WEBVTT FILE 1 00:00:02.000 --> 00:00:07.000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:07.960 --> 00:00:09.080 Hi, Mum! 3 00:00:08.000 --> 00:00:13.000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 4 00:00:10.679 --> 00:00:11.800 How are you? 5 00:00:14.919 --> 00:00:20.399 Yes, I just woke up. Last night I went to see a movie with Daniel. 6 00:00:21.960 --> 00:00:25.600 Yes, the guy who converted to Islam. 7 00:00:29.280 --> 00:00:30.800 I don't know. 8 00:00:31.239 --> 00:00:34.520 It's definitely serious to him. 9 00:00:45.840 --> 00:00:47.240 I mean, last night... 10 00:00:48.479 --> 00:00:50.359 He asked me to marry him! 11 00:01:00.000 --> 00:01:04.120 In God's name, do you take Daniel as your husband before God? 12 00:01:04.439 --> 00:01:05.680 I do. 13 00:01:09.640 --> 00:01:13.920 In God's name, do you take Alexandra as your wife before God? 14 00:01:14.239 --> 00:01:17.519 In God's name, I take Alexandra as my wife before God. 15 00:01:18.159 --> 00:01:21.879 ...and not those who run astray! 16 00:01:22.239 --> 00:01:25.680 God, bless them with health and happiness, 17 00:01:25.760 --> 00:01:29.200 and by Your will may they enter Paradise together! 18 00:01:29.280 --> 00:01:33.840 Amen! Much happiness and 10-12 children. 19 00:01:36.799 --> 00:01:39.200 It's done, now they're married! 20 00:01:40.439 --> 00:01:42.120 Do we give her away? 21 00:01:53.799 --> 00:01:56.159 Brother, she fasted every single day! 22 00:01:56.239 --> 00:01:57.879 - For what? - For Ramadan! 23 00:01:58.359 --> 00:02:01.079 - You fasted in vain. - Thought so. 24 00:02:03.159 --> 00:02:05.359 It doesn't count. 25 00:02:05.439 --> 00:02:08.879 If you don't become a Muslim, 26 00:02:09.680 --> 00:02:11.800 your fasting doesn't count. 27 00:02:12.280 --> 00:02:16.240 What God wants, really, is for you to say the words 28 00:02:16.319 --> 00:02:20.639 "There is no God but Allah and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah"! 29 00:02:20.719 --> 00:02:23.159 - Otherwise-- - Nothing counts, right? 30 00:02:24.199 --> 00:02:25.800 You are lost. 31 00:02:26.240 --> 00:02:28.439 Hell will eat you alive! 32 00:02:37.039 --> 00:02:40.120 I never heard someone speak Arabic. 33 00:02:40.199 --> 00:02:43.800 When I heard you reciting the Qur'an and saw you praying, 34 00:02:43.879 --> 00:02:46.120 I didn't understand what was going on. 35 00:02:46.479 --> 00:02:50.800 Your eyes were closed, then open, you bowed to the floor. 36 00:02:51.599 --> 00:02:54.039 I thought "I never saw that in my life!" 37 00:02:54.479 --> 00:02:58.719 I had never seen a Muslim praying, I didn't know how it's done. 38 00:02:59.280 --> 00:03:02.759 Did you ever think I could have more wives? 39 00:03:10.560 --> 00:03:13.199 That was a tough one. 40 00:03:16.080 --> 00:03:21.879 my muslim husband 41 00:03:28.599 --> 00:03:30.240 Allahu akbar! 42 00:03:33.680 --> 00:03:36.199 Allah hears whoever praises Him. 43 00:03:53.599 --> 00:03:55.759 Look, Daniel is spying on us! 44 00:03:56.840 --> 00:04:00.360 I would like to better understand the purpose 45 00:04:02.840 --> 00:04:05.680 for which the hijab was introduced 46 00:04:06.039 --> 00:04:09.400 and whether it still serves the same purpose today. 47 00:04:09.759 --> 00:04:13.080 In short, why a Muslim woman should wear the hijab. 48 00:04:13.960 --> 00:04:16.720 Basically, covering the head is mandatory. 49 00:04:17.319 --> 00:04:18.720 However, 50 00:04:19.879 --> 00:04:22.480 the way this is put to practice 51 00:04:24.480 --> 00:04:28.759 differs from one situation to another, 52 00:04:29.120 --> 00:04:31.560 from one context to another. 53 00:04:34.120 --> 00:04:36.000 In Europe, let's say, 54 00:04:36.959 --> 00:04:42.160 the hijab may look different from the ones in Muslim countries. 55 00:04:43.160 --> 00:04:47.240 There may be small differences. That's acceptable. 56 00:04:48.560 --> 00:04:53.519 There are situations where you can't wear a hijab at work. 57 00:04:55.839 --> 00:04:58.279 You put this on your forehead. 58 00:05:01.279 --> 00:05:02.639 That's ok. 59 00:05:04.120 --> 00:05:06.199 And now you pull it up. 60 00:05:08.639 --> 00:05:10.360 And you pin it closed here. 61 00:05:11.360 --> 00:05:13.040 - Like this? - Yes. 62 00:05:14.879 --> 00:05:16.800 I feel so strange already! 63 00:05:17.120 --> 00:05:19.759 You want to try this one? You look so beautiful. 64 00:05:22.560 --> 00:05:25.639 The hijab isn't just about covering your head, 65 00:05:25.720 --> 00:05:31.000 You must also have a decent outfit, not too tight, 66 00:05:33.160 --> 00:05:36.040 You must be modest from head to toe. 67 00:05:36.439 --> 00:05:38.759 The same is required of men. 68 00:05:39.959 --> 00:05:42.480 It's so pretty, just like blonde hair. 69 00:05:42.959 --> 00:05:44.759 Such a pretty little scarf. 70 00:05:46.439 --> 00:05:48.160 Look how pretty. 71 00:05:48.240 --> 00:05:49.959 I feel like a saint. 72 00:05:52.560 --> 00:05:56.120 I feel like I'm not allowed to do anything wrong now. 73 00:05:57.879 --> 00:05:59.319 No, only good things. 74 00:06:00.160 --> 00:06:01.439 You just can't! 75 00:06:01.519 --> 00:06:04.839 You can be very cheerful and pretty with a hijab. 76 00:06:06.920 --> 00:06:09.279 My, aren't you a pretty one. 77 00:06:20.600 --> 00:06:24.240 They say you can't get married if you can't cooksarmale. 78 00:06:24.319 --> 00:06:26.600 - Have you cooked sarmale before? - Yes. 79 00:06:26.680 --> 00:06:28.720 - Really, you have? - Yes. 80 00:06:29.079 --> 00:06:30.079 When? 81 00:06:32.279 --> 00:06:35.000 One time, when I was little. 82 00:06:38.120 --> 00:06:41.759 Love, these are the first sarmale you've cooked for me. 83 00:06:41.839 --> 00:06:43.560 You'll love them. 84 00:06:44.040 --> 00:06:45.879 I'm so proud of you! 85 00:06:47.720 --> 00:06:49.879 Can't have Christmas withoutsarmale ! 86 00:06:51.319 --> 00:06:54.480 If you like them, I can make them more often. 87 00:06:55.279 --> 00:06:59.720 I don't celebrate Christmas, so any occasion is as good as the next. 88 00:07:00.360 --> 00:07:03.560 You're saying I can cook them anytime. 89 00:07:08.160 --> 00:07:10.720 - I should remember this. - What? 90 00:07:11.120 --> 00:07:14.600 No chance I'll forget this, I've been at it all day. 91 00:07:34.519 --> 00:07:36.560 I still sometimes think that 92 00:07:37.439 --> 00:07:39.480 this whole Islam thing, 93 00:07:41.160 --> 00:07:43.759 and how a Muslim is supposed to behave... 94 00:07:46.399 --> 00:07:47.920 I don't know if I... 95 00:07:48.240 --> 00:07:52.000 I hope I can adapt to everything it involves. 96 00:07:53.720 --> 00:07:55.120 This is very new to me, 97 00:07:55.639 --> 00:07:59.279 I don't know if I will like all of it. 98 00:08:16.120 --> 00:08:17.959 My biggest fear 99 00:08:19.439 --> 00:08:22.560 is about how we'll manage to... 100 00:08:25.879 --> 00:08:28.759 to maintain a good relationship with my parents. 101 00:08:29.759 --> 00:08:31.959 Why would you have any doubts? 102 00:08:33.080 --> 00:08:34.600 Past behaviour. 103 00:08:37.480 --> 00:08:38.559 Meaning? 104 00:08:39.360 --> 00:08:42.320 Meaning that it happened before. 105 00:08:45.279 --> 00:08:48.919 Not meeting their expectations. 106 00:08:50.240 --> 00:08:53.159 - Stop thinking about that! - Oh well. 107 00:08:54.799 --> 00:08:56.639 This time it will be different! 108 00:08:57.200 --> 00:09:00.360 - In sha'Allah. - Stop thinking about it. 109 00:09:02.919 --> 00:09:07.759 I didn't put on any make-up, just a little concealer around the eyes. 110 00:09:10.000 --> 00:09:12.559 - That's all. - It's still noticeable. 111 00:09:13.559 --> 00:09:16.440 What, the make-up or the lack of bags under my eyes? 112 00:09:22.120 --> 00:09:23.159 Just a little. 113 00:09:24.279 --> 00:09:25.360 What do you see? 114 00:09:25.720 --> 00:09:26.639 You are very beautiful. 115 00:09:26.960 --> 00:09:29.240 - Which part? - All of you. 116 00:09:29.559 --> 00:09:30.960 Right or left? 117 00:09:42.840 --> 00:09:47.639 It makes no sense, why do people in Mecca fast 12 hours a day, 118 00:09:47.720 --> 00:09:52.919 but if you're in Europe, in the Nordic countries, 119 00:09:53.240 --> 00:09:56.240 you fast for 18-19 hours a day? 120 00:09:58.279 --> 00:10:02.759 - Why can't we do the same? - Six hours is a big difference. 121 00:10:02.840 --> 00:10:05.919 Then we should fast the way they do in Mecca. 122 00:10:06.720 --> 00:10:08.240 I don't want to do it wrong, 123 00:10:08.320 --> 00:10:13.240 but I also don't want to be in this state where I'm like a vegetable. 124 00:10:13.320 --> 00:10:17.039 So what's best, doing the full fast and feeling like a vegetable, 125 00:10:17.120 --> 00:10:20.519 or fasting for less time, but still being able to be productive? 126 00:10:21.919 --> 00:10:27.240 It depends on the sun, I can't just make my own religion. 127 00:11:06.440 --> 00:11:08.559 After a good night's sleep, 128 00:11:09.799 --> 00:11:12.120 you wake up with fresh thoughts, 129 00:11:13.120 --> 00:11:14.879 and the brain... 130 00:11:18.399 --> 00:11:19.840 The brain is... 131 00:11:21.960 --> 00:11:23.399 How to put it? 132 00:11:24.240 --> 00:11:27.639 You still think you can have a good relationship with them? 133 00:11:27.720 --> 00:11:31.399 Isn't it very sad, not getting along with your own parents? 134 00:11:31.480 --> 00:11:34.879 No! You can't have that if you live in their house. 135 00:11:34.960 --> 00:11:36.559 Why can't you see that? 136 00:11:38.919 --> 00:11:41.720 This is normal, didn't you read the Qur'an? 137 00:11:41.799 --> 00:11:44.799 It says you have to be independent from your parents! 138 00:11:50.360 --> 00:11:53.639 Does it say you should live with your parents until 40? 139 00:11:53.720 --> 00:11:55.080 - No. - See? 140 00:11:55.159 --> 00:11:59.159 Daniel, I told you time and again if we live here, there will be trouble. 141 00:11:59.240 --> 00:12:02.679 I begged you to find a new place, to move. 142 00:12:02.759 --> 00:12:05.200 We knew it would come to this. 143 00:12:05.279 --> 00:12:09.320 What made you think it would turn out different? 144 00:12:09.679 --> 00:12:12.279 See it as a way of protecting your parents. 145 00:12:12.360 --> 00:12:15.720 Since they won't be happy with any partner of yours, 146 00:12:15.799 --> 00:12:19.480 you can't possibly share a house with them. 147 00:12:21.120 --> 00:12:23.879 They didn't like it when you were single either. 148 00:12:23.960 --> 00:12:26.200 Their problem is with you, not me. 149 00:12:26.679 --> 00:12:28.360 Yes, that's true. 150 00:12:28.440 --> 00:12:31.679 I've never offended or disobeyed them. 151 00:12:31.759 --> 00:12:34.720 I've always respected them, given them space. 152 00:12:35.039 --> 00:12:37.000 I never fought with them. 153 00:12:37.480 --> 00:12:40.240 I tried to be beyond any reproach. 154 00:12:41.080 --> 00:12:44.159 I tried to be unbiased towards them, 155 00:12:44.519 --> 00:12:46.600 I swallowed my pride for them. 156 00:12:47.360 --> 00:12:50.559 You fight with them and they give me shit. 157 00:13:12.480 --> 00:13:16.120 When you go one way and you hit a wall, 158 00:13:16.639 --> 00:13:22.360 and it happens again, and again, and again, shouldn't you change direction? 159 00:13:22.440 --> 00:13:25.240 Doesn't it mean that road is closed? 160 00:13:34.799 --> 00:13:37.960 Alright, we move out as soon as we can. 161 00:13:40.399 --> 00:13:42.679 And, yes, I knew all these things. 162 00:13:43.519 --> 00:13:44.799 I was naive. 163 00:13:52.919 --> 00:13:54.120 Please, calm down. 164 00:13:57.879 --> 00:13:59.080 I love you. 165 00:14:21.039 --> 00:14:25.559 Make sure the chickens don't get out and do exactly as I did! 166 00:14:26.039 --> 00:14:28.639 - Alright. - Dig out the horseradish. 167 00:15:03.279 --> 00:15:05.879 Don't pack so many eggs for me. 168 00:15:05.960 --> 00:15:09.000 - I have plenty. - Keep some for yourself! 169 00:15:09.480 --> 00:15:13.240 The chickens will start moulting soon. 170 00:15:13.600 --> 00:15:17.000 - So keep some. - They're not moulting yet. 171 00:15:17.360 --> 00:15:19.200 They've been laying a lot. 172 00:15:20.240 --> 00:15:23.399 - I thought you'd be pregnant by now. - God willing! 173 00:15:24.080 --> 00:15:26.279 We don't need to hurry. 174 00:15:30.159 --> 00:15:33.679 Grandma, why should we have children? 175 00:15:34.480 --> 00:15:36.480 So she has heirs. 176 00:15:37.360 --> 00:15:38.759 Don't say that! 177 00:15:39.559 --> 00:15:40.720 You! 178 00:15:40.799 --> 00:15:42.559 No, he's just asking. 179 00:15:43.320 --> 00:15:45.120 - What for? - Why, you... 180 00:15:45.559 --> 00:15:48.039 - Wretched the childless! - Why? 181 00:15:48.120 --> 00:15:50.360 They leave nothing behind! 182 00:15:50.799 --> 00:15:52.279 Some leave knowledge. 183 00:15:52.639 --> 00:15:55.480 - Like how? - In a book, maybe. 184 00:15:56.000 --> 00:15:57.919 Don't say that, Daniel! 185 00:15:58.279 --> 00:16:00.919 Do you even know how much you'll love your child? 186 00:16:01.240 --> 00:16:06.320 - I'd be so happy if you had one or two. - I could write a book instead. 187 00:16:07.919 --> 00:16:10.840 The childless are wretched! 188 00:16:10.919 --> 00:16:15.279 - Others have 3 or 4 of them. - So? It's not mandatory. 189 00:16:15.639 --> 00:16:18.120 - You don't want children? - Not right now. 190 00:16:18.200 --> 00:16:20.799 - You neither? - I do. 191 00:16:21.159 --> 00:16:23.279 - No, I do. - Do you? 192 00:16:24.440 --> 00:16:26.320 Yes, two at least. 193 00:16:27.320 --> 00:16:29.360 - At least! - Two? 194 00:16:29.799 --> 00:16:31.399 One girl, one boy. 195 00:16:31.480 --> 00:16:34.919 - I want to see them before I die! - You will. 196 00:16:36.159 --> 00:16:38.320 But you set conditions for me. 197 00:16:39.039 --> 00:16:45.240 You only want a child if I guarantee I'll stay home and not travel. 198 00:16:45.559 --> 00:16:47.840 Didn't you want the same thing? 199 00:16:47.919 --> 00:16:50.480 You keep saying this, but with conditions. 200 00:16:50.799 --> 00:16:53.039 Conditions we both agree on! 201 00:16:53.120 --> 00:16:56.879 - You said you wanted the same thing! - And I do! 202 00:16:57.399 --> 00:17:01.799 But I can't swear I'll never travel anywhere again. 203 00:17:02.159 --> 00:17:03.960 No one said you should. 204 00:17:04.039 --> 00:17:08.000 It was about having a job here, not having to travel all the time. 205 00:17:08.079 --> 00:17:12.359 How long do you think it's OK to be away? 206 00:17:15.759 --> 00:17:18.039 - It depends on-- - On the project? 207 00:17:18.440 --> 00:17:22.920 Do you find this normal? Being away 8 times a year? 208 00:17:23.480 --> 00:17:25.039 Two weeks each time? 209 00:17:25.119 --> 00:17:28.200 If you think that's OK, let's have a child. 210 00:17:29.240 --> 00:17:32.039 This isn't about me setting conditions, 211 00:17:32.119 --> 00:17:35.039 it's about you spending time with your child. 212 00:17:35.119 --> 00:17:36.880 So I'm setting conditions? 213 00:17:37.400 --> 00:17:40.720 Because I want my family close? Well, excuse me! 214 00:17:41.359 --> 00:17:43.559 You tell me how you see it. 215 00:17:49.640 --> 00:17:54.359 I converted in Romania, but I truly understood Islam after I left. 216 00:17:54.440 --> 00:17:55.440 I see. 217 00:17:56.359 --> 00:18:00.720 There, I saw families that were so close, so tight-knit. 218 00:18:01.240 --> 00:18:03.640 They had many children, too. 219 00:18:05.119 --> 00:18:10.440 It's lovely to see a family of 20 around the table during Ramadan. 220 00:18:11.119 --> 00:18:15.519 I was thinking, I don't celebrate Christmas and Easter, 221 00:18:15.599 --> 00:18:18.279 which to them were essential, 222 00:18:18.359 --> 00:18:24.559 those holiday times during which families come together. 223 00:18:25.480 --> 00:18:31.880 They felt it too, and I felt a stranger in my own country. 224 00:18:33.279 --> 00:18:38.559 It was one of the effects of my conversion. 225 00:18:42.720 --> 00:18:45.519 It put a barrier, a chasm between us. 226 00:18:45.880 --> 00:18:49.519 I'm sure they feel like they've lost me since then. 227 00:18:50.079 --> 00:18:55.200 I think, for them, that's when this separation started. 228 00:18:56.240 --> 00:18:58.960 And now it got this serious. 229 00:19:26.240 --> 00:19:28.119 How's your health? 230 00:19:28.680 --> 00:19:30.920 Good, and how is the family? 231 00:19:31.400 --> 00:19:33.240 We are all good, 232 00:19:34.039 --> 00:19:35.680 and we miss you! 233 00:19:36.039 --> 00:19:40.200 We plan to visit you this winter, but God knows. 234 00:19:41.079 --> 00:19:42.839 We will speak again, with God's will! 235 00:19:43.920 --> 00:19:44.839 Again? 236 00:19:47.960 --> 00:19:49.799 I wanted to tell you something. 237 00:19:50.359 --> 00:19:53.039 I'm going to the warm countries! 238 00:19:55.400 --> 00:19:57.240 No, Mum, not forever! 239 00:20:00.720 --> 00:20:03.480 Daniel wants to show me Jordan 240 00:20:04.599 --> 00:20:06.839 and various places out there. 241 00:20:31.039 --> 00:20:33.599 The people here are kind, 242 00:20:33.920 --> 00:20:38.160 I've had many nice experiences in Jordan. 243 00:20:41.920 --> 00:20:45.839 Before the wars around here, Jordan was very different. 244 00:20:45.920 --> 00:20:49.920 When I first came here, the war in Syria hadn't begun. 245 00:20:52.799 --> 00:20:54.640 It was much better. 246 00:20:55.359 --> 00:20:57.119 Everything was cheaper, 247 00:20:57.720 --> 00:21:00.759 people were much kinder, more generous. 248 00:21:00.839 --> 00:21:02.519 How far to Syria? 249 00:21:02.839 --> 00:21:04.319 100 kilometres. 250 00:21:06.160 --> 00:21:09.359 - They never get bombed by accident? - They do. 251 00:21:12.640 --> 00:21:14.400 I'm glad we're here, 252 00:21:14.480 --> 00:21:17.759 I'm always happy when I come to Jordan. 253 00:21:19.799 --> 00:21:24.119 - I hope the war never gets here. - Good luck hoping. 254 00:21:24.200 --> 00:21:27.039 - I don't want to imagine it. - Hoping won't help. 255 00:21:28.799 --> 00:21:32.279 Why not consider it, since it could happen? 256 00:21:32.920 --> 00:21:34.759 You can't know it will. 257 00:21:34.839 --> 00:21:38.640 Still, you can't think "Oh, war will never come here." 258 00:21:39.119 --> 00:21:42.559 "Even though it's raging just a stone's throw from here." 259 00:21:49.640 --> 00:21:53.519 O Prophet, peace be upon you, O Messenger, peace be upon you, 260 00:21:53.599 --> 00:21:55.559 O Beloved, peace be upon you, 261 00:21:55.640 --> 00:21:57.640 May Allah's blessing be upon you. 262 00:22:14.400 --> 00:22:18.240 Our Lord! send amongst them a Messenger of their own 263 00:22:18.319 --> 00:22:23.160 who shall rehearse Thy Signs to them 264 00:22:23.599 --> 00:22:28.400 and instruct them in Scripture and Wisdom-- 265 00:22:29.119 --> 00:22:33.279 -And purify them. -And purify them. 266 00:22:34.519 --> 00:22:37.920 For Thou art the Exalted in Might, the Wise. 267 00:22:53.720 --> 00:22:55.079 So, love. 268 00:22:55.720 --> 00:22:57.079 Welcome to Jordan. 269 00:22:58.960 --> 00:23:01.319 You can leave the camera there. 270 00:23:01.799 --> 00:23:06.359 Where it totally doesn't smell of gas. And it's not cold. 271 00:23:06.440 --> 00:23:08.960 Totally not dirty either, yay! 272 00:23:10.759 --> 00:23:12.240 Let's party! 273 00:23:57.519 --> 00:24:00.240 - Are you cold? - No, just my legs. 274 00:24:03.759 --> 00:24:06.119 Why don't you put on an extra layer? 275 00:24:40.960 --> 00:24:45.839 - Can't manage with your scarf? - I always pull it too tight. 276 00:24:46.319 --> 00:24:49.839 Theirs look loose, I don't know how they do it. 277 00:24:51.039 --> 00:24:52.359 You'll learn, love. 278 00:24:52.759 --> 00:24:55.680 See, they only wrap one end around! 279 00:24:56.440 --> 00:24:57.799 All of them. 280 00:25:02.839 --> 00:25:05.640 How do you feel wearing the scarf here? 281 00:25:05.960 --> 00:25:07.160 Normal. 282 00:25:08.839 --> 00:25:12.079 Here, I'd feel odd if I wasn't wearing one. 283 00:25:12.680 --> 00:25:15.039 So the place gives you motivation? 284 00:25:15.359 --> 00:25:16.559 A lot. 285 00:25:17.720 --> 00:25:21.599 Here, if you see someone without a scarf, you do a double-take. 286 00:25:21.960 --> 00:25:24.039 "Why isn't she wearing one?" 287 00:25:52.799 --> 00:25:54.920 He told me to try cow's tongue. 288 00:25:56.319 --> 00:25:59.160 "Coffee" isqahuwa. 289 00:25:59.799 --> 00:26:04.200 -Qahuwati , "your coffee", for women. - Andqahuwatuke for men. 290 00:26:17.720 --> 00:26:23.519 ...not of those who have earned Your anger or of those who are astray. 291 00:26:24.480 --> 00:26:25.759 Amen. 292 00:26:31.720 --> 00:26:37.480 Remember, O Prophet, when your Lord said to the angels, 293 00:26:38.960 --> 00:26:41.240 "I am going to create a human being 294 00:26:41.319 --> 00:26:43.519 "from sounding clay moulded from black mud." 295 00:26:43.599 --> 00:26:47.519 I believe that each woman deserves a man. 296 00:26:48.759 --> 00:26:51.119 Why does she deserve a man? 297 00:26:51.519 --> 00:26:54.039 Is he a piece of cake? 298 00:26:54.559 --> 00:26:56.079 To cut it? 299 00:26:56.160 --> 00:26:58.559 No, he's a man. He can give her... 300 00:26:58.640 --> 00:27:00.839 He can give another one the same. 301 00:27:01.240 --> 00:27:03.519 The Prophet had 13 women! 302 00:27:03.599 --> 00:27:06.839 - Not at the same time. - Yeah, the same time! 303 00:27:06.920 --> 00:27:10.440 Yes, Prophet Muhammad had 13 wives 304 00:27:11.079 --> 00:27:16.759 and he treated all good, and he loved them all together. 305 00:27:17.160 --> 00:27:18.720 He can do that. 306 00:27:19.079 --> 00:27:22.720 The man, God created him to love four women. 307 00:27:24.000 --> 00:27:27.359 Yes, yes, God created him like that. 308 00:27:28.599 --> 00:27:31.079 Every woman must believe that 309 00:27:31.160 --> 00:27:34.640 and not discuss anything more about this matter. 310 00:27:36.039 --> 00:27:38.200 Do you believe you can love four women? 311 00:27:38.279 --> 00:27:39.279 Yeah! 312 00:27:40.200 --> 00:27:42.039 I told you! 313 00:27:43.440 --> 00:27:45.319 But why is it like this? 314 00:27:45.400 --> 00:27:47.400 Why do all men-- 315 00:27:47.480 --> 00:27:50.279 No, who told you all men? No. 316 00:27:50.880 --> 00:27:56.799 Our fathers, our uncles, they didn't love anyone else. 317 00:27:57.759 --> 00:27:59.599 Except our mothers. 318 00:28:00.000 --> 00:28:01.640 They didn't. Why? 319 00:28:02.000 --> 00:28:06.880 Because our mothers were very gentle, very good, very nice 320 00:28:07.920 --> 00:28:09.440 for the husband. 321 00:28:10.039 --> 00:28:12.359 Maybe she didn't know how, or... 322 00:28:13.160 --> 00:28:16.440 She didn't know how to treat him like this. 323 00:28:17.519 --> 00:28:20.960 They were not created to love four women? 324 00:28:21.559 --> 00:28:22.799 No, no. 325 00:28:24.720 --> 00:28:27.279 You can't love four men, can you? 326 00:28:29.160 --> 00:28:30.799 It's hard to love one! 327 00:28:31.680 --> 00:28:33.640 It's good to love one! 328 00:28:37.640 --> 00:28:39.880 I like it when it's louder. 329 00:28:44.279 --> 00:28:47.440 This is one of the things I missed the most. 330 00:28:48.559 --> 00:28:50.359 Hearing the Adhan? 331 00:28:52.000 --> 00:28:52.920 Yes. 332 00:29:02.000 --> 00:29:05.440 May the peace and mercy of Allah be with you. 333 00:29:06.160 --> 00:29:09.599 May the peace and mercy of Allah be with you. 334 00:29:12.079 --> 00:29:14.000 I seek forgiveness from Allah. 335 00:29:25.079 --> 00:29:26.920 I don't get it. 336 00:29:27.839 --> 00:29:29.559 Why do you feel ugly? 337 00:29:29.640 --> 00:29:33.119 The very purpose of the hijab is to cover your beauty, 338 00:29:33.200 --> 00:29:37.240 so you don't draw the attention of other men, that's the idea. 339 00:29:37.599 --> 00:29:40.720 That's not true, you don't have to feel ugly. 340 00:29:41.680 --> 00:29:46.759 Love, you wear the hijab to hide from the gaze of men. 341 00:29:47.680 --> 00:29:48.720 Right. 342 00:29:50.160 --> 00:29:52.559 - Does that make sense? - Of ocurse. 343 00:29:53.440 --> 00:29:56.680 I don't think you're ugly with a scarf over your head. 344 00:29:57.200 --> 00:29:58.599 Then it's all good. 345 00:29:58.680 --> 00:30:00.720 I can't find you ugly. 346 00:30:13.440 --> 00:30:14.839 How are you feeling? 347 00:30:14.920 --> 00:30:16.079 Wonderful! 348 00:30:19.799 --> 00:30:21.640 What am I supposed to say? 349 00:30:25.079 --> 00:30:29.480 If you don't want to have children in Jordan, why not move away? 350 00:30:29.559 --> 00:30:32.359 Isn't that what we're trying to do? 351 00:30:32.680 --> 00:30:34.519 You said you like it here. 352 00:30:34.920 --> 00:30:37.799 For now, I like it here. 353 00:30:38.559 --> 00:30:40.440 Do we have a choice? 354 00:30:40.519 --> 00:30:42.920 We can go anywhere we want. 355 00:30:44.720 --> 00:30:48.359 You tell me, what are our choices now? 356 00:30:49.680 --> 00:30:53.880 Rather than getting cold sores from head to toe, 357 00:30:54.200 --> 00:30:56.720 I'd rather go home and have my peace. 358 00:30:57.359 --> 00:31:00.200 Don't tell me you want to stay. 359 00:31:00.279 --> 00:31:03.279 I didn't say that, I just don't want to go back home! 360 00:31:03.599 --> 00:31:06.319 - We'll have to go back. - Only to visit. 361 00:31:06.400 --> 00:31:08.359 - No, not to visit. - Why, then? 362 00:31:08.680 --> 00:31:11.920 Many reasons. For one, I miss my family. 363 00:31:12.000 --> 00:31:15.400 Also my contracts. We have to go back soon. 364 00:31:16.440 --> 00:31:20.119 You think I'm happy in this dingy apartment? 365 00:31:21.680 --> 00:31:23.920 But it's all we have now. 366 00:31:28.359 --> 00:31:31.720 We should be glad we have each other. 367 00:31:31.799 --> 00:31:35.000 - I'm glad for that. - Me too. Come here. 368 00:32:09.920 --> 00:32:10.880 You don't want? 369 00:32:23.119 --> 00:32:24.960 You finished with this? Not yet? 370 00:32:25.480 --> 00:32:27.200 Not yet, but you can take it. 371 00:32:27.279 --> 00:32:30.160 You can take it, I can cut it in my hand. 372 00:32:31.440 --> 00:32:32.440 No problem. 373 00:32:58.279 --> 00:33:02.000 Usually people who decide to do home schooling do it themselves. 374 00:33:06.400 --> 00:33:08.720 All this travel from one place to another... 375 00:33:10.079 --> 00:33:13.400 Being in Romania, at the beginning, this was 10 years ago. 376 00:33:14.640 --> 00:33:15.640 In 2009. 377 00:33:20.559 --> 00:33:24.119 I converted there, I was fasting the first Ramadan. 378 00:33:24.599 --> 00:33:26.200 Well, half of it there. 379 00:33:26.279 --> 00:33:28.039 And after the second Ramadan, 380 00:33:28.680 --> 00:33:29.720 I was very... 381 00:33:31.720 --> 00:33:33.720 ...confused in Romania. 382 00:33:34.240 --> 00:33:35.240 Why? 383 00:33:35.319 --> 00:33:38.519 Because all my friends told me that I was crazy. 384 00:33:39.440 --> 00:33:43.640 My family also was totally against this idea. 385 00:33:44.519 --> 00:33:47.920 They were scared somebody would wash my brain and I would... 386 00:33:48.000 --> 00:33:49.759 become a terrorist. 387 00:33:49.839 --> 00:33:52.440 That is the idea about Islam in Romania 388 00:33:52.519 --> 00:33:53.880 So I said, OK. 389 00:33:54.240 --> 00:33:56.920 I like the Qur'an very much and I want to learn more. 390 00:33:57.000 --> 00:33:58.519 So I came to Jordan. 391 00:33:58.880 --> 00:34:02.279 Here I heard all the different kinds of... 392 00:34:03.720 --> 00:34:05.599 of ideologies, oftariqa. 393 00:34:06.400 --> 00:34:09.719 I was starting from Salafi, Sufism... 394 00:34:10.440 --> 00:34:14.119 All opportunities which I had to go and learn something about Islam, 395 00:34:14.599 --> 00:34:15.639 I was there. 396 00:34:15.719 --> 00:34:17.159 You don't have to judge, 397 00:34:18.239 --> 00:34:22.519 tell anybody "you will go to Hell because you are not like me." 398 00:34:22.599 --> 00:34:26.840 Who are... Who are we to judge anyone? 399 00:34:27.800 --> 00:34:28.840 Of course. 400 00:34:57.000 --> 00:34:59.239 Film them, not me! 401 00:34:59.559 --> 00:35:01.280 I'm filming them too. 402 00:35:42.360 --> 00:35:45.280 - I'm glad we came. - Isn't it awesome? 403 00:35:45.679 --> 00:35:49.360 - Who would have thought? - I never imagined a place like this. 404 00:35:50.039 --> 00:35:54.199 This place exceeded my expectations. 405 00:35:56.159 --> 00:35:57.800 In so many ways. 406 00:36:10.800 --> 00:36:14.480 Stop asking me why I'm wearing the hijab, I have no idea. 407 00:36:18.599 --> 00:36:20.320 How are you feeling in it? 408 00:36:20.400 --> 00:36:21.360 Ugly. 409 00:36:22.360 --> 00:36:24.440 - Then why wear it? - No idea. 410 00:36:25.159 --> 00:36:27.639 Sometimes I feel pretty, sometimes ugly. 411 00:36:28.039 --> 00:36:29.679 But that's not why I wear it. 412 00:36:34.119 --> 00:36:35.960 Doesn't beauty come from inside? 413 00:36:36.400 --> 00:36:39.920 Yes, but I still don't know why I'm wearing the hijab. 414 00:36:40.280 --> 00:36:45.280 Maybe I'm trying to be more respectful to people in these countries. 415 00:37:09.599 --> 00:37:11.280 Allahu akbar! 416 00:37:20.800 --> 00:37:26.360 It woke me up, I had a nightmare because of it! 417 00:37:26.440 --> 00:37:29.480 - I like it very much. - It's not normal! 418 00:37:29.559 --> 00:37:34.719 Maybe other people don't want to hear the town booming with it at noon. 419 00:37:35.039 --> 00:37:38.199 I don't find that normal. 420 00:37:38.920 --> 00:37:43.840 You're supposed to know when to pray without that song shaking the walls. 421 00:37:44.159 --> 00:37:47.039 I find the atmosphere helps. Others do, too. 422 00:37:47.440 --> 00:37:50.159 Sure, it helps them a lot, with all these wars around! 423 00:37:50.239 --> 00:37:52.679 This faith has helped them so much! 424 00:37:53.000 --> 00:37:56.760 How does it help this nation, this country? 425 00:37:57.079 --> 00:37:59.320 Half the globe is at war. 426 00:38:08.639 --> 00:38:10.280 I change every day. 427 00:38:12.159 --> 00:38:14.000 Everyone changes every day. 428 00:38:15.159 --> 00:38:16.880 I change every day too. 429 00:38:17.840 --> 00:38:21.559 It's normal. Change is part of our evolution. 430 00:38:36.960 --> 00:38:38.920 How many kilos are we allowed? 431 00:38:39.719 --> 00:38:40.639 Eight. 432 00:39:15.840 --> 00:39:19.880 It's been forever, you strangers! 433 00:39:22.079 --> 00:39:25.840 You forgot your poor old mum and dad. 434 00:39:30.119 --> 00:39:32.239 I was forced to go to church. 435 00:39:32.559 --> 00:39:34.960 Who forced you? God? 436 00:39:35.039 --> 00:39:38.559 People kept sending me to church, but I'm not religious. 437 00:39:38.960 --> 00:39:41.760 Then you still have some work to do, son. 438 00:39:43.400 --> 00:39:48.199 - This chapter isn't finished. - I only believe in God, not in priests. 439 00:39:48.280 --> 00:39:50.360 Who believes in priests? 440 00:39:52.800 --> 00:39:55.280 See how it comes to conflicts? 441 00:39:55.360 --> 00:39:56.440 How? 442 00:39:58.039 --> 00:40:01.519 Because each person fights for their point of view. 443 00:40:01.960 --> 00:40:04.039 Talking religion gets you nowhere. 444 00:40:04.119 --> 00:40:07.000 People stick to their point of view 445 00:40:07.079 --> 00:40:10.840 and they defend it to the bitter end. 446 00:40:10.920 --> 00:40:13.599 Everyone sticks to their own. 447 00:40:17.079 --> 00:40:19.880 So it's best not to mention religion. 448 00:40:19.960 --> 00:40:21.159 Not true! 449 00:40:21.239 --> 00:40:24.440 With my friends, I could talk religion until morning. 450 00:40:24.519 --> 00:40:27.559 We'd ask "Why is God so and so?" until dawn. 451 00:40:28.159 --> 00:40:30.000 We never reached a consensus. 452 00:40:30.079 --> 00:40:32.599 - This subject is-- - Taboo! 453 00:40:32.679 --> 00:40:36.880 It's to live and die for, we're born with it. 454 00:40:37.280 --> 00:40:40.880 You can't avoid it, God help you if you do. 455 00:40:41.679 --> 00:40:44.320 "God help you" is about faith too. 456 00:40:45.039 --> 00:40:48.119 God help you if don't believe! 457 00:40:48.840 --> 00:40:50.440 I just said I believe. 458 00:40:50.519 --> 00:40:52.679 You just can't get it right! 459 00:40:53.039 --> 00:40:55.679 Did I say I wanted water in my wine? 460 00:40:56.519 --> 00:40:59.719 - What's this? - Red wine and water. 461 00:41:00.199 --> 00:41:01.840 And what did I say? 462 00:41:01.920 --> 00:41:04.800 - Red wine and water. - I said white, no water. 463 00:41:05.480 --> 00:41:07.840 You brought me the exact opposite! 464 00:41:09.840 --> 00:41:15.280 To us, One means One. God can't be both in Earth and in Heaven, 465 00:41:15.360 --> 00:41:16.800 both spirit and flesh. 466 00:41:17.119 --> 00:41:21.599 Yes, God is God and the Son of God is the Son of God. 467 00:41:22.719 --> 00:41:27.480 I respect you and I don't want to start a polemic. 468 00:41:28.559 --> 00:41:34.239 Through your culture and education you can try to convince me. 469 00:41:34.639 --> 00:41:36.760 It's not that you're against me, 470 00:41:36.840 --> 00:41:39.800 you can just try to explain, 471 00:41:39.880 --> 00:41:43.480 bring arguments to show what I'm saying is wrong. 472 00:41:43.880 --> 00:41:46.800 Actually, what Orthodox Christianity says. 473 00:41:47.280 --> 00:41:48.480 Not me personally. 474 00:41:48.880 --> 00:41:53.920 I understand, but after being a Christian for so many years, 475 00:41:54.000 --> 00:41:55.840 being educated as one-- 476 00:41:55.920 --> 00:41:59.320 You mean an Eastern Orthodox Christian. 477 00:41:59.400 --> 00:42:02.039 To me, Christianity is all the same. 478 00:42:02.119 --> 00:42:05.679 Orthodox, Catholic, Baptist, Pentecostal. 479 00:42:06.159 --> 00:42:10.320 Any religion believing in Jesus and celebrating Christmas and Easter 480 00:42:11.000 --> 00:42:11.920 is Christian. 481 00:42:17.440 --> 00:42:21.159 So do they pray morning, noon, and evening? 482 00:42:21.719 --> 00:42:24.480 Five times, they're compulsory. 483 00:42:29.039 --> 00:42:31.440 Don't they have jobs? 484 00:42:32.639 --> 00:42:37.119 The Qur'an says work is important and you shouldn't be lazy. 485 00:42:37.199 --> 00:42:41.119 You keep it balanced. Work with 10-minute prayer breaks. 486 00:42:41.440 --> 00:42:43.239 Then it's back to work. 487 00:42:45.360 --> 00:42:47.360 They don't pray all day long. 488 00:42:47.440 --> 00:42:50.880 They need to support their families too. 489 00:42:51.920 --> 00:42:53.000 I see. 490 00:42:53.679 --> 00:42:57.159 Serves you right. Told you not to go outside. 491 00:42:58.639 --> 00:43:00.519 You did it to yourself. 492 00:43:06.880 --> 00:43:08.639 Happy holidays! 493 00:43:09.119 --> 00:43:10.599 Thank you. 494 00:43:20.440 --> 00:43:24.000 Alif Lam Mim. 495 00:43:26.599 --> 00:43:30.039 This Book, there is no doubt in it, is a guide 496 00:43:30.599 --> 00:43:34.000 to those who guard against evil. 497 00:43:34.320 --> 00:43:37.320 Those who believe in the unseen... 498 00:43:48.719 --> 00:43:50.159 It's so big. 499 00:43:58.760 --> 00:44:00.159 Got your desk? 500 00:44:00.960 --> 00:44:03.000 Now I can get down to work! 501 00:44:04.440 --> 00:44:06.599 - Get cracking! - Alhamdulillah. 502 00:44:06.920 --> 00:44:10.440 - After a well-earned break. - Want coffee? 503 00:44:20.639 --> 00:44:21.960 Show it to the camera. 504 00:44:58.960 --> 00:45:00.239 Are you alright? 505 00:45:01.000 --> 00:45:03.639 This can hold me, I don't know about you. 506 00:45:04.360 --> 00:45:06.199 I used to jump down as a kid. 507 00:45:06.280 --> 00:45:08.559 You're not a kid anymore. Pass the camera. 508 00:45:08.639 --> 00:45:09.880 Just go on. 509 00:45:16.079 --> 00:45:17.039 There. 510 00:45:17.480 --> 00:45:19.800 Do we carry these over? 511 00:45:19.880 --> 00:45:22.119 - To the stable? - Yes, put it down there. 512 00:45:47.960 --> 00:45:49.760 I'll just go out. 513 00:45:51.000 --> 00:45:53.559 She doesn't like her. 514 00:45:54.119 --> 00:45:57.800 She says you should leave her and find a nice girl. 515 00:45:58.159 --> 00:46:04.239 She has a friend with a 24-year-old daughter for you. 516 00:46:05.320 --> 00:46:08.159 She thinks Alexandra is lazy. 517 00:46:09.400 --> 00:46:11.239 That's not true. Grandma. 518 00:46:11.880 --> 00:46:14.760 She did the same with my previous marriage. 519 00:46:16.079 --> 00:46:18.039 It's always the same. 520 00:46:18.519 --> 00:46:19.880 Know what I mean? 521 00:46:20.400 --> 00:46:23.599 - She heard she's a Gypsy. - That's not true! 522 00:46:24.400 --> 00:46:25.840 That's what she says! 523 00:46:28.239 --> 00:46:29.519 She also says... 524 00:46:32.000 --> 00:46:34.760 You know what? I'm done talking. 525 00:46:37.400 --> 00:46:40.239 In the name of God the Merciful, the Compassionate. 526 00:46:41.719 --> 00:46:44.480 The Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful, 527 00:46:45.440 --> 00:46:49.239 Sovereign of the Day of Recompense. 528 00:47:10.199 --> 00:47:14.679 I told you we can't be happy until your parents accept us! 529 00:47:14.760 --> 00:47:16.599 I told you a thousand times! 530 00:47:25.559 --> 00:47:27.280 So what do you suggest? 531 00:47:27.360 --> 00:47:31.559 You're abandoning us, Daniel! I hope you're proud of yourself! 532 00:47:31.960 --> 00:47:35.440 Tell her the truth: I don't want to see her again! 533 00:47:35.519 --> 00:47:37.000 Leave her! 534 00:47:37.079 --> 00:47:38.119 What? 535 00:47:38.599 --> 00:47:41.000 Leave her! Divorce her. 536 00:47:41.360 --> 00:47:43.639 That girl is sick! 537 00:47:44.119 --> 00:47:47.559 Send her back to her Gypsy mother. 538 00:47:48.159 --> 00:47:50.079 She's not fit for you. 539 00:47:50.800 --> 00:47:54.159 And how do you know she's a Gypsy? 540 00:47:55.039 --> 00:47:56.239 She is! 541 00:47:56.320 --> 00:47:58.639 - Why do-- - Everyone knows! 542 00:47:58.719 --> 00:48:02.440 All of Cluj knows she's a Gypsy. 543 00:48:03.440 --> 00:48:06.199 She's a sick Gypsy who can't have children! 544 00:48:06.519 --> 00:48:08.719 Send her back to her Gypsies! 545 00:48:09.079 --> 00:48:12.480 Mark my words, if you don't divorce her, 546 00:48:12.800 --> 00:48:16.159 you're not inheriting a dime! 547 00:48:17.159 --> 00:48:19.679 Fine, they can keep their fortune. 548 00:48:19.760 --> 00:48:25.159 I want Romanian grandchildren, not Gypsies. 549 00:48:25.239 --> 00:48:30.880 She'll put everything in her name and you'll be left with nothing. 550 00:48:30.960 --> 00:48:33.079 Divorce her, do you hear me? 551 00:48:33.159 --> 00:48:35.480 Very nice, what can I say. 552 00:48:38.039 --> 00:48:39.639 How very interesting. 553 00:48:44.280 --> 00:48:45.760 Can you hear me? 554 00:48:47.440 --> 00:48:48.440 Hello? 555 00:48:58.679 --> 00:49:01.679 You're upset, I'm upset that you're upset, 556 00:49:01.760 --> 00:49:04.440 and our life is a constant struggle. 557 00:49:06.599 --> 00:49:10.960 I'm not happy, you're not happy, your family is not happy. 558 00:49:15.400 --> 00:49:20.679 We live in constant misery. I don't know how long I can keep it up. 559 00:49:32.239 --> 00:49:36.599 But you still think we're the ones at fault. 560 00:49:37.000 --> 00:49:41.039 If you believe that, you should know what the fault is! 561 00:49:41.400 --> 00:49:45.639 Tell me what I'm doing wrong so I can fix it! 562 00:49:46.000 --> 00:49:49.079 If there's something wrong, let's fix it! 563 00:49:49.480 --> 00:49:54.360 You can't say "we're all guilty" and wait for things to work out! 564 00:49:54.440 --> 00:49:58.719 If you still think we're all at fault, 565 00:49:59.039 --> 00:50:01.400 let's see what we should do! 566 00:50:04.719 --> 00:50:05.719 Come again? 567 00:50:05.800 --> 00:50:09.639 I just think problems are solved with calm and patience. 568 00:50:09.719 --> 00:50:11.480 - Like what? - Everything. 569 00:50:11.559 --> 00:50:14.079 What does that have to do with our discussion? 570 00:50:14.639 --> 00:50:16.840 Well, if we're to... 571 00:50:18.039 --> 00:50:19.880 Let's just think a little. 572 00:50:25.679 --> 00:50:27.599 What's the difference 573 00:50:28.480 --> 00:50:32.760 between being at fault and not being at fault? 574 00:50:35.119 --> 00:50:36.199 None. 575 00:50:42.440 --> 00:50:43.480 Goodnight. 576 00:50:44.519 --> 00:50:47.880 - Answer me. - I said all I had to say. 577 00:50:47.960 --> 00:50:49.599 - Love-- - I'm done. 578 00:50:51.800 --> 00:50:54.039 Well, maybe... 579 00:50:56.039 --> 00:50:57.960 I don't know, Alexandra. 580 00:50:58.559 --> 00:51:01.840 I can't keep doing this, it's pointless. 581 00:51:45.000 --> 00:51:45.960 Alex! 582 00:51:56.639 --> 00:51:57.800 How are you? 583 00:51:59.239 --> 00:52:00.960 Are you coming down? 584 00:52:05.719 --> 00:52:09.320 "We don't go to bed angry!" Were you aware I was upset? 585 00:52:09.400 --> 00:52:14.559 What did you do? You tried to reach out, but couldn't? 586 00:52:14.639 --> 00:52:16.719 You "tried"? Freaking amazing! 587 00:52:17.320 --> 00:52:20.320 I was a bit miffed that you got angry. 588 00:52:21.000 --> 00:52:25.480 - You're the one who's miffed? - What's the point of this? 589 00:52:25.559 --> 00:52:27.519 What do you mean, what's the point? 590 00:52:27.840 --> 00:52:30.960 We have to solve the issue once and for all! 591 00:52:31.400 --> 00:52:33.800 What's the point of these arguments? 592 00:52:33.880 --> 00:52:37.719 The point is for you to understand! 593 00:52:38.119 --> 00:52:44.079 So we're not back to the same shit day after day, forever! 594 00:52:45.920 --> 00:52:49.360 Is it so hard to love a woman? 595 00:52:49.440 --> 00:52:53.000 When all she asks for is some comfort? 596 00:52:53.079 --> 00:52:56.440 At least a kiss, it's all she asks! 597 00:52:56.880 --> 00:53:00.400 If you've made her upset, at least go hug her! 598 00:53:01.000 --> 00:53:03.559 How many times do I have to explain? 599 00:53:03.639 --> 00:53:08.199 How proud can you be, letting me lie there like a rag? 600 00:53:08.559 --> 00:53:11.159 After what happened the other day! 601 00:53:11.239 --> 00:53:16.199 You're too proud to do anything! And then you blame it all on me! 602 00:53:17.599 --> 00:53:20.880 Why do we have to go through this? 603 00:53:45.320 --> 00:53:51.039 I gather you're leaving for a long time, since you're taking all your teas. 604 00:53:54.880 --> 00:53:58.440 You really had to empty out the fridge and pantry? 605 00:53:58.880 --> 00:54:02.519 Don't worry, I've left you enough. 606 00:54:03.079 --> 00:54:05.400 So you're not coming back anytime soon? 607 00:54:07.400 --> 00:54:10.559 - That garbage won't take itself out. - Say what? 608 00:54:12.679 --> 00:54:16.159 - What were you saying? - You didn't even take out the garbage. 609 00:54:16.480 --> 00:54:20.400 I will, don't worry, I'm sure I'm capable. 610 00:54:22.320 --> 00:54:26.800 I've done a lot today, in case you haven't noticed. 611 00:54:27.239 --> 00:54:31.599 - Now you can do whatever you want. - I could do that before too. 612 00:54:36.079 --> 00:54:39.400 I'll have time to take out the garbage too. 613 00:55:07.159 --> 00:55:09.760 - What now? - It's my home too. 614 00:55:10.199 --> 00:55:14.559 - If it's yours, live in it! - I can come and go whenever I want. 615 00:55:15.239 --> 00:55:16.480 - Really? - Yes. 616 00:55:21.559 --> 00:55:25.000 What am I supposed to understand? Where are you going? 617 00:55:25.400 --> 00:55:28.239 - I'm still considering. - Considering? 618 00:55:28.320 --> 00:55:32.480 Why do you ask, you won't let me in next time? 619 00:55:33.320 --> 00:55:35.760 I might just not. 620 00:55:35.840 --> 00:55:39.079 I'll come with someone to pick up my stuff. 621 00:55:39.599 --> 00:55:42.199 I won't stop you, don't worry. 622 00:55:42.280 --> 00:55:45.559 Even if we break up, I don't want us to sink so low. 623 00:55:45.639 --> 00:55:47.480 I sure hope so. 624 00:55:48.639 --> 00:55:51.039 So are we breaking up, Alexandra? 625 00:57:10.039 --> 00:57:12.519 It's a risky bet, attempting this. 626 00:57:12.920 --> 00:57:16.159 Saying "we'll cut all ties with them" 627 00:57:16.239 --> 00:57:18.719 would endanger your relationship 628 00:57:18.800 --> 00:57:22.639 and make you feel guilty for abandoning your parents. 629 00:57:22.719 --> 00:57:25.440 - That's what Alexandra wants. - No! 630 00:57:25.519 --> 00:57:28.280 I just want to hear that you love me! 631 00:57:28.360 --> 00:57:32.159 I've never heard you tell her "Mum, I love my wife." 632 00:57:32.239 --> 00:57:34.960 Not once have I heard you say that! 633 00:57:37.360 --> 00:57:42.599 A difficult situation. Daniel, you have my sympathy. 634 00:57:43.039 --> 00:57:47.719 You're between a rock and a hard place. Whatever you do, someone suffers. 635 00:57:48.119 --> 00:57:50.280 I'm just tired of it. 636 00:57:50.760 --> 00:57:56.199 On Sunday, when I saw Alexandra being so hurt, blowing up in anger, 637 00:57:56.639 --> 00:57:59.400 when I saw how much this bothers her... 638 00:58:00.679 --> 00:58:03.400 I don't know how to make it right. 639 00:58:04.199 --> 00:58:08.360 Daniel, you are free. You are not in prison anymore. 640 00:58:08.960 --> 00:58:13.760 You are no longer a prisoner. You are a free man. 641 00:58:14.360 --> 00:58:17.239 The price of freedom is responsibility. 642 00:58:17.320 --> 00:58:22.159 Being free, we are responsible for all we do with our freedom. 643 00:58:22.480 --> 00:58:27.840 Parental love can get in the way of your freedom regarding relationships. 644 00:58:27.920 --> 00:58:30.039 There, you need to draw a line: 645 00:58:30.519 --> 00:58:34.639 I am a grown-up. It will be hard for her to accept. 646 00:58:34.960 --> 00:58:39.519 You will always be her baby, her one-year old, her toddler. 647 00:58:39.599 --> 00:58:41.440 It's how a mother thinks. 648 00:58:41.960 --> 00:58:44.559 You need to show her: "I am man now," 649 00:58:45.000 --> 00:58:49.800 "I am in a relationship with someone I love." 650 00:58:50.760 --> 00:58:54.360 "Please, for my sake, respect this person." 651 00:58:54.719 --> 00:58:56.079 You know what I mean? 652 00:59:08.960 --> 00:59:12.360 Please decide what's best for my wife and me 653 00:59:12.800 --> 00:59:16.119 and if this marriage is good for us. 654 00:59:17.440 --> 00:59:20.840 If You believe we can have a happy marriage 655 00:59:21.239 --> 00:59:22.719 bless it in Your name. 656 00:59:23.079 --> 00:59:25.280 To be an example among people. 657 00:59:25.360 --> 00:59:28.360 Our Lord, give us joy in our spouses and children. 658 00:59:29.280 --> 00:59:33.360 Make us good examples to those who are aware of You. 659 00:59:33.719 --> 00:59:35.440 If it is possible, 660 00:59:35.800 --> 00:59:39.280 please smoothen the path of our marriage. 661 00:59:40.079 --> 00:59:43.039 Help us get over our difficulties 662 00:59:43.119 --> 00:59:46.239 and find a way of communication and understanding. 663 00:59:46.599 --> 00:59:47.679 If not... 664 00:59:49.679 --> 00:59:53.199 Give us both what is better for us. 665 00:59:53.760 --> 00:59:57.039 Please make this separation easy. 666 00:59:57.119 --> 01:00:00.000 And help us continue our lives. 667 01:00:00.360 --> 01:00:01.480 Amen. 668 01:00:01.559 --> 01:00:04.360 There is no God but Allah, with no partner or associate. 669 01:00:04.440 --> 01:00:06.559 To Him belongs Sovereignty and Praise. 670 01:00:06.639 --> 01:00:08.639 He gives life and causes death. 671 01:00:56.039 --> 01:00:58.920 Here I am at your service, O God, here I am. 672 01:01:01.320 --> 01:01:04.440 To You alone is all praise and all excellence, 673 01:01:04.519 --> 01:01:05.760 and to You is all sovereignty. 674 01:01:05.840 --> 01:01:09.800 There is no partner to You. 675 01:01:10.480 --> 01:01:14.360 Here I am at your service, O God, here I am. 676 01:01:15.320 --> 01:01:17.599 You have no other partners. 677 01:01:33.559 --> 01:01:36.159 Allahu akbar! 678 01:01:44.519 --> 01:01:48.840 I bear witness that there is no god but Allah. 679 01:02:51.320 --> 01:02:54.880 I'm so happy to hear it, love! Alhamdulillah! 680 01:02:55.519 --> 01:02:58.719 I feel we've learned something from this. 681 01:03:00.239 --> 01:03:01.800 How do you feel? 682 01:03:04.599 --> 01:03:09.719 We'll meet in a few days,in sha'Allah. I miss you so much! 683 01:03:13.159 --> 01:03:17.840 I would really like for us to see these places together, too. 684 01:03:19.599 --> 01:03:20.960 I really would. 685 01:03:24.639 --> 01:03:26.079 Alright. Love... 686 01:03:27.159 --> 01:03:28.960 Have a nice day, then. 687 01:03:32.079 --> 01:03:33.519 Take care. 688 01:03:33.599 --> 01:03:37.159 I'm so glad I got to start my day with you. 689 01:03:38.159 --> 01:03:39.079 Yeah. 690 01:03:41.679 --> 01:03:43.639 So,alhamdulillah. 691 01:03:44.119 --> 01:03:46.840 We'll talk more when I get back. 692 01:03:47.159 --> 01:03:50.679 But I'm very happy for all that happened and is happening. 693 01:03:51.159 --> 01:03:54.960 May Allah arrange our lives as He knows best. 694 01:03:56.199 --> 01:03:57.480 I love you! 695 01:03:58.920 --> 01:04:00.719 I love you so much! 696 01:04:01.559 --> 01:04:03.760 I'm going to pray a lot for us, 697 01:04:04.519 --> 01:04:06.039 and for everybody else! 698 01:04:33.840 --> 01:04:35.039 Hey, love! 699 01:04:36.920 --> 01:04:39.039 I want you, not the camera! 700 01:04:41.760 --> 01:04:43.119 I missed you! 701 01:04:49.360 --> 01:04:50.880 I missed you so much. 702 01:04:51.360 --> 01:04:54.079 It's like you've been gone a lifetime! 703 01:04:56.480 --> 01:04:58.000 That looks great on you. 704 01:04:58.079 --> 01:04:59.519 - You like it? Yes! 705 01:04:59.960 --> 01:05:01.239 I'm so glad. 706 01:05:01.800 --> 01:05:03.760 - You are beautiful. - Thanks. 707 01:05:08.559 --> 01:05:11.559 Let's take a selfie, since you brought the camera. 708 01:05:15.960 --> 01:05:18.079 - You are my family now. - Really? 709 01:05:18.400 --> 01:05:20.320 - Yes. - I'm so glad. 710 01:05:22.000 --> 01:05:24.880 Beyond that, we'll see about the rest of the family. 711 01:05:29.559 --> 01:05:31.079 - I love you. - Me too. 712 01:05:34.920 --> 01:05:36.760 - Selfie! - Wait, my hat!