 --> 00:04:26,810 - But every boy should realise that the size 117 00:04:26,910 --> 00:04:30,050 of his genital organs has nothing to do with fertility 118 00:04:30,150 --> 00:04:32,490 or his capacity as a male. 119 00:04:32,590 --> 00:04:34,210 (bouncy music) 120 00:04:34,310 --> 00:04:36,610 So the average length of a penis 121 00:04:36,710 --> 00:04:41,710 is just over five inches long, and that's for many countries 122 00:04:42,190 --> 00:04:44,090 and many, many studies. 123 00:04:44,190 --> 00:04:46,990 Most men believe penises are longer than that. 124 00:04:55,430 --> 00:04:57,650 - If we're looking at a measurement like eight inches, 125 00:04:57,750 --> 00:05:00,570 probably well under 1% of men in the world 126 00:05:00,670 --> 00:05:02,130 have a penis that long. 127 00:05:02,230 --> 00:05:03,770 [Narrator] And for those 1%, 128 00:05:03,870 --> 00:05:07,330 life can sometimes be a complete nightmare. 129 00:05:07,430 --> 00:05:09,130 I've had people walk past me 130 00:05:09,230 --> 00:05:11,690 or I cross paths with people in the street 131 00:05:11,790 --> 00:05:12,970 and they kinda like stare at it 132 00:05:13,070 --> 00:05:15,490 and look at me in a way like, you know, 133 00:05:15,590 --> 00:05:18,290 why have you got that on display or why would you have that? 134 00:05:18,390 --> 00:05:20,610 You know it's kinda like, nearly as if, 135 00:05:20,710 --> 00:05:22,090 I feel like they're looking at me as if, you know, 136 00:05:22,190 --> 00:05:24,951 you should be ashamed of that, do something about that. 137 00:05:30,191 --> 00:05:31,851 - I've got no choice 'cause you can kind of see 138 00:05:31,951 --> 00:05:33,951 it through whatever. 139 00:05:34,991 --> 00:05:36,051 It's either don't go out 140 00:05:36,151 --> 00:05:38,591 or someone stares at your cock really. 141 00:05:40,031 --> 00:05:42,931 - [Narrator] 22 year old Joe can't hide his problem. 142 00:05:43,031 --> 00:05:46,151 He suffers daily abuse due to his size. 143 00:05:47,551 --> 00:05:49,971 - We usually have a tally to see how many people looked. 144 00:05:50,071 --> 00:05:52,151 Like just back there someone was staring. 145 00:05:54,311 --> 00:05:56,931 I usually wear underwear that's got like a pouch 146 00:05:57,031 --> 00:06:00,331 in the front 'cause if you try and push it down, 147 00:06:00,431 --> 00:06:03,811 you get like a cock hamburger with a ball either side. 148 00:06:03,911 --> 00:06:06,671 (sombre music) 149 00:06:09,391 --> 00:06:12,411 I was about 14, I was playing football 150 00:06:12,511 --> 00:06:16,211 and then one of my mates went to my other mates 151 00:06:16,311 --> 00:06:20,891 and just went, have you seen that thing is despicable, 152 00:06:20,991 --> 00:06:24,291 and then it just started as a whole rumour 153 00:06:24,391 --> 00:06:26,931 around the school about how big it was. 154 00:06:27,031 --> 00:06:31,951 And I was in the showers and was like oh, okay, yes it is. 155 00:06:33,311 --> 00:06:37,411 It's about nine and a half now and I'm 5'6. 156 00:06:37,511 --> 00:06:39,171 So that's 66 inches. 157 00:06:39,271 --> 00:06:42,551 So it's like nearly a 12th of my height. 158 00:06:44,191 --> 00:06:46,951 The scaling is off, quite off. 159 00:06:47,871 --> 00:06:50,451 It's thicker than my forearm. 160 00:06:50,551 --> 00:06:54,971 It's about seven around and I can get my hand around 161 00:06:55,071 --> 00:06:55,931 my wrist quite easily, 162 00:06:56,031 --> 00:06:58,731 but I can't get my hand around my own dick. 163 00:06:58,831 --> 00:07:00,771 (door squeaks) 164 00:07:00,871 --> 00:07:02,871 It's not the best look in the world. 165 00:07:03,711 --> 00:07:05,891 - [Narrator] Joe needs to buy special underwear, 166 00:07:05,991 --> 00:07:08,511 costing him over £200 per year. 167 00:07:10,071 --> 00:07:13,652 - These are the ones where if I take more than 10 steps, 168 00:07:13,752 --> 00:07:15,752 voom, it's fallen out the end. 169 00:07:16,152 --> 00:07:17,492 Yeah. 170 00:07:17,592 --> 00:07:18,532 (door squeaks) 171 00:07:18,632 --> 00:07:22,452 Even getting dressed, balls to one side, cock to the other, 172 00:07:22,552 --> 00:07:26,092 finding the perfect sort of place to put it. 173 00:07:26,192 --> 00:07:29,532 I have to think of my thigh to cock ratio. 174 00:07:29,632 --> 00:07:31,852 (lively music) 175 00:07:31,952 --> 00:07:34,412 This is essentially, it's got an extra pouch. 176 00:07:34,512 --> 00:07:36,612 It's basically for people who have big dicks 177 00:07:36,712 --> 00:07:40,292 and it's the only ones I've got that properly sort of 178 00:07:40,392 --> 00:07:41,212 fit everything in. 179 00:07:41,312 --> 00:07:43,012 The issue is 'cause I'm quite a shower, 180 00:07:43,112 --> 00:07:47,092 people just automatically presume that I've got a boner 181 00:07:47,192 --> 00:07:50,312 'cause like, I can't tuck it round the side. 182 00:07:51,232 --> 00:07:52,892 [Narrator] Despite Joe's special pants, 183 00:07:52,992 --> 00:07:55,112 he still can't hide his bulge. 184 00:07:56,432 --> 00:07:57,412 I went for this interview 185 00:07:57,512 --> 00:07:59,452 and I thought the interview went really well, 186 00:07:59,552 --> 00:08:02,532 but suit trousers are well fitting, very tight. 187 00:08:02,632 --> 00:08:04,452 The response I got was you're not gonna get the job. 188 00:08:04,552 --> 00:08:05,552 We thought you were a good candidate, 189 00:08:05,632 --> 00:08:08,332 but we thought there was inappropriate behaviour happening. 190 00:08:08,432 --> 00:08:09,892 They thought I had an erection 191 00:08:09,992 --> 00:08:11,992 throughout this whole interview 192 00:08:12,992 --> 00:08:16,552 and they were very much like, your attire wasn't right. 193 00:08:18,312 --> 00:08:22,132 They clearly meant you know, we could see your dick. 194 00:08:22,232 --> 00:08:24,052 (sad music) 195 00:08:24,152 --> 00:08:26,652 - [Narrator] Being very well endowed isn't always 196 00:08:26,752 --> 00:08:31,212 what it's cracked up to be, so be careful what you wish for. 197 00:08:31,312 --> 00:08:35,092 - I remember the first time I saw a massive penis. 198 00:08:35,192 --> 00:08:37,612 I was in my late teens and I just thought, 199 00:08:37,712 --> 00:08:39,452 Jesus Christ, it's gonna kill me. 200 00:08:39,552 --> 00:08:42,412 Like there's no way that some magic trick 201 00:08:42,512 --> 00:08:44,612 this is gonna happen. 202 00:08:44,712 --> 00:08:49,712 - That was like a 11 incher, and it was, bloody hell. 203 00:08:50,032 --> 00:08:52,172 That was, there's such a thing as too big. 204 00:08:52,272 --> 00:08:55,052 (Laura laughs) 205 00:08:55,152 --> 00:08:57,892 - I think men are obsessed with their penis sizes, 206 00:08:57,992 --> 00:08:59,933 it's because maybe it's something ingrained 207 00:09:00,033 --> 00:09:01,013 from their childhood you know? 208 00:09:01,113 --> 00:09:02,213 They keep talking about it, 209 00:09:02,313 --> 00:09:04,373 it's sort of and it's something relayed to them 210 00:09:04,473 --> 00:09:06,453 when they're children and they're just like, oh okay, 211 00:09:06,553 --> 00:09:10,733 if I have a big penis, then I am literally a hot guy 212 00:09:10,833 --> 00:09:13,133 whose gonna be desirable to all women, 213 00:09:13,233 --> 00:09:15,693 and they don't understand there's more to it. 214 00:09:15,793 --> 00:09:18,813 There's definitely more to it, because a big penis 215 00:09:18,913 --> 00:09:21,513 is just there, but you need to know how to swing it. 216 00:09:23,393 --> 00:09:24,133 (upbeat music) 217 00:09:36,073 --> 00:09:38,813 But there's always an exception. 218 00:09:38,913 --> 00:09:40,913 [Bonnie] So I'm a size queen. 219 00:09:41,313 --> 00:09:43,973 So that basically means that I prefer to have sex with guys 220 00:09:44,073 --> 00:09:48,253 that have above average or very huge penises. 221 00:09:48,353 --> 00:09:51,033 (upbeat music) 222 00:09:52,073 --> 00:09:54,333 Eight inches and above would be making it 223 00:09:54,433 --> 00:09:56,433 worth my while I think. 224 00:09:57,273 --> 00:09:58,973 [Interviewer] How big are you, Tommy? 225 00:09:59,073 --> 00:10:01,013 - Above average, something like seven and a half inches 226 00:10:01,113 --> 00:10:03,533 but I get most people with my girth, 227 00:10:03,633 --> 00:10:06,053 which is seven inches, so. 228 00:10:06,153 --> 00:10:08,933 - But I'm still always on the look for the next big one 229 00:10:09,033 --> 00:10:10,493 that might tick all the boxes. 230 00:10:10,593 --> 00:10:12,653 (Bonnie laughs) 231 00:10:12,753 --> 00:10:14,573 [Narrator] Bonnie and her partner Tommy 232 00:10:14,673 --> 00:10:16,493 have been together for seven years. 233 00:10:16,593 --> 00:10:17,573 What do you think about this one? 234 00:10:17,673 --> 00:10:19,893 - [Narrator] They're now taking their sex life online 235 00:10:19,993 --> 00:10:21,573 and Bonnie is looking to engage 236 00:10:21,673 --> 00:10:24,333 with the most generously endowed guys in the country. 237 00:10:24,433 --> 00:10:26,333 Big dick energy, what do you think? 238 00:10:26,433 --> 00:10:29,573 We've always filmed our sex life 239 00:10:29,673 --> 00:10:31,253 since the first time we met, 240 00:10:31,353 --> 00:10:33,293 filmed our first sex tape on the first night. 241 00:10:33,393 --> 00:10:34,453 Yeah, I was kinda like, 242 00:10:34,553 --> 00:10:38,973 oh this is a guy that I can be completely honest with. 243 00:10:39,073 --> 00:10:42,173 Nothing that I said to him in the bedroom over that weekend 244 00:10:42,273 --> 00:10:44,793 was like shocking to him. 245 00:10:45,874 --> 00:10:47,734 No, I was actively encouraging. 246 00:10:47,834 --> 00:10:49,134 Yeah. 247 00:10:49,234 --> 00:10:51,574 I know actually I've got someone else 248 00:10:51,674 --> 00:10:52,414 - to show you. - Yeah? 249 00:10:52,514 --> 00:10:55,934 - Looking at his Twitter, he's ticking the size queen box 250 00:10:56,034 --> 00:10:58,034 that's for sure. 251 00:10:59,314 --> 00:11:01,254 That's a big dick. 252 00:11:01,354 --> 00:11:03,574 (Bonnie on Tommy laugh) 253 00:11:03,674 --> 00:11:06,234 (upbeat music) 254 00:11:07,834 --> 00:11:09,774 I'm measuring me cock. 255 00:11:09,874 --> 00:11:12,574 It's 10.5 inches from the base to the tip. 256 00:11:12,674 --> 00:11:14,674 Size really matters in my line of work. 257 00:11:15,994 --> 00:11:18,414 - [Narrator] Ex-plumber Andy Lee is making 258 00:11:18,514 --> 00:11:21,694 his impressive love muscle work for him. 259 00:11:21,794 --> 00:11:24,214 With over 25,000 followers, 260 00:11:24,314 --> 00:11:28,014 he's now raking it in as an adult performer. 261 00:11:28,114 --> 00:11:29,574 He seen me go in the gym, 262 00:11:29,674 --> 00:11:31,054 he saw me in the changing rooms and Jesus, 263 00:11:31,154 --> 00:11:32,734 that's a big old cock. 264 00:11:32,834 --> 00:11:35,574 He said, "Would you ever think about doing porn?" 265 00:11:35,674 --> 00:11:39,094 I said, "I'd do it, I don't care." 266 00:11:39,194 --> 00:11:41,194 There's 21 comments on this one. 267 00:11:42,034 --> 00:11:44,034 "Jesus, it's like a bear cam." 268 00:11:44,674 --> 00:11:46,854 "So big, daddy." 269 00:11:46,954 --> 00:11:49,494 So there's a photo of me with my cock in me hand 270 00:11:49,594 --> 00:11:51,654 and a sledgehammer dressed in work gear. 271 00:11:51,754 --> 00:11:53,414 Says, "Looks like demolition." 272 00:11:53,514 --> 00:11:55,014 "Tool in each hand, laying pipes, 273 00:11:55,114 --> 00:11:57,114 smashing doors and filling cracks." 274 00:11:58,034 --> 00:12:02,534 So I just got a message off this couple, Bonnie and Tommy. 275 00:12:02,634 --> 00:12:03,654 I've seen some of their stuff before, 276 00:12:03,754 --> 00:12:05,094 I've seen some of their TikTok videos and stuff. 277 00:12:05,194 --> 00:12:06,054 They look pretty cool. 278 00:12:06,154 --> 00:12:08,614 Bonnie comes across as a, 279 00:12:08,714 --> 00:12:09,774 like a cock destroyer. 280 00:12:09,874 --> 00:12:11,574 Hopefully arrange something for this week, 281 00:12:11,674 --> 00:12:15,394 then we can organise a video and we can fuck hard. 282 00:12:19,834 --> 00:12:22,114 - [Matt] It's made me a lot of a focus of attention. 283 00:12:23,794 --> 00:12:28,494 Often my reputation has preceded me in terms of my size. 284 00:12:28,594 --> 00:12:31,254 - [Narrator] 39 year old Cambridge graduate Matt 285 00:12:31,354 --> 00:12:33,775 hasn't been able to hold down a relationship 286 00:12:33,875 --> 00:12:36,395 as a result of his 10.5 inch penis. 287 00:12:38,115 --> 00:12:40,955 ♪ Love me all out ♪ 288 00:12:42,115 --> 00:12:45,015 - [Narrator] His previous attempts to find a partner online 289 00:12:45,115 --> 00:12:47,235 have left him feeling fetishised. 290 00:12:48,475 --> 00:12:50,935 - I'm not an attention seeker, I'm not an extrovert, 291 00:12:51,035 --> 00:12:53,295 I'm not a particularly social person. 292 00:12:53,395 --> 00:12:55,615 Any attention I get 'cause of my size, you know, 293 00:12:55,715 --> 00:12:56,695 unless it's from the right person, 294 00:12:56,795 --> 00:12:58,795 then I'm generally not interested in it. 295 00:12:59,715 --> 00:13:01,095 You always have the issue that people will think 296 00:13:01,195 --> 00:13:03,915 you're aroused when you're not in a regular swimming pool. 297 00:13:05,195 --> 00:13:05,895 I'm always you know, 298 00:13:05,995 --> 00:13:07,035 quite a conservative and considerate guy. 299 00:13:07,115 --> 00:13:10,295 So I try to make sure if I do feel the need to 300 00:13:10,395 --> 00:13:12,655 cast off the shackles of the usual nine to five, 301 00:13:12,755 --> 00:13:14,755 I can go somewhere a bit more peaceful. 302 00:13:15,755 --> 00:13:18,155 (sad music) 303 00:13:20,915 --> 00:13:22,135 Being well endowed gets you attention, 304 00:13:22,235 --> 00:13:24,295 it doesn't get you affection. 305 00:13:24,395 --> 00:13:25,855 Women are very curious, 306 00:13:25,955 --> 00:13:26,715 it doesn't mean they're gonna 307 00:13:26,795 --> 00:13:28,135 suddenly fall in love with you. 308 00:13:28,235 --> 00:13:29,255 If anything it's more of a handicap 309 00:13:29,355 --> 00:13:30,315 to actually getting a relationship 310 00:13:30,395 --> 00:13:33,335 because it's something you can't really bring up 311 00:13:33,435 --> 00:13:35,495 in the courtship process. 312 00:13:35,595 --> 00:13:37,015 If you bring it up, you're a bit sleazy 313 00:13:37,115 --> 00:13:40,055 and if you don't bring it up, then it causes complications. 314 00:13:40,155 --> 00:13:41,455 But really you kind of want that nice compromise 315 00:13:41,555 --> 00:13:43,095 between someone who likes you for your mind 316 00:13:43,195 --> 00:13:43,935 and for your body, 317 00:13:44,035 --> 00:13:46,195 but it's very hard to get that perfect match. 318 00:13:48,595 --> 00:13:50,815 Generally, I'll use these condoms. 319 00:13:50,915 --> 00:13:52,575 They are the sort of the biggest on the market. 320 00:13:52,675 --> 00:13:56,135 These are supposedly about nine and a half inches around. 321 00:13:56,235 --> 00:13:56,995 So it doesn't cover everything. 322 00:13:57,075 --> 00:14:01,835 For comparison, here is a regular sized condom. 323 00:14:04,235 --> 00:14:05,255 I've been lightheaded before 324 00:14:05,355 --> 00:14:08,135 certainly at my most engorged. 325 00:14:08,235 --> 00:14:10,715 It can be difficult to concentrate. 326 00:14:11,555 --> 00:14:14,015 - [Narrator] Matt has felt objectified in the past 327 00:14:14,115 --> 00:14:18,095 and his penis can attract the wrong kind of interest. 328 00:14:18,195 --> 00:14:22,396 - There was one girl who made a replica of my erect penis 329 00:14:25,476 --> 00:14:27,496 and then next day, ghosted me, 330 00:14:27,596 --> 00:14:29,696 left me without any warning. 331 00:14:29,796 --> 00:14:31,656 Most baffled I've been. 332 00:14:31,756 --> 00:14:34,816 (sad music) 333 00:14:34,916 --> 00:14:36,656 Maybe not the most charming person in the universe, 334 00:14:36,756 --> 00:14:39,056 but it still hurts when what they want 335 00:14:39,156 --> 00:14:40,616 is clearly below the waistline. 336 00:14:40,716 --> 00:14:42,716 They don't care about what's up here. 337 00:14:43,796 --> 00:14:45,856 It's very difficult to get your self-esteem 338 00:14:45,956 --> 00:14:47,956 when you get that level of rejection. 339 00:14:48,996 --> 00:14:51,056 - [Narrator] Matt's extreme size has led him 340 00:14:51,156 --> 00:14:53,296 to take drastic measures. 341 00:14:53,396 --> 00:14:57,936 He's considering a rare and extremely complicated surgery. 342 00:14:58,036 --> 00:14:59,696 - I've always wondered whether it would be a good idea 343 00:14:59,796 --> 00:15:01,796 to have a reduction. 344 00:15:02,916 --> 00:15:05,696 It could help if I could lose three or four inches 345 00:15:05,796 --> 00:15:09,196 and be fine, then I don't see why I wouldn't consider it. 346 00:15:10,756 --> 00:15:13,236 (cars rumble) 347 00:15:19,836 --> 00:15:22,776 - [Joe] So this is the kit that you basically make 348 00:15:22,876 --> 00:15:25,016 a replica of your own penis. 349 00:15:25,116 --> 00:15:27,536 [Narrator] Shower Joe is unable to hide 350 00:15:27,636 --> 00:15:29,536 his trouser torpedo, 351 00:15:29,636 --> 00:15:33,496 but has found a way to tackle the attention through art. 352 00:15:33,596 --> 00:15:36,656 - Well I'm making a mould because, well I'm an artist 353 00:15:36,756 --> 00:15:39,056 and everyone talks about my cock constantly. 354 00:15:39,156 --> 00:15:41,156 It's everywhere. 355 00:15:41,676 --> 00:15:44,816 Why not make an art piece out of it, a sculpture? 356 00:15:44,916 --> 00:15:46,916 Let's do something fun. 357 00:15:47,676 --> 00:15:49,676 This is disgusting. 358 00:15:50,316 --> 00:15:51,536 [Interviewer] Does it feel really weird? 359 00:15:51,636 --> 00:15:53,616 Err it is horrible. 360 00:15:53,716 --> 00:15:56,096 I'm gonna use it as decoration no doubt, 361 00:15:56,196 --> 00:15:59,076 or someone can have it as a birthday present. 362 00:16:00,236 --> 00:16:02,936 (calm music) 363 00:16:03,036 --> 00:16:08,036 It's all dry. 364 00:16:08,396 --> 00:16:10,257 - [Interviewer] Is that a good representation 365 00:16:10,357 --> 00:16:11,497 of you would you say? 366 00:16:11,597 --> 00:16:15,677 Yeah, that's pretty much identical. 367 00:16:16,637 --> 00:16:19,097 It not actually being attached to me 368 00:16:19,197 --> 00:16:21,257 is weird actually feeling the scale of it. 369 00:16:21,357 --> 00:16:26,097 So yeah, it's actually come out pretty decent. 370 00:16:26,197 --> 00:16:29,017 There's been a lot of times where people talk to me 371 00:16:29,117 --> 00:16:32,737 kind of just like a, ah, you've got a massive cock. 372 00:16:32,837 --> 00:16:36,537 I kind of wanna try that, let's just fuck it, let's just go. 373 00:16:36,637 --> 00:16:39,137 But a couple of times where people have been like, 374 00:16:39,237 --> 00:16:40,857 nah, like you're a nice guy, 375 00:16:40,957 --> 00:16:44,517 but I won't have sex in case I die. 376 00:16:46,197 --> 00:16:49,017 My mates specifically think it's hilarious 377 00:16:49,117 --> 00:16:53,477 on birthdays, anything, is to just send me cards 378 00:16:54,997 --> 00:16:56,297 with pictures of my cock on. 379 00:16:56,397 --> 00:17:00,457 Every birthday, I'm inundated with like 40 cards 380 00:17:00,557 --> 00:17:02,557 or something, just at a party. 381 00:17:03,997 --> 00:17:08,337 Drunk boner, they're like, ha, you're in the shower, photo. 382 00:17:08,437 --> 00:17:12,297 And then that was bad 'cause I was sending nudes on Snapchat 383 00:17:12,397 --> 00:17:15,737 and accidentally sent it to our um, 384 00:17:15,837 --> 00:17:17,097 sent it to our group chat. 385 00:17:17,197 --> 00:17:19,737 so I had about 30 notifications 386 00:17:19,837 --> 00:17:23,097 of screenshot, screenshot, screenshot, screenshot. 387 00:17:23,197 --> 00:17:26,177 The level of subtlety in a cockney friendship group 388 00:17:26,277 --> 00:17:30,177 is that they like, you know just re-emphasis the point. 389 00:17:30,277 --> 00:17:31,497 (lively music) 390 00:17:31,597 --> 00:17:33,857 - [Narrator] Joe has decided to surprise his friends 391 00:17:33,957 --> 00:17:35,657 with his new masterpiece, 392 00:17:35,757 --> 00:17:37,757 which he's taking down the pub. 393 00:17:38,557 --> 00:17:41,077 - [Joe] I hope they're not horrified or traumatised, I mean. 394 00:17:44,917 --> 00:17:47,877 Uh, yeah, that's my dick, that. 395 00:17:50,077 --> 00:17:51,337 Oh my gosh. 396 00:17:51,437 --> 00:17:53,577 'Cause you can't look away from it. 397 00:17:53,677 --> 00:17:54,857 [Narrator] Our survey reveals 398 00:17:54,957 --> 00:17:57,338 that one third of the population have problems 399 00:17:57,438 --> 00:17:59,698 with penis size in the bedroom 400 00:17:59,798 --> 00:18:02,978 and this effects women more than men. 401 00:18:03,078 --> 00:18:04,658 Yeah, it's the sort of thing, 402 00:18:04,758 --> 00:18:06,658 especially when I was younger and you know, 403 00:18:06,758 --> 00:18:08,698 first lose virginity that sort of thing. 404 00:18:08,798 --> 00:18:10,578 People who I was hooking up with, 405 00:18:10,678 --> 00:18:12,418 they'd never seen a cock before. 406 00:18:12,518 --> 00:18:14,778 So we'd have sex and then they'd be like, 407 00:18:14,878 --> 00:18:16,018 is sex meant to hurt like that? 408 00:18:16,118 --> 00:18:18,158 And I was like oh I hope not, oh no. 409 00:18:18,998 --> 00:18:21,458 But because I was 15, 16, 410 00:18:21,558 --> 00:18:22,698 - I also didn't know. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 411 00:18:22,798 --> 00:18:25,498 So, I was like oh this is just, 412 00:18:25,598 --> 00:18:27,938 this is just a normal dick, oh these poor people. 413 00:18:28,038 --> 00:18:29,378 [Friend] Yeah, yeah, yeah. 414 00:18:29,478 --> 00:18:31,538 (calm music) 415 00:18:31,638 --> 00:18:33,878 - Honest, I never knew that I had a big dick. 416 00:18:35,398 --> 00:18:38,098 And obviously me being very young and not knowing about sex, 417 00:18:38,198 --> 00:18:40,338 but when you're very new to the gay world, 418 00:18:40,438 --> 00:18:43,498 I feel like everything is quite scary. 419 00:18:43,598 --> 00:18:45,658 So I started seeing this guy, the lights were off, 420 00:18:45,758 --> 00:18:48,418 and we were fucking and it was good, it was okay. 421 00:18:48,518 --> 00:18:51,258 It was just very wet, like, everywhere. 422 00:18:51,358 --> 00:18:52,098 So I turned the light on 423 00:18:52,198 --> 00:18:54,218 and there was just blood everywhere. 424 00:18:54,318 --> 00:18:55,738 It was bad. 425 00:18:55,838 --> 00:18:58,978 I just remember sitting there dick in hand in the bath, 426 00:18:59,078 --> 00:19:01,758 covered in blood crying, like, like uh, 427 00:19:03,078 --> 00:19:04,498 and he's there, like it's normal, it's fine. 428 00:19:04,598 --> 00:19:06,698 I'm like, it's not fucking normal. 429 00:19:06,798 --> 00:19:09,298 I never had sex for a year after that. 430 00:19:09,398 --> 00:19:10,138 (calm music) 431 00:19:10,238 --> 00:19:12,738 Sometimes you do get a bit of guilt. 432 00:19:12,838 --> 00:19:14,978 It is a very harsh thing to expect someone 433 00:19:15,078 --> 00:19:16,898 to be able to take all of you, 434 00:19:16,998 --> 00:19:18,578 like well take your entire length. 435 00:19:18,678 --> 00:19:20,658 Especially if you know that someone's struggling to take it 436 00:19:20,758 --> 00:19:23,938 and still trying to take it, and just like, in pure pain. 437 00:19:24,038 --> 00:19:25,898 If I put myself in that situation, 438 00:19:25,998 --> 00:19:27,998 I wouldn't want that to be me. 439 00:19:29,238 --> 00:19:32,558 - I have had an experience with a big penis. 440 00:19:34,278 --> 00:19:36,738 So as I like moved the pubic hair 441 00:19:36,838 --> 00:19:39,498 and I saw the big penis hanging there I'm just like, 442 00:19:39,598 --> 00:19:43,458 oh my god, I am tiny, I am not gonna be able to handle this. 443 00:19:43,558 --> 00:19:45,699 - [Interviewer] So you didn't do it, you didn't cover? 444 00:19:45,799 --> 00:19:49,459 - No I didn't because it was a little intimidating for me 445 00:19:49,559 --> 00:19:51,639 and it was really big, really, really big. 446 00:19:57,439 --> 00:20:02,099 - So I'm just hoping that he lives up to my expectations 447 00:20:02,199 --> 00:20:04,779 from everything that I've seen on his Twitter. 448 00:20:04,879 --> 00:20:07,259 - [Narrator] Size queen Bonnie and partner Tommy 449 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:11,299 are meeting up for a threesome with big boy, Andy Lee. 450 00:20:11,399 --> 00:20:13,859 Andy is 10.5 inches erect, 451 00:20:13,959 --> 00:20:16,219 double the size of an average penis 452 00:20:16,319 --> 00:20:19,219 but even he's having doubts. 453 00:20:19,319 --> 00:20:20,939 To be honest I am a bit nervous today. 454 00:20:21,039 --> 00:20:22,259 I'm not normally but today, 455 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:24,899 I'm a little bit nervous, you know? 456 00:20:24,999 --> 00:20:27,119 - [Interviewer] Why are you nervous today do you think? 457 00:20:28,039 --> 00:20:30,179 What if I don't perform? 458 00:20:30,279 --> 00:20:31,619 What if I took out my dick and she was like, 459 00:20:31,719 --> 00:20:33,619 oh it's not actually that big? 460 00:20:33,719 --> 00:20:35,939 (calm music) 461 00:20:36,039 --> 00:20:39,139 She seems like a lovely girl, she's very attractive so. 462 00:20:39,239 --> 00:20:41,619 And I'm sure Tommy's gonna be a great sideman. 463 00:20:41,719 --> 00:20:45,099 (lively music) 464 00:20:45,199 --> 00:20:48,139 [Bonnie] Okay then. 465 00:20:48,239 --> 00:20:50,639 (calm music) 466 00:20:59,719 --> 00:21:00,699 (door clanks) 467 00:21:00,799 --> 00:21:03,299 (bird twitters) 468 00:21:15,439 --> 00:21:17,019 - [Interviewer] Was she impressed by the size? 469 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:18,419 [Andy] She was impressed yeah. 470 00:21:18,519 --> 00:21:20,099 [Interviewer] She was happy with that? 471 00:21:20,199 --> 00:21:21,939 Yeah, she seemed very happy. 472 00:21:22,039 --> 00:21:25,259 She seemed very, very happy, so. 473 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,459 (lively music) 474 00:21:28,559 --> 00:21:31,259 - [Narrator] Bonnie's appetite for larger sized men 475 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,720 means she's always looking for the next big thing. 476 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,220 [Bonnie] Continue to look for more 477 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:41,340 'cause I'm greedy like that. 478 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:42,940 - [Interviewer] And how does that make you feel? 479 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:46,260 - Like as a guy you're always worried, is it big enough? 480 00:21:46,360 --> 00:21:49,020 Sure there's guys with you know much bigger dicks than me 481 00:21:49,120 --> 00:21:51,660 that are still like is it big enough, is it big enough? 482 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,260 'Cause I think it's like, it's a guy thing, innit.? 483 00:21:54,360 --> 00:21:57,460 - I'm not sorry about saying that I want guys 484 00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:58,740 that have got big dicks. 485 00:21:58,840 --> 00:21:59,980 - No. - No. 486 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:01,300 Just saying what you want, innit? 487 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:02,240 - Yeah, just saying - Like plenty of men say 488 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:03,040 - what I want. what they want, 489 00:22:03,120 --> 00:22:04,740 - and ah, I wouldn't shag her - Yeah, I get it all the time. 490 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:06,020 - and stuff like that. - Oh like, your boobs 491 00:22:06,120 --> 00:22:07,140 aren't big enough. 492 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:11,100 I think women's bodies are constantly fetishised 493 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:13,980 and men definitely don't get it to the same degree 494 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:15,900 as what a woman does. 495 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,100 You cannot control your anatomy. 496 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:19,500 - No. - Which I suppose is me 497 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,220 being a bit contradictory like, 498 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:23,700 a guy can't control his anatomy 499 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:25,860 and like what size his dick is, but. 500 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,500 I think for guys it's a really, 501 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,420 - it's a touchy subject. - It's a touchy subject yeah. 502 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:30,620 It doesn't matter who you are. 503 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,940 - I appreciate that but then what I would say is, 504 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,160 like do something and work on your ego, like. 505 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,920 (calm music) 506 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,500 [Narrator] Scott is looking for love, 507 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,020 but has previously had problems with intimacy 508 00:22:47,120 --> 00:22:49,120 due to his size. 509 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,540 - Been a couple of times where we've been dating for a while 510 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,860 and then when it gets to the sex, 511 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:55,960 that's when things struggle. 512 00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,740 You know you try, and you try and you keep trying 513 00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:03,480 until you try, you know, till it works, but it just doesn't. 514 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:06,380 (lively music) 515 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,780 - [Narrator] Tonight, he's going on a date with Malina, 516 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:10,740 who doesn't know about his size, 517 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,680 which means that Scott can break the news himself. 518 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,540 - It's not something I'd normally reveal on the first date. 519 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,661 But I think I'm at that point in my life now 520 00:23:20,761 --> 00:23:22,501 where I don't wanna mess around, 521 00:23:22,601 --> 00:23:25,141 I wanna get things right and get things out in the open. 522 00:23:25,241 --> 00:23:27,101 (lively music) 523 00:23:27,201 --> 00:23:30,681 Applying something that's good for the shaft. 524 00:23:31,881 --> 00:23:34,621 It's a sort of penile moisturiser. 525 00:23:34,721 --> 00:23:35,901 I do this quite regularly to be honest. 526 00:23:36,001 --> 00:23:38,081 It just feels, just feels good. 527 00:23:41,081 --> 00:23:43,721 (bouncy music) 528 00:23:45,401 --> 00:23:48,561 - You look great. - Thank you, you too. 529 00:23:50,081 --> 00:23:51,621 - Cheers. - Cheers, thanks for 530 00:23:51,721 --> 00:23:53,261 - inviting me out tonight. - Good to see you. 531 00:23:53,361 --> 00:23:55,401 - No, my pleasure. - Great to see you too. 532 00:23:56,681 --> 00:23:58,421 What job are you doing now? 533 00:23:58,521 --> 00:24:00,421 I am going into property development. 534 00:24:00,521 --> 00:24:02,421 Oh, are you? 535 00:24:02,521 --> 00:24:04,421 [Narrator] With the evening going well, 536 00:24:04,521 --> 00:24:07,561 Scott decides to flag up what's on his mind. 537 00:24:08,481 --> 00:24:13,141 - So partly you know I struggle for dating, 538 00:24:13,241 --> 00:24:16,541 if I'm being completely honest is that um, 539 00:24:16,641 --> 00:24:18,221 I have a... 540 00:24:18,321 --> 00:24:20,021 I have a, I have... 541 00:24:20,121 --> 00:24:22,061 I have a big, a big penis. 542 00:24:22,161 --> 00:24:23,181 Okay. 543 00:24:23,281 --> 00:24:25,261 So in all seriousness, so for example 544 00:24:25,361 --> 00:24:27,181 if I'm dating somebody and it goes further 545 00:24:27,281 --> 00:24:29,421 and then they see it, and they're like, oh, 546 00:24:29,521 --> 00:24:30,461 like that's a real problem then 547 00:24:30,561 --> 00:24:32,021 and it causes problems. 548 00:24:32,121 --> 00:24:34,141 And it's just like well maybe that should have 549 00:24:34,241 --> 00:24:35,981 been mentioned before. 550 00:24:36,081 --> 00:24:36,821 Well thank you for 551 00:24:36,921 --> 00:24:37,681 - sharing that with me. - I'd rather, 552 00:24:37,761 --> 00:24:39,421 might not just be a problem for me, 553 00:24:39,521 --> 00:24:41,261 could also be a problem for women 554 00:24:41,361 --> 00:24:44,141 who maybe can't accept the size as well. 555 00:24:44,241 --> 00:24:46,421 And the fact that it might upset you, 556 00:24:46,521 --> 00:24:47,261 that you can't handle it, 557 00:24:47,361 --> 00:24:49,341 and I don't mean you specifically, but you know-- 558 00:24:49,441 --> 00:24:51,541 - I know what you're saying, like females in general 559 00:24:51,641 --> 00:24:52,361 - who are interested - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 560 00:24:52,441 --> 00:24:55,501 [Malina] in a romantic, yeah. 561 00:24:55,601 --> 00:24:56,581 I think we connected really well 562 00:24:56,681 --> 00:24:58,301 because she was able to have that conversation with me 563 00:24:58,401 --> 00:25:00,341 and I felt like, wow that's something different. 564 00:25:00,441 --> 00:25:01,381 Something's not really been, 565 00:25:01,481 --> 00:25:02,861 not really been able to talk about that before. 566 00:25:02,961 --> 00:25:06,401 So just went really well and we were laughing. 567 00:25:07,842 --> 00:25:10,622 I'd say there's a bit of a connection there, yeah. 568 00:25:10,722 --> 00:25:12,622 It's not a topic that you'd necessarily 569 00:25:12,722 --> 00:25:14,942 bring up with people. 570 00:25:15,042 --> 00:25:17,902 Like, I mean if I was to bring up elements 571 00:25:18,002 --> 00:25:20,982 of my private anatomy it is quite private, isn't it? 572 00:25:21,082 --> 00:25:22,902 But I thought if he thought 573 00:25:23,002 --> 00:25:24,582 that things could progress romantically, 574 00:25:24,682 --> 00:25:27,062 is an important thing to bring up. 575 00:25:27,162 --> 00:25:31,262 It's just hard to know really what would happen. 576 00:25:31,362 --> 00:25:32,662 [Interviewer] But never say never. 577 00:25:32,762 --> 00:25:34,762 Well yeah as they say, never say never. 578 00:25:36,082 --> 00:25:37,702 - [Interviewer] So are you gonna ask her on another date? 579 00:25:37,802 --> 00:25:38,702 (Scott laughs) 580 00:25:38,802 --> 00:25:39,822 Am I gonna ask her on another date? 581 00:25:39,922 --> 00:25:41,922 Yeah, yeah, I'd like to. 582 00:25:42,642 --> 00:25:44,922 Tonight went really well, so I'm really happy. 583 00:25:46,962 --> 00:25:48,962 I didn't know my one was bigger 584 00:25:50,442 --> 00:25:52,702 until in my early 20s to be honest 585 00:25:52,802 --> 00:25:56,562 because I'm not really actively looking at hard penises. 586 00:25:58,722 --> 00:26:00,422 Until people started actually commenting on it 587 00:26:00,522 --> 00:26:02,942 and women that I know who had slept with a lot of Black guys 588 00:26:03,042 --> 00:26:05,462 and they're categorically telling me, you're bigger, 589 00:26:05,562 --> 00:26:07,562 that's when I'm thinking hmm. 590 00:26:07,962 --> 00:26:10,942 That's when I realised okay, maybe I'm bigger than average. 591 00:26:11,042 --> 00:26:12,142 (upbeat music) 592 00:26:12,242 --> 00:26:14,582 [Narrator] 27 year old YouTuber Cam, 593 00:26:14,682 --> 00:26:18,462 has felt objectified for his size all his adult life. 594 00:26:18,562 --> 00:26:21,062 Something that has led him to create videos 595 00:26:21,162 --> 00:26:23,162 exploring these taboos. 596 00:26:24,682 --> 00:26:26,742 - The main reason why I actually started my YouTube channel 597 00:26:26,842 --> 00:26:28,622 was because I actually wanted to tackle 598 00:26:28,722 --> 00:26:30,782 difficult and controversial topics. 599 00:26:30,882 --> 00:26:33,342 The first topic that I felt I had to address 600 00:26:33,442 --> 00:26:36,502 was race related and specifically the fetishisation 601 00:26:36,602 --> 00:26:37,382 of Black men. 602 00:26:37,482 --> 00:26:39,542 Is it true that all Black men seem to have 603 00:26:39,642 --> 00:26:42,202 a bigger penis than other races for example? 604 00:26:43,362 --> 00:26:46,742 Between me and my friends, we've got thousands of examples. 605 00:26:46,842 --> 00:26:48,222 It usually kind of shows itself 606 00:26:48,322 --> 00:26:50,102 when you're talking to a girl 607 00:26:50,202 --> 00:26:54,382 and they always make it known what their preference is. 608 00:26:54,482 --> 00:26:56,223 And they seem to think that's a compliment, 609 00:26:56,323 --> 00:26:58,023 but it really isn't. 610 00:26:58,123 --> 00:27:00,423 For example, I was talking to a girl. 611 00:27:00,523 --> 00:27:02,823 The white girl made it very, very clear, 612 00:27:02,923 --> 00:27:04,383 she categorically said, "Oh you know, 613 00:27:04,483 --> 00:27:07,743 I don't date white guys, I only go for Black guys." 614 00:27:07,843 --> 00:27:10,823 That is obviously an example of fetishisation. 615 00:27:10,923 --> 00:27:12,663 (calm music) 616 00:27:12,763 --> 00:27:14,103 Framing, that's perfect. 617 00:27:14,203 --> 00:27:15,023 What's going on people? 618 00:27:15,123 --> 00:27:16,623 Did 'ya miss you boy, Cam Topical Juice 619 00:27:16,723 --> 00:27:18,303 and I'm back with another video for y'all. 620 00:27:18,403 --> 00:27:20,583 Talking about the fetishisation of Black men. 621 00:27:20,683 --> 00:27:23,663 Believe that a lot of this does come from pornography. 622 00:27:23,763 --> 00:27:26,703 - [Narrator] Fed up with the depiction of Black men in porn, 623 00:27:26,803 --> 00:27:28,863 Cam decides to make a new video 624 00:27:28,963 --> 00:27:32,663 exploring the big Black cock fetish. 625 00:27:32,763 --> 00:27:36,623 - BBC isn't the broadcasting company, it is, 626 00:27:36,723 --> 00:27:38,923 it stands for big Black cock. 627 00:27:39,883 --> 00:27:41,943 Just, I basically just tapped in BBC. 628 00:27:42,043 --> 00:27:44,043 This is just on one random porn site 629 00:27:45,003 --> 00:27:47,303 and it's got 85,101 results. 630 00:27:47,403 --> 00:27:50,303 So you've got related search, BBC rough, BBC orgasm, 631 00:27:50,403 --> 00:27:53,343 Black cock, BBC gangbang, BBC threesomes, blat. 632 00:27:53,443 --> 00:27:56,303 Oh how I didn't mention this in my videos, blat. 633 00:27:56,403 --> 00:27:58,183 And look at the common theme, it's all, 634 00:27:58,283 --> 00:28:00,263 it's Black men but look at the women. 635 00:28:00,363 --> 00:28:02,143 It's not ebony women, what they call it, 636 00:28:02,243 --> 00:28:04,223 that's a porn character, ebony's, not Black women, 637 00:28:04,323 --> 00:28:08,223 it's white women all being drilled by big Black cocks, 638 00:28:08,323 --> 00:28:09,423 you know by BBCs'. 639 00:28:09,523 --> 00:28:11,783 It really kind of makes you feel like, you know, 640 00:28:11,883 --> 00:28:12,823 less of a human type thing 641 00:28:12,923 --> 00:28:15,663 because I feel like a lot of women 642 00:28:15,763 --> 00:28:17,383 should be able to empathise with this a lot 643 00:28:17,483 --> 00:28:20,583 because women are sexualised heavily in society. 644 00:28:20,683 --> 00:28:21,503 You know the male gaze. 645 00:28:21,603 --> 00:28:23,703 We're just looking at women as sexual objects. 646 00:28:23,803 --> 00:28:25,983 Women don't like that, they kinda feel used. 647 00:28:26,083 --> 00:28:28,183 I feel exactly the same. 648 00:28:28,283 --> 00:28:29,023 (sad music) 649 00:28:29,123 --> 00:28:31,103 - Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get objectified all the time. 650 00:28:31,203 --> 00:28:32,143 It's happened to me a few times, 651 00:28:32,243 --> 00:28:33,063 like I'd fall out with someone 652 00:28:33,163 --> 00:28:35,463 and then they'll like hollah back at me 653 00:28:35,563 --> 00:28:36,503 and like get in touch. 654 00:28:36,603 --> 00:28:38,583 It's not to know how I'm doing, do you know what I mean? 655 00:28:38,683 --> 00:28:40,183 But because of what's down there, 656 00:28:40,283 --> 00:28:42,544 and then you're just like, ah. 657 00:28:42,644 --> 00:28:45,304 - The fetishisation of the willy is in my head, 658 00:28:45,404 --> 00:28:48,144 I'm like right okay, we can't let the team down 659 00:28:48,244 --> 00:28:51,064 because obviously you know it's not true. 660 00:28:51,164 --> 00:28:53,704 Like they say oh yeah, Black men have bigger willies. 661 00:28:53,804 --> 00:28:55,424 They really don't, but in my head, 662 00:28:55,524 --> 00:28:56,864 I'm like since I'm gonna represent this, 663 00:28:56,964 --> 00:28:59,564 let's keep the stereotype going. 664 00:29:01,524 --> 00:29:04,204 (sombre music) 665 00:29:08,204 --> 00:29:10,064 [Narrator] Matt feels he has been used 666 00:29:10,164 --> 00:29:13,724 only for his large penis in previous relationships. 667 00:29:14,564 --> 00:29:17,224 There was one girl who was very into me 668 00:29:17,324 --> 00:29:18,544 being at my biggest. 669 00:29:18,644 --> 00:29:23,744 So she found online, she ordered me a custom penis pump 670 00:29:23,844 --> 00:29:27,744 that I could use to be basically as hard 671 00:29:27,844 --> 00:29:28,984 as long as she wanted it to be. 672 00:29:29,084 --> 00:29:32,744 You know I want to see it fully erect and obviously that, 673 00:29:32,844 --> 00:29:34,464 the only way to do that is with pumping. 674 00:29:34,564 --> 00:29:37,064 It's something to maintain an erection. 675 00:29:37,164 --> 00:29:38,384 Creates a vacuum seal 676 00:29:38,484 --> 00:29:40,744 and then even if you're not particularly aroused, 677 00:29:40,844 --> 00:29:43,364 you end up filling up the tube. 678 00:29:44,444 --> 00:29:46,064 She'd be doing the cooking, 679 00:29:46,164 --> 00:29:48,584 I would be encouraged to fill this up 680 00:29:48,684 --> 00:29:50,104 and then you can unplug it 681 00:29:50,204 --> 00:29:52,744 and then you can go about your daily business. 682 00:29:52,844 --> 00:29:54,344 She'd be able to sort of look at me 683 00:29:54,444 --> 00:29:56,504 like some sort of phallic totem pole 684 00:29:56,604 --> 00:29:59,704 while we were you know watching TV or playing scrabble 685 00:29:59,804 --> 00:30:03,604 or doing whatever mundane evening activities she wanted. 686 00:30:04,524 --> 00:30:05,584 And when you're in that situation, 687 00:30:05,684 --> 00:30:06,544 obviously you're very exposed 688 00:30:06,644 --> 00:30:09,424 and it's perhaps flattering to get that level of attention 689 00:30:09,524 --> 00:30:13,584 but also, it's very, degrading to be you know, 690 00:30:13,684 --> 00:30:15,684 expected to perform like that. 691 00:30:16,284 --> 00:30:17,904 (calm music) 692 00:30:18,004 --> 00:30:20,584 She was a size obsessed woman obviously 693 00:30:20,684 --> 00:30:23,384 and she ended up just showing my pictures around 694 00:30:23,484 --> 00:30:24,544 without my consent 695 00:30:24,644 --> 00:30:26,384 and that was obviously pretty hurtful as well. 696 00:30:26,484 --> 00:30:28,624 Like you know, no one wants to be treated 697 00:30:28,724 --> 00:30:30,545 like a piece of meat. 698 00:30:30,645 --> 00:30:33,025 (calm music) 699 00:30:33,125 --> 00:30:35,905 - [Narrator] To find true love, Matt is considering 700 00:30:36,005 --> 00:30:38,705 a drastic solution for his problem 701 00:30:38,805 --> 00:30:41,505 and has plucked up the courage to visit a surgeon 702 00:30:41,605 --> 00:30:45,425 specialising in penis reduction surgery. 703 00:30:45,525 --> 00:30:50,185 He's meeting Dr. Jakovich, a specialist in urology. 704 00:30:50,285 --> 00:30:53,485 - Exciting but I don't know what he can do. 705 00:30:55,565 --> 00:30:57,105 I always feel a bit you know, 706 00:30:57,205 --> 00:30:59,205 am I big enough for a reduction? 707 00:30:59,805 --> 00:31:01,905 I guess just to know what the options are realistically 708 00:31:02,005 --> 00:31:03,665 at this point. 709 00:31:03,765 --> 00:31:05,625 I mean if he can just take you know an inch off, 710 00:31:05,725 --> 00:31:07,725 that might be life changing. 711 00:31:08,765 --> 00:31:11,745 Obviously nervous because you get a bit squeamish 712 00:31:11,845 --> 00:31:13,845 when you're thinking about what could be happening. 713 00:31:14,845 --> 00:31:17,245 I just wanna know what it entails. 714 00:31:18,885 --> 00:31:20,885 Hello, hi. 715 00:31:21,285 --> 00:31:24,025 Can you explain to me what the reason is for this 716 00:31:24,125 --> 00:31:25,825 well let's say unusual request 717 00:31:25,925 --> 00:31:29,265 because most people are looking for penal enlargement 718 00:31:29,365 --> 00:31:31,145 and you're looking the opposite? 719 00:31:31,245 --> 00:31:32,905 I've had a lot of issues in my life. 720 00:31:33,005 --> 00:31:35,585 I think I've never had, I know I'll never you know 721 00:31:35,685 --> 00:31:37,785 find a partner who is that perfect fit, 722 00:31:37,885 --> 00:31:39,145 I think at the current size. 723 00:31:39,245 --> 00:31:42,065 And it would be good just to maybe just have 724 00:31:42,165 --> 00:31:43,385 a slight reduction. 725 00:31:43,485 --> 00:31:46,345 - What we can offer to you is a reasonable reduction 726 00:31:46,445 --> 00:31:48,985 in length and girth if this is what you're looking for. 727 00:31:49,085 --> 00:31:49,825 [Matt] Yes. 728 00:31:49,925 --> 00:31:53,305 - And then the surgery will be done in erection 729 00:31:53,405 --> 00:31:58,405 and then we do the amputation of that amount 730 00:31:59,205 --> 00:32:00,785 what is your desire. 731 00:32:00,885 --> 00:32:02,085 - 'Cause I'm definitely at the point where I don't know 732 00:32:02,165 --> 00:32:05,105 how much I would sensibly want to remove. 733 00:32:05,205 --> 00:32:06,705 I'm assuming you couldn't just take a little bit off 734 00:32:06,805 --> 00:32:09,665 and then a little bit more off the surgery theoretically? 735 00:32:09,765 --> 00:32:11,065 Don't know if you'd do that but-- 736 00:32:11,165 --> 00:32:13,345 We can't do the salami technique, 737 00:32:13,445 --> 00:32:15,185 we can't cut a little bit 738 00:32:15,285 --> 00:32:17,986 - each year to cut a little bit. - Yeah, yeah, I figured, yeah. 739 00:32:18,086 --> 00:32:19,906 So once we've done it, that's it. 740 00:32:20,006 --> 00:32:22,426 Is it possible, can I see your penis? 741 00:32:22,526 --> 00:32:24,526 [Matt] Yes. 742 00:32:25,126 --> 00:32:26,706 - [Dr. Jakovich] What size do you have an erection? 743 00:32:26,806 --> 00:32:27,906 [Matt] It's about 10.5, yeah. 744 00:32:28,006 --> 00:32:30,186 - [Dr. Jakovich] What would be the appropriate length 745 00:32:30,286 --> 00:32:31,146 of your penis? 746 00:32:31,246 --> 00:32:32,126 I don't know, I think of going down 747 00:32:32,206 --> 00:32:33,986 to even just like nine or eight and a half. 748 00:32:34,086 --> 00:32:36,106 Nine inches and reduction in girth is, 749 00:32:36,206 --> 00:32:38,506 how much, what do you think? 750 00:32:38,606 --> 00:32:40,666 [Matt] Probably about an inch or two? 751 00:32:40,766 --> 00:32:42,066 - An inch on circumference? - Yeah. 752 00:32:42,166 --> 00:32:43,786 - This is definitely possible. - Yeah. 753 00:32:43,886 --> 00:32:47,946 - We put it in erection, the corporal body, you see here? 754 00:32:48,046 --> 00:32:51,546 We fill it completely and then the measures are taken, 755 00:32:51,646 --> 00:32:53,646 then this will be amputated, 756 00:32:54,366 --> 00:32:58,386 take off this part and then put everything together 757 00:32:58,486 --> 00:33:01,086 and this is now in complete erection. 758 00:33:02,286 --> 00:33:03,266 First of all you should know 759 00:33:03,366 --> 00:33:06,146 that they are performed very seldomly 760 00:33:06,246 --> 00:33:11,246 because there is no clear statistics regarding success rate 761 00:33:11,566 --> 00:33:15,966 and more clear statistic regarding the complication rate. 762 00:33:17,286 --> 00:33:20,946 But we have for year, two or three of these patients 763 00:33:21,046 --> 00:33:22,786 performing this type of surgery. 764 00:33:22,886 --> 00:33:24,886 Thank you. 765 00:33:25,526 --> 00:33:28,146 I did not realise the sheer number of complications, 766 00:33:28,246 --> 00:33:33,306 the possible difficulties, the lack of an exact removal. 767 00:33:33,406 --> 00:33:35,586 Just having spoken to someone who knows the subject so well, 768 00:33:35,686 --> 00:33:37,686 give me that reassurance. 769 00:33:38,086 --> 00:33:39,306 It's definitely an extreme solution, 770 00:33:39,406 --> 00:33:41,986 but it is certainly something I could be considering. 771 00:33:42,086 --> 00:33:43,546 (calm music) 772 00:33:43,646 --> 00:33:46,286 - So sometimes, I do wish I was a little bit smaller. 773 00:33:47,806 --> 00:33:49,986 I would probably still be in one or two of my relationships 774 00:33:50,086 --> 00:33:52,866 from the past if I had a smaller penis, you know? 775 00:33:52,966 --> 00:33:55,826 So, yeah, sometimes I do wish I had, 776 00:33:55,926 --> 00:33:57,926 I was a smaller size, yeah. 777 00:33:58,606 --> 00:34:00,606 It's not difficult to attract love. 778 00:34:02,126 --> 00:34:04,126 Might be somewhat difficult 779 00:34:06,767 --> 00:34:08,107 keeping it, you know? 780 00:34:08,207 --> 00:34:12,427 Like, just depending on how that partner, 781 00:34:12,527 --> 00:34:15,107 in how sex is affected with that partner for example. 782 00:34:15,207 --> 00:34:17,307 If it's something that you know, 783 00:34:17,407 --> 00:34:20,547 if you know she loves, you know the situation that's there, 784 00:34:20,647 --> 00:34:21,907 then incredible. 785 00:34:22,007 --> 00:34:24,427 But if it's a problem, then that's, 786 00:34:24,527 --> 00:34:26,467 I don't wanna say oh red flag, she can't take dick. 787 00:34:26,567 --> 00:34:28,027 You know what I mean like that's not what I'd say, 788 00:34:28,127 --> 00:34:30,687 but it's more like a, it's definitely amber. 789 00:34:33,087 --> 00:34:35,607 (calm music) 790 00:34:40,007 --> 00:34:42,887 - The date with Malina, it went really well, 791 00:34:45,327 --> 00:34:47,307 but there just wasn't quite that connection 792 00:34:47,407 --> 00:34:50,567 in the end I think, so we've parted ways. 793 00:34:51,607 --> 00:34:53,507 [Narrator] Scott's very large penis 794 00:34:53,607 --> 00:34:57,447 has often meant sex has been difficult in his relationships 795 00:34:58,447 --> 00:35:00,767 but at last, things are looking up. 796 00:35:02,367 --> 00:35:04,387 Had a new date since. 797 00:35:04,487 --> 00:35:06,787 I just met somebody on a random night out, 798 00:35:06,887 --> 00:35:08,347 we went on a date last night 799 00:35:08,447 --> 00:35:11,427 and it went really well, I think anyway. 800 00:35:11,527 --> 00:35:13,827 I'd like to see where things go with that, if I'm honest. 801 00:35:13,927 --> 00:35:16,787 (calm music) 802 00:35:16,887 --> 00:35:19,287 But while I was with her, dancing with her, 803 00:35:20,847 --> 00:35:22,627 one of the guys went up to her and just basically said, 804 00:35:22,727 --> 00:35:23,867 "Yeah Scott's got a big cock." 805 00:35:23,967 --> 00:35:24,987 I was quite annoyed about it 806 00:35:25,087 --> 00:35:27,787 'cause again I don't want people to know me because of that, 807 00:35:27,887 --> 00:35:30,087 I want people to know me for my personality. 808 00:35:31,967 --> 00:35:34,027 [Narrator] As well as ruining his date, 809 00:35:34,127 --> 00:35:37,747 the videos of Scott's penis continue to do the rounds 810 00:35:37,847 --> 00:35:39,847 and it's getting him down. 811 00:35:40,567 --> 00:35:42,187 - One of the guys created something recently, 812 00:35:42,287 --> 00:35:44,187 a new group on WhatsApp. 813 00:35:44,287 --> 00:35:46,227 He goes, "Oh the video came out." 814 00:35:46,327 --> 00:35:48,467 And then one of the guys asked, "Which video?". 815 00:35:48,567 --> 00:35:50,107 He replied, "Weymouth one, 816 00:35:50,207 --> 00:35:51,707 where he comes out of the shower." 817 00:35:51,807 --> 00:35:53,388 And one of the guys goes, "Oh I've got it." 818 00:35:53,488 --> 00:35:54,828 and the other guy goes, 819 00:35:54,928 --> 00:35:58,028 "Oh yeah, I've got that in my prank wank bank." 820 00:35:58,128 --> 00:35:59,868 They've taken it without me knowing, 821 00:35:59,968 --> 00:36:02,228 just there casually having a shower, 822 00:36:02,328 --> 00:36:07,108 come out afterwards, getting changed and that happens. 823 00:36:07,208 --> 00:36:09,348 So that sort of stuff just gets sent around. 824 00:36:09,448 --> 00:36:11,788 That's not what I wanna be known for. 825 00:36:11,888 --> 00:36:13,388 - [Interviewer] Why have you put up with it for so long? 826 00:36:13,488 --> 00:36:15,068 Why have you not said anything? 827 00:36:15,168 --> 00:36:17,228 - Maybe I don't say it enough that actually, 828 00:36:17,328 --> 00:36:20,508 come on guys, let's put a stop for the, you know? 829 00:36:20,608 --> 00:36:21,708 Don't take it without my consent. 830 00:36:21,808 --> 00:36:22,948 You know enough's enough really. 831 00:36:23,048 --> 00:36:26,708 So I've gotta give my mate a call and have a chat with him. 832 00:36:26,808 --> 00:36:29,628 (intense music) 833 00:36:29,728 --> 00:36:32,388 Would it be okay to catch up with you? 834 00:36:33,408 --> 00:36:35,068 Bye. 835 00:36:35,168 --> 00:36:38,548 (intense music) 836 00:36:38,648 --> 00:36:40,648 So we'll see what happens. 837 00:36:41,008 --> 00:36:43,028 [Narrator] YouTuber Cam is exploring 838 00:36:43,128 --> 00:36:45,068 the fetishisation of Black men 839 00:36:45,168 --> 00:36:47,468 for a new video for his channel. 840 00:36:47,568 --> 00:36:48,668 I'm expecting big dicks, 841 00:36:48,768 --> 00:36:50,228 expecting women to be throwing themselves 842 00:36:50,328 --> 00:36:52,068 at these Black men on the stage. 843 00:36:52,168 --> 00:36:53,268 Let's see what happens. 844 00:36:53,368 --> 00:36:54,908 [Narrator] Tonight he's visiting 845 00:36:55,008 --> 00:36:56,908 and all male Black strip show 846 00:36:57,008 --> 00:36:58,708 to find out what's so fascinating 847 00:36:58,808 --> 00:37:00,148 to the women in the audience. 848 00:37:00,248 --> 00:37:02,248 This the whole shit. 849 00:37:02,808 --> 00:37:03,668 Let's go. 850 00:37:03,768 --> 00:37:05,768 Two, one. 851 00:37:06,448 --> 00:37:09,008 (women cheer) 852 00:37:11,448 --> 00:37:13,108 - [Narrator] To keep the audience satisfied 853 00:37:13,208 --> 00:37:15,708 and to live up to the stereotype of the Black man, 854 00:37:15,808 --> 00:37:18,168 the performers go to great lengths. 855 00:37:20,568 --> 00:37:21,828 It's just like an air vacuum 856 00:37:21,928 --> 00:37:24,548 because there's nothing here to arouse us, 857 00:37:24,648 --> 00:37:26,108 like women or whatever, 858 00:37:26,208 --> 00:37:28,748 we have to stimulate that effect somehow. 859 00:37:28,848 --> 00:37:31,648 So we use these pumps to get all the blood in the penis 860 00:37:32,808 --> 00:37:35,588 and then tie off the base so the blood stays in 861 00:37:35,688 --> 00:37:40,309 'cause if your performance is 20 minutes, 25 minutes, 862 00:37:40,409 --> 00:37:43,109 nobody's really looking to see a soft penis. 863 00:37:43,209 --> 00:37:43,949 (upbeat music) 864 00:37:44,049 --> 00:37:46,309 ♪ Not with a ladder, can't reach me ♪ 865 00:37:46,409 --> 00:37:49,149 ♪ That has done better on the Davey ♪ 866 00:37:49,249 --> 00:37:53,349 ♪ Stop, one more game on the best V ♪ 867 00:38:06,289 --> 00:38:08,989 - [Narrator] Having felt fetishised himself in the past, 868 00:38:09,089 --> 00:38:11,369 Cam wants to know what the appeal is. 869 00:38:12,209 --> 00:38:15,189 - This idea of BBC, the fetishisation of things, 870 00:38:15,289 --> 00:38:17,749 what's your opinion on it? 871 00:38:17,849 --> 00:38:19,429 Black mean having big dicks for example, 872 00:38:19,529 --> 00:38:20,469 is that true? 873 00:38:20,569 --> 00:38:21,569 - I must say they're not all the same size. 874 00:38:21,649 --> 00:38:22,869 [Cam] Ah cool, cool, cool, cool, 875 00:38:22,969 --> 00:38:24,049 - cool, cool, cool, cool. - They're not all massive, 876 00:38:24,129 --> 00:38:25,629 I think it is very much a stereotype. 877 00:38:25,729 --> 00:38:26,589 [Cam] Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 878 00:38:26,689 --> 00:38:27,409 - no I agree. - But for me personally, 879 00:38:27,489 --> 00:38:29,669 I've been with some guys that have got small penises. 880 00:38:29,769 --> 00:38:34,769 - [Cam] They've got small, and they're Black as well, yeah? 881 00:38:35,289 --> 00:38:38,589 What's the pros and cons of a big penis? 882 00:38:38,689 --> 00:38:39,949 I mean pros is to say that yeah, 883 00:38:40,049 --> 00:38:41,869 you took a big, big penis. 884 00:38:41,969 --> 00:38:44,349 - Oh, okay, okay. - You can handle that I guess. 885 00:38:44,449 --> 00:38:45,909 - So now to be fair because the reason I ask 886 00:38:46,009 --> 00:38:48,669 is because what's your opinion on say for example, 887 00:38:48,769 --> 00:38:51,709 white women that only go for Black men for instance? 888 00:38:51,809 --> 00:38:52,829 I feel like if you're, 889 00:38:52,929 --> 00:38:54,309 the only reason you're going for Black men 890 00:38:54,409 --> 00:38:55,669 is 'cause you think they got a big dick, 891 00:38:55,769 --> 00:38:57,509 then you need to educate yourself. 892 00:38:57,609 --> 00:38:58,669 [Cam] Okay. 893 00:38:58,769 --> 00:39:01,409 (upbeat music) 894 00:39:02,969 --> 00:39:04,349 Being a white woman for example, 895 00:39:04,449 --> 00:39:05,389 what is it like about Black men 896 00:39:05,489 --> 00:39:06,829 that you are attracted to now? 897 00:39:06,929 --> 00:39:09,249 - I mean you saw what was on the stage, right? 898 00:39:10,809 --> 00:39:13,069 If I had to choose between a lot, 899 00:39:13,169 --> 00:39:17,789 like a medium to a larger size than a small, 900 00:39:17,889 --> 00:39:18,769 - then I probably would go - You're gonna go 901 00:39:18,849 --> 00:39:22,469 - for a medium to large size. - for the bigger, okay, yeah. 902 00:39:22,569 --> 00:39:24,469 (women cheer) 903 00:39:24,569 --> 00:39:26,469 If for example a Black guy doesn't have 904 00:39:26,569 --> 00:39:27,349 a big penis for example, 905 00:39:27,449 --> 00:39:28,990 do you think it's a bit of fun to him, for example, 906 00:39:29,090 --> 00:39:30,790 that there's this narrative that all Black men 907 00:39:30,890 --> 00:39:32,250 must have big dicks, but actually there's a lot of men 908 00:39:32,330 --> 00:39:33,430 out there that don't have big dicks? 909 00:39:33,530 --> 00:39:35,390 - As a woman, you have to take responsibility 910 00:39:35,490 --> 00:39:37,870 to support your man 911 00:39:37,970 --> 00:39:40,710 and say you know I like you the way you are, 912 00:39:40,810 --> 00:39:43,150 but if you don't like the guy the way he is, 913 00:39:43,250 --> 00:39:44,950 then you have to move on. 914 00:39:45,050 --> 00:39:47,730 (upbeat music) 915 00:39:50,010 --> 00:39:51,430 One of the major things I've learnt 916 00:39:51,530 --> 00:39:54,790 is that people who have a preference for example, 917 00:39:54,890 --> 00:39:56,830 especially if they kind of fetishise a certain race, 918 00:39:56,930 --> 00:39:58,790 they'll always do mental hula hoops 919 00:39:58,890 --> 00:40:01,150 to kind of rationalise it and justify it in their minds. 920 00:40:01,250 --> 00:40:03,790 A lot of these women, I think secretly they do like the idea 921 00:40:03,890 --> 00:40:05,990 of this BBC type thing, but not all of them do. 922 00:40:06,090 --> 00:40:07,670 One of the white women that I actually interviewed, 923 00:40:07,770 --> 00:40:09,230 she made about actually, 924 00:40:09,330 --> 00:40:11,230 it's just about making men feel comfortable 925 00:40:11,330 --> 00:40:13,110 no matter what their size. 926 00:40:13,210 --> 00:40:15,510 (upbeat music) 927 00:40:23,970 --> 00:40:27,910 This belief is much more common amongst younger Brits. 928 00:40:28,010 --> 00:40:29,950 - [Tracy] I think it's a really good way to judge 929 00:40:30,050 --> 00:40:34,210 the honesty of a man, to actually say what is your size? 930 00:40:35,570 --> 00:40:37,670 Now prove it. 931 00:40:37,770 --> 00:40:39,770 So that one's for girth. 932 00:40:40,970 --> 00:40:43,390 - It's an old fashioned idea that the bigger the cock, 933 00:40:43,490 --> 00:40:44,430 the bigger the man. 934 00:40:44,530 --> 00:40:49,070 And it seems to be that a big cock 935 00:40:49,170 --> 00:40:53,910 equals like a really, really manly person. 936 00:40:54,010 --> 00:40:57,070 - No such thing as an alpha male, that's a complete fad. 937 00:40:57,170 --> 00:40:59,630 There were a lot of positive to having a big penis, 938 00:40:59,730 --> 00:41:02,550 but I don't think having a big penis 939 00:41:02,650 --> 00:41:05,830 should make anyone feel, 940 00:41:05,930 --> 00:41:08,850 we shouldn't be any less of a man if I had a smaller penis. 941 00:41:12,970 --> 00:41:15,591 (calm music) 942 00:41:15,691 --> 00:41:17,551 - [Narrator] Scott's had enough of the banter 943 00:41:17,651 --> 00:41:21,091 and relentless sharing of pictures amongst his teammates. 944 00:41:23,411 --> 00:41:25,151 He's meeting his mate Alec 945 00:41:25,251 --> 00:41:27,751 in the hope that something will change. 946 00:41:27,851 --> 00:41:30,391 (intense music) 947 00:41:30,491 --> 00:41:32,111 It's to do with obviously my penis 948 00:41:32,211 --> 00:41:34,751 and bit of banter about you and the guys 949 00:41:34,851 --> 00:41:37,111 and you are one of the main sort of forefront of it. 950 00:41:37,211 --> 00:41:39,831 And I feel at times, I feel a bit objectified 951 00:41:39,931 --> 00:41:42,871 and it's sort of hampered my dating scene locally 952 00:41:42,971 --> 00:41:44,271 because everyone knows about it. 953 00:41:44,371 --> 00:41:46,111 I think it's more a celebration though. 954 00:41:46,211 --> 00:41:47,471 I think if you're honest Scott, 955 00:41:47,571 --> 00:41:50,031 I think you like a little bit of the notoriety of it. 956 00:41:50,131 --> 00:41:51,431 I can understand it could hamper you, 957 00:41:51,531 --> 00:41:53,751 but I think it could also really benefit you as well. 958 00:41:53,851 --> 00:41:55,151 - How would you feel if that was, you know, 959 00:41:55,251 --> 00:41:57,071 your dick being shown around? 960 00:41:57,171 --> 00:41:58,111 I think I'd love it. 961 00:41:58,211 --> 00:41:59,231 - You'd lap it up? - Yeah. 962 00:41:59,331 --> 00:42:00,991 - It's when pictures are taken and videos are taken 963 00:42:01,091 --> 00:42:01,871 that aren't consented, 964 00:42:01,971 --> 00:42:04,711 that get sent to my mates' work colleagues 965 00:42:04,811 --> 00:42:05,931 and people just know Scott Newman for that 966 00:42:06,011 --> 00:42:08,751 and put all around Dorset and Somerset. 967 00:42:08,851 --> 00:42:09,871 Listen I know that the guys, 968 00:42:09,971 --> 00:42:11,111 it is in good humour. 969 00:42:11,211 --> 00:42:11,971 Just imagine if it was like, 970 00:42:12,051 --> 00:42:14,271 say your wife's tits being sent around. 971 00:42:14,371 --> 00:42:17,111 - No-one would have access to that. 972 00:42:17,211 --> 00:42:19,151 - No, but then why should they have access to me? 973 00:42:19,251 --> 00:42:20,791 You're in a changing room. 974 00:42:20,891 --> 00:42:23,751 If we're honest around the guys, you're not shy, 975 00:42:23,851 --> 00:42:24,591 not that you have to be. 976 00:42:24,691 --> 00:42:26,031 When I'm in that situation, 977 00:42:26,131 --> 00:42:27,111 I try and say look that's enough, 978 00:42:27,211 --> 00:42:29,991 they just keep going with it or just keeps carrying on. 979 00:42:30,091 --> 00:42:31,511 But I think I'm at that point now, where I'm like. 980 00:42:31,611 --> 00:42:34,591 - I still see it as a positive, but I do understand that. 981 00:42:34,691 --> 00:42:35,431 Yeah, no I appreciate that. 982 00:42:35,531 --> 00:42:37,631 You're subject to a lot of conversation. 983 00:42:37,731 --> 00:42:38,911 - Yeah, I am, and I don't want-- 984 00:42:39,011 --> 00:42:41,071 - The only thing worse than being spoken about 985 00:42:41,171 --> 00:42:42,311 it not being spoken about. 986 00:42:42,411 --> 00:42:43,671 You know that, Scott. 987 00:42:43,771 --> 00:42:45,771 But I will have a word with the guys 988 00:42:46,971 --> 00:42:48,231 if it will make life in the changing room 989 00:42:48,331 --> 00:42:49,991 a little bit easier on match day. 990 00:42:50,091 --> 00:42:51,151 I would definitely appreciate that. 991 00:42:51,251 --> 00:42:53,251 Yeah? 992 00:42:53,971 --> 00:42:55,631 Think it is all done in good humour, 993 00:42:55,731 --> 00:42:58,951 but I can imagine you know when the match has stopped, 994 00:42:59,051 --> 00:43:01,751 the changing rooms are filled and he goes home that 995 00:43:01,851 --> 00:43:05,272 perhaps it does maybe weigh on him a little bit. 996 00:43:05,372 --> 00:43:07,152 I don't think the guys know, I certainly didn't know 997 00:43:07,252 --> 00:43:09,552 and you know I'm glad he brought it to our attention 998 00:43:09,652 --> 00:43:12,792 and you know I probably will perhaps act 999 00:43:12,892 --> 00:43:14,892 a little bit differently. 1000 00:43:15,532 --> 00:43:17,532 I do feel a lot more confident that 1001 00:43:18,612 --> 00:43:21,232 he'll put it towards the lads and subtly and sort of say, 1002 00:43:21,332 --> 00:43:22,952 yeah, you know this is how Scott feels. 1003 00:43:23,052 --> 00:43:26,032 And so I'm hoping that will happen 1004 00:43:26,132 --> 00:43:27,592 and maybe just give me a bit more respect 1005 00:43:27,692 --> 00:43:29,792 and just, you know, just let me know 1006 00:43:29,892 --> 00:43:30,652 if you wanna take a picture or you know 1007 00:43:30,732 --> 00:43:33,412 just don't do it without me not knowing, you know? 1008 00:43:35,692 --> 00:43:39,552 - Oh my God, names for penises that people have told me, 1009 00:43:39,652 --> 00:43:41,792 err little Johnny. 1010 00:43:41,892 --> 00:43:44,272 You know whopper, that's it. 1011 00:43:44,372 --> 00:43:46,932 destroyer, purple headed destroyer. 1012 00:43:48,132 --> 00:43:50,132 Dick, cock. 1013 00:43:52,812 --> 00:43:55,052 - I used to call him Jimmy, I don't know why. 1014 00:43:55,972 --> 00:43:59,312 I think just old willy or in Scotland they say Bobby. 1015 00:43:59,412 --> 00:44:00,592 I think that's just a bit boring, weren't it? 1016 00:44:00,692 --> 00:44:02,272 So, I just gave him like a different name. 1017 00:44:02,372 --> 00:44:03,872 Jimmy, just to add a bit, I don't know why, 1018 00:44:03,972 --> 00:44:05,972 it was a boring name anyway so. 1019 00:44:10,052 --> 00:44:10,812 [Matt] The timings have worked out 1020 00:44:10,892 --> 00:44:12,432 that I've got to phone the doctor now 1021 00:44:12,532 --> 00:44:14,472 to let him know my decision. 1022 00:44:14,572 --> 00:44:16,512 - [Narrator] It's been 20 days since his visit 1023 00:44:16,612 --> 00:44:19,592 to the surgeon to discuss a penis reduction 1024 00:44:19,692 --> 00:44:22,732 and Matt has been carefully considering his options. 1025 00:44:25,292 --> 00:44:27,032 Hello this is Matt calling 1026 00:44:27,132 --> 00:44:29,132 about the recent reduction appointment. 1027 00:44:29,972 --> 00:44:30,752 [Dr. Jakovich] Yeah mate, yeah? 1028 00:44:30,852 --> 00:44:32,912 - Yes, I just wanted to say thank you for your time, 1029 00:44:33,012 --> 00:44:34,592 it was really enlightening, 1030 00:44:34,692 --> 00:44:37,632 but I think you made it very clear, all of the risks 1031 00:44:37,732 --> 00:44:39,512 and until I'm 100% sure, 1032 00:44:39,612 --> 00:44:41,152 I don't think I can really go along with it. 1033 00:44:41,252 --> 00:44:43,252 It's a very severe procedure. 1034 00:44:43,852 --> 00:44:45,792 - [Dr. Jakovich] Yes, and I think it is a good idea 1035 00:44:45,892 --> 00:44:47,712 just because you're not sure now. 1036 00:44:47,812 --> 00:44:49,852 - Thank you, bye. - Cheers, bye. 1037 00:44:51,053 --> 00:44:51,913 (calm music) 1038 00:44:52,013 --> 00:44:55,713 I think what you want is to be good side of average, 1039 00:44:55,813 --> 00:44:58,393 but you should be proud of yourself for who you are, 1040 00:44:58,493 --> 00:44:59,973 what your personality is, what your accomplishments are, 1041 00:45:00,053 --> 00:45:02,053 not for what's between your legs. 1042 00:45:03,013 --> 00:45:05,553 You don't wanna give up too much, still a romantic at heart. 1043 00:45:05,653 --> 00:45:08,033 So you've gotta think there's someone out there for me, 1044 00:45:08,133 --> 00:45:10,453 whether that is a reduced me or not. 1045 00:45:11,893 --> 00:45:15,113 Hopefully I can find enough peace in myself 1046 00:45:15,213 --> 00:45:16,513 with whatever conclusion I come to 1047 00:45:16,613 --> 00:45:18,613 that I will find that person. 1048 00:45:19,493 --> 00:45:21,953 (calm music) 1049 00:45:22,053 --> 00:45:23,753 - That's why it's really important to the carrier 1050 00:45:23,853 --> 00:45:26,473 of a big penis to understand that you know your value 1051 00:45:26,573 --> 00:45:28,913 of self should not be attributed to your penis. 1052 00:45:29,013 --> 00:45:31,193 Like there's a lot more to you than your penis. 1053 00:45:31,293 --> 00:45:33,993 So that's not something that you wanna go, 1054 00:45:34,093 --> 00:45:36,033 bigging up, you know in a conversation. 1055 00:45:36,133 --> 00:45:38,353 There's 1,000 things to bring up 1056 00:45:38,453 --> 00:45:40,533 before bringing up the size of your penis. 1057 00:45:41,893 --> 00:45:44,333 (calm music) 1058 00:46:05,333 --> 00:46:08,573 (calm music continues) 1059 00:46:12,333 --> 00:46:14,873 ♪ Ohh ♪ 1060 00:46:14,973 --> 00:46:16,273 (upbeat music) 1061 00:46:16,373 --> 00:46:21,373 ♪ Ohh, ohh, ohh ♪ 1062 00:46:22,053 --> 00:46:24,293 ♪ Ohh, ohh ♪ 1063 00:46:25,893 --> 00:46:28,893 (calm upbeat music) 1064 00:46:34,213 --> 00:46:36,493 ♪ Ohh, ohh ♪ 1065 00:46:42,414 --> 00:46:44,894 (calm music)