WEBVTT FILE 1 00:00:00.148 --> 00:00:01.288 [Interviewer] Do you have a name for it? 2 00:00:01.388 --> 00:00:03.988 - I like to call him the weapon of ass destruction. 3 00:00:02.000 --> 00:00:07.000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 4 00:00:05.468 --> 00:00:07.008 ♪ Ohh ♪ 5 00:00:07.108 --> 00:00:08.288 (women scream) 6 00:00:08.000 --> 00:00:13.000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 7 00:00:08.388 --> 00:00:10.848 - I just thought Jesus Christ, it's gonna kill me. 8 00:00:10.948 --> 00:00:13.768 - [Narrator] Celebrated from poetry to porn. 9 00:00:13.868 --> 00:00:15.648 Size really matters in my line of work. 10 00:00:15.748 --> 00:00:18.528 - [Narrator] Bigger is often seen as better. 11 00:00:18.628 --> 00:00:21.288 - I'm still always on the look for the next big one 12 00:00:21.388 --> 00:00:22.768 that might tick all the boxes. 13 00:00:22.868 --> 00:00:24.448 There is such a thing as too big. 14 00:00:24.548 --> 00:00:27.208 - [Narrator] But for some, it's not always a blessing. 15 00:00:27.308 --> 00:00:28.208 It's either don't go out 16 00:00:28.308 --> 00:00:30.568 or someone stares at your cock really. 17 00:00:30.668 --> 00:00:33.128 - [Narrator] Instead it can even be a curse. 18 00:00:33.228 --> 00:00:34.968 - People just want your attention because of your penis, 19 00:00:35.068 --> 00:00:35.788 not because of who you are. 20 00:00:35.868 --> 00:00:37.968 - I feel like they're looking at me as if, you know, 21 00:00:38.068 --> 00:00:38.888 you should be ashamed of that. 22 00:00:38.988 --> 00:00:42.408 - [Narrator] Driving some to consider taking extreme action. 23 00:00:42.508 --> 00:00:45.288 - Most people are looking for penal enlargement, 24 00:00:45.388 --> 00:00:47.528 and you're looking the opposite. 25 00:00:47.628 --> 00:00:49.608 I have a big, a big penis. 26 00:00:49.708 --> 00:00:52.088 - [Narrator] When size becomes an obsession. 27 00:00:52.188 --> 00:00:54.048 That was like a eleven incher. 28 00:00:54.148 --> 00:00:56.688 BBC isn't the broadcasting company, 29 00:00:56.788 --> 00:00:58.448 it stands for big Black cock. 30 00:00:58.548 --> 00:01:02.048 - I got offered 400 quid for someone to suck me off once. 31 00:01:02.148 --> 00:01:04.048 [Narrator] And the humiliation. 32 00:01:04.148 --> 00:01:05.488 It really makes you feel like, 33 00:01:05.588 --> 00:01:06.688 you know less of a human. 34 00:01:06.788 --> 00:01:08.408 You're always worried, is it big enough? 35 00:01:08.508 --> 00:01:10.488 - What they want is clearly below the waistline, 36 00:01:10.588 --> 00:01:12.588 they don't care about what's up here. 37 00:01:19.348 --> 00:01:20.268 - [Scott] Right let's just do a little warm-up 38 00:01:20.348 --> 00:01:22.488 round the goals then. 39 00:01:22.588 --> 00:01:24.608 Back to a light jog then. 40 00:01:24.708 --> 00:01:29.288 I'm 35 and my cock is about 9.4 inches erect. 41 00:01:29.388 --> 00:01:32.648 (upbeat music) 42 00:01:34.428 --> 00:01:37.048 - They are a bit tight, I know tell me about it. 43 00:01:37.148 --> 00:01:38.928 - [Narrator] Football coach Scott is single 44 00:01:39.028 --> 00:01:42.608 and looking for love, but his mates won't stop teasing him 45 00:01:42.708 --> 00:01:44.708 for his big penis. 46 00:01:45.028 --> 00:01:46.688 Good session, lads. 47 00:01:46.788 --> 00:01:48.049 (men laugh) 48 00:01:48.149 --> 00:01:50.889 I've been joked about quite a lot about my dick, 49 00:01:50.989 --> 00:01:52.989 mainly in the changing rooms. 50 00:01:54.069 --> 00:01:56.049 [Friend] Scotty, how's it looking? 51 00:01:56.149 --> 00:01:58.329 [Scott] Alright mate. 52 00:01:58.429 --> 00:02:00.409 You know guys are always talking about it. 53 00:02:00.509 --> 00:02:02.169 [Friend] Scotty, wash and make it dance. 54 00:02:02.269 --> 00:02:03.649 (friend laughs) 55 00:02:03.749 --> 00:02:06.009 They are the ones who objectify me 56 00:02:06.109 --> 00:02:07.369 and have obviously a bit of a laugh. 57 00:02:07.469 --> 00:02:09.929 It is what it is at the end of the day. 58 00:02:10.029 --> 00:02:12.429 (man laughs) 59 00:02:13.669 --> 00:02:14.789 - [Interviewer] Do you think they're envious? 60 00:02:14.869 --> 00:02:16.049 I think 100% they're envious, 61 00:02:16.149 --> 00:02:17.609 that's why they talk about it all the time, 62 00:02:17.709 --> 00:02:19.009 that's why they take pictures. 63 00:02:19.109 --> 00:02:21.429 That's why they're always asking questions. 64 00:02:22.269 --> 00:02:23.809 First thing they thought was, 65 00:02:23.909 --> 00:02:25.169 he looks like an '80s porn star. 66 00:02:25.269 --> 00:02:26.409 Yeah, I was thinking that. 67 00:02:26.509 --> 00:02:28.449 - And you know that's about five people that I know 68 00:02:28.549 --> 00:02:30.049 who just said that straight away. 69 00:02:30.149 --> 00:02:31.249 I generally take it in good humour. 70 00:02:31.349 --> 00:02:34.209 It can be quite a laugh and I don't mind it at times, 71 00:02:34.309 --> 00:02:36.849 but it gets to a point where it can get a bit, 72 00:02:36.949 --> 00:02:38.949 you know a bit tedious. 73 00:02:40.669 --> 00:02:41.809 [Narrator] But it's not just the lads 74 00:02:41.909 --> 00:02:45.029 that are in the know, word has spread around town. 75 00:02:46.989 --> 00:02:49.249 Randomly I got a message saying, 76 00:02:49.349 --> 00:02:51.649 "Send a pic, the girls wanna see it." 77 00:02:51.749 --> 00:02:55.009 My friend's gift, so I just said, "How many do you want?" 78 00:02:55.109 --> 00:02:57.569 So I've literally pulled four pictures off the group chat, 79 00:02:57.669 --> 00:03:00.029 the video we've done, they couldn't believe it. 80 00:03:02.469 --> 00:03:03.209 Bit of a reputation. 81 00:03:03.309 --> 00:03:05.889 - It's on my phone and I think every single person 82 00:03:05.989 --> 00:03:07.169 has seen your dick. 83 00:03:07.269 --> 00:03:08.289 Seriously? 84 00:03:08.389 --> 00:03:10.389 Oh God. 85 00:03:11.909 --> 00:03:12.669 They're a good bunch of lads 86 00:03:12.749 --> 00:03:16.289 but I think it can affect my dating life around this area 87 00:03:16.389 --> 00:03:18.289 'cause a lot of people know about it. 88 00:03:18.389 --> 00:03:20.169 When you've recorded the size, 89 00:03:20.269 --> 00:03:22.269 do you use metric or imperial? 90 00:03:22.869 --> 00:03:24.249 - It's normally in inches. - yeah? 91 00:03:24.349 --> 00:03:26.329 It's weird when you start measuring stuff, 92 00:03:26.429 --> 00:03:28.849 in Scott's length, fifteen Scott metres. 93 00:03:28.949 --> 00:03:31.729 - Is this how it's gonna be then, like in future? 94 00:03:31.829 --> 00:03:33.169 (sad music) 95 00:03:33.269 --> 00:03:34.349 - [Interviewer] How does that feel to be in there 96 00:03:34.429 --> 00:03:37.130 and just having the piss taken out of you like that? 97 00:03:37.230 --> 00:03:39.230 Well same as usual really, you know? 98 00:03:40.230 --> 00:03:41.890 When you've got your mates speaking about you 99 00:03:41.990 --> 00:03:43.990 and just wanna show it to their mates, 100 00:03:45.150 --> 00:03:46.370 especially people I don't really know. 101 00:03:46.470 --> 00:03:49.730 It does make you feel like, people just want your attention 102 00:03:49.830 --> 00:03:52.130 because of your penis, not because of who you are. 103 00:03:52.230 --> 00:03:54.630 (sad music) 104 00:03:56.670 --> 00:03:59.290 - My favourite word for a penis has to be schlong, 105 00:03:59.390 --> 00:04:01.650 'cause there's so much like, lurr, 106 00:04:01.750 --> 00:04:02.510 there's so much length to it. 107 00:04:02.590 --> 00:04:03.570 Do you know what I mean? 108 00:04:03.670 --> 00:04:05.990 Schlong, like I'm all about that. 109 00:04:06.910 --> 00:04:09.610 - [Teacher] The adolescent boy has other problems too, 110 00:04:09.710 --> 00:04:12.890 I'm talking about his problems in growth and development 111 00:04:12.990 --> 00:04:16.210 which can be as disturbing to him as his sex pressures. 112 00:04:16.310 --> 00:04:17.210 I used to go to a school, 113 00:04:17.310 --> 00:04:19.370 we had to go swimming in the bare. 114 00:04:19.470 --> 00:04:21.410 I was so embarrassed about the size of my penis 115 00:04:21.510 --> 00:04:24.530 that we used to dread the days we had to go swimming. 116 00:04:24.630 --> 00:04:26.810 - But every boy should realise that the size 117 00:04:26.910 --> 00:04:30.050 of his genital organs has nothing to do with fertility 118 00:04:30.150 --> 00:04:32.490 or his capacity as a male. 119 00:04:32.590 --> 00:04:34.210 (bouncy music) 120 00:04:34.310 --> 00:04:36.610 So the average length of a penis 121 00:04:36.710 --> 00:04:41.710 is just over five inches long, and that's for many countries 122 00:04:42.190 --> 00:04:44.090 and many, many studies. 123 00:04:44.190 --> 00:04:46.990 Most men believe penises are longer than that. 124 00:04:55.430 --> 00:04:57.650 - If we're looking at a measurement like eight inches, 125 00:04:57.750 --> 00:05:00.570 probably well under 1% of men in the world 126 00:05:00.670 --> 00:05:02.130 have a penis that long. 127 00:05:02.230 --> 00:05:03.770 [Narrator] And for those 1%, 128 00:05:03.870 --> 00:05:07.330 life can sometimes be a complete nightmare. 129 00:05:07.430 --> 00:05:09.130 I've had people walk past me 130 00:05:09.230 --> 00:05:11.690 or I cross paths with people in the street 131 00:05:11.790 --> 00:05:12.970 and they kinda like stare at it 132 00:05:13.070 --> 00:05:15.490 and look at me in a way like, you know, 133 00:05:15.590 --> 00:05:18.290 why have you got that on display or why would you have that? 134 00:05:18.390 --> 00:05:20.610 You know it's kinda like, nearly as if, 135 00:05:20.710 --> 00:05:22.090 I feel like they're looking at me as if, you know, 136 00:05:22.190 --> 00:05:24.951 you should be ashamed of that, do something about that. 137 00:05:30.191 --> 00:05:31.851 - I've got no choice 'cause you can kind of see 138 00:05:31.951 --> 00:05:33.951 it through whatever. 139 00:05:34.991 --> 00:05:36.051 It's either don't go out 140 00:05:36.151 --> 00:05:38.591 or someone stares at your cock really. 141 00:05:40.031 --> 00:05:42.931 - [Narrator] 22 year old Joe can't hide his problem. 142 00:05:43.031 --> 00:05:46.151 He suffers daily abuse due to his size. 143 00:05:47.551 --> 00:05:49.971 - We usually have a tally to see how many people looked. 144 00:05:50.071 --> 00:05:52.151 Like just back there someone was staring. 145 00:05:54.311 --> 00:05:56.931 I usually wear underwear that's got like a pouch 146 00:05:57.031 --> 00:06:00.331 in the front 'cause if you try and push it down, 147 00:06:00.431 --> 00:06:03.811 you get like a cock hamburger with a ball either side. 148 00:06:03.911 --> 00:06:06.671 (sombre music) 149 00:06:09.391 --> 00:06:12.411 I was about 14, I was playing football 150 00:06:12.511 --> 00:06:16.211 and then one of my mates went to my other mates 151 00:06:16.311 --> 00:06:20.891 and just went, have you seen that thing is despicable, 152 00:06:20.991 --> 00:06:24.291 and then it just started as a whole rumour 153 00:06:24.391 --> 00:06:26.931 around the school about how big it was. 154 00:06:27.031 --> 00:06:31.951 And I was in the showers and was like oh, okay, yes it is. 155 00:06:33.311 --> 00:06:37.411 It's about nine and a half now and I'm 5'6. 156 00:06:37.511 --> 00:06:39.171 So that's 66 inches. 157 00:06:39.271 --> 00:06:42.551 So it's like nearly a 12th of my height. 158 00:06:44.191 --> 00:06:46.951 The scaling is off, quite off. 159 00:06:47.871 --> 00:06:50.451 It's thicker than my forearm. 160 00:06:50.551 --> 00:06:54.971 It's about seven around and I can get my hand around 161 00:06:55.071 --> 00:06:55.931 my wrist quite easily, 162 00:06:56.031 --> 00:06:58.731 but I can't get my hand around my own dick. 163 00:06:58.831 --> 00:07:00.771 (door squeaks) 164 00:07:00.871 --> 00:07:02.871 It's not the best look in the world. 165 00:07:03.711 --> 00:07:05.891 - [Narrator] Joe needs to buy special underwear, 166 00:07:05.991 --> 00:07:08.511 costing him over £200 per year. 167 00:07:10.071 --> 00:07:13.652 - These are the ones where if I take more than 10 steps, 168 00:07:13.752 --> 00:07:15.752 voom, it's fallen out the end. 169 00:07:16.152 --> 00:07:17.492 Yeah. 170 00:07:17.592 --> 00:07:18.532 (door squeaks) 171 00:07:18.632 --> 00:07:22.452 Even getting dressed, balls to one side, cock to the other, 172 00:07:22.552 --> 00:07:26.092 finding the perfect sort of place to put it. 173 00:07:26.192 --> 00:07:29.532 I have to think of my thigh to cock ratio. 174 00:07:29.632 --> 00:07:31.852 (lively music) 175 00:07:31.952 --> 00:07:34.412 This is essentially, it's got an extra pouch. 176 00:07:34.512 --> 00:07:36.612 It's basically for people who have big dicks 177 00:07:36.712 --> 00:07:40.292 and it's the only ones I've got that properly sort of 178 00:07:40.392 --> 00:07:41.212 fit everything in. 179 00:07:41.312 --> 00:07:43.012 The issue is 'cause I'm quite a shower, 180 00:07:43.112 --> 00:07:47.092 people just automatically presume that I've got a boner 181 00:07:47.192 --> 00:07:50.312 'cause like, I can't tuck it round the side. 182 00:07:51.232 --> 00:07:52.892 [Narrator] Despite Joe's special pants, 183 00:07:52.992 --> 00:07:55.112 he still can't hide his bulge. 184 00:07:56.432 --> 00:07:57.412 I went for this interview 185 00:07:57.512 --> 00:07:59.452 and I thought the interview went really well, 186 00:07:59.552 --> 00:08:02.532 but suit trousers are well fitting, very tight. 187 00:08:02.632 --> 00:08:04.452 The response I got was you're not gonna get the job. 188 00:08:04.552 --> 00:08:05.552 We thought you were a good candidate, 189 00:08:05.632 --> 00:08:08.332 but we thought there was inappropriate behaviour happening. 190 00:08:08.432 --> 00:08:09.892 They thought I had an erection 191 00:08:09.992 --> 00:08:11.992 throughout this whole interview 192 00:08:12.992 --> 00:08:16.552 and they were very much like, your attire wasn't right. 193 00:08:18.312 --> 00:08:22.132 They clearly meant you know, we could see your dick. 194 00:08:22.232 --> 00:08:24.052 (sad music) 195 00:08:24.152 --> 00:08:26.652 - [Narrator] Being very well endowed isn't always 196 00:08:26.752 --> 00:08:31.212 what it's cracked up to be, so be careful what you wish for. 197 00:08:31.312 --> 00:08:35.092 - I remember the first time I saw a massive penis. 198 00:08:35.192 --> 00:08:37.612 I was in my late teens and I just thought, 199 00:08:37.712 --> 00:08:39.452 Jesus Christ, it's gonna kill me. 200 00:08:39.552 --> 00:08:42.412 Like there's no way that some magic trick 201 00:08:42.512 --> 00:08:44.612 this is gonna happen. 202 00:08:44.712 --> 00:08:49.712 - That was like a 11 incher, and it was, bloody hell. 203 00:08:50.032 --> 00:08:52.172 That was, there's such a thing as too big. 204 00:08:52.272 --> 00:08:55.052 (Laura laughs) 205 00:08:55.152 --> 00:08:57.892 - I think men are obsessed with their penis sizes, 206 00:08:57.992 --> 00:08:59.933 it's because maybe it's something ingrained 207 00:09:00.033 --> 00:09:01.013 from their childhood you know? 208 00:09:01.113 --> 00:09:02.213 They keep talking about it, 209 00:09:02.313 --> 00:09:04.373 it's sort of and it's something relayed to them 210 00:09:04.473 --> 00:09:06.453 when they're children and they're just like, oh okay, 211 00:09:06.553 --> 00:09:10.733 if I have a big penis, then I am literally a hot guy 212 00:09:10.833 --> 00:09:13.133 whose gonna be desirable to all women, 213 00:09:13.233 --> 00:09:15.693 and they don't understand there's more to it. 214 00:09:15.793 --> 00:09:18.813 There's definitely more to it, because a big penis 215 00:09:18.913 --> 00:09:21.513 is just there, but you need to know how to swing it. 216 00:09:23.393 --> 00:09:24.133 (upbeat music) 217 00:09:36.073 --> 00:09:38.813 But there's always an exception. 218 00:09:38.913 --> 00:09:40.913 [Bonnie] So I'm a size queen. 219 00:09:41.313 --> 00:09:43.973 So that basically means that I prefer to have sex with guys 220 00:09:44.073 --> 00:09:48.253 that have above average or very huge penises. 221 00:09:48.353 --> 00:09:51.033 (upbeat music) 222 00:09:52.073 --> 00:09:54.333 Eight inches and above would be making it 223 00:09:54.433 --> 00:09:56.433 worth my while I think. 224 00:09:57.273 --> 00:09:58.973 [Interviewer] How big are you, Tommy? 225 00:09:59.073 --> 00:10:01.013 - Above average, something like seven and a half inches 226 00:10:01.113 --> 00:10:03.533 but I get most people with my girth, 227 00:10:03.633 --> 00:10:06.053 which is seven inches, so. 228 00:10:06.153 --> 00:10:08.933 - But I'm still always on the look for the next big one 229 00:10:09.033 --> 00:10:10.493 that might tick all the boxes. 230 00:10:10.593 --> 00:10:12.653 (Bonnie laughs) 231 00:10:12.753 --> 00:10:14.573 [Narrator] Bonnie and her partner Tommy 232 00:10:14.673 --> 00:10:16.493 have been together for seven years. 233 00:10:16.593 --> 00:10:17.573 What do you think about this one? 234 00:10:17.673 --> 00:10:19.893 - [Narrator] They're now taking their sex life online 235 00:10:19.993 --> 00:10:21.573 and Bonnie is looking to engage 236 00:10:21.673 --> 00:10:24.333 with the most generously endowed guys in the country. 237 00:10:24.433 --> 00:10:26.333 Big dick energy, what do you think? 238 00:10:26.433 --> 00:10:29.573 We've always filmed our sex life 239 00:10:29.673 --> 00:10:31.253 since the first time we met, 240 00:10:31.353 --> 00:10:33.293 filmed our first sex tape on the first night. 241 00:10:33.393 --> 00:10:34.453 Yeah, I was kinda like, 242 00:10:34.553 --> 00:10:38.973 oh this is a guy that I can be completely honest with. 243 00:10:39.073 --> 00:10:42.173 Nothing that I said to him in the bedroom over that weekend 244 00:10:42.273 --> 00:10:44.793 was like shocking to him. 245 00:10:45.874 --> 00:10:47.734 No, I was actively encouraging. 246 00:10:47.834 --> 00:10:49.134 Yeah. 247 00:10:49.234 --> 00:10:51.574 I know actually I've got someone else 248 00:10:51.674 --> 00:10:52.414 - to show you. - Yeah? 249 00:10:52.514 --> 00:10:55.934 - Looking at his Twitter, he's ticking the size queen box 250 00:10:56.034 --> 00:10:58.034 that's for sure. 251 00:10:59.314 --> 00:11:01.254 That's a big dick. 252 00:11:01.354 --> 00:11:03.574 (Bonnie on Tommy laugh) 253 00:11:03.674 --> 00:11:06.234 (upbeat music) 254 00:11:07.834 --> 00:11:09.774 I'm measuring me cock. 255 00:11:09.874 --> 00:11:12.574 It's 10.5 inches from the base to the tip. 256 00:11:12.674 --> 00:11:14.674 Size really matters in my line of work. 257 00:11:15.994 --> 00:11:18.414 - [Narrator] Ex-plumber Andy Lee is making 258 00:11:18.514 --> 00:11:21.694 his impressive love muscle work for him. 259 00:11:21.794 --> 00:11:24.214 With over 25,000 followers, 260 00:11:24.314 --> 00:11:28.014 he's now raking it in as an adult performer. 261 00:11:28.114 --> 00:11:29.574 He seen me go in the gym, 262 00:11:29.674 --> 00:11:31.054 he saw me in the changing rooms and Jesus, 263 00:11:31.154 --> 00:11:32.734 that's a big old cock. 264 00:11:32.834 --> 00:11:35.574 He said, "Would you ever think about doing porn?" 265 00:11:35.674 --> 00:11:39.094 I said, "I'd do it, I don't care." 266 00:11:39.194 --> 00:11:41.194 There's 21 comments on this one. 267 00:11:42.034 --> 00:11:44.034 "Jesus, it's like a bear cam." 268 00:11:44.674 --> 00:11:46.854 "So big, daddy." 269 00:11:46.954 --> 00:11:49.494 So there's a photo of me with my cock in me hand 270 00:11:49.594 --> 00:11:51.654 and a sledgehammer dressed in work gear. 271 00:11:51.754 --> 00:11:53.414 Says, "Looks like demolition." 272 00:11:53.514 --> 00:11:55.014 "Tool in each hand, laying pipes, 273 00:11:55.114 --> 00:11:57.114 smashing doors and filling cracks." 274 00:11:58.034 --> 00:12:02.534 So I just got a message off this couple, Bonnie and Tommy. 275 00:12:02.634 --> 00:12:03.654 I've seen some of their stuff before, 276 00:12:03.754 --> 00:12:05.094 I've seen some of their TikTok videos and stuff. 277 00:12:05.194 --> 00:12:06.054 They look pretty cool. 278 00:12:06.154 --> 00:12:08.614 Bonnie comes across as a, 279 00:12:08.714 --> 00:12:09.774 like a cock destroyer. 280 00:12:09.874 --> 00:12:11.574 Hopefully arrange something for this week, 281 00:12:11.674 --> 00:12:15.394 then we can organise a video and we can fuck hard. 282 00:12:19.834 --> 00:12:22.114 - [Matt] It's made me a lot of a focus of attention. 283 00:12:23.794 --> 00:12:28.494 Often my reputation has preceded me in terms of my size. 284 00:12:28.594 --> 00:12:31.254 - [Narrator] 39 year old Cambridge graduate Matt 285 00:12:31.354 --> 00:12:33.775 hasn't been able to hold down a relationship 286 00:12:33.875 --> 00:12:36.395 as a result of his 10.5 inch penis. 287 00:12:38.115 --> 00:12:40.955 ♪ Love me all out ♪ 288 00:12:42.115 --> 00:12:45.015 - [Narrator] His previous attempts to find a partner online 289 00:12:45.115 --> 00:12:47.235 have left him feeling fetishised. 290 00:12:48.475 --> 00:12:50.935 - I'm not an attention seeker, I'm not an extrovert, 291 00:12:51.035 --> 00:12:53.295 I'm not a particularly social person. 292 00:12:53.395 --> 00:12:55.615 Any attention I get 'cause of my size, you know, 293 00:12:55.715 --> 00:12:56.695 unless it's from the right person, 294 00:12:56.795 --> 00:12:58.795 then I'm generally not interested in it. 295 00:12:59.715 --> 00:13:01.095 You always have the issue that people will think 296 00:13:01.195 --> 00:13:03.915 you're aroused when you're not in a regular swimming pool. 297 00:13:05.195 --> 00:13:05.895 I'm always you know, 298 00:13:05.995 --> 00:13:07.035 quite a conservative and considerate guy. 299 00:13:07.115 --> 00:13:10.295 So I try to make sure if I do feel the need to 300 00:13:10.395 --> 00:13:12.655 cast off the shackles of the usual nine to five, 301 00:13:12.755 --> 00:13:14.755 I can go somewhere a bit more peaceful. 302 00:13:15.755 --> 00:13:18.155 (sad music) 303 00:13:20.915 --> 00:13:22.135 Being well endowed gets you attention, 304 00:13:22.235 --> 00:13:24.295 it doesn't get you affection. 305 00:13:24.395 --> 00:13:25.855 Women are very curious, 306 00:13:25.955 --> 00:13:26.715 it doesn't mean they're gonna 307 00:13:26.795 --> 00:13:28.135 suddenly fall in love with you. 308 00:13:28.235 --> 00:13:29.255 If anything it's more of a handicap 309 00:13:29.355 --> 00:13:30.315 to actually getting a relationship 310 00:13:30.395 --> 00:13:33.335 because it's something you can't really bring up 311 00:13:33.435 --> 00:13:35.495 in the courtship process. 312 00:13:35.595 --> 00:13:37.015 If you bring it up, you're a bit sleazy 313 00:13:37.115 --> 00:13:40.055 and if you don't bring it up, then it causes complications. 314 00:13:40.155 --> 00:13:41.455 But really you kind of want that nice compromise 315 00:13:41.555 --> 00:13:43.095 between someone who likes you for your mind 316 00:13:43.195 --> 00:13:43.935 and for your body, 317 00:13:44.035 --> 00:13:46.195 but it's very hard to get that perfect match. 318 00:13:48.595 --> 00:13:50.815 Generally, I'll use these condoms. 319 00:13:50.915 --> 00:13:52.575 They are the sort of the biggest on the market. 320 00:13:52.675 --> 00:13:56.135 These are supposedly about nine and a half inches around. 321 00:13:56.235 --> 00:13:56.995 So it doesn't cover everything. 322 00:13:57.075 --> 00:14:01.835 For comparison, here is a regular sized condom. 323 00:14:04.235 --> 00:14:05.255 I've been lightheaded before 324 00:14:05.355 --> 00:14:08.135 certainly at my most engorged. 325 00:14:08.235 --> 00:14:10.715 It can be difficult to concentrate. 326 00:14:11.555 --> 00:14:14.015 - [Narrator] Matt has felt objectified in the past 327 00:14:14.115 --> 00:14:18.095 and his penis can attract the wrong kind of interest. 328 00:14:18.195 --> 00:14:22.396 - There was one girl who made a replica of my erect penis 329 00:14:25.476 --> 00:14:27.496 and then next day, ghosted me, 330 00:14:27.596 --> 00:14:29.696 left me without any warning. 331 00:14:29.796 --> 00:14:31.656 Most baffled I've been. 332 00:14:31.756 --> 00:14:34.816 (sad music) 333 00:14:34.916 --> 00:14:36.656 Maybe not the most charming person in the universe, 334 00:14:36.756 --> 00:14:39.056 but it still hurts when what they want 335 00:14:39.156 --> 00:14:40.616 is clearly below the waistline. 336 00:14:40.716 --> 00:14:42.716 They don't care about what's up here. 337 00:14:43.796 --> 00:14:45.856 It's very difficult to get your self-esteem 338 00:14:45.956 --> 00:14:47.956 when you get that level of rejection. 339 00:14:48.996 --> 00:14:51.056 - [Narrator] Matt's extreme size has led him 340 00:14:51.156 --> 00:14:53.296 to take drastic measures. 341 00:14:53.396 --> 00:14:57.936 He's considering a rare and extremely complicated surgery. 342 00:14:58.036 --> 00:14:59.696 - I've always wondered whether it would be a good idea 343 00:14:59.796 --> 00:15:01.796 to have a reduction. 344 00:15:02.916 --> 00:15:05.696 It could help if I could lose three or four inches 345 00:15:05.796 --> 00:15:09.196 and be fine, then I don't see why I wouldn't consider it. 346 00:15:10.756 --> 00:15:13.236 (cars rumble) 347 00:15:19.836 --> 00:15:22.776 - [Joe] So this is the kit that you basically make 348 00:15:22.876 --> 00:15:25.016 a replica of your own penis. 349 00:15:25.116 --> 00:15:27.536 [Narrator] Shower Joe is unable to hide 350 00:15:27.636 --> 00:15:29.536 his trouser torpedo, 351 00:15:29.636 --> 00:15:33.496 but has found a way to tackle the attention through art. 352 00:15:33.596 --> 00:15:36.656 - Well I'm making a mould because, well I'm an artist 353 00:15:36.756 --> 00:15:39.056 and everyone talks about my cock constantly. 354 00:15:39.156 --> 00:15:41.156 It's everywhere. 355 00:15:41.676 --> 00:15:44.816 Why not make an art piece out of it, a sculpture? 356 00:15:44.916 --> 00:15:46.916 Let's do something fun. 357 00:15:47.676 --> 00:15:49.676 This is disgusting. 358 00:15:50.316 --> 00:15:51.536 [Interviewer] Does it feel really weird? 359 00:15:51.636 --> 00:15:53.616 Err it is horrible. 360 00:15:53.716 --> 00:15:56.096 I'm gonna use it as decoration no doubt, 361 00:15:56.196 --> 00:15:59.076 or someone can have it as a birthday present. 362 00:16:00.236 --> 00:16:02.936 (calm music) 363 00:16:03.036 --> 00:16:08.036 It's all dry. 364 00:16:08.396 --> 00:16:10.257 - [Interviewer] Is that a good representation 365 00:16:10.357 --> 00:16:11.497 of you would you say? 366 00:16:11.597 --> 00:16:15.677 Yeah, that's pretty much identical. 367 00:16:16.637 --> 00:16:19.097 It not actually being attached to me 368 00:16:19.197 --> 00:16:21.257 is weird actually feeling the scale of it. 369 00:16:21.357 --> 00:16:26.097 So yeah, it's actually come out pretty decent. 370 00:16:26.197 --> 00:16:29.017 There's been a lot of times where people talk to me 371 00:16:29.117 --> 00:16:32.737 kind of just like a, ah, you've got a massive cock. 372 00:16:32.837 --> 00:16:36.537 I kind of wanna try that, let's just fuck it, let's just go. 373 00:16:36.637 --> 00:16:39.137 But a couple of times where people have been like, 374 00:16:39.237 --> 00:16:40.857 nah, like you're a nice guy, 375 00:16:40.957 --> 00:16:44.517 but I won't have sex in case I die. 376 00:16:46.197 --> 00:16:49.017 My mates specifically think it's hilarious 377 00:16:49.117 --> 00:16:53.477 on birthdays, anything, is to just send me cards 378 00:16:54.997 --> 00:16:56.297 with pictures of my cock on. 379 00:16:56.397 --> 00:17:00.457 Every birthday, I'm inundated with like 40 cards 380 00:17:00.557 --> 00:17:02.557 or something, just at a party. 381 00:17:03.997 --> 00:17:08.337 Drunk boner, they're like, ha, you're in the shower, photo. 382 00:17:08.437 --> 00:17:12.297 And then that was bad 'cause I was sending nudes on Snapchat 383 00:17:12.397 --> 00:17:15.737 and accidentally sent it to our um, 384 00:17:15.837 --> 00:17:17.097 sent it to our group chat. 385 00:17:17.197 --> 00:17:19.737 so I had about 30 notifications 386 00:17:19.837 --> 00:17:23.097 of screenshot, screenshot, screenshot, screenshot. 387 00:17:23.197 --> 00:17:26.177 The level of subtlety in a cockney friendship group 388 00:17:26.277 --> 00:17:30.177 is that they like, you know just re-emphasis the point. 389 00:17:30.277 --> 00:17:31.497 (lively music) 390 00:17:31.597 --> 00:17:33.857 - [Narrator] Joe has decided to surprise his friends 391 00:17:33.957 --> 00:17:35.657 with his new masterpiece, 392 00:17:35.757 --> 00:17:37.757 which he's taking down the pub. 393 00:17:38.557 --> 00:17:41.077 - [Joe] I hope they're not horrified or traumatised, I mean. 394 00:17:44.917 --> 00:17:47.877 Uh, yeah, that's my dick, that. 395 00:17:50.077 --> 00:17:51.337 Oh my gosh. 396 00:17:51.437 --> 00:17:53.577 'Cause you can't look away from it. 397 00:17:53.677 --> 00:17:54.857 [Narrator] Our survey reveals 398 00:17:54.957 --> 00:17:57.338 that one third of the population have problems 399 00:17:57.438 --> 00:17:59.698 with penis size in the bedroom 400 00:17:59.798 --> 00:18:02.978 and this effects women more than men. 401 00:18:03.078 --> 00:18:04.658 Yeah, it's the sort of thing, 402 00:18:04.758 --> 00:18:06.658 especially when I was younger and you know, 403 00:18:06.758 --> 00:18:08.698 first lose virginity that sort of thing. 404 00:18:08.798 --> 00:18:10.578 People who I was hooking up with, 405 00:18:10.678 --> 00:18:12.418 they'd never seen a cock before. 406 00:18:12.518 --> 00:18:14.778 So we'd have sex and then they'd be like, 407 00:18:14.878 --> 00:18:16.018 is sex meant to hurt like that? 408 00:18:16.118 --> 00:18:18.158 And I was like oh I hope not, oh no. 409 00:18:18.998 --> 00:18:21.458 But because I was 15, 16, 410 00:18:21.558 --> 00:18:22.698 - I also didn't know. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 411 00:18:22.798 --> 00:18:25.498 So, I was like oh this is just, 412 00:18:25.598 --> 00:18:27.938 this is just a normal dick, oh these poor people. 413 00:18:28.038 --> 00:18:29.378 [Friend] Yeah, yeah, yeah. 414 00:18:29.478 --> 00:18:31.538 (calm music) 415 00:18:31.638 --> 00:18:33.878 - Honest, I never knew that I had a big dick. 416 00:18:35.398 --> 00:18:38.098 And obviously me being very young and not knowing about sex, 417 00:18:38.198 --> 00:18:40.338 but when you're very new to the gay world, 418 00:18:40.438 --> 00:18:43.498 I feel like everything is quite scary. 419 00:18:43.598 --> 00:18:45.658 So I started seeing this guy, the lights were off, 420 00:18:45.758 --> 00:18:48.418 and we were fucking and it was good, it was okay. 421 00:18:48.518 --> 00:18:51.258 It was just very wet, like, everywhere. 422 00:18:51.358 --> 00:18:52.098 So I turned the light on 423 00:18:52.198 --> 00:18:54.218 and there was just blood everywhere. 424 00:18:54.318 --> 00:18:55.738 It was bad. 425 00:18:55.838 --> 00:18:58.978 I just remember sitting there dick in hand in the bath, 426 00:18:59.078 --> 00:19:01.758 covered in blood crying, like, like uh, 427 00:19:03.078 --> 00:19:04.498 and he's there, like it's normal, it's fine. 428 00:19:04.598 --> 00:19:06.698 I'm like, it's not fucking normal. 429 00:19:06.798 --> 00:19:09.298 I never had sex for a year after that. 430 00:19:09.398 --> 00:19:10.138 (calm music) 431 00:19:10.238 --> 00:19:12.738 Sometimes you do get a bit of guilt. 432 00:19:12.838 --> 00:19:14.978 It is a very harsh thing to expect someone 433 00:19:15.078 --> 00:19:16.898 to be able to take all of you, 434 00:19:16.998 --> 00:19:18.578 like well take your entire length. 435 00:19:18.678 --> 00:19:20.658 Especially if you know that someone's struggling to take it 436 00:19:20.758 --> 00:19:23.938 and still trying to take it, and just like, in pure pain. 437 00:19:24.038 --> 00:19:25.898 If I put myself in that situation, 438 00:19:25.998 --> 00:19:27.998 I wouldn't want that to be me. 439 00:19:29.238 --> 00:19:32.558 - I have had an experience with a big penis. 440 00:19:34.278 --> 00:19:36.738 So as I like moved the pubic hair 441 00:19:36.838 --> 00:19:39.498 and I saw the big penis hanging there I'm just like, 442 00:19:39.598 --> 00:19:43.458 oh my god, I am tiny, I am not gonna be able to handle this. 443 00:19:43.558 --> 00:19:45.699 - [Interviewer] So you didn't do it, you didn't cover? 444 00:19:45.799 --> 00:19:49.459 - No I didn't because it was a little intimidating for me 445 00:19:49.559 --> 00:19:51.639 and it was really big, really, really big. 446 00:19:57.439 --> 00:20:02.099 - So I'm just hoping that he lives up to my expectations 447 00:20:02.199 --> 00:20:04.779 from everything that I've seen on his Twitter. 448 00:20:04.879 --> 00:20:07.259 - [Narrator] Size queen Bonnie and partner Tommy 449 00:20:07.359 --> 00:20:11.299 are meeting up for a threesome with big boy, Andy Lee. 450 00:20:11.399 --> 00:20:13.859 Andy is 10.5 inches erect, 451 00:20:13.959 --> 00:20:16.219 double the size of an average penis 452 00:20:16.319 --> 00:20:19.219 but even he's having doubts. 453 00:20:19.319 --> 00:20:20.939 To be honest I am a bit nervous today. 454 00:20:21.039 --> 00:20:22.259 I'm not normally but today, 455 00:20:22.359 --> 00:20:24.899 I'm a little bit nervous, you know? 456 00:20:24.999 --> 00:20:27.119 - [Interviewer] Why are you nervous today do you think? 457 00:20:28.039 --> 00:20:30.179 What if I don't perform? 458 00:20:30.279 --> 00:20:31.619 What if I took out my dick and she was like, 459 00:20:31.719 --> 00:20:33.619 oh it's not actually that big? 460 00:20:33.719 --> 00:20:35.939 (calm music) 461 00:20:36.039 --> 00:20:39.139 She seems like a lovely girl, she's very attractive so. 462 00:20:39.239 --> 00:20:41.619 And I'm sure Tommy's gonna be a great sideman. 463 00:20:41.719 --> 00:20:45.099 (lively music) 464 00:20:45.199 --> 00:20:48.139 [Bonnie] Okay then. 465 00:20:48.239 --> 00:20:50.639 (calm music) 466 00:20:59.719 --> 00:21:00.699 (door clanks) 467 00:21:00.799 --> 00:21:03.299 (bird twitters) 468 00:21:15.439 --> 00:21:17.019 - [Interviewer] Was she impressed by the size? 469 00:21:17.119 --> 00:21:18.419 [Andy] She was impressed yeah. 470 00:21:18.519 --> 00:21:20.099 [Interviewer] She was happy with that? 471 00:21:20.199 --> 00:21:21.939 Yeah, she seemed very happy. 472 00:21:22.039 --> 00:21:25.259 She seemed very, very happy, so. 473 00:21:25.359 --> 00:21:28.459 (lively music) 474 00:21:28.559 --> 00:21:31.259 - [Narrator] Bonnie's appetite for larger sized men 475 00:21:31.359 --> 00:21:34.720 means she's always looking for the next big thing. 476 00:21:37.440 --> 00:21:39.220 [Bonnie] Continue to look for more 477 00:21:39.320 --> 00:21:41.340 'cause I'm greedy like that. 478 00:21:41.440 --> 00:21:42.940 - [Interviewer] And how does that make you feel? 479 00:21:43.040 --> 00:21:46.260 - Like as a guy you're always worried, is it big enough? 480 00:21:46.360 --> 00:21:49.020 Sure there's guys with you know much bigger dicks than me 481 00:21:49.120 --> 00:21:51.660 that are still like is it big enough, is it big enough? 482 00:21:51.760 --> 00:21:54.260 'Cause I think it's like, it's a guy thing, innit.? 483 00:21:54.360 --> 00:21:57.460 - I'm not sorry about saying that I want guys 484 00:21:57.560 --> 00:21:58.740 that have got big dicks. 485 00:21:58.840 --> 00:21:59.980 - No. - No. 486 00:22:00.080 --> 00:22:01.300 Just saying what you want, innit? 487 00:22:01.400 --> 00:22:02.240 - Yeah, just saying - Like plenty of men say 488 00:22:02.320 --> 00:22:03.040 - what I want. what they want, 489 00:22:03.120 --> 00:22:04.740 - and ah, I wouldn't shag her - Yeah, I get it all the time. 490 00:22:04.840 --> 00:22:06.020 - and stuff like that. - Oh like, your boobs 491 00:22:06.120 --> 00:22:07.140 aren't big enough. 492 00:22:07.240 --> 00:22:11.100 I think women's bodies are constantly fetishised 493 00:22:11.200 --> 00:22:13.980 and men definitely don't get it to the same degree 494 00:22:14.080 --> 00:22:15.900 as what a woman does. 495 00:22:16.000 --> 00:22:18.100 You cannot control your anatomy. 496 00:22:18.200 --> 00:22:19.500 - No. - Which I suppose is me 497 00:22:19.600 --> 00:22:21.220 being a bit contradictory like, 498 00:22:21.320 --> 00:22:23.700 a guy can't control his anatomy 499 00:22:23.800 --> 00:22:25.860 and like what size his dick is, but. 500 00:22:25.960 --> 00:22:27.500 I think for guys it's a really, 501 00:22:27.600 --> 00:22:29.420 - it's a touchy subject. - It's a touchy subject yeah. 502 00:22:29.520 --> 00:22:30.620 It doesn't matter who you are. 503 00:22:30.720 --> 00:22:32.940 - I appreciate that but then what I would say is, 504 00:22:33.040 --> 00:22:35.160 like do something and work on your ego, like. 505 00:22:36.440 --> 00:22:38.920 (calm music) 506 00:22:42.640 --> 00:22:44.500 [Narrator] Scott is looking for love, 507 00:22:44.600 --> 00:22:47.020 but has previously had problems with intimacy 508 00:22:47.120 --> 00:22:49.120 due to his size. 509 00:22:49.560 --> 00:22:51.540 - Been a couple of times where we've been dating for a while 510 00:22:51.640 --> 00:22:53.860 and then when it gets to the sex, 511 00:22:53.960 --> 00:22:55.960 that's when things struggle. 512 00:22:57.160 --> 00:22:59.740 You know you try, and you try and you keep trying 513 00:22:59.840 --> 00:23:03.480 until you try, you know, till it works, but it just doesn't. 514 00:23:04.520 --> 00:23:06.380 (lively music) 515 00:23:06.480 --> 00:23:08.780 - [Narrator] Tonight, he's going on a date with Malina, 516 00:23:08.880 --> 00:23:10.740 who doesn't know about his size, 517 00:23:10.840 --> 00:23:13.680 which means that Scott can break the news himself. 518 00:23:16.560 --> 00:23:18.540 - It's not something I'd normally reveal on the first date. 519 00:23:18.640 --> 00:23:20.661 But I think I'm at that point in my life now 520 00:23:20.761 --> 00:23:22.501 where I don't wanna mess around, 521 00:23:22.601 --> 00:23:25.141 I wanna get things right and get things out in the open. 522 00:23:25.241 --> 00:23:27.101 (lively music) 523 00:23:27.201 --> 00:23:30.681 Applying something that's good for the shaft. 524 00:23:31.881 --> 00:23:34.621 It's a sort of penile moisturiser. 525 00:23:34.721 --> 00:23:35.901 I do this quite regularly to be honest. 526 00:23:36.001 --> 00:23:38.081 It just feels, just feels good. 527 00:23:41.081 --> 00:23:43.721 (bouncy music) 528 00:23:45.401 --> 00:23:48.561 - You look great. - Thank you, you too. 529 00:23:50.081 --> 00:23:51.621 - Cheers. - Cheers, thanks for 530 00:23:51.721 --> 00:23:53.261 - inviting me out tonight. - Good to see you. 531 00:23:53.361 --> 00:23:55.401 - No, my pleasure. - Great to see you too. 532 00:23:56.681 --> 00:23:58.421 What job are you doing now? 533 00:23:58.521 --> 00:24:00.421 I am going into property development. 534 00:24:00.521 --> 00:24:02.421 Oh, are you? 535 00:24:02.521 --> 00:24:04.421 [Narrator] With the evening going well, 536 00:24:04.521 --> 00:24:07.561 Scott decides to flag up what's on his mind. 537 00:24:08.481 --> 00:24:13.141 - So partly you know I struggle for dating, 538 00:24:13.241 --> 00:24:16.541 if I'm being completely honest is that um, 539 00:24:16.641 --> 00:24:18.221 I have a... 540 00:24:18.321 --> 00:24:20.021 I have a, I have... 541 00:24:20.121 --> 00:24:22.061 I have a big, a big penis. 542 00:24:22.161 --> 00:24:23.181 Okay. 543 00:24:23.281 --> 00:24:25.261 So in all seriousness, so for example 544 00:24:25.361 --> 00:24:27.181 if I'm dating somebody and it goes further 545 00:24:27.281 --> 00:24:29.421 and then they see it, and they're like, oh, 546 00:24:29.521 --> 00:24:30.461 like that's a real problem then 547 00:24:30.561 --> 00:24:32.021 and it causes problems. 548 00:24:32.121 --> 00:24:34.141 And it's just like well maybe that should have 549 00:24:34.241 --> 00:24:35.981 been mentioned before. 550 00:24:36.081 --> 00:24:36.821 Well thank you for 551 00:24:36.921 --> 00:24:37.681 - sharing that with me. - I'd rather, 552 00:24:37.761 --> 00:24:39.421 might not just be a problem for me, 553 00:24:39.521 --> 00:24:41.261 could also be a problem for women 554 00:24:41.361 --> 00:24:44.141 who maybe can't accept the size as well. 555 00:24:44.241 --> 00:24:46.421 And the fact that it might upset you, 556 00:24:46.521 --> 00:24:47.261 that you can't handle it, 557 00:24:47.361 --> 00:24:49.341 and I don't mean you specifically, but you know-- 558 00:24:49.441 --> 00:24:51.541 - I know what you're saying, like females in general 559 00:24:51.641 --> 00:24:52.361 - who are interested - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 560 00:24:52.441 --> 00:24:55.501 [Malina] in a romantic, yeah. 561 00:24:55.601 --> 00:24:56.581 I think we connected really well 562 00:24:56.681 --> 00:24:58.301 because she was able to have that conversation with me 563 00:24:58.401 --> 00:25:00.341 and I felt like, wow that's something different. 564 00:25:00.441 --> 00:25:01.381 Something's not really been, 565 00:25:01.481 --> 00:25:02.861 not really been able to talk about that before. 566 00:25:02.961 --> 00:25:06.401 So just went really well and we were laughing. 567 00:25:07.842 --> 00:25:10.622 I'd say there's a bit of a connection there, yeah. 568 00:25:10.722 --> 00:25:12.622 It's not a topic that you'd necessarily 569 00:25:12.722 --> 00:25:14.942 bring up with people. 570 00:25:15.042 --> 00:25:17.902 Like, I mean if I was to bring up elements 571 00:25:18.002 --> 00:25:20.982 of my private anatomy it is quite private, isn't it? 572 00:25:21.082 --> 00:25:22.902 But I thought if he thought 573 00:25:23.002 --> 00:25:24.582 that things could progress romantically, 574 00:25:24.682 --> 00:25:27.062 is an important thing to bring up. 575 00:25:27.162 --> 00:25:31.262 It's just hard to know really what would happen. 576 00:25:31.362 --> 00:25:32.662 [Interviewer] But never say never. 577 00:25:32.762 --> 00:25:34.762 Well yeah as they say, never say never. 578 00:25:36.082 --> 00:25:37.702 - [Interviewer] So are you gonna ask her on another date? 579 00:25:37.802 --> 00:25:38.702 (Scott laughs) 580 00:25:38.802 --> 00:25:39.822 Am I gonna ask her on another date? 581 00:25:39.922 --> 00:25:41.922 Yeah, yeah, I'd like to. 582 00:25:42.642 --> 00:25:44.922 Tonight went really well, so I'm really happy. 583 00:25:46.962 --> 00:25:48.962 I didn't know my one was bigger 584 00:25:50.442 --> 00:25:52.702 until in my early 20s to be honest 585 00:25:52.802 --> 00:25:56.562 because I'm not really actively looking at hard penises. 586 00:25:58.722 --> 00:26:00.422 Until people started actually commenting on it 587 00:26:00.522 --> 00:26:02.942 and women that I know who had slept with a lot of Black guys 588 00:26:03.042 --> 00:26:05.462 and they're categorically telling me, you're bigger, 589 00:26:05.562 --> 00:26:07.562 that's when I'm thinking hmm. 590 00:26:07.962 --> 00:26:10.942 That's when I realised okay, maybe I'm bigger than average. 591 00:26:11.042 --> 00:26:12.142 (upbeat music) 592 00:26:12.242 --> 00:26:14.582 [Narrator] 27 year old YouTuber Cam, 593 00:26:14.682 --> 00:26:18.462 has felt objectified for his size all his adult life. 594 00:26:18.562 --> 00:26:21.062 Something that has led him to create videos 595 00:26:21.162 --> 00:26:23.162 exploring these taboos. 596 00:26:24.682 --> 00:26:26.742 - The main reason why I actually started my YouTube channel 597 00:26:26.842 --> 00:26:28.622 was because I actually wanted to tackle 598 00:26:28.722 --> 00:26:30.782 difficult and controversial topics. 599 00:26:30.882 --> 00:26:33.342 The first topic that I felt I had to address 600 00:26:33.442 --> 00:26:36.502 was race related and specifically the fetishisation 601 00:26:36.602 --> 00:26:37.382 of Black men. 602 00:26:37.482 --> 00:26:39.542 Is it true that all Black men seem to have 603 00:26:39.642 --> 00:26:42.202 a bigger penis than other races for example? 604 00:26:43.362 --> 00:26:46.742 Between me and my friends, we've got thousands of examples. 605 00:26:46.842 --> 00:26:48.222 It usually kind of shows itself 606 00:26:48.322 --> 00:26:50.102 when you're talking to a girl 607 00:26:50.202 --> 00:26:54.382 and they always make it known what their preference is. 608 00:26:54.482 --> 00:26:56.223 And they seem to think that's a compliment, 609 00:26:56.323 --> 00:26:58.023 but it really isn't. 610 00:26:58.123 --> 00:27:00.423 For example, I was talking to a girl. 611 00:27:00.523 --> 00:27:02.823 The white girl made it very, very clear, 612 00:27:02.923 --> 00:27:04.383 she categorically said, "Oh you know, 613 00:27:04.483 --> 00:27:07.743 I don't date white guys, I only go for Black guys." 614 00:27:07.843 --> 00:27:10.823 That is obviously an example of fetishisation. 615 00:27:10.923 --> 00:27:12.663 (calm music) 616 00:27:12.763 --> 00:27:14.103 Framing, that's perfect. 617 00:27:14.203 --> 00:27:15.023 What's going on people? 618 00:27:15.123 --> 00:27:16.623 Did 'ya miss you boy, Cam Topical Juice 619 00:27:16.723 --> 00:27:18.303 and I'm back with another video for y'all. 620 00:27:18.403 --> 00:27:20.583 Talking about the fetishisation of Black men. 621 00:27:20.683 --> 00:27:23.663 Believe that a lot of this does come from pornography. 622 00:27:23.763 --> 00:27:26.703 - [Narrator] Fed up with the depiction of Black men in porn, 623 00:27:26.803 --> 00:27:28.863 Cam decides to make a new video 624 00:27:28.963 --> 00:27:32.663 exploring the big Black cock fetish. 625 00:27:32.763 --> 00:27:36.623 - BBC isn't the broadcasting company, it is, 626 00:27:36.723 --> 00:27:38.923 it stands for big Black cock. 627 00:27:39.883 --> 00:27:41.943 Just, I basically just tapped in BBC. 628 00:27:42.043 --> 00:27:44.043 This is just on one random porn site 629 00:27:45.003 --> 00:27:47.303 and it's got 85,101 results. 630 00:27:47.403 --> 00:27:50.303 So you've got related search, BBC rough, BBC orgasm, 631 00:27:50.403 --> 00:27:53.343 Black cock, BBC gangbang, BBC threesomes, blat. 632 00:27:53.443 --> 00:27:56.303 Oh how I didn't mention this in my videos, blat. 633 00:27:56.403 --> 00:27:58.183 And look at the common theme, it's all, 634 00:27:58.283 --> 00:28:00.263 it's Black men but look at the women. 635 00:28:00.363 --> 00:28:02.143 It's not ebony women, what they call it, 636 00:28:02.243 --> 00:28:04.223 that's a porn character, ebony's, not Black women, 637 00:28:04.323 --> 00:28:08.223 it's white women all being drilled by big Black cocks, 638 00:28:08.323 --> 00:28:09.423 you know by BBCs'. 639 00:28:09.523 --> 00:28:11.783 It really kind of makes you feel like, you know, 640 00:28:11.883 --> 00:28:12.823 less of a human type thing 641 00:28:12.923 --> 00:28:15.663 because I feel like a lot of women 642 00:28:15.763 --> 00:28:17.383 should be able to empathise with this a lot 643 00:28:17.483 --> 00:28:20.583 because women are sexualised heavily in society. 644 00:28:20.683 --> 00:28:21.503 You know the male gaze. 645 00:28:21.603 --> 00:28:23.703 We're just looking at women as sexual objects. 646 00:28:23.803 --> 00:28:25.983 Women don't like that, they kinda feel used. 647 00:28:26.083 --> 00:28:28.183 I feel exactly the same. 648 00:28:28.283 --> 00:28:29.023 (sad music) 649 00:28:29.123 --> 00:28:31.103 - Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get objectified all the time. 650 00:28:31.203 --> 00:28:32.143 It's happened to me a few times, 651 00:28:32.243 --> 00:28:33.063 like I'd fall out with someone 652 00:28:33.163 --> 00:28:35.463 and then they'll like hollah back at me 653 00:28:35.563 --> 00:28:36.503 and like get in touch. 654 00:28:36.603 --> 00:28:38.583 It's not to know how I'm doing, do you know what I mean? 655 00:28:38.683 --> 00:28:40.183 But because of what's down there, 656 00:28:40.283 --> 00:28:42.544 and then you're just like, ah. 657 00:28:42.644 --> 00:28:45.304 - The fetishisation of the willy is in my head, 658 00:28:45.404 --> 00:28:48.144 I'm like right okay, we can't let the team down 659 00:28:48.244 --> 00:28:51.064 because obviously you know it's not true. 660 00:28:51.164 --> 00:28:53.704 Like they say oh yeah, Black men have bigger willies. 661 00:28:53.804 --> 00:28:55.424 They really don't, but in my head, 662 00:28:55.524 --> 00:28:56.864 I'm like since I'm gonna represent this, 663 00:28:56.964 --> 00:28:59.564 let's keep the stereotype going. 664 00:29:01.524 --> 00:29:04.204 (sombre music) 665 00:29:08.204 --> 00:29:10.064 [Narrator] Matt feels he has been used 666 00:29:10.164 --> 00:29:13.724 only for his large penis in previous relationships. 667 00:29:14.564 --> 00:29:17.224 There was one girl who was very into me 668 00:29:17.324 --> 00:29:18.544 being at my biggest. 669 00:29:18.644 --> 00:29:23.744 So she found online, she ordered me a custom penis pump 670 00:29:23.844 --> 00:29:27.744 that I could use to be basically as hard 671 00:29:27.844 --> 00:29:28.984 as long as she wanted it to be. 672 00:29:29.084 --> 00:29:32.744 You know I want to see it fully erect and obviously that, 673 00:29:32.844 --> 00:29:34.464 the only way to do that is with pumping. 674 00:29:34.564 --> 00:29:37.064 It's something to maintain an erection. 675 00:29:37.164 --> 00:29:38.384 Creates a vacuum seal 676 00:29:38.484 --> 00:29:40.744 and then even if you're not particularly aroused, 677 00:29:40.844 --> 00:29:43.364 you end up filling up the tube. 678 00:29:44.444 --> 00:29:46.064 She'd be doing the cooking, 679 00:29:46.164 --> 00:29:48.584 I would be encouraged to fill this up 680 00:29:48.684 --> 00:29:50.104 and then you can unplug it 681 00:29:50.204 --> 00:29:52.744 and then you can go about your daily business. 682 00:29:52.844 --> 00:29:54.344 She'd be able to sort of look at me 683 00:29:54.444 --> 00:29:56.504 like some sort of phallic totem pole 684 00:29:56.604 --> 00:29:59.704 while we were you know watching TV or playing scrabble 685 00:29:59.804 --> 00:30:03.604 or doing whatever mundane evening activities she wanted. 686 00:30:04.524 --> 00:30:05.584 And when you're in that situation, 687 00:30:05.684 --> 00:30:06.544 obviously you're very exposed 688 00:30:06.644 --> 00:30:09.424 and it's perhaps flattering to get that level of attention 689 00:30:09.524 --> 00:30:13.584 but also, it's very, degrading to be you know, 690 00:30:13.684 --> 00:30:15.684 expected to perform like that. 691 00:30:16.284 --> 00:30:17.904 (calm music) 692 00:30:18.004 --> 00:30:20.584 She was a size obsessed woman obviously 693 00:30:20.684 --> 00:30:23.384 and she ended up just showing my pictures around 694 00:30:23.484 --> 00:30:24.544 without my consent 695 00:30:24.644 --> 00:30:26.384 and that was obviously pretty hurtful as well. 696 00:30:26.484 --> 00:30:28.624 Like you know, no one wants to be treated 697 00:30:28.724 --> 00:30:30.545 like a piece of meat. 698 00:30:30.645 --> 00:30:33.025 (calm music) 699 00:30:33.125 --> 00:30:35.905 - [Narrator] To find true love, Matt is considering 700 00:30:36.005 --> 00:30:38.705 a drastic solution for his problem 701 00:30:38.805 --> 00:30:41.505 and has plucked up the courage to visit a surgeon 702 00:30:41.605 --> 00:30:45.425 specialising in penis reduction surgery. 703 00:30:45.525 --> 00:30:50.185 He's meeting Dr. Jakovich, a specialist in urology. 704 00:30:50.285 --> 00:30:53.485 - Exciting but I don't know what he can do. 705 00:30:55.565 --> 00:30:57.105 I always feel a bit you know, 706 00:30:57.205 --> 00:30:59.205 am I big enough for a reduction? 707 00:30:59.805 --> 00:31:01.905 I guess just to know what the options are realistically 708 00:31:02.005 --> 00:31:03.665 at this point. 709 00:31:03.765 --> 00:31:05.625 I mean if he can just take you know an inch off, 710 00:31:05.725 --> 00:31:07.725 that might be life changing. 711 00:31:08.765 --> 00:31:11.745 Obviously nervous because you get a bit squeamish 712 00:31:11.845 --> 00:31:13.845 when you're thinking about what could be happening. 713 00:31:14.845 --> 00:31:17.245 I just wanna know what it entails. 714 00:31:18.885 --> 00:31:20.885 Hello, hi. 715 00:31:21.285 --> 00:31:24.025 Can you explain to me what the reason is for this 716 00:31:24.125 --> 00:31:25.825 well let's say unusual request 717 00:31:25.925 --> 00:31:29.265 because most people are looking for penal enlargement 718 00:31:29.365 --> 00:31:31.145 and you're looking the opposite? 719 00:31:31.245 --> 00:31:32.905 I've had a lot of issues in my life. 720 00:31:33.005 --> 00:31:35.585 I think I've never had, I know I'll never you know 721 00:31:35.685 --> 00:31:37.785 find a partner who is that perfect fit, 722 00:31:37.885 --> 00:31:39.145 I think at the current size. 723 00:31:39.245 --> 00:31:42.065 And it would be good just to maybe just have 724 00:31:42.165 --> 00:31:43.385 a slight reduction. 725 00:31:43.485 --> 00:31:46.345 - What we can offer to you is a reasonable reduction 726 00:31:46.445 --> 00:31:48.985 in length and girth if this is what you're looking for. 727 00:31:49.085 --> 00:31:49.825 [Matt] Yes. 728 00:31:49.925 --> 00:31:53.305 - And then the surgery will be done in erection 729 00:31:53.405 --> 00:31:58.405 and then we do the amputation of that amount 730 00:31:59.205 --> 00:32:00.785 what is your desire. 731 00:32:00.885 --> 00:32:02.085 - 'Cause I'm definitely at the point where I don't know 732 00:32:02.165 --> 00:32:05.105 how much I would sensibly want to remove. 733 00:32:05.205 --> 00:32:06.705 I'm assuming you couldn't just take a little bit off 734 00:32:06.805 --> 00:32:09.665 and then a little bit more off the surgery theoretically? 735 00:32:09.765 --> 00:32:11.065 Don't know if you'd do that but-- 736 00:32:11.165 --> 00:32:13.345 We can't do the salami technique, 737 00:32:13.445 --> 00:32:15.185 we can't cut a little bit 738 00:32:15.285 --> 00:32:17.986 - each year to cut a little bit. - Yeah, yeah, I figured, yeah. 739 00:32:18.086 --> 00:32:19.906 So once we've done it, that's it. 740 00:32:20.006 --> 00:32:22.426 Is it possible, can I see your penis? 741 00:32:22.526 --> 00:32:24.526 [Matt] Yes. 742 00:32:25.126 --> 00:32:26.706 - [Dr. Jakovich] What size do you have an erection? 743 00:32:26.806 --> 00:32:27.906 [Matt] It's about 10.5, yeah. 744 00:32:28.006 --> 00:32:30.186 - [Dr. Jakovich] What would be the appropriate length 745 00:32:30.286 --> 00:32:31.146 of your penis? 746 00:32:31.246 --> 00:32:32.126 I don't know, I think of going down 747 00:32:32.206 --> 00:32:33.986 to even just like nine or eight and a half. 748 00:32:34.086 --> 00:32:36.106 Nine inches and reduction in girth is, 749 00:32:36.206 --> 00:32:38.506 how much, what do you think? 750 00:32:38.606 --> 00:32:40.666 [Matt] Probably about an inch or two? 751 00:32:40.766 --> 00:32:42.066 - An inch on circumference? - Yeah. 752 00:32:42.166 --> 00:32:43.786 - This is definitely possible. - Yeah. 753 00:32:43.886 --> 00:32:47.946 - We put it in erection, the corporal body, you see here? 754 00:32:48.046 --> 00:32:51.546 We fill it completely and then the measures are taken, 755 00:32:51.646 --> 00:32:53.646 then this will be amputated, 756 00:32:54.366 --> 00:32:58.386 take off this part and then put everything together 757 00:32:58.486 --> 00:33:01.086 and this is now in complete erection. 758 00:33:02.286 --> 00:33:03.266 First of all you should know 759 00:33:03.366 --> 00:33:06.146 that they are performed very seldomly 760 00:33:06.246 --> 00:33:11.246 because there is no clear statistics regarding success rate 761 00:33:11.566 --> 00:33:15.966 and more clear statistic regarding the complication rate. 762 00:33:17.286 --> 00:33:20.946 But we have for year, two or three of these patients 763 00:33:21.046 --> 00:33:22.786 performing this type of surgery. 764 00:33:22.886 --> 00:33:24.886 Thank you. 765 00:33:25.526 --> 00:33:28.146 I did not realise the sheer number of complications, 766 00:33:28.246 --> 00:33:33.306 the possible difficulties, the lack of an exact removal. 767 00:33:33.406 --> 00:33:35.586 Just having spoken to someone who knows the subject so well, 768 00:33:35.686 --> 00:33:37.686 give me that reassurance. 769 00:33:38.086 --> 00:33:39.306 It's definitely an extreme solution, 770 00:33:39.406 --> 00:33:41.986 but it is certainly something I could be considering. 771 00:33:42.086 --> 00:33:43.546 (calm music) 772 00:33:43.646 --> 00:33:46.286 - So sometimes, I do wish I was a little bit smaller. 773 00:33:47.806 --> 00:33:49.986 I would probably still be in one or two of my relationships 774 00:33:50.086 --> 00:33:52.866 from the past if I had a smaller penis, you know? 775 00:33:52.966 --> 00:33:55.826 So, yeah, sometimes I do wish I had, 776 00:33:55.926 --> 00:33:57.926 I was a smaller size, yeah. 777 00:33:58.606 --> 00:34:00.606 It's not difficult to attract love. 778 00:34:02.126 --> 00:34:04.126 Might be somewhat difficult 779 00:34:06.767 --> 00:34:08.107 keeping it, you know? 780 00:34:08.207 --> 00:34:12.427 Like, just depending on how that partner, 781 00:34:12.527 --> 00:34:15.107 in how sex is affected with that partner for example. 782 00:34:15.207 --> 00:34:17.307 If it's something that you know, 783 00:34:17.407 --> 00:34:20.547 if you know she loves, you know the situation that's there, 784 00:34:20.647 --> 00:34:21.907 then incredible. 785 00:34:22.007 --> 00:34:24.427 But if it's a problem, then that's, 786 00:34:24.527 --> 00:34:26.467 I don't wanna say oh red flag, she can't take dick. 787 00:34:26.567 --> 00:34:28.027 You know what I mean like that's not what I'd say, 788 00:34:28.127 --> 00:34:30.687 but it's more like a, it's definitely amber. 789 00:34:33.087 --> 00:34:35.607 (calm music) 790 00:34:40.007 --> 00:34:42.887 - The date with Malina, it went really well, 791 00:34:45.327 --> 00:34:47.307 but there just wasn't quite that connection 792 00:34:47.407 --> 00:34:50.567 in the end I think, so we've parted ways. 793 00:34:51.607 --> 00:34:53.507 [Narrator] Scott's very large penis 794 00:34:53.607 --> 00:34:57.447 has often meant sex has been difficult in his relationships 795 00:34:58.447 --> 00:35:00.767 but at last, things are looking up. 796 00:35:02.367 --> 00:35:04.387 Had a new date since. 797 00:35:04.487 --> 00:35:06.787 I just met somebody on a random night out, 798 00:35:06.887 --> 00:35:08.347 we went on a date last night 799 00:35:08.447 --> 00:35:11.427 and it went really well, I think anyway. 800 00:35:11.527 --> 00:35:13.827 I'd like to see where things go with that, if I'm honest. 801 00:35:13.927 --> 00:35:16.787 (calm music) 802 00:35:16.887 --> 00:35:19.287 But while I was with her, dancing with her, 803 00:35:20.847 --> 00:35:22.627 one of the guys went up to her and just basically said, 804 00:35:22.727 --> 00:35:23.867 "Yeah Scott's got a big cock." 805 00:35:23.967 --> 00:35:24.987 I was quite annoyed about it 806 00:35:25.087 --> 00:35:27.787 'cause again I don't want people to know me because of that, 807 00:35:27.887 --> 00:35:30.087 I want people to know me for my personality. 808 00:35:31.967 --> 00:35:34.027 [Narrator] As well as ruining his date, 809 00:35:34.127 --> 00:35:37.747 the videos of Scott's penis continue to do the rounds 810 00:35:37.847 --> 00:35:39.847 and it's getting him down. 811 00:35:40.567 --> 00:35:42.187 - One of the guys created something recently, 812 00:35:42.287 --> 00:35:44.187 a new group on WhatsApp. 813 00:35:44.287 --> 00:35:46.227 He goes, "Oh the video came out." 814 00:35:46.327 --> 00:35:48.467 And then one of the guys asked, "Which video?". 815 00:35:48.567 --> 00:35:50.107 He replied, "Weymouth one, 816 00:35:50.207 --> 00:35:51.707 where he comes out of the shower." 817 00:35:51.807 --> 00:35:53.388 And one of the guys goes, "Oh I've got it." 818 00:35:53.488 --> 00:35:54.828 and the other guy goes, 819 00:35:54.928 --> 00:35:58.028 "Oh yeah, I've got that in my prank wank bank." 820 00:35:58.128 --> 00:35:59.868 They've taken it without me knowing, 821 00:35:59.968 --> 00:36:02.228 just there casually having a shower, 822 00:36:02.328 --> 00:36:07.108 come out afterwards, getting changed and that happens. 823 00:36:07.208 --> 00:36:09.348 So that sort of stuff just gets sent around. 824 00:36:09.448 --> 00:36:11.788 That's not what I wanna be known for. 825 00:36:11.888 --> 00:36:13.388 - [Interviewer] Why have you put up with it for so long? 826 00:36:13.488 --> 00:36:15.068 Why have you not said anything? 827 00:36:15.168 --> 00:36:17.228 - Maybe I don't say it enough that actually, 828 00:36:17.328 --> 00:36:20.508 come on guys, let's put a stop for the, you know? 829 00:36:20.608 --> 00:36:21.708 Don't take it without my consent. 830 00:36:21.808 --> 00:36:22.948 You know enough's enough really. 831 00:36:23.048 --> 00:36:26.708 So I've gotta give my mate a call and have a chat with him. 832 00:36:26.808 --> 00:36:29.628 (intense music) 833 00:36:29.728 --> 00:36:32.388 Would it be okay to catch up with you? 834 00:36:33.408 --> 00:36:35.068 Bye. 835 00:36:35.168 --> 00:36:38.548 (intense music) 836 00:36:38.648 --> 00:36:40.648 So we'll see what happens. 837 00:36:41.008 --> 00:36:43.028 [Narrator] YouTuber Cam is exploring 838 00:36:43.128 --> 00:36:45.068 the fetishisation of Black men 839 00:36:45.168 --> 00:36:47.468 for a new video for his channel. 840 00:36:47.568 --> 00:36:48.668 I'm expecting big dicks, 841 00:36:48.768 --> 00:36:50.228 expecting women to be throwing themselves 842 00:36:50.328 --> 00:36:52.068 at these Black men on the stage. 843 00:36:52.168 --> 00:36:53.268 Let's see what happens. 844 00:36:53.368 --> 00:36:54.908 [Narrator] Tonight he's visiting 845 00:36:55.008 --> 00:36:56.908 and all male Black strip show 846 00:36:57.008 --> 00:36:58.708 to find out what's so fascinating 847 00:36:58.808 --> 00:37:00.148 to the women in the audience. 848 00:37:00.248 --> 00:37:02.248 This the whole shit. 849 00:37:02.808 --> 00:37:03.668 Let's go. 850 00:37:03.768 --> 00:37:05.768 Two, one. 851 00:37:06.448 --> 00:37:09.008 (women cheer) 852 00:37:11.448 --> 00:37:13.108 - [Narrator] To keep the audience satisfied 853 00:37:13.208 --> 00:37:15.708 and to live up to the stereotype of the Black man, 854 00:37:15.808 --> 00:37:18.168 the performers go to great lengths. 855 00:37:20.568 --> 00:37:21.828 It's just like an air vacuum 856 00:37:21.928 --> 00:37:24.548 because there's nothing here to arouse us, 857 00:37:24.648 --> 00:37:26.108 like women or whatever, 858 00:37:26.208 --> 00:37:28.748 we have to stimulate that effect somehow. 859 00:37:28.848 --> 00:37:31.648 So we use these pumps to get all the blood in the penis 860 00:37:32.808 --> 00:37:35.588 and then tie off the base so the blood stays in 861 00:37:35.688 --> 00:37:40.309 'cause if your performance is 20 minutes, 25 minutes, 862 00:37:40.409 --> 00:37:43.109 nobody's really looking to see a soft penis. 863 00:37:43.209 --> 00:37:43.949 (upbeat music) 864 00:37:44.049 --> 00:37:46.309 ♪ Not with a ladder, can't reach me ♪ 865 00:37:46.409 --> 00:37:49.149 ♪ That has done better on the Davey ♪ 866 00:37:49.249 --> 00:37:53.349 ♪ Stop, one more game on the best V ♪ 867 00:38:06.289 --> 00:38:08.989 - [Narrator] Having felt fetishised himself in the past, 868 00:38:09.089 --> 00:38:11.369 Cam wants to know what the appeal is. 869 00:38:12.209 --> 00:38:15.189 - This idea of BBC, the fetishisation of things, 870 00:38:15.289 --> 00:38:17.749 what's your opinion on it? 871 00:38:17.849 --> 00:38:19.429 Black mean having big dicks for example, 872 00:38:19.529 --> 00:38:20.469 is that true? 873 00:38:20.569 --> 00:38:21.569 - I must say they're not all the same size. 874 00:38:21.649 --> 00:38:22.869 [Cam] Ah cool, cool, cool, cool, 875 00:38:22.969 --> 00:38:24.049 - cool, cool, cool, cool. - They're not all massive, 876 00:38:24.129 --> 00:38:25.629 I think it is very much a stereotype. 877 00:38:25.729 --> 00:38:26.589 [Cam] Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 878 00:38:26.689 --> 00:38:27.409 - no I agree. - But for me personally, 879 00:38:27.489 --> 00:38:29.669 I've been with some guys that have got small penises. 880 00:38:29.769 --> 00:38:34.769 - [Cam] They've got small, and they're Black as well, yeah? 881 00:38:35.289 --> 00:38:38.589 What's the pros and cons of a big penis? 882 00:38:38.689 --> 00:38:39.949 I mean pros is to say that yeah, 883 00:38:40.049 --> 00:38:41.869 you took a big, big penis. 884 00:38:41.969 --> 00:38:44.349 - Oh, okay, okay. - You can handle that I guess. 885 00:38:44.449 --> 00:38:45.909 - So now to be fair because the reason I ask 886 00:38:46.009 --> 00:38:48.669 is because what's your opinion on say for example, 887 00:38:48.769 --> 00:38:51.709 white women that only go for Black men for instance? 888 00:38:51.809 --> 00:38:52.829 I feel like if you're, 889 00:38:52.929 --> 00:38:54.309 the only reason you're going for Black men 890 00:38:54.409 --> 00:38:55.669 is 'cause you think they got a big dick, 891 00:38:55.769 --> 00:38:57.509 then you need to educate yourself. 892 00:38:57.609 --> 00:38:58.669 [Cam] Okay. 893 00:38:58.769 --> 00:39:01.409 (upbeat music) 894 00:39:02.969 --> 00:39:04.349 Being a white woman for example, 895 00:39:04.449 --> 00:39:05.389 what is it like about Black men 896 00:39:05.489 --> 00:39:06.829 that you are attracted to now? 897 00:39:06.929 --> 00:39:09.249 - I mean you saw what was on the stage, right? 898 00:39:10.809 --> 00:39:13.069 If I had to choose between a lot, 899 00:39:13.169 --> 00:39:17.789 like a medium to a larger size than a small, 900 00:39:17.889 --> 00:39:18.769 - then I probably would go - You're gonna go 901 00:39:18.849 --> 00:39:22.469 - for a medium to large size. - for the bigger, okay, yeah. 902 00:39:22.569 --> 00:39:24.469 (women cheer) 903 00:39:24.569 --> 00:39:26.469 If for example a Black guy doesn't have 904 00:39:26.569 --> 00:39:27.349 a big penis for example, 905 00:39:27.449 --> 00:39:28.990 do you think it's a bit of fun to him, for example, 906 00:39:29.090 --> 00:39:30.790 that there's this narrative that all Black men 907 00:39:30.890 --> 00:39:32.250 must have big dicks, but actually there's a lot of men 908 00:39:32.330 --> 00:39:33.430 out there that don't have big dicks? 909 00:39:33.530 --> 00:39:35.390 - As a woman, you have to take responsibility 910 00:39:35.490 --> 00:39:37.870 to support your man 911 00:39:37.970 --> 00:39:40.710 and say you know I like you the way you are, 912 00:39:40.810 --> 00:39:43.150 but if you don't like the guy the way he is, 913 00:39:43.250 --> 00:39:44.950 then you have to move on. 914 00:39:45.050 --> 00:39:47.730 (upbeat music) 915 00:39:50.010 --> 00:39:51.430 One of the major things I've learnt 916 00:39:51.530 --> 00:39:54.790 is that people who have a preference for example, 917 00:39:54.890 --> 00:39:56.830 especially if they kind of fetishise a certain race, 918 00:39:56.930 --> 00:39:58.790 they'll always do mental hula hoops 919 00:39:58.890 --> 00:40:01.150 to kind of rationalise it and justify it in their minds. 920 00:40:01.250 --> 00:40:03.790 A lot of these women, I think secretly they do like the idea 921 00:40:03.890 --> 00:40:05.990 of this BBC type thing, but not all of them do. 922 00:40:06.090 --> 00:40:07.670 One of the white women that I actually interviewed, 923 00:40:07.770 --> 00:40:09.230 she made about actually, 924 00:40:09.330 --> 00:40:11.230 it's just about making men feel comfortable 925 00:40:11.330 --> 00:40:13.110 no matter what their size. 926 00:40:13.210 --> 00:40:15.510 (upbeat music) 927 00:40:23.970 --> 00:40:27.910 This belief is much more common amongst younger Brits. 928 00:40:28.010 --> 00:40:29.950 - [Tracy] I think it's a really good way to judge 929 00:40:30.050 --> 00:40:34.210 the honesty of a man, to actually say what is your size? 930 00:40:35.570 --> 00:40:37.670 Now prove it. 931 00:40:37.770 --> 00:40:39.770 So that one's for girth. 932 00:40:40.970 --> 00:40:43.390 - It's an old fashioned idea that the bigger the cock, 933 00:40:43.490 --> 00:40:44.430 the bigger the man. 934 00:40:44.530 --> 00:40:49.070 And it seems to be that a big cock 935 00:40:49.170 --> 00:40:53.910 equals like a really, really manly person. 936 00:40:54.010 --> 00:40:57.070 - No such thing as an alpha male, that's a complete fad. 937 00:40:57.170 --> 00:40:59.630 There were a lot of positive to having a big penis, 938 00:40:59.730 --> 00:41:02.550 but I don't think having a big penis 939 00:41:02.650 --> 00:41:05.830 should make anyone feel, 940 00:41:05.930 --> 00:41:08.850 we shouldn't be any less of a man if I had a smaller penis. 941 00:41:12.970 --> 00:41:15.591 (calm music) 942 00:41:15.691 --> 00:41:17.551 - [Narrator] Scott's had enough of the banter 943 00:41:17.651 --> 00:41:21.091 and relentless sharing of pictures amongst his teammates. 944 00:41:23.411 --> 00:41:25.151 He's meeting his mate Alec 945 00:41:25.251 --> 00:41:27.751 in the hope that something will change. 946 00:41:27.851 --> 00:41:30.391 (intense music) 947 00:41:30.491 --> 00:41:32.111 It's to do with obviously my penis 948 00:41:32.211 --> 00:41:34.751 and bit of banter about you and the guys 949 00:41:34.851 --> 00:41:37.111 and you are one of the main sort of forefront of it. 950 00:41:37.211 --> 00:41:39.831 And I feel at times, I feel a bit objectified 951 00:41:39.931 --> 00:41:42.871 and it's sort of hampered my dating scene locally 952 00:41:42.971 --> 00:41:44.271 because everyone knows about it. 953 00:41:44.371 --> 00:41:46.111 I think it's more a celebration though. 954 00:41:46.211 --> 00:41:47.471 I think if you're honest Scott, 955 00:41:47.571 --> 00:41:50.031 I think you like a little bit of the notoriety of it. 956 00:41:50.131 --> 00:41:51.431 I can understand it could hamper you, 957 00:41:51.531 --> 00:41:53.751 but I think it could also really benefit you as well. 958 00:41:53.851 --> 00:41:55.151 - How would you feel if that was, you know, 959 00:41:55.251 --> 00:41:57.071 your dick being shown around? 960 00:41:57.171 --> 00:41:58.111 I think I'd love it. 961 00:41:58.211 --> 00:41:59.231 - You'd lap it up? - Yeah. 962 00:41:59.331 --> 00:42:00.991 - It's when pictures are taken and videos are taken 963 00:42:01.091 --> 00:42:01.871 that aren't consented, 964 00:42:01.971 --> 00:42:04.711 that get sent to my mates' work colleagues 965 00:42:04.811 --> 00:42:05.931 and people just know Scott Newman for that 966 00:42:06.011 --> 00:42:08.751 and put all around Dorset and Somerset. 967 00:42:08.851 --> 00:42:09.871 Listen I know that the guys, 968 00:42:09.971 --> 00:42:11.111 it is in good humour. 969 00:42:11.211 --> 00:42:11.971 Just imagine if it was like, 970 00:42:12.051 --> 00:42:14.271 say your wife's tits being sent around. 971 00:42:14.371 --> 00:42:17.111 - No-one would have access to that. 972 00:42:17.211 --> 00:42:19.151 - No, but then why should they have access to me? 973 00:42:19.251 --> 00:42:20.791 You're in a changing room. 974 00:42:20.891 --> 00:42:23.751 If we're honest around the guys, you're not shy, 975 00:42:23.851 --> 00:42:24.591 not that you have to be. 976 00:42:24.691 --> 00:42:26.031 When I'm in that situation, 977 00:42:26.131 --> 00:42:27.111 I try and say look that's enough, 978 00:42:27.211 --> 00:42:29.991 they just keep going with it or just keeps carrying on. 979 00:42:30.091 --> 00:42:31.511 But I think I'm at that point now, where I'm like. 980 00:42:31.611 --> 00:42:34.591 - I still see it as a positive, but I do understand that. 981 00:42:34.691 --> 00:42:35.431 Yeah, no I appreciate that. 982 00:42:35.531 --> 00:42:37.631 You're subject to a lot of conversation. 983 00:42:37.731 --> 00:42:38.911 - Yeah, I am, and I don't want-- 984 00:42:39.011 --> 00:42:41.071 - The only thing worse than being spoken about 985 00:42:41.171 --> 00:42:42.311 it not being spoken about. 986 00:42:42.411 --> 00:42:43.671 You know that, Scott. 987 00:42:43.771 --> 00:42:45.771 But I will have a word with the guys 988 00:42:46.971 --> 00:42:48.231 if it will make life in the changing room 989 00:42:48.331 --> 00:42:49.991 a little bit easier on match day. 990 00:42:50.091 --> 00:42:51.151 I would definitely appreciate that. 991 00:42:51.251 --> 00:42:53.251 Yeah? 992 00:42:53.971 --> 00:42:55.631 Think it is all done in good humour, 993 00:42:55.731 --> 00:42:58.951 but I can imagine you know when the match has stopped, 994 00:42:59.051 --> 00:43:01.751 the changing rooms are filled and he goes home that 995 00:43:01.851 --> 00:43:05.272 perhaps it does maybe weigh on him a little bit. 996 00:43:05.372 --> 00:43:07.152 I don't think the guys know, I certainly didn't know 997 00:43:07.252 --> 00:43:09.552 and you know I'm glad he brought it to our attention 998 00:43:09.652 --> 00:43:12.792 and you know I probably will perhaps act 999 00:43:12.892 --> 00:43:14.892 a little bit differently. 1000 00:43:15.532 --> 00:43:17.532 I do feel a lot more confident that 1001 00:43:18.612 --> 00:43:21.232 he'll put it towards the lads and subtly and sort of say, 1002 00:43:21.332 --> 00:43:22.952 yeah, you know this is how Scott feels. 1003 00:43:23.052 --> 00:43:26.032 And so I'm hoping that will happen 1004 00:43:26.132 --> 00:43:27.592 and maybe just give me a bit more respect 1005 00:43:27.692 --> 00:43:29.792 and just, you know, just let me know 1006 00:43:29.892 --> 00:43:30.652 if you wanna take a picture or you know 1007 00:43:30.732 --> 00:43:33.412 just don't do it without me not knowing, you know? 1008 00:43:35.692 --> 00:43:39.552 - Oh my God, names for penises that people have told me, 1009 00:43:39.652 --> 00:43:41.792 err little Johnny. 1010 00:43:41.892 --> 00:43:44.272 You know whopper, that's it. 1011 00:43:44.372 --> 00:43:46.932 destroyer, purple headed destroyer. 1012 00:43:48.132 --> 00:43:50.132 Dick, cock. 1013 00:43:52.812 --> 00:43:55.052 - I used to call him Jimmy, I don't know why. 1014 00:43:55.972 --> 00:43:59.312 I think just old willy or in Scotland they say Bobby. 1015 00:43:59.412 --> 00:44:00.592 I think that's just a bit boring, weren't it? 1016 00:44:00.692 --> 00:44:02.272 So, I just gave him like a different name. 1017 00:44:02.372 --> 00:44:03.872 Jimmy, just to add a bit, I don't know why, 1018 00:44:03.972 --> 00:44:05.972 it was a boring name anyway so. 1019 00:44:10.052 --> 00:44:10.812 [Matt] The timings have worked out 1020 00:44:10.892 --> 00:44:12.432 that I've got to phone the doctor now 1021 00:44:12.532 --> 00:44:14.472 to let him know my decision. 1022 00:44:14.572 --> 00:44:16.512 - [Narrator] It's been 20 days since his visit 1023 00:44:16.612 --> 00:44:19.592 to the surgeon to discuss a penis reduction 1024 00:44:19.692 --> 00:44:22.732 and Matt has been carefully considering his options. 1025 00:44:25.292 --> 00:44:27.032 Hello this is Matt calling 1026 00:44:27.132 --> 00:44:29.132 about the recent reduction appointment. 1027 00:44:29.972 --> 00:44:30.752 [Dr. Jakovich] Yeah mate, yeah? 1028 00:44:30.852 --> 00:44:32.912 - Yes, I just wanted to say thank you for your time, 1029 00:44:33.012 --> 00:44:34.592 it was really enlightening, 1030 00:44:34.692 --> 00:44:37.632 but I think you made it very clear, all of the risks 1031 00:44:37.732 --> 00:44:39.512 and until I'm 100% sure, 1032 00:44:39.612 --> 00:44:41.152 I don't think I can really go along with it. 1033 00:44:41.252 --> 00:44:43.252 It's a very severe procedure. 1034 00:44:43.852 --> 00:44:45.792 - [Dr. Jakovich] Yes, and I think it is a good idea 1035 00:44:45.892 --> 00:44:47.712 just because you're not sure now. 1036 00:44:47.812 --> 00:44:49.852 - Thank you, bye. - Cheers, bye. 1037 00:44:51.053 --> 00:44:51.913 (calm music) 1038 00:44:52.013 --> 00:44:55.713 I think what you want is to be good side of average, 1039 00:44:55.813 --> 00:44:58.393 but you should be proud of yourself for who you are, 1040 00:44:58.493 --> 00:44:59.973 what your personality is, what your accomplishments are, 1041 00:45:00.053 --> 00:45:02.053 not for what's between your legs. 1042 00:45:03.013 --> 00:45:05.553 You don't wanna give up too much, still a romantic at heart. 1043 00:45:05.653 --> 00:45:08.033 So you've gotta think there's someone out there for me, 1044 00:45:08.133 --> 00:45:10.453 whether that is a reduced me or not. 1045 00:45:11.893 --> 00:45:15.113 Hopefully I can find enough peace in myself 1046 00:45:15.213 --> 00:45:16.513 with whatever conclusion I come to 1047 00:45:16.613 --> 00:45:18.613 that I will find that person. 1048 00:45:19.493 --> 00:45:21.953 (calm music) 1049 00:45:22.053 --> 00:45:23.753 - That's why it's really important to the carrier 1050 00:45:23.853 --> 00:45:26.473 of a big penis to understand that you know your value 1051 00:45:26.573 --> 00:45:28.913 of self should not be attributed to your penis. 1052 00:45:29.013 --> 00:45:31.193 Like there's a lot more to you than your penis. 1053 00:45:31.293 --> 00:45:33.993 So that's not something that you wanna go, 1054 00:45:34.093 --> 00:45:36.033 bigging up, you know in a conversation. 1055 00:45:36.133 --> 00:45:38.353 There's 1,000 things to bring up 1056 00:45:38.453 --> 00:45:40.533 before bringing up the size of your penis. 1057 00:45:41.893 --> 00:45:44.333 (calm music) 1058 00:46:05.333 --> 00:46:08.573 (calm music continues) 1059 00:46:12.333 --> 00:46:14.873 ♪ Ohh ♪ 1060 00:46:14.973 --> 00:46:16.273 (upbeat music) 1061 00:46:16.373 --> 00:46:21.373 ♪ Ohh, ohh, ohh ♪ 1062 00:46:22.053 --> 00:46:24.293 ♪ Ohh, ohh ♪ 1063 00:46:25.893 --> 00:46:28.893 (calm upbeat music) 1064 00:46:34.213 --> 00:46:36.493 ♪ Ohh, ohh ♪ 1065 00:46:42.414 --> 00:46:44.894 (calm music)