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{\an8}- Hi. I'm DeeDee.
- And I'm Whitney.
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Three years ago,
we fell in love.
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And me and my three kids...
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[DeeDee]
And me and my four kids...
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[Whitney]
Decided to move in together.
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[DeeDee] And we became
one big family.
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We're marching.
We're marching.
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We're marching down the road.
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[Whitney]
I decided to propose to her.
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Yes.
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[Whitney]
Then she proposed to me.
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Now, would you marry me back?
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[screams]
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And we're engaged.
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So, now,
we're headed down the aisle
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with our blended family.
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- Let's go!
- Let's go!
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- Let's go!
- Let's go!
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Ugh! Everything's okay.
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Mom. [laughs]
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[DeeDee]
But being a lesbian couple
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with seven kids, in a small
town in North Carolina,
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definitely has its challenges.
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- Oh, shoot!
- [Whitney] Oh!
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[Mickey] They have a lot
working against them.
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The town we live in,
splitting from their exes.
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Still have mixed
reversed feelings to you.
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[Mickey] Family.
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[Davena] But every
relationship has issues.
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I don't think they're ready
for marriage.
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I think these girls
are in over their heads.
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[Whitney] Through it all,
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[Whitney] Through it all,
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we've grown together, stronger.
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- [screams]
- She's just my sister.
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Don't worry about it.
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[Whitney] We may look
a little different
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than your average family,
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but we promise,
we love the same,
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we laugh the same.
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[DeeDee] We're just like
everyone else.
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[Whitney] No.
Two moms is better.
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[all] This is our life
with two moms.
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[Whitney] One per kid, okay?
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[DeeDee] One per kid.
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We are one, two, three,
four, five, six, seven.
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You're all here.
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You're all here.
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- Say cheese.
- Cheese.
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- All right, you ready?
- Mmm-hmm.
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- Okay.
- Are you ready?
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- Mmm-hmm.
- Okay.
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- Three, two--
- One.
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Action.
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- [Whitney] Thumbs up.
- [all] Thumbs up.
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- [Whitney] Elbows back.
- [all] Elbows back.
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- Feet apart.
- Feet apart.
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- Knees together.
- Knees together.
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We're marching.
We're marching.
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We're marching down the road.
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{\an8}I have no explanation
on how two straight women
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just fell in love
with each other.
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[Whitney] Okay. You done?
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[Whitney] Sexy mama.
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[Whitney] Sexy mama.
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I love you.
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- I mean, hop up.
- I couldn't do it.
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{\an8}[DeeDee] But you know what?
We did.
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{\an8}[Whitney] Oh, I'm sorry, babe.
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It's over here.
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Your arms are gonna...
[laughs]
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At your service.
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I'm from New York.
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I was born and raised
in Brooklyn.
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Whoo-whoo.
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Growing up in New York,
we had a nice, big home.
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My parents had
a really good relationship,
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so I think I had
a really good childhood.
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I wouldn't trade it or change it
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for anything in the world.
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For anything in the world.
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Tell mommy. There you go.
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- Oh, my God. Oh!
- Oh!
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- Jealousy.
- Oh!
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Whoa!
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We share Mommy, okay?
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[DeeDee]
When I was in grad school,
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I met my now ex-husband, Will.
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Will and I were together
for nine and a half years.
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And while we were together,
we had three amazing children,
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{\an8}Kailynn, Zuri, and Zamir.
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{\an8}When I grow,
I wanna be a surgeon
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{\an8}'cause they make a lot of money.
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{\an8}[DeeDee] My fourth kid
is my stepdaughter, Damiya,
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who I've known
since she was five years old.
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{\an8}What do you wanna be
in the wedding?
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{\an8}You wanna be the Pride?
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Oh, okay.
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{\an8}I always pictured
the "perfect life."
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{\an8}Like, white picket fence.
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{\an8}You know,
the picture-perfect family,
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the mom, the dad, the kids.
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And now, I mean, I'm a lesbian,
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I'm in an interracial
relationship.
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I didn't expect any of this
for myself.
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You wanna support your mommies?
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You wanna support your mommies?
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Yeah, you love us?
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You do? We love you too, bud.
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I married
my high school sweetheart
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at the age of 18,
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and we were married
for 11 years.
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My ex-husband was my first,
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because I was taught
that you have to be a virgin
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when you get married.
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Follows married.
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{\an8}I had three kids,
a daughter, Brooklyn,
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{\an8}a son Beckham,
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{\an8}and another little girl,
Brennan.
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{\an8}Which one do you guys like more,
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Mama or Mommy?
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- Mama.
- Who's the meanest?
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- Mommy.
- Ma.
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- Ma.
- Mommy.
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What?
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I'm Mommy.
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And I'm Mama,
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because DeeDee didn't like
how southern that sounded.
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- [Whitney] Who's the nicest?
- Me.
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Who thinks Mommy is the nicest?
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- Raise your hand.
- Yeah.
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- I, I think--
- [DeeDee] I'm offended.
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Y'all wanna get ice cream?
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[all] Yeah!
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All right, follow Mommy.
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- One, two, three--
- Four, five, six, seven.
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Okay.
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The world is changing.
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The world is changing.
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Unfortunately, our town
is not changing quickly.
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All right.
We have a big order.
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And same sex relationships
are still very iffy.
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{\an8}Mommy, I'm ready.
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{\an8}How do girls and girls
have baby?
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[Kailynn]
So, how about two girls,
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how do they have babies?
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How do two girls have babies?
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- [DeeDee] Uh-huh.
- Damiya, you wanna answer it?
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- [laughter]
- LGBTQ is not heard of
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where we're at.
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So, that community is
definitely one we don't have here.
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- You look so cute.
- I'm so excited.
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So ready to dance.
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We met doing dance class.
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I was her instructor.
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[Whitney]
It had been about six months
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after I had been divorced
before I met DeeDee.
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Ask him what you
want to ask him with the arm.
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Oh, okay. So, for every
day, I'm still confused on it,
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'cause I go, and then I go
to the right or the left first?
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You go to the...
She go this way
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and I go to this way.
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[clear throats]
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I do.
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[laughter]
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- Right.
- No.
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- Oh.
- [DeeDee] See?
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Yeah, that one's pretty cute.
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She has better rhythm because...
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- Mmm-hmm.
- She was born with it.
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But I had to work for mine.
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I was not blessed
with the best rhythm,
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but I worked hard,
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and I really feel like...
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I don't dance like
a crazy White girl.
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- Eyy! Eyy!
- [laughter]
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I'm so White.
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I'm so White.
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- All right, y'all.
- Left first?
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- Yeah.
- All right.
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Hey!
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Hey!
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So, my connection with DeeDee,
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it was instant.
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Hey!
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Now, we step it up.
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As months went by,
and we became friends...
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I started to confide in her
about a lot of things,
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you know,
my relationship issues.
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- Eyy! Eyy!
- [woman] What? What?
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- Eyy! Eyy!
- [woman] What? What?
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Eyy!
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[Whitney] We're talking a lot
about, like, the men in my life
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that were just constantly
giving me problems.
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- Eyy!
- Eyy!
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- Eyy!
- Eyy!
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- Eyy!
- Eyy!
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But we just became closer
and closer.
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And then, I started asking her
more questions, like,
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"Have you ever thought
about being with the woman?"
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Uh, no. I... [chuckles]
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- Eyy! Eyy! Eyy!
- Wait!
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- Eyy!
- Okay!
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So, one day after dance class,
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we drove, and we went into,
like, a parking lot,
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and she ended up winning over,
and kissing me.
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I had never kissed a woman,
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and I didn't really know
how it was gonna be.
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But that was a big change for me
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But that was a big change for me
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because I felt butterflies,
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and I began seeing DeeDee
in another way.
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Kissing Whitney,
I just put sparks in my eyes
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and in my body and...
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[sighs]
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And that's when I realized
that I loved her.
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Her kiss stole me away.
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I don't know how you all feel
when you all kiss people.
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When I kiss her,
it goes everywhere.
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[Whitney] I didn't expect
a little fun kiss
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[Whitney] I didn't expect
a little fun kiss
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to completely change
my entire identity,
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but it did.
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And it was scary as hell,
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because I instantly knew
I could not lose her.
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[DeeDee] After I kissed her,
every night,
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like, I would go to sleep,
I would think about her.
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It just kept building
and building.
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And I couldn't get her
out of my mind.
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Yes, look at you.
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- That is...
- No.
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- Teamwork, babe.
- I thought it was just--
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- I love you.
- I love you too.
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I was aware that I was
falling in love with Whitney,
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and it made me
very confused and scared,
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and it made me
very confused and scared,
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because at the time,
I was married to Will,
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and struggling
to make my marriage work.
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{\an8}[woman speaking]
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{\an8}[DeeDee] We're hoping
for this fall.
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{\an8}- [Whitney] Yes, definitely.
- [DeeDee] Fall 2022.
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{\an8}It was kind of, like,
a boom explosion.
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{\an8}It was just, like,
one day popped up,
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{\an8}boom, we're a couple.
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{\an8}And we were all like, "What?
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{\an8}When?"
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It was confusing
because we knew them
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to be straight.
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She wants to take
my last name, y'all.
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{\an8}[woman speaking]
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{\an8}Griffith.
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We're gonna take her last name.
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[Mickey] They have a lot
working against them.
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The town we live in,
splitting from their exes,
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church, family.
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I think these girls
are in over their heads.
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{\an8}[Whitney] You are so gonna be
the event planner, girl.
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{\an8}You're, like, mad good...
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- [DeeDee] Mad creative.
- At planning events.
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[Whitney] All of our kids
were...
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- [laughter]
- Yeah. Yeah. I am creative.
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[DeeDee]
LaQuana is my oldest sister,
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and Davena is the middle sister.
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The sisterhood we have
together is so important to me.
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{\an8}Hello. My name is LaQuana
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{\an8}and I am DeeDee's oldest sister.
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{\an8}I'm Davena.
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{\an8}I'm Davena.
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{\an8}And I'm DeeDee's middle sister.
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Things with my sisters
right now are really awkward.
273
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They don't like Whitney.
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[Davena] I think that Whitney
makes DeeDee happy
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from what I see.
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But every relationship
has issues.
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I don't think they're ready
for marriage still.
278
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Thank you y'all
for coming, guys.
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[DeeDee] Whitney helped me
to embrace me,
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and she is my future.
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I want her forever.
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- Yeah, it was good.
- You were awesome.
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[Whitney] Did everybody have
a good day?
284
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- Yes.
- Yes.
285
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[sighs] This one's a long day,
286
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but it's time to wind down.
287
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All right, guys,
we need to say our prayers,
288
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and then we're gonna have
to go to sleep,
289
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because me and Mommy are tired.
290
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[DeeDee] Exhausted, guys.
291
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- Who wants to pray?
- Me.
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All right, Kai.
You can say our prayer.
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All through my childhood,
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I mainly did everything
in the church.
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♪ Kiss me like you
Wanna be loved ♪
296
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♪ Kiss me like you
Wanna be loved ♪
297
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I was a worship leader
for 10 years.
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That was my favorite
thing to do.
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It was how I showed my heart
for the Lord.
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♪ Falling in love ♪
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All right, everybody,
quiet mouth.
302
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Close your eyes.
303
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[Kailynn]
Now, I lay me down to sleep,
304
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I pray the Lord my soul to keep.
305
00:10:20,066 --> 00:10:22,165
When I came out,
I was no longer allowed
306
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to lead worship.
As a Christian,
307
00:10:24,667 --> 00:10:27,366
you're able to come
to church as a lesbian,
308
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but you cannot be
in a lesbian relationship,
309
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and be on the leadership team
of our church.
310
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So, I was made to step down.
311
00:10:34,867 --> 00:10:38,165
That was the hardest thing
that I've ever experienced.
312
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I was open and honest
313
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about loving a female.
314
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That is the only thing
that changed.
315
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[Kailynn] If I should die
before I wake,
316
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I pray the Lord my soul to take.
317
00:10:48,867 --> 00:10:51,700
I lost who I was for the first,
318
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you know, 20-something
years of my life.
319
00:10:53,667 --> 00:10:55,366
I lost friends
320
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that I thought were truly
my deep friends.
321
00:10:58,367 --> 00:10:59,999
And my family
is super conservative.
322
00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,000
And my family
is super conservative.
323
00:11:01,266 --> 00:11:03,099
My grandmother still prays
324
00:11:03,100 --> 00:11:05,065
that I will get back with my ex.
325
00:11:05,066 --> 00:11:07,800
She does not condone
my relationship with DeeDee.
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[Kailynn] Amen.
I love my family.
327
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- [DeeDee] Aww!
- [Whitney] Awesome, guys.
328
00:11:12,367 --> 00:11:15,666
So, to go from having
a support system for years,
329
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the same people that
loved me that, you know,
330
00:11:18,266 --> 00:11:21,700
looked up to me, to then them
completely turning their backs
331
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and being, like, "You're no
longer accepted as a leader."
332
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I never thought that it would
happen to me, you know?
333
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I'm tired.
334
00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,000
I'm tired.
335
00:11:31,266 --> 00:11:33,099
I don't wanna go to work
in the morning.
336
00:11:33,100 --> 00:11:36,065
- Well.
- Got to make this money.
337
00:11:36,066 --> 00:11:39,300
It's just getting
what, money? Yeah.
338
00:11:39,367 --> 00:11:41,099
[Whitney] I was forced
to choose between
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who I love, and what I love.
340
00:11:42,967 --> 00:11:44,366
By keeping DeeDee,
341
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I chose who I love,
342
00:11:46,967 --> 00:11:49,300
and it has been
the biggest blessing
343
00:11:49,367 --> 00:11:50,766
that I've ever experienced.
344
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- I love you.
- I love you, too.
345
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[Whitney] I'm so tired.
346
00:12:02,166 --> 00:12:03,700
{\an8}[all] Coming up...
347
00:12:03,767 --> 00:12:05,867
{\an8}- Dad!
- Oh.
348
00:12:07,367 --> 00:12:09,000
{\an8}We decided to invite Will,
349
00:12:09,066 --> 00:12:10,300
{\an8}and DeeDee's sisters.
350
00:12:10,367 --> 00:12:12,000
[DeeDee] Oh, they're here.
351
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{\an8}[Will speaking]
352
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{\an8}Come on here.
353
00:12:32,567 --> 00:12:34,000
{\an8}Careful.
354
00:12:37,266 --> 00:12:38,566
{\an8}[DeeDee] Hi, baby!
355
00:12:38,567 --> 00:12:40,566
{\an8}I missed you.
356
00:12:40,567 --> 00:12:41,666
{\an8}Look how big I get.
357
00:12:41,667 --> 00:12:43,265
{\an8}Look how big I get.
358
00:12:43,266 --> 00:12:44,966
{\an8}- [Zuri speaking]
- Go ahead.
359
00:12:44,967 --> 00:12:46,666
{\an8}[DeeDee] Look how big I get.
Look how big I get.
360
00:12:46,667 --> 00:12:49,566
{\an8}Oh! Hey, Zuri, how was school?
361
00:12:49,567 --> 00:12:50,114
{\an8}Okay. Mmm-hmm.
362
00:12:50,114 --> 00:12:51,000
{\an8}Okay. Mmm-hmm.
363
00:12:51,567 --> 00:12:53,500
{\an8}- How was school, y'all?
- It was boring.
364
00:12:53,567 --> 00:12:55,500
[DeeDee] Oh, gosh,
look at your hair.
365
00:12:55,567 --> 00:12:57,165
Who did your hair? Your dad?
366
00:12:57,166 --> 00:12:58,466
Went and got
his haircut today, so--
367
00:12:58,467 --> 00:13:00,666
I see. It looks so good.
368
00:13:00,667 --> 00:13:03,466
- I have a bald head.
- [woman] You have a bald head?
369
00:13:03,467 --> 00:13:05,165
[Will] It's not...
Not completely.
370
00:13:05,166 --> 00:13:08,200
I met Will when
I was clubbing. [laughs]
371
00:13:08,266 --> 00:13:11,000
I used to like partying
all the time.
372
00:13:11,066 --> 00:13:13,600
I was young, fun,
and I knew how to turn up.
373
00:13:15,066 --> 00:13:17,099
- And what's going on with you?
- [Will] Typical teen.
374
00:13:17,100 --> 00:13:18,265
- [laughter]
- Okay.
375
00:13:18,266 --> 00:13:19,666
[Will]
She wanna TikTok all day.
376
00:13:19,667 --> 00:13:20,114
Ah. You all can go in,
377
00:13:20,114 --> 00:13:21,000
Ah. You all can go in,
378
00:13:21,467 --> 00:13:22,666
I'll talk to your dad
for a second.
379
00:13:22,667 --> 00:13:24,165
[Will] All right.
Where my hug at?
380
00:13:24,166 --> 00:13:25,999
- Don't act new.
- [DeeDee chuckles]
381
00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,300
- All right. Love you.
- [Zuri] Bye.
382
00:13:28,367 --> 00:13:30,566
When I saw DeeDee at the club
back then, I was, like,
383
00:13:30,567 --> 00:13:33,165
"She's all right."
And we exchanged numbers
384
00:13:33,166 --> 00:13:34,666
and kept it going from there.
385
00:13:34,667 --> 00:13:36,300
[DeeDee]
Look at those muscles.
386
00:13:36,367 --> 00:13:37,367
[Will] All right, big man.
387
00:13:37,368 --> 00:13:38,666
He's strong like me, anyway.
388
00:13:38,667 --> 00:13:40,300
- Like you?
- [laughter]
389
00:13:40,367 --> 00:13:42,300
- No.
- I decided to marry Will
390
00:13:42,367 --> 00:13:44,999
because I thought that's
what I was supposed to do.
391
00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:46,466
You know, I was in my mid-20s,
392
00:13:46,467 --> 00:13:47,999
who was about to start a family.
393
00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,113
I just felt comfortable
and safe.
394
00:13:50,114 --> 00:13:50,500
I just felt comfortable
and safe.
395
00:13:50,567 --> 00:13:51,000
And it felt right at the time.
396
00:13:52,567 --> 00:13:54,566
So, how was the kids
this weekend at the house?
397
00:13:54,567 --> 00:13:56,800
[sighs] Zamir, his attitude
398
00:13:56,867 --> 00:13:58,600
all weekend
has been up and down.
399
00:13:58,667 --> 00:14:01,400
What DeeDee and I had
was very unique.
400
00:14:01,467 --> 00:14:03,766
It was a one of a kind
relationship.
401
00:14:03,767 --> 00:14:06,300
Some of our friends
were looking at us
402
00:14:06,367 --> 00:14:09,265
as relationship goals
at the time,
403
00:14:09,266 --> 00:14:11,666
and it was just
a wonderful situation
404
00:14:11,667 --> 00:14:13,032
between the two of us.
405
00:14:13,033 --> 00:14:15,766
When me and Will started
dating, I made it really clear to him
406
00:14:15,767 --> 00:14:18,466
that I like women.
He thought it was cool.
407
00:14:18,467 --> 00:14:20,113
He didn't see nothing
wrong with that.
408
00:14:20,114 --> 00:14:20,200
He didn't see nothing
wrong with that.
409
00:14:20,266 --> 00:14:21,000
He asked me like,
"Are you still,
410
00:14:21,767 --> 00:14:23,600
you know, into women?"
I'm like, "Yeah."
411
00:14:23,667 --> 00:14:25,366
I knew she was attracted
to women,
412
00:14:25,367 --> 00:14:27,766
but I never knew that
that was a void
413
00:14:27,767 --> 00:14:29,300
that she was missing.
414
00:14:29,367 --> 00:14:30,666
How's everything going?
415
00:14:30,667 --> 00:14:32,800
Uh, I'm making it,
just still sore from surgery,
416
00:14:32,867 --> 00:14:34,265
but other than that, I'm good.
417
00:14:34,266 --> 00:14:35,766
When I told Will
I wanted a divorce,
418
00:14:35,767 --> 00:14:37,566
he was furious.
419
00:14:37,567 --> 00:14:39,265
Like, he started crying.
420
00:14:39,266 --> 00:14:41,100
It was bad.
421
00:14:41,166 --> 00:14:43,400
You know, I was truly in love
with that woman.
422
00:14:43,467 --> 00:14:45,566
And I felt like
that was the woman
423
00:14:45,567 --> 00:14:48,700
that I was gonna be with
until I took my last breath.
424
00:14:48,767 --> 00:14:50,113
You got somebody helping you?
425
00:14:50,114 --> 00:14:50,300
You got somebody helping you?
426
00:14:50,367 --> 00:14:51,000
No. I'm all by myself.
427
00:14:51,667 --> 00:14:53,165
Solo-dolo.
428
00:14:53,166 --> 00:14:55,100
It's not that
I don't wanna date,
429
00:14:55,166 --> 00:14:57,100
it's just like, um, still have
430
00:14:57,166 --> 00:15:00,867
mixed reserved feelings
to you, unfortunately.
431
00:15:02,166 --> 00:15:04,866
I never really wanted
to leave him
432
00:15:04,867 --> 00:15:06,366
or break up my marriage.
But the things
433
00:15:06,367 --> 00:15:07,766
that were missing
in my relationship
434
00:15:07,767 --> 00:15:10,300
was all within me.
The emptiness that I felt
435
00:15:10,367 --> 00:15:12,766
was me wanting to be
with a female.
436
00:15:12,767 --> 00:15:15,065
He was fulfilling his role
437
00:15:15,066 --> 00:15:16,800
as the husband and the man
in the house,
438
00:15:16,867 --> 00:15:18,700
but I just wasn't happy.
439
00:15:40,567 --> 00:15:43,065
Good morning, girls.
440
00:15:43,066 --> 00:15:44,700
It's time to wake up, baby.
441
00:15:44,767 --> 00:15:46,066
Hmm.
442
00:15:47,266 --> 00:15:49,165
{\an8}We've blended our family
about a year
443
00:15:49,166 --> 00:15:50,114
{\an8}after we had gotten together.
444
00:15:50,114 --> 00:15:50,867
{\an8}After we had gotten together.
445
00:15:50,867 --> 00:15:51,000
We decided to move in together,
446
00:15:52,467 --> 00:15:55,065
and put all of our kids
in the same household,
447
00:15:55,066 --> 00:15:56,300
and start our life.
448
00:15:59,667 --> 00:16:01,000
You're so cute.
449
00:16:03,266 --> 00:16:06,099
[DeeDee] Our triplets don't
have the same color skin,
450
00:16:06,100 --> 00:16:07,500
but they are definitely
triplets.
451
00:16:07,567 --> 00:16:10,265
{\an8}- [kids] We're triplets.
- [woman laughs]
452
00:16:10,266 --> 00:16:11,800
[woman] How old are you, guys?
453
00:16:12,100 --> 00:16:13,766
Four.
454
00:16:13,767 --> 00:16:15,600
Three.
455
00:16:15,667 --> 00:16:16,900
Four.
456
00:16:17,567 --> 00:16:18,766
Cheese.
457
00:16:18,767 --> 00:16:20,113
{\an8}My name is Brynnen.
458
00:16:20,114 --> 00:16:20,600
{\an8}My name is Brynnen.
459
00:16:20,667 --> 00:16:21,000
{\an8}[DeeDee] Brynnen is talkative,
loud, and curious.
460
00:16:23,867 --> 00:16:25,466
{\an8}My name is Zuri.
461
00:16:25,467 --> 00:16:28,266
{\an8}[Whitney] Zuri is shy, sweet,
and very smart.
462
00:16:29,467 --> 00:16:31,500
{\an8}My name is Zamir.
463
00:16:31,567 --> 00:16:33,265
{\an8}[DeeDee] Our Zamir,
464
00:16:33,266 --> 00:16:35,400
{\an8}he is loud, skeptical,
465
00:16:35,467 --> 00:16:37,100
{\an8}and has a mind of his own.
466
00:16:42,567 --> 00:16:45,300
It's time we go for school.
We gotta catch the bus, okay?
467
00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:49,466
{\an8}Beckham is seven.
And he's the epitome
468
00:16:49,467 --> 00:16:50,114
{\an8}of a middle child.
469
00:16:50,114 --> 00:16:50,567
{\an8}Of a middle child.
470
00:16:50,567 --> 00:16:51,000
Get him on, bang!
471
00:16:52,567 --> 00:16:55,766
He is a video gamer
and he is quite the jokester.
472
00:16:55,767 --> 00:16:58,000
It's chocolate
just like your wife.
473
00:16:58,066 --> 00:16:59,500
- Did you hear him?
- [laughter]
474
00:16:59,567 --> 00:17:01,466
Oh, my gosh, Beckham.
You're right, though.
475
00:17:01,467 --> 00:17:04,165
The best part of having a family
476
00:17:04,166 --> 00:17:06,766
is having a lot of siblings.
477
00:17:06,767 --> 00:17:08,766
[evil laugh]
478
00:17:08,767 --> 00:17:11,165
[Whitney] It's time
to get up, baby girl.
479
00:17:11,166 --> 00:17:13,165
We gotta get up. The bus
will be here soon, okay?
480
00:17:13,166 --> 00:17:15,099
- Okay.
- Mmm-hmm.
481
00:17:15,100 --> 00:17:17,766
{\an8}[DeeDee] Brooklyn and Kailynn
are our twins.
482
00:17:17,767 --> 00:17:19,800
{\an8}Ooh, bless their souls.
483
00:17:19,867 --> 00:17:20,114
[screams]
484
00:17:20,114 --> 00:17:21,000
[screams]
485
00:17:21,767 --> 00:17:23,099
We might not have
the same color skin,
486
00:17:23,100 --> 00:17:24,466
but we're still twins.
487
00:17:24,467 --> 00:17:26,400
- Twins.
- Twins.
488
00:17:26,467 --> 00:17:27,666
- Twins.
- Twins.
489
00:17:27,667 --> 00:17:29,466
[Whitney]
They fight like twins.
490
00:17:29,467 --> 00:17:31,099
And they love like twins.
491
00:17:31,100 --> 00:17:33,966
Brooklyn stole all of my stuff.
492
00:17:33,967 --> 00:17:35,566
You did steal my...
The makeup?
493
00:17:35,567 --> 00:17:37,165
Oh, my gosh.
I love having a sister.
494
00:17:37,166 --> 00:17:38,265
It's just so fun.
495
00:17:38,266 --> 00:17:40,466
{\an8}[Whitney] Kailynn
is a little introverted,
496
00:17:40,467 --> 00:17:42,666
{\an8}somewhat shy.
She's a straight-A student,
497
00:17:42,667 --> 00:17:44,800
and very mature for her age.
498
00:17:44,867 --> 00:17:48,866
{\an8}[DeeDee] Brooklyn is outgoing,
creative, and messy.
499
00:17:48,867 --> 00:17:50,113
{\an8}I've got this.
500
00:17:50,114 --> 00:17:50,300
{\an8}I've got this.
501
00:17:50,367 --> 00:17:51,000
You've got this, girl.
502
00:17:51,567 --> 00:17:53,800
She's a tough, sassy cookie.
503
00:17:53,867 --> 00:17:56,366
- [DeeDee] Hold it.
- [laughs]
504
00:17:56,367 --> 00:17:59,666
{\an8}- [DeeDee] Morning.
- [all] Morning.
505
00:17:59,667 --> 00:18:01,666
{\an8}- I don't know.
- She'd better be awake
506
00:18:01,667 --> 00:18:04,366
{\an8}and dressed. We gotta go.
507
00:18:04,367 --> 00:18:06,800
{\an8}[Whitney] Damiya is the
most lovable kid we have.
508
00:18:06,867 --> 00:18:09,900
{\an8}She's 16 years old,
and out of all of our kids,
509
00:18:09,967 --> 00:18:11,500
she would be the one
to come cuddle with us.
510
00:18:11,567 --> 00:18:13,065
We wouldn't didn't tuck you in.
511
00:18:13,066 --> 00:18:14,500
Guys, we're playing the game.
512
00:18:14,567 --> 00:18:16,366
We call it the quiet game.
513
00:18:16,367 --> 00:18:17,666
Mama DeeDee and Mama Whitney
514
00:18:17,667 --> 00:18:19,800
make me watch all the kids,
all the time.
515
00:18:19,867 --> 00:18:20,114
Three, two, one, go.
516
00:18:20,114 --> 00:18:21,000
Three, two, one, go.
517
00:18:23,367 --> 00:18:24,900
I can't.
I can't do this no more.
518
00:18:24,967 --> 00:18:26,900
[laughs] Zuri.
519
00:18:26,967 --> 00:18:28,866
These kids are the best
birth control
520
00:18:28,867 --> 00:18:30,500
- that I wanted.
- Mama.
521
00:18:30,567 --> 00:18:32,000
- Why do you call me Mama?
- Mama.
522
00:18:32,066 --> 00:18:33,367
[screams]
523
00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,566
Blending the families
at first was difficult.
524
00:18:42,567 --> 00:18:44,200
It was challenging.
525
00:18:44,266 --> 00:18:46,866
Our kids were not ready
526
00:18:46,867 --> 00:18:50,000
for two moms and a bunch
more kids in the house.
527
00:18:50,066 --> 00:18:50,112
The first time
we met each other,
528
00:18:50,113 --> 00:18:51,000
The first time
we met each other,
529
00:18:51,266 --> 00:18:52,566
you were hiding
behind the couch.
530
00:18:52,567 --> 00:18:54,766
- Yeah.
- You're like...
531
00:18:54,767 --> 00:18:57,100
Stop calling my name.
532
00:18:57,166 --> 00:18:58,566
It's too much.
533
00:18:58,567 --> 00:18:59,800
- I was scared...
- We're together.
534
00:18:59,867 --> 00:19:01,466
Of her before, but now,
535
00:19:01,467 --> 00:19:03,566
she's scared of me sometimes.
536
00:19:03,567 --> 00:19:05,300
I'm scared of you?
537
00:19:09,500 --> 00:19:11,866
All right, guys, let's go.
Come downstairs.
538
00:19:11,867 --> 00:19:14,900
[indistinct chatter]
539
00:19:14,967 --> 00:19:17,100
We'll be home
around 5:00 baby. Okay?
540
00:19:22,767 --> 00:19:24,900
You start this one.
541
00:19:24,967 --> 00:19:26,566
Everybody have
your snack and drink?
542
00:19:26,567 --> 00:19:27,900
- [all] Yes.
- [Whitney] All right.
543
00:19:27,967 --> 00:19:29,766
- Everybody's happy.
- Whoo-whoo!
544
00:19:29,767 --> 00:19:31,500
Let's have a good day
at school, okay?
545
00:19:32,500 --> 00:19:33,999
[DeeDee] We have a lot
of talks with them.
546
00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:35,766
Like, "How do you feel
about us being gay?"
547
00:19:35,767 --> 00:19:37,065
Come on, we gotta catch the bus.
548
00:19:37,066 --> 00:19:38,466
- Thank you, baby.
- I mean, having
549
00:19:38,467 --> 00:19:40,065
a blended family,
that's what you have to do.
550
00:19:40,066 --> 00:19:41,666
- It's hard.
- A lot of conversations,
551
00:19:41,667 --> 00:19:43,566
a lot of family talks,
and getting everybody
552
00:19:43,567 --> 00:19:44,966
on the same page.
553
00:19:44,967 --> 00:19:46,265
When Whitney and DeeDee
got together,
554
00:19:46,266 --> 00:19:48,100
I remember being sad and angry
555
00:19:48,166 --> 00:19:50,113
because in my eyes,
Whitney broke up my family.
556
00:19:50,114 --> 00:19:50,767
Because in my eyes,
Whitney broke up my family.
557
00:19:50,767 --> 00:19:51,000
But after that time,
I grew to like Whitney.
558
00:19:54,166 --> 00:19:56,166
I feel like she made it better.
559
00:19:57,166 --> 00:19:58,800
[DeeDee] At first,
the kids did not tell
560
00:19:58,867 --> 00:20:00,366
their friends
that they had two moms.
561
00:20:00,367 --> 00:20:01,566
They were really embarrassed.
562
00:20:01,567 --> 00:20:03,065
But now, they're more open.
563
00:20:03,066 --> 00:20:04,900
- We're leaving the house.
- Bye, guys.
564
00:20:04,967 --> 00:20:06,900
- Bye-bye.
- Bye.
565
00:20:06,967 --> 00:20:08,900
The other day,
this kid on the bus was like,
566
00:20:08,967 --> 00:20:11,099
"But she is Black.
How is she your sister?"
567
00:20:11,100 --> 00:20:12,766
And I was like
"She's just my sister.
568
00:20:12,767 --> 00:20:14,166
- Don't worry about it."
- Yup.
569
00:20:20,100 --> 00:20:20,112
I don't really wanna tell them
570
00:20:20,113 --> 00:20:21,000
I don't really wanna tell them
571
00:20:22,066 --> 00:20:23,767
because that would be
embarrassing.
572
00:20:26,467 --> 00:20:30,566
Because nobody else
has two moms.
573
00:20:30,567 --> 00:20:34,600
It's like they'll think they
are gay, and stuff.
574
00:20:38,667 --> 00:20:40,466
At the end of the day,
we're still a family,
575
00:20:40,467 --> 00:20:42,566
and we're happy,
and our kids are happy,
576
00:20:42,567 --> 00:20:43,999
and that's all that matters.
577
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,700
- You have a great day.
- [smooches] You too.
578
00:20:46,767 --> 00:20:47,900
- Are you late?
- Yeah.
579
00:20:47,967 --> 00:20:49,099
- I'm always late.
- [laughter]
580
00:20:49,100 --> 00:20:50,113
- [Whitney] Y'all have fun.
- Bye.
581
00:20:50,114 --> 00:20:51,000
- [Whitney] Y'all have fun.
- Bye.
582
00:20:51,266 --> 00:20:53,467
- Have a good day at work.
- [Whitney] You too, babe.
583
00:21:02,166 --> 00:21:04,700
- Do I help?
- You just relax.
584
00:21:04,767 --> 00:21:06,165
We want you
to just watch the kids.
585
00:21:06,166 --> 00:21:07,567
[indistinct]
586
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:11,566
[DeeDee] Everybody's okay?
587
00:21:11,567 --> 00:21:13,866
[girl] Yeah, we're gonna
stick our foot in it.
588
00:21:13,867 --> 00:21:14,999
- Oh.
- [girl] I'm cold.
589
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,700
That's amazing.
590
00:21:16,767 --> 00:21:18,866
Please be careful
around the water, guys.
591
00:21:18,867 --> 00:21:20,113
[girl] Okay.
592
00:21:20,114 --> 00:21:20,164
[girl] Okay.
593
00:21:20,165 --> 00:21:21,000
Babe, I'm so nervous.
594
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,000
I think we're gonna be
fine, though.
595
00:21:24,066 --> 00:21:26,666
You really had to invite
Will, too, though?
596
00:21:26,667 --> 00:21:28,466
- [DeeDee] Zamir invited him.
- Okay.
597
00:21:28,467 --> 00:21:30,000
Don't you want your daddy here?
598
00:21:30,066 --> 00:21:31,165
Yeah, we need a little help.
599
00:21:31,166 --> 00:21:32,265
[Whitney] You want daddy
at the barbecue?
600
00:21:32,266 --> 00:21:33,466
He could just hang out with him.
601
00:21:33,467 --> 00:21:35,866
[Whitney] Well, hopefully,
it'll go well.
602
00:21:35,867 --> 00:21:38,366
Today is about
coming together as a family.
603
00:21:38,367 --> 00:21:40,165
So we decided to invite Will
604
00:21:40,166 --> 00:21:42,666
and invite DeeDee's sisters.
605
00:21:42,667 --> 00:21:44,666
My anxiety is a little high.
606
00:21:44,667 --> 00:21:46,800
I had to invite them.
607
00:21:46,867 --> 00:21:49,666
Me, LaQuana, and Davena always
had a really close bond.
608
00:21:49,667 --> 00:21:50,114
It wasn't up until I met Whitney
609
00:21:50,114 --> 00:21:51,000
It wasn't up until I met Whitney
610
00:21:51,266 --> 00:21:52,866
when we started
having conflicts.
611
00:21:52,867 --> 00:21:55,566
Her sisters, they'll say
exactly what they feel
612
00:21:55,567 --> 00:21:56,700
no matter how it makes you feel.
613
00:21:56,767 --> 00:21:58,700
[DeeDee] Oh, they're here.
614
00:21:58,767 --> 00:22:00,165
They are brutal.
615
00:22:00,166 --> 00:22:01,467
But they are sweet.
616
00:22:02,767 --> 00:22:03,867
Ish.
617
00:22:05,767 --> 00:22:07,100
{\an8}[all] Coming up...
618
00:22:07,166 --> 00:22:08,967
{\an8}[Whitney] Oh,
these are gonna burn.
619
00:22:11,100 --> 00:22:12,967
It was very awkward
to say the least.
620
00:22:13,467 --> 00:22:15,866
Everything's okay.
621
00:22:15,867 --> 00:22:17,566
Okay, guys,
are your eyes closed?
622
00:22:17,567 --> 00:22:18,600
[all] Yes.
623
00:22:18,667 --> 00:22:20,113
[Whitney] Three, two, one.
624
00:22:20,114 --> 00:22:20,700
[Whitney] Three, two, one.
625
00:22:20,767 --> 00:22:21,000
[all gasp]
626
00:22:22,467 --> 00:22:24,165
- [woman] That's not the one.
- No, it's not the one.
627
00:22:24,166 --> 00:22:25,767
[sighs]
628
00:22:35,066 --> 00:22:36,266
Hey, guys.
629
00:22:36,967 --> 00:22:38,367
{\an8}Hey.
630
00:22:40,667 --> 00:22:42,065
[DeeDee] I'm glad y'all came.
631
00:22:42,066 --> 00:22:44,265
Yes. What we got going on?
632
00:22:44,266 --> 00:22:45,900
Because y'all know
I like to eat.
633
00:22:45,967 --> 00:22:47,666
[laughter]
634
00:22:47,667 --> 00:22:50,165
{\an8}Things with my sisters
right now are really awkward.
635
00:22:50,166 --> 00:22:51,566
{\an8}My sisters are very judgy.
636
00:22:51,567 --> 00:22:52,966
They have a big heart, though.
637
00:22:52,967 --> 00:22:54,100
- We're fishing?
- He's fishing.
638
00:22:54,166 --> 00:22:55,100
We both got to fish?
639
00:22:55,101 --> 00:22:56,700
[DeeDee] No, Beckham knows
how to fish.
640
00:22:56,767 --> 00:22:57,866
He could teach you how to fish.
641
00:22:57,867 --> 00:22:59,221
- He knows how to fish?
- No.
642
00:22:59,222 --> 00:22:59,467
- He knows how to fish?
- No.
643
00:22:59,467 --> 00:23:00,000
Oh, I thought you said he knows.
644
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:01,866
I said he can teach you
how to fish.
645
00:23:01,867 --> 00:23:02,767
How? He doesn't even know.
646
00:23:02,768 --> 00:23:03,900
You asked me teach you
how to fish.
647
00:23:03,967 --> 00:23:05,200
I don't know how to fish.
648
00:23:05,266 --> 00:23:06,999
So he could teach you
how to fish.
649
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,100
[LaQuana] Our sisterhood
right now is a little rocky.
650
00:23:09,166 --> 00:23:12,065
{\an8}It used to be
three peas in a pod.
651
00:23:12,066 --> 00:23:14,200
We had a really,
really good sisterhood.
652
00:23:14,266 --> 00:23:16,999
We all did everything
basically together.
653
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:18,366
- Can I take my shoes off?
- Give me two minutes.
654
00:23:18,367 --> 00:23:20,265
Sure.
You should ask your auntie.
655
00:23:20,266 --> 00:23:21,766
We should take our shoes off?
656
00:23:21,767 --> 00:23:23,100
No, absolutely not.
657
00:23:23,166 --> 00:23:24,766
[Davena]
I don't even like sand.
658
00:23:24,767 --> 00:23:26,766
We a little boujee over here.
659
00:23:26,767 --> 00:23:28,366
I cannot.
660
00:23:28,367 --> 00:23:29,222
[girl] Thank you.
661
00:23:29,222 --> 00:23:29,266
[girl] Thank you.
662
00:23:29,300 --> 00:23:30,000
{\an8}I want so badly
for Davena and LaQuana
663
00:23:32,266 --> 00:23:34,766
{\an8}to just accept me
into their sisterhood.
664
00:23:34,767 --> 00:23:37,366
I honestly don't know why
they don't accept me,
665
00:23:37,367 --> 00:23:41,065
but I do know that they
are very big on blood.
666
00:23:41,066 --> 00:23:42,999
And I am just kind
of another female
667
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:44,866
that is stepping into
that territory
668
00:23:44,867 --> 00:23:46,366
and it's a hard place to be in.
669
00:23:46,367 --> 00:23:49,065
I'm hungry, I'm about
to start cooking.
670
00:23:49,066 --> 00:23:50,200
- I wanna grill, babe.
- [DeeDee] You wanna grill?
671
00:23:50,300 --> 00:23:51,266
[Whitney] Um, I can I do it?
Yeah.
672
00:23:51,267 --> 00:23:52,466
[DeeDee] I ain't gonna say
no to that.
673
00:23:52,467 --> 00:23:54,667
- [Whitney] Okay.
- What?
674
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:56,967
[chuckles]
675
00:23:56,967 --> 00:23:57,967
I got this.
676
00:23:57,968 --> 00:23:59,221
We gotta give her a chance.
677
00:23:59,222 --> 00:23:59,700
We gotta give her a chance.
678
00:23:59,767 --> 00:24:00,000
{\an8}[Davena] No.
679
00:24:03,500 --> 00:24:05,966
We use a language
to talk about people
680
00:24:05,967 --> 00:24:08,000
when it's something we
don't like,
681
00:24:08,066 --> 00:24:09,200
we just go ahead and say it
682
00:24:09,266 --> 00:24:11,000
and nobody knows
what we're saying.
683
00:24:12,467 --> 00:24:14,066
That's cool.
684
00:24:17,166 --> 00:24:20,000
It's frustrating because
I want to be involved,
685
00:24:20,066 --> 00:24:21,700
so I wanna do it, too.
686
00:24:23,266 --> 00:24:24,366
[Davena] Oops.
687
00:24:24,367 --> 00:24:25,800
[laughing]
688
00:24:25,867 --> 00:24:27,966
My sisters are being
a little mean and rude,
689
00:24:27,967 --> 00:24:29,221
and it makes me really upset.
690
00:24:29,222 --> 00:24:30,000
And it makes me really upset.
691
00:24:30,467 --> 00:24:31,966
[Whitney] I'm gonna go cook.
Wish me luck.
692
00:24:31,967 --> 00:24:33,800
- [DeeDee] All right.
- [Davena] All right, girl.
693
00:24:33,867 --> 00:24:34,966
[LaQuana] Wish her luck.
Good luck.
694
00:24:34,967 --> 00:24:37,300
- [Whitney] I got this.
- Be nice. She's good.
695
00:24:37,367 --> 00:24:39,266
Like, she really can grill.
696
00:24:42,266 --> 00:24:43,566
[Whitney] One, two, three,
four, five,
697
00:24:43,567 --> 00:24:45,566
six, seven, eight, nine, 10, 11.
698
00:24:45,567 --> 00:24:46,866
We need more.
699
00:24:46,867 --> 00:24:49,566
Babe, you look good
on the grill.
700
00:24:49,567 --> 00:24:50,866
[Davena] Looking on
the grille does not mean
701
00:24:50,867 --> 00:24:53,566
- she can cook though.
- Oh, God.
702
00:24:53,567 --> 00:24:55,100
Whitney cannot grill.
703
00:24:55,166 --> 00:24:56,967
- At all.
- Period.
704
00:24:57,900 --> 00:24:59,221
[Whitney] Oh, shoot.
705
00:24:59,222 --> 00:24:59,264
[Whitney] Oh, shoot.
706
00:24:59,265 --> 00:25:00,000
[Davena] She needs some
assistance back there.
707
00:25:01,867 --> 00:25:03,866
All right. I got this.
I got this.
708
00:25:03,867 --> 00:25:05,100
Oh.
709
00:25:05,166 --> 00:25:07,566
I felt so much pressure like
I have to cook well
710
00:25:07,567 --> 00:25:09,265
because I have to impress
them and I have to
711
00:25:09,266 --> 00:25:11,900
say the right things
or they're not gonna like me.
712
00:25:11,967 --> 00:25:14,000
Oh, these are gonna burn.
713
00:25:16,567 --> 00:25:19,265
It was like awkward
to say the least.
714
00:25:19,266 --> 00:25:23,065
- Everything's okay.
- [laughter]
715
00:25:23,066 --> 00:25:24,600
[DeeDee] She's not okay, guys.
716
00:25:26,100 --> 00:25:27,400
Everything's fine.
717
00:25:27,467 --> 00:25:28,967
[Kailynn] Dad!
718
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:34,065
{\an8}Oh, you're trying
to knock me over?
719
00:25:34,066 --> 00:25:36,900
{\an8}I'm excited my dad's
at the barbecue today,
720
00:25:36,967 --> 00:25:38,566
but he's gonna eat
all the hot dogs.
721
00:25:38,567 --> 00:25:40,100
[Brooklyn]
He might not be my dad,
722
00:25:40,166 --> 00:25:41,299
{\an8}but he's still my friend.
723
00:25:41,300 --> 00:25:43,165
{\an8}Like, he always sees me,
he's like, "Hey, Brooklyn."
724
00:25:43,166 --> 00:25:44,266
{\an8}And I'm like, "'Sup."
725
00:25:47,767 --> 00:25:49,366
- [Davena] Who that?
- [LaQuana] Brother.
726
00:25:49,367 --> 00:25:50,766
[DeeDee] Will in the house.
727
00:25:50,767 --> 00:25:52,366
Sexy chocolate.
728
00:25:52,367 --> 00:25:54,466
It's okay. Just put this here.
729
00:25:54,467 --> 00:25:55,666
All right.
I need you to start grilling.
730
00:25:55,667 --> 00:25:56,567
[DeeDee] I got you.
731
00:25:57,300 --> 00:25:59,221
I love Will and I was pissed
732
00:25:59,222 --> 00:25:59,667
I love Will and I was pissed
733
00:25:59,667 --> 00:26:00,000
when DeeDee left Will,
like, pissed.
734
00:26:02,266 --> 00:26:04,265
At the top of pissosity.
735
00:26:04,266 --> 00:26:05,366
I think she had a thing for W's?
736
00:26:05,367 --> 00:26:06,500
[gasps]
737
00:26:06,567 --> 00:26:07,600
Weird and weirdoes.
738
00:26:07,667 --> 00:26:08,600
[laughter]
739
00:26:08,667 --> 00:26:10,265
Weird and weirdest.
740
00:26:10,266 --> 00:26:12,265
Okay. I'm done.
741
00:26:12,266 --> 00:26:14,265
[Whitney sighs]
742
00:26:14,266 --> 00:26:16,165
Something smells like
it's burning.
743
00:26:16,166 --> 00:26:17,532
[Davena] Because DeeDee
not cooking.
744
00:26:17,533 --> 00:26:19,265
- [Will] Oh, snap.
- But Whitney's trying to impress us, though.
745
00:26:19,266 --> 00:26:20,500
I think she's trying
to impress us,
746
00:26:20,567 --> 00:26:22,600
but you definitely
the cook-cook for real.
747
00:26:22,667 --> 00:26:24,300
- Check with our Will.
- [LaQuana] Yes.
748
00:26:24,367 --> 00:26:25,367
[laughs]
749
00:26:27,266 --> 00:26:28,166
What up, Will?
750
00:26:28,167 --> 00:26:29,221
Hey, what's happening?
751
00:26:29,222 --> 00:26:29,467
Hey, what's happening?
752
00:26:29,467 --> 00:26:30,000
[DeeDee] Will and Whitney,
it just depends on the day.
753
00:26:31,667 --> 00:26:35,400
He does like her
75 percent of the time,
754
00:26:35,467 --> 00:26:38,265
the 25 percent, he's angry,
he's bitter,
755
00:26:38,266 --> 00:26:40,467
and he feels
like she stole us away.
756
00:26:45,300 --> 00:26:47,000
Oh, my gosh.
757
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,266
Okay. Just stay.
758
00:26:57,066 --> 00:26:59,165
[DeeDee] Hey, guys,
the food is ready.
759
00:26:59,166 --> 00:26:59,220
- [laughter]
- [Davena] Food is ready.
760
00:26:59,221 --> 00:27:00,000
- [laughter]
- [Davena] Food is ready.
761
00:27:00,467 --> 00:27:01,600
[Whitney] Let's go.
762
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:03,366
I'm coming.
763
00:27:03,367 --> 00:27:05,400
[DeeDee] All right, y'all.
764
00:27:05,467 --> 00:27:07,065
Let's eat.
765
00:27:07,066 --> 00:27:09,000
Yum.
766
00:27:09,066 --> 00:27:11,000
Eat, eat, eat, eat.
767
00:27:11,066 --> 00:27:12,366
We need some buns, too.
768
00:27:12,367 --> 00:27:14,366
I'm not like a maid or anything,
769
00:27:14,367 --> 00:27:15,900
so, like, we can
come and get it.
770
00:27:15,967 --> 00:27:19,300
I gave you kids,
give me a bun, please.
771
00:27:19,367 --> 00:27:21,300
[laughter]
772
00:27:21,367 --> 00:27:23,000
- [Davena] He gave you a...
- That's not even funny.
773
00:27:23,066 --> 00:27:24,666
[laughs]
774
00:27:24,667 --> 00:27:26,165
He can say whatever he want
775
00:27:26,166 --> 00:27:28,165
because he did
give DeeDee these kids.
776
00:27:28,166 --> 00:27:29,221
And did.
777
00:27:29,222 --> 00:27:29,300
And did.
778
00:27:29,367 --> 00:27:30,000
That's facts.
779
00:27:31,667 --> 00:27:34,165
- How do you feel?
- If I had to say that though.
780
00:27:34,166 --> 00:27:35,766
- That was very annoying.
- Its Will.
781
00:27:35,767 --> 00:27:36,900
- That's him.
- You're right.
782
00:27:36,967 --> 00:27:38,066
I do miss my family.
783
00:27:38,900 --> 00:27:40,366
Same one with my kids,
784
00:27:40,367 --> 00:27:41,900
to tell you the truth
I don't like it,
785
00:27:41,967 --> 00:27:45,066
because it's what
I used to have.
786
00:27:51,300 --> 00:27:53,566
- [sighs]
- Breathe.
787
00:27:53,567 --> 00:27:55,065
We did make it.
788
00:27:55,066 --> 00:27:58,100
{\an8}Thanks for doing with,
uh, with me.
789
00:27:58,166 --> 00:27:59,221
- Where?
- Get it out. Get it out.
790
00:27:59,222 --> 00:28:00,000
- Where?
- Get it out. Get it out.
791
00:28:01,467 --> 00:28:02,666
[laughs]
792
00:28:02,667 --> 00:28:04,400
Sorry, guys.
793
00:28:10,567 --> 00:28:14,100
One, two, three,
four, five, six.
794
00:28:14,166 --> 00:28:16,265
Five, seven, eight, nine,
let's go.
795
00:28:16,266 --> 00:28:18,366
Let's go!
796
00:28:18,367 --> 00:28:19,566
{\an8}Where are we going?
797
00:28:19,567 --> 00:28:20,567
{\an8}We're gonna look
at some wedding dresses.
798
00:28:20,568 --> 00:28:22,366
We're gonna go wedding
dress shopping.
799
00:28:22,367 --> 00:28:23,766
- Oh.
- We are?
800
00:28:23,767 --> 00:28:24,866
[DeeDee] Yeah.
801
00:28:24,867 --> 00:28:26,566
[Whitney] I was ready
to propose to DeeDee
802
00:28:26,567 --> 00:28:29,221
the day that I asked her
to be my girlfriend,
803
00:28:29,222 --> 00:28:29,567
the day that I asked her
to be my girlfriend,
804
00:28:29,567 --> 00:28:30,000
but she would've said no,
805
00:28:30,667 --> 00:28:31,800
- so...
- She's serious.
806
00:28:31,867 --> 00:28:32,966
I decided to wait.
807
00:28:32,967 --> 00:28:35,566
Um, but when I got to a point
where I was really,
808
00:28:35,567 --> 00:28:38,165
like, I want this girl
and I wanna show her
809
00:28:38,166 --> 00:28:40,300
that I am devoted to her,
810
00:28:40,367 --> 00:28:43,099
I decided to put a ring
on her finger.
811
00:28:43,100 --> 00:28:45,065
Yes, babe, of course.
812
00:28:45,066 --> 00:28:47,100
Just to kind of symbolize, like,
813
00:28:47,166 --> 00:28:49,566
you are mine and I am...
My eyes are nowhere else,
814
00:28:49,567 --> 00:28:51,165
like you are exactly what I want
815
00:28:51,166 --> 00:28:53,400
and I'm dedicating
my heart to you.
816
00:28:54,667 --> 00:28:56,066
{\an8}[Whitney] Yes.
817
00:28:58,066 --> 00:28:59,221
- A pink one?
- A pink dress?
818
00:28:59,222 --> 00:28:59,467
- A pink one?
- A pink dress?
819
00:28:59,467 --> 00:29:00,000
- [Whitney] Oh.
- Hmm.
820
00:29:02,367 --> 00:29:03,667
{\an8}[Whitney] That's an idea.
821
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,466
{\an8}[Dee and Whitney] Aw.
822
00:29:07,467 --> 00:29:12,600
I really want a wedding
like emerald green, um, dress.
823
00:29:12,667 --> 00:29:14,300
And then mommy, what do you
guys think about like
824
00:29:14,367 --> 00:29:15,700
a black dress on mommy?
825
00:29:15,767 --> 00:29:17,366
- I think--
- Yes.
826
00:29:17,367 --> 00:29:19,265
{\an8}You think I'm gonna be pretty?
827
00:29:19,266 --> 00:29:22,265
{\an8}- A demon?
- Oh, my goodness.
828
00:29:22,266 --> 00:29:24,466
[Whitney] We have a lot
of stuff to do.
829
00:29:24,467 --> 00:29:26,566
So much planning
and I'm a planner,
830
00:29:26,567 --> 00:29:29,221
so I wanna know everything
and it's like every detail.
831
00:29:29,222 --> 00:29:29,700
So I wanna know everything
and it's like every detail.
832
00:29:29,767 --> 00:29:30,000
Babe, I'm, like, nervous
to see your sisters.
833
00:29:34,667 --> 00:29:36,367
You're gonna be all right.
834
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:39,866
Ever since I got with Whitney,
835
00:29:39,867 --> 00:29:42,466
things have been really
tough with me and my sisters.
836
00:29:42,467 --> 00:29:45,165
I invited my sisters today
because I honestly
837
00:29:45,166 --> 00:29:46,766
don't see myself
doing this without them.
838
00:29:46,767 --> 00:29:49,466
But this is my girl,
so they're gonna have
839
00:29:49,467 --> 00:29:51,666
to just learn how to just accept
840
00:29:51,667 --> 00:29:53,567
who I'm with and how she is.
841
00:29:57,467 --> 00:29:58,666
{\an8}[all] Coming up...
842
00:29:58,667 --> 00:29:59,222
Never had a family bond,
I've never had a sister.
843
00:29:59,222 --> 00:30:00,000
Never had a family bond,
I've never had a sister.
844
00:30:02,467 --> 00:30:04,666
[DeeDee] Now, I feel like, um,
I have to choose.
845
00:30:04,667 --> 00:30:06,600
But I don't wanna feel like
I have to choose.
846
00:30:06,667 --> 00:30:08,066
We're gonna need
an intervention.
847
00:30:15,300 --> 00:30:16,466
{\an8}[woman laughing]
848
00:30:16,467 --> 00:30:18,600
Oh, my God. Look, guys.
849
00:30:19,667 --> 00:30:21,366
- Are you excited?
- [boy] Whoa.
850
00:30:21,367 --> 00:30:22,666
- [girl] Yes.
- [Whitney] Hi.
851
00:30:22,667 --> 00:30:24,966
[boy] Dresses, dresses.
852
00:30:24,967 --> 00:30:27,666
[Brooklyn] Dresses.
Whoa, look at those.
853
00:30:27,667 --> 00:30:29,500
I found mommy's wedding dress.
854
00:30:29,567 --> 00:30:30,500
Oh, my goodness.
855
00:30:30,567 --> 00:30:32,265
{\an8}I've never been
to a colorful wedding.
856
00:30:32,266 --> 00:30:33,800
{\an8}All the weddings
I've ever been to
857
00:30:33,867 --> 00:30:34,900
{\an8}- were just white.
- White.
858
00:30:34,967 --> 00:30:37,366
Mommy, look, there's these two.
859
00:30:37,367 --> 00:30:38,666
- They're ready.
- They're the bosses.
860
00:30:38,667 --> 00:30:40,466
They are ready.
861
00:30:40,467 --> 00:30:42,666
{\an8}[DeeDee] You got a surprise
for me?
862
00:30:42,667 --> 00:30:44,561
{\an8}Oh, thank you.
863
00:30:44,562 --> 00:30:44,667
{\an8}Oh, thank you.
864
00:30:44,667 --> 00:30:45,000
{\an8}Lesbian weddings are hard.
865
00:30:47,100 --> 00:30:50,000
{\an8}It's like, who walks the other
person down the aisle?
866
00:30:50,066 --> 00:30:51,800
I don't know how it all works.
867
00:30:51,867 --> 00:30:54,099
What kind of dress is she gonna
wear versus what I'm gonna wear?
868
00:30:54,100 --> 00:30:55,800
Are we gonna clash?
869
00:30:55,867 --> 00:30:57,366
You like that one?
The sparkles?
870
00:30:57,367 --> 00:30:58,866
- Um, mommy--
- [Kailynn] You guys are gonna
871
00:30:58,867 --> 00:30:59,900
- try these on?
- [Whitney] Oh, that's pretty.
872
00:30:59,967 --> 00:31:01,666
And how about this one?
873
00:31:01,667 --> 00:31:03,800
- Oh, yeah.
- [Kailynn] Oh, yeah.
874
00:31:03,867 --> 00:31:05,666
She wants a horse-drawn
carriage,
875
00:31:05,667 --> 00:31:09,065
a harp player,
and she wants a peacock.
876
00:31:09,066 --> 00:31:11,566
Like, she just goes crazy,
it makes no sense.
877
00:31:11,567 --> 00:31:13,400
And we're both very femme,
878
00:31:13,467 --> 00:31:14,561
like we are definitely
the stereotype
879
00:31:14,562 --> 00:31:15,000
like we are definitely
the stereotype
880
00:31:15,667 --> 00:31:17,065
of a femme lesbian.
881
00:31:17,066 --> 00:31:19,766
So I'm like we both want
to have pretty diamond rings,
882
00:31:19,767 --> 00:31:21,900
we both want that experience.
883
00:31:21,967 --> 00:31:23,900
So those colors together...
884
00:31:23,967 --> 00:31:25,400
[DeeDee] But she can't see
my dress though,
885
00:31:25,467 --> 00:31:27,266
- I'm not gonna say yes.
- [girl] Mommy. Mommy.
886
00:31:30,767 --> 00:31:32,967
I think that fits me
pretty well, actually.
887
00:31:34,867 --> 00:31:36,300
- [woman] Hello.
- [LaQuana] Hey, girl, hey.
888
00:31:36,367 --> 00:31:37,566
- Hi.
- [LaQuana] Hey, Brooklyn.
889
00:31:37,567 --> 00:31:38,666
Hey, KK.
890
00:31:38,667 --> 00:31:39,866
[DeeDee]
I'm glad y'all made it.
891
00:31:39,867 --> 00:31:42,500
Bring it in.
Bring it in, girl.
892
00:31:44,500 --> 00:31:44,560
[LaQuana] Brooklyn.
893
00:31:44,561 --> 00:31:45,000
[LaQuana] Brooklyn.
894
00:31:48,867 --> 00:31:50,566
Hey, little man.
Don't do me like this.
895
00:31:50,567 --> 00:31:51,999
Give me my hug.
896
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,100
[LaQuana] Brennan.
897
00:31:54,367 --> 00:31:55,766
Why aren't they saying hi to me?
898
00:31:55,767 --> 00:31:57,600
What is that? A cactus?
Are you a cactus?
899
00:31:57,667 --> 00:31:58,800
[laughter]
900
00:31:58,867 --> 00:32:00,866
[Whitney] It feels so awkward.
901
00:32:00,867 --> 00:32:02,466
But LaQuana and Davena
902
00:32:02,467 --> 00:32:04,400
are very important to DeeDee,
903
00:32:04,467 --> 00:32:06,566
so I have to make this work.
904
00:32:06,567 --> 00:32:08,466
- [girl] Come on.
- [Whitney] Hey, guys.
905
00:32:08,467 --> 00:32:10,400
If you hear me, clap once.
906
00:32:10,467 --> 00:32:12,666
Brennan, you just sit over here.
907
00:32:12,667 --> 00:32:14,400
Me and mommy are gonna go
and get fitted
908
00:32:14,467 --> 00:32:14,560
to see what sizes we are.
909
00:32:14,561 --> 00:32:15,000
To see what sizes we are.
910
00:32:15,867 --> 00:32:17,767
Beckham, on the floor, really?
911
00:32:18,567 --> 00:32:20,866
{\an8}They met,
they were then friends.
912
00:32:20,867 --> 00:32:22,400
Then the ring.
913
00:32:22,467 --> 00:32:24,466
- Then the other thing.
- And then the other ring.
914
00:32:24,467 --> 00:32:26,766
[Davena] It was just like
friend, friend, dating,
915
00:32:26,767 --> 00:32:30,165
kids, dogs, cats,
rabbits, engaged.
916
00:32:30,166 --> 00:32:31,666
[LaQuana] It was just a lot.
917
00:32:31,667 --> 00:32:33,366
A lot at one time just...
918
00:32:33,367 --> 00:32:35,467
It's a lot at one time.
919
00:32:35,967 --> 00:32:37,099
It's too much.
920
00:32:37,100 --> 00:32:40,600
These are like my dream
color scheme.
921
00:32:40,667 --> 00:32:43,466
[DeeDee] When I told my sisters
I wanted to propose to Whitney,
922
00:32:43,467 --> 00:32:44,561
they was like, "Are you sure?"
They're asking so many questions.
923
00:32:44,562 --> 00:32:45,000
They was like, "Are you sure?"
They're asking so many questions.
924
00:32:45,867 --> 00:32:48,600
They thought that she
was trying to take their spot.
925
00:32:48,667 --> 00:32:50,065
Uh, that's what I feel
like they think.
926
00:32:50,066 --> 00:32:52,366
I cannot be this excited,
right? Right?
927
00:32:52,367 --> 00:32:54,366
Right. No, you should be
this excited.
928
00:32:54,367 --> 00:32:55,800
[Whitney] Okay.
929
00:32:55,867 --> 00:32:57,600
All right, Whitney and DeeDee,
we're gonna go ahead
930
00:32:57,667 --> 00:32:58,667
- and get started.
- [both] Okay.
931
00:32:58,668 --> 00:33:00,165
Is there any of the outfits
you found?
932
00:33:00,166 --> 00:33:01,500
I really like this one.
933
00:33:01,567 --> 00:33:03,165
Babe, I just picked that one.
934
00:33:03,166 --> 00:33:05,500
Well, you guys
both can try it on.
935
00:33:05,567 --> 00:33:07,366
Like in a lesbian wedding,
can you wear the same dress?
936
00:33:07,367 --> 00:33:08,766
Is that, like, acceptable?
937
00:33:08,767 --> 00:33:10,466
I think it's your wedding
938
00:33:10,467 --> 00:33:12,165
and if you both wanna wear
the same dress,
939
00:33:12,166 --> 00:33:13,999
and there's always
different ways you can style.
940
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:14,562
Are you gonna try
and pick up my dress?
941
00:33:14,562 --> 00:33:15,000
Are you gonna try
and pick up my dress?
942
00:33:15,367 --> 00:33:16,566
I mean...
943
00:33:16,567 --> 00:33:19,100
You didn't pick it up.
I will try it on first.
944
00:33:20,567 --> 00:33:23,666
{\an8}I haven't had a lesbian couple
book the same appointment
945
00:33:23,667 --> 00:33:26,000
{\an8}and come together
at the same time before.
946
00:33:26,066 --> 00:33:27,700
Simon says,
947
00:33:27,767 --> 00:33:29,867
everybody come to the circle
and grab hands.
948
00:33:32,066 --> 00:33:34,200
- I need help.
- [woman] I got you.
949
00:33:34,266 --> 00:33:36,000
Usually, she would help me,
but she can't.
950
00:33:36,066 --> 00:33:37,066
Not today.
951
00:33:37,067 --> 00:33:38,866
[LaQuana] Touch your head.
952
00:33:38,867 --> 00:33:40,900
I didn't say, "Simon Says."
953
00:33:42,166 --> 00:33:43,966
- Hey.
- Hey.
954
00:33:43,967 --> 00:33:44,562
I just wanna know
what's taking them so long.
955
00:33:44,562 --> 00:33:45,000
I just wanna know
what's taking them so long.
956
00:33:46,266 --> 00:33:49,000
[Whitney] Three, two, one.
957
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:51,766
Oh, my gosh. Can I guess?
958
00:33:51,767 --> 00:33:53,600
Like, what color
are you wearing?
959
00:33:53,667 --> 00:33:54,866
Purple.
960
00:33:54,867 --> 00:33:56,566
I know that's a lie.
961
00:33:56,567 --> 00:33:58,766
Let's go. So we can see
these dresses.
962
00:33:58,767 --> 00:34:00,866
So I really wanna go
show my sisters.
963
00:34:00,867 --> 00:34:03,000
I don't wanna show you,
because I'm really obsessed
964
00:34:03,066 --> 00:34:04,566
- with this dress.
- [Whitney] Okay, babe.
965
00:34:04,567 --> 00:34:05,866
I'm gonna close my curtain,
966
00:34:05,867 --> 00:34:07,000
so I can't see you.
967
00:34:08,567 --> 00:34:09,966
Hey, guys,
you're closing your eyes?
968
00:34:09,967 --> 00:34:11,766
Okay, everybody,
close your eyes.
969
00:34:11,767 --> 00:34:13,600
[DeeDee] All right.
I'm coming.
970
00:34:13,667 --> 00:34:14,562
Don't peek yet.
971
00:34:14,562 --> 00:34:14,800
Don't peek yet.
972
00:34:16,367 --> 00:34:18,200
All right. Y'all can open.
973
00:34:18,266 --> 00:34:21,065
- [screaming]
- [DeeDee] Are you okay?
974
00:34:21,066 --> 00:34:24,200
- You wanna give me a hug?
- You look pretty.
975
00:34:24,266 --> 00:34:27,000
[DeeDee] I love it a lot,
like a lot, a lot.
976
00:34:27,066 --> 00:34:30,200
So what do you all think?
A ten, a five?
977
00:34:30,266 --> 00:34:34,400
- It's a... It's a nine, 9.5.
- [DeeDee] It's a nine?
978
00:34:34,467 --> 00:34:36,900
You like it? You like that?
979
00:34:36,967 --> 00:34:38,400
You just need to see
more dresses.
980
00:34:38,467 --> 00:34:41,000
Okay. All right. I'll be back.
981
00:34:41,066 --> 00:34:42,666
{\an8}I want rainbow dress
982
00:34:42,667 --> 00:34:44,561
{\an8}and I want rainbow wedding.
983
00:34:44,562 --> 00:34:45,000
{\an8}And I want rainbow wedding.
984
00:34:47,767 --> 00:34:49,000
{\an8}Uh, rainbow.
985
00:34:49,066 --> 00:34:50,766
If I wear a rainbow shirt,
986
00:34:50,767 --> 00:34:53,900
it will show that my moms
are in love.
987
00:34:53,967 --> 00:34:55,766
Okay, guys.
Are your eyes closed?
988
00:34:55,767 --> 00:34:56,767
[all] Yes.
989
00:34:56,768 --> 00:34:59,066
Okay, don't open them.
Not yet.
990
00:35:00,100 --> 00:35:02,866
Three, two, one.
991
00:35:02,867 --> 00:35:04,867
[indistinct chatter]
992
00:35:06,667 --> 00:35:08,165
It's a no for 500, Alex.
993
00:35:08,166 --> 00:35:09,300
Strong no.
994
00:35:09,367 --> 00:35:11,367
It's a no for me.
995
00:35:14,367 --> 00:35:14,562
You got the same face.
[laughs]
996
00:35:14,562 --> 00:35:15,000
You got the same face.
[laughs]
997
00:35:16,967 --> 00:35:18,666
No, it's a no.
998
00:35:18,667 --> 00:35:20,000
[LaQuana] That's not the one.
999
00:35:20,066 --> 00:35:21,867
No, it's not the one.
1000
00:35:25,700 --> 00:35:27,265
[sighs]
1001
00:35:27,266 --> 00:35:30,300
[Whitney] Seeing the way that
DeeDee's sisters feel about me
1002
00:35:30,367 --> 00:35:32,099
is very, very hurtful.
1003
00:35:32,100 --> 00:35:35,300
I like the back.
The back is beautiful.
1004
00:35:35,367 --> 00:35:38,600
I'm also kind of bummed
that my family isn't here.
1005
00:35:38,667 --> 00:35:40,866
They just don't wanna be around
1006
00:35:40,867 --> 00:35:43,666
and it's sad.
1007
00:35:43,667 --> 00:35:44,562
[LaQuana] I don't like
that outfit. No.
1008
00:35:44,562 --> 00:35:45,000
[LaQuana] I don't like
that outfit. No.
1009
00:35:54,367 --> 00:35:57,265
{\an8}[insects chirping]
1010
00:35:57,266 --> 00:35:58,900
[DeeDee] It was a little weird
going today.
1011
00:35:58,967 --> 00:36:00,366
Something about my sisters
just like...
1012
00:36:00,367 --> 00:36:02,566
When I'm talking to them,
when I see them,
1013
00:36:02,567 --> 00:36:04,367
when we have conflict, I just...
1014
00:36:05,100 --> 00:36:06,666
- Puts me here.
- I get it.
1015
00:36:06,667 --> 00:36:09,366
My sisters are being
a little mean and rude.
1016
00:36:09,367 --> 00:36:11,200
When it's all said and done,
1017
00:36:11,266 --> 00:36:13,766
they are my sisters,
but I love Whitney.
1018
00:36:13,767 --> 00:36:14,562
She's not going nowhere.
1019
00:36:14,562 --> 00:36:15,000
She's not going nowhere.
1020
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,099
We're gonna need
an intervention.
1021
00:36:18,100 --> 00:36:19,900
There has to be
that back and forth
1022
00:36:19,967 --> 00:36:22,900
or, you know... Nothing's gonna
come out of that other than hurt.
1023
00:36:22,967 --> 00:36:26,099
This is not
how a healthy communication,
1024
00:36:26,100 --> 00:36:27,866
conversation should go.
1025
00:36:27,867 --> 00:36:29,866
And I don't wanna freaking cry.
1026
00:36:29,867 --> 00:36:31,065
It's not about me.
1027
00:36:31,066 --> 00:36:32,900
That's the hardest part
in all of this, is I feel like
1028
00:36:32,967 --> 00:36:36,866
I'm not supposed to be able
to hurt in this situation
1029
00:36:36,867 --> 00:36:39,999
because this is your sister
and your family.
1030
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:41,200
[DeeDee] I don't know
if they're intimidated
1031
00:36:41,266 --> 00:36:43,766
or they think that you're
trying to break us apart.
1032
00:36:43,767 --> 00:36:44,562
I see your side,
I see your heart.
1033
00:36:44,562 --> 00:36:45,000
I see your side,
I see your heart.
1034
00:36:45,767 --> 00:36:48,099
I know where you're coming
from when you do things.
1035
00:36:48,100 --> 00:36:50,666
And now I feel like,
um, I have to choose,
1036
00:36:50,667 --> 00:36:52,165
and if I have to choose,
like you're the person
1037
00:36:52,166 --> 00:36:53,900
I wanna be with forever.
1038
00:36:53,967 --> 00:36:55,099
But I don't wanna feel like
I have to choose.
1039
00:36:55,100 --> 00:36:57,966
I want you and I want them.
1040
00:36:57,967 --> 00:37:00,200
Like, I do understand why,
like, it's okay to cry
1041
00:37:00,266 --> 00:37:01,466
and be upset about it.
1042
00:37:01,467 --> 00:37:05,466
I've never had a family bond,
I've never had a sister,
1043
00:37:05,467 --> 00:37:07,866
I've never had
a close relationship
1044
00:37:07,867 --> 00:37:11,165
like that, and... Sorry.
1045
00:37:11,166 --> 00:37:13,800
To see what you had with them,
1046
00:37:13,867 --> 00:37:14,562
I've never had nieces
or nephews.
1047
00:37:14,562 --> 00:37:15,000
I've never had nieces
or nephews.
1048
00:37:16,166 --> 00:37:18,100
And I chose you,
1049
00:37:18,166 --> 00:37:20,265
I chose your children,
1050
00:37:20,266 --> 00:37:23,600
I chose your sisters,
I chose your family.
1051
00:37:25,166 --> 00:37:26,300
And it's hard.
1052
00:37:30,266 --> 00:37:31,866
{\an8}[all] Coming up...
1053
00:37:31,867 --> 00:37:34,366
{\an8}I swear I feel like you just
like push us to the sidelines.
1054
00:37:34,367 --> 00:37:36,966
Whitney is swallowing DeeDee.
She needs to give
1055
00:37:36,967 --> 00:37:38,265
- her time to breathe.
- Yes.
1056
00:37:38,266 --> 00:37:40,265
You treat us
as if we're not your sisters
1057
00:37:40,266 --> 00:37:42,466
when you can just, you know,
dispose of us when you want to.
1058
00:37:42,467 --> 00:37:44,561
- No, we're not down with that.
- I feel attacked.
1059
00:37:44,562 --> 00:37:45,000
- No, we're not down with that.
- I feel attacked.
1060
00:37:53,367 --> 00:37:55,666
[Davena] Because my feet
look a hot mess.
1061
00:37:55,667 --> 00:37:58,266
You're a magician.
Do your thing, do your thing.
1062
00:38:00,166 --> 00:38:02,099
{\an8}Girl, are you ready to have
this conversation?
1063
00:38:02,100 --> 00:38:04,300
{\an8}- No.
- Hmm.
1064
00:38:04,367 --> 00:38:06,165
I just want her to understand
how we feel.
1065
00:38:06,166 --> 00:38:09,566
I just think we just need to figure
it out from here because we can't
1066
00:38:09,567 --> 00:38:11,300
- continue to...
- No.
1067
00:38:11,367 --> 00:38:12,467
Be going this path
that we're going.
1068
00:38:12,500 --> 00:38:14,265
This shouldn't be continued.
That's the difference.
1069
00:38:14,266 --> 00:38:16,300
Like I said, this is just to
address the elephant in the...
1070
00:38:16,367 --> 00:38:19,057
- in the room and move on.
- And she's the elephant.
1071
00:38:19,058 --> 00:38:19,200
- In the room and move on.
- And she's the elephant.
1072
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:22,999
[DeeDee] I wanted to invite
my sisters to the nail salon
1073
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:24,600
{\an8}because despite all my efforts,
1074
00:38:24,667 --> 00:38:26,366
they're still not being
respectful to Whitney,
1075
00:38:26,367 --> 00:38:28,666
and it is very important
that my sisters
1076
00:38:28,667 --> 00:38:32,099
are involved in my life, stay in
my life, and be a part of my life.
1077
00:38:32,100 --> 00:38:35,099
But we need to get everything
out on the table.
1078
00:38:35,100 --> 00:38:37,766
I just want her
to understand sisterhood,
1079
00:38:37,767 --> 00:38:40,366
because when you have sisters,
it's supposed to be important, so...
1080
00:38:40,367 --> 00:38:42,800
DeeDee can't separate her
relationship with her family
1081
00:38:42,867 --> 00:38:44,400
and then from her girlfriend.
1082
00:38:44,467 --> 00:38:46,466
That's our biggest issue
with her, separate them.
1083
00:38:46,467 --> 00:38:48,200
Also because we don't have
mommies, so I feel like
1084
00:38:48,266 --> 00:38:49,058
why wouldn't you keep
that bond between us?
1085
00:38:49,058 --> 00:38:50,000
Why wouldn't you keep
that bond between us?
1086
00:38:50,667 --> 00:38:53,099
We're sisters first.
You have to be sisters first.
1087
00:38:53,100 --> 00:38:54,500
Like, we're all we have.
1088
00:38:57,467 --> 00:38:59,165
- Hey.
- [DeeDee] I'mma sit here.
1089
00:38:59,166 --> 00:39:01,099
{\an8}- [woman speaking]
- Right here?
1090
00:39:01,100 --> 00:39:03,300
{\an8}[woman speaking]
1091
00:39:03,367 --> 00:39:04,500
{\an8}- [DeeDee] Thank you.
- [woman speaking]
1092
00:39:11,166 --> 00:39:13,500
Seems like it's the elephant
in the room.
1093
00:39:13,567 --> 00:39:15,200
Just a little bit...
1094
00:39:15,266 --> 00:39:16,400
[laughs]
1095
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:18,700
I'm trying.
1096
00:39:18,767 --> 00:39:19,058
I feel like I'm in
a horror movie right now.
1097
00:39:19,058 --> 00:39:20,000
I feel like I'm in
a horror movie right now.
1098
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:24,500
- [imitate evil laugh]
- I hate that noise.
1099
00:39:24,567 --> 00:39:27,466
The problem is
you're dating a female, right?
1100
00:39:27,467 --> 00:39:30,566
Because it's two females,
we're getting confused with...
1101
00:39:30,567 --> 00:39:33,366
- Yeah. I agree.
- Partners and sisters.
1102
00:39:33,367 --> 00:39:35,300
Every time you get around...
You got with her.
1103
00:39:35,367 --> 00:39:38,100
I swear I feel like you just,
like, push us to the sidelines.
1104
00:39:40,066 --> 00:39:41,666
Since you got with her,
I don't even have a,
1105
00:39:41,667 --> 00:39:43,466
"Hey, girl, let's hang out."
1106
00:39:43,467 --> 00:39:46,165
That's not her fault, though.
1107
00:39:46,166 --> 00:39:48,466
To me, it seems like it's
Whitney not allowing DeeDee
1108
00:39:48,467 --> 00:39:49,058
to be free or be
with her family.
1109
00:39:49,058 --> 00:39:50,000
To be free or be
with her family.
1110
00:39:50,667 --> 00:39:52,466
Whitney is swallowing DeeDee.
1111
00:39:52,467 --> 00:39:54,366
She needs to give her
time to breathe.
1112
00:39:54,367 --> 00:39:55,666
Yes. That space.
1113
00:39:55,667 --> 00:39:58,165
I just feel like
I'm getting older
1114
00:39:58,166 --> 00:39:59,500
and I'm doing things different.
1115
00:39:59,567 --> 00:40:01,165
And there's nothing wrong
with that.
1116
00:40:01,166 --> 00:40:03,400
I'm not... That's not my
issue. I'm not knocking that.
1117
00:40:03,467 --> 00:40:05,300
But you can't get older
and do things different
1118
00:40:05,367 --> 00:40:07,165
and push us to the side.
1119
00:40:07,166 --> 00:40:08,767
That doesn't make sense to me.
It doesn't add up.
1120
00:40:11,667 --> 00:40:13,065
{\an8}- Like, she is trying.
- That has nothing to do
1121
00:40:13,066 --> 00:40:15,065
with us.
That's your household.
1122
00:40:15,066 --> 00:40:17,566
But I just feel like I don't
have y'all to kind of vent to,
1123
00:40:17,567 --> 00:40:19,057
like, I went to my safe place.
1124
00:40:19,058 --> 00:40:19,300
Like, I went to my safe place.
1125
00:40:19,367 --> 00:40:20,000
Y'all was my safe place
and y'all took that way.
1126
00:40:21,166 --> 00:40:23,866
We wanna build
our relationship with you,
1127
00:40:23,867 --> 00:40:25,466
- we have issues with her.
- But I'm okay with that, too.
1128
00:40:25,467 --> 00:40:27,000
I still wanna protect her.
1129
00:40:27,066 --> 00:40:28,666
I don't want her to be
looking at as being crazy.
1130
00:40:28,667 --> 00:40:30,300
- She's not.
- So that's what I'm saying,
1131
00:40:30,367 --> 00:40:32,165
this whole victim part
and then you get upset
1132
00:40:32,166 --> 00:40:33,466
- what we're saying.
- [DeeDee] I never tried
1133
00:40:33,467 --> 00:40:35,000
to play the victim. I'm just
telling you how I'm feeling.
1134
00:40:35,066 --> 00:40:36,399
You always got something to say
1135
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,300
- and every time I talk-- - So
you don't think that's victim?
1136
00:40:38,367 --> 00:40:40,766
Well, I feel a victim because
you're always attacking me.
1137
00:40:40,767 --> 00:40:42,400
Y'all do it at the same time.
1138
00:40:42,467 --> 00:40:43,566
Girl...
1139
00:40:43,567 --> 00:40:44,766
I'm not attacking you...
1140
00:40:44,767 --> 00:40:46,266
I feel attacked.
1141
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,566
You are not attached by
the umbilical cord to that girl.
1142
00:40:52,567 --> 00:40:54,099
You are my sibling.
1143
00:40:54,100 --> 00:40:56,566
- She brings me happiness.
- And... But we don't?
1144
00:40:56,567 --> 00:40:58,300
I enjoy being around her.
1145
00:41:01,266 --> 00:41:02,566
{\an8}- That's the problem.
- That's the problem.
1146
00:41:02,567 --> 00:41:04,566
- She threw herself at us.
- Right, we know.
1147
00:41:04,567 --> 00:41:06,165
Like, "Oh, I want...
I always want a sister."
1148
00:41:06,166 --> 00:41:07,466
Okay, well, we have
enough of us.
1149
00:41:07,467 --> 00:41:09,566
You treat us as if
we're not your sisters.
1150
00:41:09,567 --> 00:41:11,466
We just like your home girls
and you can just,
1151
00:41:11,467 --> 00:41:12,700
you know, dispose of us
when you want to.
1152
00:41:12,767 --> 00:41:13,767
No, we're not down with that.
1153
00:41:13,768 --> 00:41:15,566
[LaQuana]
How can we move forward?
1154
00:41:15,567 --> 00:41:16,567
What's next?
1155
00:41:17,467 --> 00:41:18,666
We was a puzzle.
1156
00:41:18,667 --> 00:41:19,058
The puzzle done broke up
into pieces.
1157
00:41:19,058 --> 00:41:20,000
The puzzle done broke up
into pieces.
1158
00:41:20,166 --> 00:41:21,566
[Davena]
We lost one of the pieces.
1159
00:41:21,567 --> 00:41:22,966
Now we have to put
the puzzle back together.
1160
00:41:22,967 --> 00:41:24,400
It's baby steps, baby steps.
1161
00:41:24,467 --> 00:41:26,065
We got to work on baby step.
1162
00:41:26,066 --> 00:41:28,366
So the first step we're trying
to make right now,
1163
00:41:28,367 --> 00:41:31,300
- DeeDee, is being your sister.
- [Davena] Your sister.
1164
00:41:31,367 --> 00:41:34,065
And then once we start
getting us together,
1165
00:41:34,066 --> 00:41:35,466
once we're right,
1166
00:41:35,467 --> 00:41:37,265
everything else
will fall into place.
1167
00:41:37,266 --> 00:41:40,766
We just wanted to try to work
on our sisterhood
1168
00:41:40,767 --> 00:41:43,200
and try to build
a relationship back with her.
1169
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,500
So are we done?
1170
00:41:45,567 --> 00:41:47,366
Are we gonna work
on our relationship?
1171
00:41:47,367 --> 00:41:49,057
Are we gonna try to put the
pieces back together slowly?
1172
00:41:49,058 --> 00:41:50,000
Are we gonna try to put the
pieces back together slowly?
1173
00:41:50,166 --> 00:41:51,666
I'm willing to work
on our relationship.
1174
00:41:51,667 --> 00:41:54,165
I just really want us to,
1175
00:41:54,166 --> 00:41:56,500
like, be aware of what
we're doing to each other.
1176
00:41:56,567 --> 00:41:58,666
- To me, that's it.
- Okay.
1177
00:41:58,667 --> 00:42:00,666
[Davena] I'm just crawling
to see where we get to.
1178
00:42:00,667 --> 00:42:02,165
I mean, I could see
as only going up,
1179
00:42:02,166 --> 00:42:03,366
because we already been down.
1180
00:42:03,367 --> 00:42:05,466
We're gonna hug it out.
Is that what we're gonna do?
1181
00:42:05,467 --> 00:42:07,265
[sighs] Okay.
1182
00:42:07,266 --> 00:42:09,466
I know they still have
reservations about her,
1183
00:42:09,467 --> 00:42:11,666
but Whitney is going
to be my wife.
1184
00:42:11,667 --> 00:42:13,666
So they're just gonna have
to accept her.
1185
00:42:13,667 --> 00:42:15,700
So I feel like we all need
each other, to be honest.
1186
00:42:15,767 --> 00:42:17,265
Bring it in. Bring it in.
1187
00:42:17,266 --> 00:42:18,866
Stop. Don't do that to me.
1188
00:42:18,867 --> 00:42:19,058
So as much as they think
that they don't need me,
1189
00:42:19,058 --> 00:42:20,000
So as much as they think
that they don't need me,
1190
00:42:20,567 --> 00:42:21,700
they really do need me.
1191
00:42:21,767 --> 00:42:23,600
And they just like to hide it.
1192
00:42:23,667 --> 00:42:25,165
- [Davena] Yes, you do.
- [DeeDee] No, I don't.
1193
00:42:25,166 --> 00:42:26,867
Can you stop?