1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:09,080 Hi, Mum! 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 4 00:00:10,679 --> 00:00:11,800 How are you? 5 00:00:14,919 --> 00:00:20,399 Yes, I just woke up. Last night I went to see a movie with Daniel. 6 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,600 Yes, the guy who converted to Islam. 7 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:30,800 I don't know. 8 00:00:31,239 --> 00:00:34,520 It's definitely serious to him. 9 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:47,240 I mean, last night... 10 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:50,359 He asked me to marry him! 11 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:04,120 In God's name, do you take Daniel as your husband before God? 12 00:01:04,439 --> 00:01:05,680 I do. 13 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:13,920 In God's name, do you take Alexandra as your wife before God? 14 00:01:14,239 --> 00:01:17,519 In God's name, I take Alexandra as my wife before God. 15 00:01:18,159 --> 00:01:21,879 ...and not those who run astray! 16 00:01:22,239 --> 00:01:25,680 God, bless them with health and happiness, 17 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:29,200 and by Your will may they enter Paradise together! 18 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:33,840 Amen! Much happiness and 10-12 children. 19 00:01:36,799 --> 00:01:39,200 It's done, now they're married! 20 00:01:40,439 --> 00:01:42,120 Do we give her away? 21 00:01:53,799 --> 00:01:56,159 Brother, she fasted every single day! 22 00:01:56,239 --> 00:01:57,879 - For what? - For Ramadan! 23 00:01:58,359 --> 00:02:01,079 - You fasted in vain. - Thought so. 24 00:02:03,159 --> 00:02:05,359 It doesn't count. 25 00:02:05,439 --> 00:02:08,879 If you don't become a Muslim, 26 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,800 your fasting doesn't count. 27 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:16,240 What God wants, really, is for you to say the words 28 00:02:16,319 --> 00:02:20,639 "There is no God but Allah and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah"! 29 00:02:20,719 --> 00:02:23,159 - Otherwise-- - Nothing counts, right? 30 00:02:24,199 --> 00:02:25,800 You are lost. 31 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,439 Hell will eat you alive! 32 00:02:37,039 --> 00:02:40,120 I never heard someone speak Arabic. 33 00:02:40,199 --> 00:02:43,800 When I heard you reciting the Qur'an and saw you praying, 34 00:02:43,879 --> 00:02:46,120 I didn't understand what was going on. 35 00:02:46,479 --> 00:02:50,800 Your eyes were closed, then open, you bowed to the floor. 36 00:02:51,599 --> 00:02:54,039 I thought "I never saw that in my life!" 37 00:02:54,479 --> 00:02:58,719 I had never seen a Muslim praying, I didn't know how it's done. 38 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:02,759 Did you ever think I could have more wives? 39 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,199 That was a tough one. 40 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:21,879 my muslim husband 41 00:03:28,599 --> 00:03:30,240 Allahu akbar! 42 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,199 Allah hears whoever praises Him. 43 00:03:53,599 --> 00:03:55,759 Look, Daniel is spying on us! 44 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:00,360 I would like to better understand the purpose 45 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,680 for which the hijab was introduced 46 00:04:06,039 --> 00:04:09,400 and whether it still serves the same purpose today. 47 00:04:09,759 --> 00:04:13,080 In short, why a Muslim woman should wear the hijab. 48 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,720 Basically, covering the head is mandatory. 49 00:04:17,319 --> 00:04:18,720 However, 50 00:04:19,879 --> 00:04:22,480 the way this is put to practice 51 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:28,759 differs from one situation to another, 52 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,560 from one context to another. 53 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,000 In Europe, let's say, 54 00:04:36,959 --> 00:04:42,160 the hijab may look different from the ones in Muslim countries. 55 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:47,240 There may be small differences. That's acceptable. 56 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:53,519 There are situations where you can't wear a hijab at work. 57 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:58,279 You put this on your forehead. 58 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:02,639 That's ok. 59 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,199 And now you pull it up. 60 00:05:08,639 --> 00:05:10,360 And you pin it closed here. 61 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:13,040 - Like this? - Yes. 62 00:05:14,879 --> 00:05:16,800 I feel so strange already! 63 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,759 You want to try this one? You look so beautiful. 64 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:25,639 The hijab isn't just about covering your head, 65 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:31,000 You must also have a decent outfit, not too tight, 66 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:36,040 You must be modest from head to toe. 67 00:05:36,439 --> 00:05:38,759 The same is required of men. 68 00:05:39,959 --> 00:05:42,480 It's so pretty, just like blonde hair. 69 00:05:42,959 --> 00:05:44,759 Such a pretty little scarf. 70 00:05:46,439 --> 00:05:48,160 Look how pretty. 71 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:49,959 I feel like a saint. 72 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:56,120 I feel like I'm not allowed to do anything wrong now. 73 00:05:57,879 --> 00:05:59,319 No, only good things. 74 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:01,439 You just can't! 75 00:06:01,519 --> 00:06:04,839 You can be very cheerful and pretty with a hijab. 76 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:09,279 My, aren't you a pretty one. 77 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,240 They say you can't get married if you can't cooksarmale. 78 00:06:24,319 --> 00:06:26,600 - Have you cooked sarmale before? - Yes. 79 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,720 - Really, you have? - Yes. 80 00:06:29,079 --> 00:06:30,079 When? 81 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,000 One time, when I was little. 82 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:41,759 Love, these are the first sarmale you've cooked for me. 83 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:43,560 You'll love them. 84 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:45,879 I'm so proud of you! 85 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:49,879 Can't have Christmas withoutsarmale ! 86 00:06:51,319 --> 00:06:54,480 If you like them, I can make them more often. 87 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:59,720 I don't celebrate Christmas, so any occasion is as good as the next. 88 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,560 You're saying I can cook them anytime. 89 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,720 - I should remember this. - What? 90 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:14,600 No chance I'll forget this, I've been at it all day. 91 00:07:34,519 --> 00:07:36,560 I still sometimes think that 92 00:07:37,439 --> 00:07:39,480 this whole Islam thing, 93 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:43,759 and how a Muslim is supposed to behave... 94 00:07:46,399 --> 00:07:47,920 I don't know if I... 95 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:52,000 I hope I can adapt to everything it involves. 96 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:55,120 This is very new to me, 97 00:07:55,639 --> 00:07:59,279 I don't know if I will like all of it. 98 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:17,959 My biggest fear 99 00:08:19,439 --> 00:08:22,560 is about how we'll manage to... 100 00:08:25,879 --> 00:08:28,759 to maintain a good relationship with my parents. 101 00:08:29,759 --> 00:08:31,959 Why would you have any doubts? 102 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:34,600 Past behaviour. 103 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:38,559 Meaning? 104 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:42,320 Meaning that it happened before. 105 00:08:45,279 --> 00:08:48,919 Not meeting their expectations. 106 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:53,159 - Stop thinking about that! - Oh well. 107 00:08:54,799 --> 00:08:56,639 This time it will be different! 108 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:00,360 - In sha'Allah. - Stop thinking about it. 109 00:09:02,919 --> 00:09:07,759 I didn't put on any make-up, just a little concealer around the eyes. 110 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,559 - That's all. - It's still noticeable. 111 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:16,440 What, the make-up or the lack of bags under my eyes? 112 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:23,159 Just a little. 113 00:09:24,279 --> 00:09:25,360 What do you see? 114 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:26,639 You are very beautiful. 115 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,240 - Which part? - All of you. 116 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:30,960 Right or left? 117 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:47,639 It makes no sense, why do people in Mecca fast 12 hours a day, 118 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:52,919 but if you're in Europe, in the Nordic countries, 119 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:56,240 you fast for 18-19 hours a day? 120 00:09:58,279 --> 00:10:02,759 - Why can't we do the same? - Six hours is a big difference. 121 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:05,919 Then we should fast the way they do in Mecca. 122 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,240 I don't want to do it wrong, 123 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:13,240 but I also don't want to be in this state where I'm like a vegetable. 124 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:17,039 So what's best, doing the full fast and feeling like a vegetable, 125 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:20,519 or fasting for less time, but still being able to be productive? 126 00:10:21,919 --> 00:10:27,240 It depends on the sun, I can't just make my own religion. 127 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,559 After a good night's sleep, 128 00:11:09,799 --> 00:11:12,120 you wake up with fresh thoughts, 129 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:14,879 and the brain... 130 00:11:18,399 --> 00:11:19,840 The brain is... 131 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:23,399 How to put it? 132 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:27,639 You still think you can have a good relationship with them? 133 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:31,399 Isn't it very sad, not getting along with your own parents? 134 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,879 No! You can't have that if you live in their house. 135 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:36,559 Why can't you see that? 136 00:11:38,919 --> 00:11:41,720 This is normal, didn't you read the Qur'an? 137 00:11:41,799 --> 00:11:44,799 It says you have to be independent from your parents! 138 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,639 Does it say you should live with your parents until 40? 139 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:55,080 - No. - See? 140 00:11:55,159 --> 00:11:59,159 Daniel, I told you time and again if we live here, there will be trouble. 141 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:02,679 I begged you to find a new place, to move. 142 00:12:02,759 --> 00:12:05,200 We knew it would come to this. 143 00:12:05,279 --> 00:12:09,320 What made you think it would turn out different? 144 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,279 See it as a way of protecting your parents. 145 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:15,720 Since they won't be happy with any partner of yours, 146 00:12:15,799 --> 00:12:19,480 you can't possibly share a house with them. 147 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,879 They didn't like it when you were single either. 148 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:26,200 Their problem is with you, not me. 149 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:28,360 Yes, that's true. 150 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:31,679 I've never offended or disobeyed them. 151 00:12:31,759 --> 00:12:34,720 I've always respected them, given them space. 152 00:12:35,039 --> 00:12:37,000 I never fought with them. 153 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,240 I tried to be beyond any reproach. 154 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:44,159 I tried to be unbiased towards them, 155 00:12:44,519 --> 00:12:46,600 I swallowed my pride for them. 156 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:50,559 You fight with them and they give me shit. 157 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:16,120 When you go one way and you hit a wall, 158 00:13:16,639 --> 00:13:22,360 and it happens again, and again, and again, shouldn't you change direction? 159 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:25,240 Doesn't it mean that road is closed? 160 00:13:34,799 --> 00:13:37,960 Alright, we move out as soon as we can. 161 00:13:40,399 --> 00:13:42,679 And, yes, I knew all these things. 162 00:13:43,519 --> 00:13:44,799 I was naive. 163 00:13:52,919 --> 00:13:54,120 Please, calm down. 164 00:13:57,879 --> 00:13:59,080 I love you. 165 00:14:21,039 --> 00:14:25,559 Make sure the chickens don't get out and do exactly as I did! 166 00:14:26,039 --> 00:14:28,639 - Alright. - Dig out the horseradish. 167 00:15:03,279 --> 00:15:05,879 Don't pack so many eggs for me. 168 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:09,000 - I have plenty. - Keep some for yourself! 169 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:13,240 The chickens will start moulting soon. 170 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:17,000 - So keep some. - They're not moulting yet. 171 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:19,200 They've been laying a lot. 172 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:23,399 - I thought you'd be pregnant by now. - God willing! 173 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,279 We don't need to hurry. 174 00:15:30,159 --> 00:15:33,679 Grandma, why should we have children? 175 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:36,480 So she has heirs. 176 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:38,759 Don't say that! 177 00:15:39,559 --> 00:15:40,720 You! 178 00:15:40,799 --> 00:15:42,559 No, he's just asking. 179 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,120 - What for? - Why, you... 180 00:15:45,559 --> 00:15:48,039 - Wretched the childless! - Why? 181 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,360 They leave nothing behind! 182 00:15:50,799 --> 00:15:52,279 Some leave knowledge. 183 00:15:52,639 --> 00:15:55,480 - Like how? - In a book, maybe. 184 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:57,919 Don't say that, Daniel! 185 00:15:58,279 --> 00:16:00,919 Do you even know how much you'll love your child? 186 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:06,320 - I'd be so happy if you had one or two. - I could write a book instead. 187 00:16:07,919 --> 00:16:10,840 The childless are wretched! 188 00:16:10,919 --> 00:16:15,279 - Others have 3 or 4 of them. - So? It's not mandatory. 189 00:16:15,639 --> 00:16:18,120 - You don't want children? - Not right now. 190 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:20,799 - You neither? - I do. 191 00:16:21,159 --> 00:16:23,279 - No, I do. - Do you? 192 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,320 Yes, two at least. 193 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,360 - At least! - Two? 194 00:16:29,799 --> 00:16:31,399 One girl, one boy. 195 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:34,919 - I want to see them before I die! - You will. 196 00:16:36,159 --> 00:16:38,320 But you set conditions for me. 197 00:16:39,039 --> 00:16:45,240 You only want a child if I guarantee I'll stay home and not travel. 198 00:16:45,559 --> 00:16:47,840 Didn't you want the same thing? 199 00:16:47,919 --> 00:16:50,480 You keep saying this, but with conditions. 200 00:16:50,799 --> 00:16:53,039 Conditions we both agree on! 201 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:56,879 - You said you wanted the same thing! - And I do! 202 00:16:57,399 --> 00:17:01,799 But I can't swear I'll never travel anywhere again. 203 00:17:02,159 --> 00:17:03,960 No one said you should. 204 00:17:04,039 --> 00:17:08,000 It was about having a job here, not having to travel all the time. 205 00:17:08,079 --> 00:17:12,359 How long do you think it's OK to be away? 206 00:17:15,759 --> 00:17:18,039 - It depends on-- - On the project? 207 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:22,920 Do you find this normal? Being away 8 times a year? 208 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:25,039 Two weeks each time? 209 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:28,200 If you think that's OK, let's have a child. 210 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:32,039 This isn't about me setting conditions, 211 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:35,039 it's about you spending time with your child. 212 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:36,880 So I'm setting conditions? 213 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:40,720 Because I want my family close? Well, excuse me! 214 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,559 You tell me how you see it. 215 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:54,359 I converted in Romania, but I truly understood Islam after I left. 216 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:55,440 I see. 217 00:17:56,359 --> 00:18:00,720 There, I saw families that were so close, so tight-knit. 218 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:03,640 They had many children, too. 219 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:10,440 It's lovely to see a family of 20 around the table during Ramadan. 220 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:15,519 I was thinking, I don't celebrate Christmas and Easter, 221 00:18:15,599 --> 00:18:18,279 which to them were essential, 222 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:24,559 those holiday times during which families come together. 223 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:31,880 They felt it too, and I felt a stranger in my own country. 224 00:18:33,279 --> 00:18:38,559 It was one of the effects of my conversion. 225 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:45,519 It put a barrier, a chasm between us. 226 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:49,519 I'm sure they feel like they've lost me since then. 227 00:18:50,079 --> 00:18:55,200 I think, for them, that's when this separation started. 228 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,960 And now it got this serious. 229 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,119 How's your health? 230 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:30,920 Good, and how is the family? 231 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,240 We are all good, 232 00:19:34,039 --> 00:19:35,680 and we miss you! 233 00:19:36,039 --> 00:19:40,200 We plan to visit you this winter, but God knows. 234 00:19:41,079 --> 00:19:42,839 We will speak again, with God's will! 235 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:44,839 Again? 236 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:49,799 I wanted to tell you something. 237 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:53,039 I'm going to the warm countries! 238 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,240 No, Mum, not forever! 239 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,480 Daniel wants to show me Jordan 240 00:20:04,599 --> 00:20:06,839 and various places out there. 241 00:20:31,039 --> 00:20:33,599 The people here are kind, 242 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:38,160 I've had many nice experiences in Jordan. 243 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:45,839 Before the wars around here, Jordan was very different. 244 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:49,920 When I first came here, the war in Syria hadn't begun. 245 00:20:52,799 --> 00:20:54,640 It was much better. 246 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,119 Everything was cheaper, 247 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:00,759 people were much kinder, more generous. 248 00:21:00,839 --> 00:21:02,519 How far to Syria? 249 00:21:02,839 --> 00:21:04,319 100 kilometres. 250 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:09,359 - They never get bombed by accident? - They do. 251 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,400 I'm glad we're here, 252 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,759 I'm always happy when I come to Jordan. 253 00:21:19,799 --> 00:21:24,119 - I hope the war never gets here. - Good luck hoping. 254 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,039 - I don't want to imagine it. - Hoping won't help. 255 00:21:28,799 --> 00:21:32,279 Why not consider it, since it could happen? 256 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:34,759 You can't know it will. 257 00:21:34,839 --> 00:21:38,640 Still, you can't think "Oh, war will never come here." 258 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:42,559 "Even though it's raging just a stone's throw from here." 259 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:53,519 O Prophet, peace be upon you, O Messenger, peace be upon you, 260 00:21:53,599 --> 00:21:55,559 O Beloved, peace be upon you, 261 00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:57,640 May Allah's blessing be upon you. 262 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:18,240 Our Lord! send amongst them a Messenger of their own 263 00:22:18,319 --> 00:22:23,160 who shall rehearse Thy Signs to them 264 00:22:23,599 --> 00:22:28,400 and instruct them in Scripture and Wisdom-- 265 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:33,279 -And purify them. -And purify them. 266 00:22:34,519 --> 00:22:37,920 For Thou art the Exalted in Might, the Wise. 267 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:55,079 So, love. 268 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,079 Welcome to Jordan. 269 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,319 You can leave the camera there. 270 00:23:01,799 --> 00:23:06,359 Where it totally doesn't smell of gas. And it's not cold. 271 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,960 Totally not dirty either, yay! 272 00:23:10,759 --> 00:23:12,240 Let's party! 273 00:23:57,519 --> 00:24:00,240 - Are you cold? - No, just my legs. 274 00:24:03,759 --> 00:24:06,119 Why don't you put on an extra layer? 275 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:45,839 - Can't manage with your scarf? - I always pull it too tight. 276 00:24:46,319 --> 00:24:49,839 Theirs look loose, I don't know how they do it. 277 00:24:51,039 --> 00:24:52,359 You'll learn, love. 278 00:24:52,759 --> 00:24:55,680 See, they only wrap one end around! 279 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:57,799 All of them. 280 00:25:02,839 --> 00:25:05,640 How do you feel wearing the scarf here? 281 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:07,160 Normal. 282 00:25:08,839 --> 00:25:12,079 Here, I'd feel odd if I wasn't wearing one. 283 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,039 So the place gives you motivation? 284 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:16,559 A lot. 285 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,599 Here, if you see someone without a scarf, you do a double-take. 286 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,039 "Why isn't she wearing one?" 287 00:25:52,799 --> 00:25:54,920 He told me to try cow's tongue. 288 00:25:56,319 --> 00:25:59,160 "Coffee" isqahuwa. 289 00:25:59,799 --> 00:26:04,200 -Qahuwati , "your coffee", for women. - Andqahuwatuke for men. 290 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:23,519 ...not of those who have earned Your anger or of those who are astray. 291 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:25,759 Amen. 292 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:37,480 Remember, O Prophet, when your Lord said to the angels, 293 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,240 "I am going to create a human being 294 00:26:41,319 --> 00:26:43,519 "from sounding clay moulded from black mud." 295 00:26:43,599 --> 00:26:47,519 I believe that each woman deserves a man. 296 00:26:48,759 --> 00:26:51,119 Why does she deserve a man? 297 00:26:51,519 --> 00:26:54,039 Is he a piece of cake? 298 00:26:54,559 --> 00:26:56,079 To cut it? 299 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,559 No, he's a man. He can give her... 300 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,839 He can give another one the same. 301 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:03,519 The Prophet had 13 women! 302 00:27:03,599 --> 00:27:06,839 - Not at the same time. - Yeah, the same time! 303 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,440 Yes, Prophet Muhammad had 13 wives 304 00:27:11,079 --> 00:27:16,759 and he treated all good, and he loved them all together. 305 00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,720 He can do that. 306 00:27:19,079 --> 00:27:22,720 The man, God created him to love four women. 307 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,359 Yes, yes, God created him like that. 308 00:27:28,599 --> 00:27:31,079 Every woman must believe that 309 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,640 and not discuss anything more about this matter. 310 00:27:36,039 --> 00:27:38,200 Do you believe you can love four women? 311 00:27:38,279 --> 00:27:39,279 Yeah! 312 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,039 I told you! 313 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,319 But why is it like this? 314 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,400 Why do all men-- 315 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,279 No, who told you all men? No. 316 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:56,799 Our fathers, our uncles, they didn't love anyone else. 317 00:27:57,759 --> 00:27:59,599 Except our mothers. 318 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:01,640 They didn't. Why? 319 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:06,880 Because our mothers were very gentle, very good, very nice 320 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,440 for the husband. 321 00:28:10,039 --> 00:28:12,359 Maybe she didn't know how, or... 322 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,440 She didn't know how to treat him like this. 323 00:28:17,519 --> 00:28:20,960 They were not created to love four women? 324 00:28:21,559 --> 00:28:22,799 No, no. 325 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,279 You can't love four men, can you? 326 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:30,799 It's hard to love one! 327 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,640 It's good to love one! 328 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,880 I like it when it's louder. 329 00:28:44,279 --> 00:28:47,440 This is one of the things I missed the most. 330 00:28:48,559 --> 00:28:50,359 Hearing the Adhan? 331 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:52,920 Yes. 332 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,440 May the peace and mercy of Allah be with you. 333 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:09,599 May the peace and mercy of Allah be with you. 334 00:29:12,079 --> 00:29:14,000 I seek forgiveness from Allah. 335 00:29:25,079 --> 00:29:26,920 I don't get it. 336 00:29:27,839 --> 00:29:29,559 Why do you feel ugly? 337 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:33,119 The very purpose of the hijab is to cover your beauty, 338 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:37,240 so you don't draw the attention of other men, that's the idea. 339 00:29:37,599 --> 00:29:40,720 That's not true, you don't have to feel ugly. 340 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:46,759 Love, you wear the hijab to hide from the gaze of men. 341 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:48,720 Right. 342 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,559 - Does that make sense? - Of ocurse. 343 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,680 I don't think you're ugly with a scarf over your head. 344 00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:58,599 Then it's all good. 345 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:00,720 I can't find you ugly. 346 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,839 How are you feeling? 347 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:16,079 Wonderful! 348 00:30:19,799 --> 00:30:21,640 What am I supposed to say? 349 00:30:25,079 --> 00:30:29,480 If you don't want to have children in Jordan, why not move away? 350 00:30:29,559 --> 00:30:32,359 Isn't that what we're trying to do? 351 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:34,519 You said you like it here. 352 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,799 For now, I like it here. 353 00:30:38,559 --> 00:30:40,440 Do we have a choice? 354 00:30:40,519 --> 00:30:42,920 We can go anywhere we want. 355 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:48,359 You tell me, what are our choices now? 356 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:53,880 Rather than getting cold sores from head to toe, 357 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,720 I'd rather go home and have my peace. 358 00:30:57,359 --> 00:31:00,200 Don't tell me you want to stay. 359 00:31:00,279 --> 00:31:03,279 I didn't say that, I just don't want to go back home! 360 00:31:03,599 --> 00:31:06,319 - We'll have to go back. - Only to visit. 361 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,359 - No, not to visit. - Why, then? 362 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,920 Many reasons. For one, I miss my family. 363 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,400 Also my contracts. We have to go back soon. 364 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:20,119 You think I'm happy in this dingy apartment? 365 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,920 But it's all we have now. 366 00:31:28,359 --> 00:31:31,720 We should be glad we have each other. 367 00:31:31,799 --> 00:31:35,000 - I'm glad for that. - Me too. Come here. 368 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:10,880 You don't want? 369 00:32:23,119 --> 00:32:24,960 You finished with this? Not yet? 370 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,200 Not yet, but you can take it. 371 00:32:27,279 --> 00:32:30,160 You can take it, I can cut it in my hand. 372 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:32,440 No problem. 373 00:32:58,279 --> 00:33:02,000 Usually people who decide to do home schooling do it themselves. 374 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,720 All this travel from one place to another... 375 00:33:10,079 --> 00:33:13,400 Being in Romania, at the beginning, this was 10 years ago. 376 00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:15,640 In 2009. 377 00:33:20,559 --> 00:33:24,119 I converted there, I was fasting the first Ramadan. 378 00:33:24,599 --> 00:33:26,200 Well, half of it there. 379 00:33:26,279 --> 00:33:28,039 And after the second Ramadan, 380 00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:29,720 I was very... 381 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,720 ...confused in Romania. 382 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:35,240 Why? 383 00:33:35,319 --> 00:33:38,519 Because all my friends told me that I was crazy. 384 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:43,640 My family also was totally against this idea. 385 00:33:44,519 --> 00:33:47,920 They were scared somebody would wash my brain and I would... 386 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:49,759 become a terrorist. 387 00:33:49,839 --> 00:33:52,440 That is the idea about Islam in Romania 388 00:33:52,519 --> 00:33:53,880 So I said, OK. 389 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,920 I like the Qur'an very much and I want to learn more. 390 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,519 So I came to Jordan. 391 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:02,279 Here I heard all the different kinds of... 392 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,599 of ideologies, oftariqa. 393 00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,719 I was starting from Salafi, Sufism... 394 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:14,119 All opportunities which I had to go and learn something about Islam, 395 00:34:14,599 --> 00:34:15,639 I was there. 396 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:17,159 You don't have to judge, 397 00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:22,519 tell anybody "you will go to Hell because you are not like me." 398 00:34:22,599 --> 00:34:26,840 Who are... Who are we to judge anyone? 399 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:28,840 Of course. 400 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,239 Film them, not me! 401 00:34:59,559 --> 00:35:01,280 I'm filming them too. 402 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,280 - I'm glad we came. - Isn't it awesome? 403 00:35:45,679 --> 00:35:49,360 - Who would have thought? - I never imagined a place like this. 404 00:35:50,039 --> 00:35:54,199 This place exceeded my expectations. 405 00:35:56,159 --> 00:35:57,800 In so many ways. 406 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,480 Stop asking me why I'm wearing the hijab, I have no idea. 407 00:36:18,599 --> 00:36:20,320 How are you feeling in it? 408 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:21,360 Ugly. 409 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:24,440 - Then why wear it? - No idea. 410 00:36:25,159 --> 00:36:27,639 Sometimes I feel pretty, sometimes ugly. 411 00:36:28,039 --> 00:36:29,679 But that's not why I wear it. 412 00:36:34,119 --> 00:36:35,960 Doesn't beauty come from inside? 413 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,920 Yes, but I still don't know why I'm wearing the hijab. 414 00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:45,280 Maybe I'm trying to be more respectful to people in these countries. 415 00:37:09,599 --> 00:37:11,280 Allahu akbar! 416 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:26,360 It woke me up, I had a nightmare because of it! 417 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,480 - I like it very much. - It's not normal! 418 00:37:29,559 --> 00:37:34,719 Maybe other people don't want to hear the town booming with it at noon. 419 00:37:35,039 --> 00:37:38,199 I don't find that normal. 420 00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:43,840 You're supposed to know when to pray without that song shaking the walls. 421 00:37:44,159 --> 00:37:47,039 I find the atmosphere helps. Others do, too. 422 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:50,159 Sure, it helps them a lot, with all these wars around! 423 00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,679 This faith has helped them so much! 424 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:56,760 How does it help this nation, this country? 425 00:37:57,079 --> 00:37:59,320 Half the globe is at war. 426 00:38:08,639 --> 00:38:10,280 I change every day. 427 00:38:12,159 --> 00:38:14,000 Everyone changes every day. 428 00:38:15,159 --> 00:38:16,880 I change every day too. 429 00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:21,559 It's normal. Change is part of our evolution. 430 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:38,920 How many kilos are we allowed? 431 00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:40,639 Eight. 432 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:19,880 It's been forever, you strangers! 433 00:39:22,079 --> 00:39:25,840 You forgot your poor old mum and dad. 434 00:39:30,119 --> 00:39:32,239 I was forced to go to church. 435 00:39:32,559 --> 00:39:34,960 Who forced you? God? 436 00:39:35,039 --> 00:39:38,559 People kept sending me to church, but I'm not religious. 437 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,760 Then you still have some work to do, son. 438 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:48,199 - This chapter isn't finished. - I only believe in God, not in priests. 439 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,360 Who believes in priests? 440 00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,280 See how it comes to conflicts? 441 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:56,440 How? 442 00:39:58,039 --> 00:40:01,519 Because each person fights for their point of view. 443 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,039 Talking religion gets you nowhere. 444 00:40:04,119 --> 00:40:07,000 People stick to their point of view 445 00:40:07,079 --> 00:40:10,840 and they defend it to the bitter end. 446 00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,599 Everyone sticks to their own. 447 00:40:17,079 --> 00:40:19,880 So it's best not to mention religion. 448 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:21,159 Not true! 449 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:24,440 With my friends, I could talk religion until morning. 450 00:40:24,519 --> 00:40:27,559 We'd ask "Why is God so and so?" until dawn. 451 00:40:28,159 --> 00:40:30,000 We never reached a consensus. 452 00:40:30,079 --> 00:40:32,599 - This subject is-- - Taboo! 453 00:40:32,679 --> 00:40:36,880 It's to live and die for, we're born with it. 454 00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,880 You can't avoid it, God help you if you do. 455 00:40:41,679 --> 00:40:44,320 "God help you" is about faith too. 456 00:40:45,039 --> 00:40:48,119 God help you if don't believe! 457 00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:50,440 I just said I believe. 458 00:40:50,519 --> 00:40:52,679 You just can't get it right! 459 00:40:53,039 --> 00:40:55,679 Did I say I wanted water in my wine? 460 00:40:56,519 --> 00:40:59,719 - What's this? - Red wine and water. 461 00:41:00,199 --> 00:41:01,840 And what did I say? 462 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:04,800 - Red wine and water. - I said white, no water. 463 00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:07,840 You brought me the exact opposite! 464 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:15,280 To us, One means One. God can't be both in Earth and in Heaven, 465 00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:16,800 both spirit and flesh. 466 00:41:17,119 --> 00:41:21,599 Yes, God is God and the Son of God is the Son of God. 467 00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:27,480 I respect you and I don't want to start a polemic. 468 00:41:28,559 --> 00:41:34,239 Through your culture and education you can try to convince me. 469 00:41:34,639 --> 00:41:36,760 It's not that you're against me, 470 00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,800 you can just try to explain, 471 00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:43,480 bring arguments to show what I'm saying is wrong. 472 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,800 Actually, what Orthodox Christianity says. 473 00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:48,480 Not me personally. 474 00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:53,920 I understand, but after being a Christian for so many years, 475 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,840 being educated as one-- 476 00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:59,320 You mean an Eastern Orthodox Christian. 477 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:02,039 To me, Christianity is all the same. 478 00:42:02,119 --> 00:42:05,679 Orthodox, Catholic, Baptist, Pentecostal. 479 00:42:06,159 --> 00:42:10,320 Any religion believing in Jesus and celebrating Christmas and Easter 480 00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:11,920 is Christian. 481 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:21,159 So do they pray morning, noon, and evening? 482 00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,480 Five times, they're compulsory. 483 00:42:29,039 --> 00:42:31,440 Don't they have jobs? 484 00:42:32,639 --> 00:42:37,119 The Qur'an says work is important and you shouldn't be lazy. 485 00:42:37,199 --> 00:42:41,119 You keep it balanced. Work with 10-minute prayer breaks. 486 00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,239 Then it's back to work. 487 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,360 They don't pray all day long. 488 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:50,880 They need to support their families too. 489 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,000 I see. 490 00:42:53,679 --> 00:42:57,159 Serves you right. Told you not to go outside. 491 00:42:58,639 --> 00:43:00,519 You did it to yourself. 492 00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:08,639 Happy holidays! 493 00:43:09,119 --> 00:43:10,599 Thank you. 494 00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:24,000 Alif Lam Mim. 495 00:43:26,599 --> 00:43:30,039 This Book, there is no doubt in it, is a guide 496 00:43:30,599 --> 00:43:34,000 to those who guard against evil. 497 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,320 Those who believe in the unseen... 498 00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:50,159 It's so big. 499 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:00,159 Got your desk? 500 00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,000 Now I can get down to work! 501 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,599 - Get cracking! - Alhamdulillah. 502 00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:10,440 - After a well-earned break. - Want coffee? 503 00:44:20,639 --> 00:44:21,960 Show it to the camera. 504 00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:00,239 Are you alright? 505 00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,639 This can hold me, I don't know about you. 506 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,199 I used to jump down as a kid. 507 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:08,559 You're not a kid anymore. Pass the camera. 508 00:45:08,639 --> 00:45:09,880 Just go on. 509 00:45:16,079 --> 00:45:17,039 There. 510 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,800 Do we carry these over? 511 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:22,119 - To the stable? - Yes, put it down there. 512 00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:49,760 I'll just go out. 513 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,559 She doesn't like her. 514 00:45:54,119 --> 00:45:57,800 She says you should leave her and find a nice girl. 515 00:45:58,159 --> 00:46:04,239 She has a friend with a 24-year-old daughter for you. 516 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:08,159 She thinks Alexandra is lazy. 517 00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:11,239 That's not true. Grandma. 518 00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:14,760 She did the same with my previous marriage. 519 00:46:16,079 --> 00:46:18,039 It's always the same. 520 00:46:18,519 --> 00:46:19,880 Know what I mean? 521 00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:23,599 - She heard she's a Gypsy. - That's not true! 522 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:25,840 That's what she says! 523 00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:29,519 She also says... 524 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,760 You know what? I'm done talking. 525 00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:40,239 In the name of God the Merciful, the Compassionate. 526 00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,480 The Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful, 527 00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:49,239 Sovereign of the Day of Recompense. 528 00:47:10,199 --> 00:47:14,679 I told you we can't be happy until your parents accept us! 529 00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:16,599 I told you a thousand times! 530 00:47:25,559 --> 00:47:27,280 So what do you suggest? 531 00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:31,559 You're abandoning us, Daniel! I hope you're proud of yourself! 532 00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:35,440 Tell her the truth: I don't want to see her again! 533 00:47:35,519 --> 00:47:37,000 Leave her! 534 00:47:37,079 --> 00:47:38,119 What? 535 00:47:38,599 --> 00:47:41,000 Leave her! Divorce her. 536 00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,639 That girl is sick! 537 00:47:44,119 --> 00:47:47,559 Send her back to her Gypsy mother. 538 00:47:48,159 --> 00:47:50,079 She's not fit for you. 539 00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:54,159 And how do you know she's a Gypsy? 540 00:47:55,039 --> 00:47:56,239 She is! 541 00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,639 - Why do-- - Everyone knows! 542 00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:02,440 All of Cluj knows she's a Gypsy. 543 00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:06,199 She's a sick Gypsy who can't have children! 544 00:48:06,519 --> 00:48:08,719 Send her back to her Gypsies! 545 00:48:09,079 --> 00:48:12,480 Mark my words, if you don't divorce her, 546 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:16,159 you're not inheriting a dime! 547 00:48:17,159 --> 00:48:19,679 Fine, they can keep their fortune. 548 00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:25,159 I want Romanian grandchildren, not Gypsies. 549 00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:30,880 She'll put everything in her name and you'll be left with nothing. 550 00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:33,079 Divorce her, do you hear me? 551 00:48:33,159 --> 00:48:35,480 Very nice, what can I say. 552 00:48:38,039 --> 00:48:39,639 How very interesting. 553 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:45,760 Can you hear me? 554 00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:48,440 Hello? 555 00:48:58,679 --> 00:49:01,679 You're upset, I'm upset that you're upset, 556 00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,440 and our life is a constant struggle. 557 00:49:06,599 --> 00:49:10,960 I'm not happy, you're not happy, your family is not happy. 558 00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:20,679 We live in constant misery. I don't know how long I can keep it up. 559 00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:36,599 But you still think we're the ones at fault. 560 00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:41,039 If you believe that, you should know what the fault is! 561 00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:45,639 Tell me what I'm doing wrong so I can fix it! 562 00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:49,079 If there's something wrong, let's fix it! 563 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:54,360 You can't say "we're all guilty" and wait for things to work out! 564 00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:58,719 If you still think we're all at fault, 565 00:49:59,039 --> 00:50:01,400 let's see what we should do! 566 00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:05,719 Come again? 567 00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:09,639 I just think problems are solved with calm and patience. 568 00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:11,480 - Like what? - Everything. 569 00:50:11,559 --> 00:50:14,079 What does that have to do with our discussion? 570 00:50:14,639 --> 00:50:16,840 Well, if we're to... 571 00:50:18,039 --> 00:50:19,880 Let's just think a little. 572 00:50:25,679 --> 00:50:27,599 What's the difference 573 00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:32,760 between being at fault and not being at fault? 574 00:50:35,119 --> 00:50:36,199 None. 575 00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:43,480 Goodnight. 576 00:50:44,519 --> 00:50:47,880 - Answer me. - I said all I had to say. 577 00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:49,599 - Love-- - I'm done. 578 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:54,039 Well, maybe... 579 00:50:56,039 --> 00:50:57,960 I don't know, Alexandra. 580 00:50:58,559 --> 00:51:01,840 I can't keep doing this, it's pointless. 581 00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:45,960 Alex! 582 00:51:56,639 --> 00:51:57,800 How are you? 583 00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:00,960 Are you coming down? 584 00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:09,320 "We don't go to bed angry!" Were you aware I was upset? 585 00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:14,559 What did you do? You tried to reach out, but couldn't? 586 00:52:14,639 --> 00:52:16,719 You "tried"? Freaking amazing! 587 00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:20,320 I was a bit miffed that you got angry. 588 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:25,480 - You're the one who's miffed? - What's the point of this? 589 00:52:25,559 --> 00:52:27,519 What do you mean, what's the point? 590 00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,960 We have to solve the issue once and for all! 591 00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:33,800 What's the point of these arguments? 592 00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:37,719 The point is for you to understand! 593 00:52:38,119 --> 00:52:44,079 So we're not back to the same shit day after day, forever! 594 00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:49,360 Is it so hard to love a woman? 595 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:53,000 When all she asks for is some comfort? 596 00:52:53,079 --> 00:52:56,440 At least a kiss, it's all she asks! 597 00:52:56,880 --> 00:53:00,400 If you've made her upset, at least go hug her! 598 00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,559 How many times do I have to explain? 599 00:53:03,639 --> 00:53:08,199 How proud can you be, letting me lie there like a rag? 600 00:53:08,559 --> 00:53:11,159 After what happened the other day! 601 00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:16,199 You're too proud to do anything! And then you blame it all on me! 602 00:53:17,599 --> 00:53:20,880 Why do we have to go through this? 603 00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:51,039 I gather you're leaving for a long time, since you're taking all your teas. 604 00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:58,440 You really had to empty out the fridge and pantry? 605 00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:02,519 Don't worry, I've left you enough. 606 00:54:03,079 --> 00:54:05,400 So you're not coming back anytime soon? 607 00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:10,559 - That garbage won't take itself out. - Say what? 608 00:54:12,679 --> 00:54:16,159 - What were you saying? - You didn't even take out the garbage. 609 00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:20,400 I will, don't worry, I'm sure I'm capable. 610 00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:26,800 I've done a lot today, in case you haven't noticed. 611 00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:31,599 - Now you can do whatever you want. - I could do that before too. 612 00:54:36,079 --> 00:54:39,400 I'll have time to take out the garbage too. 613 00:55:07,159 --> 00:55:09,760 - What now? - It's my home too. 614 00:55:10,199 --> 00:55:14,559 - If it's yours, live in it! - I can come and go whenever I want. 615 00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:16,480 - Really? - Yes. 616 00:55:21,559 --> 00:55:25,000 What am I supposed to understand? Where are you going? 617 00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,239 - I'm still considering. - Considering? 618 00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:32,480 Why do you ask, you won't let me in next time? 619 00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:35,760 I might just not. 620 00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:39,079 I'll come with someone to pick up my stuff. 621 00:55:39,599 --> 00:55:42,199 I won't stop you, don't worry. 622 00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:45,559 Even if we break up, I don't want us to sink so low. 623 00:55:45,639 --> 00:55:47,480 I sure hope so. 624 00:55:48,639 --> 00:55:51,039 So are we breaking up, Alexandra? 625 00:57:10,039 --> 00:57:12,519 It's a risky bet, attempting this. 626 00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:16,159 Saying "we'll cut all ties with them" 627 00:57:16,239 --> 00:57:18,719 would endanger your relationship 628 00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:22,639 and make you feel guilty for abandoning your parents. 629 00:57:22,719 --> 00:57:25,440 - That's what Alexandra wants. - No! 630 00:57:25,519 --> 00:57:28,280 I just want to hear that you love me! 631 00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:32,159 I've never heard you tell her "Mum, I love my wife." 632 00:57:32,239 --> 00:57:34,960 Not once have I heard you say that! 633 00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:42,599 A difficult situation. Daniel, you have my sympathy. 634 00:57:43,039 --> 00:57:47,719 You're between a rock and a hard place. Whatever you do, someone suffers. 635 00:57:48,119 --> 00:57:50,280 I'm just tired of it. 636 00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:56,199 On Sunday, when I saw Alexandra being so hurt, blowing up in anger, 637 00:57:56,639 --> 00:57:59,400 when I saw how much this bothers her... 638 00:58:00,679 --> 00:58:03,400 I don't know how to make it right. 639 00:58:04,199 --> 00:58:08,360 Daniel, you are free. You are not in prison anymore. 640 00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:13,760 You are no longer a prisoner. You are a free man. 641 00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:17,239 The price of freedom is responsibility. 642 00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:22,159 Being free, we are responsible for all we do with our freedom. 643 00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:27,840 Parental love can get in the way of your freedom regarding relationships. 644 00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:30,039 There, you need to draw a line: 645 00:58:30,519 --> 00:58:34,639 I am a grown-up. It will be hard for her to accept. 646 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:39,519 You will always be her baby, her one-year old, her toddler. 647 00:58:39,599 --> 00:58:41,440 It's how a mother thinks. 648 00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,559 You need to show her: "I am man now," 649 00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:49,800 "I am in a relationship with someone I love." 650 00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:54,360 "Please, for my sake, respect this person." 651 00:58:54,719 --> 00:58:56,079 You know what I mean? 652 00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:12,360 Please decide what's best for my wife and me 653 00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:16,119 and if this marriage is good for us. 654 00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:20,840 If You believe we can have a happy marriage 655 00:59:21,239 --> 00:59:22,719 bless it in Your name. 656 00:59:23,079 --> 00:59:25,280 To be an example among people. 657 00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:28,360 Our Lord, give us joy in our spouses and children. 658 00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:33,360 Make us good examples to those who are aware of You. 659 00:59:33,719 --> 00:59:35,440 If it is possible, 660 00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:39,280 please smoothen the path of our marriage. 661 00:59:40,079 --> 00:59:43,039 Help us get over our difficulties 662 00:59:43,119 --> 00:59:46,239 and find a way of communication and understanding. 663 00:59:46,599 --> 00:59:47,679 If not... 664 00:59:49,679 --> 00:59:53,199 Give us both what is better for us. 665 00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:57,039 Please make this separation easy. 666 00:59:57,119 --> 01:00:00,000 And help us continue our lives. 667 01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:01,480 Amen. 668 01:00:01,559 --> 01:00:04,360 There is no God but Allah, with no partner or associate. 669 01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:06,559 To Him belongs Sovereignty and Praise. 670 01:00:06,639 --> 01:00:08,639 He gives life and causes death. 671 01:00:56,039 --> 01:00:58,920 Here I am at your service, O God, here I am. 672 01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:04,440 To You alone is all praise and all excellence, 673 01:01:04,519 --> 01:01:05,760 and to You is all sovereignty. 674 01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:09,800 There is no partner to You. 675 01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:14,360 Here I am at your service, O God, here I am. 676 01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:17,599 You have no other partners. 677 01:01:33,559 --> 01:01:36,159 Allahu akbar! 678 01:01:44,519 --> 01:01:48,840 I bear witness that there is no god but Allah. 679 01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:54,880 I'm so happy to hear it, love! Alhamdulillah! 680 01:02:55,519 --> 01:02:58,719 I feel we've learned something from this. 681 01:03:00,239 --> 01:03:01,800 How do you feel? 682 01:03:04,599 --> 01:03:09,719 We'll meet in a few days,in sha'Allah. I miss you so much! 683 01:03:13,159 --> 01:03:17,840 I would really like for us to see these places together, too. 684 01:03:19,599 --> 01:03:20,960 I really would. 685 01:03:24,639 --> 01:03:26,079 Alright. Love... 686 01:03:27,159 --> 01:03:28,960 Have a nice day, then. 687 01:03:32,079 --> 01:03:33,519 Take care. 688 01:03:33,599 --> 01:03:37,159 I'm so glad I got to start my day with you. 689 01:03:38,159 --> 01:03:39,079 Yeah. 690 01:03:41,679 --> 01:03:43,639 So,alhamdulillah. 691 01:03:44,119 --> 01:03:46,840 We'll talk more when I get back. 692 01:03:47,159 --> 01:03:50,679 But I'm very happy for all that happened and is happening. 693 01:03:51,159 --> 01:03:54,960 May Allah arrange our lives as He knows best. 694 01:03:56,199 --> 01:03:57,480 I love you! 695 01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:00,719 I love you so much! 696 01:04:01,559 --> 01:04:03,760 I'm going to pray a lot for us, 697 01:04:04,519 --> 01:04:06,039 and for everybody else! 698 01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:35,039 Hey, love! 699 01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:39,039 I want you, not the camera! 700 01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:43,119 I missed you! 701 01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:50,880 I missed you so much. 702 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:54,079 It's like you've been gone a lifetime! 703 01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:58,000 That looks great on you. 704 01:04:58,079 --> 01:04:59,519 - You like it? Yes! 705 01:04:59,960 --> 01:05:01,239 I'm so glad. 706 01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:03,760 - You are beautiful. - Thanks. 707 01:05:08,559 --> 01:05:11,559 Let's take a selfie, since you brought the camera. 708 01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:18,079 - You are my family now. - Really? 709 01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:20,320 - Yes. - I'm so glad. 710 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:24,880 Beyond that, we'll see about the rest of the family. 711 01:05:29,559 --> 01:05:31,079 - I love you. - Me too. 712 01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:36,760 - Selfie! - Wait, my hat!