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{\an8}EVERYONE ON SET TESTED NEGATIVE
FOR COVID-19
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{\an8}ALL PREVENTIVE MEASURES WERE TAKEN
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{\an8}The Sense Coach.
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LEE SU-GEUN, THE SENSE COACH
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I've never felt this way before.
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{\an8}Let's go. The Sense Coach.
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{\an8}LEE SU-GEUN
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Gosh.
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I heard this spot was quiet.
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I didn't expect to hear applause.
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I guess it's not so quiet here, after all.
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Let's see.
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The water looks clean.
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The fish aren't bad either.
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But they're not moving very much.
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They're all fixed in place.
Is it because the weather is still cold?
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What have I got here?
I heard fish go nuts over these.
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I'm sure this will do. Look at this.
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I paid 680,000 won for this.
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All right. Let's see what will nibble.
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There's one. It seems interested.
Yes, come on.
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It's reacting to the bait.
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It's nibbling at it.
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Gosh. This is it.
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Hold on.
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Yes! Come on!
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It took the bait! It took it!
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Darn, it stole my bait.
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I can't believe he took off
with just the bait.
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I'm sure he knows he has to return it.
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All right. Let's see here.
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What have I caught today? I caught a lot.
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This one's still alive. What is this?
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A sea bass. My goodness.
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It's still alive. Unbelievable.
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I caught a shark in fresh water?
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A halibut, a salmon, a sea bass…
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What's this? What the heck?
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I even caught some English letters.
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Look at this. A Super Junior.
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It's a Super Junior member.
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You like this kind of joke?
What's this, then?
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I've never caught
anything like this before. What is this?
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Do I just put it on like this?
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Testing.
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NongMill Kim!
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{\an8}NONGMILL KIM
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{\an8}-Hello!
-Hello!
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{\an8}The Sense Coach
The Sense Coach
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{\an8}The Sense Coach
He'll coach your senses
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{\an8}Shut your mouths and get in line
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{\an8}The Sense Coach
The Sense Coach
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{\an8}Here to give you advice
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{\an8}I'm a master
With 20 years of experience
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{\an8}Everyone is surprised
Everyone is speechless
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{\an8}Me trying out hip-hop
Makes other rappers salty
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{\an8}Su-geun got my back
Even got me on Netflix
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{\an8}Foreign fans busy translating
Makes me a proud K
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{\an8}Professor Lee shares his wisdom
Hurry up and take notes
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{\an8}Me and my role model's dream
Has finally come true
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{\an8}Hey, bro
Tell me what to do
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{\an8}Hey, bro
Listen up now
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{\an8}Hey, bro
Give me some advice
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{\an8}Hello, everyone
You should greet them first
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{\an8}The Sense Coach
The Sense Coach
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{\an8}The Sense Coach
He'll coach your senses
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{\an8}Shut your mouths and get in line
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{\an8}The Sense Coach
The Sense Coach
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NongMill Kim!
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When I say, "sense," you say, "coach."
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-Sense!
-Coach!
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Despite the pandemic,
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NongMill Kim came
all the way here to help me.
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He even got tested for COVID-19.
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My nose hurt like crazy.
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Please give it up for him.
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-Thank you. This has been NongMill Kim.
-NongMill Kim!
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You'll soon be performing all over Europe.
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Netflix, just you wait!
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People from 190 countries
are watching you right now.
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A lot of people are watching this.
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Anyway, it's time to get started.
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Welcome to Lee Su-geun, the Sense Coach.
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Set the stage!
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{\an8}TRANSFORMING INTO THE SENSE COACH
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{\an8}IS ANYONE CLUELESS ENOUGH
TO NOT BE CLAPPING RIGHT NOW?
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Hello. Welcome, everyone.
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-Hello.
-Hello.
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All right. I'm Lee Su-geun.
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The global company, Netflix, told me
that they have some money to spend.
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That's why I dressed up like this.
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I'm wearing a gold tracksuit.
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It's 18K gold.
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Check out this necklace.
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What does it say? I think it's rented.
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Whatever.
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Also, I'm wearing a gold whistle
since I'm a coach.
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Nice. Isn't it great?
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Anyway… What's this? Take this away.
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Take this away already.
Where are your senses?
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Take it. How could you forget?
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What are you doing?
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Who are you?
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-Goodness.
-Who are you?
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-It's Park Sung-kwang.
-Hello.
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{\an8}PARK SUNG-KWANG
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I'm flexing my crew.
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-There's a celebrity in the crew.
-Hold on.
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Why are you wearing a mic?
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-I thought I was doing this with you.
-I was surprised to see you.
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-You were?
-But when you tripped for no reason,
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I knew you were a comedian.
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I was told to take the bucket,
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-but as a comedian, I had to do something.
-Good job.
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The next comedy show should be yours.
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-Me?
-Yes.
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Then the viewers would think
all Korean comedians are short.
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-You and I are both short.
-Then…
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Someone tall should do it before me.
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Then it's not stand-up comedy.
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-It's sit-down comedy.
-Exactly.
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What's the point? It makes no difference.
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Right. It would be sit-down comedy.
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Anyway, thank you so much.
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-Thank you, Sung-kwang.
-Thank you.
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-Enjoy the show!
-All right.
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-See you.
-Okay.
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Take the bucket and cap with you.
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How is this different from Gag Concert?
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-Sorry.
-Europeans will be shocked.
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-I'm sorry.
-This is stand-up comedy.
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-It should be high-quality.
-Yes, stand-up comedy.
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-You can leave now.
-Okay.
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-Sit back and enjoy.
-I will.
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Thank you so much,
NongMill and Sung-kwang.
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Stand-up comedy shows
usually have a bigger audience.
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You all even got tested for COVID-19
to come and see me.
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-Aren't your seats comfortable?
-Yes.
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Then I guess you won't be laughing a lot.
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I'm on many TV shows these days.
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I took up fishing recently.
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I first learned to fish on the show,
The Fishermen and the City.
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Fishing skills aren't anything special.
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You just need to have a feel for it.
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When a fish is nibbling,
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just notice it and reel it in.
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If Kyung-kyu yells at you
for catching all the fish yourself,
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just stop catching them.
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Then he stops complaining.
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He becomes quiet again.
You have to take a hint.
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{\an8}There is a type of fish
called the barbel steed.
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{\an8}Do you know it? Its name sounds
just like the Korean word for "sense."
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{\an8}You can see it on the screen. Cool, right?
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Only our show can do this.
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It looks like this.
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It's actually a dialectal variant.
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It's often caught in fresh water,
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and it's pretty strong.
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This fish just refuses to take a hint.
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It has a lot of bones
and a really strong fishy smell.
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Once you touch it,
your hands smell fishy for days.
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So when people catch it, they swear at it,
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making it feel uncomfortable.
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Instead of moving its mouth,
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it glances at you.
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That's what it does.
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The reason I brought this up
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is because this fish is just like me.
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Not that I have many bones,
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smell a lot, or am unpopular.
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I'm over 40 now,
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and for most of my life,
I've walked on eggshells around people.
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Do you know who makes me
walk on eggshells the most?
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-Kang Ho-dong.
-Kang Ho-dong.
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You guys answered right away.
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Everybody seems to know.
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It's Kang Ho-dong.
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While I'm a mere barbel steed,
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he is an intimidating amberjack
that's longer than one meter.
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It's massive.
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When you try to reel in this fish,
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it feels like it yells at you.
"Let me go!"
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You can almost hear that. It's that big.
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Recently, I caught an amberjack
that was longer than a meter.
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It was huge. That's what I caught.
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It was on the Christmas special episode.
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Reeling it in was really exhausting.
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Ho-dong is the amberjack of variety shows.
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Not just a regular amberjack,
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but a deadly one.
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His power and strength are no joke.
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I first met him on the show,
2 Days & 1 Night.
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-Two Days!
-One Night!
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You're supposed to say, "Two Days."
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Everyone will know
this was shot in Korea now.
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As you all know,
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everyone on the show was amazing
and they all achieved stardom.
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We camped a lot in 2 Days & 1 Night.
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We basically camped all the time.
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In the end, I got so tired of it
and wanted to try something new.
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So I tried suspending all my activities.
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I thought that'd be better.
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Sung-kwang, you're clapping.
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That's why I left the show.
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At first,
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it was really hard.
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{\an8}On Gag Concert,
everything was already planned.
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{\an8}But on a variety show,
I had no idea what to do.
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During the shoot,
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I couldn't even look at the camera.
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I stared at the amberjack the whole time.
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I kept glancing at Ho-dong
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because I had no idea what to do.
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I decided,
"I'll only do what I'm told to do.
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I won't try too hard to be funny.
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I'll just do my job.
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I can do this."
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One day, the amberjack, Ho-dong,
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complimented me for the first time.
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For my driving skills.
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Some of you probably know.
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"I didn't even notice you brake.
How did the car stop?
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We just turned left,
but I didn't feel a thing.
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How did we arrive
in Gangwon Province so fast?"
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My work vehicle at the time
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was a Carnival,
like many other celebrities.
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The minivan that's very festive.
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I changed cars about six times.
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They would install cameras in my van
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using a lot of duct tape.
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These days, they use better equipment.
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Back then, they used duct tape
for everything.
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And duct tape is impossible
to remove completely.
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Once, I dozed off in my van.
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When I woke up and tried to get out,
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my arm wouldn't move because
it was stuck to the duct tape residue.
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Duct tape can even make
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an unhappy couple
stick together all the time.
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Duct tape really is amazing.
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Since I'm only human,
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I get tired if I drive a lot.
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One day, I'd been driving for many hours.
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But the others in the van…
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What's the point of having cameras?
No one talked to me.
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They were all fast asleep
with their mouths open.
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Eun Ji-won was banging his head
on the window repeatedly,
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but he wouldn't wake up.
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Ho-dong's snores were deafening.
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I was angry. No one said a word to me.
252
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"Do they think of me as their driver?
What's my role in this team?"
253
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The scenery is magnificent
along the Dong River.
254
00:11:56,048 --> 00:11:59,652
But you need to drive carefully,
or else you might fall off the cliff.
255
00:11:59,719 --> 00:12:02,088
I thought, "Should I drive off the cliff?
256
00:12:02,588 --> 00:12:04,390
Then I could become the main host.
257
00:12:04,790 --> 00:12:08,060
I'll cast my six favorite people
and take over 2 Days & 1 Night."
258
00:12:08,127 --> 00:12:09,695
While I was thinking that,
259
00:12:09,762 --> 00:12:11,130
I noticed Seung-gi
260
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in the back seat.
261
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He was sleeping like an angel,
262
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not making a single sound.
263
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I couldn't bring myself to do that
for his sake.
264
00:12:21,607 --> 00:12:24,310
One more thing. I looked at Ho-dong.
265
00:12:24,376 --> 00:12:27,813
Even if we fell off the cliff,
his head is basically a helmet.
266
00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:29,648
So if he survived,
267
00:12:29,715 --> 00:12:32,251
you can guess what would've happened.
268
00:12:32,318 --> 00:12:35,888
I would've wished I was dead
rather than face him.
269
00:12:35,955 --> 00:12:39,625
In the end, I changed my mind
270
00:12:39,692 --> 00:12:42,595
and was able to smile like that again.
271
00:12:42,661 --> 00:12:45,464
You have no idea
how much I drove back then.
272
00:12:45,531 --> 00:12:48,467
I'm sick of driving.
I still try to avoid driving.
273
00:12:48,534 --> 00:12:49,702
Even when I'm not drunk,
274
00:12:49,769 --> 00:12:53,072
I use a chauffeur service
so that I don't have to drive.
275
00:12:53,139 --> 00:12:55,040
After using the chauffeur service so much,
276
00:12:55,107 --> 00:12:56,942
I even ended up being a model for them.
277
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Phone number
That's the same…
278
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-On both sides
-On both sides
279
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That's how it happened.
280
00:13:02,882 --> 00:13:05,818
A person should be the same
on both sides as well.
281
00:13:05,885 --> 00:13:09,088
The thing about Ho-dong is, though,
282
00:13:09,555 --> 00:13:11,357
once someone stands out to him,
283
00:13:11,423 --> 00:13:13,392
he can turn that person into a star.
284
00:13:13,459 --> 00:13:15,895
Remember how he shouted,
"Seung-gi!", all the time?
285
00:13:15,961 --> 00:13:17,696
I also managed to grab his attention.
286
00:13:17,763 --> 00:13:20,132
It was when we were shooting
our very first opening.
287
00:13:20,199 --> 00:13:21,801
We started introducing ourselves.
288
00:13:21,867 --> 00:13:23,469
"Hello, I'm Eun Ji-won."
289
00:13:23,536 --> 00:13:25,504
Seung-gi mentioned his song,
"You're My Girl."
290
00:13:25,571 --> 00:13:29,041
I don't know whether he had a girl or not.
Anyway, it was all going well.
291
00:13:29,108 --> 00:13:31,610
Then it was my turn.
292
00:13:31,677 --> 00:13:33,646
Ho-dong suddenly said, "Everyone.
293
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The greatest comedian of our time.
294
00:13:36,348 --> 00:13:40,386
This amazing man
can make everyone crack up
295
00:13:40,452 --> 00:13:43,556
just by introducing himself.
296
00:13:43,622 --> 00:13:45,524
Let's hear what he has to say.
297
00:13:45,591 --> 00:13:49,028
Everyone, you won't be disappointed."
298
00:13:49,094 --> 00:13:51,697
He was setting me up to fail.
299
00:13:51,764 --> 00:13:54,099
You know what I mean, right?
300
00:13:54,166 --> 00:13:56,302
I broke out in a cold sweat.
301
00:13:56,368 --> 00:13:58,003
I still have nightmares.
302
00:13:58,070 --> 00:14:00,906
But you know what?
I managed to make everyone laugh.
303
00:14:00,973 --> 00:14:04,510
"Howdy, everyone."
304
00:14:04,977 --> 00:14:07,713
That greeting even got me a commercial.
305
00:14:07,780 --> 00:14:10,616
Back then, I was the one
walking on eggshells around Ho-dong.
306
00:14:10,683 --> 00:14:12,318
But these days,
307
00:14:12,384 --> 00:14:14,587
Ho-dong walks on eggshells
around me as well.
308
00:14:14,653 --> 00:14:16,455
"Su-geun, put your hand to your face.
309
00:14:16,522 --> 00:14:18,524
I'll pretend to slap you in the face."
310
00:14:18,591 --> 00:14:20,492
Then he will slap me and I'll fake it.
311
00:14:20,559 --> 00:14:23,162
Before, he would call my name
and just slap me right away.
312
00:14:24,530 --> 00:14:26,599
Now, he's more careful with me.
313
00:14:26,999 --> 00:14:29,702
But if it hadn't been for Ho-dong,
314
00:14:29,768 --> 00:14:32,972
I wouldn't have made it this far.
315
00:14:33,038 --> 00:14:36,141
But most of all,
some of you may remember this.
316
00:14:36,208 --> 00:14:37,843
On 2 Days & 1 Night,
317
00:14:37,910 --> 00:14:41,513
we once went on a retreat
and had tea time together.
318
00:14:41,580 --> 00:14:43,148
And someone brought persimmons.
319
00:14:43,215 --> 00:14:44,884
Instead of eating them right away,
320
00:14:44,950 --> 00:14:46,652
Ho-dong suddenly asked,
321
00:14:46,719 --> 00:14:50,055
"Do any of you know how to say,
'persimmon,' in English?"
322
00:14:50,122 --> 00:14:52,524
If Seung-gi knew the answer, that'd be it.
323
00:14:52,591 --> 00:14:53,859
It wouldn't have been funny.
324
00:14:53,926 --> 00:14:55,961
But even Seung-gi seemed clueless.
325
00:14:56,028 --> 00:14:57,363
No one knew the answer.
326
00:14:57,429 --> 00:15:00,366
I thought this was my chance
to make a joke.
327
00:15:00,432 --> 00:15:02,201
"None of you know the answer?
328
00:15:02,268 --> 00:15:04,370
Repeat after me.
329
00:15:04,436 --> 00:15:07,907
'Bitter.'"
330
00:15:07,973 --> 00:15:10,442
Everyone cracked up.
331
00:15:10,509 --> 00:15:11,744
Ho-dong found it hilarious.
332
00:15:11,810 --> 00:15:13,579
"Then what's 'mandarin' in English?"
333
00:15:13,646 --> 00:15:15,014
"Sour."
334
00:15:15,648 --> 00:15:17,383
"Sour." It was perfect.
335
00:15:17,449 --> 00:15:19,418
I was actually debating
336
00:15:19,485 --> 00:15:23,055
between "sour" and "Jeju."
337
00:15:23,122 --> 00:15:24,089
I couldn't decide.
338
00:15:24,556 --> 00:15:25,858
I can say any fruit names.
339
00:15:25,925 --> 00:15:27,459
What's "watermelon" in English?
340
00:15:27,526 --> 00:15:29,061
In one syllable, "spit."
341
00:15:30,229 --> 00:15:31,764
What else?
342
00:15:31,830 --> 00:15:32,765
-What?
-"Banana."
343
00:15:32,831 --> 00:15:34,166
That's already English.
344
00:15:36,702 --> 00:15:38,470
That's already English.
345
00:15:39,138 --> 00:15:40,940
"Korean melon"? Gosh.
346
00:15:41,006 --> 00:15:42,474
That one is a bit long.
347
00:15:42,942 --> 00:15:44,610
"Seeds in poop."
348
00:15:45,844 --> 00:15:49,148
"Seeds in poop."
That's "Korean melon" in English.
349
00:15:49,214 --> 00:15:51,016
Don't pretend you don't understand.
350
00:15:51,083 --> 00:15:54,219
I've been walking on eggshells
around Ho-dong a lot,
351
00:15:54,286 --> 00:15:58,357
but recently, I've met another person
352
00:15:58,424 --> 00:16:01,894
who makes me walk on eggshells.
353
00:16:01,961 --> 00:16:03,195
Let me show you.
354
00:16:05,431 --> 00:16:06,932
It's this person.
355
00:16:06,999 --> 00:16:09,101
He's extremely poisonous
356
00:16:09,168 --> 00:16:10,869
and always angry.
357
00:16:10,936 --> 00:16:12,304
With his cheeks puffed up,
358
00:16:12,371 --> 00:16:14,440
he's ready to attack you at any moment.
359
00:16:14,506 --> 00:16:16,508
It's comedian Lee Kyung-kyu.
360
00:16:16,575 --> 00:16:18,110
I met him recently and told him,
361
00:16:18,177 --> 00:16:22,715
"I'm doing a stand-up comedy show
with Netflix.
362
00:16:22,781 --> 00:16:25,384
It's called The Sense Coach."
363
00:16:25,851 --> 00:16:28,587
He went, "What? 'Sense Coach'?
What's that?"
364
00:16:28,654 --> 00:16:30,923
He yelled at me
when he could just talk calmly.
365
00:16:30,990 --> 00:16:34,727
I asked him if I could portray him
as a pufferfish.
366
00:16:34,793 --> 00:16:37,629
"No! I'm not an ordinary pufferfish.
I'm a striped pufferfish!
367
00:16:38,497 --> 00:16:40,265
It's delicious.
368
00:16:40,332 --> 00:16:42,234
But its poison can kill you."
369
00:16:42,301 --> 00:16:46,405
He is extremely kind
to the people who are nice to him.
370
00:16:46,472 --> 00:16:49,241
But if you get on his wrong side,
you can get killed.
371
00:16:49,308 --> 00:16:51,610
He's always frowning.
372
00:16:51,677 --> 00:16:52,978
He's always ready to attack.
373
00:16:53,045 --> 00:16:54,880
As if he has duct tape on his forehead.
374
00:16:55,481 --> 00:16:56,615
{\an8}We go fishing together,
375
00:16:56,682 --> 00:16:59,385
{\an8}and everything upsets him.
376
00:16:59,451 --> 00:17:01,186
{\an8}Good weather upsets him,
377
00:17:01,253 --> 00:17:02,621
and rain upsets him, too.
378
00:17:02,688 --> 00:17:04,823
He gets angry at the captain
if fish don't bite.
379
00:17:04,890 --> 00:17:06,025
"Why did you pick today?"
380
00:17:06,091 --> 00:17:07,793
He gets angry if one of us get a hit.
381
00:17:07,860 --> 00:17:08,961
And if we catch a lot,
382
00:17:09,027 --> 00:17:10,763
he's angry his arms hurt.
383
00:17:10,829 --> 00:17:14,400
Sometimes, after being on a boat
for a long time, he gets tired.
384
00:17:14,466 --> 00:17:17,636
Then he makes a joke,
and it's important to notice this.
385
00:17:17,703 --> 00:17:22,207
You have to figure out
whether he's joking or serious.
386
00:17:22,274 --> 00:17:24,443
Since I spend so much time with him,
387
00:17:24,510 --> 00:17:26,478
I can tell right away
if he's joking or not.
388
00:17:26,545 --> 00:17:28,313
While fishing,
389
00:17:28,380 --> 00:17:31,583
he'll suddenly yell at me,
"What are you staring at?"
390
00:17:31,650 --> 00:17:34,653
Then I respond right away.
"What are you staring at?" "Kyung-kyu."
391
00:17:35,120 --> 00:17:37,189
"What are you?" "Your fellow comedian."
392
00:17:37,656 --> 00:17:39,792
"Look at you." "Fine, look at me."
393
00:17:39,858 --> 00:17:41,627
"Look at me." Kyung-kyu cracks up.
394
00:17:43,028 --> 00:17:45,631
He's so happy that I play along with him.
395
00:17:45,697 --> 00:17:47,533
But some people can't tell.
396
00:17:47,599 --> 00:17:51,270
When Kyung-kyu is joking, it shows
because he sounds extra aggressive.
397
00:17:51,336 --> 00:17:53,205
"What are you staring at?" He's joking.
398
00:17:53,272 --> 00:17:55,307
Sometimes, he sounds more serious.
399
00:17:55,374 --> 00:17:57,042
"What are you staring at?"
400
00:17:57,109 --> 00:17:59,445
It means he's not in a good mood
401
00:17:59,511 --> 00:18:02,448
and he genuinely wants you
to stop staring at him.
402
00:18:02,514 --> 00:18:04,516
But some people can't take a hint.
403
00:18:04,583 --> 00:18:06,185
I won't mention names, though.
404
00:18:06,752 --> 00:18:08,120
"What are you staring at?"
405
00:18:08,187 --> 00:18:09,388
"What do you think?
406
00:18:09,455 --> 00:18:13,158
My cornea is scanning you
and I am looking at you.
407
00:18:13,225 --> 00:18:16,762
Do you have a problem with that?"
408
00:18:16,829 --> 00:18:17,663
They say that.
409
00:18:17,729 --> 00:18:21,033
-Ji Sang-ryeol.
-That's right. It's Ji Sang-ryeol.
410
00:18:22,167 --> 00:18:24,570
Then Kyung-kyu says, "What's with you?
411
00:18:24,636 --> 00:18:26,138
We can't even air that.
412
00:18:26,205 --> 00:18:28,240
Are you out of your mind?"
413
00:18:28,307 --> 00:18:30,242
It's important to take a hint.
414
00:18:30,309 --> 00:18:32,945
I'm one of the senior comedians now.
415
00:18:33,011 --> 00:18:36,215
Since I usually appear on TV
with Ho-dong and Kyung-kyu,
416
00:18:36,281 --> 00:18:38,784
you may think I'm still young,
417
00:18:38,851 --> 00:18:40,719
but I'm one of the older ones now.
418
00:18:40,786 --> 00:18:41,954
When I'm shooting,
419
00:18:42,721 --> 00:18:46,325
{\an8}I sometimes have to walk on eggshells
around people younger than me.
420
00:18:46,391 --> 00:18:49,128
{\an8}I often do shows with idol groups.
421
00:18:49,194 --> 00:18:52,898
I usually come to work dressed casually.
422
00:18:52,965 --> 00:18:55,434
But the clothes that younger people wear
423
00:18:55,501 --> 00:18:57,069
look weird to me.
424
00:18:57,136 --> 00:18:58,370
I just don't understand.
425
00:18:58,437 --> 00:19:02,074
They're all designer clothes,
but I don't get it.
426
00:19:02,141 --> 00:19:03,976
Who do you think I'm talking about?
427
00:19:04,042 --> 00:19:06,345
Song Min-ho. I mean MINO.
428
00:19:06,411 --> 00:19:07,779
His clothes look so fancy.
429
00:19:07,846 --> 00:19:09,915
People in their teens and 20s love them.
430
00:19:09,982 --> 00:19:11,517
But I don't get it.
431
00:19:11,583 --> 00:19:13,285
They're all designer clothes.
432
00:19:13,352 --> 00:19:15,053
I greet MINO like this.
433
00:19:15,120 --> 00:19:16,822
"Hey, BB!"
434
00:19:16,889 --> 00:19:17,990
"Hey, BB, what's up?"
435
00:19:18,056 --> 00:19:19,892
He'd ask me, "What does BB mean?"
436
00:19:19,958 --> 00:19:21,426
I'd say, "It means bling-bling."
437
00:19:21,493 --> 00:19:23,362
He wears so much jewelry.
438
00:19:24,530 --> 00:19:27,199
You like that. You must be a fan of MINO.
439
00:19:27,266 --> 00:19:31,003
I thought that since people
of all ages watch our show,
440
00:19:31,069 --> 00:19:33,338
it'd be better if he dressed more neatly.
441
00:19:33,405 --> 00:19:36,842
But if I say, "What's with your outfit?",
he says, "It's my style."
442
00:19:36,909 --> 00:19:41,380
Young people started treating me
the same way I treated Kyung-kyu.
443
00:19:41,446 --> 00:19:43,482
It's a wake up call.
444
00:19:43,549 --> 00:19:46,451
"They all have their own styles.
445
00:19:46,518 --> 00:19:50,088
Instead of finding fault,
I should accept them as who they are."
446
00:19:50,155 --> 00:19:53,058
Back in the day,
it was even more important to take a hint
447
00:19:53,125 --> 00:19:55,327
{\an8}while shooting TV shows.
448
00:19:55,394 --> 00:19:57,996
{\an8}We were supposed to be shooting
a hidden camera show,
449
00:19:58,063 --> 00:19:59,831
but the cameras were all visible.
450
00:20:00,933 --> 00:20:02,334
Then a call came.
451
00:20:02,834 --> 00:20:04,803
"Can you lend me 40 million won?"
452
00:20:04,870 --> 00:20:06,471
Since you can see the cameras,
453
00:20:06,538 --> 00:20:08,774
you say,
"Okay. Send me your account number."
454
00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,009
Who does that?
So you knew what was going on,
455
00:20:11,076 --> 00:20:13,512
but you had to pretend to be oblivious.
456
00:20:13,579 --> 00:20:16,348
Back then, hypnosis shows were common
457
00:20:16,415 --> 00:20:18,116
but they were really awkward.
458
00:20:18,183 --> 00:20:20,152
I know you're laughing
because you remember.
459
00:20:20,219 --> 00:20:23,222
Some other comedians and I
were gathered in the waiting room,
460
00:20:23,288 --> 00:20:24,656
and the producer walked in.
461
00:20:24,723 --> 00:20:27,559
"This hypnotist is incredible.
462
00:20:27,626 --> 00:20:32,130
We tested him, and he managed to hypnotize
all ten crew members.
463
00:20:32,197 --> 00:20:34,166
One of them saw his late mother,
464
00:20:34,233 --> 00:20:36,635
one of them said
she was a princess in her past life.
465
00:20:36,702 --> 00:20:38,403
It worked for all ten of them."
466
00:20:38,470 --> 00:20:39,638
Why did he tell us that?
467
00:20:39,705 --> 00:20:42,541
-So that you play along.
-He was trying to tell us…
468
00:20:43,508 --> 00:20:45,644
to play along.
469
00:20:45,711 --> 00:20:47,579
That's what he was saying indirectly.
470
00:20:47,646 --> 00:20:49,982
I could take a hint,
so I entered the room.
471
00:20:50,048 --> 00:20:51,283
Then it started.
472
00:20:52,351 --> 00:20:53,885
"Look at this marble.
473
00:20:54,953 --> 00:20:58,991
As soon as I say, 'Red sun!',
you'll fall asleep.
474
00:20:59,057 --> 00:21:00,659
Red sun!"
475
00:21:00,726 --> 00:21:02,961
You'd normally fall asleep like this.
476
00:21:03,028 --> 00:21:04,696
But I was overzealous.
477
00:21:04,763 --> 00:21:06,231
"Red sun!"
478
00:21:07,432 --> 00:21:10,335
I dropped my head. All comedians do that.
479
00:21:10,402 --> 00:21:13,005
I couldn't get the producer's face
off my mind.
480
00:21:13,071 --> 00:21:14,473
I wanted to do a good job.
481
00:21:14,539 --> 00:21:16,908
"What kind of questions
will the hypnotist ask?
482
00:21:16,975 --> 00:21:18,110
What should I answer?"
483
00:21:18,176 --> 00:21:20,379
My head was full of these questions.
484
00:21:20,445 --> 00:21:21,913
The hypnotist asked me.
485
00:21:21,980 --> 00:21:25,017
"Su-geun, where are you now?"
486
00:21:25,083 --> 00:21:26,385
"Next to you."
487
00:21:26,818 --> 00:21:28,186
"I'm right next to you."
488
00:21:28,253 --> 00:21:29,354
"Who is with you?"
489
00:21:29,421 --> 00:21:31,590
"Who else? You. It's just the two of us."
490
00:21:31,657 --> 00:21:34,059
If I'd said that,
it would've been hilarious.
491
00:21:34,126 --> 00:21:35,994
But I couldn't.
492
00:21:36,061 --> 00:21:39,931
I told him. "I see a chimney.
493
00:21:39,998 --> 00:21:42,734
Someone is starting a fire
in the furnace."
494
00:21:42,801 --> 00:21:45,337
"Who is that person?"
"I think it's my grandma.
495
00:21:45,404 --> 00:21:48,407
She's crying."
496
00:21:48,473 --> 00:21:50,242
I wasn't under hypnosis.
497
00:21:50,309 --> 00:21:51,910
I was making things up.
498
00:21:51,977 --> 00:21:53,478
He would then ask me more questions.
499
00:21:53,545 --> 00:21:56,381
"Why is she crying?"
500
00:21:56,448 --> 00:21:58,016
"Because of you."
501
00:21:58,083 --> 00:22:00,786
I wanted to say that, but I couldn't.
502
00:22:00,852 --> 00:22:02,120
I said, "I have no idea.
503
00:22:02,187 --> 00:22:04,156
She's just crying."
504
00:22:04,222 --> 00:22:07,893
That gave the hypnotist confidence.
He thought I was completely hypnotized.
505
00:22:07,959 --> 00:22:09,995
He handed me something.
506
00:22:10,062 --> 00:22:11,997
I grabbed it and it smelled like an onion.
507
00:22:12,531 --> 00:22:15,434
"From now on,
whatever you put in your mouth
508
00:22:16,034 --> 00:22:18,136
will taste like a delicious apple.
509
00:22:18,203 --> 00:22:19,471
You'll be eating an apple."
510
00:22:19,538 --> 00:22:22,040
But it was obviously an onion.
511
00:22:24,376 --> 00:22:26,011
He shoved it in my mouth.
512
00:22:27,746 --> 00:22:30,882
But I could smell it.
513
00:22:30,949 --> 00:22:33,919
I took a bite.
514
00:22:33,985 --> 00:22:36,254
It made me cry.
515
00:22:36,321 --> 00:22:39,591
But I couldn't say it was an onion.
516
00:22:39,658 --> 00:22:41,326
"What is this?
517
00:22:41,393 --> 00:22:44,863
I've never tasted an apple this delicious.
518
00:22:44,930 --> 00:22:48,100
Grandma. Have some.
519
00:22:48,166 --> 00:22:49,868
Go on, grandma."
520
00:22:49,935 --> 00:22:51,503
"What does she say?"
521
00:22:51,570 --> 00:22:54,306
"'You lunatic.
Do you expect me to eat this?'
522
00:22:54,373 --> 00:22:57,109
That's what she says." I told him.
523
00:22:57,175 --> 00:22:59,444
He took the hint and said,
"You're waking up now."
524
00:22:59,511 --> 00:23:02,280
The producer at the back looked satisfied.
525
00:23:02,347 --> 00:23:03,749
He gave me a sign.
526
00:23:03,815 --> 00:23:05,150
Those who can't take a hint.
527
00:23:05,217 --> 00:23:07,552
They frown as soon as they bite the onion.
528
00:23:07,619 --> 00:23:09,521
They eat one more and frown again.
529
00:23:09,588 --> 00:23:12,557
After eating five onions,
they finally say, "It's delicious."
530
00:23:15,427 --> 00:23:16,695
They can't take a hint.
531
00:23:16,762 --> 00:23:21,133
It's important to take a hint
when shooting TV shows.
532
00:23:21,199 --> 00:23:23,602
Since I'm good at that,
533
00:23:23,668 --> 00:23:25,670
I thought my kids would be the same.
534
00:23:26,238 --> 00:23:28,940
{\an8}But it seems to have nothing
to do with genes.
535
00:23:29,007 --> 00:23:32,010
{\an8}I actually learned to do it on my own.
536
00:23:32,077 --> 00:23:35,747
My son, Tae-jun, is into gymnastics.
537
00:23:35,814 --> 00:23:37,048
He's my eldest.
538
00:23:37,115 --> 00:23:40,952
I think it's called the Tkatchev.
Let me show you some pictures.
539
00:23:41,019 --> 00:23:42,621
That's him doing gymnastics.
540
00:23:43,188 --> 00:23:44,756
He's in seventh grade.
541
00:23:44,823 --> 00:23:47,225
Look at that. He's up in the air.
542
00:23:47,292 --> 00:23:49,194
That's gymnastics. Look at that.
543
00:23:50,629 --> 00:23:52,197
He's on a horizontal bar.
544
00:23:52,798 --> 00:23:55,600
He's so brave.
He can pull off all kinds of things.
545
00:23:55,667 --> 00:23:57,736
One day, I heard him giggling in his room.
546
00:23:57,803 --> 00:23:59,971
It sounded like he was
asking someone questions.
547
00:24:00,038 --> 00:24:01,239
When I went to see,
548
00:24:01,306 --> 00:24:04,209
he was watching a live broadcast online.
549
00:24:04,276 --> 00:24:06,778
It looked as if there were
hundreds of viewers,
550
00:24:06,845 --> 00:24:08,346
but there were only three.
551
00:24:08,747 --> 00:24:11,283
My son was the most active participant.
552
00:24:11,349 --> 00:24:12,751
One day, he told me seriously,
553
00:24:12,818 --> 00:24:15,420
"Dad, I want to go to the US."
554
00:24:15,487 --> 00:24:18,056
I thought he was finally growing up.
555
00:24:18,123 --> 00:24:20,392
He must want to broaden his horizons,
556
00:24:20,459 --> 00:24:24,129
learn English, and experience new things.
557
00:24:24,196 --> 00:24:27,532
So I decided to support him at all costs.
558
00:24:27,599 --> 00:24:28,600
I asked him,
559
00:24:29,067 --> 00:24:31,036
"Tae-jun, why do you
want to go to the US?"
560
00:24:31,102 --> 00:24:34,306
He says, "There are
many horizontal bars in the US."
561
00:24:35,006 --> 00:24:36,608
Is that true?
562
00:24:36,675 --> 00:24:39,444
There must be people
from Netflix headquarters here.
563
00:24:39,511 --> 00:24:41,813
I really wanted to ask them this.
564
00:24:42,347 --> 00:24:44,316
"How many horizontal bars…"
565
00:24:47,619 --> 00:24:51,089
I have no idea who told him that.
566
00:24:51,156 --> 00:24:55,026
There's another live broadcast tonight,
so I'm going to ask him.
567
00:24:55,093 --> 00:24:56,495
He's Tae-jun's role model.
568
00:24:56,561 --> 00:24:58,663
I'd be his fourth viewer.
569
00:24:58,730 --> 00:25:01,166
He must know the answer.
570
00:25:01,233 --> 00:25:06,171
It really made me realize
that wits are not inherited.
571
00:25:06,238 --> 00:25:08,540
I have another son,
572
00:25:08,607 --> 00:25:09,975
and he's more like me.
573
00:25:10,041 --> 00:25:13,812
One day, I was having a drink.
574
00:25:13,879 --> 00:25:16,648
My wife and two sons were with me.
I told my sons seriously,
575
00:25:16,715 --> 00:25:19,584
"Mom and Dad are going to build
a small house in the countryside
576
00:25:19,651 --> 00:25:21,686
and live there until we die.
577
00:25:21,753 --> 00:25:23,788
If your mom dies first, I'll follow her.
578
00:25:23,855 --> 00:25:26,191
That's our plan.
You guys do whatever you want.
579
00:25:26,258 --> 00:25:27,826
Forget about horizontal bars."
580
00:25:27,893 --> 00:25:30,028
I told them seriously to wake them up.
581
00:25:30,095 --> 00:25:32,297
"But we'll leave some money behind
for you guys."
582
00:25:32,364 --> 00:25:35,534
My other son, Tae-seo, said,
"Dad, you can't leave us like that."
583
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,969
I asked him, "Why not?"
584
00:25:38,036 --> 00:25:40,639
He said,
"Tell us where the money is first."
585
00:25:40,705 --> 00:25:42,874
I found it so funny.
586
00:25:42,941 --> 00:25:44,409
He really said that.
587
00:25:44,476 --> 00:25:46,478
He's clever. He wants to know.
588
00:25:46,545 --> 00:25:49,948
Tae-jun, my eldest son, sure is
more mature.
589
00:25:50,015 --> 00:25:52,017
"Hey, do you care more about money
590
00:25:52,083 --> 00:25:54,586
than Mom and Dad? How could you?
591
00:25:54,653 --> 00:25:57,556
It's more important
that they are healthy and stay with us."
592
00:25:57,622 --> 00:26:01,459
Then he asked me. "Dad, will there be
horizontal bars in the countryside?"
593
00:26:02,427 --> 00:26:04,663
I made that up.
594
00:26:05,830 --> 00:26:06,798
Did you like that?
595
00:26:09,301 --> 00:26:12,170
I think it was due to how I was raised
596
00:26:12,237 --> 00:26:13,939
{\an8}that made me so quick-witted.
597
00:26:14,339 --> 00:26:15,907
{\an8}I changed schools so many times.
598
00:26:15,974 --> 00:26:18,443
{\an8}I attended two elementary school
graduation ceremonies.
599
00:26:18,510 --> 00:26:21,446
In all my childhood photos,
600
00:26:21,513 --> 00:26:24,482
I'm glancing at someone.
601
00:26:24,950 --> 00:26:26,318
Where am I looking?
602
00:26:26,384 --> 00:26:28,186
Look at that.
603
00:26:28,253 --> 00:26:30,255
Where is this kid looking?
604
00:26:30,322 --> 00:26:32,424
He's glancing at someone.
605
00:26:32,490 --> 00:26:33,792
One day
606
00:26:34,292 --> 00:26:37,395
back in elementary school,
607
00:26:37,462 --> 00:26:39,698
I was playing soccer with some friends.
608
00:26:39,764 --> 00:26:41,866
I was in third or fourth grade.
609
00:26:41,933 --> 00:26:44,903
That's my school.
And I was playing soccer.
610
00:26:44,970 --> 00:26:48,807
Suddenly, a cultivator
rolled into the schoolyard.
611
00:26:48,873 --> 00:26:50,442
On the cultivator,
612
00:26:50,508 --> 00:26:52,711
there was a small wardrobe.
613
00:26:52,777 --> 00:26:54,479
Yes, like that.
614
00:26:54,546 --> 00:26:56,514
I said, a "small" wardrobe.
615
00:26:56,581 --> 00:26:58,350
It's fine. Leave it.
616
00:26:59,784 --> 00:27:03,121
There was even an electric fan
loaded on the cultivator.
617
00:27:03,188 --> 00:27:05,190
It wasn't that big, either.
618
00:27:05,256 --> 00:27:06,992
It's okay. Leave it.
619
00:27:07,058 --> 00:27:08,627
It's an electric fan.
620
00:27:08,693 --> 00:27:10,962
Anyway, the cultivator rolled in
all of a sudden.
621
00:27:11,029 --> 00:27:12,831
I thought it was some crazy old man.
622
00:27:12,897 --> 00:27:15,433
There were kids playing,
and it could've been dangerous.
623
00:27:15,500 --> 00:27:17,068
Why drive a cultivator there?
624
00:27:17,135 --> 00:27:20,205
But when I looked closely,
it was my father.
625
00:27:20,271 --> 00:27:22,040
My father was driving the cultivator
626
00:27:22,507 --> 00:27:24,042
loaded with all that stuff.
627
00:27:24,109 --> 00:27:27,245
So… Wait, he wasn't wearing a cap.
628
00:27:27,312 --> 00:27:29,381
It's okay. Let's pretend he did.
629
00:27:29,447 --> 00:27:32,117
Anyway, it was him.
630
00:27:32,751 --> 00:27:34,519
Then he told me to hop on.
631
00:27:34,986 --> 00:27:37,222
I said to my friends, "See you tomorrow.
632
00:27:37,288 --> 00:27:40,025
Sorry I have to leave early," as usual.
633
00:27:40,425 --> 00:27:41,326
Then we set off.
634
00:27:41,393 --> 00:27:44,529
But my dad started driving
in the opposite direction of home.
635
00:27:44,596 --> 00:27:46,731
The cultivator rolled on.
636
00:27:46,798 --> 00:27:47,999
On and on.
637
00:27:48,066 --> 00:27:50,435
My dad turned around now and then.
638
00:27:50,502 --> 00:27:52,470
It wasn't to make sure I was still there,
639
00:27:52,537 --> 00:27:55,040
but to make sure
the electric fan hadn't fallen off.
640
00:27:55,106 --> 00:27:58,076
I didn't even ask him.
I was just sitting there at the back.
641
00:27:58,143 --> 00:28:01,713
We arrived in a completely
different neighborhood.
642
00:28:01,780 --> 00:28:05,116
He told me, "You and I are
living in this house starting today."
643
00:28:05,183 --> 00:28:07,886
There was a tiny school nearby.
644
00:28:07,952 --> 00:28:10,922
"You're going to that school
starting tomorrow."
645
00:28:10,989 --> 00:28:14,859
I didn't understand what was going on.
Then a lady showed up.
646
00:28:15,360 --> 00:28:17,796
I'd seen her a few times
in the neighborhood.
647
00:28:17,862 --> 00:28:20,832
My dad told me, "She's your mom now."
648
00:28:21,566 --> 00:28:24,002
But I already had a mom.
649
00:28:24,069 --> 00:28:26,237
I wet the bed
all the way through middle school.
650
00:28:26,304 --> 00:28:27,806
It was because
651
00:28:27,872 --> 00:28:29,941
my dad and my step…
652
00:28:30,008 --> 00:28:32,377
I used to call her "lady"
but she's "Mother" now.
653
00:28:32,444 --> 00:28:34,713
She's old now
and has been with my dad for decades.
654
00:28:34,779 --> 00:28:37,882
I couldn't go to the bathroom
because I was afraid I'd wake them up.
655
00:28:37,949 --> 00:28:40,385
For some reason,
my dad would sometimes wave his hand
656
00:28:40,452 --> 00:28:43,321
in front of my face
to check if I was asleep.
657
00:28:43,388 --> 00:28:45,156
I don't know why he did that, though.
658
00:28:45,223 --> 00:28:48,326
Anyway, he used to do this.
659
00:28:48,393 --> 00:28:49,994
I don't know why.
660
00:28:50,061 --> 00:28:53,131
I doubt he wanted to check
if I was still alive.
661
00:28:53,198 --> 00:28:55,867
That went on for months.
662
00:28:55,934 --> 00:28:58,670
He kept waving his hand
in front of me at night.
663
00:29:00,038 --> 00:29:01,973
I still don't know what that was about.
664
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,209
I was too young to understand.
665
00:29:04,275 --> 00:29:07,846
I visited my dad over the holidays
666
00:29:07,912 --> 00:29:10,048
and recreated this scene.
667
00:29:10,115 --> 00:29:11,750
Here's a photo.
668
00:29:11,816 --> 00:29:15,086
It was taken during the New Year holidays.
669
00:29:15,553 --> 00:29:18,289
I'm out of frame, right?
I'll tell you why.
670
00:29:18,356 --> 00:29:20,825
We couldn't find anyone
who could take a photo of us.
671
00:29:20,892 --> 00:29:23,228
My dad is 80,
and he's the youngest around there.
672
00:29:23,294 --> 00:29:25,897
This was taken by a 90-year-old man
who was passing by.
673
00:29:26,297 --> 00:29:29,734
He kept pressing the button too long
and ended up taking videos.
674
00:29:29,801 --> 00:29:33,505
And I don't know what he pressed
but he left eight selfies on my phone.
675
00:29:33,972 --> 00:29:36,107
Some photos only show
a part of the cultivator.
676
00:29:36,174 --> 00:29:37,575
This is the best shot we got.
677
00:29:37,642 --> 00:29:39,911
What I wanted to recreate was the moment
678
00:29:39,978 --> 00:29:43,615
where I asked my dad,
"Dad, where are we going?"
679
00:29:43,681 --> 00:29:46,151
And that's exactly how he looked
back then.
680
00:29:46,217 --> 00:29:49,120
His son is successful
and even gives him money sometimes,
681
00:29:49,187 --> 00:29:51,523
so he should smile more
but he still looks so stiff.
682
00:29:51,589 --> 00:29:54,526
But shortly after taking that photo,
683
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,763
my dad fell ill
684
00:29:58,830 --> 00:30:00,932
and had a major surgery.
685
00:30:00,999 --> 00:30:04,369
I'm not sure if I should say this here,
686
00:30:04,435 --> 00:30:07,105
but last week, he…
687
00:30:07,739 --> 00:30:09,507
he regained his health.
688
00:30:11,442 --> 00:30:12,977
I got a call.
689
00:30:14,012 --> 00:30:15,413
He's very healthy now.
690
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,750
My dad never walks on eggshells
around anyone.
691
00:30:18,817 --> 00:30:21,052
He always pushes forward no matter what.
692
00:30:21,119 --> 00:30:22,754
One day back in elementary school,
693
00:30:22,821 --> 00:30:24,956
my dad was gone
when I woke up in the morning.
694
00:30:25,023 --> 00:30:26,991
My brother and I panicked.
695
00:30:27,058 --> 00:30:28,560
We didn't have anything to eat,
696
00:30:28,626 --> 00:30:30,995
so my brother made
whatever dishes he could make.
697
00:30:31,062 --> 00:30:33,398
On the third day, my dad came back.
698
00:30:33,464 --> 00:30:35,934
"Dad, where have you been?"
"I went sightseeing."
699
00:30:36,668 --> 00:30:38,102
He went sightseeing.
700
00:30:38,169 --> 00:30:41,139
"Why didn't you leave any money?"
"You didn't find it?"
701
00:30:41,206 --> 00:30:43,341
In the corner of the small room,
702
00:30:43,408 --> 00:30:46,377
he picked up a 5,000-won bill
and gave it to us.
703
00:30:46,444 --> 00:30:48,580
He had crumpled it and chucked it there.
704
00:30:48,646 --> 00:30:50,715
Once, it was Christmas Eve.
705
00:30:50,782 --> 00:30:53,084
My dad said,
"Oh, it's Christmas tomorrow."
706
00:30:53,151 --> 00:30:55,086
He said nothing else.
707
00:30:55,153 --> 00:30:57,288
We thought, "Dad knows
it's Christmas tomorrow?"
708
00:30:57,355 --> 00:31:00,992
So at night before bed, we took a pair
of Dad's military socks.
709
00:31:01,059 --> 00:31:02,594
Those huge ones.
710
00:31:02,660 --> 00:31:04,963
We hung them before going to bed.
711
00:31:05,029 --> 00:31:08,166
The next morning, we found
that Dad had worn them and left.
712
00:31:10,435 --> 00:31:11,603
He wore them and left.
713
00:31:11,669 --> 00:31:15,006
He must have wanted to wear
thick socks on Christmas Day.
714
00:31:16,007 --> 00:31:19,978
That's the only memory of Christmas
my brother and I have.
715
00:31:20,044 --> 00:31:24,249
Once, a TV show needed
a picture of me on my first birthday.
716
00:31:24,315 --> 00:31:27,218
So I called Dad and asked
if he had any pictures from that day.
717
00:31:27,285 --> 00:31:28,786
"No." "Why not?"
718
00:31:28,853 --> 00:31:30,755
"We didn't have a party."
719
00:31:30,822 --> 00:31:34,125
In the end, I had to borrow
a picture from Byung-man.
720
00:31:34,192 --> 00:31:37,996
He was the one who looked most like me
that I could find.
721
00:31:38,062 --> 00:31:41,599
I asked him if he had any pictures,
and he did.
722
00:31:41,666 --> 00:31:44,402
As far as I know,
his family wasn't well-off, either.
723
00:31:44,469 --> 00:31:47,005
That's Kim Byung-man there.
724
00:31:47,071 --> 00:31:48,940
Who could tell? So I asked Dad,
725
00:31:49,340 --> 00:31:52,644
"Does this look like me?"
"It's a spitting image of you.
726
00:31:54,279 --> 00:31:57,081
No one will tell. The boy looks smart."
727
00:31:57,148 --> 00:31:59,117
I thought he'd apologize to me.
728
00:31:59,183 --> 00:32:01,986
But all he said was
that this looks just like me.
729
00:32:02,387 --> 00:32:04,322
Speaking of kids,
730
00:32:04,389 --> 00:32:06,724
{\an8}have you ever seen kids
who are vaguely cute?
731
00:32:06,791 --> 00:32:09,794
{\an8}Not all kids are pretty and cute.
732
00:32:09,861 --> 00:32:12,597
Sometimes, a friend
brings his or her baby.
733
00:32:12,664 --> 00:32:13,665
And I go,
734
00:32:13,731 --> 00:32:17,936
"Goodness. My dear.
735
00:32:18,002 --> 00:32:19,637
He's become so big.
736
00:32:19,704 --> 00:32:22,106
It feels like yesterday you were pregnant.
737
00:32:22,173 --> 00:32:26,711
Oh, my. And look how big he is now."
738
00:32:26,778 --> 00:32:30,181
I don't comment on how the baby looks,
just on how much he's grown.
739
00:32:30,248 --> 00:32:33,284
"My goodness. Unbelievable. Gosh."
740
00:32:33,351 --> 00:32:34,786
You know what I mean, right?
741
00:32:35,253 --> 00:32:37,021
I don't want to offend anyone.
742
00:32:37,088 --> 00:32:38,690
Sometimes, you say,
743
00:32:38,756 --> 00:32:41,759
"A boy…",
but the parent says, "It's a girl."
744
00:32:41,826 --> 00:32:43,895
Then I say, "A boy is all you need then.
745
00:32:43,962 --> 00:32:47,131
I'm sure he'll be as beautiful
as this girl.
746
00:32:47,198 --> 00:32:48,800
You'll be a great dad."
747
00:32:48,866 --> 00:32:51,269
You have to come up with something quick.
748
00:32:51,336 --> 00:32:54,339
And it's always better to assume
a baby is a girl.
749
00:32:54,405 --> 00:32:56,374
"My, look at this beautiful princess."
750
00:32:56,441 --> 00:32:59,477
Even if it's a boy,
mothers like to hear that.
751
00:32:59,544 --> 00:33:02,580
"Oh, it's a boy? But he's so pretty.
752
00:33:02,647 --> 00:33:05,550
He must take after you."
That's not going to offend anyone.
753
00:33:06,017 --> 00:33:09,087
How much cash do you give
as a wedding gift? Do you have any rules?
754
00:33:09,153 --> 00:33:11,089
If it's just an acquaintance, 50,000 won.
755
00:33:11,155 --> 00:33:12,857
If it's a close friend, 100,000 won.
756
00:33:12,924 --> 00:33:16,928
If it's a family member,
200,000 to 300,000 won.
757
00:33:16,995 --> 00:33:19,297
If you haven't talked in five, six years,
758
00:33:19,364 --> 00:33:21,165
an emoji will do.
759
00:33:22,166 --> 00:33:23,501
An emoji will do.
760
00:33:23,568 --> 00:33:25,670
If you reply and start a conversation,
761
00:33:25,737 --> 00:33:27,405
you have to go to the wedding.
762
00:33:27,472 --> 00:33:30,108
An emoji will signal
that the friendship is over.
763
00:33:30,174 --> 00:33:32,010
It's a bad idea to start a conversation.
764
00:33:32,076 --> 00:33:33,311
It's vague, right?
765
00:33:33,378 --> 00:33:35,847
An acquaintance invited me to his wedding,
766
00:33:35,913 --> 00:33:37,482
so I brought 100,000 won.
767
00:33:37,548 --> 00:33:40,051
A friend of mine
hadn't withdrawn cash yet,
768
00:33:40,118 --> 00:33:42,086
so I followed him to the ATM.
769
00:33:42,153 --> 00:33:44,889
But then I saw him withdraw 200,000 won.
770
00:33:44,956 --> 00:33:48,126
The thing is, I was closer to the groom
than he was.
771
00:33:48,192 --> 00:33:51,129
I was worried
the groom would be disappointed in me.
772
00:33:51,195 --> 00:33:54,365
Gosh. So I ended up withdrawing
an extra 200,000 won.
773
00:33:54,899 --> 00:33:56,768
I thought I should give more.
774
00:33:56,834 --> 00:33:58,369
So I handed in 300,000 won.
775
00:33:58,436 --> 00:34:00,805
When it was my friend's turn,
776
00:34:00,872 --> 00:34:04,375
he asked for four envelopes
and put 50,000 won in each.
777
00:34:04,442 --> 00:34:06,711
He was handing them in
on behalf of other friends.
778
00:34:06,778 --> 00:34:08,946
If only he'd handed them in first.
779
00:34:09,013 --> 00:34:11,049
Then I would've handed in
just 100,000 won.
780
00:34:11,115 --> 00:34:14,652
I handed in mine first,
and he handed in four envelopes.
781
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:16,020
No one compensated me.
782
00:34:16,888 --> 00:34:18,556
So annoying, right?
783
00:34:18,623 --> 00:34:19,891
Isn't it so vague?
784
00:34:19,957 --> 00:34:24,228
It's not just weddings.
Kids' first birthday parties are the same.
785
00:34:24,629 --> 00:34:26,798
I'll take Sung-kwang for example.
786
00:34:26,864 --> 00:34:30,368
Let's say my beloved fellow comedian's
baby is turning one.
787
00:34:30,435 --> 00:34:31,736
Since we're close,
788
00:34:31,803 --> 00:34:35,206
I decide to give him a million won.
789
00:34:35,273 --> 00:34:37,141
I'm his senior, so of course.
790
00:34:38,309 --> 00:34:41,479
I arrive at the party with a million won.
791
00:34:41,546 --> 00:34:43,281
"Sung-kwang, congratulations."
792
00:34:43,347 --> 00:34:45,183
But I see that his wife is pregnant.
793
00:34:45,249 --> 00:34:47,985
"Oh, no. If I give him a million won now,
794
00:34:48,052 --> 00:34:51,222
I'll have to give him another million
next time. Hold on."
795
00:34:52,090 --> 00:34:55,660
I go into the bathroom
and take 500,000 won out.
796
00:34:55,726 --> 00:34:58,629
I give Sung-kwang 500,000 won.
797
00:34:58,696 --> 00:35:01,699
Because I'd have to do the same thing
in a year.
798
00:35:01,766 --> 00:35:03,000
So, this is what I do these days.
799
00:35:03,067 --> 00:35:05,703
When I hear about a birthday party,
I call and ask,
800
00:35:05,770 --> 00:35:07,405
"Should I MC the party for you?"
801
00:35:08,206 --> 00:35:11,075
If I'm the host…
You know what I mean, right?
802
00:35:11,142 --> 00:35:12,210
I get paid.
803
00:35:12,276 --> 00:35:16,180
So I try to be the host
instead of giving a gift.
804
00:35:16,247 --> 00:35:19,217
{\an8}I used to be a recreation instructor.
805
00:35:19,283 --> 00:35:21,786
{\an8}I've led many events in different regions.
806
00:35:21,853 --> 00:35:24,522
{\an8}Different regions have different dialects.
807
00:35:24,589 --> 00:35:27,391
The Chungcheong dialect
was the most interesting.
808
00:35:27,458 --> 00:35:30,027
"Forget it. Stop it. Come on."
809
00:35:30,094 --> 00:35:31,929
Everything they say ends in "yu."
810
00:35:31,996 --> 00:35:33,965
"Next up is IU." Like this.
811
00:35:34,031 --> 00:35:35,633
But not everything ends with "yu".
812
00:35:35,700 --> 00:35:38,436
The dialect in Cheonan and Asan
is really interesting.
813
00:35:38,503 --> 00:35:41,305
My friend, Sang-won, lives there.
814
00:35:41,706 --> 00:35:44,342
When I'm leaving,
he says, "Are you leaving already?
815
00:35:44,408 --> 00:35:47,945
Stay and eat with us, huh?"
816
00:35:48,012 --> 00:35:51,482
"Stay and eat with us, huh?"
817
00:35:51,549 --> 00:35:55,486
"What are you doing over the holidays?
Why do you never call, huh?"
818
00:35:57,088 --> 00:35:59,423
Like the singer, Lee Seung-chul,
holds a note,
819
00:35:59,490 --> 00:36:01,492
he speaks like that.
820
00:36:01,559 --> 00:36:02,827
"What are you up to?
821
00:36:02,894 --> 00:36:06,230
Come over for coffee, huh?"
822
00:36:06,297 --> 00:36:08,966
Why doesn't he just say
the whole sentence slowly?
823
00:36:09,033 --> 00:36:10,902
He says the first part really fast
824
00:36:10,968 --> 00:36:12,803
and drags out the latter part.
825
00:36:12,870 --> 00:36:15,473
"Come see me when you have time, huh?"
826
00:36:17,375 --> 00:36:19,210
That's the Chungcheong dialect.
827
00:36:19,277 --> 00:36:21,913
I wonder if foreigners will be able
to understand this.
828
00:36:21,979 --> 00:36:24,549
Even in our daily lives,
829
00:36:24,615 --> 00:36:27,952
we often walk on eggshells around people.
830
00:36:28,019 --> 00:36:31,322
Some of you may have even felt bad
about coming here today.
831
00:36:31,389 --> 00:36:35,927
So now, I'd like to give you some advice
on how to behave.
832
00:36:35,993 --> 00:36:37,195
I'm your coach today.
833
00:36:37,261 --> 00:36:40,531
{\an8}Do any of you want me
834
00:36:40,598 --> 00:36:43,401
{\an8}to give you some advice?
835
00:36:43,467 --> 00:36:46,604
Raise your hand,
and I'll answer your questions.
836
00:36:46,671 --> 00:36:48,072
The woman at the back. Go on.
837
00:36:48,139 --> 00:36:51,175
-Should I stand up?
-Just read the room.
838
00:36:53,044 --> 00:36:55,713
All right. What's troubling you?
839
00:36:55,780 --> 00:36:58,182
{\an8}I'm the eldest child.
840
00:36:58,249 --> 00:36:59,984
{\an8}In both families.
841
00:37:00,051 --> 00:37:02,253
-You mean both your mom and dad's sides?
-Yes.
842
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:03,588
Gosh, okay.
843
00:37:03,654 --> 00:37:06,891
I don't know if that's why,
but I feel uncomfortable at home.
844
00:37:06,958 --> 00:37:08,926
I'm always walking on eggshells at home.
845
00:37:08,993 --> 00:37:13,364
-And?
-And I'm always the mediator.
846
00:37:13,431 --> 00:37:16,067
-You feel uncomfortable at home?
-Yes, at home.
847
00:37:16,133 --> 00:37:18,703
If I'm away from home for a few days,
848
00:37:18,769 --> 00:37:22,773
my family always fights
and things become awkward.
849
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,243
-You live with your parents?
-Yes.
850
00:37:25,309 --> 00:37:27,511
-It's not like my family, is it?
-No.
851
00:37:28,379 --> 00:37:30,781
-It's not like that.
-Then what?
852
00:37:30,848 --> 00:37:32,483
I can't relax at home.
853
00:37:32,550 --> 00:37:35,853
I walk on eggshells all the time.
854
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:38,022
Even when my parents are eating together,
855
00:37:38,089 --> 00:37:39,790
if they start raising their voices,
856
00:37:39,857 --> 00:37:42,526
I have to come out and sit with them
but my sister--
857
00:37:42,593 --> 00:37:45,162
I'm sorry, but I'm not sure
how I can help you with that.
858
00:37:47,231 --> 00:37:49,867
If you decide to move out,
I could help you find a place.
859
00:37:49,934 --> 00:37:52,670
-Do you have any siblings?
-I have a little sister.
860
00:37:52,737 --> 00:37:54,338
-How old is she?
-She's 20.
861
00:37:54,405 --> 00:37:56,374
-She doesn't walk on eggshells?
-No.
862
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:57,842
Then live like her.
863
00:37:58,943 --> 00:38:00,778
It's simple.
864
00:38:00,845 --> 00:38:03,214
Why should you shoulder all the burden?
865
00:38:03,281 --> 00:38:07,084
Since you're the eldest child
on both sides of the family,
866
00:38:07,551 --> 00:38:10,855
it's understandable
that your parents rely on you a lot.
867
00:38:10,921 --> 00:38:13,324
-Yes.
-And you can't just ignore that.
868
00:38:13,391 --> 00:38:15,192
It's okay if it's your family.
869
00:38:15,259 --> 00:38:17,828
It's annoying to walk on eggshells
at work or something,
870
00:38:17,895 --> 00:38:20,298
but if it's your family, it's no big deal.
871
00:38:20,364 --> 00:38:23,334
That's just a way of communicating,
isn't it?
872
00:38:23,401 --> 00:38:25,069
If your parents never fought,
873
00:38:25,136 --> 00:38:27,204
you wouldn't even talk to them at all.
874
00:38:27,271 --> 00:38:29,373
You'd be busy on your phone in your room.
875
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:32,877
They're fighting on purpose
just to talk to you.
876
00:38:32,943 --> 00:38:35,212
They're bringing the family together.
877
00:38:35,279 --> 00:38:36,981
These days, conversations are rare.
878
00:38:37,048 --> 00:38:38,582
We all only talk about ourselves.
879
00:38:38,649 --> 00:38:41,419
Your parents seem to be using
a very advanced technique.
880
00:38:41,485 --> 00:38:44,288
They're not divorced or anything.
They still live together.
881
00:38:44,355 --> 00:38:45,790
-Do you need duct tape?
-No.
882
00:38:45,856 --> 00:38:48,192
No, right? Then it's fine.
883
00:38:48,259 --> 00:38:49,927
-I'm rooting for you.
-Thank you.
884
00:38:49,994 --> 00:38:53,564
{\an8}Since you can talk about it comfortably,
it's not a serious problem.
885
00:38:53,631 --> 00:38:54,765
Anyone else?
886
00:38:54,832 --> 00:38:57,034
The man at the front.
887
00:38:57,101 --> 00:38:59,537
I graduated from college last year
888
00:38:59,603 --> 00:39:02,206
{\an8}and am looking for a job at the moment.
889
00:39:02,273 --> 00:39:04,775
Since I've been unemployed for a year now,
890
00:39:04,842 --> 00:39:08,879
I have to walk on eggshells
when I'm at home.
891
00:39:08,946 --> 00:39:11,415
During the holidays, my aunts ask me
892
00:39:11,482 --> 00:39:13,851
-when I'll find a job.
-Right.
893
00:39:13,918 --> 00:39:15,853
They ask those questions, right?
894
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,089
Thankfully, I didn't visit my relatives
895
00:39:18,155 --> 00:39:20,057
because of the pandemic this year.
896
00:39:20,124 --> 00:39:24,595
I was relieved that I didn't have to see
my grandma and aunts.
897
00:39:24,662 --> 00:39:26,364
So you want the pandemic to continue?
898
00:39:26,430 --> 00:39:27,798
No, it's not like that.
899
00:39:28,499 --> 00:39:32,069
It should end soon
so I can find a job more easily.
900
00:39:32,136 --> 00:39:33,337
I really hope so.
901
00:39:33,404 --> 00:39:35,406
But I feel uncomfortable at home.
902
00:39:35,473 --> 00:39:39,076
Could you give me some advice on this?
903
00:39:39,810 --> 00:39:41,245
How old are you?
904
00:39:41,312 --> 00:39:42,380
I'm 27.
905
00:39:42,446 --> 00:39:44,648
You're young.
You've done military service, too.
906
00:39:44,715 --> 00:39:46,550
Your life is yours.
907
00:39:46,617 --> 00:39:49,320
You said you're 27.
908
00:39:49,387 --> 00:39:52,456
Who knows if you'll make it
when you're 28, 29, or 30?
909
00:39:52,523 --> 00:39:54,825
When that happens,
be good to your parents,
910
00:39:54,892 --> 00:39:56,227
and they'll be happy.
911
00:39:56,293 --> 00:39:58,929
My father used to hang up right away
when I called him.
912
00:39:59,630 --> 00:40:02,433
When I was a nobody,
he'd hang up immediately.
913
00:40:02,500 --> 00:40:04,902
So I never visited him. It's true.
914
00:40:04,969 --> 00:40:07,838
"Your friend so-and-so
became a car mechanic
915
00:40:07,905 --> 00:40:09,440
and is a manager now.
916
00:40:09,507 --> 00:40:11,108
What are you doing with your life?"
917
00:40:11,509 --> 00:40:12,676
But he's like this now.
918
00:40:16,947 --> 00:40:21,185
"Look at this party Su-geun threw for me."
It's like that.
919
00:40:21,252 --> 00:40:23,454
Just wait for that day to come.
You're family.
920
00:40:23,521 --> 00:40:25,723
Your family is just concerned about you.
921
00:40:25,790 --> 00:40:27,792
They're not trying to find fault with you.
922
00:40:27,858 --> 00:40:30,694
No one can wait for you longer
than your family can.
923
00:40:31,495 --> 00:40:34,899
{\an8}That's very important. Your family.
924
00:40:34,965 --> 00:40:38,602
{\an8}Sung-kwang, include things like this,
or people won't like it.
925
00:40:40,438 --> 00:40:41,972
Anyone else? Ask away.
926
00:40:42,039 --> 00:40:44,575
Go ahead. The woman over there.
927
00:40:44,642 --> 00:40:47,144
I got a job last November.
928
00:40:47,211 --> 00:40:48,412
Congratulations.
929
00:40:48,479 --> 00:40:50,748
I found a job straight out of high school.
930
00:40:50,815 --> 00:40:52,683
-Right away?
-Yes.
931
00:40:52,750 --> 00:40:54,118
Look at her.
932
00:40:54,752 --> 00:40:57,888
She can do it, you can do it.
933
00:40:57,955 --> 00:40:59,957
-And?
-I'm a lot younger
934
00:41:00,024 --> 00:41:02,026
{\an8}-than my bosses and colleagues…
-Go on.
935
00:41:02,092 --> 00:41:03,594
{\an8}…so I feel uncomfortable.
936
00:41:03,661 --> 00:41:05,262
How much older are they?
937
00:41:05,329 --> 00:41:07,765
About nine years older and more.
938
00:41:07,832 --> 00:41:10,968
Don't you just call them
using their titles?
939
00:41:11,035 --> 00:41:14,572
But apart from Manager and Deputy Manager,
940
00:41:14,638 --> 00:41:17,408
my workplace doesn't have
a clear hierarchy.
941
00:41:17,475 --> 00:41:19,710
There aren't many different levels.
942
00:41:19,777 --> 00:41:22,680
And there are more men than women.
943
00:41:22,746 --> 00:41:26,116
I usually call them by their first names
or just say, "Excuse me."
944
00:41:26,183 --> 00:41:28,252
How about using sir and ma'am?
945
00:41:28,319 --> 00:41:30,821
I think that sounds best.
946
00:41:30,888 --> 00:41:34,992
If someone much younger at work
calls you by your first name, like,
947
00:41:35,059 --> 00:41:37,294
"Su-geun, can you do this?",
948
00:41:37,361 --> 00:41:41,799
I think it creates more distance.
Don't you think?
949
00:41:41,866 --> 00:41:43,501
They use honorifics with me.
950
00:41:43,567 --> 00:41:45,236
-Who?
-My colleagues.
951
00:41:45,302 --> 00:41:49,273
Get up on your desk and shout,
"Hey, drop the honorifics immediately."
952
00:41:49,340 --> 00:41:51,242
They use honorifics to show respect.
953
00:41:51,308 --> 00:41:52,576
-I see.
-It's only natural.
954
00:41:52,643 --> 00:41:54,645
Just because you're younger…
955
00:41:54,712 --> 00:41:56,480
-What's your name?
-It's Yeon-u.
956
00:41:56,547 --> 00:41:58,782
"Yeon-u. Do this. Come here."
957
00:41:58,849 --> 00:42:02,419
That's not acceptable
when you're interacting with other people.
958
00:42:02,486 --> 00:42:03,587
You deserve respect.
959
00:42:03,988 --> 00:42:05,890
Of course they should show respect.
960
00:42:05,956 --> 00:42:08,459
{\an8}Since they respect
even the youngest employee,
961
00:42:08,526 --> 00:42:10,928
{\an8}I'm sure it's a very good workplace.
962
00:42:14,064 --> 00:42:18,068
It's impossible to not be concerned
about what others are thinking.
963
00:42:18,135 --> 00:42:21,005
But whose thoughts should we be
concerned about the most?
964
00:42:21,071 --> 00:42:22,273
It's our own.
965
00:42:22,339 --> 00:42:25,509
People are concerned more about
their own thoughts than that of others.
966
00:42:25,576 --> 00:42:28,379
{\an8}But only you can decide
what you want to be concerned about.
967
00:42:28,445 --> 00:42:31,949
One last piece of advice
I want to give you is this.
968
00:42:32,016 --> 00:42:34,084
Live as yourself.
969
00:42:34,151 --> 00:42:35,386
Be who you are.
970
00:42:35,452 --> 00:42:37,187
{\an8}Don't care about what others think.
971
00:42:37,254 --> 00:42:39,623
{\an8}Just do what you want.
972
00:42:39,690 --> 00:42:41,191
Regardless of your gender and age,
973
00:42:41,258 --> 00:42:43,527
and what point you're at in your life,
974
00:42:43,594 --> 00:42:47,197
live the life you want
without worrying about what others think.
975
00:42:47,264 --> 00:42:51,101
Wherever you are in life.
Then where are we now?
976
00:42:51,168 --> 00:42:53,103
We're at the end of our show.
977
00:42:54,538 --> 00:42:57,007
But don't be sad.
978
00:42:57,074 --> 00:42:59,343
If Netflix can take a hint,
979
00:42:59,410 --> 00:43:02,246
they'll do one more of these shows.
980
00:43:02,313 --> 00:43:05,015
When the pandemic is over
and we can have a bigger audience,
981
00:43:05,082 --> 00:43:08,686
I'm sure they'll give me
an even greater opportunity.
982
00:43:08,752 --> 00:43:11,755
Lastly… Are we ready?
983
00:43:11,822 --> 00:43:14,258
We're going to release doves.
984
00:43:14,325 --> 00:43:17,494
Please look up.
Be careful when they're released.
985
00:43:17,561 --> 00:43:20,264
Here come the doves, the symbol of peace.
986
00:43:44,588 --> 00:43:46,991
Thank you. Thank you very much.
987
00:45:39,269 --> 00:45:44,274
Subtitle translation by: Min-jin Kim