WEBVTT FILE 1 00:00:02.000 --> 00:00:07.000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:02.300 --> 00:00:05.100 line:5% - Hi. I'm DeeDee. - And I'm Whitney. 3 00:00:05.166 --> 00:00:07.466 Three years ago, we fell in love. 4 00:00:07.467 --> 00:00:08.566 And me and my three kids... 5 00:00:08.000 --> 00:00:13.000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 6 00:00:08.567 --> 00:00:10.400 [DeeDee] And me and my four kids... 7 00:00:10.467 --> 00:00:12.265 [Whitney] Decided to move in together. 8 00:00:12.266 --> 00:00:14.100 [DeeDee] And we became one big family. 9 00:00:14.166 --> 00:00:16.100 We're marching. We're marching. 10 00:00:16.166 --> 00:00:17.666 We're marching down the road. 11 00:00:17.667 --> 00:00:19.566 [Whitney] I decided to propose to her. 12 00:00:19.567 --> 00:00:20.567 Yes. 13 00:00:20.568 --> 00:00:22.265 [Whitney] Then she proposed to me. 14 00:00:22.266 --> 00:00:23.766 Now, would you marry me back? 15 00:00:23.767 --> 00:00:24.767 [screams] 16 00:00:24.768 --> 00:00:26.666 And we're engaged. 17 00:00:26.667 --> 00:00:28.366 So, now, we're headed down the aisle 18 00:00:28.367 --> 00:00:29.566 with our blended family. 19 00:00:29.567 --> 00:00:30.000 - Let's go! - Let's go! 20 00:00:30.000 --> 00:00:31.000 - Let's go! - Let's go! 21 00:00:32.166 --> 00:00:34.265 Ugh! Everything's okay. 22 00:00:34.266 --> 00:00:35.466 Mom. [laughs] 23 00:00:35.467 --> 00:00:37.100 [DeeDee] But being a lesbian couple 24 00:00:37.166 --> 00:00:40.099 with seven kids, in a small town in North Carolina, 25 00:00:40.100 --> 00:00:41.666 definitely has its challenges. 26 00:00:41.667 --> 00:00:45.566 - Oh, shoot! - [Whitney] Oh! 27 00:00:45.567 --> 00:00:46.666 [Mickey] They have a lot working against them. 28 00:00:46.667 --> 00:00:49.165 The town we live in, splitting from their exes. 29 00:00:49.166 --> 00:00:52.366 Still have mixed reversed feelings to you. 30 00:00:52.367 --> 00:00:53.466 [Mickey] Family. 31 00:00:53.467 --> 00:00:54.700 [Davena] But every relationship has issues. 32 00:00:54.767 --> 00:00:55.900 I don't think they're ready for marriage. 33 00:00:55.967 --> 00:00:58.566 I think these girls are in over their heads. 34 00:00:58.567 --> 00:00:59.999 [Whitney] Through it all, 35 00:01:00.000 --> 00:01:00.166 [Whitney] Through it all, 36 00:01:00.166 --> 00:01:01.000 we've grown together, stronger. 37 00:01:01.667 --> 00:01:03.065 - [screams] - She's just my sister. 38 00:01:03.066 --> 00:01:04.165 Don't worry about it. 39 00:01:04.166 --> 00:01:05.265 [Whitney] We may look a little different 40 00:01:05.266 --> 00:01:06.700 than your average family, 41 00:01:06.767 --> 00:01:08.966 but we promise, we love the same, 42 00:01:08.967 --> 00:01:10.065 we laugh the same. 43 00:01:10.066 --> 00:01:11.466 [DeeDee] We're just like everyone else. 44 00:01:11.467 --> 00:01:13.100 [Whitney] No. Two moms is better. 45 00:01:13.166 --> 00:01:16.300 [all] This is our life with two moms. 46 00:01:24.367 --> 00:01:26.366 [Whitney] One per kid, okay? 47 00:01:26.367 --> 00:01:27.666 [DeeDee] One per kid. 48 00:01:27.667 --> 00:01:29.866 We are one, two, three, four, five, six, seven. 49 00:01:29.867 --> 00:01:30.000 You're all here. 50 00:01:30.000 --> 00:01:31.000 You're all here. 51 00:01:31.166 --> 00:01:33.666 - Say cheese. - Cheese. 52 00:01:33.667 --> 00:01:35.300 - All right, you ready? - Mmm-hmm. 53 00:01:35.367 --> 00:01:36.367 - Okay. - Are you ready? 54 00:01:36.368 --> 00:01:37.600 - Mmm-hmm. - Okay. 55 00:01:37.667 --> 00:01:40.165 - Three, two-- - One. 56 00:01:40.166 --> 00:01:41.600 Action. 57 00:01:41.667 --> 00:01:43.165 - [Whitney] Thumbs up. - [all] Thumbs up. 58 00:01:43.166 --> 00:01:45.100 - [Whitney] Elbows back. - [all] Elbows back. 59 00:01:45.166 --> 00:01:46.500 - Feet apart. - Feet apart. 60 00:01:46.567 --> 00:01:48.566 - Knees together. - Knees together. 61 00:01:48.567 --> 00:01:50.666 We're marching. We're marching. 62 00:01:50.667 --> 00:01:52.666 We're marching down the road. 63 00:01:52.667 --> 00:01:55.666 line:5% I have no explanation on how two straight women 64 00:01:55.667 --> 00:01:57.866 just fell in love with each other. 65 00:01:57.867 --> 00:01:59.265 [Whitney] Okay. You done? 66 00:01:59.266 --> 00:02:00.000 [Whitney] Sexy mama. 67 00:02:00.000 --> 00:02:00.700 [Whitney] Sexy mama. 68 00:02:00.767 --> 00:02:01.000 I love you. 69 00:02:02.467 --> 00:02:04.700 - I mean, hop up. - I couldn't do it. 70 00:02:04.767 --> 00:02:07.266 line:5% [DeeDee] But you know what? We did. 71 00:02:08.300 --> 00:02:09.266 line:5% [Whitney] Oh, I'm sorry, babe. 72 00:02:09.267 --> 00:02:10.600 It's over here. 73 00:02:10.667 --> 00:02:13.366 Your arms are gonna... [laughs] 74 00:02:13.367 --> 00:02:14.566 At your service. 75 00:02:14.567 --> 00:02:16.566 I'm from New York. 76 00:02:16.567 --> 00:02:18.265 I was born and raised in Brooklyn. 77 00:02:18.266 --> 00:02:19.666 Whoo-whoo. 78 00:02:19.667 --> 00:02:22.566 Growing up in New York, we had a nice, big home. 79 00:02:22.567 --> 00:02:24.900 My parents had a really good relationship, 80 00:02:24.967 --> 00:02:28.265 so I think I had a really good childhood. 81 00:02:28.266 --> 00:02:29.866 I wouldn't trade it or change it 82 00:02:29.867 --> 00:02:30.000 for anything in the world. 83 00:02:30.000 --> 00:02:31.000 For anything in the world. 84 00:02:31.867 --> 00:02:34.265 Tell mommy. There you go. 85 00:02:34.266 --> 00:02:35.700 - Oh, my God. Oh! - Oh! 86 00:02:35.767 --> 00:02:37.265 - Jealousy. - Oh! 87 00:02:37.266 --> 00:02:38.400 Whoa! 88 00:02:38.467 --> 00:02:41.600 We share Mommy, okay? 89 00:02:41.667 --> 00:02:43.100 [DeeDee] When I was in grad school, 90 00:02:43.166 --> 00:02:45.265 I met my now ex-husband, Will. 91 00:02:45.266 --> 00:02:47.400 Will and I were together for nine and a half years. 92 00:02:47.467 --> 00:02:49.666 And while we were together, we had three amazing children, 93 00:02:49.667 --> 00:02:52.866 line:5% Kailynn, Zuri, and Zamir. 94 00:02:52.867 --> 00:02:55.265 line:5% When I grow, I wanna be a surgeon 95 00:02:55.266 --> 00:02:58.367 line:5% 'cause they make a lot of money. 96 00:03:00.567 --> 00:03:01.000 line:5% [DeeDee] My fourth kid is my stepdaughter, Damiya, 97 00:03:02.667 --> 00:03:05.667 who I've known since she was five years old. 98 00:03:08.066 --> 00:03:10.400 line:5% What do you wanna be in the wedding? 99 00:03:10.467 --> 00:03:12.265 line:5% You wanna be the Pride? 100 00:03:12.266 --> 00:03:13.766 Oh, okay. 101 00:03:13.767 --> 00:03:15.999 line:5% I always pictured the "perfect life." 102 00:03:16.000 --> 00:03:17.500 line:5% Like, white picket fence. 103 00:03:17.567 --> 00:03:19.666 line:5% You know, the picture-perfect family, 104 00:03:19.667 --> 00:03:21.600 the mom, the dad, the kids. 105 00:03:21.667 --> 00:03:24.100 And now, I mean, I'm a lesbian, 106 00:03:24.166 --> 00:03:26.500 I'm in an interracial relationship. 107 00:03:26.567 --> 00:03:28.600 I didn't expect any of this for myself. 108 00:03:28.667 --> 00:03:29.999 You wanna support your mommies? 109 00:03:30.000 --> 00:03:30.098 You wanna support your mommies? 110 00:03:30.099 --> 00:03:31.000 Yeah, you love us? 111 00:03:32.100 --> 00:03:34.100 You do? We love you too, bud. 112 00:03:34.166 --> 00:03:35.800 I married my high school sweetheart 113 00:03:35.867 --> 00:03:37.600 at the age of 18, 114 00:03:37.667 --> 00:03:40.400 and we were married for 11 years. 115 00:03:40.467 --> 00:03:42.766 My ex-husband was my first, 116 00:03:42.767 --> 00:03:45.100 because I was taught that you have to be a virgin 117 00:03:45.166 --> 00:03:46.766 when you get married. 118 00:03:46.767 --> 00:03:48.000 Follows married. 119 00:03:48.066 --> 00:03:49.766 line:5% I had three kids, a daughter, Brooklyn, 120 00:03:49.767 --> 00:03:50.866 line:5% a son Beckham, 121 00:03:50.867 --> 00:03:52.467 line:5% and another little girl, Brennan. 122 00:04:00.200 --> 00:04:01.000 line:5% Which one do you guys like more, 123 00:04:01.667 --> 00:04:03.000 Mama or Mommy? 124 00:04:03.066 --> 00:04:04.500 - Mama. - Who's the meanest? 125 00:04:04.567 --> 00:04:05.800 - Mommy. - Ma. 126 00:04:05.867 --> 00:04:07.000 - Ma. - Mommy. 127 00:04:07.066 --> 00:04:08.000 What? 128 00:04:08.001 --> 00:04:09.366 I'm Mommy. 129 00:04:09.367 --> 00:04:10.700 And I'm Mama, 130 00:04:10.767 --> 00:04:13.866 because DeeDee didn't like how southern that sounded. 131 00:04:13.867 --> 00:04:15.165 - [Whitney] Who's the nicest? - Me. 132 00:04:15.166 --> 00:04:16.366 Who thinks Mommy is the nicest? 133 00:04:16.367 --> 00:04:17.566 - Raise your hand. - Yeah. 134 00:04:17.567 --> 00:04:20.099 - I, I think-- - [DeeDee] I'm offended. 135 00:04:20.100 --> 00:04:21.400 Y'all wanna get ice cream? 136 00:04:21.467 --> 00:04:24.000 [all] Yeah! 137 00:04:24.066 --> 00:04:25.400 All right, follow Mommy. 138 00:04:25.467 --> 00:04:27.566 - One, two, three-- - Four, five, six, seven. 139 00:04:27.567 --> 00:04:28.666 Okay. 140 00:04:28.667 --> 00:04:29.999 The world is changing. 141 00:04:30.000 --> 00:04:30.098 The world is changing. 142 00:04:30.099 --> 00:04:31.000 Unfortunately, our town is not changing quickly. 143 00:04:33.767 --> 00:04:35.566 All right. We have a big order. 144 00:04:35.567 --> 00:04:39.566 And same sex relationships are still very iffy. 145 00:04:39.567 --> 00:04:41.466 line:5% Mommy, I'm ready. 146 00:04:41.467 --> 00:04:43.566 line:5% How do girls and girls have baby? 147 00:04:43.567 --> 00:04:45.666 [Kailynn] So, how about two girls, 148 00:04:45.667 --> 00:04:46.667 how do they have babies? 149 00:04:46.668 --> 00:04:48.099 How do two girls have babies? 150 00:04:48.100 --> 00:04:50.466 - [DeeDee] Uh-huh. - Damiya, you wanna answer it? 151 00:04:50.467 --> 00:04:52.366 - [laughter] - LGBTQ is not heard of 152 00:04:52.367 --> 00:04:53.634 where we're at. 153 00:04:53.667 --> 00:04:56.767 So, that community is definitely one we don't have here. 154 00:05:03.100 --> 00:05:05.466 - You look so cute. - I'm so excited. 155 00:05:05.467 --> 00:05:06.666 So ready to dance. 156 00:05:06.667 --> 00:05:08.566 We met doing dance class. 157 00:05:08.567 --> 00:05:10.100 I was her instructor. 158 00:05:10.166 --> 00:05:11.566 [Whitney] It had been about six months 159 00:05:11.567 --> 00:05:14.666 after I had been divorced before I met DeeDee. 160 00:05:14.667 --> 00:05:16.600 Ask him what you want to ask him with the arm. 161 00:05:16.667 --> 00:05:19.400 Oh, okay. So, for every day, I'm still confused on it, 162 00:05:19.467 --> 00:05:22.666 'cause I go, and then I go to the right or the left first? 163 00:05:22.667 --> 00:05:23.866 You go to the... She go this way 164 00:05:23.867 --> 00:05:24.967 and I go to this way. 165 00:05:26.767 --> 00:05:27.767 [clear throats] 166 00:05:27.768 --> 00:05:28.867 I do. 167 00:05:30.000 --> 00:05:30.967 [laughter] 168 00:05:33.567 --> 00:05:34.567 - Right. - No. 169 00:05:34.568 --> 00:05:35.700 - Oh. - [DeeDee] See? 170 00:05:35.767 --> 00:05:36.800 Yeah, that one's pretty cute. 171 00:05:36.867 --> 00:05:38.466 She has better rhythm because... 172 00:05:38.467 --> 00:05:40.165 - Mmm-hmm. - She was born with it. 173 00:05:40.166 --> 00:05:41.666 But I had to work for mine. 174 00:05:41.667 --> 00:05:44.165 I was not blessed with the best rhythm, 175 00:05:44.166 --> 00:05:45.800 but I worked hard, 176 00:05:45.867 --> 00:05:47.065 and I really feel like... 177 00:05:47.066 --> 00:05:49.165 I don't dance like a crazy White girl. 178 00:05:49.166 --> 00:05:51.999 - Eyy! Eyy! - [laughter] 179 00:05:52.000 --> 00:05:53.466 I'm so White. 180 00:05:53.467 --> 00:05:54.600 I'm so White. 181 00:05:55.767 --> 00:05:57.666 - All right, y'all. - Left first? 182 00:05:57.667 --> 00:05:58.567 - Yeah. - All right. 183 00:06:00.800 --> 00:06:01.000 Hey! 184 00:06:02.467 --> 00:06:03.866 Hey! 185 00:06:03.867 --> 00:06:05.700 So, my connection with DeeDee, 186 00:06:05.767 --> 00:06:06.800 it was instant. 187 00:06:06.867 --> 00:06:08.100 Hey! 188 00:06:08.166 --> 00:06:09.800 Now, we step it up. 189 00:06:09.867 --> 00:06:12.566 As months went by, and we became friends... 190 00:06:12.567 --> 00:06:15.766 I started to confide in her about a lot of things, 191 00:06:15.767 --> 00:06:17.600 you know, my relationship issues. 192 00:06:17.667 --> 00:06:19.466 - Eyy! Eyy! - [woman] What? What? 193 00:06:19.467 --> 00:06:21.366 - Eyy! Eyy! - [woman] What? What? 194 00:06:21.367 --> 00:06:22.799 Eyy! 195 00:06:22.800 --> 00:06:24.700 [Whitney] We're talking a lot about, like, the men in my life 196 00:06:24.767 --> 00:06:27.500 that were just constantly giving me problems. 197 00:06:27.567 --> 00:06:28.567 - Eyy! - Eyy! 198 00:06:28.568 --> 00:06:29.999 - Eyy! - Eyy! 199 00:06:30.000 --> 00:06:30.867 - Eyy! - Eyy! 200 00:06:30.867 --> 00:06:31.000 But we just became closer and closer. 201 00:06:32.967 --> 00:06:35.700 And then, I started asking her more questions, like, 202 00:06:35.767 --> 00:06:38.165 "Have you ever thought about being with the woman?" 203 00:06:38.166 --> 00:06:40.666 Uh, no. I... [chuckles] 204 00:06:40.667 --> 00:06:42.700 - Eyy! Eyy! Eyy! - Wait! 205 00:06:42.767 --> 00:06:44.700 - Eyy! - Okay! 206 00:06:44.767 --> 00:06:46.766 So, one day after dance class, 207 00:06:46.767 --> 00:06:49.766 we drove, and we went into, like, a parking lot, 208 00:06:49.767 --> 00:06:53.500 and she ended up winning over, and kissing me. 209 00:06:53.567 --> 00:06:54.700 I had never kissed a woman, 210 00:06:54.767 --> 00:06:56.700 and I didn't really know how it was gonna be. 211 00:06:57.800 --> 00:06:59.999 But that was a big change for me 212 00:07:00.000 --> 00:07:00.967 But that was a big change for me 213 00:07:00.967 --> 00:07:01.000 because I felt butterflies, 214 00:07:02.667 --> 00:07:06.100 and I began seeing DeeDee in another way. 215 00:07:06.166 --> 00:07:09.600 Kissing Whitney, I just put sparks in my eyes 216 00:07:09.667 --> 00:07:11.767 and in my body and... 217 00:07:12.266 --> 00:07:13.500 [sighs] 218 00:07:13.567 --> 00:07:16.366 And that's when I realized that I loved her. 219 00:07:16.367 --> 00:07:20.567 Her kiss stole me away. 220 00:07:22.300 --> 00:07:24.366 I don't know how you all feel when you all kiss people. 221 00:07:24.367 --> 00:07:27.966 When I kiss her, it goes everywhere. 222 00:07:27.967 --> 00:07:29.999 [Whitney] I didn't expect a little fun kiss 223 00:07:30.000 --> 00:07:30.900 [Whitney] I didn't expect a little fun kiss 224 00:07:30.967 --> 00:07:31.000 to completely change my entire identity, 225 00:07:34.367 --> 00:07:35.600 but it did. 226 00:07:35.667 --> 00:07:37.366 And it was scary as hell, 227 00:07:37.367 --> 00:07:42.700 because I instantly knew I could not lose her. 228 00:07:42.767 --> 00:07:44.666 [DeeDee] After I kissed her, every night, 229 00:07:44.667 --> 00:07:46.966 like, I would go to sleep, I would think about her. 230 00:07:46.967 --> 00:07:48.700 It just kept building and building. 231 00:07:48.767 --> 00:07:50.766 And I couldn't get her out of my mind. 232 00:07:50.767 --> 00:07:52.566 Yes, look at you. 233 00:07:52.567 --> 00:07:53.666 - That is... - No. 234 00:07:53.667 --> 00:07:55.065 - Teamwork, babe. - I thought it was just-- 235 00:07:55.066 --> 00:07:56.700 - I love you. - I love you too. 236 00:07:56.767 --> 00:07:59.200 I was aware that I was falling in love with Whitney, 237 00:07:59.266 --> 00:08:00.000 and it made me very confused and scared, 238 00:08:00.000 --> 00:08:01.000 and it made me very confused and scared, 239 00:08:02.266 --> 00:08:05.466 because at the time, I was married to Will, 240 00:08:05.467 --> 00:08:08.165 and struggling to make my marriage work. 241 00:08:08.166 --> 00:08:09.900 line:5% [woman speaking] 242 00:08:09.967 --> 00:08:11.667 line:5% [DeeDee] We're hoping for this fall. 243 00:08:12.867 --> 00:08:14.766 line:5% - [Whitney] Yes, definitely. - [DeeDee] Fall 2022. 244 00:08:14.767 --> 00:08:16.600 line:5% It was kind of, like, a boom explosion. 245 00:08:16.667 --> 00:08:18.000 line:5% It was just, like, one day popped up, 246 00:08:18.066 --> 00:08:19.265 line:5% boom, we're a couple. 247 00:08:19.266 --> 00:08:21.166 line:5% And we were all like, "What? 248 00:08:21.700 --> 00:08:23.000 line:5% When?" 249 00:08:24.600 --> 00:08:26.500 It was confusing because we knew them 250 00:08:26.567 --> 00:08:27.766 to be straight. 251 00:08:27.767 --> 00:08:28.999 She wants to take my last name, y'all. 252 00:08:29.000 --> 00:08:30.000 line:5% [woman speaking] 253 00:08:30.000 --> 00:08:30.967 line:5% Griffith. 254 00:08:30.967 --> 00:08:31.000 We're gonna take her last name. 255 00:08:32.166 --> 00:08:33.600 [Mickey] They have a lot working against them. 256 00:08:33.667 --> 00:08:36.165 The town we live in, splitting from their exes, 257 00:08:36.166 --> 00:08:38.366 church, family. 258 00:08:38.367 --> 00:08:40.099 I think these girls are in over their heads. 259 00:08:40.100 --> 00:08:41.900 line:5% [Whitney] You are so gonna be the event planner, girl. 260 00:08:41.967 --> 00:08:42.967 line:5% You're, like, mad good... 261 00:08:43.000 --> 00:08:44.600 - [DeeDee] Mad creative. - At planning events. 262 00:08:44.667 --> 00:08:45.999 [Whitney] All of our kids were... 263 00:08:46.000 --> 00:08:48.466 - [laughter] - Yeah. Yeah. I am creative. 264 00:08:48.467 --> 00:08:50.165 [DeeDee] LaQuana is my oldest sister, 265 00:08:50.166 --> 00:08:52.600 and Davena is the middle sister. 266 00:08:52.667 --> 00:08:55.100 The sisterhood we have together is so important to me. 267 00:08:55.166 --> 00:08:56.766 line:5% Hello. My name is LaQuana 268 00:08:56.767 --> 00:08:59.100 line:5% and I am DeeDee's oldest sister. 269 00:08:59.166 --> 00:09:00.000 line:5% I'm Davena. 270 00:09:00.000 --> 00:09:00.500 line:5% I'm Davena. 271 00:09:00.567 --> 00:09:01.000 line:5% And I'm DeeDee's middle sister. 272 00:09:02.867 --> 00:09:05.300 Things with my sisters right now are really awkward. 273 00:09:05.367 --> 00:09:06.532 They don't like Whitney. 274 00:09:06.533 --> 00:09:08.165 [Davena] I think that Whitney makes DeeDee happy 275 00:09:08.166 --> 00:09:09.200 from what I see. 276 00:09:09.266 --> 00:09:10.866 But every relationship has issues. 277 00:09:10.867 --> 00:09:12.366 I don't think they're ready for marriage still. 278 00:09:12.367 --> 00:09:14.567 Thank you y'all for coming, guys. 279 00:09:16.000 --> 00:09:18.766 [DeeDee] Whitney helped me to embrace me, 280 00:09:18.767 --> 00:09:20.800 and she is my future. 281 00:09:20.867 --> 00:09:22.300 I want her forever. 282 00:09:22.367 --> 00:09:24.967 - Yeah, it was good. - You were awesome. 283 00:09:33.867 --> 00:09:35.366 [Whitney] Did everybody have a good day? 284 00:09:35.367 --> 00:09:37.165 - Yes. - Yes. 285 00:09:37.166 --> 00:09:39.900 [sighs] This one's a long day, 286 00:09:39.967 --> 00:09:42.366 but it's time to wind down. 287 00:09:42.367 --> 00:09:44.366 All right, guys, we need to say our prayers, 288 00:09:44.367 --> 00:09:45.800 and then we're gonna have to go to sleep, 289 00:09:45.867 --> 00:09:47.700 because me and Mommy are tired. 290 00:09:47.767 --> 00:09:49.800 [DeeDee] Exhausted, guys. 291 00:09:49.867 --> 00:09:51.366 - Who wants to pray? - Me. 292 00:09:51.367 --> 00:09:54.065 All right, Kai. You can say our prayer. 293 00:09:54.066 --> 00:09:55.800 All through my childhood, 294 00:09:55.867 --> 00:09:58.666 I mainly did everything in the church. 295 00:09:58.667 --> 00:09:59.999 ♪ Kiss me like you Wanna be loved ♪ 296 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:01.000 ♪ Kiss me like you Wanna be loved ♪ 297 00:10:02.166 --> 00:10:04.000 I was a worship leader for 10 years. 298 00:10:04.066 --> 00:10:06.165 That was my favorite thing to do. 299 00:10:06.166 --> 00:10:09.700 It was how I showed my heart for the Lord. 300 00:10:09.767 --> 00:10:11.866 ♪ Falling in love ♪ 301 00:10:11.867 --> 00:10:14.165 All right, everybody, quiet mouth. 302 00:10:14.166 --> 00:10:15.700 Close your eyes. 303 00:10:15.767 --> 00:10:17.866 [Kailynn] Now, I lay me down to sleep, 304 00:10:17.867 --> 00:10:20.000 I pray the Lord my soul to keep. 305 00:10:20.066 --> 00:10:22.165 When I came out, I was no longer allowed 306 00:10:22.166 --> 00:10:24.666 to lead worship. As a Christian, 307 00:10:24.667 --> 00:10:27.366 you're able to come to church as a lesbian, 308 00:10:27.367 --> 00:10:30.000 but you cannot be in a lesbian relationship, 309 00:10:30.066 --> 00:10:31.000 and be on the leadership team of our church. 310 00:10:32.767 --> 00:10:34.866 So, I was made to step down. 311 00:10:34.867 --> 00:10:38.165 That was the hardest thing that I've ever experienced. 312 00:10:38.166 --> 00:10:39.366 I was open and honest 313 00:10:39.367 --> 00:10:42.000 about loving a female. 314 00:10:42.066 --> 00:10:44.800 That is the only thing that changed. 315 00:10:44.867 --> 00:10:46.666 [Kailynn] If I should die before I wake, 316 00:10:46.667 --> 00:10:48.866 I pray the Lord my soul to take. 317 00:10:48.867 --> 00:10:51.700 I lost who I was for the first, 318 00:10:51.767 --> 00:10:53.666 you know, 20-something years of my life. 319 00:10:53.667 --> 00:10:55.366 I lost friends 320 00:10:55.367 --> 00:10:58.366 that I thought were truly my deep friends. 321 00:10:58.367 --> 00:10:59.999 And my family is super conservative. 322 00:11:00.000 --> 00:11:01.000 And my family is super conservative. 323 00:11:01.266 --> 00:11:03.099 My grandmother still prays 324 00:11:03.100 --> 00:11:05.065 that I will get back with my ex. 325 00:11:05.066 --> 00:11:07.800 She does not condone my relationship with DeeDee. 326 00:11:07.867 --> 00:11:09.700 [Kailynn] Amen. I love my family. 327 00:11:09.767 --> 00:11:12.366 - [DeeDee] Aww! - [Whitney] Awesome, guys. 328 00:11:12.367 --> 00:11:15.666 So, to go from having a support system for years, 329 00:11:15.667 --> 00:11:18.200 the same people that loved me that, you know, 330 00:11:18.266 --> 00:11:21.700 looked up to me, to then them completely turning their backs 331 00:11:21.767 --> 00:11:24.966 and being, like, "You're no longer accepted as a leader." 332 00:11:24.967 --> 00:11:28.367 I never thought that it would happen to me, you know? 333 00:11:29.800 --> 00:11:30.000 I'm tired. 334 00:11:30.000 --> 00:11:31.000 I'm tired. 335 00:11:31.266 --> 00:11:33.099 I don't wanna go to work in the morning. 336 00:11:33.100 --> 00:11:36.065 - Well. - Got to make this money. 337 00:11:36.066 --> 00:11:39.300 It's just getting what, money? Yeah. 338 00:11:39.367 --> 00:11:41.099 [Whitney] I was forced to choose between 339 00:11:41.100 --> 00:11:42.900 who I love, and what I love. 340 00:11:42.967 --> 00:11:44.366 By keeping DeeDee, 341 00:11:44.367 --> 00:11:46.900 I chose who I love, 342 00:11:46.967 --> 00:11:49.300 and it has been the biggest blessing 343 00:11:49.367 --> 00:11:50.766 that I've ever experienced. 344 00:11:50.767 --> 00:11:52.200 - I love you. - I love you, too. 345 00:11:52.266 --> 00:11:54.667 [Whitney] I'm so tired. 346 00:12:02.166 --> 00:12:03.700 line:5% [all] Coming up... 347 00:12:03.767 --> 00:12:05.867 line:5% - Dad! - Oh. 348 00:12:07.367 --> 00:12:09.000 line:5% We decided to invite Will, 349 00:12:09.066 --> 00:12:10.300 line:5% and DeeDee's sisters. 350 00:12:10.367 --> 00:12:12.000 [DeeDee] Oh, they're here. 351 00:12:28.000 --> 00:12:29.467 line:5% [Will speaking] 352 00:12:30.500 --> 00:12:32.500 line:5% Come on here. 353 00:12:32.567 --> 00:12:34.000 line:5% Careful. 354 00:12:37.266 --> 00:12:38.566 line:5% [DeeDee] Hi, baby! 355 00:12:38.567 --> 00:12:40.566 line:5% I missed you. 356 00:12:40.567 --> 00:12:41.666 line:5% Look how big I get. 357 00:12:41.667 --> 00:12:43.265 line:5% Look how big I get. 358 00:12:43.266 --> 00:12:44.966 line:5% - [Zuri speaking] - Go ahead. 359 00:12:44.967 --> 00:12:46.666 line:5% [DeeDee] Look how big I get. Look how big I get. 360 00:12:46.667 --> 00:12:49.566 line:5% Oh! Hey, Zuri, how was school? 361 00:12:49.567 --> 00:12:50.114 line:5% Okay. Mmm-hmm. 362 00:12:50.114 --> 00:12:51.000 line:5% Okay. Mmm-hmm. 363 00:12:51.567 --> 00:12:53.500 line:5% - How was school, y'all? - It was boring. 364 00:12:53.567 --> 00:12:55.500 [DeeDee] Oh, gosh, look at your hair. 365 00:12:55.567 --> 00:12:57.165 Who did your hair? Your dad? 366 00:12:57.166 --> 00:12:58.466 Went and got his haircut today, so-- 367 00:12:58.467 --> 00:13:00.666 I see. It looks so good. 368 00:13:00.667 --> 00:13:03.466 - I have a bald head. - [woman] You have a bald head? 369 00:13:03.467 --> 00:13:05.165 [Will] It's not... Not completely. 370 00:13:05.166 --> 00:13:08.200 I met Will when I was clubbing. [laughs] 371 00:13:08.266 --> 00:13:11.000 I used to like partying all the time. 372 00:13:11.066 --> 00:13:13.600 I was young, fun, and I knew how to turn up. 373 00:13:15.066 --> 00:13:17.099 - And what's going on with you? - [Will] Typical teen. 374 00:13:17.100 --> 00:13:18.265 - [laughter] - Okay. 375 00:13:18.266 --> 00:13:19.666 [Will] She wanna TikTok all day. 376 00:13:19.667 --> 00:13:20.114 Ah. You all can go in, 377 00:13:20.114 --> 00:13:21.000 Ah. You all can go in, 378 00:13:21.467 --> 00:13:22.666 I'll talk to your dad for a second. 379 00:13:22.667 --> 00:13:24.165 [Will] All right. Where my hug at? 380 00:13:24.166 --> 00:13:25.999 - Don't act new. - [DeeDee chuckles] 381 00:13:26.000 --> 00:13:28.300 - All right. Love you. - [Zuri] Bye. 382 00:13:28.367 --> 00:13:30.566 When I saw DeeDee at the club back then, I was, like, 383 00:13:30.567 --> 00:13:33.165 "She's all right." And we exchanged numbers 384 00:13:33.166 --> 00:13:34.666 and kept it going from there. 385 00:13:34.667 --> 00:13:36.300 [DeeDee] Look at those muscles. 386 00:13:36.367 --> 00:13:37.367 [Will] All right, big man. 387 00:13:37.368 --> 00:13:38.666 He's strong like me, anyway. 388 00:13:38.667 --> 00:13:40.300 - Like you? - [laughter] 389 00:13:40.367 --> 00:13:42.300 - No. - I decided to marry Will 390 00:13:42.367 --> 00:13:44.999 because I thought that's what I was supposed to do. 391 00:13:45.000 --> 00:13:46.466 You know, I was in my mid-20s, 392 00:13:46.467 --> 00:13:47.999 who was about to start a family. 393 00:13:48.000 --> 00:13:50.113 I just felt comfortable and safe. 394 00:13:50.114 --> 00:13:50.500 I just felt comfortable and safe. 395 00:13:50.567 --> 00:13:51.000 And it felt right at the time. 396 00:13:52.567 --> 00:13:54.566 So, how was the kids this weekend at the house? 397 00:13:54.567 --> 00:13:56.800 [sighs] Zamir, his attitude 398 00:13:56.867 --> 00:13:58.600 all weekend has been up and down. 399 00:13:58.667 --> 00:14:01.400 What DeeDee and I had was very unique. 400 00:14:01.467 --> 00:14:03.766 It was a one of a kind relationship. 401 00:14:03.767 --> 00:14:06.300 Some of our friends were looking at us 402 00:14:06.367 --> 00:14:09.265 as relationship goals at the time, 403 00:14:09.266 --> 00:14:11.666 and it was just a wonderful situation 404 00:14:11.667 --> 00:14:13.032 between the two of us. 405 00:14:13.033 --> 00:14:15.766 When me and Will started dating, I made it really clear to him 406 00:14:15.767 --> 00:14:18.466 that I like women. He thought it was cool. 407 00:14:18.467 --> 00:14:20.113 He didn't see nothing wrong with that. 408 00:14:20.114 --> 00:14:20.200 He didn't see nothing wrong with that. 409 00:14:20.266 --> 00:14:21.000 He asked me like, "Are you still, 410 00:14:21.767 --> 00:14:23.600 you know, into women?" I'm like, "Yeah." 411 00:14:23.667 --> 00:14:25.366 I knew she was attracted to women, 412 00:14:25.367 --> 00:14:27.766 but I never knew that that was a void 413 00:14:27.767 --> 00:14:29.300 that she was missing. 414 00:14:29.367 --> 00:14:30.666 How's everything going? 415 00:14:30.667 --> 00:14:32.800 Uh, I'm making it, just still sore from surgery, 416 00:14:32.867 --> 00:14:34.265 but other than that, I'm good. 417 00:14:34.266 --> 00:14:35.766 When I told Will I wanted a divorce, 418 00:14:35.767 --> 00:14:37.566 he was furious. 419 00:14:37.567 --> 00:14:39.265 Like, he started crying. 420 00:14:39.266 --> 00:14:41.100 It was bad. 421 00:14:41.166 --> 00:14:43.400 You know, I was truly in love with that woman. 422 00:14:43.467 --> 00:14:45.566 And I felt like that was the woman 423 00:14:45.567 --> 00:14:48.700 that I was gonna be with until I took my last breath. 424 00:14:48.767 --> 00:14:50.113 You got somebody helping you? 425 00:14:50.114 --> 00:14:50.300 You got somebody helping you? 426 00:14:50.367 --> 00:14:51.000 No. I'm all by myself. 427 00:14:51.667 --> 00:14:53.165 Solo-dolo. 428 00:14:53.166 --> 00:14:55.100 It's not that I don't wanna date, 429 00:14:55.166 --> 00:14:57.100 it's just like, um, still have 430 00:14:57.166 --> 00:15:00.867 mixed reserved feelings to you, unfortunately. 431 00:15:02.166 --> 00:15:04.866 I never really wanted to leave him 432 00:15:04.867 --> 00:15:06.366 or break up my marriage. But the things 433 00:15:06.367 --> 00:15:07.766 that were missing in my relationship 434 00:15:07.767 --> 00:15:10.300 was all within me. The emptiness that I felt 435 00:15:10.367 --> 00:15:12.766 was me wanting to be with a female. 436 00:15:12.767 --> 00:15:15.065 He was fulfilling his role 437 00:15:15.066 --> 00:15:16.800 as the husband and the man in the house, 438 00:15:16.867 --> 00:15:18.700 but I just wasn't happy. 439 00:15:40.567 --> 00:15:43.065 Good morning, girls. 440 00:15:43.066 --> 00:15:44.700 It's time to wake up, baby. 441 00:15:44.767 --> 00:15:46.066 Hmm. 442 00:15:47.266 --> 00:15:49.165 line:5% We've blended our family about a year 443 00:15:49.166 --> 00:15:50.114 line:5% after we had gotten together. 444 00:15:50.114 --> 00:15:50.867 line:5% After we had gotten together. 445 00:15:50.867 --> 00:15:51.000 We decided to move in together, 446 00:15:52.467 --> 00:15:55.065 and put all of our kids in the same household, 447 00:15:55.066 --> 00:15:56.300 and start our life. 448 00:15:59.667 --> 00:16:01.000 You're so cute. 449 00:16:03.266 --> 00:16:06.099 [DeeDee] Our triplets don't have the same color skin, 450 00:16:06.100 --> 00:16:07.500 but they are definitely triplets. 451 00:16:07.567 --> 00:16:10.265 line:5% - [kids] We're triplets. - [woman laughs] 452 00:16:10.266 --> 00:16:11.800 [woman] How old are you, guys? 453 00:16:12.100 --> 00:16:13.766 Four. 454 00:16:13.767 --> 00:16:15.600 Three. 455 00:16:15.667 --> 00:16:16.900 Four. 456 00:16:17.567 --> 00:16:18.766 Cheese. 457 00:16:18.767 --> 00:16:20.113 line:5% My name is Brynnen. 458 00:16:20.114 --> 00:16:20.600 line:5% My name is Brynnen. 459 00:16:20.667 --> 00:16:21.000 line:5% [DeeDee] Brynnen is talkative, loud, and curious. 460 00:16:23.867 --> 00:16:25.466 line:5% My name is Zuri. 461 00:16:25.467 --> 00:16:28.266 line:5% [Whitney] Zuri is shy, sweet, and very smart. 462 00:16:29.467 --> 00:16:31.500 line:5% My name is Zamir. 463 00:16:31.567 --> 00:16:33.265 line:5% [DeeDee] Our Zamir, 464 00:16:33.266 --> 00:16:35.400 line:5% he is loud, skeptical, 465 00:16:35.467 --> 00:16:37.100 line:5% and has a mind of his own. 466 00:16:42.567 --> 00:16:45.300 It's time we go for school. We gotta catch the bus, okay? 467 00:16:47.200 --> 00:16:49.466 line:5% Beckham is seven. And he's the epitome 468 00:16:49.467 --> 00:16:50.114 line:5% of a middle child. 469 00:16:50.114 --> 00:16:50.567 line:5% Of a middle child. 470 00:16:50.567 --> 00:16:51.000 Get him on, bang! 471 00:16:52.567 --> 00:16:55.766 He is a video gamer and he is quite the jokester. 472 00:16:55.767 --> 00:16:58.000 It's chocolate just like your wife. 473 00:16:58.066 --> 00:16:59.500 - Did you hear him? - [laughter] 474 00:16:59.567 --> 00:17:01.466 Oh, my gosh, Beckham. You're right, though. 475 00:17:01.467 --> 00:17:04.165 The best part of having a family 476 00:17:04.166 --> 00:17:06.766 is having a lot of siblings. 477 00:17:06.767 --> 00:17:08.766 [evil laugh] 478 00:17:08.767 --> 00:17:11.165 [Whitney] It's time to get up, baby girl. 479 00:17:11.166 --> 00:17:13.165 We gotta get up. The bus will be here soon, okay? 480 00:17:13.166 --> 00:17:15.099 - Okay. - Mmm-hmm. 481 00:17:15.100 --> 00:17:17.766 line:5% [DeeDee] Brooklyn and Kailynn are our twins. 482 00:17:17.767 --> 00:17:19.800 line:5% Ooh, bless their souls. 483 00:17:19.867 --> 00:17:20.114 [screams] 484 00:17:20.114 --> 00:17:21.000 [screams] 485 00:17:21.767 --> 00:17:23.099 We might not have the same color skin, 486 00:17:23.100 --> 00:17:24.466 but we're still twins. 487 00:17:24.467 --> 00:17:26.400 - Twins. - Twins. 488 00:17:26.467 --> 00:17:27.666 - Twins. - Twins. 489 00:17:27.667 --> 00:17:29.466 [Whitney] They fight like twins. 490 00:17:29.467 --> 00:17:31.099 And they love like twins. 491 00:17:31.100 --> 00:17:33.966 Brooklyn stole all of my stuff. 492 00:17:33.967 --> 00:17:35.566 You did steal my... The makeup? 493 00:17:35.567 --> 00:17:37.165 Oh, my gosh. I love having a sister. 494 00:17:37.166 --> 00:17:38.265 It's just so fun. 495 00:17:38.266 --> 00:17:40.466 line:5% [Whitney] Kailynn is a little introverted, 496 00:17:40.467 --> 00:17:42.666 line:5% somewhat shy. She's a straight-A student, 497 00:17:42.667 --> 00:17:44.800 and very mature for her age. 498 00:17:44.867 --> 00:17:48.866 line:5% [DeeDee] Brooklyn is outgoing, creative, and messy. 499 00:17:48.867 --> 00:17:50.113 line:5% I've got this. 500 00:17:50.114 --> 00:17:50.300 line:5% I've got this. 501 00:17:50.367 --> 00:17:51.000 You've got this, girl. 502 00:17:51.567 --> 00:17:53.800 She's a tough, sassy cookie. 503 00:17:53.867 --> 00:17:56.366 - [DeeDee] Hold it. - [laughs] 504 00:17:56.367 --> 00:17:59.666 line:5% - [DeeDee] Morning. - [all] Morning. 505 00:17:59.667 --> 00:18:01.666 line:5% - I don't know. - She'd better be awake 506 00:18:01.667 --> 00:18:04.366 line:5% and dressed. We gotta go. 507 00:18:04.367 --> 00:18:06.800 line:5% [Whitney] Damiya is the most lovable kid we have. 508 00:18:06.867 --> 00:18:09.900 line:5% She's 16 years old, and out of all of our kids, 509 00:18:09.967 --> 00:18:11.500 she would be the one to come cuddle with us. 510 00:18:11.567 --> 00:18:13.065 We wouldn't didn't tuck you in. 511 00:18:13.066 --> 00:18:14.500 Guys, we're playing the game. 512 00:18:14.567 --> 00:18:16.366 We call it the quiet game. 513 00:18:16.367 --> 00:18:17.666 Mama DeeDee and Mama Whitney 514 00:18:17.667 --> 00:18:19.800 make me watch all the kids, all the time. 515 00:18:19.867 --> 00:18:20.114 Three, two, one, go. 516 00:18:20.114 --> 00:18:21.000 Three, two, one, go. 517 00:18:23.367 --> 00:18:24.900 I can't. I can't do this no more. 518 00:18:24.967 --> 00:18:26.900 [laughs] Zuri. 519 00:18:26.967 --> 00:18:28.866 These kids are the best birth control 520 00:18:28.867 --> 00:18:30.500 - that I wanted. - Mama. 521 00:18:30.567 --> 00:18:32.000 - Why do you call me Mama? - Mama. 522 00:18:32.066 --> 00:18:33.367 [screams] 523 00:18:40.000 --> 00:18:42.566 Blending the families at first was difficult. 524 00:18:42.567 --> 00:18:44.200 It was challenging. 525 00:18:44.266 --> 00:18:46.866 Our kids were not ready 526 00:18:46.867 --> 00:18:50.000 for two moms and a bunch more kids in the house. 527 00:18:50.066 --> 00:18:50.112 The first time we met each other, 528 00:18:50.113 --> 00:18:51.000 The first time we met each other, 529 00:18:51.266 --> 00:18:52.566 you were hiding behind the couch. 530 00:18:52.567 --> 00:18:54.766 - Yeah. - You're like... 531 00:18:54.767 --> 00:18:57.100 Stop calling my name. 532 00:18:57.166 --> 00:18:58.566 It's too much. 533 00:18:58.567 --> 00:18:59.800 - I was scared... - We're together. 534 00:18:59.867 --> 00:19:01.466 Of her before, but now, 535 00:19:01.467 --> 00:19:03.566 she's scared of me sometimes. 536 00:19:03.567 --> 00:19:05.300 I'm scared of you? 537 00:19:09.500 --> 00:19:11.866 All right, guys, let's go. Come downstairs. 538 00:19:11.867 --> 00:19:14.900 [indistinct chatter] 539 00:19:14.967 --> 00:19:17.100 We'll be home around 5:00 baby. Okay? 540 00:19:22.767 --> 00:19:24.900 You start this one. 541 00:19:24.967 --> 00:19:26.566 Everybody have your snack and drink? 542 00:19:26.567 --> 00:19:27.900 - [all] Yes. - [Whitney] All right. 543 00:19:27.967 --> 00:19:29.766 - Everybody's happy. - Whoo-whoo! 544 00:19:29.767 --> 00:19:31.500 Let's have a good day at school, okay? 545 00:19:32.500 --> 00:19:33.999 [DeeDee] We have a lot of talks with them. 546 00:19:34.000 --> 00:19:35.766 Like, "How do you feel about us being gay?" 547 00:19:35.767 --> 00:19:37.065 Come on, we gotta catch the bus. 548 00:19:37.066 --> 00:19:38.466 - Thank you, baby. - I mean, having 549 00:19:38.467 --> 00:19:40.065 a blended family, that's what you have to do. 550 00:19:40.066 --> 00:19:41.666 - It's hard. - A lot of conversations, 551 00:19:41.667 --> 00:19:43.566 a lot of family talks, and getting everybody 552 00:19:43.567 --> 00:19:44.966 on the same page. 553 00:19:44.967 --> 00:19:46.265 When Whitney and DeeDee got together, 554 00:19:46.266 --> 00:19:48.100 I remember being sad and angry 555 00:19:48.166 --> 00:19:50.113 because in my eyes, Whitney broke up my family. 556 00:19:50.114 --> 00:19:50.767 Because in my eyes, Whitney broke up my family. 557 00:19:50.767 --> 00:19:51.000 But after that time, I grew to like Whitney. 558 00:19:54.166 --> 00:19:56.166 I feel like she made it better. 559 00:19:57.166 --> 00:19:58.800 [DeeDee] At first, the kids did not tell 560 00:19:58.867 --> 00:20:00.366 their friends that they had two moms. 561 00:20:00.367 --> 00:20:01.566 They were really embarrassed. 562 00:20:01.567 --> 00:20:03.065 But now, they're more open. 563 00:20:03.066 --> 00:20:04.900 - We're leaving the house. - Bye, guys. 564 00:20:04.967 --> 00:20:06.900 - Bye-bye. - Bye. 565 00:20:06.967 --> 00:20:08.900 The other day, this kid on the bus was like, 566 00:20:08.967 --> 00:20:11.099 "But she is Black. How is she your sister?" 567 00:20:11.100 --> 00:20:12.766 And I was like "She's just my sister. 568 00:20:12.767 --> 00:20:14.166 - Don't worry about it." - Yup. 569 00:20:20.100 --> 00:20:20.112 I don't really wanna tell them 570 00:20:20.113 --> 00:20:21.000 I don't really wanna tell them 571 00:20:22.066 --> 00:20:23.767 because that would be embarrassing. 572 00:20:26.467 --> 00:20:30.566 Because nobody else has two moms. 573 00:20:30.567 --> 00:20:34.600 It's like they'll think they are gay, and stuff. 574 00:20:38.667 --> 00:20:40.466 At the end of the day, we're still a family, 575 00:20:40.467 --> 00:20:42.566 and we're happy, and our kids are happy, 576 00:20:42.567 --> 00:20:43.999 and that's all that matters. 577 00:20:44.000 --> 00:20:46.700 - You have a great day. - [smooches] You too. 578 00:20:46.767 --> 00:20:47.900 - Are you late? - Yeah. 579 00:20:47.967 --> 00:20:49.099 - I'm always late. - [laughter] 580 00:20:49.100 --> 00:20:50.113 - [Whitney] Y'all have fun. - Bye. 581 00:20:50.114 --> 00:20:51.000 - [Whitney] Y'all have fun. - Bye. 582 00:20:51.266 --> 00:20:53.467 - Have a good day at work. - [Whitney] You too, babe. 583 00:21:02.166 --> 00:21:04.700 - Do I help? - You just relax. 584 00:21:04.767 --> 00:21:06.165 We want you to just watch the kids. 585 00:21:06.166 --> 00:21:07.567 [indistinct] 586 00:21:10.000 --> 00:21:11.566 [DeeDee] Everybody's okay? 587 00:21:11.567 --> 00:21:13.866 [girl] Yeah, we're gonna stick our foot in it. 588 00:21:13.867 --> 00:21:14.999 - Oh. - [girl] I'm cold. 589 00:21:15.000 --> 00:21:16.700 That's amazing. 590 00:21:16.767 --> 00:21:18.866 Please be careful around the water, guys. 591 00:21:18.867 --> 00:21:20.113 [girl] Okay. 592 00:21:20.114 --> 00:21:20.164 [girl] Okay. 593 00:21:20.165 --> 00:21:21.000 Babe, I'm so nervous. 594 00:21:22.000 --> 00:21:24.000 I think we're gonna be fine, though. 595 00:21:24.066 --> 00:21:26.666 You really had to invite Will, too, though? 596 00:21:26.667 --> 00:21:28.466 - [DeeDee] Zamir invited him. - Okay. 597 00:21:28.467 --> 00:21:30.000 Don't you want your daddy here? 598 00:21:30.066 --> 00:21:31.165 Yeah, we need a little help. 599 00:21:31.166 --> 00:21:32.265 [Whitney] You want daddy at the barbecue? 600 00:21:32.266 --> 00:21:33.466 He could just hang out with him. 601 00:21:33.467 --> 00:21:35.866 [Whitney] Well, hopefully, it'll go well. 602 00:21:35.867 --> 00:21:38.366 Today is about coming together as a family. 603 00:21:38.367 --> 00:21:40.165 So we decided to invite Will 604 00:21:40.166 --> 00:21:42.666 and invite DeeDee's sisters. 605 00:21:42.667 --> 00:21:44.666 My anxiety is a little high. 606 00:21:44.667 --> 00:21:46.800 I had to invite them. 607 00:21:46.867 --> 00:21:49.666 Me, LaQuana, and Davena always had a really close bond. 608 00:21:49.667 --> 00:21:50.114 It wasn't up until I met Whitney 609 00:21:50.114 --> 00:21:51.000 It wasn't up until I met Whitney 610 00:21:51.266 --> 00:21:52.866 when we started having conflicts. 611 00:21:52.867 --> 00:21:55.566 Her sisters, they'll say exactly what they feel 612 00:21:55.567 --> 00:21:56.700 no matter how it makes you feel. 613 00:21:56.767 --> 00:21:58.700 [DeeDee] Oh, they're here. 614 00:21:58.767 --> 00:22:00.165 They are brutal. 615 00:22:00.166 --> 00:22:01.467 But they are sweet. 616 00:22:02.767 --> 00:22:03.867 Ish. 617 00:22:05.767 --> 00:22:07.100 line:5% [all] Coming up... 618 00:22:07.166 --> 00:22:08.967 line:5% [Whitney] Oh, these are gonna burn. 619 00:22:11.100 --> 00:22:12.967 It was very awkward to say the least. 620 00:22:13.467 --> 00:22:15.866 Everything's okay. 621 00:22:15.867 --> 00:22:17.566 Okay, guys, are your eyes closed? 622 00:22:17.567 --> 00:22:18.600 [all] Yes. 623 00:22:18.667 --> 00:22:20.113 [Whitney] Three, two, one. 624 00:22:20.114 --> 00:22:20.700 [Whitney] Three, two, one. 625 00:22:20.767 --> 00:22:21.000 [all gasp] 626 00:22:22.467 --> 00:22:24.165 - [woman] That's not the one. - No, it's not the one. 627 00:22:24.166 --> 00:22:25.767 [sighs] 628 00:22:35.066 --> 00:22:36.266 Hey, guys. 629 00:22:36.967 --> 00:22:38.367 line:5% Hey. 630 00:22:40.667 --> 00:22:42.065 [DeeDee] I'm glad y'all came. 631 00:22:42.066 --> 00:22:44.265 Yes. What we got going on? 632 00:22:44.266 --> 00:22:45.900 Because y'all know I like to eat. 633 00:22:45.967 --> 00:22:47.666 [laughter] 634 00:22:47.667 --> 00:22:50.165 line:5% Things with my sisters right now are really awkward. 635 00:22:50.166 --> 00:22:51.566 line:5% My sisters are very judgy. 636 00:22:51.567 --> 00:22:52.966 They have a big heart, though. 637 00:22:52.967 --> 00:22:54.100 - We're fishing? - He's fishing. 638 00:22:54.166 --> 00:22:55.100 We both got to fish? 639 00:22:55.101 --> 00:22:56.700 [DeeDee] No, Beckham knows how to fish. 640 00:22:56.767 --> 00:22:57.866 He could teach you how to fish. 641 00:22:57.867 --> 00:22:59.221 - He knows how to fish? - No. 642 00:22:59.222 --> 00:22:59.467 - He knows how to fish? - No. 643 00:22:59.467 --> 00:23:00.000 Oh, I thought you said he knows. 644 00:23:00.400 --> 00:23:01.866 I said he can teach you how to fish. 645 00:23:01.867 --> 00:23:02.767 How? He doesn't even know. 646 00:23:02.768 --> 00:23:03.900 You asked me teach you how to fish. 647 00:23:03.967 --> 00:23:05.200 I don't know how to fish. 648 00:23:05.266 --> 00:23:06.999 So he could teach you how to fish. 649 00:23:07.000 --> 00:23:09.100 [LaQuana] Our sisterhood right now is a little rocky. 650 00:23:09.166 --> 00:23:12.065 line:5% It used to be three peas in a pod. 651 00:23:12.066 --> 00:23:14.200 We had a really, really good sisterhood. 652 00:23:14.266 --> 00:23:16.999 We all did everything basically together. 653 00:23:17.000 --> 00:23:18.366 - Can I take my shoes off? - Give me two minutes. 654 00:23:18.367 --> 00:23:20.265 Sure. You should ask your auntie. 655 00:23:20.266 --> 00:23:21.766 We should take our shoes off? 656 00:23:21.767 --> 00:23:23.100 No, absolutely not. 657 00:23:23.166 --> 00:23:24.766 [Davena] I don't even like sand. 658 00:23:24.767 --> 00:23:26.766 We a little boujee over here. 659 00:23:26.767 --> 00:23:28.366 I cannot. 660 00:23:28.367 --> 00:23:29.222 [girl] Thank you. 661 00:23:29.222 --> 00:23:29.266 [girl] Thank you. 662 00:23:29.300 --> 00:23:30.000 line:5% I want so badly for Davena and LaQuana 663 00:23:32.266 --> 00:23:34.766 line:5% to just accept me into their sisterhood. 664 00:23:34.767 --> 00:23:37.366 I honestly don't know why they don't accept me, 665 00:23:37.367 --> 00:23:41.065 but I do know that they are very big on blood. 666 00:23:41.066 --> 00:23:42.999 And I am just kind of another female 667 00:23:43.000 --> 00:23:44.866 that is stepping into that territory 668 00:23:44.867 --> 00:23:46.366 and it's a hard place to be in. 669 00:23:46.367 --> 00:23:49.065 I'm hungry, I'm about to start cooking. 670 00:23:49.066 --> 00:23:50.200 - I wanna grill, babe. - [DeeDee] You wanna grill? 671 00:23:50.300 --> 00:23:51.266 [Whitney] Um, I can I do it? Yeah. 672 00:23:51.267 --> 00:23:52.466 [DeeDee] I ain't gonna say no to that. 673 00:23:52.467 --> 00:23:54.667 - [Whitney] Okay. - What? 674 00:23:56.000 --> 00:23:56.967 [chuckles] 675 00:23:56.967 --> 00:23:57.967 I got this. 676 00:23:57.968 --> 00:23:59.221 We gotta give her a chance. 677 00:23:59.222 --> 00:23:59.700 We gotta give her a chance. 678 00:23:59.767 --> 00:24:00.000 line:5% [Davena] No. 679 00:24:03.500 --> 00:24:05.966 We use a language to talk about people 680 00:24:05.967 --> 00:24:08.000 when it's something we don't like, 681 00:24:08.066 --> 00:24:09.200 we just go ahead and say it 682 00:24:09.266 --> 00:24:11.000 and nobody knows what we're saying. 683 00:24:12.467 --> 00:24:14.066 That's cool. 684 00:24:17.166 --> 00:24:20.000 It's frustrating because I want to be involved, 685 00:24:20.066 --> 00:24:21.700 so I wanna do it, too. 686 00:24:23.266 --> 00:24:24.366 [Davena] Oops. 687 00:24:24.367 --> 00:24:25.800 [laughing] 688 00:24:25.867 --> 00:24:27.966 My sisters are being a little mean and rude, 689 00:24:27.967 --> 00:24:29.221 and it makes me really upset. 690 00:24:29.222 --> 00:24:30.000 And it makes me really upset. 691 00:24:30.467 --> 00:24:31.966 [Whitney] I'm gonna go cook. Wish me luck. 692 00:24:31.967 --> 00:24:33.800 - [DeeDee] All right. - [Davena] All right, girl. 693 00:24:33.867 --> 00:24:34.966 [LaQuana] Wish her luck. Good luck. 694 00:24:34.967 --> 00:24:37.300 - [Whitney] I got this. - Be nice. She's good. 695 00:24:37.367 --> 00:24:39.266 Like, she really can grill. 696 00:24:42.266 --> 00:24:43.566 [Whitney] One, two, three, four, five, 697 00:24:43.567 --> 00:24:45.566 six, seven, eight, nine, 10, 11. 698 00:24:45.567 --> 00:24:46.866 We need more. 699 00:24:46.867 --> 00:24:49.566 Babe, you look good on the grill. 700 00:24:49.567 --> 00:24:50.866 [Davena] Looking on the grille does not mean 701 00:24:50.867 --> 00:24:53.566 - she can cook though. - Oh, God. 702 00:24:53.567 --> 00:24:55.100 Whitney cannot grill. 703 00:24:55.166 --> 00:24:56.967 - At all. - Period. 704 00:24:57.900 --> 00:24:59.221 [Whitney] Oh, shoot. 705 00:24:59.222 --> 00:24:59.264 [Whitney] Oh, shoot. 706 00:24:59.265 --> 00:25:00.000 [Davena] She needs some assistance back there. 707 00:25:01.867 --> 00:25:03.866 All right. I got this. I got this. 708 00:25:03.867 --> 00:25:05.100 Oh. 709 00:25:05.166 --> 00:25:07.566 I felt so much pressure like I have to cook well 710 00:25:07.567 --> 00:25:09.265 because I have to impress them and I have to 711 00:25:09.266 --> 00:25:11.900 say the right things or they're not gonna like me. 712 00:25:11.967 --> 00:25:14.000 Oh, these are gonna burn. 713 00:25:16.567 --> 00:25:19.265 It was like awkward to say the least. 714 00:25:19.266 --> 00:25:23.065 - Everything's okay. - [laughter] 715 00:25:23.066 --> 00:25:24.600 [DeeDee] She's not okay, guys. 716 00:25:26.100 --> 00:25:27.400 Everything's fine. 717 00:25:27.467 --> 00:25:28.967 [Kailynn] Dad! 718 00:25:31.200 --> 00:25:34.065 line:5% Oh, you're trying to knock me over? 719 00:25:34.066 --> 00:25:36.900 line:5% I'm excited my dad's at the barbecue today, 720 00:25:36.967 --> 00:25:38.566 but he's gonna eat all the hot dogs. 721 00:25:38.567 --> 00:25:40.100 [Brooklyn] He might not be my dad, 722 00:25:40.166 --> 00:25:41.299 line:5% but he's still my friend. 723 00:25:41.300 --> 00:25:43.165 line:5% Like, he always sees me, he's like, "Hey, Brooklyn." 724 00:25:43.166 --> 00:25:44.266 line:5% And I'm like, "'Sup." 725 00:25:47.767 --> 00:25:49.366 - [Davena] Who that? - [LaQuana] Brother. 726 00:25:49.367 --> 00:25:50.766 [DeeDee] Will in the house. 727 00:25:50.767 --> 00:25:52.366 Sexy chocolate. 728 00:25:52.367 --> 00:25:54.466 It's okay. Just put this here. 729 00:25:54.467 --> 00:25:55.666 All right. I need you to start grilling. 730 00:25:55.667 --> 00:25:56.567 [DeeDee] I got you. 731 00:25:57.300 --> 00:25:59.221 I love Will and I was pissed 732 00:25:59.222 --> 00:25:59.667 I love Will and I was pissed 733 00:25:59.667 --> 00:26:00.000 when DeeDee left Will, like, pissed. 734 00:26:02.266 --> 00:26:04.265 At the top of pissosity. 735 00:26:04.266 --> 00:26:05.366 I think she had a thing for W's? 736 00:26:05.367 --> 00:26:06.500 [gasps] 737 00:26:06.567 --> 00:26:07.600 Weird and weirdoes. 738 00:26:07.667 --> 00:26:08.600 [laughter] 739 00:26:08.667 --> 00:26:10.265 Weird and weirdest. 740 00:26:10.266 --> 00:26:12.265 Okay. I'm done. 741 00:26:12.266 --> 00:26:14.265 [Whitney sighs] 742 00:26:14.266 --> 00:26:16.165 Something smells like it's burning. 743 00:26:16.166 --> 00:26:17.532 [Davena] Because DeeDee not cooking. 744 00:26:17.533 --> 00:26:19.265 - [Will] Oh, snap. - But Whitney's trying to impress us, though. 745 00:26:19.266 --> 00:26:20.500 I think she's trying to impress us, 746 00:26:20.567 --> 00:26:22.600 but you definitely the cook-cook for real. 747 00:26:22.667 --> 00:26:24.300 - Check with our Will. - [LaQuana] Yes. 748 00:26:24.367 --> 00:26:25.367 [laughs] 749 00:26:27.266 --> 00:26:28.166 What up, Will? 750 00:26:28.167 --> 00:26:29.221 Hey, what's happening? 751 00:26:29.222 --> 00:26:29.467 Hey, what's happening? 752 00:26:29.467 --> 00:26:30.000 [DeeDee] Will and Whitney, it just depends on the day. 753 00:26:31.667 --> 00:26:35.400 He does like her 75 percent of the time, 754 00:26:35.467 --> 00:26:38.265 the 25 percent, he's angry, he's bitter, 755 00:26:38.266 --> 00:26:40.467 and he feels like she stole us away. 756 00:26:45.300 --> 00:26:47.000 Oh, my gosh. 757 00:26:51.200 --> 00:26:53.266 Okay. Just stay. 758 00:26:57.066 --> 00:26:59.165 [DeeDee] Hey, guys, the food is ready. 759 00:26:59.166 --> 00:26:59.220 - [laughter] - [Davena] Food is ready. 760 00:26:59.221 --> 00:27:00.000 - [laughter] - [Davena] Food is ready. 761 00:27:00.467 --> 00:27:01.600 [Whitney] Let's go. 762 00:27:02.000 --> 00:27:03.366 I'm coming. 763 00:27:03.367 --> 00:27:05.400 [DeeDee] All right, y'all. 764 00:27:05.467 --> 00:27:07.065 Let's eat. 765 00:27:07.066 --> 00:27:09.000 Yum. 766 00:27:09.066 --> 00:27:11.000 Eat, eat, eat, eat. 767 00:27:11.066 --> 00:27:12.366 We need some buns, too. 768 00:27:12.367 --> 00:27:14.366 I'm not like a maid or anything, 769 00:27:14.367 --> 00:27:15.900 so, like, we can come and get it. 770 00:27:15.967 --> 00:27:19.300 I gave you kids, give me a bun, please. 771 00:27:19.367 --> 00:27:21.300 [laughter] 772 00:27:21.367 --> 00:27:23.000 - [Davena] He gave you a... - That's not even funny. 773 00:27:23.066 --> 00:27:24.666 [laughs] 774 00:27:24.667 --> 00:27:26.165 He can say whatever he want 775 00:27:26.166 --> 00:27:28.165 because he did give DeeDee these kids. 776 00:27:28.166 --> 00:27:29.221 And did. 777 00:27:29.222 --> 00:27:29.300 And did. 778 00:27:29.367 --> 00:27:30.000 That's facts. 779 00:27:31.667 --> 00:27:34.165 - How do you feel? - If I had to say that though. 780 00:27:34.166 --> 00:27:35.766 - That was very annoying. - Its Will. 781 00:27:35.767 --> 00:27:36.900 - That's him. - You're right. 782 00:27:36.967 --> 00:27:38.066 I do miss my family. 783 00:27:38.900 --> 00:27:40.366 Same one with my kids, 784 00:27:40.367 --> 00:27:41.900 to tell you the truth I don't like it, 785 00:27:41.967 --> 00:27:45.066 because it's what I used to have. 786 00:27:51.300 --> 00:27:53.566 - [sighs] - Breathe. 787 00:27:53.567 --> 00:27:55.065 We did make it. 788 00:27:55.066 --> 00:27:58.100 line:5% Thanks for doing with, uh, with me. 789 00:27:58.166 --> 00:27:59.221 - Where? - Get it out. Get it out. 790 00:27:59.222 --> 00:28:00.000 - Where? - Get it out. Get it out. 791 00:28:01.467 --> 00:28:02.666 [laughs] 792 00:28:02.667 --> 00:28:04.400 Sorry, guys. 793 00:28:10.567 --> 00:28:14.100 One, two, three, four, five, six. 794 00:28:14.166 --> 00:28:16.265 Five, seven, eight, nine, let's go. 795 00:28:16.266 --> 00:28:18.366 Let's go! 796 00:28:18.367 --> 00:28:19.566 line:5% Where are we going? 797 00:28:19.567 --> 00:28:20.567 line:5% We're gonna look at some wedding dresses. 798 00:28:20.568 --> 00:28:22.366 We're gonna go wedding dress shopping. 799 00:28:22.367 --> 00:28:23.766 - Oh. - We are? 800 00:28:23.767 --> 00:28:24.866 [DeeDee] Yeah. 801 00:28:24.867 --> 00:28:26.566 [Whitney] I was ready to propose to DeeDee 802 00:28:26.567 --> 00:28:29.221 the day that I asked her to be my girlfriend, 803 00:28:29.222 --> 00:28:29.567 the day that I asked her to be my girlfriend, 804 00:28:29.567 --> 00:28:30.000 but she would've said no, 805 00:28:30.667 --> 00:28:31.800 - so... - She's serious. 806 00:28:31.867 --> 00:28:32.966 I decided to wait. 807 00:28:32.967 --> 00:28:35.566 Um, but when I got to a point where I was really, 808 00:28:35.567 --> 00:28:38.165 like, I want this girl and I wanna show her 809 00:28:38.166 --> 00:28:40.300 that I am devoted to her, 810 00:28:40.367 --> 00:28:43.099 I decided to put a ring on her finger. 811 00:28:43.100 --> 00:28:45.065 Yes, babe, of course. 812 00:28:45.066 --> 00:28:47.100 Just to kind of symbolize, like, 813 00:28:47.166 --> 00:28:49.566 you are mine and I am... My eyes are nowhere else, 814 00:28:49.567 --> 00:28:51.165 like you are exactly what I want 815 00:28:51.166 --> 00:28:53.400 and I'm dedicating my heart to you. 816 00:28:54.667 --> 00:28:56.066 line:5% [Whitney] Yes. 817 00:28:58.066 --> 00:28:59.221 - A pink one? - A pink dress? 818 00:28:59.222 --> 00:28:59.467 - A pink one? - A pink dress? 819 00:28:59.467 --> 00:29:00.000 - [Whitney] Oh. - Hmm. 820 00:29:02.367 --> 00:29:03.667 line:5% [Whitney] That's an idea. 821 00:29:05.400 --> 00:29:07.466 line:5% [Dee and Whitney] Aw. 822 00:29:07.467 --> 00:29:12.600 I really want a wedding like emerald green, um, dress. 823 00:29:12.667 --> 00:29:14.300 And then mommy, what do you guys think about like 824 00:29:14.367 --> 00:29:15.700 a black dress on mommy? 825 00:29:15.767 --> 00:29:17.366 - I think-- - Yes. 826 00:29:17.367 --> 00:29:19.265 line:5% You think I'm gonna be pretty? 827 00:29:19.266 --> 00:29:22.265 line:5% - A demon? - Oh, my goodness. 828 00:29:22.266 --> 00:29:24.466 [Whitney] We have a lot of stuff to do. 829 00:29:24.467 --> 00:29:26.566 So much planning and I'm a planner, 830 00:29:26.567 --> 00:29:29.221 so I wanna know everything and it's like every detail. 831 00:29:29.222 --> 00:29:29.700 So I wanna know everything and it's like every detail. 832 00:29:29.767 --> 00:29:30.000 Babe, I'm, like, nervous to see your sisters. 833 00:29:34.667 --> 00:29:36.367 You're gonna be all right. 834 00:29:38.400 --> 00:29:39.866 Ever since I got with Whitney, 835 00:29:39.867 --> 00:29:42.466 things have been really tough with me and my sisters. 836 00:29:42.467 --> 00:29:45.165 I invited my sisters today because I honestly 837 00:29:45.166 --> 00:29:46.766 don't see myself doing this without them. 838 00:29:46.767 --> 00:29:49.466 But this is my girl, so they're gonna have 839 00:29:49.467 --> 00:29:51.666 to just learn how to just accept 840 00:29:51.667 --> 00:29:53.567 who I'm with and how she is. 841 00:29:57.467 --> 00:29:58.666 line:5% [all] Coming up... 842 00:29:58.667 --> 00:29:59.222 Never had a family bond, I've never had a sister. 843 00:29:59.222 --> 00:30:00.000 Never had a family bond, I've never had a sister. 844 00:30:02.467 --> 00:30:04.666 [DeeDee] Now, I feel like, um, I have to choose. 845 00:30:04.667 --> 00:30:06.600 But I don't wanna feel like I have to choose. 846 00:30:06.667 --> 00:30:08.066 We're gonna need an intervention. 847 00:30:15.300 --> 00:30:16.466 line:5% [woman laughing] 848 00:30:16.467 --> 00:30:18.600 Oh, my God. Look, guys. 849 00:30:19.667 --> 00:30:21.366 - Are you excited? - [boy] Whoa. 850 00:30:21.367 --> 00:30:22.666 - [girl] Yes. - [Whitney] Hi. 851 00:30:22.667 --> 00:30:24.966 [boy] Dresses, dresses. 852 00:30:24.967 --> 00:30:27.666 [Brooklyn] Dresses. Whoa, look at those. 853 00:30:27.667 --> 00:30:29.500 I found mommy's wedding dress. 854 00:30:29.567 --> 00:30:30.500 Oh, my goodness. 855 00:30:30.567 --> 00:30:32.265 line:5% I've never been to a colorful wedding. 856 00:30:32.266 --> 00:30:33.800 line:5% All the weddings I've ever been to 857 00:30:33.867 --> 00:30:34.900 line:5% - were just white. - White. 858 00:30:34.967 --> 00:30:37.366 Mommy, look, there's these two. 859 00:30:37.367 --> 00:30:38.666 - They're ready. - They're the bosses. 860 00:30:38.667 --> 00:30:40.466 They are ready. 861 00:30:40.467 --> 00:30:42.666 line:5% [DeeDee] You got a surprise for me? 862 00:30:42.667 --> 00:30:44.561 line:5% Oh, thank you. 863 00:30:44.562 --> 00:30:44.667 line:5% Oh, thank you. 864 00:30:44.667 --> 00:30:45.000 line:5% Lesbian weddings are hard. 865 00:30:47.100 --> 00:30:50.000 line:5% It's like, who walks the other person down the aisle? 866 00:30:50.066 --> 00:30:51.800 I don't know how it all works. 867 00:30:51.867 --> 00:30:54.099 What kind of dress is she gonna wear versus what I'm gonna wear? 868 00:30:54.100 --> 00:30:55.800 Are we gonna clash? 869 00:30:55.867 --> 00:30:57.366 You like that one? The sparkles? 870 00:30:57.367 --> 00:30:58.866 - Um, mommy-- - [Kailynn] You guys are gonna 871 00:30:58.867 --> 00:30:59.900 - try these on? - [Whitney] Oh, that's pretty. 872 00:30:59.967 --> 00:31:01.666 And how about this one? 873 00:31:01.667 --> 00:31:03.800 - Oh, yeah. - [Kailynn] Oh, yeah. 874 00:31:03.867 --> 00:31:05.666 She wants a horse-drawn carriage, 875 00:31:05.667 --> 00:31:09.065 a harp player, and she wants a peacock. 876 00:31:09.066 --> 00:31:11.566 Like, she just goes crazy, it makes no sense. 877 00:31:11.567 --> 00:31:13.400 And we're both very femme, 878 00:31:13.467 --> 00:31:14.561 like we are definitely the stereotype 879 00:31:14.562 --> 00:31:15.000 like we are definitely the stereotype 880 00:31:15.667 --> 00:31:17.065 of a femme lesbian. 881 00:31:17.066 --> 00:31:19.766 So I'm like we both want to have pretty diamond rings, 882 00:31:19.767 --> 00:31:21.900 we both want that experience. 883 00:31:21.967 --> 00:31:23.900 So those colors together... 884 00:31:23.967 --> 00:31:25.400 [DeeDee] But she can't see my dress though, 885 00:31:25.467 --> 00:31:27.266 - I'm not gonna say yes. - [girl] Mommy. Mommy. 886 00:31:30.767 --> 00:31:32.967 I think that fits me pretty well, actually. 887 00:31:34.867 --> 00:31:36.300 - [woman] Hello. - [LaQuana] Hey, girl, hey. 888 00:31:36.367 --> 00:31:37.566 - Hi. - [LaQuana] Hey, Brooklyn. 889 00:31:37.567 --> 00:31:38.666 Hey, KK. 890 00:31:38.667 --> 00:31:39.866 [DeeDee] I'm glad y'all made it. 891 00:31:39.867 --> 00:31:42.500 Bring it in. Bring it in, girl. 892 00:31:44.500 --> 00:31:44.560 [LaQuana] Brooklyn. 893 00:31:44.561 --> 00:31:45.000 [LaQuana] Brooklyn. 894 00:31:48.867 --> 00:31:50.566 Hey, little man. Don't do me like this. 895 00:31:50.567 --> 00:31:51.999 Give me my hug. 896 00:31:52.000 --> 00:31:53.100 [LaQuana] Brennan. 897 00:31:54.367 --> 00:31:55.766 Why aren't they saying hi to me? 898 00:31:55.767 --> 00:31:57.600 What is that? A cactus? Are you a cactus? 899 00:31:57.667 --> 00:31:58.800 [laughter] 900 00:31:58.867 --> 00:32:00.866 [Whitney] It feels so awkward. 901 00:32:00.867 --> 00:32:02.466 But LaQuana and Davena 902 00:32:02.467 --> 00:32:04.400 are very important to DeeDee, 903 00:32:04.467 --> 00:32:06.566 so I have to make this work. 904 00:32:06.567 --> 00:32:08.466 - [girl] Come on. - [Whitney] Hey, guys. 905 00:32:08.467 --> 00:32:10.400 If you hear me, clap once. 906 00:32:10.467 --> 00:32:12.666 Brennan, you just sit over here. 907 00:32:12.667 --> 00:32:14.400 Me and mommy are gonna go and get fitted 908 00:32:14.467 --> 00:32:14.560 to see what sizes we are. 909 00:32:14.561 --> 00:32:15.000 To see what sizes we are. 910 00:32:15.867 --> 00:32:17.767 Beckham, on the floor, really? 911 00:32:18.567 --> 00:32:20.866 line:5% They met, they were then friends. 912 00:32:20.867 --> 00:32:22.400 Then the ring. 913 00:32:22.467 --> 00:32:24.466 - Then the other thing. - And then the other ring. 914 00:32:24.467 --> 00:32:26.766 [Davena] It was just like friend, friend, dating, 915 00:32:26.767 --> 00:32:30.165 kids, dogs, cats, rabbits, engaged. 916 00:32:30.166 --> 00:32:31.666 [LaQuana] It was just a lot. 917 00:32:31.667 --> 00:32:33.366 A lot at one time just... 918 00:32:33.367 --> 00:32:35.467 It's a lot at one time. 919 00:32:35.967 --> 00:32:37.099 It's too much. 920 00:32:37.100 --> 00:32:40.600 These are like my dream color scheme. 921 00:32:40.667 --> 00:32:43.466 [DeeDee] When I told my sisters I wanted to propose to Whitney, 922 00:32:43.467 --> 00:32:44.561 they was like, "Are you sure?" They're asking so many questions. 923 00:32:44.562 --> 00:32:45.000 They was like, "Are you sure?" They're asking so many questions. 924 00:32:45.867 --> 00:32:48.600 They thought that she was trying to take their spot. 925 00:32:48.667 --> 00:32:50.065 Uh, that's what I feel like they think. 926 00:32:50.066 --> 00:32:52.366 I cannot be this excited, right? Right? 927 00:32:52.367 --> 00:32:54.366 Right. No, you should be this excited. 928 00:32:54.367 --> 00:32:55.800 [Whitney] Okay. 929 00:32:55.867 --> 00:32:57.600 All right, Whitney and DeeDee, we're gonna go ahead 930 00:32:57.667 --> 00:32:58.667 - and get started. - [both] Okay. 931 00:32:58.668 --> 00:33:00.165 Is there any of the outfits you found? 932 00:33:00.166 --> 00:33:01.500 I really like this one. 933 00:33:01.567 --> 00:33:03.165 Babe, I just picked that one. 934 00:33:03.166 --> 00:33:05.500 Well, you guys both can try it on. 935 00:33:05.567 --> 00:33:07.366 Like in a lesbian wedding, can you wear the same dress? 936 00:33:07.367 --> 00:33:08.766 Is that, like, acceptable? 937 00:33:08.767 --> 00:33:10.466 I think it's your wedding 938 00:33:10.467 --> 00:33:12.165 and if you both wanna wear the same dress, 939 00:33:12.166 --> 00:33:13.999 and there's always different ways you can style. 940 00:33:14.000 --> 00:33:14.562 Are you gonna try and pick up my dress? 941 00:33:14.562 --> 00:33:15.000 Are you gonna try and pick up my dress? 942 00:33:15.367 --> 00:33:16.566 I mean... 943 00:33:16.567 --> 00:33:19.100 You didn't pick it up. I will try it on first. 944 00:33:20.567 --> 00:33:23.666 line:5% I haven't had a lesbian couple book the same appointment 945 00:33:23.667 --> 00:33:26.000 line:5% and come together at the same time before. 946 00:33:26.066 --> 00:33:27.700 Simon says, 947 00:33:27.767 --> 00:33:29.867 everybody come to the circle and grab hands. 948 00:33:32.066 --> 00:33:34.200 - I need help. - [woman] I got you. 949 00:33:34.266 --> 00:33:36.000 Usually, she would help me, but she can't. 950 00:33:36.066 --> 00:33:37.066 Not today. 951 00:33:37.067 --> 00:33:38.866 [LaQuana] Touch your head. 952 00:33:38.867 --> 00:33:40.900 I didn't say, "Simon Says." 953 00:33:42.166 --> 00:33:43.966 - Hey. - Hey. 954 00:33:43.967 --> 00:33:44.562 I just wanna know what's taking them so long. 955 00:33:44.562 --> 00:33:45.000 I just wanna know what's taking them so long. 956 00:33:46.266 --> 00:33:49.000 [Whitney] Three, two, one. 957 00:33:50.600 --> 00:33:51.766 Oh, my gosh. Can I guess? 958 00:33:51.767 --> 00:33:53.600 Like, what color are you wearing? 959 00:33:53.667 --> 00:33:54.866 Purple. 960 00:33:54.867 --> 00:33:56.566 I know that's a lie. 961 00:33:56.567 --> 00:33:58.766 Let's go. So we can see these dresses. 962 00:33:58.767 --> 00:34:00.866 So I really wanna go show my sisters. 963 00:34:00.867 --> 00:34:03.000 I don't wanna show you, because I'm really obsessed 964 00:34:03.066 --> 00:34:04.566 - with this dress. - [Whitney] Okay, babe. 965 00:34:04.567 --> 00:34:05.866 I'm gonna close my curtain, 966 00:34:05.867 --> 00:34:07.000 so I can't see you. 967 00:34:08.567 --> 00:34:09.966 Hey, guys, you're closing your eyes? 968 00:34:09.967 --> 00:34:11.766 Okay, everybody, close your eyes. 969 00:34:11.767 --> 00:34:13.600 [DeeDee] All right. I'm coming. 970 00:34:13.667 --> 00:34:14.562 Don't peek yet. 971 00:34:14.562 --> 00:34:14.800 Don't peek yet. 972 00:34:16.367 --> 00:34:18.200 All right. Y'all can open. 973 00:34:18.266 --> 00:34:21.065 - [screaming] - [DeeDee] Are you okay? 974 00:34:21.066 --> 00:34:24.200 - You wanna give me a hug? - You look pretty. 975 00:34:24.266 --> 00:34:27.000 [DeeDee] I love it a lot, like a lot, a lot. 976 00:34:27.066 --> 00:34:30.200 So what do you all think? A ten, a five? 977 00:34:30.266 --> 00:34:34.400 - It's a... It's a nine, 9.5. - [DeeDee] It's a nine? 978 00:34:34.467 --> 00:34:36.900 You like it? You like that? 979 00:34:36.967 --> 00:34:38.400 You just need to see more dresses. 980 00:34:38.467 --> 00:34:41.000 Okay. All right. I'll be back. 981 00:34:41.066 --> 00:34:42.666 line:5% I want rainbow dress 982 00:34:42.667 --> 00:34:44.561 line:5% and I want rainbow wedding. 983 00:34:44.562 --> 00:34:45.000 line:5% And I want rainbow wedding. 984 00:34:47.767 --> 00:34:49.000 line:5% Uh, rainbow. 985 00:34:49.066 --> 00:34:50.766 If I wear a rainbow shirt, 986 00:34:50.767 --> 00:34:53.900 it will show that my moms are in love. 987 00:34:53.967 --> 00:34:55.766 Okay, guys. Are your eyes closed? 988 00:34:55.767 --> 00:34:56.767 [all] Yes. 989 00:34:56.768 --> 00:34:59.066 Okay, don't open them. Not yet. 990 00:35:00.100 --> 00:35:02.866 Three, two, one. 991 00:35:02.867 --> 00:35:04.867 [indistinct chatter] 992 00:35:06.667 --> 00:35:08.165 It's a no for 500, Alex. 993 00:35:08.166 --> 00:35:09.300 Strong no. 994 00:35:09.367 --> 00:35:11.367 It's a no for me. 995 00:35:14.367 --> 00:35:14.562 You got the same face. [laughs] 996 00:35:14.562 --> 00:35:15.000 You got the same face. [laughs] 997 00:35:16.967 --> 00:35:18.666 No, it's a no. 998 00:35:18.667 --> 00:35:20.000 [LaQuana] That's not the one. 999 00:35:20.066 --> 00:35:21.867 No, it's not the one. 1000 00:35:25.700 --> 00:35:27.265 [sighs] 1001 00:35:27.266 --> 00:35:30.300 [Whitney] Seeing the way that DeeDee's sisters feel about me 1002 00:35:30.367 --> 00:35:32.099 is very, very hurtful. 1003 00:35:32.100 --> 00:35:35.300 I like the back. The back is beautiful. 1004 00:35:35.367 --> 00:35:38.600 I'm also kind of bummed that my family isn't here. 1005 00:35:38.667 --> 00:35:40.866 They just don't wanna be around 1006 00:35:40.867 --> 00:35:43.666 and it's sad. 1007 00:35:43.667 --> 00:35:44.562 [LaQuana] I don't like that outfit. No. 1008 00:35:44.562 --> 00:35:45.000 [LaQuana] I don't like that outfit. No. 1009 00:35:54.367 --> 00:35:57.265 line:5% [insects chirping] 1010 00:35:57.266 --> 00:35:58.900 [DeeDee] It was a little weird going today. 1011 00:35:58.967 --> 00:36:00.366 Something about my sisters just like... 1012 00:36:00.367 --> 00:36:02.566 When I'm talking to them, when I see them, 1013 00:36:02.567 --> 00:36:04.367 when we have conflict, I just... 1014 00:36:05.100 --> 00:36:06.666 - Puts me here. - I get it. 1015 00:36:06.667 --> 00:36:09.366 My sisters are being a little mean and rude. 1016 00:36:09.367 --> 00:36:11.200 When it's all said and done, 1017 00:36:11.266 --> 00:36:13.766 they are my sisters, but I love Whitney. 1018 00:36:13.767 --> 00:36:14.562 She's not going nowhere. 1019 00:36:14.562 --> 00:36:15.000 She's not going nowhere. 1020 00:36:16.200 --> 00:36:18.099 We're gonna need an intervention. 1021 00:36:18.100 --> 00:36:19.900 There has to be that back and forth 1022 00:36:19.967 --> 00:36:22.900 or, you know... Nothing's gonna come out of that other than hurt. 1023 00:36:22.967 --> 00:36:26.099 This is not how a healthy communication, 1024 00:36:26.100 --> 00:36:27.866 conversation should go. 1025 00:36:27.867 --> 00:36:29.866 And I don't wanna freaking cry. 1026 00:36:29.867 --> 00:36:31.065 It's not about me. 1027 00:36:31.066 --> 00:36:32.900 That's the hardest part in all of this, is I feel like 1028 00:36:32.967 --> 00:36:36.866 I'm not supposed to be able to hurt in this situation 1029 00:36:36.867 --> 00:36:39.999 because this is your sister and your family. 1030 00:36:40.000 --> 00:36:41.200 [DeeDee] I don't know if they're intimidated 1031 00:36:41.266 --> 00:36:43.766 or they think that you're trying to break us apart. 1032 00:36:43.767 --> 00:36:44.562 I see your side, I see your heart. 1033 00:36:44.562 --> 00:36:45.000 I see your side, I see your heart. 1034 00:36:45.767 --> 00:36:48.099 I know where you're coming from when you do things. 1035 00:36:48.100 --> 00:36:50.666 And now I feel like, um, I have to choose, 1036 00:36:50.667 --> 00:36:52.165 and if I have to choose, like you're the person 1037 00:36:52.166 --> 00:36:53.900 I wanna be with forever. 1038 00:36:53.967 --> 00:36:55.099 But I don't wanna feel like I have to choose. 1039 00:36:55.100 --> 00:36:57.966 I want you and I want them. 1040 00:36:57.967 --> 00:37:00.200 Like, I do understand why, like, it's okay to cry 1041 00:37:00.266 --> 00:37:01.466 and be upset about it. 1042 00:37:01.467 --> 00:37:05.466 I've never had a family bond, I've never had a sister, 1043 00:37:05.467 --> 00:37:07.866 I've never had a close relationship 1044 00:37:07.867 --> 00:37:11.165 like that, and... Sorry. 1045 00:37:11.166 --> 00:37:13.800 To see what you had with them, 1046 00:37:13.867 --> 00:37:14.562 I've never had nieces or nephews. 1047 00:37:14.562 --> 00:37:15.000 I've never had nieces or nephews. 1048 00:37:16.166 --> 00:37:18.100 And I chose you, 1049 00:37:18.166 --> 00:37:20.265 I chose your children, 1050 00:37:20.266 --> 00:37:23.600 I chose your sisters, I chose your family. 1051 00:37:25.166 --> 00:37:26.300 And it's hard. 1052 00:37:30.266 --> 00:37:31.866 line:5% [all] Coming up... 1053 00:37:31.867 --> 00:37:34.366 line:5% I swear I feel like you just like push us to the sidelines. 1054 00:37:34.367 --> 00:37:36.966 Whitney is swallowing DeeDee. She needs to give 1055 00:37:36.967 --> 00:37:38.265 - her time to breathe. - Yes. 1056 00:37:38.266 --> 00:37:40.265 You treat us as if we're not your sisters 1057 00:37:40.266 --> 00:37:42.466 when you can just, you know, dispose of us when you want to. 1058 00:37:42.467 --> 00:37:44.561 - No, we're not down with that. - I feel attacked. 1059 00:37:44.562 --> 00:37:45.000 - No, we're not down with that. - I feel attacked. 1060 00:37:53.367 --> 00:37:55.666 [Davena] Because my feet look a hot mess. 1061 00:37:55.667 --> 00:37:58.266 You're a magician. Do your thing, do your thing. 1062 00:38:00.166 --> 00:38:02.099 line:5% Girl, are you ready to have this conversation? 1063 00:38:02.100 --> 00:38:04.300 line:5% - No. - Hmm. 1064 00:38:04.367 --> 00:38:06.165 I just want her to understand how we feel. 1065 00:38:06.166 --> 00:38:09.566 I just think we just need to figure it out from here because we can't 1066 00:38:09.567 --> 00:38:11.300 - continue to... - No. 1067 00:38:11.367 --> 00:38:12.467 Be going this path that we're going. 1068 00:38:12.500 --> 00:38:14.265 This shouldn't be continued. That's the difference. 1069 00:38:14.266 --> 00:38:16.300 Like I said, this is just to address the elephant in the... 1070 00:38:16.367 --> 00:38:19.057 - in the room and move on. - And she's the elephant. 1071 00:38:19.058 --> 00:38:19.200 - In the room and move on. - And she's the elephant. 1072 00:38:20.600 --> 00:38:22.999 [DeeDee] I wanted to invite my sisters to the nail salon 1073 00:38:23.000 --> 00:38:24.600 line:5% because despite all my efforts, 1074 00:38:24.667 --> 00:38:26.366 they're still not being respectful to Whitney, 1075 00:38:26.367 --> 00:38:28.666 and it is very important that my sisters 1076 00:38:28.667 --> 00:38:32.099 are involved in my life, stay in my life, and be a part of my life. 1077 00:38:32.100 --> 00:38:35.099 But we need to get everything out on the table. 1078 00:38:35.100 --> 00:38:37.766 I just want her to understand sisterhood, 1079 00:38:37.767 --> 00:38:40.366 because when you have sisters, it's supposed to be important, so... 1080 00:38:40.367 --> 00:38:42.800 DeeDee can't separate her relationship with her family 1081 00:38:42.867 --> 00:38:44.400 and then from her girlfriend. 1082 00:38:44.467 --> 00:38:46.466 That's our biggest issue with her, separate them. 1083 00:38:46.467 --> 00:38:48.200 Also because we don't have mommies, so I feel like 1084 00:38:48.266 --> 00:38:49.058 why wouldn't you keep that bond between us? 1085 00:38:49.058 --> 00:38:50.000 Why wouldn't you keep that bond between us? 1086 00:38:50.667 --> 00:38:53.099 We're sisters first. You have to be sisters first. 1087 00:38:53.100 --> 00:38:54.500 Like, we're all we have. 1088 00:38:57.467 --> 00:38:59.165 - Hey. - [DeeDee] I'mma sit here. 1089 00:38:59.166 --> 00:39:01.099 line:5% - [woman speaking] - Right here? 1090 00:39:01.100 --> 00:39:03.300 line:5% [woman speaking] 1091 00:39:03.367 --> 00:39:04.500 line:5% - [DeeDee] Thank you. - [woman speaking] 1092 00:39:11.166 --> 00:39:13.500 Seems like it's the elephant in the room. 1093 00:39:13.567 --> 00:39:15.200 Just a little bit... 1094 00:39:15.266 --> 00:39:16.400 [laughs] 1095 00:39:17.200 --> 00:39:18.700 I'm trying. 1096 00:39:18.767 --> 00:39:19.058 I feel like I'm in a horror movie right now. 1097 00:39:19.058 --> 00:39:20.000 I feel like I'm in a horror movie right now. 1098 00:39:21.000 --> 00:39:24.500 - [imitate evil laugh] - I hate that noise. 1099 00:39:24.567 --> 00:39:27.466 The problem is you're dating a female, right? 1100 00:39:27.467 --> 00:39:30.566 Because it's two females, we're getting confused with... 1101 00:39:30.567 --> 00:39:33.366 - Yeah. I agree. - Partners and sisters. 1102 00:39:33.367 --> 00:39:35.300 Every time you get around... You got with her. 1103 00:39:35.367 --> 00:39:38.100 I swear I feel like you just, like, push us to the sidelines. 1104 00:39:40.066 --> 00:39:41.666 Since you got with her, I don't even have a, 1105 00:39:41.667 --> 00:39:43.466 "Hey, girl, let's hang out." 1106 00:39:43.467 --> 00:39:46.165 That's not her fault, though. 1107 00:39:46.166 --> 00:39:48.466 To me, it seems like it's Whitney not allowing DeeDee 1108 00:39:48.467 --> 00:39:49.058 to be free or be with her family. 1109 00:39:49.058 --> 00:39:50.000 To be free or be with her family. 1110 00:39:50.667 --> 00:39:52.466 Whitney is swallowing DeeDee. 1111 00:39:52.467 --> 00:39:54.366 She needs to give her time to breathe. 1112 00:39:54.367 --> 00:39:55.666 Yes. That space. 1113 00:39:55.667 --> 00:39:58.165 I just feel like I'm getting older 1114 00:39:58.166 --> 00:39:59.500 and I'm doing things different. 1115 00:39:59.567 --> 00:40:01.165 And there's nothing wrong with that. 1116 00:40:01.166 --> 00:40:03.400 I'm not... That's not my issue. I'm not knocking that. 1117 00:40:03.467 --> 00:40:05.300 But you can't get older and do things different 1118 00:40:05.367 --> 00:40:07.165 and push us to the side. 1119 00:40:07.166 --> 00:40:08.767 That doesn't make sense to me. It doesn't add up. 1120 00:40:11.667 --> 00:40:13.065 line:5% - Like, she is trying. - That has nothing to do 1121 00:40:13.066 --> 00:40:15.065 with us. That's your household. 1122 00:40:15.066 --> 00:40:17.566 But I just feel like I don't have y'all to kind of vent to, 1123 00:40:17.567 --> 00:40:19.057 like, I went to my safe place. 1124 00:40:19.058 --> 00:40:19.300 Like, I went to my safe place. 1125 00:40:19.367 --> 00:40:20.000 Y'all was my safe place and y'all took that way. 1126 00:40:21.166 --> 00:40:23.866 We wanna build our relationship with you, 1127 00:40:23.867 --> 00:40:25.466 - we have issues with her. - But I'm okay with that, too. 1128 00:40:25.467 --> 00:40:27.000 I still wanna protect her. 1129 00:40:27.066 --> 00:40:28.666 I don't want her to be looking at as being crazy. 1130 00:40:28.667 --> 00:40:30.300 - She's not. - So that's what I'm saying, 1131 00:40:30.367 --> 00:40:32.165 this whole victim part and then you get upset 1132 00:40:32.166 --> 00:40:33.466 - what we're saying. - [DeeDee] I never tried 1133 00:40:33.467 --> 00:40:35.000 to play the victim. I'm just telling you how I'm feeling. 1134 00:40:35.066 --> 00:40:36.399 You always got something to say 1135 00:40:36.400 --> 00:40:38.300 - and every time I talk-- - So you don't think that's victim? 1136 00:40:38.367 --> 00:40:40.766 Well, I feel a victim because you're always attacking me. 1137 00:40:40.767 --> 00:40:42.400 Y'all do it at the same time. 1138 00:40:42.467 --> 00:40:43.566 Girl... 1139 00:40:43.567 --> 00:40:44.766 I'm not attacking you... 1140 00:40:44.767 --> 00:40:46.266 I feel attacked. 1141 00:40:50.000 --> 00:40:52.566 You are not attached by the umbilical cord to that girl. 1142 00:40:52.567 --> 00:40:54.099 You are my sibling. 1143 00:40:54.100 --> 00:40:56.566 - She brings me happiness. - And... But we don't? 1144 00:40:56.567 --> 00:40:58.300 I enjoy being around her. 1145 00:41:01.266 --> 00:41:02.566 line:5% - That's the problem. - That's the problem. 1146 00:41:02.567 --> 00:41:04.566 - She threw herself at us. - Right, we know. 1147 00:41:04.567 --> 00:41:06.165 Like, "Oh, I want... I always want a sister." 1148 00:41:06.166 --> 00:41:07.466 Okay, well, we have enough of us. 1149 00:41:07.467 --> 00:41:09.566 You treat us as if we're not your sisters. 1150 00:41:09.567 --> 00:41:11.466 We just like your home girls and you can just, 1151 00:41:11.467 --> 00:41:12.700 you know, dispose of us when you want to. 1152 00:41:12.767 --> 00:41:13.767 No, we're not down with that. 1153 00:41:13.768 --> 00:41:15.566 [LaQuana] How can we move forward? 1154 00:41:15.567 --> 00:41:16.567 What's next? 1155 00:41:17.467 --> 00:41:18.666 We was a puzzle. 1156 00:41:18.667 --> 00:41:19.058 The puzzle done broke up into pieces. 1157 00:41:19.058 --> 00:41:20.000 The puzzle done broke up into pieces. 1158 00:41:20.166 --> 00:41:21.566 [Davena] We lost one of the pieces. 1159 00:41:21.567 --> 00:41:22.966 Now we have to put the puzzle back together. 1160 00:41:22.967 --> 00:41:24.400 It's baby steps, baby steps. 1161 00:41:24.467 --> 00:41:26.065 We got to work on baby step. 1162 00:41:26.066 --> 00:41:28.366 So the first step we're trying to make right now, 1163 00:41:28.367 --> 00:41:31.300 - DeeDee, is being your sister. - [Davena] Your sister. 1164 00:41:31.367 --> 00:41:34.065 And then once we start getting us together, 1165 00:41:34.066 --> 00:41:35.466 once we're right, 1166 00:41:35.467 --> 00:41:37.265 everything else will fall into place. 1167 00:41:37.266 --> 00:41:40.766 We just wanted to try to work on our sisterhood 1168 00:41:40.767 --> 00:41:43.200 and try to build a relationship back with her. 1169 00:41:44.200 --> 00:41:45.500 So are we done? 1170 00:41:45.567 --> 00:41:47.366 Are we gonna work on our relationship? 1171 00:41:47.367 --> 00:41:49.057 Are we gonna try to put the pieces back together slowly? 1172 00:41:49.058 --> 00:41:50.000 Are we gonna try to put the pieces back together slowly? 1173 00:41:50.166 --> 00:41:51.666 I'm willing to work on our relationship. 1174 00:41:51.667 --> 00:41:54.165 I just really want us to, 1175 00:41:54.166 --> 00:41:56.500 like, be aware of what we're doing to each other. 1176 00:41:56.567 --> 00:41:58.666 - To me, that's it. - Okay. 1177 00:41:58.667 --> 00:42:00.666 [Davena] I'm just crawling to see where we get to. 1178 00:42:00.667 --> 00:42:02.165 I mean, I could see as only going up, 1179 00:42:02.166 --> 00:42:03.366 because we already been down. 1180 00:42:03.367 --> 00:42:05.466 We're gonna hug it out. Is that what we're gonna do? 1181 00:42:05.467 --> 00:42:07.265 [sighs] Okay. 1182 00:42:07.266 --> 00:42:09.466 I know they still have reservations about her, 1183 00:42:09.467 --> 00:42:11.666 but Whitney is going to be my wife. 1184 00:42:11.667 --> 00:42:13.666 So they're just gonna have to accept her. 1185 00:42:13.667 --> 00:42:15.700 So I feel like we all need each other, to be honest. 1186 00:42:15.767 --> 00:42:17.265 Bring it in. Bring it in. 1187 00:42:17.266 --> 00:42:18.866 Stop. Don't do that to me. 1188 00:42:18.867 --> 00:42:19.058 So as much as they think that they don't need me, 1189 00:42:19.058 --> 00:42:20.000 So as much as they think that they don't need me, 1190 00:42:20.567 --> 00:42:21.700 they really do need me. 1191 00:42:21.767 --> 00:42:23.600 And they just like to hide it. 1192 00:42:23.667 --> 00:42:25.165 - [Davena] Yes, you do. - [DeeDee] No, I don't. 1193 00:42:25.166 --> 00:42:26.867 Can you stop?